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GB lottery stress edition.

last >>9709504

>> No.9767533

>Valentine's day themed events
I hate feeling so alone at times like this
It doesn't hit me every other time of the year

>> No.9767536

>>9767533
Are there no valentine's meets with your friends? or your local comm?
Last year I did a really cute "galentines" gift exchange at high tea.

>> No.9767870

>finally a bring a buy at my area
>host: "everyone wear your most OTT coord!"
>basically the worst date to have a meet in my city. its essentially the weekend before mardi gras/ week of karneval (thursday until tuesday).
>handful of people claim that this is not a good idea, because trains will be packed full of drunk teenagers trying to get into the city center
>"dont worry guys this is the outskirts of cities! and the best time to wear OTT without getting shit only compliments!"
>the city busts out their old broken trains becuase of how much trash, vomit and spilled alcohol will insue and drastically messes up the train times.
>nearly everyone has to change trains to get to the location at the 3 worst stops that often close because they become too packed
>"but anons its at 1pm and saturday! so there wont be crowds and its still early before the drunk people because its a rest day"
>here everything is closed sunday so the city center is already packed for shopping on a regular saturday. Add any sort of holiday to the mix and basically everyone will be drunk before noon.
>majority of people raise concern that its a bad idea
>"can you guys mark if youre going"

I really want to go but i cant stand drunk teens and i have to go through two of the worst areas where the train will be packed the whole time and the seats will likely already be sticky.

>> No.9767871

>>9767870
inb4 just drive.
>roads will be closed for crowds, pedestrians will be everywhere not obeying the rules and traffic will be worst. Idk if i want to deal with leaving the city, driving around it and then back into it before having to search for parking since everyone will be leaving their cars at home or as far away from the center as possible..

>> No.9767886

I just really fucking love lolita guys. My heart beats so fast when I think about all the dresses I want to buy, I don't think I've loved something this much since I was a child

>> No.9767896

This is a stealth /pol/ thread, do not participate in it

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>>9767886

>> No.9767948

>>9767896
They always have been, along with the crossplay and a few other the reads being small pockets of pol

>> No.9767998

>>9767886
I wish I could say the same. At one hand I still like all of my pretty clothes, and I totally know they flatter my body type, but at another hand I doubt if it worth all the efforts. Lolita isn't easiest hobby to maintain, it's time and money consuming, and also looking at current situation at lolita market, it's not easy to leave either. If I ever decide selling my stuff, it will take like forever, so yeah, I wish I had a tiny part of your attitude.

>> No.9768006

>>9767870
Why would anyone even want to wear OTT to a bring and buy meet? Don’t people usually wear more casual coords so it’s easier to try stuff on?

>> No.9768260
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9768260

I finally had a cute weeb bf who wanted to cosplay with me but then he decides 'he isn't ready for a relationship' after months of dating me. Someone please end me now.

>> No.9768265

>>9768260
he sounds like a cunt, go find someone else or be happy with who you are.
Best way to get over someone is to get under someone

>> No.9768304 [DELETED] 
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9768304

I won't go in to detail, for fear that he'll discover my post.... But suffice to say, I'm almost positive that my mother's death last year was NOT as accidental as we believed, and my husband could be involved.

It may go even deeper than him. If I'm right (and I pray that I'm not), my whole life as I know it is a lie. I don't know who I can trust anymore. This anonymous forum may be the last safe space in my world.

If anybody can find it in their heart to help me, please... I must turn to strangers, as the love of my life and god knows how many others have proven sinister in their relationship with me.

>> No.9768305

>>9768304
Stop larping.

>> No.9768307
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9768307

>tfw some fatty-chan farts during the pledge of allegiance to Misako, and comm security bodyslams her through the table

>> No.9768309

>>9768304
nice /cgl/ related feel

>> No.9768311

>>9768304
Tell that bitch to wear some damn maxipads or start paying for the chairs she ruins.

>> No.9768324
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9768324

I'm trying to organize a tea party for my comm, and I need people to RSVP so I can call the venue and tell them how many people will come and finalize the reservation. So far only 2 people (myself and a friend) have RSVPd, and the deadline I set for people to RSVP is in two days. Meanwhile, I see that the venue has started advertising a party the evening of the day I was planning on having the meet. Now I'm just really worried that I might have to change the day of the meet or even cancel it, and I'm freaking out. This is my first time organizing a meet for my comm and I don't want to fail.

>> No.9768367
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9768367

>all three comm leaders got pregnant
>mfw we have to plan the next year of meetings on our own

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>locan con invites some cosplayer I never heard of
>didn't pay attention to that, so I can't say much
>however, they also brought in this local youtuber that I never heard of - he's lucky I don't remember his name
>the attendees didn't give a shit about him
>he sings some anime OPs that got dubbed in spanish
>and for the climactic parts, he tries to get the crowd to yell those parts for a cool effect, this is a thing singers do and it comes off awesome when the crowd goes along
>but the crowd here didn't give a flying shit
>so every time he wanted us to scream the cool part of a song, people barely did and it was so sad

>eventually he gave up
>also he did some cringy humor changing the lyrics of songs to fit some lame jokes in spanish

This is why I don't pay attention to local youtubers. I will say this, I don't think he's some kind of fake fan. At least he came off as someone who grew up on similar cartoons and anime that I did. But the guy just can't connect with a live crowd. It's different from being comfy behind a camera and editing software.

>> No.9768374

>>9768324
Message each person going, talk to them a little about how excited you are and how it'll totally be ok if they bring friends or their SO.
Then call in the reservation on the RSVP date, lower total going means that the party the venue is doing will either not impede your meet or will enhance it if it's something all clients are involved in.

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>>9768367
>all three comm leaders got pregnant
WTF. Did they all sit in a puddle of jizz or something?

>> No.9768506 [DELETED] 

>have sugar daddy completely funding all lolita expenses
>meet an amazing guy at con
>con guy is the man of my dreams, but he's broke and in debt fresh out of grad school
Can't decide if leaving my SD for my dream guy is worth losing all the free lolita.

>> No.9768519

>>9768408
Comm leaders tend to be older women. Just cuz you like a crazy alt fashion doesn't mean you don't have a regular normies life outside of it.

>> No.9768521

>>9768408
i have imagined a pregnancy jizz puddle in a national park, with a sign nearby etc, like a hot spring of a kind

>> No.9768522

>>9768506
Tell your sugar daddy that polyamory is the new hip thing to get into.

>> No.9768528

>>9768506
porque no los dos

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9768638

There's a really mean girl in our comm, and I just found out through online snooping that she's a little. Should I kink-shame her, or just pity her for having such a sad fetish?

>> No.9768641

>>9768638
leak the details slowly to other comm members

"oh someone asked me if i was roleplaying a
little girl"
"like that kink? gross"
"i know right? speaking of which..."

>> No.9768906

>>9767896
Explain...?

>> No.9768933

>>9767998
I keep seeing that the lolita market is bad, and while I agree, I do find it very confusing. Why is it so bad? Why won't people buy from LM?
>Hard mode: answer without mentioning Taobao

>> No.9768939

>>9767886
Me too, anon. For me it's not even the buying so much, I just love putting together coords and meeting with my comm and just feeling cute. Even hanging up my clothes brings me joy. I know I may eventually get tired of it and quit the way I did a few years ago before coming back, but I don't think the magic will ever entirely die. I love having lolita and my comm in my life.

>> No.9768941

>>9768522
This.

>>9768519
This made me giggle. I wish it were like that, haha.

>> No.9768944

>go to meet
>the room is full of itas screaming "Do yu no de wae??"
Dear god NO.

>> No.9768950

I'm getting divorced after being separated for a year now, I decided to move to Japan after all of the legal issues are finished. Up until this point I haven't dated anyone, but I decided to go on a date after a co-worker set me up. The guy is pretty great, he's looking at moving to Japan too. I just don't know what I want long term. I didn't even want to start dating again until I settled in Japan. What do?

>> No.9768958

>>9768950
>divorce
>extort her former husband's money
>enough to move to japan, yeah!
that's why you shouldn't marry somebody without a prenup, or better shouldn't at all

>> No.9768964

>>9768958
I wish! My ex was extorting money out of me if anything. We literally had nothing when we separated. I just have a really good job working as a nurse supervisor. I do agree with you to just not marry.

>> No.9768973

>>9768950
Date him when you both have moved and settled in Japan, but don't date Japanese guys in Japan. I'm sure this pretty great guy is 1,000% time better than anything you'll find there. Divorce sucks, let yourself have some happiness.

>> No.9768974

>>9768506
Pls be /r9k/ roleplaying trash.

>> No.9768979

>>9768506
>telling your SD about vanilla relationships
>ever
Just keep your SD and wait until the man of your dreams is out of debt. Use the time to get to know him and his worst side better, then decide if it's worth it.

>> No.9769012

>>9768260
>then he decides 'he isn't ready for a relationship' after months of dating me
This either means you're horrifically clingy or bad in the sack. Learn to deep-throat.

>> No.9769024

>jailbait constantly hitting on me and touching my body at cons

I kinda like that feel... but I know its wrong

Why is being a fit male so hard

>> No.9769027

>>9768974
nayrt, but i thought it was what a decent share of /cgl/ femanons looked like

>> No.9769028

>>9769027
>implying a decent share of cgl femanons aren't lolitas-at-heart roleplaying and pretending they know anything at all about lolita or jfash

>> No.9769049

>>9768373
*local con

>> No.9769057

>>9769027
>Femanon
That's an unfortunate way to give away you don't browse or belong here

>> No.9769342

>>9769057
That particular poster is very recognizable. I'm not going to say how because then he'll probably try to mask it, but you can see him starting fights and shitting up some other threads. Once you notice it, you can't unsee it.
He blames everything on feminists and thinks sex-doll discussion belongs on this board.

>> No.9769351

My dream dress is older, rarely crops up and I've not seen it actively for sale in 5 year one of the japanese 2ndhand sites updated with the skirt version last week, then the jsk shows up in lacemarket. So both of them are on the way to me, I am beyond excited!

>> No.9769354

>>9769351
Oh wow, congratulations!! What is it?

>> No.9769359

>>9769342
This is a /pol/ thread, report it and jump ship to the other one

>> No.9769602
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9769602

My weight has been going down significantly, as planned, but my legs are still huge beefy tree trunks. My diet has not affected them at all, and I swear regular exercise has made them even thicker than they were when I was heavier. I will never be able to wear cute socks or print stockings at this rate.

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9769612

>find blouse i'm in love with
>no one knows what brand made it, much less trying to find it.

>took 3.5 months for one small thing to get to SS, holding up entire taobao order
>they mailed wrong color
>don't even care anymore, just get that fucking package out of china before cny

>something stupid like 10 brand dresses either in the mail or sitting at SS or in mto-process or on payment plan right now
>i just want my brando

>> No.9769622

Man I just really love lolita

>> No.9769642

>>9769342
kek

>> No.9769673
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9769673

My two year old sister is insisting I make her a purple Elsa dress and my perfectionist soul is dying a little. But by god I would do anything for that child and she’s getting that damn dress.
Even if I’m a little frustrated that it’s not blue.

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>>9769673
>My two year old sister is insisting I make her a purple Elsa dress
>>Most (but not all) toddlers can say about 20 words by 18 months and 50 or more words by the time they turn 2.

well, you don't need even 50 words to ask for a purple Elsa dress

>> No.9769676

>>9768638
If she leaves it in the bedroom/doesn't bring it up at meets or social media, you should do the same.

>> No.9769692

>bought a bunch of skirts requiring a cupcake petti
>they're all arriving by Wed
>AP San Fran still hasn't shipped the petti I ordered last week
>will have boxes filled with pretty dresses and skirts by Wednesday but no appropriate petti to go with them

truly suffering

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9769736

>>9769024
I'm not even fit and I get this.
>tfw a 12-year-old Yoko Littner starts twerking on you

>> No.9769744

>>9769675
Im not sure what you’re saying here, haha. My baby sister can hold full, albeit broken, conversations. She’s also about to turn three, so her vocabulary is much more advanced than a baby that just turned two. She just said “Purple Elsa!” when I asked what she wanted me to make her.

>> No.9769747

Some girl in my comm was rummaging through her purse and a pacifier fell out in front of everyone.

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>>9769736
Where the fuck are the PARENTS at these cons??

I saw a girl at Dragon Con who couldn't have been older than 8th grade dressed as Cammy White, butt-cheeks on full display. No tights or anythong. I almost sent a note home to her mother.

>> No.9769793

>>9769602
I hear ya anon. I did insanity several years ago & got quads on my quads, like I found a side photo of me last year after finishing it where I lost 18kg I was in shorts & the tops of my thighs were bulging out so far I looked like a wrestler. I cried. They do go down but. Try the tracey anderson method. Also praying that anyone called you tree trunk legs in school is blessed with a fat daughter.

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>>9769024
>tfw you ask her age
>she's 9 years younger than you

>> No.9769817

>>9769602
>and I swear regular exercise has made them even thicker than they were when I was heavier
Are you doing squats or something like that, anon? Because if you are genetically predisposed to big legs and keep building muscle yeah, they're going to get bigger.

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9769930

>dressed as MeMeMe
>preschool age girl comes over with her mom
>the mom tells me I look cute
>mfw the girl screams "I can see your panties!"

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9769952

>dream of having a bf who will cosplay and go to cons with me
>knows it most likely won't happen
>perpetual cycle of sadness

This doesn't sound like to farteched of a wish, but I've been doing cons for way too long and I keep losing hope the more cons I go to

>> No.9769956

>>9769952
L O N D O N

>> No.9769961

>>9769956
F R A N C E
>>9769930

>> No.9769965

>>9769952
Yep, will never happen. Just give up.

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>>9769024
>>9769736
>>9769752
>tfw the con is full of tween girls wearing Blacked.com t-shirts.

>> No.9770466

>>9769952
L
O
N
D
O
N

>> No.9770469

>>9769602
That’s probably where you gain weight, it sounds like you’re a pear shape! Stop bulking your legs and butt and switch to only cardio.
Also— good job on the weight loss!

>> No.9770485

i havent worn lolita in weeks. ive literally worn the same tshirt and leggings for the past four days and i feel so fucking depressed. i feel like nothing makes me happy anymore, not even lolita, which always makes me happy. i wanna buy some shit, but i dont have any spending money rn and i know if i did buy shit id just feel bad for it later. i just wanna be cute and happy and have a loving gf.

>> No.9770489

>>9770485
You could not wear it for a while when you're feeling like this, and I know how you feel angelic pretty has 40% off on two dresses I want and I'm broke ;-;
What helps me when I'm too sad to even do my favorite things is try different things (I know it's cliche but it really helps) I've started kickboxing, going to the library, cut off social media,
I've been feeling better lately
I hope you feel better too, that you will feel cute and happy and find a loving gf <3

>> No.9770527

>>9768638

no john you are the mean girl

>> No.9770530

>>9770485
Anon, I'm in a really similar position. Mood, financial situation, winter, and lack of a social life have led me to hardly wanting to wear it even when I do have a good chance to do so.

It will pass. Things will get better. For now, just try to make yourself as healthy and comfortable as you can and don't sweat it.

>> No.9770548

>>9770530
I was here too. I was about to say that you should focus on nice things in your life, but probably it's easier to make it said than done. I'd say, just keep in mind, that once it will be better anyways, it can't rain all the time. Try to enjoy small things, remember, that there are always people, who love you and care about you. Once it will get easier and you be happy with your pretty clothes again.

>> No.9770658

>>9769956
>>9769961
>>9770466
I do not understand the London meme.

>> No.9770660

>>9770658
Basically it was a fawning post to an anonymous girl about how great she is and an almost pleading message at the end that she please be in London. It was pretty creepy. It got boiled down to the meme of simply saying London.

>> No.9770663

>>9770660
>explaining memes to newfags
What happened to lurk moar? Is this site truly dead

>> No.9770666

>>9770663
She would never get it by context and if you don't go to every board on the website 24 hours a day 365 days a year you won't understand everything.

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>>9770663
Yeah, fuck that anon for not knowing an aging /fit/ meme, right?
This site ain't dead, it just happens to not be your personal secret club

>>9770660
The guy fawning over a "girl" (who turned out to be a man in drag, iirc) was a tripfag named Tinytrip (who was from london). This made it all funnier to /fit/, and I guess people liked the reference so much that it spread to other boards.

>> No.9770693

>>9770671
L O N D O N
O
N
D
O
N

meme is pretty known outside of fit, i never even visited fit and saw it a plenty, mostly on vg

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MFW a girl in our comm keeps bringing her baby and that bastard's ugly as hell

>> No.9770816

>>9768933
Because nobody wants to buy dresses that are stained, damaged, or missing waist ties for $250.

>> No.9770822

>>9768933
This >>9770816
inb4 #notallsellers but many western sellers don't take care of their clothes and think they can charge out the ass for dresses in terrible condition. Why pay $150+ for an unwashed disaster when you can find the same thing in fantastic condition for at least half the price on the Japanese market?

>> No.9770830

>goes to a cgl thread for fun time
>gets shitted on immediately

Wow no wonder i don't talk to anyone in the cosplay nor lolita community.

>> No.9770833

>>9770830
Git gud

>> No.9770851

>>9770830
You're very unaware of what you're posting and how it comes off. 4chan is not for asspats, sorry.

>> No.9770852

>>9770830

>all lolitas and cosplayers must be like 4chan!

Almost as ignorant as '4chan the hackerman' meme. I cringe for you.

>> No.9770863

>>9769747
Does she have a kid? Many parents carry pacifiers with them/accidentally leave them in their bag.

>> No.9770871

>>9768933
Kinda agree that western people doesn't care a lot about their clothes, thus you get really worn out piece for the price. But in this particular post I meant, that lolita this days loses it's popularity. Bloodbath over the new release is rather exception than a rule (inb4 because brands went tacky), a lot of cute stuff stays untouched on LM for long, all of that. Back in the time you could literally invest into rare piece knowing you will have your money back or even get some extra, but I wouln't be that sure nowadays.

>> No.9770898

>>9770871
>you could literally invest into rare piece knowing you will have your money back or even get some extra
This is something that I don't understand - Why do people see these clothes as "investments"? Why not just buy something because you like it?
It's good to have the secondhand market to fall back on in case something you bought wasn't what you expected, but buying something and planning ahead to sell it is baffling to me.
>t. a lolita with decades-old dresses in her wardrobe

>> No.9770909

>>9770898
"Investment" is misleading but I just assume that some lolita buy dresses when they appear cheap on LM then manage to resell them higher later on. Poor availability after their run is finished on the second hand market makes for opportunistic buying if the price is low enough.

>buying something and planning ahead to sell it is baffling to me
There are a lot of people in lolita that can't financially justify just buying new stuff all the time so if you're in second hand from the start, you may as well flip dresses to acquire more.

>> No.9770932

>>9770909
I don't mean you should always buy new pieces instead of secondhand; but buying something with the intention to sell it on later is odd to me because I buy things with the intention of keeping them and don't consider the rarity of whatever dress I want to buy.

>> No.9770935

>>9770932
You should see the classic car market, that's where this kind of shit really goes mad.

>> No.9770937

>>9770660
>>9770693

NAYRT but I usually don't hang out at other places (/diy/ and /ck/ once in a while) so that was enlightening. Thanks for the spoonfeed.

>> No.9770949

>>9770932
Some people see it as a way to make a modest amount of money in an area they enjoy or have a great deal of knowledge in. I think it’s misleading to consider a dress you want to flip as an “investment”, this implies you hope it will grow in value to sell later on. The peak investment era is largely over now that the sweet chaos boom is done, and most coveted pieces are pretty old- the exception is limited sets that feature a popular artist or style such as Disney exclusives. I think flipping dresses is more like capital spending when you get the item. You scoop up items on the overseas market for cheap and sell them at home or vice versa. You can also just buy low and sell high, because of the nature of the style. As a whole there’s always a dream dress for someone, somewhere, and if you’ve got it then they’ll be willing to pay quite a bit.

>what about scalping
I think scalping is more buying a dress brand new that you know will be popular with no intent of wearing it, keeping it in a long term collection to admire (I guess like an art piece), or closet cleaning at a later time. Especially if it’s a limited piece and you snag multiples just to immediately relist at double cost. It’s an obnoxious move but it sadly happens a lot. But, sometimes lolitas fall out of love with a piece and decide it’s not really for them. There’s nothing wrong with getting something new, deciding it’s not for you, and offloading it at equal or lower price.

>> No.9770973

>>9769012
this

>> No.9770977

>>9769602
dude same how is it that after losing 60 lbs my legs are exactly the same
ive been considering doing leg workouts because i want to tone my ass, but i dont want my legs to get beefy so ive procrastinated

>> No.9770981

>>9769814
>tfw youre jailbait reading this with a guy 9 years older than me

>> No.9770996

>>9770949
Anon, you don't know what scalping is, do you...

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>little sister is into lolita
>mom wants to learn more
>Googles it
>stumbles upon the other kind of lolita
>freaks the fuck out
She may genuinely call the police.

>> No.9771063

>>9770863
This. I have a kid and I have pacifiers, teethers and baby toys in almost every bag that i own at his point

>> No.9771176

>>9770811
Why do people inflict their crotch spawn onto others?

>> No.9771218
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Our comm imposed a no-vaping rule, and one girl got so mad she put an egg in the comm leader's car. We've caught her in the past taking pictures underneath other girls' bloomers, so if she misbehaves again, she's out.

>> No.9771228
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>>9771049

>> No.9771261

>found out wife cheated on me(she doesn't know I know about it)
>can't get out because I was a dumbass when she said I don't need to go to college and I become a house-husband
>feel like shit and can't work on our couple's cosplay for AX
Yeah yeah I'm a cuck but I feel trapped with nowhere to go.

>> No.9771274

>>9771261
consult a lawyer, those divorce laws that usually benefit women can benefit a man if the man is in a situation like yours, you can get a decent share of her money/an alimony

>> No.9771536
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>>9771261
Since she cheated, legally, you may actually escape with your shirt. Good luck. That's a shitty situation.

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>>9767530
>see cheap item from US or canadian seller
>shipping is as expensive/more expensive than the item
>seller keeps relisting without any interested buyers
>tfw you woould like to buy it

Why to sellers keep telling me that this small accessory is 30 bucks shipped when I had bigger items shipped for 15 dollaroos from the same fucking country. Why do you not have stable shipping fees

>> No.9771576
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I’m trying to organize a cool themed meet up at the end of February. I’ve already bought the prize for the most original coord and I’m searching for some cute place where we can take pics. The only problem is that I’m not able to find a place for the tea party. Everytime I try to book, people tell me that they can’t reserve an entire place on Sunday.

>> No.9771578

>>9771554
Just ask them if they can lower the shipping, or where they got their shipping prices from

>> No.9771588

>>9768638
I'd bring it up and shame her, but I'm also a petty bitch so

>> No.9771661

I accidentally bought too much of something ($400 worth of stuff to be exact), and now I have to ask my parents for a loan while I wait for my refund. If I didn't have rich parents and had to use payday loans instead I would be so screwed. It seems like the refund is taking forever to come over too.

>> No.9771688

>>9771661
"accidentally"

>> No.9771744

>>9771688
Yeah it really was an accident. The shopping cart interface was weird, and I was in such a hurry that I didn't realize I was buying multiples. I cancelled my order right after I made a second one.

>> No.9771764

Tfw Lolita gf pulls out your stray back and shoulder hairs that you can't reach with her bare hands while showering together.

>> No.9771770

>>9771764
>not even using tweezers
Does she have pincers for hands?

>> No.9771774

>>9771770
No, my back hairs are just long and curly. I don't have a hairy back, it's baby smooth aside from the 10 or so long hairs that like growing out in random spots.

>> No.9771830

>>9771218
>Comm has such a vaping problem there has to be a rule about it
>Putting eggs in cars is revenge
Your comm sounds hilarious and bizarre. Also, bloomer shots should have been an automatic ban.

>> No.9771856

>>9771576
Duh anon. Sunday is a tea shop's busiest day of the week.
I don't know where you live, but I'd wager that most of their profits come from nana's bridge group meeting for brunch after attending morning service.
Funny how businesses don't exist to cater to flakey 20 somethings that spend all their money on dresses so they're cheapskates in everything else.
I mean, prove me wrong there.

>> No.9771889

>2 feel threads
For what purpose?

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>>9771218
>caught her in the past taking pictures underneath other girls' bloomers
Underneath their bloomers?? How do you NOT get caught doing that????

>> No.9772082
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9772082

Some small but good feels
>Getting a new job next month
>Making about £1k a month, which is good for an 18 yo who has no living expenses
>Going to uni this year
>It has a really nice campus, and is in a historical area
>Will be first time having to decide what to wear everyday
>With a job, I can finally buy enough burando, and build a cute wardrobe
>The entire area is great for coord shots
>Everyday I can wear cute shit, in a comf town
It sounds stupid typing it out, but I get so happy thinking about it, and what 2018 can give me

>> No.9772260

>I suck at uni
>stressed and depressed
>will have to move back in with my parents
>feel like some weird kid when I look at my friends who are trying to be adult
>single for the 7th year in a row with no love life in the middle whatsoever

i just want a break and cry for like, a month

>> No.9772305

>trying to impress new target of affection
>have an eating disorder
>want to be pretty and happy for target of affection
>need to lose weight, so start new diet
>one day in and im in an awful mood due to many reasons but one being new diet
>"anon this diet is going to make you more depressed"
>consider abandoning diet to be in good spirits for target of affection
>"anon you dont have THAT much fat"
>ok i definitely need the diet
>but dont want to be a bitch
>but dont want to be fat
my mind is going in circles

>> No.9772318

>>9771661
Why do you people buy shit without any separate savings account to back you up? I know it can be hard, but you seriously dont have any extra money around in an account? What if you have some kind of emergency?

Same thing with that girl a couple threads back who overdrew and got hit with fees, and whined about it like it was some tragedy out of her control.

>~uwu~ poor me i'm financially retarded :(((

>>9772082
Naicu feel! But don't be these guys anon, please put aside some savings.

>> No.9772385

>>9772305
Anon, just eat healthy no need to go overboard, if you are truly overweight 2lbs a week is great going, whats that -1000 cals under between diet & exercise a day? Dont freak out, you have plenty of time. Enjoy the start with your new person.

If someone loves you, weight doesn't enter into it...they love you for you...not how tiny you are. Pretty and tiny are two seperate things.

My friend was pregnant & engaged to a guy who threw out the salt in the house, swopped her mars bars for apples and made her go to the gym with him and do squats, bitch was 110lbs and pregnant with his child.
He cheated on her then dumped her.
Thats not love.

I got ill, gained 3 stone due to immobility (I love the gym AND food but could only do one) but he just grabbed my fat ass and said I like this (previously it was flat as a pancake). I'm working on it, already lost a stone and himself is now at the start of balding but I couldn't give a fuck.

>> No.9772400

>>9771661
how does it even work, my bank doesn't allow me any overdraft on my debit card, it won't proceed a payment which would put me to overdraft, and if i can't repay my debt on my credit card during the grace period i simply should pay a least like several per cents of my debt per month, they will charge interest then ofc. no overdraft is possible on the credit card too, assuming i use all my limit

i dunno what should happen for me to actually overdraft

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>>9767530
Realized today.... I think I pursue younger women because anime has made me want a little sister I can hump, and joining the con scene has only made it worse.

>> No.9772465

>>9772318
I'm a student and my parents back me up.

>>9772400
I bought it with paypal, but I overdrafted with my debit card once. Luckily my bank resolved all the fees when I called them.

>> No.9772491

MY CON CRUSH IS A THOT AND I DON'T CAAAAARRRE!!!!!!!!!!

>> No.9772500

>>9772419
Same here except with older women.

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>>9768506
Behold, the modern thot

>> No.9772615

>>9769024
>>9769752
One of the most uncomfortable things in the whole world. Has happened a couple times to me and I just try my hardest to just get it over with or bail. At the end of the day its nothing but makes me feel viscerally uncomfortable.

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>>9771261
Good God dude.

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>>9769752
>con last year
>10 year old Suicide Squad Harley Quinn
>full thot outfit
>parents were there with her totally okay with the whole thing

>> No.9772668

>Want to cosplay a character from a sports anime
>Similar physique, hair color, even demeanor so I could easily pull it off
>Too afriad to do it because I don't know how to play and there aren't any local beginner/rec leagues
Fuck this gay earth

>> No.9772688

>>9772500
Big sisters are truly best sisters

>> No.9772690

>>9772668
Git gud

>> No.9772698

>>9770852
Actually 4chan is a mix of asswipes, nice people (low amount) & idiots so it can be a bit accurate...

>> No.9772738

>>9772465
You're retarded. Have fun struggling your entire life and student years especially, no one should ever spend their entire paycheck unless they literally have to in order to survive.

>> No.9772746

>>9771261
>getting married

>> No.9772796
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>>9772318
I will! Around half of my earnings will be put to the side! I can make some spare money through commissions and teaching English
/Japanese as well

>>9772465
Why must you larp as me

>> No.9772798

>>9772796
@ pt 2 nvm I'm retarded, I read the chain wrong

>> No.9772800

>>9771261
>Actually letting her convince you to not go to college

Intellectual and sexual cuck. God damn dude

>> No.9772801

>>9771661
I bet youre that kind of person that says shit like
>adulting is hard! :^(

>> No.9772831
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>taking 22 college credits this semester to graduate on time in May
>working part time five days a week
>struggling to keep up with assignments
>throwing all my disposable cash into cosplay and itabags
>already have 5-6 cosplays planned for a 4 day convention
>only going to use them for one convention this year because family member is having surgery after con and I'm going to be a stay-at-home student (second AA degree) and caretaker

It's a recipe for disaster but I can't stop spending just to feel something positive when a package arrives. Even if I just open it, photograph, and then set the box aside and sort of forget about it because everything else takes over again.

>> No.9772880
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I woke up early to work on cosplay but lack the drive.

The coffee didn't wake me up... I gave myself diarrhea for nothing.

>> No.9772969

>>9771261
Do what >>9771274 said. If she's actually your wife, that is. Though I know it's all too common nowadays to just call your SO by a married pronoun just because you live together, for whatever reason. Hell, people do it even when they aren't living together so long as they've been together for like a year. It's weird. Why lie? Some chick I know is 18 and calls her boyfriend her "fiance" even though he lives across the fucking country from her and probably fucks girls on the side that she stays willingly ignorant to.

If you're married to her, divorce her. You'll get money and help to get back on your feet.

>> No.9773079
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9773079

>mfw people defend kinksters in our hobby
First rule of lolita: If you wear a diaper, we rip it off and mash it into your face.

>> No.9773137

>>9773079
All these new girls need to learn that sometimes rejecting people who can harm us is not bullying uwu
It honestly pains me to read anons' posts about their too accepting mods freely letting sissies join their comms.

>> No.9773138

>>9768006
I have no idea. Its also in a rented church hall/room with minimal chairs.
I planned on going to sell things and wearing a baby tshirt and an old lucky pack skirt. I wouldnt feel okay trying on someones things knowing im going to be wearing at least a bit of makeup and could risk damaging it. I rather look up measurements and stick to a cut i know.

>> No.9773194

>>9772738
Who cares? My parents can back me up. It was an accident and I got a refund. The only problem is that I have to pay a $36 overdraft fee and my parents interest. Oh well.

>> No.9773222

>>9771856
Except tea is not very popular in my country and brunch is only a hipster hobby at the moment.
I don’t want to change your mind, but I’m just a little shocked. It’s the first time something like this happens.

>> No.9773224

>>9773222
Most places are also very reluctant to rent out the place to someone who sounds young because there's a high chance they'll flake out and now they don't have any customers on one if their busiest days

>> No.9773264

>>9772082
Congrats anon, that sounds nice! What kind of job is it?

>> No.9773306

LM changing valid negative feedbacks to positive ...

>> No.9773355

>>9772385
but if i eat healthy i dont feel like i lose the weight fast enough for it to be worth giving up junk food, god that makes me sound so fatty jesus christ

and its not like i need him to LOVE me, just accept me

>> No.9773356
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9773356

tfw no /cgl/ discord friends
I tried joining discords on /soc/ and /b/ - it was beyond terrible.
https://discord.gg/XfvGhU

>> No.9773357

>>9772419
or maybe you always liked younger women and anime made it seem more acceptable to you

>> No.9773380

>>9773355
What kind of food do you eat? Don't cut it all out at once, just start slowly. Over time healthy food will taste better than junk food.

>> No.9773426

>>9773079
Lmao, like a pie in the face.

>> No.9773480
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>>9773079
>>9773426
>come to cgl for the first time in ages
>lolitas are talking about throwing bags of their own shit at each other
>mfw

>> No.9773490

>>9773480
>Come to /cgl/ after forever
>Drama threads are banned
>Egl went from non existent to 80% of the board
>No sign of familiar tripfags (rip Maguma)
I'm to old for this shit

>> No.9773491

>>9773355
Then he should be able to accept you as you are right now, because you are enough and aint nobody got time for pretending to be anything other than what they are

Fuck him ( literally, hopefully) and enjoy your tasty tasty junk foods.

>> No.9773493

Getting snuggied by my so in bed & browsing cgl, man I just really love lolita.

>> No.9773527

>hair is jet black
>get violet-red highlights
>cant really see it unless we're in speaking distance

hate it, ill have to take a much lighter color like pink-violet or more aqua and purple.

there goes another 50bux

>> No.9773557

>>9773527
did you not bleach your hair before trying color highlights??

>> No.9773566

>>9773557
ofc the hairdresser did, it came out dirty blonde before colouring.

ill have her bleach it again before thenee colours

>> No.9773570

>>9773490
I miss the old trips and shitty drama.
If I wanted a feel-good place to talk about cosplay and jfash where we all sucked each other’s dicks I’d just get a tumblr.

>> No.9773574

>>9773566
yeah no dirty blonde isnt gonna cut it for vibrant color. you need to go VERY light. space out your bleaching sessions too so your hair doesnt fall out

>> No.9773588

looks like tripfag culture on 4chan generally dies, nearly on every board there are less and less tripfags even when they are tolerated pretty well

>> No.9773625

>>9773527
If you're getting it done at a salon, there's no way they can leave the semi-permanent dye in long enough to get adequate results. There are a few permanent lines offering violet-red, but most salons aren't offering those lines. Dirty blonde is light enough to pull off red-violet, but they aren't able to process the color long enough. Pink-violet or aqua would require light blond, but red-violet shouldn't. You should try putting the red-violet in yourself (have a friend put the foils in), leave it for several hours, and then rinse out. You'll get better results.

>> No.9773630

>>9773570
Remember when con season was over and the whole board was just progress threads, boner Robin, pixie terri, rage threads and closet cosplay games?

Good times

>> No.9773694

>>9773490
>talk about being old
>don't even know basic grammar
Either you're an idiot or a kid.

>> No.9773715 [DELETED] 

>9773694
>Don't even know
>Criticises someone else on Grammer
>Doesn't even know
>Implying greentexts ever use proper Grammer
>Implying I'm not a working phone poster
>Implying implications

>> No.9773722

>>9773694
>Don't even know
>Criticises someone else on Grammer
>Implying greentexts every use proper Grammer
>Implying I'm not a working phone poster
>Implying implications

>> No.9773726

>>9773722
I'm just gonna leave this as is because it's more amusing that way

>> No.9773727

>>9773722
ntayrp but i think by grammar they were referring to you using the incorrect form of "too"

>> No.9773734

>>9773727
Either that or no hyphen in-between non and existent.

>> No.9773737

>>9773722
>implying greentexts ever use proper grammar
You actually thought I was criticizing your greentext? Typing that extra "o" must be really tough for phone users, yeah?

>> No.9773746

>>9773737
It is when I drag my thing across the keyboard to type. Yes.
For example that *thing* is supposed to be thumb. It's really annoying and the reason why I don't post much. But it was a fun little back and forth regardless.

>> No.9773759

>>9773746
>making up a shitty excuse
Okay anon, whatever you say. I'm sure dragging your finger worked well for "/cgl/" and was much easier than taking a second to not sound like an idiot. Not really worth continuing this since I was just pointing out the irony of implying you're too old for something and not even knowing the correct form of too.

>> No.9773773

>>9773625
theres no eay i can do that myself, noe can my friends.

maybe i should just go home with the foils in my head?

>> No.9773798

>>9773694
>be a newfag
>attack people for harmless typos in order to fit in with predisposed image of "chan culture"
h-haha see guise! i'm just like you!

>> No.9773815

>>9773306
make a secret, anon

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>>9767530
>Friend buys me cosplay I wanted to do for my birthday Really excited to wear the cosplay, love the character.
>It's a bodysuit, think nothing of it. Have total confidence it won't bother me at all to wear one.
>Cosplay finally comes in, try it on
>Reality comes crashing in that I'm a short dumpy troll and look like a sausage in It's casing
>Can't just not wear the cosplay because it was a gift, friend was excited for me to cosplay the character

I'm legitimately dreading going to this next con. I've been feeling like shit ever since I tried on the cosplay.I just feel like such an idiot for thinking I could pull it off in the first place. I feel even worse because it was a gift from my friend, I can't just tell her I don't want to wear it now because I look awful.

>> No.9773904

>>9773897
Maybe there's a way to try it on when you're along but not in public or send them pic just casually asking for advice about hair or makeup, so your friend could see it doesn't latter you much.

>> No.9773906

>>9773904
>thread name in name field

>> No.9773908

>>9773897
Get some shape wear, that stuff can work wonders

>> No.9773959

I do cocaine to make myself thin for lolita. It's fun and it makes me beautiful.

>> No.9774102

Bitch I can see that you're active on facebook. Pay your damn invoice.

>> No.9774339

>>9774102
NO!

>> No.9774357

>>9772305
>Fill your house with high protein snacks
>Throw out all sugary stuff
>Do light exercise at home, calisthenics are good for flexibility
>Ingest THC to cure bitchy attitude
>Satisfy munchies with stuff you should each to hit your macros
Rooting for you anon!

>> No.9774495

Bitch I can see you are active on facebook, send my fucking dress.

>> No.9774903
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9774903

>look at con pics from 2016
>can hardly believe how hot I was
Being an eating disorder-kun sucks. I need to sort my life out and get the binging under control.

>> No.9775053

>lurk on Instagram for the first time in a while
>see all the attractive people with perfect faces
>remember how fucking ugly I am

I hate social media.

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>>9775053
They are all munters anon its just photoshop & angles otherwise they would actually be successful models

>> No.9775269

I hate trend-litas so much. First old school and now goth. Just go back to sweet you unoriginal normies in disguise.

>> No.9775276

>>9775269
If it's any consolation, those who pursue style (of any kind) just to be trendy will eventually move on to the new shiny thing that catches their attention. It's annoying, but temporary.

>> No.9775383

>>9772260
I had to move back after my second year. Uni wasnt for me. But i kept going to a local school. I know it gets hard but itll get better. People only share the positives so don't compare to that.

>> No.9775394

>>9775276
You can always tell who's a trend hopper. Their coords are always super formulaic, and there's never any personal creativity.

>> No.9775398

>>9775394
creativity is punishable and most likely ends up in ita thread

>> No.9775407

>>9775398
Not if you do it well.

>> No.9775410
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I'm going to Anime detour in Minnesota
They changed it to a brand-new hotel in the city.

All the locals like myself used to just drive there each day, now we have to pay $5 to park...each day..
Not to meantion the hassle driving into the city.
It's like they're trying to get us to stay in the hotel.

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9775415

>tfw no real friends anymore
>tfw constantly read aniem nd play vidoe games to cope
>tfw cosplay and anime cons are my only hobby anymore
I know anime is a bad thing to make as your sole interest but I literally have nothing else that makes me at least measurably happy

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>>9772491
UPDATE: I still feel this way!

>> No.9775510

>>9771261
>pushing my bf to finish school before I let him move in
>will make him a house-husband after that and he's very happy about it
Feels good waifu.
I wouldn't cheat on him either. Maybe with another girl, but I would rather ask him for permission first, if he's okay with that.

>> No.9775537

>Planning a Cat Noir cosplay
>Found out that my brother-in-law looks at Cat Noir porn
>Unsure if I still want to cosplay Cat Noir

>> No.9775538

>>9775510
I've had a male friend moving in with another girl. Technically they were not dating, just friends, but he seemed like having some plans about her. So that chick absolutely legit was hitting on other girls and invited them to visit her right in that apartment (it wasn't even about sex, just to hang out together). Needless to say, he was deadly pissed abouth the whole thing. As for me, it was his fault too, because he wasn't clear about their relationships at the very beginning, but still there was no good about that situation.

tl;dr make sure it's okay for your guy, because most of the time they get super mad about girl cheating them with other girl, maybe even worse, than if it was a guy

>> No.9775540

>>9775510
>>9775538
Serious question here, would you be okay with your partner bringing traps back to your place to fug?

>> No.9775541

>>9775538

If they weren't dating and were FWB with the option to see other people, why did he feel like he had the right to get pissed at her? Sounds like he's the one with issues.

>> No.9775544

>>9775510

My boyfriend thinks that but I think if I ever went out with another girl I'm the type of person to only get emotionally invested with one person, and that would not be ok.

Don't know why guys think a girl is not as bad as another guy. For me it would seem like the same emotional investment and intimacy. I think they think it's some sort of 'girlfriend' thing where it's all pillowfights and none of the awful stuff with cheating or having two partners, when it really is.

>> No.9775550

>>9775538
Jfc, I hope your friend works out his issues.

>> No.9775557

>>9775540
I would totally mind that, but I guess we both should consider each other as partners, not just a friends sharing an apartment (but I'm so done with roommates I would never go for that, especially with males)

>>9775541
Forgot to mention, they didn't share the rent, he was paying it by himself. Maybe he expected her to figure out there is a reason for that. It sounded like "I don't actually force her, but why can't I decide anything about my own apartment?"

>>9775544
In my experience men always think cheating with girl is much worse, because it hurts their superior complex and they feel insulted you chose a girl over him.

>> No.9775559

>>9775557

In my limited experience a man who hasn't had a girl cheat with another girl thinks it's 'hot' and thinks he'll get free voyeurism out of it or something. But what do I know, I've only dated like three guys.

>> No.9775561

>>9775557

I don't usually like throwing that word around, but that's really a cuck move on your friend's part.

>> No.9775597

>>9775557
>>9775559
>>9775510

From my experience the problem is two parts for why any partner outside of your SO causes problems. The first is, these people try using physical intimacy as leverage within a relationship. That's a problem because it's supposed to bring you both together regardless of whatever is happening at the time, and instead it gets used as a tool for making another partner act against their desires or interests within the relationship. The second is, even if you try to establish with a female partner that you have commitments to your current SO, there is no assurance they won't become emotionally invested in you. Women don't tend to have sex only for the sake of sex when they establish any type of relationship with someone. Not saying it isn't possible, but the interests of your lesbian partner will rarely be the same as your actual SO, and if they want you to themselves there's always going to be a conflict of interest. What ends up happening a fair amount of the time is all the sexual leverage ends up with the partner who has the second partner, and it slowly turns into emotional leverage as well in the interests of the second partner, instead of your SO. No partner in a relationship should ever hold all the power over the other, because any functional and long lasting relationship has to be entered as equals, and that means compromise from both sides. A second partner makes the balance difficult to maintain. Even if it may be "hot", it's never really worth all the hassle for your SO.

>> No.9775601
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9775601

>big brother wants a sex change
>agree, so long as he keeps his penis
>mfw he wants to join my comm now
I do this shit to ESCAPE my family!!

>> No.9775607

>>9775538
>>9775544
>>9775597
Ayrt, it was just my wild fantasy, as I considered myself lesbian, maaaybe bi (but only for cute boys), before meeting my SO. He falls into the cute category, and I love him too much to hurt him in such a way.
I'm not even sure if my curiosity would be worth any NSA relationship with another girl. I think he's the one, and I want him to be my only one.

>> No.9775624

This place makes me fucking hate women. I should stop coming here

>> No.9775627

>>9775624
if one bitchy thread on an imageboard well known for its cancerous population makes you hate an entire gender i think you hated women before that, anon

>> No.9775629

>>9774903
Still crying about this.

>> No.9775632

>>9775624
Please, stop coming here.

>> No.9775634

>>9775624
same, the way the women here think of and treat men really makes my blood boil
being a guy in a female dominated hobby is shit

>> No.9775639

>>9775624
>>9775634
Not only are the opinions you'd get here different because of the anonymous nature of the board, but the people here tend to be younger as well. I wouldn't pass it off as being wholly representative of "women", but rather girls. Also, don't feel ire towards the opposite gender, it won't get you anywhere other than frustrated.

>> No.9775643

>>9775639
Are you wearing a fedora by any chance?

>> No.9775645

>>9775627
You're right, I only just started to have any trust in women in the past year and a half

>> No.9775647
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9775647

> Using bathroom in the Doubletree during lolita tea party with RinRin
> Only one other person in bathroom
> Hear someone taking a huge, nasty shit
> Leave stall and wash hands
> Out walks Misako
> kek

>> No.9775650

>>9775643
>don't feel ire towards the opposite gender
I'm trying to prevent fedoras anon.

>> No.9775651
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9775651

>>9775624
But why? I mean, Ita thread and the rest of hate threads didn't make you hate women, although they don't bring up the best traits of gender, but this one totally makes?

>> No.9775657

>>9775597

I'm >>9775559 and >>9775544 and I agree with you wholeheartedly, but some guys think lesbian relationships somehow mean less. I was more or less expressing my frustration about that, not about how easy it would be to just 'cheat' on my bf with five girls or something nuts.

>> No.9775666

>>9775647
Everybody poops, anon

>> No.9775671

>>9775651
maybe it's because most of the lolita threads talk about how they want brolitas to die, and most cosplay threads on here won't shut up about how they think guys suck at cosplay

>> No.9775673

>>9775657
>some guys think lesbian relationships somehow mean less
This is because of the way the partner obtaining a second partner tries to justify starting the new relationship, sadly. I know it doesn't play out that way most of the time. It's also partly because the guy may have the imaginations of also having the second partner be available to him, but it's probably just as often they're instead seen as an obstacle or enemy. I wasn't trying to accuse anyone of anything, just attempting to explain why and how it ends up causing issues. Thanks for letting me know you agree, makes me feel less awkward trying to explain it.

>> No.9775703

>>9775651
It basically confirms women don't actually like men at all. They only want to use men for their own ends (money, dick, arm candy, labor). I don't understand enough of the jargon to warrant being in an ita thread for more than a few minutes

>> No.9775707

>>9775276
But what is "the new thing" supposed to be? We almost crossed every element and substyle off the list.

>> No.9775710
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9775710

Hey you know who's beautiful?

read the first word

>> No.9775713

>>9775703
>visits an only 35.3% straight board
>wonders why they don't workship men

>> No.9775715

>>9775713
I don't think anyone "workships" men lmao

>> No.9775718
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9775718

>>9775634
Wondering if your blood also boils when you browse other boards (or even this one, during crossboarder plagues) and invariably see passionate diatribes by men saying that women are either demons or subhuman, don't deserve rights, should be used as breeding stock, should be murdered/raped/tortured etc in graphic description, should be sold into slavery, etc? Because that doesn't reflect favorably on men as a whole if you're basing your impression of the sexes on what's said on 4chan.

I have never seen anyone on /cgl/ express opinions regarding your sex that even come close to the vitriol you find directed towards women on this site. You're an oversensitive little bitch if the occasional griping about men on a female dominated board gets you this ass blasted, dude.

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9775719

>>9775718
>>9775703
>Socially inept and anonymous teenagers post crazy bullshit on 4chan about the opposite gender
Consider my fucking almonds activated.

>> No.9775723

>>9775718
if you're hoping to catch me on some bullshit then you're out of luck. This is my main board. I don't give a fuck what people on /v/ say or do because I don't browse there. People on /r9k/ are morons and I don't talk to people from there.

the fact that you think it's ok to try to shut people out of your community because of their gender just because some cunts on the other side shut you out of their shit doesn't make sense at all. I'm not the one talking shit on r9k or v about women

>> No.9775729

>>9775723
I actually kind of want to know what posts set you off now anon.

>> No.9775733

>>9775718
why do you instantly have to turn it into a comparison of who has it harder anon? can't we just call sexists out as sexist?

>> No.9775743

>send messages to three separate German sellers on LM last week
>none ever responds
Wtf I thought Germans are supposed to be punctual

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9775746

>>9767530
I bought my dream dress 4 days ago and haven't heard back from the seller.
Leading up to it her communication was ok, took a while, sometimes over a day to respond but since I've paid the invoice shes ignoring my messages. she only had one bad feedback, saying that they brought something and never heard back. Even positive reviews say her replies are slow. I just don't get it, do people really not care? It looks so bad on them. I always apologize for taking over a day to respond, its polite and I don't want to get negative feedback. Also, i just want my dress ASAP and it's stressing me out, even more so bc it's a gift from someone and I would feel awful if they got scammed because of me.

>> No.9775765
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9775765

>get busy studying
>figure that when I log on to discord, my friends from the FF thread will send me something
>it's dead, only one of them is online and he's not saying anything

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9775831

>>9775647
Lol, I recognize this copypasta you baka.

Hey gulls, what's a classy drink to get smashed off at a con?

>> No.9775835

>>9775831
Just hit straight absinthe and start talking to all the cosplayers like they're the actual character.

>> No.9775837

>>9775707
You never know what new trend might pop up. Whatever it is, I just hope it's not hideous.

>> No.9775850
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9775850

>get Chinese con crush
>Chinese new year is coming up
Would it be racist to ask him if he's celebrating it?

>>9775831
Mike's Hard Penis lmao

>> No.9775856

>>9775850
my family is americanized and we don't even celebrate it.

>> No.9775861

>>9775850

ABC twinkie here. I don't think so, and I would be really touched. My family still celebrates it. At the worst, he doesn't but you can talk about dogs and stuff since that's relevant this year. Just tie it to how much you like dogs or whatever if you're scared of coming off as offensive (which you won't). Cheering for you!

>> No.9775866

>>9775856
Well this guy is fresh off the boat. ESL and everything.

>>9775861
Ty. :)

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9775877

>>9775634
>A Man in a Woman's World

>> No.9775899

>>9775866
then fuckin ask u noob

>> No.9775947

>>9775703
Unequal pay implies every woman having a man, who maintains her needs. Women don't use men, they basically play by the rules that men invented.

>> No.9775963

>>9775947
>wage gap myth
Lmao.

>> No.9775975

>>9775963
The gap is not between same position being filled by men or women, but by the fact that women take more low-paying jobs and careers with dead ends.
But, well, they are still needed, and someone needs to do that job.

>> No.9775981

I wasted a lot of time not doing cosplay and fandom stuff, and now I really wish I had joined in.

>> No.9775987

>tfw still too autistic to be in a crowd
Goddammit I never used to have this problem

>> No.9776120

> been feeling quite depressed lately
> want to make things but every time I think of a new costume I think about how easy it'd be to make and that I want something to challenge my skills
> end up making very few cosplays as a result
> see mediocre cosplay getting asspats
> forever salty but not enough to do anything differently

>> No.9776157

>>9775981
Same. Didn't discover cons until I was 22, back in 2012.

I'm having fun now though.

>> No.9776211

>be 18
>get a used car, parents pay for half and half comes out of my savings
>be 23
>car is becoming unusable
>trade cars with my parents because my dad is a better driver than me so he can deal with cars quirks
>be almost 26
>dad sells car, gets a few hundred dollars for it, and sends all the money to me??????
>also get money from grandma's estate, tax return coming soon
>money has been really tight up till recently now i dont know what to do with myself....lolita shopping spree and gifts for my parents because i think im a lot more spoiled than i realized

>> No.9776222

>>9776211
Just make sure you save 90% of it, or else you'll be in the same boat again in no time

>> No.9776235
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9776235

>>9775624
>>9775634
>>9775723
>intentionally ignoring the bigger picture
i would LOVE to know what mean, hateful things women post here about men that just makes your blood boil, because i haven't seen any vitriol towards men here aside from women simply not wanting them constantly present. maybe some women would like to be able to have a hobby that isn't filled to the brim with the people who fetishize them based on their hobby, dehumanize them based on their bodies, and who whine pathetically when special concessions aren't made for them? hopefully only the latter of these three things apply to you.

i'm sure most of us don't exclusively read or post on /cgl/ and i'm 100% certain you don't see us crying on other boards when there's threads about literally removing the limbs of the entire earth's female population and using them as public cumdumpsters. do you know why we don't do this? because it's fucking obnoxious to go into a community and start loudly shouting down the local culture and telling them to change just for you.

sure, "not all men", but you fucking teenagers on the internet who want to be treated like ~one of the girls~ aren't any better than the garden variety entitled men present anywhere else. fuck off and stop whining. you're welcome to post if you can contribute to the discussions and avoid ":) i'm a boy btw". this shit is literally why people don't like brolitas.

>> No.9776308

>>9775850
Make sure he doesn't peepee in your Coke.

>> No.9776316

>>9776235
why are you still trying to turn this into a competition of who has it worse?
yeah, there are sexist dudes on r9k and other boards, I used to try to call them out when I saw it but since I browse here now I don't really run into it. The fact that women also have issues with sexism doesn't invalidate the amount of hate for men that happens on this board and in the lolita and cosplay communities anon.

>> No.9776348

>>9776316
>implying women don’t get tired of men constantly harassing this board with bullshit threads looking for cosplay tits
>implying wanting a space that’s mostly about women on an entire fucking website where almost every other board hears femanon and shrieks “tits or gtfo” is sexism
Cry more you autistic man child.
>inb4 UR PROVING MY POINT!!!!

>> No.9776356

>>9776348
Do you seriously think this way?

>> No.9776360

>>9776348
>implying this board is mostly about women
Lmao. You could say /fit/ is mostly about women in that case.

>> No.9776365
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9776365

Have you ever met a new lolita and just known she posts here? I met up with someone I met on fb today, and I got such a bad vibe from her, in a "would make vendetta chan posts even if she didn't really hate someone" way.

>> No.9776367
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9776367

>tfw husband hosting a super bowl party

>> No.9776370

>>9776348
still doesn't change the fact that you think for some reason it's a competition and that because you think women have it harder, men shouldn't be able to complain when they experience sexism.

>> No.9776371

>>9776365
I assume every lolita I meet goes on cgl. Not all gull are bitches though.

>> No.9776372

>>9776371
OK yeah. I go here and I'm not a raging bitch, just a garden variety one. But this girl had like a not-cool bitch vibe, you know?

>> No.9776379
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>>9776235
To be honest I've been a gull for six years now and I don't think there is hate towards men on this board at all. There may be harsh criticism or telling some men to just be quiet every now and then when they're shitting up threads, but if the man contributes like a normal poster then there's no inherent hate towards them, they're treated just like everyone else. No matter what any other board does, if someone thinks there's a gender hate here, then it's because they probably took a benign post or a single gull's opinion as a personal attack on them and ran with it.

>> No.9776381

>>9776365

That happened to me, but I was also the same and now we're besties. The cool thing is that we're actually straight up with each other. It's the best of both worlds really.

>> No.9776385

I recently got into lolita, and I think I developed buying addiction.
I have more loli items coming in mail than I have in wardrobe. I think that might even be more than I have non-lolita things in my wardrobe.
I think I might have spent half of my savings. While my account peaked around October at 115k, previously constantly increasing +15~20k a month, now it's down to 50k. At least it's a weird currency, not dollars (though I wish I had this much in USD).
Should I seek help? I promised myself to try to not buy more stuff, I'm no longer browsing and buying handbags, but I just bought three lolita items, including a main piece today.

>> No.9776387
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9776387

>>9776367
Why are you complaining? You get to watch the most beautiful, terrific human being to exist win it all for the 6th time

>> No.9776388

>>9776385
Block any shopping sites from your browser.

>> No.9776399

>>9775877
HAHAHHAA

>> No.9776411

>>9776367
Lots of people have that one thing they're really into. You have whatever /cgl/ related thing you're into, he has american football. Just hope that he doesn't end up like this guy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6fK9BFuhut8&t=0s

>> No.9776413
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>>9776388
N-no, there's no need! I can control myself.
I monitor my income and expenses. I just checked, and turns out a big part of my money went on other things, not related to lolita.
On lolita/clothes I spent only… 64k, about US$3k? Is it too much?

>> No.9776417

>>9776367
>>9776387
This isn't /cgl/ related you retards

>> No.9776418

>>9776385
You have a long loooooooong future in the fashion if you want anon. I say stop, wait, as its not a buy now or you will never find it again hobby you can build a wishlist now (old wardrobe posts on egl), then go to the lolibrary page to check for cuts in your measurements, save them in pinterest, a notebook, etc.... instead of buying everything you see you kinda like right now, purchase it over the years. Get a lot at once you run the risk of having a lot of mismatched things before your style is fully developed & you won't wear them. Enjoy Lolita anon!

>> No.9776421

>>9776413
3k doesnt sound too bad, as you are excited you found it. Just a note- when I hit 10,000 spending I felt like my wardrobe was "there" so to speak, like I had caught up. I had all the basics, some of my dreams dresses and a solid everyday wardrobe.

>> No.9776424

>>9776417
Tom Brady is prettier than you in your best coord

>> No.9776435
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9776435

>>9776418
>>9776421
Thank you! <3
When I made my first steps into the fashion, I knew I wanted to wear it every day, make it my daily clothing.
I just never used to buy so many things, so pretty things, (and so expensive things). I think I'm slowing down already.
Shame to admit, but I don't even have a full coord with me yet. I will surely get there soon, most of the items I'm missing are in mail heading towards me.
But it all makes me so happy already.

>> No.9776446

>checked Mercari last night before bed
>check Mercari after I come home from work
>my obscure non-print dream dress was available
>¥3500
>already sold

why is the universe so cruel

>> No.9776461

>>9776365
I once passed by a guy at a convention and thought "he looks like the most stereotypical 4chan user I have ever seen". A few hours later, he was at the /cgl/ meet up.

You can tell who some 4chan users are just by looking at them.

>> No.9776466

>tfw you show your friends progress pics on your cosplay and all you get back are comments about how they think the way you're doing it is shit.
If I wanted input I'd have asked. Half the fun of making cosplay is that you get to experiment yourself, not having some know-it-all sit back and try to say that whatever method is inefficient or for newbies and you should use this way they saw on kamui's videos instead.

>> No.9776480
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I've been wearing this waist trainer (the Kim Kardashian one here)

My next cosplay is going to show my mid-drift so I want to look more like an hourglass, I've been wearing it every day when I work for at least 7 hours each time.

In the back of my mind I'm thinking how it's actually doing nothing for me...

>> No.9776559

>>9776461
>Cosplay as a popular shitpost meme character
>Everyone accuses me of being a shitposter
>Actually a shitposter

>> No.9776586

>>9776480
>not knowing the brand of waist trainers the kardashians get paid to promote got sued by fatties over them not ending up looking like a Kardashian who can spend all their millions on however much plastic surgery they need to achieve their figure
I mean.
Did you honestly think that shit would work?

>> No.9776602

>>9776381
This was weirdly heartwarming. I want a seagull bestie now.

>> No.9776614

>>9776480
You need a real waist training corset, not that junk. A real steel boned corset will also improve your walk and posture.

>> No.9776615

>>9776446
Iktf. Which one was it?

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>>9776615
IW's Diana OP in green, this was the Mercari listing:
https://item.mercari.com/jp/m49551766226/

Like, it's missing the belt and needs some serious ironing and TLC, but for ¥3500 I would have been beyond okay with that. It feels like simpler pieces like this are all the harder to find since they're so easy to wear and comfy and casual, sigh. At least I'm not into old school though, they probably have it the worst with dream dresses.

>> No.9776691

>>9776679
FUCK. I live for old school IW green. My condolences anon.

>> No.9776709

>>9769793
>I did insanity several years ago & got quads on my quads
Yo rori I heard you like quads

>> No.9776712

>>9773380
for some reason this seems kinda crazy to imagine, but i can see why?

i was vegetarian for a couple years and im still getting in the groove of eating red meat

now its not that crazy for me to, but i still dont that often and the smell gets me sometimes

maybe thatll happen if i eat healthy shit i like? but at the same time i fucking LOVE fast food, soda, all that ugh

>> No.9776716

>>9776709
please don't be racist

>> No.9776721
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9776721

>>9776691
Thank you anon. ): May we someday both be decked out in IW green and have all the pieces we desire.

>> No.9776757

welp the patriots lost

>> No.9776763

>>9776757
GOOD
Fuck those white supremacists

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9776779

>>9776757
so, that's how the BIG GAME ended, huh

>> No.9776785

>>9776763
don't be that girl

>>9776779
brady choked

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9776794

This ends now

>> No.9776803

>>9776757
I want to die

>> No.9776815

new
>>9776795

>> No.9776889

>>9776461
Was he dirty?