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13612126 No.13612126 [Reply] [Original]

>let's go out for a drink
>it's 20 drinks
>you get ostracized if you leave after one
Is this a thing in every country? WTF is wrong with having A DRINK? Why does it always have to turn into something expensive, crazy, and next-day-ruining?

And also, why are parking lots EVER a thing at bars?

>> No.13612134

>>13612126
You have to be 18 to post here

>> No.13612137

>>13612126
In my experience, if it's office groups/coworkers then nobody really cares if you take it easy. I'll admit that if it's my friend group, "go out for a drink" tends to mean "go out for many drinks" but I wouldn't give a shit if one of the guys has something else they want to do.

>> No.13612140

>>13612134
People who binge drank before college are pathetic

>> No.13612141

>leaving after one
i agree with everything in this post but if you are invited out dont just leave after your first tall neck stay and hang out with the people who invited you out to begin with you dont have to buy the 6$ bar shots you can just enjoy a mug of whatever beer you choose
yes this is a thing in every country

>> No.13612146

>>13612134
t.sniffs glue and thinks it’s completely normal

>> No.13612254

>>13612126
It’s not so much the amount of drinks you have, it’s the amount of time you’re spending with them.

>> No.13612280

>>13612126
being able to drink socially is just another step on the pyramid of conquering humanity, you're never gonna make it.

>> No.13612300

just get a coke in a highball and tell people it's a cocktail if you don't want to get drunk

>> No.13612320

>>13612126
just order juice or milk, itll impress the ladies if you are different!

>> No.13612577

if you actually go out and drink instead of doing it at home or a friend's place, you are hanging out with complete retards

>> No.13612582

>>13612280
What is this hypothetical "it" that I'm never going to make?

>> No.13612608

>>13612126
>literally being shunned for leaving after a single drink
This has never happened ever. If you’re too much of a social pussy or pushover that you can’t leave after a drink even if you’re asked to stay longer you shouldn’t be going out drinking with others anyway. People get more sociable when they drink and also lower their inhibitions So you’d expect that sometimes they might want you to stay longer because they’ve chose to, but out of my years of drinking I have never seen someone literally cut off for wanting to leave.

>parking lot at bars ever?
Grow the fuck up and get real. Uber wasn’t a thing for long and in non urban areas where there is no public transportation people need options. DDs exist and being at a bar doesn’t mean you are forced to drink alcohol. One drink isn’t enough to impact most people’s ability to drive properly and no I’m not going to believe you if you try to tell me otherwise. I’ll just assume you’re 12 and took your first DARE class or a retard.

TLDR: OP is a whiny faggot who should grow up or stop going out since he obviously has no self control or social skills

>> No.13612617

>>13612126
Either you’re underaged, or just realizing that 75% of “social drinkers” are undercover (and deep in denial) alcoholics.

>> No.13612618

>>13612582
>trying to act deep over a common expression that you understood but want to act deep
He’s right and you’re a boring person with a stick up your ass despite you trying to act like you’re “””enlightened”””. Grow the fuck up, kid. I doubt you’re even allowed to drink.

>> No.13612692

>>13612126
That's why you buy a drink or two and nurse them instead of leaving as soon as your glass is empty/ I'm a diagnosed 'sperg and even I knew that without being told. If you really can't stay say you've got an early morning or something.

>> No.13612693

>>13612618
You thought that sounded deep, did you? Thanks, I guess. I would have preferred an actual answer, though.

>> No.13613451

>>13612608
t. totally not crippling alcoholic who can quit anytime he wants, he just chooses not to
>>13612618
yikes

>> No.13613630

>>13612126
Australia killed its night-life scene a decade ago taxing anything fun into oblivion and banning public drugs/drinking outside of pclubs
Now it's all fat rich boomers in rsls and casinos I fucking hate going out in the country not that it matters since I have no friends

>> No.13613729

>>13612126
that has never happend

>> No.13614115

>>13612140
Ask me how I know you were bullied.

>> No.13614355

>>13614115
>everyone who wasn't a dirtbag in high school got bullied
What was life like growing up in an agricultural community?

>> No.13614380

>>13612126
>let's do something
>"something" is 20 drinks
Fixed that for ya. Drinking is degenerate. Don't buy into the alcohol bullshit. It's a total waste of money and time. At least degenerate porn is free.

>> No.13614470

Stop being a pussy. Do what you want to do. You spend all day with these fuckers. Unless you want to fuck one of them, just go home.

>> No.13614539

>>13612126
>Get invited to a social gathering at a bar
>Have an alchoholic beverage, then a water afterwords over several hours
>Leave well enough to drive and without being a drunken arse

It's called self control

>> No.13614567

>>13613451
>yikes

Cringe

>> No.13614623

>>13614380
>At least degenerate porn is free.
Yeah but they're tracking you. The more I click the more fucked up the recommendations get. I have to clear my cookies otherwise the algorithm is pushing me to click on underaged tranny scat gang rape snuff porn once I'm about 10 videos deep. All I wanted was some tasteful videos of dead eyed women with tears streaming down their face as they try to push through an unpleasant sequence of increasingly uncomfortable humiliations in order to get paid

>> No.13614626

>>13614567
hi underage retard from the london thread.

>> No.13614651

>>13612300
>that’ll be 7.50 plus tip bro

>> No.13614676

>>13612126
>stop by tavern after work to sign up for weekly drawing, have 1-2 beers and out
>25¢ wings on Monday, dine in only. Order 40 and a draft, eat a few and take rest home to eat during the game
>drop vehicle off for service, walk across street to bar to have a drink while I'm waiting
>get to airport early cuz security, forty five minutes before departure, hit the bar up for a drink
I honestly can't remember the last time I've had more than three drinks at a bar.
To be fair I haven't been drunk in a long time, but I drink pretty regularly.

>> No.13615189

>>13612320
no it wont you fucking looser lmao

>> No.13615207

>>13612126
Don't let alcoholics control your life.

>> No.13615945

>>13612577
This, for sure.
> paying eight times the price for a fucking drink

>> No.13615978

>>13615189
Wanna bet?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DQBc2dmUiHs

>> No.13616005

>>13612126
One drink takes like 15-20 minutes to consume and does nothing to you. If you're going to leave after one, why the fuck even come? Why not just stand and talk in the work parking lot for an extra 15 minutes, or wherever people brought up the idea?

>And also, why are parking lots EVER a thing at bars?
This one I'll kinda agree on. If you begin drinking at a place with a parking lot, the bar should be culpable for proving that you have a ride home before serving you more than three drinks. And I drive over the "legal limit" all the time. Utah recently made it so one strong beer is DUI territory.

>> No.13616020

>>13612577
You must be under 21. No one wants to sit in someone's house, or invite everyone over. Plus you have to go pick up enough of everyone's specific drink, someone has to deal with cleaning, and this is all assuming everyone lives near you and it's not just a couple of drinks to unwind after a meeting or event you're all at.

>> No.13616156

>>13616005
thanks for my next business idea. opening bars in areas that are super inaccessible and partnering with uber/lyft/localride to finance cheap rides home for drinkers.

>> No.13616322

>>13614651
it would be twice as much for an actual cocktail
if you don't want to pay for a drink but are complaining about not fitting in, then don't go to a bar

>> No.13616325

>>13612126
It's not a thing in any country, just among certain shitty friends groups

My friends group: Go out, have a couple of beers, sometimes stay out, sometimes go home.

No ostracized people.

>> No.13616353

>>13616156
I'm that anon, and sage doesn't go in every field. But if you're serious, it's not a great idea. Uber and Lyft underpay their drivers, and sending them out to the middle of nowhere is going to result in a lot of rides no one wants to take. It's also going to make it expensive to go drink out of the way, and that's assuming your prices are reasonable.

>> No.13616358

>>13612126
>it's 20 drinks
I think the most drinks I've had at a bar was like 7, and that was a drinking session that started at 5PM and lasted until almost midnight.
Fuck, I miss grad school.
I was barely squeaking by but I made a ton of friends and had some amazing times.
If I ever make enough money I think I might go back into academia.

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13616362

>>13612126
mfw people actually drink alcohol instead of doing fun drugs

>> No.13616370

>>13616362
>she's not a happy drunk
lmao everyone point and laugh

>> No.13616628

>>13614355
>everyone who drank in high school is a dirt bag
maybe you weren't bullied but I would have bullied you

>> No.13616644

>>13612582
>>13612693
If you make it, you've achieved your dreams, pretty simple man use your noggin

>> No.13616657

>>13616628
Yeah, the kids who regularly drank in high school came from broken homes in a broken society and grew up to be broken people as a result. You can get butthurt if you want but it doesn't change the truth. The cool thing about morality is it doesn't need your permission to accurately measure your actions.

>> No.13616990

> Friend asks if I wanna grab a bite to est.
> Go out for bite to eat with a friend
> Take my one bite and prepare to leave
> friend says we just got here and scolds me for wasting most of my meal.
iS tHiS a ThINg In EvERy CoUnTrY !!1!

>> No.13617001

>>13612126
I literally never drink and just hang out with my drunk friends and make sure nobody gets molested (in all senses of the term). I drive some home, but as we are on campus it's not that far.

>> No.13617304

>>13616657
Based and 100% correct.
Every kid I knew in high school who drank grew up to be a loser. It was honestly uncanny the divide between those who did and those who didn't and how they turned out.

>> No.13617311

>>13612126
After one? Yeah, you're going to be called a bitch. You're better off not drinking at that point, people will just assume you don't enjoy their company. Seriously, if you don't want to drink don't hangout with people drinking. Or, show up when they're already drunk, if you need to make an appearance

>> No.13617321

>>13612141
>>13612254
This, just sip on you're drink. Or alternatively just clarify if they mean a few drinks, or they plan on getting wasted, and let them know you don't feel like getting wasted.

>> No.13617324

>>13617321
You can't just sip slowly. You have to drink at the same rate as they do so that you're ready to spot when it's your turn to buy the round.

>> No.13617486

>>13617324

>your turn to buy the round
How about everybody buys their own fucking drinks?

>> No.13617563

>>13612126
>complaining about always having to have lots of drinks when out at a bar/pub
you're either in your early 20's still or you're hanging out with the wrong people.
real friends dont give a shit if you have only 1 beer or if you chug down 15 on a monday morning.
once you hit your 30's you wont have this problem anyway. in the 1 or 2 hours you have time to meet up with your 2-3 friends once every two months you'll only have time for 2 or 3 beers before you have to leave anyway.

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13617575

you're not asserting yourself enough, try dealing with your problems in real life instead of coming to an imageboard for validation

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13617626

>>13617563
>reaching 30
>never really made friends
>never really made a life
>tons of free time after became financially independent but nobody my age does anything interesting
I suddenly understand why there were those 40 year olds at raves now.

>> No.13617721

>>13617304
Other way around if you aren't in america

>> No.13617823

>tfw never tasted beer
>only drink a glass of wine every three months and I love it
feels good being european

>> No.13617829

people who unwind with drugs or alcohol are absolute subhumans. that includes going out to sit in a bar and chat about your lame ass week with friends over beers.

booze is only for parties.

>> No.13617923

>>13616358
>one drink an hour
Those better have been cocktails

>> No.13618342

>>13612126
>Not enjoying a night out on the lash.

>> No.13618377

>>13616657
>>13617304
>this abount of cope
KEK

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13618392

Toni binge drinks. Mindless amounts of booze. Pernicious parties. She must quit or die

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13618395

Mark - his poison is vodka, 2 bottles a day

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13618399

Nigel has been dry for 10 years, but alcohol has left him damaged

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13618403

Vanda drinks to wash out the monsters that mess her mind

>> No.13618413

If you still go out and rack up $136 worth of bar tabs every Friday and Saturday night and spend every Sunday throwing up and hating yourself it's either a sign of ridiculous immaturity or a severe underlying mental illness.
>Inb4 10 replies about how I cant handle my alcohol
Way to prove my point. One drink is for men who have shit to do. Chugging vodka for online and irl upvotes is for teens