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These are good!

i attempted a similar change before starting uni, tho i differ in that i had less money and more height. i went from like 2 friends in high school to having a large group of friends in a top 10 worldwide uni

the thing i found difficult in making friends is being disciplined in compassion/empathy. Selfishness is a function of solitude. Most people transitioning from loneliness to sociability are not good at keeping others' feelings in mind. Getting into the habit of being helpful, kind, etc. is difficult. Concentrate on it, while at the same time not becoming a doormat. Something i found helpful was paying attention to how the girls i liked socialised: not just how they talk, but also the way they backchannel while being spoken to, and how they start conversations

being likeable as a person is synonymous with being honest. the human condition is naturally interesting, almost regardless of the person. If you can honestly put across what you think, no matter what it is, you will reflexively come across as likeable, so long as you keep people's feelings in mind. This took me a while to think about but i promise it makes sense. It's cos of some combination of close interpersonal connections being rare, and honesty showing confidence, or at least showing that you're secure in your insecurities i.e. that you aren't fronting. I'm realising now that im not wording this well but plz make sure you think about it.

you can make plenty friends, even attractive girls, while being unattractive - it's just harder and requires more focus on personality development, and a lot of self-awareness. attractiveness only sets a ceiling on how good of a girlfriend you can get.

btw look at this for acne: https://pastebin.com/PArDyf2G

and bear in mind if you are indian then by having moustache you deny yourself from ever getting with non-brown girls. idk if u mind that