/ck/ - Food & Cooking

>>19293568
You have to be whole yourself first man. I know it seems a woman will fix your problems, but you'll only find a good woman if you're stable.

It's harder for the younger generation (im 34) since everything is vapid online dating, but try to get introduced to a friend of a friend.

>>19005385
Most people can't let things go. My dad was never really there when I was a kid, and let my mother get away with absolutely heinous amounts of abuse, screaming at the top of her lungs, etc. I have never, ever seen a single human being detonate like a nuclear bomb at the slightest amount of provocation, real or imagined, like my mom in my childhood. My dad could just drink, pretend it wasn't a problem, and go fuck other women and go on business trips/never be home. However, my mom, despite having sun-temperature lava fried completely immature anger bursts, still made sure I was fed and had a home. I met men in the military whose dad was completely MIA and their moms were dead crackheads and the only reason they were born was because she was arrested.

One day, I just decided to let the childhood shit go. I am never going to get an opportunity to get the last word as a kid on my mom as she mocks and ridicules me and slaps the back of my head. I'll never get the opportunity to know what having a real dad who is a part of my life is. It isn't that it doesn't matter, it does, it's that I can't change it. I started off with baby steps after the army with my mother, telling her I won't tolerate being belittled, insulted, ridiculed, or even her getting overly upset, and that's absolutely all it took, someone to just call her on it. My dad is a law unto himself and honestly I don't think even God himself could sway him to follow any law, rule, emotion or morality if it wasn't my dad's idea to begin with. He wouldn't even quit drinking until he had a seizure, probably not his first, at his parent's house with his girlfriend (divorced from my mom) in the bed. My relationship with my mom is great now, she helps my wife at the house absolutely unprompted with no guilt tripping. My dad is probably lost, but I still won't stop trying to do my duty.

tl;dr let it go. None of this is healthy, or helps whatever time you have on earth to be better. It's a poison.

>>18967191
quote from man who eats potatoes

>>18785535
>12.7% of childhood asthma cases come from a gas stove
This is a perfect example of your average "science" worshipper. Skips right past "why?" to "be terrified in rapturous fear of". I'm nearly positive childhood asthma is far more likely to be cause by a lack of exercise, obesity, processed foods, plastic in our blood, water and food, xenoestrogens and a hundred different things than some kid developing asthma because of a stove. A gas stove or a wood fire has been a part of my childhood food, and so has playing outside, being expected to test myself, and an extreme distrust in people who tell you exactly why everything you do is bad, because number.

I've had electric coil, induction and gas, and honestly the best one not even close is gas. Not as good as a wood fire, but If we're talking "what if everyone did it?" we'd be back in victorian london with smog.

>>18626770
this isn't texmex. The closest this is to texmex is picadillo, which is eaten by the brownest pablo and the whitest hunter

t. tex

>>18344285
you know the amount of lard you would feasibly be willing to use, ever, before feeling like an absolute slob? double it. This is for restaurant quality.

I just make charro or burracho beans myself.

>>17653473
>>17653492
you know, I was going to write out a rebuttal to each of this, but it'd just be arguing based on the paradigm you chose. I just wonder what causes a person to go online and defend the american pharma empire so hard online? I personally think it's because when someone gets a vaccine, said vaccine cannot be undone and, in the case of mrna, is now a part of your being. It's the ultimate cope challenge, as someone must either A. fully and wholeheartedly support it, forever, as it is part of them B. regret, but hide it and wear a mask or C. accept fault in themselves, which is nearly impossible for your average "internet genius". At any point, I could go walk into a clinic, accept the supposed wrongness of my line of logic, and get treated. There is no ability for you to become untreated, you have made a gamble, be it 99% or 5, with the goodwill of people who would blender babies alive if they could sell the product at 200% markup.

I functionally cannot understand the person that is unaware of the truly evil, nefarious shit these companies are up to on a daily basis, and it blows my mind many of them go out to get treatment motivated to btfo people like me, who don't really care anyway. You're fighting a strawman in your head, I'm not even fully real the way you're going to reply to this.

I put whipped cream in my milk. How do I make it better? I wish I had coffee creamer.