Feels thread

[Anonymous No.9456646]

Previous thread >>9453350

How are you feeling, gulls? Keep the answers cgl-related, please.

[Anonymous No.9456659]

>tfw the hot cosplay guy you've been con-crushing on turns out to be a reverse trap

[Anonymous No.9456683]

I hate con dramu but I also love it

[Anonymous No.9456686]

>>9456659
I see nothing wrong here.

[Anonymous No.9456691]

>>9456646

my gf intentionally flirts with other guys at cons so i get mad and beat her when we get back to our room. not like seriously beat, but like hate fuck, choke, pinch, slap, etc

shes a gull too. what do.

[Anonymous No.9456692]

>>9456691
she sounds crazy, gtfo while you still can

[Anonymous No.9456693]

>>9456691
Disgusting and TMI

[Anonymous No.9456710]

>>9456450
At first I thought you were talking about romantic partners, and "beat around the bush" was lesbian innuendo.

[Anonymous No.9456719]

>>9456710
fucking kek

[Anonymous No.9456839]

Would anybody be interested in cosplaying as my gf?

[Anonymous No.9456893]

>be depressed
>only thing in the world that makes me happy is clothes
>think about killing myself
>remember that a big burando order is on the way
>have to hold off until it arrives in the mail
>order more burando
>repeat

i have a feeling that this is grinding to a halt and i won't have anything to look forward to anymore

[Anonymous No.9456909]

I'm worried. My boyfriend told me today that he wouldn't fuck Jessica Nigry if he had the chance.

[Anonymous No.9456956]

>make friends with friend group of this crazy bitch I've known for years
>"These people seem really cool, how are they friends with this whackjob? Am I the one in the wrong?"
>find out they all fucking hate her too
>tfw

[Anonymous No.9456958]

>>9456909
Your bf has self respect, good job.

[Anonymous No.9456961]

>>9456909
neither would I.

[Anonymous No.9456965]

>>9456839
Sure, but if would have to be a gf (male)

[Anonymous No.9456969]

>>9456646
get your shitty Facebook memes out of here anon

[Anonymous No.9456977]

>>9456965
So long as it's a feminine gf that's fine with me

[Anonymous No.9456983]

>>9456909
But she so nice?

[Anonymous No.9456986]

>>9456977
Buy me stuff and it's a deal.

[Anonymous No.9456990]

>>9456986
ill buy you a double cheese burger a mcdonalds

[Anonymous No.9456993]

>>9456990
I hope you appreciate a double cheeseburgers worth of effort

[Anonymous No.9456999]

>>9456993
a gfs a gf

[Anonymous No.9457015]

I'm finally coming to terms with the fact that a group of people that my partner and I thought were our good friends are, in fact, not our friends. This time last year they were constantly inviting us to go do stuff, hang out, etc. and we almost always accepted.

Then towards the end of last year the hang out invites stopped coming. They weren't interacting with us on social media as much either (now they don't interact with us at all, ever, I'm actually considering deleting them). I confronted the person I considered myself to be closest to about it and was upfront about being confused and having slightly hurt feelings. I was assured everyone was just busy and it was nothing personal (even though they were still hanging out with each other quite often). I was just like okay, thanks for taking the time to talk with me. They acted like everything was totally fine, when obviously things weren't fine.

That's pretty much the last I'd heard from anyone in that group of people other than in passing. We didn't get invited to the holiday friend gathering/gift-exchange, which was especially shitty considering I'd already bought everyone gifts like 1-2 months in advance. We saw one of the guys in public a few months ago and he was... friendly in a super fake way. Definitely didn't seem happy to have run into us.

Fake fucks, I swear to god. Why can't people just be upfront? We were always a bit different in certain ways from these people but it always felt like we got along and the constant hang out invitations made it seem like they liked us. Both my partner and I are kinda shit when it comes to befriending new people and we were pretty thrilled to have found a group of friends we enjoyed hanging out with. Now I'm just left with the nagging feeling that they only ever spent time with us so they could gossip about us once we left.

[Anonymous No.9457020]

>friend is getting married
>super broke not sure why she is even going through with it
>tell her well I can help you look for a dress @ X plaza
>nty I found a website that has it for super cheap
>she links me a chinese replica website, like milanoo for dresses
>tell her don't do it, it's a knockoff website
>but anon it has GREAT reviews
>she links me fake reviews or paid dor reviews
>keep telling her not to do it and that she'll not only lose her money on something hideous, but will ruin your wedding
>show her actual reviews of people complaining
>gets mad that im not supporting her
At this point I want her to do it so I can see her fuck herself over

I wish normies would at least try and see if the site is legit!!
One of the dresses has another website all over the stock images !

[Anonymous No.9457048]

>tfw too depressed to work on cosplay or look for a better job

I don't deserve nice costumes, or a good job.

[Anonymous No.9457053]

I'm currently trying to build up a cuter/better normie wardrobe and it's really fucking with me. My proportions are apparently very off so barely anything fits as it should and I just kind of hate the way I look in general. And I hate how people on the Internet who /should/ look worse than I do can pull off whatever and look absolutely stunning when I've only looked good a handful of times throughout my whole life...

[Anonymous No.9457094]

>tfw no jfash gf to match outfits and go to cons with
do lesbians other than me even exist because i've never met one

[Anonymous No.9457097]

>>9457020
You warned her, she didn't listen. Best to just let her have at it and want her cry into the sateen nightmare she gets.

[Anonymous No.9457102]

>>9457094
I too know that feeling. I don't even want a girlfriend right now because I'm not stable enough to balance a relationship with schooling but I'd just love a flirty bi/lesbian cosplay or Jfashion partner for conventions. Nothing sexual, just flirting, hand-holding, some cuddling, and looking kawaii for a weekend.

[Anonymous No.9457113]

>>9457102
THIS
I WANT THIS SO BAD

[Anonymous No.9457120]

>>9457102
>Nothing sexual
So you're the female equivalent of the jerkoff crystal/imitation crabmeat guy?

[Anonymous No.9457123]

>>9457120
...the what?

[Anonymous No.9457126]

>>9457123
>>9457120
I regret googling that, but no, I'm not the female equivalent of that guy. I just only do the dew with girls I'm in a committed relationship with.

[Anonymous No.9457127]

>>9457120
>tfw will never charge my JO crystal with another girl in a completely heterosexual manner

[Anonymous No.9457141]

>>9457048
Anon I do not know anything about your situation or who you are but I think you do deserve to have a good job, and to have cool costumes of the characters you like. I know you are depressed right now but I believe in you. I hope that you can find motivation soon.

[Anonymous No.9457146]

>>9457141
>but I think you do deserve to have a good job, and to have cool costumes of the characters you like. I know you are depressed right now but I believe in you.
But why, Anon? What makes you so sure? that Anon might genuinely be a terrible person. What if your encouragement motivated them to go out and start doing terrible things?

[Anonymous No.9457150]

>>9457094
I'm male and just about every women I talk to ends up being bi or lesbian. What cons are you going to? Maybe we need to switch places

[Anonymous No.9457172]

>tfw your almost done with your cosplay and its made of reused shit
>tfw you barely had to pay for anything at all

Feels good man,doing dbs trunks and i just need to work on his hair and ill be good, also looking to order a light blue wig for ssb vegeta so that should be sweet

[Anonymous No.9457211]

>made long distance friend last year by meeting at a con
>slowly develop crush but we live across the country from each other and are both at really unstable parts in our lives
>turns out they like me too
>we're both unsure where to go from here because starting a relationship might fuck us both over

I'm waiting on a couple of international job offers, while she's starting med school in the fall. It's weird limbo and neither of us want to lose what we already have but we're both not sure if we can make the commitment when our lives are about to change in a pretty big way.

[Anonymous No.9457289]

>>9457141
Thanks, cosfam.

I'm gonna bring my mom lunch tomorrow and see if that makes me feel better.

[Anonymous No.9457456]

>>9456659
Time to ask yourself why you fell for a guy(girl)

[Anonymous No.9457458]

I wish we didn't have to give a standing ovation every time a fatty-chan goes out in public.

Wow, way to be obese. So brave.

[Anonymous No.9457462]

>be fat
>"man, i wanna cosplay. i should probably lose some weight."
>loses 20lbs
>still fat, just stronger
>still look like shit
>still balding
>still aspie as fuck
killmeplz

[Anonymous No.9457465]

>>9457458
You basically got naked at her tea, and you're mad at HER for kicking you out?

I knew seagulls were some silly bitches, but this is too much.

[Anonymous No.9457471]

>>9457462
Keep at it anon, you'll be a qtpa2t in no time

[Anonymous No.9457478]

>>9457471
but i wanna be a big, strong man!
>thanks tho, anon

[Anonymous No.9457519]

>>9457462
Theres chubby characters out there and cosplayers i see who accept they are kinda chubby and play a chubby character seem to have a blast.

[Anonymous No.9457521]

>cosplay I thought would be extremely simple and straightforward is taking way more time and effort than expected
>mfw

[Anonymous No.9457523]

>enjoy spending time with my best friend more than spending time with my bf
Not sure what to feel

[Anonymous No.9457524]

>>9457519
there arent any chubby male characters i'd like to go as rn. maybe i'm just missing them, but most fat dudes seem to be comedic relief or the creepy otaku guy. i'd rather get into good shape so i can make a good Fuhrer Bradley

[Anonymous No.9457527]

>>9457211
If you can convince yourself it's worth it to wait, wait. You guys are going to be dedicating a lot of energy to work (for you) and school (for her). Adding the workload of a LDR is going to be stressful. I would at least wait until a month or two when you're both used to your new schedules and workloads.

LDRs are really hard work. I've only ever seen LDRs work when both people either don't have many friends (so they mainly socialize with their partner outside of work) or don't have much going on in the way of schooling/careers (so they have the time to check up with their partner).

[Anonymous No.9457529]

>>9457523
it happens. finding romantic partners is just like finding friends with the caveat that you're also mutually attracted to one another. since they're basically acting on the same part of our brain, it's not uncommon for your significant other to end up being a compromise of who you gel with the best personally and sexually. at some point, a compromise needs to be found and you rarely end up being with the person you're best friends with or the most attracted to.

[Anonymous No.9457533]

>>9457529
It's just that i never had feelings this strong for another girl. I'm pretty sure i'm straight so it's just confusing me.
Sorry for blog but this is just really messing with my head right now.

[Anonymous No.9457535]

>>9457523
at least you have a friend

[Anonymous No.9457540]

>>9457533
i've been in kind of similar situations, where if i've been super lonely for a while after getting fucked over and i meet someone i mesh with well, i'll feel like i'm being too clingy as a friend. but honestly, i think it's just a natural reaction to having a super close friend. if you ever get romantically attached, address that as it comes up, but don't feel bad for wanting to spend time with some people over others. you probably got with your bf for reasons totally different than why you hang with your friends, so why even compare?
also, >>9457535
everyone i befriend ends up fucking me over, so i'd suggest you treasure a good friend for as long as you can.

[Anonymous No.9457543]

>>9457533
Don't feel bad, I thought I was completely straight until I started crushing on a dude back in high school. Heteroflexible: straight, but shit happens.

[Anonymous No.9457544]

>>9457540
I got together with my bf because i felt like i'd stand out at college if i didn't have one.
Don't get me wrong, he's not a bad guy it's just not what i expected when we started dating.

>>9457543
I appreciate your input but i think you are a guy?

[Anonymous No.9457550]

>>9457150
They are just pretending in order to get away from you

[Anonymous No.9457551]

>>9457523
you are being groomed by a predatory lesbian, get out while you can

[Anonymous No.9457577]

>>9456956
Had that happen to me too recently. Ended up getting high with a friend of hers who turned out not to be much of a friend at all, now he sends me all the juicy screencaps. I feel a little sorry for her because she clearly has no idea what a lolcow she is, but on the other hand, she does have the option of not being a crazy vindictive turbocunt.

[Anonymous No.9457610]

mfw having to work full time internship for 1,15 p/h because else i get behind on my college progress.
10h gone per day and no energy left to make any cosplay and having to deny nicely paid commission requests while making 200 a month feels really bad.

[Anonymous No.9457731]

I'm feeling serious regret about joining a panel for an upcoming con. We haven't done any planning and it's in a couple weeks now. Since I am not the main person running it, I don't want to step on any toes and start taking charge (I'm trying to back away from this tendency in general), but it's starting to give me a lot of dread because it's a couple hour commitment at this convention and I don't want to waste my time or look like a dumbass in front of a bunch of people.

I seriously want to quit the panel but I'm one of the main characters and I hate disappointing people, especially ones that I will continue to run into in my circle of friends. So I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place, and can't wait until it's all over so I can stop feeling this way.

[Anonymous No.9457736]

So i kind of fucked up the ears by making them to big, but my momiji cosplay is more or less wearable now. This is the first cosplay i've made in a good year or so. I'll have to hold off on remaking the ears only because i might need to move soon since i have new roommates coming in and there is question on if i'm staying in my current room. So i cant make a big crafting mess right now. So it's fine i guess...i still need a sword and shield any ways so it wont be 100% complete until the end of year anyways. I'm happy i finally have a new cosplay but I'm upset at myself for goofing it up and not asking for help when I should of.

[Anonymous No.9457745]

>>9457736
>momiji
I must see this!

[Anonymous No.9457746]

>be /fit/izen
>two days ago cosplaying shirtless character, wearing some pretty tight tights
>girls getting pretty touchy when taking pictures with me
>some were underage
>"wow you're ripped bro" comments everytime
>got my butt slapped two times

T-thanks Rippetoe

[Anonymous No.9457749]

>>9457746
you are now a male slut, was it worth it?

[Anonymous No.9457812]

>>9457465
Wtf was deleted here???

[Anonymous No.9457824]

>>9457544
Just dump him holy shit, stop being a heartless whore and leading someone along. He could be finding somebody who actually wants to be with him for the rest of his life, but by the time you've mustered up the courage to tell him that you want to replace him, many of the people who he could have dated instead of you will already be with their own future husbands.

[Anonymous No.9457827]

>>9457824
That latter sentence is fragmented as fuck but man do I care little for syntax when I'm salty.

[Anonymous No.9457835]

>>9457745
I need to trim threads but i might post pics in the progress thread later. I made fox ears, instead of wolf ears and I feel really silly...,

[Anonymous No.9457852]

>>9457746

This is a good feel.

Who were you cosplaying as?

[Anonymous No.9457938]

BE MY GF RIGHT NOW

[Anonymous No.9457941]

>>9457938
if you buy me dresses

[Anonymous No.9457949]

>>9457941
How many? I only have $300 right now

[Anonymous No.9457950]

>>9457949
>wants a lolita gf
>only has $300
pppfffftttt

[Anonymous No.9457969]

>>9457950
r-rude

[Anonymous No.9457971]

>>9457941
How much income do you need before you're considered capable of sustaining a lolita gf? I'm a line chef at Wendy's and pull well into six figures. What are my chances of getting a lolita gf with that? Pls help.

[Anonymous No.9457974]

>>9457971
say a dress new costs 300 dollars and your lolita gf follows all new releases that come out every week (we're talking AP here), say you need at least 4 x 300 dollars is 1200 dollars a month.

[Anonymous No.9457978]

>>9456909
My bf wouldn't either. He has standards and has seen her face.

[Anonymous No.9457980]

>>9457941
>taking advantage of beta males for personal gain

[Anonymous No.9457981]

>>9457971
i would say (reasonably) about a coord a month would satisfy me (not that i expect my partner to do that- but if they were willing) so around $1000, a little more, a little less, a month of spare money you can throw away.

[Anonymous No.9457984]

>>9457094
Yes, but most are ugly or fat.

[Anonymous No.9457991]

>>9457981
>Spending $12,000 dollars a year on fashion just for your gf

No /seagull/ pussy is worth that.

[Anonymous No.9457993]

>>9457980
why not? so many people do it

[Anonymous No.9457999]

>>9457971
I'll give you an actual realistic answer for your silly memeposting
Most lolita girls would be absolutely thrilled if their SO got them some brand gifts for birthday, christmas and anniversary
So let's say three gifts a year, of say a main piece, a blouse/shoes/tights and some accessories, maybe $500 a pop?

So something like $1500 a year

[Anonymous No.9458003]

>>9457971
Line chefs make that much money??????

[Anonymous No.9458013]

>usually wear black
>really in the mood to bust out the pastels for a change
>period started today
Fuck.

[Anonymous No.9458049]

>>9457981
Have you actually gotten an SO that dropped 1k a month on your lolita hobby? I know it's definitely possible, just seems a bit absurd.

[Anonymous No.9458052]

>>9458049
I'm a math major and made 300k fresh out of college.
Never had a gf tho...

[Anonymous No.9458054]

>>9458052
>300k fresh out of college
Audible chuckle.

[Anonymous No.9458059]

>>9457999
Throw in an extra $500 for regular dates throughout the year, plus small surprises (like a box of hamsters (´・ω・`) )
Then you're set for life, enjoy ur kawaii gf

[Anonymous No.9458062]

>>9458059
more like enjoy your kawaii gold digger

[Anonymous No.9458064]

>>9458062
>implying there's any such thing as a gf that's not a gold digger

[Anonymous No.9458069]

>>9458062
>3k a year makes a gold digger
Oh man the betas on this board are pure gold.

[Anonymous No.9458073]

>>9457550
I end up being friends with most of them and they actually date women.

[Anonymous No.9458075]

>>9458062
Let's be real, it's almost a fair trade considering how specific most requests for gull gfs are on here. E.g. pls be my own real life anime girl, that shit takes skill, cash and genetic luck

[Anonymous No.9458077]

>>9457981
>>9457999
crying does anyone's SO do this for them

my bf pays for our housing expenses but he doesn't buy me gifts or anything. desu i'd probably prefer fancy gifts instead.

[Anonymous No.9458081]

>>9457462
DIET
I
E
T

I'm going through the same thing. Eat fewer carbs and shoot for a 300 calorie deficit every day

[Anonymous No.9458085]

>>9458052
>300k
>not a 6'4 chef at Wendy's
Obviously fake

>>9457993
Good point. Sometimes I feel like they deserve it for being so clingy and needy. Still, it's like being cruel to a dog that trusts you

[Anonymous No.9458093]

I have a scapular injury from a car crash that happened almost two years ago that still flares up from time to time. Normally it doesn't cause me problems except for mild pain, but this weekend was as the weekend my period started, and the lower abdominal and back pain, vomiting, and bleeding from that combined with normal scoliosis pain and the pain from my injury made me feel so bad that it caused me to miss a meetup I wanted to go to.

[Anonymous No.9458094]

>>9458077
Of course not. But that's not going to stop anyone demanding it in a feels thread.

[Anonymous No.9458105]

>>9458085
I'm a 6'4" chef at the airport. Is that good enough?

Pretty stoked because my garbage man cosplay came today.

[Anonymous No.9458125]

After spending $300 on a new alternator and battery for my car, expecting to pay $200 in labor to replace both as well as an additional $100 for replacement parts to pass my inspection, I found out that I just needed a new battery, the battery failure was triggering the check engine light (which is now off), I was able to return the alternator, I only paid $40 in labor, and a family friend can power screw the side mirror that isn't fully secure for free. I've been worried sick about this for the past week, especially because my job is dependent on me having a car. I won't have to cancel my con plans after all!!

[Anonymous No.9458137]

>Still use my email account I made at 14
>The most cringey weeb thing with a full fake japanese name for the account and a -chan in the username
>Have become too stubborn to make a new account
>Around New Year's finally tried to change some things like using my actual name
>Fast forward to last week
>Send a google request to my professor
>Defaulted to this email but figured he wouldn't know who it was from so resent the request from my school email
>I was wrong
>My account still had the weeb name but the icon was a photo of me
>'Anon please use your student account next time'
>mfw I spend a half hour navigating through google so no one will ever see that email again

[Anonymous No.9458165]

>>9457289
Update: It did!

[Anonymous No.9458177]

>>9457980
Hard to feel bad for people stupid enough to fall for it.

[Anonymous No.9458185]

Just tried to freshen up my (dyed) copper coloured hair with a dye I've used before with great results.

And now I have dark brown hair with red undertones and Schwarzkopf have a mildly annoyed mail in their inbox...

[Anonymous No.9458269]

>>9458077
I've known a couple girls with boyfriends that bought them a big angelic pretty package on special occasions, yeah.

[Anonymous No.9458270]

>finally got my hair cut to a shorter style
>nonstop compliments all day at work

It's crazy what kind of difference the right length makes to an awkwardly proportioned face

[Anonymous No.9458373]

>>9458077
My SO buys me lots of lolita stuff but we still live with our parents so he doesn't have any bills yet.

[Anonymous No.9458377]

>>9458373
I hope this is a troll but I've got a feeling it isn't.
W-e-w.

[Anonymous No.9458382]

I've lost enough weight that my tits fit in my I Do Declare dress. Now just to give up drinking beer more than three times a week. Seriously, why is beer so delicious?

[Anonymous No.9458385]

>>9458382
>beer
>delicious
do you also have a room temperature iq?

[Anonymous No.9458390]

>>9458377
A lot of people live with their parents.

[Anonymous No.9458392]

>been inside for 4 days writing finals papers
>finally free this morning
>decide to go out and enjoy the beautiful weather in new coord
>phone suddenly blows up with weather alerts
>area immediately goes into tornado warning

Anyone else here waiting to get fuckin rekt by this storm?

[Anonymous No.9458411]

>>9458077
Mine does, and so do my parents. I don't really wave it around though. It's weird when people ask "how do you get so much stuff???" and when I give them the answer they seem offended. As if I just sit on my ass all day and don't deserve anything. Like, I'm a full-time student and I have a job, calm down.

[Anonymous No.9458430]

>>9458411
>Receive house payment worth of dresses every month
>Heh, calm down poorfags

Are both your parents and SO putting into savings? Sounds like you don't understand money very well.

[Anonymous No.9458447]

>>9458430
...Wait, what? Are you confusing me with another anon? I was just answering their question as to whether or not anyone's SO does that for them. No need to get weird about it. I never called anyone a poorfag.

[Anonymous No.9458449]

>>9458385
Celsius or Fahrenheit?

[Anonymous No.9458450]

>>9458430
>t. bitter poorfag

[Anonymous No.9458452]

I got some lolita-looking panties in the mail today, and they're so pretty I'm honestly terrified I'll poop them.

[Anonymous No.9458454]

>>9458452
>cute lolita panties
pics or didn't happen

[Anonymous No.9458455]

>>9458447
But you do understand getting ~12k a year worth of burando is like getting bought a new car every two years, or getting free house payments/rent. There's a reason they're likely upset, it's a bit out of touch to assume it's reasonable.

>>9458450
No, just aware how much money 12k a year actually is, regardless of income. Even with a decent six figure salary, 10% of net income is far from nothing.

[Anonymous No.9458457]

>>9458377
We're full time students with part time jobs. We'd rather not live in dorm squalor while paying out the ass for it.

[Anonymous No.9458460]

>>9458455
That's fine, but I'm allowed to think it's rude when people ask me "how I get so much stuff" and then bitch about the answer. I'm totally aware that I live a nice lifestyle. What's the problem?

[Anonymous No.9458461]

>>9458137
Don't worry anon we've all been there

[Anonymous No.9458466]

>>9458455
>it's a bit out of touch to assume it's reasonable
nayrt but you do realize that what's "reasonale" differs between classes, right? buying that much might not be reasonable for you but it could be for someone that has the money. rich people live on a whole different planet from everyone else. it's weird but there's no reason to be bitter about it, which you definitely seem to be.

[Anonymous No.9458470]

>>9458466
*reasonable, fuck mobile keyboards

[Anonymous No.9458472]

>>9458454
>wanting to see the undies of a girl who dumps her drawers on the reg

[Anonymous No.9458477]

>>9458454
>>9458472
I don't shit myself! I'm just afraid of ruining my nice new pants.

[Anonymous No.9458481]

>>9458466
Being wealthy doesn't make money any less valuable. That's a terrible misconception. Maybe it's because these anons are younger and have never had to plan investments, but it's still unreasonable considering they don't have ownership of a home or stable income.

[Anonymous No.9458489]

>>9456646
>mfw I may have to take a Greyhound to AX this year

Any better recommendations like Boltbus or Megabus?

[Anonymous No.9458514]

>>9458481
>making assumptions
I have a house, a steady income, and an inheritance. I don't get why you feel the need to be pedantic and judgemental towards someone you don't know, but have fun I guess?

[Anonymous No.9458519]

>>9457150
get out of the US and find the pure slavic goddess of your dreams anon, unless you're okay with settling for either the el classico roastie normie turbocunt or the fat smelly dumblrina

>>9457462
I have the thicc genes and I've been doing heaps of cardio and strength training since a month ago. I havent shrunk a single bit yet either, but don't worry anon we'll get through this together

>>9458489
What's wrong with Greyhound? I've never taken those huge buses before but I was considering using them to get to AX as well.

[Anonymous No.9458521]

>>9458411
>get thousands of dollars of dresses for free
>calm down I deserve it by doing exactly what everybody else on the planet does

really makes me ponder

[Anonymous No.9458522]

>>9458165
Very nice thing of you to do, good job!

[Anonymous No.9458524]

>>9458521
So it's okay for people to be dicks just because I'm financially well off? If they ask, I tell them. If they don't, I keep it to myself.

Really makes me ponder.

[Anonymous No.9458525]

>>9458452
How pretty are we talking?

[Anonymous No.9458528]

>>9458524
Some people prefer to tell others how they feel about them instead of talking about them behind their backs. It usually means they aren't fake and consider you a friend.

[Anonymous No.9458529]

>>9458528
How does that relate to the situation at hand, again?

I just answered an anon's question about whether or not someone actually gets that treatment from their boyfriend and I managed to trigger people. I'm grateful for it. What do you want me to do, act like I'm not?

[Anonymous No.9458530]

>>9458524
Not even being a dick, just it's pretty obvious if you're getting 12k of dresses, still in college full-time, and have a house, your parents are probably paying your way through life and you're really fortunate they're in a position to do so. Very few people have that going for them. It's the fact that you think you actually deserve it by default that's probably the point of contention among your friends, which is what I've been trying to explain this whole time.

[Anonymous No.9458532]

>>9458529
Justifying getting thousands of dollars worth of clothes by saying you work and go to school isn't the same as saying you're grateful for it, it makes it sound like you think you deserve it for doing what everybody else does.

[Anonymous No.9458534]

>>9458530
>>9458532
I don't think I deserve it by default? I do charity shit, I volunteer, and I work hard for my family. I don't think that I DON'T deserve it because I don't sit on my ass all day.

I'm tired of being seen as inherently shallow and evil because I have money. Stop making assumptions.

[Anonymous No.9458537]

>>9458534
I really never thought you were shallow or evil, just terribly out of touch with the value of money.

[Anonymous No.9458538]

>>9458534
If you would've left it at "you're grateful" I would understand. But again you're trying to justify getting thousands of dollars worth of clothes for doing exactly what most of the planet does just to survive. You're not evil but you do certainly -sound- pretty shallow and spoiled.

[Anonymous No.9458540]

>>9458537
Not to sound like a common "rich bitch" but when you have a lot of money, things change for you. You don't look at it the same way that everybody else does. So yeah, I don't understand why this is such a huge deal to everybody else and why people feel the need to tear me down for something that's completely normal for me, my family, and a lot of my friends.

>>9458538
I'm not going to argue with you. You were trying to say that I'm not grateful, so I tried to justify things to you, and you're still trying to paint me as the bad guy. I really don't get why you're trying to make me feel bad. What do you want me to say, I don't deserve the things I have?

[Anonymous No.9458545]

>>9458540
>when you have a lot of money things change
lmao true words of a kid with rich parents

[Anonymous No.9458546]

>>9458540
I'm not trying to make you feel anything, I don't care about you because I don't know you. Feel however you want, I'm just sharing my perspective with you on the internet.

[Anonymous No.9458549]

ITT: bitter poorfags

[Anonymous No.9458568]

>>9458549
REEEE shut the fuck up stacy I'm not the only one who wants free coords without having to do twice as much as the other whingey richfag anon with the richfag parents

>inb4 I'm not rich I just have a different view of money x((((

[Anonymous No.9458573]

>people are honest with you on the internet
>get personally offended

[Anonymous No.9458579]

>>9458540
basically this >>9458549

People tend to forget that people can do whatever they want with their money lmao

[Anonymous No.9458627]

You would all be happier if you stopped caring so much about other people's money. Some people work hard for their stuff, some people work a fair amount, some work a little bit, and some people don't have to work. That's the way the world is.

[Anonymous No.9458651]

>>9458534
>I'm tired of being seen as inherently shallow and evil because I have money.
Technically you didn't say you have money. >>9458411 Your said your parents and SO do. Did your parents buy a car for you at 16 too? Given all the financial hardship that exists, most middle to lower class people would expect you to have some degree of gratefulness at least for being born into the right family when statistically a new baby is more likely to be one of those plebeians struggling with college loans and skyrocketing real estate prices.

I don't think people are saying you don't deserve the things you have. If you're earning the money that pays for the dresses, that's normal. If your SO is buying them for you, you're expected to show some appreciation for the fact that it's not common to have a rich boyfriend who buys you designer on the reg. If your parents are paying for your school, you're expected to show gratitude for the opportunity to not be a stereotype starving student living off ramen. To not do these things implies you are entitled and egotistical.

Then again, maybe it just feels unnatural for people who grow up with money and luxury goods and rich neighbors to see their affluence as out of the ordinary. Maybe these are just bourgeoisie affectations the sub-omeguloids make up to make their own lower stations in life more palatable if it's acknowledged to be at least partially luck.

>>9458540
>Not to sound like a common "rich bitch"
Too late, all signs point to yes. But hey, you do you and be a stereotype gated community out of touch upper-class twit as much as you want. No skin off my back. Just don't expect people to tell you back "yes, you SO deserve all this!" if you haven't cured AIDS, if you're not humble about your wealth, unless they are sycophants after a piece of your pie.

[Anonymous No.9458668]

>>9458627
W-We know that anon but it's not like it's easy for poor people like us to not feel a little irritated when somebody like richbitch anon showed up..

>>9458651 basically summed up everything I would have said but I'm very slow but not like it matters

[Anonymous No.9458703]

>>9458522
Thanks.

I worked on my sword a little tonight, and it looks okay. A little melty. I should learn to use thermoplastics instead of just painting the foam.

[Anonymous No.9458705]

>>9458373
I-incest?

[Anonymous No.9458707]

>my uni's hot cosplayer + avid gamer is in a relationship already

[Anonymous No.9458726]

Tfw convention is two months away and still havent lost any weight and I've yet to recover the expenses on my current costume

I'm probably better off not attending but I'd also feel really sad about it. But anyway it's not like I can buy anything with zero dollars or even look good 40 lbs overweight

Please dont let yourselves go, gulls

[Anonymous No.9458760]

>>9458668
It's okay to be irritated by someone's attitude, just don't be so insanely ass blasted like >>9458651
It's tacky. Be thankful for what you fucking have and stop being so goddamn bitter. You're able to sit on your ass and complain on the internet about some girl buying dresses; you have it a lot fucking better than most people on the planet.

[Anonymous No.9458788]

>>9458382
I love beer too anon thank god I'm not fat. Good luck with your weight loss!

[Anonymous No.9458886]

>need 2nd costume. first is ryu
>can go as either gai or cody. gai is easier overall even with the wig and itll matches me better

i still kind of want to see how id look like as a blondie though.

want to look like a roided out guy who dyed his hair blonde(still dark brows and stubble) and some jewelry foe that ultimate delinquent look.

[Anonymous No.9458892]

>>9458726
I know this feel all too well. Good luck to the both of us

[Anonymous No.9458895]

>>9458726

you could safely lose 16 pounds safely in 2 months. but if you put effort into it i can easily say you could probably do 16-25 if you tried. you can poop a pound and i think that even though you may not get to your goal weight you can still start and feel better for your convention! I have so little conventions available to me that i wouldn't want to miss it for the world. even if it means going in normie clothes or something different to make you more comfortable in your skin. i believe in you anon!

also for my cgl feels: the con is in less than a month away and i still have a costume to do. i know most cosplayers can do this easy peasy but im still a beginner and i take time simply because im not used to the process.

I believe I can do it, so im going to mark down work days on my calendar so i can work around school, gym and work time. im sad i will have to leave one costume until a convention later in the summer but im so excited i should just try my best

[Anonymous No.9458914]

>>9456646
caught a cold recently, trying to get the motivation to add more pockets to my first cosplay assembled...

[Anonymous No.9458919]

>>9458914
Pockets are even more important when you have a cold so you have somewhere to keep all the tissues.

[Anonymous No.9458936]

>>9458919
That's a really good point... on top of that, I forgot to mention I also want to make another set of boot covers that are better made than my first attempt (which went well, for what it was worth, just need to do a little reinforcing hem job on it)

[Anonymous No.9458964]

>>9458382
Iktf, I only allow myself to drink beer once every 2 weeks and I always regret it because I get so bloated. BUT IT TASTES SO GOOD

[Anonymous No.9458995]

>nyaatorrents is gone foever
>bakabt is now a closed group and requires account
>registration is invite only
I am mad as fuck right now.

[Anonymous No.9459059]

I have been having a rough week, so I'm going to write some positives feels.

>despite all the lowkey stresses I've been focusing on, I have a lot to look forward to
>finally have the base bag and merch for the ita bag I want to create
>excited for a small gaming convention in two weeks
>boyfriend and I both got small promotions
>just put in a big order for a new jfashion wardrobe
>found a drawing book I've desperately wanted but didn't want to buy at the library
>attending a hotel room party tomorrow hosted by a cool coworker
>visiting one of my best friends in another state to watch his recital and meet his friends
>got a Hector and a Tharja in Fire Emblem Heroes

I have a lot to be thankful for.

[Anonymous No.9459082]

>>9458489
>Greyhound
Stay away from any chinese people, they are fucking nuts.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Killing_of_Tim_McLean

[Anonymous No.9459085]

>>9458540
>Not to sound like a common "rich bitch"
>continues to sound exactly like a "rich bitch"
Lmao.
"Why are people poor? Can't they just like buy money or something lol"

[Anonymous No.9459089]

>>9458995
get into AB?

[Anonymous No.9459113]

>>9458062
>2k a year for a kawaii gold digger.

Sounds like a bargain.

[Anonymous No.9459121]

>>9458514
How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

[Anonymous No.9459151]

>tl;dr my gf gives me the fault for not getting noticed enough at cons

A couple years ago my LDR became a normal relationship due to her moving here. Since we're both into cosplay and cons we started going to all the available ones in my country. It's always great fun if it were not for the aftermath.

You see, I just cosplay for he sake of building my costumes and wearing them; that is were most of the fun lies for me. Altough having people recognize my niche stuff is really neato, it's not my main concern. And due to how my better half normally acts I thought that she was the same.

But for the last couple years she started throwing little shitfits after cons when she felt like she didn't get enough attention and/or pictures taken of her. Nothing major or world-changing but just enough to sour the time we had at the con in retrospect.

Last con that we went to a couple weeks ago got a little worse tho. I was wearing a costume with a helmet I had sunk the last 7 months into making and that I was actually proud of how it came out while she was doing something that was barely more than closet cosplay. On our drive home afterwards she just went off on me about how I was hogging all the attention (which was mostly little kids since they usually love my costumes) and how it was my fault that nobody wanted a picture of her. She basically just went on and on about how I apparently just put effort in it to overshadow her.

To be fair, she has apologized shittons for it since but whenever I'm working on my helmets/armor now, I just can't seem to relax as much as I used to be. There is just a constant worry that future trips are gonna end the same way.

[Anonymous No.9459159]

>>9459082
Alright then, Megabus it is

[Anonymous No.9459162]

Hm, out of curiosity do any lolitas prefer the indie stuff, or is there very much of an attitude of not brand not good?

[Anonymous No.9459176]

>>9459162
try >>9456532
Personally I'll buy indie whenever an indie brand comes up with something I really like, but much of the time the established brands are more reliable.

[Anonymous No.9459194]

>>9459151

Hmm sounds like a case of the youngns. Girls hasn't learned the fact that you usually get back equal to the effort you put in.

Do your do. And while you are working on yours give her a gentle reminder like, "Hey you got something in mind? Cause if you start looking for the lace/fabrics/buttons ect now you'll save yourself the mad dash later."

[Anonymous No.9459223]

>>9458995
TokyoTosho anon, use the magnet links through that.

[Anonymous No.9459230]

>>9459151
It's hard to stay patient if she keeps pulling that shit off, doesn't matter how many times she'd apologize because it'll get old real fast. l I find shit like that really annoying and I've had friends like that, too many times I just decide to go to cons alone. It's always a severe underlying problem for people like that to get worked up so much over petty issues and if it isn't cons they're complaining about it's always something else or someone else not giving them enough attention. Also, blaming others for their own faults is always a big red flag on it's own, my ex would pull this shit on me for everything expecting me to turn into her bitch slave so I ended up abandoning ship

If she IS an underage babby then I guess you'd expect that
Otherwise what the fuck

Sorry for rant I'm salty when it comes to people like that

[Anonymous No.9459264]

>>9458385
Why do you have the palate of a 5 year old?

[Anonymous No.9459283]

>>9459159
Megabus looks so cool, but I've heard super bad things about it. The Yelp reviews are poor af.

[Anonymous No.9459284]

still need a gf

[Anonymous No.9459287]

>>9459264
Amazing comeback, totally destroyed that anon.
Beer confirmed for mature adult beverage that is completely ignored by kids.

[Anonymous No.9459334]

>>9459283
How about boltbus?

[Anonymous No.9459457]

I heard the best way to approach hot cos-guys is to pretend they're not cute. Does it work?

[Anonymous No.9459505]

>>9459457
No that will make me not like you

[Anonymous No.9459536]

>>9458059

>implying lolitas are kawaii

Kek, half are fat, other half are either batshit crazy daddy issues le randum gurl or butterfaces

Keep dreaming that some alpha male like me will *ever* pick you up

[Anonymous No.9459540]

>>9457015

Don't worry about it. Everyone has their own problems.

The dude you ran into probably had ten other things on his mind that day.

I've found peace by forgiving and forgetting them the things I feel they've done to me. Hate is toxic. Exhuming old hurts, mulling over them, can only make you sick. Forgive and forget it.

[Anonymous No.9459646]

>>9456909
>>9456983
She is.

[Anonymous No.9459661]

>>9459536
>thinking anyone wants you

[Anonymous No.9459665]

>lose 3 inches on waist
>gain them in chest
>burando all loose on waist but too snug on boobs
I should be happy but I'm honestly so upset

[Anonymous No.9459719]

A while back, someone posted that her mother doesn't want her to get her picture taken with fatty-chans.

I thought it was super bitchy until today. I texted my mom a pic of me from a con and she said "Can you please erase those big fat girls so I can share it to Facebook?"

[Anonymous No.9459725]

>>9456909
Marry him immediately.

[Anonymous No.9459730]

>>9457462
Get #rangerfit and start doing masked cosplay. Mechs, Super Sentai. Kamen Rider is SUPER popular with the fujo crowd now because they keep pushing bro ships in the show. There's hope for guys like you and me.

[Anonymous No.9459734]

>>9459719
The fuck's up with moms? My grandma is like that too, but she's super bitchy and anorexic and repressed, so it doesn't surprise me from her.

[Anonymous No.9459753]

>>9459719
My mom is the same way. When I showed her pics of me from my first meet she told me that all the "ugly fat girls" made me look bad. Then proceeded to go on a rant about how she doesn't understand why all these fat girls are wearing clothes too small for them and how the clothes make them look like ogres. All I could think is how well she'd fit in here on /cgl/

[Anonymous No.9459767]

>>9456983
>>9459646
What is this obsession cosplayers have with farting?

I've farted in the dealer room at every con I've ever been to, but I never thought to brag about it.

[Anonymous No.9459798]

>>9459719
>>9459734
>>9459753
My mom is the complete opposite. We actually got into an argument about itas once because I asked her for advice about how to kindly turn down a girl in a laughably bad cosplay for our local lolita fashion show. She felt that having standards was bad and exclusionary and that everyone in the pictures I showed her was equally bootiful uwu even though some were brand models and some were girls with plastic rainbow wigs stuffed into handmade shower curtain monstrosities that hardly covered their ass.
>There's literally no difference if they're having fun!
I mean, being downright bitchy isn't a good thing but I feel like saying "everyone is equally beautiful regardless of looks" is harmful too, because nobody truly believes that and you're blowing smoke up the asses of people who will only end up feeling disappointed once reality hits. It's an unfair thing to do to someone, especially if it's something they could actually improve on if only they got criticism.

I guess if your moms are cgl then my mom is the tumblr hugbox incarnate. I have no idea how I ended up a seagull.

[Anonymous No.9459805]

>managed to snag qt cosplayer boy without even needing to put in the effort of doing a fanservice cosplay to pander to him like I was planning
>can now safely introduce him to my cuter-than-me friend
>no longer last single friend

Desperation pays off sometimes

[Anonymous No.9459818]

>be ugly af
>have my face sperg out and get red when in cosplay
>do exclusively cosplays of masked characters because of that
>over time, got gud enough to get attention from women
>their interest vanishes once they see my face

[obligatory |nobody cared who I was until I put on the mask|]

[Anonymous No.9459821]

>>9458788
Thanks anon. Drink a couple of Great Lakes for me.
>>9458964
Yeah, I probably shouldn't drink beer at all with my migraines, but fuck me, I already gave up caffeine, I'm not giving up beer too. One day, I will have your steely will. Until then, I'm taping a picture of my dress to the fridge.

[Anonymous No.9459836]

>work at food place while in college
>have boss
>boss is a little bit of a cunt and everyone knows that
>still really like my job and all of the supervisors and bakers
>multiple stations at my job, can work all stations successfully and on my own if need be
>boss: "If you want to work over the summer then please give me the paperwork by X date"
>give paperwork to her three days before the date it was due
>"Oh I'm sorry I already made the schedule -it looks like we don't have room for you right now."

I work so fucking hard at my job, I don't have any absences, or tardies, and on my shifts I never stop moving. So now I don't know if I have a secured job for the summer. I applied for two other jobs, I'm waiting to hear back. I hate being a slave to capitalism.

[Anonymous No.9459845]

Do you ever sing as part of your cosplay?
Rate my performance.
https://files.catbox.moe/8t9e0m.webm

[Anonymous No.9459860]

>Deciding to finally tell my parents about me wanting to dress lolita
>Telling them on holidays so I won't have to worry about school
>Three recent taobao releases that I fall in love in
>They are all gone now

I don't even know if I will have the courage to tell them. I really don't want to wait another 2 years so I can buy clothes by myself. I already know that they won't like it. All I can do right now is mourn over my dream dresses.

[Anonymous No.9459876]

>>9459860
You have to be 18+ to use this site

[Anonymous No.9459908]

>talking to Overtale cosplayer at con
>mfw I notice her erection

[Anonymous No.9459915]

>>9459908
>Overtale
what

[Anonymous No.9459927]

>>9459836
If she's a cunty kind of person you probably needed to give her the document as soon as the very next day after she told you. Might be the kind of person who looks for "go getters" (read: ass kissers)

[Anonymous No.9459936]

>>9459927
Why next day? Anon should have taken it out of their bag and handed it in immediately after she finished talking.

[Anonymous No.9459937]

>>9459753
>>9459798
Mine thinks judging other girls for how they dress is exclusionary and mean (reminds her of being in high school), but still said "Oh, you look the best in that line-up because all the others are too fat/old and don't suit these kind of clothes!" when I show her meetup pics with a group of average lolitas. I was really surprised because she's normally very anti-bitching and will never comment on people's weight or appearance. Kind of weird since I'm not baby-faced or young-looking either...

[Anonymous No.9459941]

>Work at a nice gift shop in a cozy strip mall
>Place sells crafting supplies as well as knick knacks and some toys
>Found a neat hat that's perfect to do Lillie from Pokemon Sun & Moon
>Sometimes buy threads to fix up old costumes
>Road in front of place is being redone in about 2 months and will be completely closed
>City estimates it will take 2.5 months to complete work. Was supposed to happen back in January but was postponed
>Boss/Owner is considering closing the doors at the end of next month
I mean I finish school at the end of this week, but i hate that the city just lets these places die

A coworker's bf works as a fry cook at the diner on the other end of our lot and there's word the owners of the other businesses might sue

[Anonymous No.9459950]

>Saving money for the one huge con me and my BF go to every year
>We go to small free cons too but this is the biggie
>Super close to having even more than I normally need, close to having enough money to blow on so much merch and have just us two stay at the con hotel
>Only one more month of working OT and purposefully poorfagging and I can say we safely have a good chunk and can stop throwing money into con savings and working myself to death
>BF cracks a tooth, has to go to dentist

I'm really glad we had the money to pay it in full, and I've been trying to get him to go to the dentist for months, but I'm a bit upset we're put so far back.

I'm actually sitting out here in the waiting room thinking about how much extra work I'm going to have to put in to catch back up. I still have 4 months but I was looking forward to pouring extra money into my main savings instead of the con savings for once. He goes to school and works part time so it's my extra income that normally goes into our fun things.

At least I already finished our cosplays?

Photo semi-related

[Anonymous No.9459955]

>>9459719
Fucking savage

[Anonymous No.9459994]

>sewing jsk
>watching twitch stream as usually so half paying attention
>attaching skirt tiers so whatevs
>look at sewing machine
>look at stream
>look back at sewing machine
>catch the last glimpse of a tiny moth being sucked under the needle
>//crunch//crunch//crunch//
>fucking sewed a moth to my dress
>mfw

[Anonymous No.9460004]

>>9459994
I thought this was going to end with a needle through the finger, so it could have been worse

>>9459915
I guess he meant Overwatch or Undertale. I like how this is what confused you, not the girl with a hard dong.

[Anonymous No.9460013]

>>9459661
>obese lolita literally SEETHING

have sex

[Anonymous No.9460053]

>>9459994
What style? If gothic, you are doing pretty good.
If sweet, not so much.

[Anonymous No.9460081]

>aliexpress order from last week still hasn't shipped
>back order arda wigs from months ago still no sign of shipment
>con season coming up

[Anonymous No.9460093]

>>9460053
DeadMoth style, apparently.

[Anonymous No.9460150]

>get period at con
>mfw a 3-year-old sailor scout slips and faceplants in it

[Anonymous No.9460157]

>>9459936
Sure, if she knew what the requirements were going to be beforehand. Point is with an asshole boss you gotta play as close to the book as possible and not give them an opening to fuck you over.

[Anonymous No.9460170]

>>9459719
Damn, your mom has no chill.

[Anonymous No.9460172]

>>9460150
thathappened.jpg

[Anonymous No.9460230]

>go to gf's hotel room during con
>her roommates are changing costumes
>don't care if I come in
>mfw strange girls are willingly nips-out in front of me

[Anonymous No.9460369]

Job interview tomorrow, and I'm so nervous I could literally shit.

The future of my burando depends on this.

[Anonymous No.9460383]

I am just really sad that Angelic Pretty Misty Sky grey color way was a Tokyo exclusive.

>mtw I think what the secondhand sales will be like.

[Anonymous No.9460387]

>>9460369
Good luck anon! I hope you get the job!

[Anonymous No.9460431]

>>9458489
Just ride with gulls, I did at the last minute last year and it was chill.

[Anonymous No.9460490]

>decided to run across the street because it was raining
>already 10 minutes late to a meet up I had to pay upfront for
>slipped while turning to get onto the sidewalk
>skin both knees, wreck my otks, shoe scuffed, dress wet, hands and wristcuffs dirty
>text friend to grab my food and meet me at my car after the meet
>sits in car and cries until friend comes

I cried mainly out of pity for myself. I was really looking forward to the meet but I was FUBAR...at least I got my $40 worth of food

[Anonymous No.9460549]

Bought cute stuff from YahooJapan and
>weight 12,460g
>domestic shipping 3,600yen
>international shipping 7,800yen
>other fees 1088yen
Total 12,488yen = 107€ (111usd)

The items were like 10k yen total so even cheaper than the shipping itself and i'm buttmad since seamail is the cheapest shipping and i dont want to use it but i have to
Well EMS would have been like 200€ so i got no choice either way

[Anonymous No.9460566]

>>9460549
FJ have gone to shit with their new fee structure

[Anonymous No.9460608]

>>9458726
eat only potato for a week, no butter or oils or anything on the potato, just eat potato for a week. go from there

[Anonymous No.9460610]

I know it's dumb but literally the only people that unfriend me on facebook are cosplayers I'm actually more interested in interacting with/seeing content from then my non-cosplayer friends. I guess I keep mine way too normie but still a bummer cause they were the only people who seemed to not be posting about their kids or engagements nonstop.

[Anonymous No.9460622]

>>9459151
Congratulations, you're dating a woman.

[Anonymous No.9460627]

>pays almost 300 dollars for a flight to see a con friend in their home city
>we have a history of con dating at cons and cuddling at cons
>finds out the day that I get to their city that they have an SO
>que me now laying in a cold room while they cuddle their SO and are warm

Ugh I'm so upset if I would've known I wouldn't have dropped 300 dollars and bought them a ton of gifts for putting up with me

[Anonymous No.9460633]

>>9460622
This is not what i signed up for.
I thought having a gf means having a nice caring person that loves you and has sex with you

[Anonymous No.9460637]

>>9460633
>women
>love
>care

[Anonymous No.9460651]

>>9460637
robots /out/

[Anonymous No.9460670]

My classmate is the only cosplayer in my uni who does it on the regular so we do cosplay work and go to cons together. She's a nice person but she has a few attitudes I can't stand, starting from her habit of cosplaying characters without even knowing them/the series just for the sake of it and has recently been doing it with series she knows I enjoy just to "push" us to cosplay together. She watches one episode or two and the next minute she's buying a cosplay/wig/fabrics/wtv for any random character. This would honestly not bother me so much if she didn't then claims to "loooove the series so much". She's done it with my favorite series as well and it frustrates me quite a bit, I'm really passionate about it but can't even have a conversation with someone who claims to love it because she's not even 1/4 through the series.
I've tried to gently call her out on it multiple times but she always brushes it off or has other people commenting stuff like "because we all know we can't cosplay stuff we don't know, lol" in a sarcastic tone. I don't want to be rude since she's usually nice to me and I barely even have friends were I live.
Also, despite me being one salty bitch in general, she's the one who regularly judges special guests at cons and claims she does much better work but doesn't understand why they get invited/are popular and she isn't.

What would you do in this situation?

[Anonymous No.9460673]

>>9460670
If she's a nice person and otherwise not toxic stop being austistic and appreciate her companionship. Everyone has their own reason to cosplay. If you start something, you're going to be the bad guy.

[Anonymous No.9460675]

>>9460651
You're right, I was wrong. Women can and do love and care.

They love money and care about how much you make. As well as your social status, and any other things they can benefit from you with. And if you're lucky, you'll find a good woman who's really good at pretending to genuinely love you, and you won't ever lose your job or stuff and she won't abandon you for some other guy.

[Anonymous No.9460694]

>>9460670
What is your favorite series?

[Anonymous No.9460711]

>>9460670
You could try reaching out to other cosplayers of your favorite series at cons until you find someone who shares your passion level for the show. Then keep the friendship going online until the next con. No need to confront the classmate when she's not belittling you or gossiping behind your back. This sounds a little like a shoujo story where a brash oafish person tries to befriend the quiet mousey one through clumsy but well intentioned overtures. Well, apart from the bit where she thinks she's better than the guest judges but you haven't really said if she's good at making cosplay or not so maybe she could be justified in that?

[Anonymous No.9460722]

>>9460711
Nayrt but did you miss the
>she's buying a cosplay/wig/fabrics/wtv
part? I doubt she makes anything.

[Anonymous No.9460742]

>>9460722
What are fabrics used for then

[Anonymous No.9460745]

>>9460742
You wanna fight bitch?

[Anonymous No.9460752]

>>9460745
>>9460742
>>9460722
Hey now, let's not break any nails over some rando who may or may not be buying their cosplay.

[Anonymous No.9460755]

>birthday coming soon
>already bought a dress for myself
>I want a meet with my lolita friends I haven't seen in ages
>Meet in a cute caffe, good food, chat about fun stuff
>I'm broke af
>Will probably end up laying in bed in new dress sipping tea all night long

[Anonymous No.9460758]

>>9460752
why are you posting JAV idols?

[Anonymous No.9460777]

>>9460150
Wtf, lol. I would have laughed.

[Anonymous No.9460798]

>>9460777
lmao, lets post this on fb haha

[Anonymous No.9460800]

> Lost contact with childhood friend after high school
> 10 years later, hear she got kicked out of her parents' house
> Get directed to gofundme and discover her tumblr
> Find out she hasn't grown out of her teenage weeb phase
> She fights people because "Naruto will always belong with Sasuke" and "the last bit of the manga isn't real because he married Hinata"
> Her girlfriend is one of those "fictionkin witches" that cast emoji spells
> "I'm going to change my name to (insert mall goth name here) to spite my parents!"
> Selfie of her eating katsudon with #yurionice tag (with nothing yuri on ice related)
> Selfie of her downing those gigantic Pixy Sticks with a caption of how she's a bad diabetic
> Quietly donate $10 and try to stifle any urges to get back in contact with her

[Anonymous No.9460802]

>>9460777
Even assuming that this nonsense is real, WHY would you laugh at a baby falling face-first into pussy blood? What ails you?

[Anonymous No.9460803]

>>9460802
Because women are wicked

[Anonymous No.9460831]

>>9460610
I keep a lot of my facebook cut down to people I'm interested in expanding friendships with and some family.

I just removed somebody after calling him out for being an MLM diet shake shill spouting homeopathic garbage. The kind that shares how changing your diet will shrink brain tumors and cure chronic migraines.

>mfw he told me to go away and quit raining on his parade. So I defriended him.

[Anonymous No.9460837]

I'm like a serious stress-head anxiety-driven spaz so this may sound stupid but I don't care.
I just got some of the best advice from a friend, I haven't been this happy and stress free all year!

I'm feeling really good, gulls. I'm gonna wear my first Lolita coord tomorrow after building up my wardrobe for months. I'm so happy and I'm not giving myself any more excuses not to wear it. I deserve to be myself and enjoy being myself! I'm not gonna shy away from happiness anymore!

[Anonymous No.9460843]

>finally got a cosplay gf a year ago
>we go to several mid level cons together
>have lots of fun
>things are going well
>last weekend decide to pay her a surprise visit at her dorm
>walk in on her blowing some jackass from college
I had no idea a heartbreak could hurt this much

[Anonymous No.9460859]

>>9460673
I do appreciate her company but I'm allowed to find some attitudes uncalled for or stupid. I mean, I know everyone has their own reason to cosplay and I did say it wouldn't bother me much if she didn't go on about how much she loves the series when she barely knows a thing about it. I don't intend to start anything because I'm not a dick to friends, I was just open to advice on the situation. I'll most likely not say anything else to her about this, it's just a bit annoying to get into something and have her pretend she's super into it when barely knowing anything about it. It's not even a one-time thing, she does it repeatedly. Thank you for the input tho.

>>9460694
Just sports animu shit, anon

>>9460711
I do so, I try to befriend any fan of the series that I meet at cons, I just live far from all of them and can see them one or two times a year. You do have a point, she isn't talking crap about me (as far as I know) so I will most likely not confront her about it.
She's decent at cosplay? She's decent with sewing but pretty lacking in other areas. She's not a bad cosplayer but nowhere near "cosplay guest" level. It's just the attitude in itself that throws me off a bit.

>>9460722
>>9460742
>>9460752
She buys some and makes others. I gotta give her kudos for at least attempting to alter some of her bought stuff.

[Anonymous No.9460861]

>>9460859
Forgot to mention that most of the series she jumps into without knowing are widely popular/flavour of the month stuff.

[Anonymous No.9460868]

>need money
>live in a huge city
>apply for internships that relate to my major
>have been doing this for 6 months
>no replies
>can't buy burando, can't buy cosplay, can't do anything

When will my suffering end?

[Anonymous No.9460870]

>>9460868
What is your major?

Also if you research the best way to off yourself should you see a shrink?

[Anonymous No.9460877]

>>9460870
I'm a business communications major.

If you're looking into how to off yourself you should probably seek therapy. I can relate as I've been in and out of therapy for years. Currently on anti-depressants but they seemed to have stopped working.

[Anonymous No.9460880]

Anxious about the kawaii live blood bath later today. Also anxious about having enough time to get my badge and ticket that day. I just want to see my cinderella girls.

[Anonymous No.9460885]

>>9460868
>business major

If you still cant get a job after a year or more, I'd go back and study anything medical related if I were you. Even coming out of a some literal who community college would land you a job easy since there's no shortage of jobs for it and it's fast money

[Anonymous No.9460888]

>>9460675
But you won't find a woman like that <3

[Anonymous No.9460893]

>>9460877
>business comm
If you didn't make connections while you were still in school you're fucked. Go with what the other anon said and go into the medical field, become an RN. It's hard work but you can get a degree in two years and get hired at hospitals with a starting rate close to 20 per hr.

[Anonymous No.9460895]

>>9460675
Jesus anon it's your fault for always trying to date Stacey
Anywho if you're that jaded you're actually much better off lsucking penis

[Anonymous No.9460901]

>>9460895
t. failed stacey

[Anonymous No.9460907]

>>9460901
I have a dick but thanks anyway

[Anonymous No.9460913]

>>9460907
Is that why you failed?

[Anonymous No.9460916]

>>9460913
Yeah but you can still suck my cock anon

[Anonymous No.9460918]

Still no gf

[Anonymous No.9460920]

>>9460918
but would you settle for a gf (male)?

[Anonymous No.9460921]

>>9460920
depends how feminine they were

[Anonymous No.9460938]

>>9460920
Wouldn't that be a 'bf'?

[Anonymous No.9460946]

>>9460490
Should have gone to the bathroom, rinsed off the dirt so it wouldn't stain, dried it a bit, waited for the rest to dry, explained it and laughed it off.

[Anonymous No.9460951]

hey hey you you i don't like ur bf

no way no way i think you need a new one

hey hey you you i can be ur bf

[Anonymous No.9460956]

>>9460938
no it's a gf (male)

[Anonymous No.9460960]

>be me
>be stressed out and talk to family member about life/romance/relationships/careers
>oh femanon you should be more open to dating an older man with money
>sex stops at 40 and you should get a man who takes care of you financially
>marrying for love isnt financially smart
>if you wanna attract a man with money you shouldnt wear lolita its childish and scares men off
>get a man who just wants to shower you with gifts just for your time
>i wish i would have followed this advice when i was your age
>give up on attaining things i dont think you can/should have
>stop liking evil things and dark colors
>everything not jesus/religious and bright white/pastel colors is evil
>do what i think is best
It all goes downhill from here.

When i first told her about lolita she was supportive. I show her brand she is supportive and loves the quality/feminine/modest vibe of lolita. Fuck if she wants me to change my wardrobe to attract men with money essentially (imo) being an escort or gold digger why did she support me buying expensive burando? Now because i like dark colors/black clothes im evil. Im not even an angsty teen im in my mid 20s and im just down on my luck right now because of a career change/recent break up and im into sweet and classic styles.

[Anonymous No.9460964]

>>9460956
What's the difference?

[Anonymous No.9460970]

>>9460885
nayrt but
>degree in biomedical sciences with focus on cancer therapeutics
>been applying for lab/research jobs for 6+ months
>either "you're not experienced enough" or "you're overqualified"
I worry that even if I went and got a nursing degree or whatever, the "overqualified" moniker will follow me to my grave. Maybe I should volunteer at a research laboratory? Is that a thing people do?
>tfw no money for burando

[Anonymous No.9460980]

>>9460960
So this is the power of baby boomers
Its not like she can stop you from buying burando anon and I honestly disagree with everything she said. Sounds like she wants you to have the typical sad, unfulfilled adult life

>marrying for love isn't financially smart
anybody who has followed this advice have it so much worse emotionally and financially than the couples who marry out of genuine love for each other

[Anonymous No.9460984]

>>9460960
>>marrying for love isnt financially smart
If you're a woman and you don't already believe this then I respect you as a person, because in my experience most women believe this by the time they're in their 20s.

Trying to date as man sometimes feels like you're applying for a job.

[Anonymous No.9460985]

>>9460960
Why are you giving her the time of day? she sounds loopy.

[Anonymous No.9460995]

>>9460970
This is sadly the case for so many people, medical field or not. This "overqualified" meme also exists because companies/hospitals outsource the "overqualified" workers from other countries because they're cheaper, so you have a little less opportunity than they do. This is especially true in the tech field

You may as well get the nursing degree or do the volunteering like you suggested. Better than reaching and breaking out of the "you're not experienced enough" category than staying stagnant

[Anonymous No.9461010]

>>9460995
God yeah, I noticed during my internships that certain labs were full of Chinese people who worked like 80 hour weeks but only got paid for 36 because they're 'more ambitious' (=don't want to be sent back to China). Most of them spoke very little English and were all but impossible to communicate with. Easier to do constant overtime if you can't have a social life, I guess.

[Anonymous No.9461011]

>>9460387
Thank you.

I ended up being there almost two hours, so I guess they were interested? They passed me around between three different people.

I just gotta hope no one better shows up, and maybe send a thank-you email on Friday or Monday?

[Anonymous No.9461024]

>>9460985
Losing lots of family in the last 5 or so years is hard. I reconnected with her after a lot of family troubles. We lost her mom her dad (my grandma and grandpa) her brother (my uncle) and my mom stole almost everything after their deaths. We dont talk to my mom anymore for obvious reasons. So all i really have family wise is her and my dad and my step grandma whos going crazy from dementia or something and my dads taking care of her. My life feels like a copypasta. I may as well have super special animu powers and over 300 confirmed kills.
Feelsbadman.jpg

[Anonymous No.9461026]

>>9457462
Go to /fit/ and read the sticky if you haven't already.

[Anonymous No.9461067]

>>9459767
>knowing that you've farted in the dealer room at every con you've been to.

Seems like you've got quite the obsession, too

[Anonymous No.9461085]

>>9460868
>internships for money
kek, no one makes money as an intern anon. Most people make pennies per hour or nothing at all (school credit)
you do internships to gain experience and MAYBE get hired at that place after graduation if you're interning during senior year. make connections, go to mixers, get job experience anywhere so you can start building your resume

[Anonymous No.9461091]

>>9457941
Deal. East Coast best coast?

[Anonymous No.9461098]

>>9460755
Why not suggest going to the park and having a picnic there? Also happy birthday, anon!

[Anonymous No.9461100]

>>9459536
anon, calling yourself an alpha male ultimately negates that.

[Anonymous No.9461113]

>>9460675
>tfw try to date a girl
>offer her money, dresses (both lolita and non), car, etc
>offer improving her social status
>offer to help with schooling and her family and etc
>offer to move her to a nicer place and find her a good job that pays much more than she makes now.
>I even say that she can stay with me without loving me and it'd just be me that loves her.

>she still says no

I don't get it. I filled out your entire list.
Why won't she be my gf.

[Anonymous No.9461119]

I feel like I missed the golden age of weebery in London and sometimes it makes me feel really depressed. There used to be all these Japanese club nights, events, hangouts etc, now there's nothing. Feels p bad when you're trying to liven up the jfash scene.

[Anonymous No.9461121]

>>9461113
Sounds fishy to me if she said no to all of that. Are you in an LDR?

[Anonymous No.9461126]

>>9461091
>paying $2000 a month for a gf

anon...

[Anonymous No.9461143]

>>9461113
Maybe she doesn't see you that way? You offered her stuff, but it doesn't make her entitled to be with you. Did she accept any of it? Maybe she didn't like the idea of you "buying" her.

[Anonymous No.9461151]

>>9461113
You could literally shit gold and she would most likely say no, if she doesn't like you as a person.

[Anonymous No.9461155]

>>9460960
You should be my gf.
I like lolita

[Anonymous No.9461156]

>>9461113
Are you an ugly beta?

[Anonymous No.9461159]

Ah, i see all these guys begging for a g/f and i think "wow, how creepy/pathetic/weird" and then i think, at least they are trying, i've pretty much written myself off being able to date anyone again. which is probably more pathetic.

[Anonymous No.9461164]

>>9461113
Maybe she just didn't like you? Also I'd be pretty insulted if a guy blatantly insinuated I was a gold digger and tried to buy my love instead of just being kind and fun to spend time with. My bf currently can't afford to spend any real money on me but he's a sweet, fun guy so that's good enough. If some asshole offered to buy me away from him I'd tell that guy to gtfo.

[Anonymous No.9461175]

>>9461159
I feel that hard anon, I've classified myself as undateable-tier too.

[Anonymous No.9461177]

>>9461121
No.

>>9461151
She seems iffy about me at times (as in we have our disagreements on stuff) but doesn't seem to mind having me as a friend, at least. Enjoys talking to me and said that she finds me comforting at times.

>>9461143
This. She refused to accept any of it (even without strings attached) and said she didn't feel ready to be in a relationship (mentally).
Still heartbreaking. She's a lovely person and I need that sort in my life; too many others in my life are either sleazy or manipulative and I'm worried about it rubbing off on me.

[Anonymous No.9461187]

>>9460995
Losing your visa and having to go back to live with your parents when you've already built a life here is sure some motivation. Not STEM, but I know a postgrad in this situation and she's shitting herself about graduation.

[Anonymous No.9461188]

>>9461164
What if an attractive funny guy with a big dick and lots of cash tried to buy you away?

[Anonymous No.9461194]

>>9461188
I don't get why guys don't understand this. If we don't like you, that's it. You can have a big dick and lots of money, but unless we're genuinely attracted to your personality it really doesn't matter. Unless you just want a gold digger, then you're gud2go

[Anonymous No.9461226]

>>9461188
>Thinking size of dick matters much to women

[Anonymous No.9461231]

>>9461188
Big dick hurts.

[Anonymous No.9461290]

>>9461231
t. Stacey

[Anonymous No.9461308]

>>9461194
These guys are like autistic children who think that if they do X and Y then the woman HAS to do Z, because they don't understand that women are people with thoughts of their own. We're not vending machines, buddy. It doesn't matter how many coins you put in, nobody is obligated to love you in return.

[Anonymous No.9461314]

>>9461226
I feel like the guys who brag about their dick size are the same guys who only do missionary under the covers with the lights off lmao

[Anonymous No.9461336]

>>9461290
Stacey cant feel dicks dumbass

[Anonymous No.9461362]

>>9461308
I'm pretty sure it's just robot trolling

[Anonymous No.9461381]

>>9461336
How does that work?

[Anonymous No.9461396]

Spending another evening mindlessly scrolling cgl because my job leaves me too tired to do anything, and even though I love it, it's also making me leave my academic dreams behind.

Instead of working on my PhD I'm planning coords for meets later in the year because it's the only thing I feel like doing in my 'free time'

[Anonymous No.9461456]

>>9460843
A jackass? Looks like she's into some kinky stuff.

[Anonymous No.9461463]

My one friend flaked out on our room because she jumped ship for a rando group staying at the con's hotel. That's okay, whatever, but not only is she still asking "can I leave my stuff in your room/hang out with you guys, I'll just be at my room," but she's also trying to get other people in my room to jump ship as well (tagging them in posts, telling other people if she can bring a friend and then asking people in the room chat if they want to join). I get it, staying at the con hotel is better, especially for this one, but why are you trying to put me in a shitty position in the process?

[Anonymous No.9461538]

>be me
>be poor
>see a full alice and the pirates coord on LM for $450
>seller agrees to payment plan for $50 a week
>make last payment last Friday
>seller sent it in the mail on saturday
>it was meant to arrive today
>check status updates between my 2 jobs
>"undeliverable" due to incomplete address
>panic

Ive already called the post office but my first job gets out after all the people who could help have already gone home.
They told me to call in the morning. Which i will 1st thing at 6am to see if I can pick it up.
My second job is done at 10pm. Good bye sleep.
I already messaged the seller incase its already en route to be returned.
Im so freaked out right now.

[Anonymous No.9461544]

>>9461381
I think they mean a Stacey is so lose it's like a hotdog down a tunnel.