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Feels thread Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:00:35 2015 No.8773674 [Reply] [Original]

New feels thread the other one is autosagging.

>tfw i just miss Princess Skye and Milky Fawn being in lolita
>Also i miss a french lolita no one really know about she inspired me a lot to get into the fashion
>now she's into super normalfag fashion
I just want to have a model...

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:03:01 2015 No.8773679

>>8773674
Holy shit are you me, I was literally just reminiscing about The Princess Portal. I really liked her unconventional (but typical of the time maybe?) coords, like bustier and skirt with no blouse or cardi, it was still polished and neat somehow.
God I miss it so much. I tried to start a blog on a similar tone but I couldn't keep it going.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:06:16 2015 No.8773683 My best friend and cosplay buddy just dropped the bomb that she's moving out of the country. I'm completely devastated. I have a few months until she leaves, but, I just can't get over the fact that I may never see her in person again

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:23:14 2015 No.8773713

My friend fell out of a cosplay plan with me ~5 years ago. I had already bought my fabric and made the costume anyways and wore it for 1 con. Another cosplayer has expressed interest in cosplaying the character that my friend never did in the end with me since I still have the costume. Is it okay to cosplay with the new friend? The old friend will be bitter to some degree I feel but she has never expressed interest in ever going through with the cosplay after she told me she wasn't going to do it 5 years ago. I really want to wear this cosplay again since it was one of my first ones that I completed all by myself so I'm going to alter it and fix it up before wearing it again. I really liked the costume too but nobody really recognized me without my other half at the con so it was a little disappointing.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:27:23 2015 No.8773723

>>8773679
Aw i was searching for it in the wayback machine. I miss the simplicity of the old lolita days. I'm keeping a blog myself but...

>>8773683
Oh gosh...that must hurt. I'm sure you'll stay in contact and even if you're not...well that's gonna seem harsh but people come and go, it's life, you will encounter so many more people.
But seriously, my best friends are from the country besides mine and that doesn't stop us. We see each other like once a year so it's kinda hard but even then, it's worth it and they're the best friends i ever had.

>>8773713
Off course it is. She may feel bitter but , she never expressed any interest for it so it's her problem not yours. Do your best anon. You'll have a good time and finally wear it and be recognized.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:40:25 2015 No.8773745

I'm getting really insecure about my hair in Lolita. It's my natural color, it's healthy, but I've started feeling like shit when looking back on my photos and seeing my hair next to other people who are wearing wigs and seeing tiny bits of frizz sticking out or if my bangs aren't perfectly straight and smooth. It makes me feel messy.
I weaned myself off depending on wigs for about two years and started to like my hair more, but now I feel awful again.

I guess there's no real fix to this only to deal with it or get a wig, but I was wondering if anyone else has gone through something similar?

Funk Brothers !!sEQILr75Rya Sat Dec 19 18:42:54 2015 No.8773751
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>graduated with a masters a while back
>haven't been happy lately
>not searching for employment atm
>driving around to get me out of the house
>writing down notes concerning my future
>happy my lolita friends are enjoying their lives
>a number of them went to Orlando a few weeks ago
>hope to be with them again in the future
>pondering some changes
>bought some skincare products at Sephora
>made a reservation for HL JSK (dream dress)
>found another dream dress in sales
>bought that too
>getting a Gudetama plushie for Christmas
>asked for some more shojo manga for Christmas
>out of Mallomars

I need some more chili.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 19:24:23 2015 No.8773800

>be me, a cosplayer
>never had much interest in getting into lolita even though i always thought it was kind of cute
>start coming on here regularly
>fall in love with a certain lolita skirt
>been dreaming about it for the past several days
>seriously considering buying it even though i'm still not entirely interested in "getting into the fashion"
>working very few hours right now, job on break for holidays, short on money so it'd be horrible to get sucked into ANOTHER expensive hobby i already spend too much on cosplay
>what is life

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 19:34:08 2015 No.8773805 >>8773800 If you only like the skirt, buy only the skirt. You don't have to wear it as lolita and get sucked into the fashion if you just like that one thing.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 19:34:52 2015 No.8773806
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>has experience a fair share of trauma and going through therapy to deal with it
>literally everyone I know is describing me as "broken"
>wtf I'm not an item
>you're making me sound and feel troublesome
>can't even tell them off because they mean well and I got better things to do than deal with possible drama over such a stupid thing

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 19:55:00 2015 No.8773823

>>8773805
yeah that's what i was thinking but i was also like "will actual lolitas judge me if i do that...."

except honestly it doesn't look that lolita on its own and also fuck what other people think, i'll get it after the holidays when i have a little more money. thanks anon!!

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 19:57:22 2015 No.8773824 >>8773823 Lolitas are fine with it as long as you don't call your outfit straight out lolita.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 19:58:46 2015 No.8773825 >>8773824 This. In general, lolitas don't give a shit about wearing lolita items as normal/non-lolita clothing. Unless you're a celebrity, then you'll get shredded. lol

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:02:45 2015 No.8773831

I kind of miss drama threads on /cgl/. Don't get me wrong, I know the farm exists but I'd rather discuss actual drama then having to sit through 500 replies of people going 'lol get a nosejob" and how 'ugly' everyone is. I guess that's just because I never really cared about discussing someone's looks? So the farm is kinda boring to me most of the time.

Now everything just gets deleted because of vendetta even if it's only a few posts about a person.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:05:44 2015 No.8773833 >>8773831 I actually think it's more unhealthy to have the threads banned. It just ends up with people venting their anger/jelly/whatever in different ways, you can't even call someone out on shitty stuff anymore. It's so stupid.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:17:05 2015 No.8773844

>>8773833
Pretty much, there's some really shitty people within the lolita and cosplay communities that should be avoided. But you can't talk about them without being banned.

If it's just petty drama then fine, delete it, but when it's calling out actual dangerous or just really bad behavior, then I think we should be allowed to discuss it.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:17:38 2015 No.8773845 >>8773825 That's not true at all though, especially if it's a main piece.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:19:19 2015 No.8773850
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>>8773831
>>8773833
ikr.
The farm is a cringefest most of the girls there are so insecure they need to shred every cow's physical appearance to pieces "lol she's so ugly and fat and her nose is so big and her eyebrows are terrible geez she's sooo haggard and old looking" also lots of ana chans calling everyone a fatty. It's painful and not fun anymore. I miss the drama here because it was simpler, i didn't like when half of the threads were that but i miss it. PT threads,kooter threads,occasional talking about Venus, and the tripfags like Charms and stuff,...It was such a golden age now everything is boring.
Maybe Hiro-sama/New moot will agree for us to have some drama back? Moot didn't want to but the new one maybe...? But he probably doesn't give a damn about us so.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:25:05 2015 No.8773857

>>8773850
>also lots of ana chans calling everyone a fatty.
Oh this so much, I'm average close to underweight but I usually don't care what strangers on the net think about my body type.
But somehow these girls manage to get under my skin and make me hate myself, when it's not even about ME or anyone with similar body shape or weight. I cringe every time someone mentions the farm nowadays because of these people's unhealthy obsession with how other people look

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:32:21 2015 No.8773867

>>8773850
>>8773857

Pretty much agreed with everything. I'm fat myself and generally don't care about "lol she's fat" but some of the girls they call fat simply aren't. Not to mention the obsession when a girl gains a few pounds, as if she's suddenly obese. I think the fact that HAES thread is probably the most active one around is kinda telling in this case.

So many of these have actual things to talk about yet it always ends up with "Lol her face is so ugly lmao" and when someone disagrees they'll get 10 replies telling them that they're a newfag and to fuck off.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:36:15 2015 No.8773870

>>8773857
I'm a totally normal weight and slim by european standards (because i live there) but nooo if i disagree with them i'm a "hambeast amerifat fatty who's butthurt". I swear i'm gonna shove a whole jar of mayonnaise down their throat if i hear it or any thread derailing nonsense about weight one more time. Lately i've felt bad about myself and i realized "Anon are you fucking retarded, because some little bitches on the internet are too insecure you're going to feel bad about yourself? Get a hold of yourself you're not a weak ass bitch like them, they have a problem in their heads, you're fine." and i felt better.
Really they are OBSESSED with looks, and with cows that don't produce any more milk, like Kota, i used to love her she was my fave cow but it's time to let go, guys.
I swear some of them are just as bad as the cows or on a similar level. It's like they NEED drama or they'll die because their life is so sad and boring. Get a hobby or something because that's just sad.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:52:57 2015 No.8773899 >>8773845 If you're not a lolita, then why would you care?

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:57:52 2015 No.8773904 >>8773899 What? Please read, you said lolitas don't care, a lot of them do. Including myself unless it's just a bag or socks or something small.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:59:00 2015 No.8773905 I'll be inheriting about 20k soon and I'm already thinking of all the dresses and things I want to buy. But I don't want to spend more than 2k, the rest I need to save. This will be hard.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:04:51 2015 No.8773913 >>8773904 >you said lolitas don't care First time posting in this thread, so nope, different anon. I was saying that if you yourself aren't a lolita, why would you care if lolitas are judging you? Please read.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:09:01 2015 No.8773916

>>8773913
You really are a special kind of stupid. I never said I wasn't a lolita and I was not the person concerned about being judged. That was my first post in this thread also. Do you think that all the posts are made by 2 people? Anyone can join in at anytime. Obviously if I respond saying that the claim that no one cares if you wear lolita items in a non-lolita claim was false, I am one of those people aka a lolita who thinks otherwise. Wow. I never fail to be amazed by the stupidity of some people here, a 5 year old could understand it straight away as it was a very clear and simple response.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:13:49 2015 No.8773923

>>8773913
>you yourself
I meant the cosplayer, woops.

>>8773916
Yes, I realize you were saying lolitas care, but I was still asking why the cosplayer would care if lolitas were being bitchy because she was wearing their precious burando. So, why would a cosplayer care if a lolita is being salty over her wearing a lolita dress in a non-lolita way?

I still never said lolitas don't care, you were trying to put words in my mouth.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:15:06 2015 No.8773924 >>8773923 If you read the thread, you would have seen that the cosplayer actually did care. Reading is power.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:16:16 2015 No.8773926 >>8773923 They never said you said lolitas don't care, they said that they were a lolita who cared. I think it might be a good idea to go outside.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:17:08 2015 No.8773928 >>8773924 So basically she's a pansy with no back-bone. Okay then.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:18:49 2015 No.8773931 >>8773926 > you said lolitas don't care, a lot of them do She said right there that I said lolitas don't care. Just sayin'.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:20:31 2015 No.8773933

>>8773905
>inheriting 20k
>don't want to spend more than 2k
>want to save

You need to go talk to your financial planner. Inheriting some money is life changing experience that you need assistance. Don't have one? Go talk to someone at Edward Jones, Charles Schwab, etc. that have CFP experience. Don't get scammed.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:21:16 2015 No.8773934 >>8773931 That's because you were acting like you were the person who said it originally and making no sense.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:23:59 2015 No.8773939 >>8773934 Still putting words in my mouth.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:34:39 2015 No.8773953 I can't believe there is a "he said she said" situation going on in here

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:43:27 2015 No.8773963

>>8773850
Does he have an email like moot did? Someone should contact him, even maybe through his social media, and say that we have this rule but other boards don't. Like there's constant "celeb" threads on /v/ where they just talk negatively about people but /cgl/ can't even start any discussion or warn people about certain things. Obviously a janitor can delete a thread if people are wanting to attack others for no reason.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:07:18 2015 No.8773986

>>8773953
wow yeah this conversation turned into a mess.

cosplayer op here, i just wanted to clarify: i do slightly care if actual lolitas dislike non-lolitas wearing lolita pieces because i know i shouldn't but i do kind of care what people think about me? and i don't really want to get shittalked just for wearing a cute skirt

but at the same time i don't care because

it's just a cute skirt.

hence the inner conflict

can i ask lolita anon who says they do care, why? what bothers you about it?

and it's not that it's ~burando~ because t b h the skirt is bodyline and i know enough about lolita to know bodyline is generally looked down upon

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:09:06 2015 No.8773989
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>Finally, after years, go to a psychiatrist
>Get diagnostiqued diverse shit, among them medium-severe depression and have 2 suicidal tries
So I guess it should have a little priority
>Get assigned a good psychology, for individual and group therapy.
>Dated the first session in 3 months
>waiting, get worse everyday
>while, psychiatrist prescribe me even stronger anti-depressives
which I'm not taking, and that's entyrely my fault.
>So past Monday was, finally, after 3 infinite months, the day for my first session.
>Go to the session
>ring the doorbell
>no answer
>see if I've mistaken the address
>nope
>ring the doorbell
>ring the doorbell
>ring the doorbell
nothing happens
>So I went home, I feel bad, stupidly bad, worse. Trash trash trash
>I contected her consult next day, by phone.
>pops the same telephone voice as ever. No one takes the phone.
>On Friday, someone called me.
>Was psychologist assistant, told me the psychologist was on her vacation, the office is closed, and she will be back on 10-January. That piece of shit apologies for not calling me, she called the other patients but forgot about me, "oh, so sorry !". And then she told me I can call on January 10 for request for a session.
>And I'll have to wait another 3 months.

I just feel bad.
Go outside house, calling by phone, go to a doctor and talk to anything is so damn hard. I know how it sounds.
I'll go to my medical insurance office to request another psychologist; I can't wait a single day more.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:11:10 2015 No.8773991 >>8773939 Still not reading

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:26:26 2015 No.8774006

>>8773989
I have been through that anon...please keep hope it can get better. After 5 years of progressive suffering i am finally ok. It's the first christmas i will enjoy since 5 damn years i want to cry of happiness thinking about it.
Funny thing is,a year ago, i was eating chinese fortune cookies with a friend and i got "a great sorrow will disappear".

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:33:22 2015 No.8774010 >>8773991 no, no, words were definitely put into my mouth.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:39:55 2015 No.8774017

>>8773745
Personally I think lolita looks best with a wig no matter what. A good wig can bring a whole coord to the next level. You'll look much more polished.

But that isn't any reason to feel down on your own hair. I think my eyes are pretty even when I don't wear shadow or mascara, but if I want a certain look on a certain day I don't hesitate to apply some. If your hair is healthy then I'm sure you're adorable in normal clothes. Lolita just calls for an extra oomph, after all its not about looking natural.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:57:02 2015 No.8774036 >desperately want to be a full-time lifestyle lolita >work at a place that has a uniform >too depressed/chronically tired to make myself dress up on days I'm not working because I won't be going anywhere but the post office I kind if hate myself

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:18:29 2015 No.8774053

>>8773745
Wigs make lolita look like a costume. Nothing says costume like a wig. Small imperfections is what makes something look like real clothes. A fly away hair here or there, a tiny scuff on your shoe, are the kind of things that make it look like these are your real clothes and not a costume.

While my hair is not as "perfect" as wigs, in my opinion I most definitely look better. Wig girls look costume clad, I can't take it seriously.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:24:57 2015 No.8774063 >>8774017 >Lolita just calls for an extra oomph, after all its not about looking natural. You're obviously very new.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:27:32 2015 No.8774064 >>8774036 Are you me? Try simple casual outfits at first. You will get better anon. Believe me. Pls stay strong there.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:37:42 2015 No.8774075 >>8773989 I'm tired of whiny bitches like you >muh depression! Who the hell cares? Go cut yourself

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:45:47 2015 No.8774084 >>8774075 Shut up

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:48:14 2015 No.8774086 >>8774036 Cutsew dresses are a godsend anon. They're so comfy, but still cute. Get yourself a few so you can just throw them on with some otks, put your hair in pigtails or a bun with a bow and a pair of cute slippers. Instant kawaii!

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 00:07:38 2015 No.8774099
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>>8774036
Look in to old school and casual.
In all honesty lolita doesn't take any more effort than wearing anything else. Unless you're an absolute slob outside of the fashion or you want to wear full Ott to the post office.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 00:11:36 2015 No.8774100 >>8774075 fuck off

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 00:13:09 2015 No.8774101 >>8774075 I get that no one likes whining, but honestly, your post sounds way whinier. Have some compassion. Sounds like she's going through some reasonable but difficult crap.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 00:34:46 2015 No.8774113

>>8773989
that's so horrible anon, I'm sure you will find a better therapist that will see you sooner

I had my first time at a shrink/psychiatrist place this year and I had to wait 8 weeks for it, only to be told if I want to be prescribed medicine I have to wait another 8 weeks, but I'm having issues with my visa so they're refusing to even put me on the waiting list until my visa is fixed

and the "therapy" was completely useless, she gave no advice or any input, just told me in the final appointment that I have anxiety, dysphoria and depression (that's what I told her in the first appointment.....), nothing about how to deal with it. Her and my GP's take on depression were "try to be more active, go outside more, wake up earlier". Real helpful.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 01:35:11 2015 No.8774177

>>8773933
Oh God no, please be careful with CFPs and investment firms. Remember, they make their money off selling you securities, not you making money off those securities. $20K isn't really a lot of money overall. Just do a little research on your own for a nice diversified portfolio of low-cost index funds like from Vanguard, or buy a few well-managed ETFs through a brokerage account.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 02:13:26 2015 No.8774214

>>8773986
>i know enough about lolita to know bodyline is generally looked down upon
I don't think you know lolita as well as you think. See the good Bodyline coords thread: >>8772478
The general consensus is that your clothes should be good quality in terms of design and materials, coordinated well, and fit you properly. The label doesn't matter as long as you look good, basically.
As for whether lolitas care about you wearing one skirt casually: Stop caring about what strangers on the internet do or don't think about you and wear what you like. Do what makes you happy.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 02:15:33 2015 No.8774218 >>8774177 Or put $5-10k in a money market account, don't touch it and come back in 5 years.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 02:49:20 2015 No.8774250

>>8774214
The reason why there are "Good Bodyline Coord: threads like that is because Bodyline are known for having shitty items. You don't see "Good Angelic Pretty Coord" threads. BL will forever be shady and taboo in lots of people's eyes, especially those lolitas like me who were around when BL was as hated as Milanoo due to the sex shop thing, shitty quality and knock off designs. All of which apply today, although to a lesser degree.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 03:01:02 2015 No.8774257

>>8774250
I know, and that thread proves my point: The label doesn't matter as long as you look good. It doesn't mean that Bodyline doesn't have shoddy quality sometimes, shoddy practices, and a shoddy reputation; but it still goes to show that it can be worn well.
It's not so relevant to the anon who wants to wear some specific Bodyline skirt casually but I wanted to point it out all the same.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 03:25:11 2015 No.8774266

>>8774053
>Wigs make lolita look like a costume
The times they are a changing. I just saw this in the simple coord thread, too. Are you that same anon, or is this gonna be the new consensus around here? It goes pretty well with the love of classic around here, that's for sure.

I'm super sad that I apparently missed the days of pastel dresses and big unnatural wigs. I'm gonna dress sweet anyway, but, it's always a bummer when once again I like the thing no one else likes.

Enjoy your oxfords and bob haircuts.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 03:38:19 2015 No.8774275

>Not quite rich, but also definitely not a poor fag
>Buying computer parts
>Picked a horrible time to buy computer parts during holidays but black Friday deals were good
>Heat bill was hella high this month cause winter
>Was going to buy dream dress in January
>Boyfriends birthday is in January
>Had to buy a random plane ticket for his bday trip back home
>So broke right now
>Gonna still be broke in January

GOD FUCKING DAMMIT. will shit stop coming up that takes all of my spending money. I can't buy lolita til February.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 03:42:28 2015 No.8774277

>>8774266
You seem oddly salty about this, anon. You're allowed to wear and enjoy whatever you like, regardless as to it's popularity.

Protip: This has always been the general consensus outside of said 'big poofy OTT sweet' period, which was surprisingly short-lived for a lolita trend.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 03:52:02 2015 No.8774288 File: 148 KB, 433x510, 1333087366126.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >about to leave full time work to go back to school >less time to work and higher expenses >guess I won't be buying lolita for a while

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 04:35:30 2015 No.8774341

>>8774277
This is being discussed in the other thread as well, but I'm referring to how most gulls (that I've seen anyway) will almost always recommend a wig when they see bad or mediocre natural hair.

I'm oddly salty because I've lurked this fashion for awhile, then dropped off only to come back full force, commit to lolita only to find a lot of people where I am the most do not share my interests. Seems to happen with other j-fashions as well.

It's quite the fight to keep threads alive here sometimes, if one gull doesn't like something, she shits up a thread until it's deleted.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 08:26:26 2015 No.8774468

I never understood people's obsession with MF and I especially don't now that she's been gone for a year. Her coords were nice, but nothing special and her room was probably the ugliest viral "lolita room" I've ever seen. Her personality in videos was pretty annoying and void of substance and she jumped ship on the fashion just because she didn't like efame, which makes it clear her motivation for lolita was more for other people. Yeah, she had a huge brand wardrobe, but if you actually look at her wardrobe post from when she had 50+, it's very much quantity over quality, even though it's brand. I feel like people like her so much because there's not a lot to choose from on YouTube.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 08:28:20 2015 No.8774471 >>8774053 Lolita looks like a costume to everyone outside the fashion anyway, though.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 09:11:08 2015 No.8774497
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> work super hard on sagulls santa
> just get my card in the mail, had been pumped for weeks
> tiny piece of paper with one sentence and not even my name
> can't even feel good because it seemed like my santa hated what I made

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 09:27:58 2015 No.8774507 >>8774497 I never participated in the Secret Santa, is there not etiquette established or something? Anytime offices or whatever do it, there's always established protocol.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 09:32:49 2015 No.8774510 >>8774266 You can make those big wigs look cute IMO. If you're doing OTT sweet, I think a big wig is perfectly fine! Personally I love wigs but only the thinner ones. But I think other people look really great in thicker, curly wigs.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 09:34:47 2015 No.8774513

>Making plans to finally move to the city out of the boonies
>Excited to be able to regularly go to meetups, plus expand my wardrobe since I can justify it if clothes get regular wear
>Realise I'll have very little disposable income so buying stuff is going to be hard
>Sad feels, tempted to hone my sewing skills since I have a nice sewing machine and basic bitch skills but have no idea where to start with patterns for newbies
>Freedom is bittersweet (and expensive)

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 10:04:38 2015 No.8774528 >>8773806 >dat game so comfy

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 10:49:57 2015 No.8774563 >>8774053 >Wigs make lolita look like a costume >implying I'm not actually trying to make it look like a costume Face it, you look like a weirdo no matter what you do so I'm just going to have fun with it and actually give them something to gawk at.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 10:51:44 2015 No.8774564 >>8774266 >is this gonna be the new consensus around here? >implying /cgl/ ever has consensus >implying it's not just a few anons repeating themselves until others get tired of it and protest

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 10:55:25 2015 No.8774569 >>8774497 i was not assigned anyone who was also assigned me, it seems. next paycheck i will be sending out thank-you cards to those who sent me gifts/cards. i hope maybe you will be one of those and my card will make you smile.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 11:08:21 2015 No.8774577

>>8773870
This. I lurked the farm a lot for a few months and I gotta say the posters are more cringeworthy than most of the cows. If you read the OT threads about mental health and feels, it's more than apparent that a lot of the people on there are batshit insane themselves and very miserable. I realized I was among that group and have been trying to improve my life and personality, it's really distressing to realize you fit all the stereotypes of a typical farmer. I just seriously hope more of them do before it's too late for me.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 11:09:26 2015 No.8774579 >>8774577 *too late for them

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 11:11:30 2015 No.8774584 >>8774017 Please research the fashion more.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 11:23:12 2015 No.8774590

Just got dumped, been super depressed want to hang out with Lolita squad to cheer myself up but they're all gone for the holidays.
My parents want to bring me to some fancy hotel Christmas brunch don't know if I should wear nice normie clothes or Lolita and if I wear Lolita will the shoes I order for my Christmas coord even get here on time? Seller hasn't given me any word of shipping them yet, they were supposed to be shipped by Friday. I've been so overwhelmed by life in general whenever someone talks to me in person I just start to cry. I spent last therapy session in her office accomplishing nothing, just sitting there crying. Today my parents are taking me out somewhere and it will be the first time I'll see sunlight since two days ago when he took me out and dumped me. Debating getting all dressed up to feel confident about myself or moping around and continuing to watch the office and throw some hobo clothes on last minute. Debating contacting seller of my shoes to see if they'll be here on time for Christmas but don't want to seem impatient or whiny.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 12:38:03 2015 No.8774682
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>>8774563
Not that anon but I feel the same way.
Wierdo =/= costume.
I'm down like a clown to look like a freak that's in fact the problem, that people would confuse my freakish look for a once in a while dress up game. I DONT wanna look like cosplayer, like someone pretending to be someone else/something they're not. I need it to be obvious that I am in fact someone with wierdo taste in fashion. idk it's hard to explain.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 12:48:43 2015 No.8774692

It's not an unusual situation that I always go back to lolita when something is wrong. A lot of other girls do. Lolita really helps to go through a lot of problems.
I'm having serious issues with my best friend. I know he's solving some mental puzzles inside his head and I'm doing the same thing. He stopped answering to me almost two months ago. I don't know am I missing him or not, but it feels wrong. He had never done this before and I'm worried so much. I had done this to him so it's like a retribution, I guess. I'm sounding like an egocentric bitch and this is who I am.
It makes me sad sometimes that only cats and frills will never leave me. Mostly it feels fine, but not now. Now I'm feeling like I've lost someone too special to just get over this. At least I have lolita - the love of my life.
Sorry if it's an unappropriate feel.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 13:48:59 2015 No.8774757

I have no interest in people. I don't care to have a social life. I dread social interaction I don't see the appeal. I always have more fun by myself, I love being alone sorrounded by the things I love with no one to say yay or nay on it. it makes me happy I can't explain it.

I belive I use lolita to drive a wedge between myself and others. I've worn alot of things in the past (goth, punk, other j fashions) but nothing does it like lolita. I like that people avoid me because I dress weird. No conversation goes past an explanation of my clothes (they tend to get away once they realize its my style and not a costume for some interesting event) and more importantly the amount of men who approach me is absolutely zero. I have no interest in dating, I very much hope to die with noone but a bunch of cats. But rejecting them leaves me feeling horrible I rather they wouldn't approach all together and nothing repels men from me the way lolita does (is it the shape if the dress?). I did hime-kaji for a while, it was so cute, girly and casual, but men approached me so I stopped. I really like larme but it'll probably result in the same thing.

I fear I might not be quite healthy.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 13:56:38 2015 No.8774766

I'm sorry for the off topic cgl related but I'm so furious and I don't know if I'm wrong.

>My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, we have a great relationship, next year we'll move together.
>Last night he told me that he decided to get his first tattoo.
>" Awesome! What you gonna get?! "
>" X stuff, so me and the boys have the same tattoo! "
> I get angry as fuck because he told me that he would NEVER get a tattoo with me because he thinks it's stupid to get tattoos with your partner. But he will get one with his friends.

I decided to shut the fuck up but man, that did make me angry.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 14:00:24 2015 No.8774772

>>8774766
I agree with your boyfriend. I'd get a matching tattoo with my friends, but I'd never get one with my significant other. Friends stick with you and if you've been with them for a long time you're more than likely to continue to be friends for a long time. Significant others are totally different, if you break up you're stuck with a tattoo that you'll hate for the rest of your life unless you dish out the insane cost of laser removal. This is a stupid thing to be furious over, honestly.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 14:02:58 2015 No.8774776 >>8774757 nobody cares

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 14:03:30 2015 No.8774778 >>8774692 >It makes me sad sometimes that only cats and frills will never leave me. I know this feel too well. Sorry you and your friend are going through terrible times, I hope things work out for the best for both of you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 14:05:46 2015 No.8774780 >>8774757 Momoko? Is that you?

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 14:12:10 2015 No.8774790 >>8774776 Its a feels thread you dumb fuck. Get out if you DONT wanna hear about other peoples lives.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 14:12:57 2015 No.8774791

>>8774766
I agree with >>8774772, also matching tattoos for SOs are rarely BSG tier and often pretty tacky. I understand feeling jealous bc he's doing something with his friends and not you but you were right to shut up about it. Not everything he does is going to be about you - if it was, he would be a crazy clingy guy and you probably wouldn't be together.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 14:52:15 2015 No.8774841

>>8774780
Oh no I'd hope not, that's quite insulting. Momoko is so awfully selfish!

>>8774776
Maybe I had too much back story and not enough bitching and whining? Let me try again:
>I like being alone and have no interest in dating.
>lolita repels people
>boo fucking hoo I can't wear other fashion interest as it doesn't repel people like lolita.
>waaa waaa I feel like a freak

Better? just about every other anon is adding too much back story to the feels, maybe I went over board on mine. My bad, writing is a hobby and I tend to get wordy

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 14:53:57 2015 No.8774845 >>8774841 >defending yourself against a troll just ignore it, engaging it makes you look worse

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 14:56:29 2015 No.8774849

>>8774757
These are feels similar to the ones I had as a teenager. Then I realized I could not live totally on my own because if I was too alienated, I would be the first to get fired from a job, passed over for promotion, etc. Even without being hostile, simply being neutral made people suspicious of me in a way that negatively impacted my ability to support myself.

I wish I didn't have to sacrifice who I am to get by in the world.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 15:03:27 2015 No.8774858

>>8774757
You sound like Momoko, maybe less selfish but reading this really made me think of Momoko.
>dying with no one but a bunch of cats
Hell yeah
>I love being alone surrounded by the things i love
Hell yeah x2

Except i'm scared of being truly alone and needs someone. i have that someone. We're partner in crime. I wear lolita, she wear well...more flashy and tacky and androgynous things but i'm fine. Once i got her to wear lolita it was funny. She was cute though.
We have feelings for each other but it's hidden because we are both selfish beings, i stole from my parents to have brand myself and don't really regret it, like i feel bad, but the brand truly makes me happy so i don't care that much in the end.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 15:09:50 2015 No.8774866

>>8774849
Wierdly enough *I* remember thinking this way as a teenager lol
but I'm 27 now and realize that nobody is 100% themselves at work. Specially if you're talking about office work (which it looks like you are?) Just because I like being alone doesn't mean I'm rude, "neutral" or incompetent at my job. I've honestly never had this negatively impact me, what I do outside of work and whether or not I have a social life is a none issue. But then again I'm a pharmacist, and before that I was a maid. it might be different in other jobs I suppose?

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 15:18:17 2015 No.8774878

>>8774849
Dude just act normal. I'm an introvert too and I rather be alone and yeah I rather people wouldn't talk to me but when they do just act normal. don't be rude or crass and there's no reason a lack of social life should negatively impact your ability to support yourself. Not being an asshole at work is a "sacrifice" nearly everyone makes.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 15:28:17 2015 No.8774890

>>8774866
>>8774878
For me, I would be polite and easygoing, just withdrawn. Being quiet and unusual drew suspicion and, on two different occasions, outright malice.

People misinterpret quietness for hiding something, and a lack of overt enthusiasm for being judgmental. I would get so many negative attributes projected onto me it drove me crazy.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 15:35:05 2015 No.8774899

My best friend of 10 years kinda let me know she didn't want to be friends anymore. I'm devasted but what's really killing me is I'm slowly getting to the point where I have zero friends and only frilly dresses to keep me company. I have like two friends I see once in a while and I'm too scared to go to a comm meet right now because of stupid mental illnesses.

Sorry for being a whiny baby.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 16:05:49 2015 No.8774933 >>8774778 You are so kind, thank you. Best wishes for you too.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 16:05:53 2015 No.8774934

>>8774890
Same. Two people in my class are outright rude to me because I'm 'not normal'. I'm perfectly normal and friendly, I'm just a teetotaller and a bit awkward, so people think I'm some sort of weirdo and don't invite me to parties, and some people see it as an excuse to act bitchy.

I've never said a bad thing about anyone and I've always been friendly when talked to, but there's one cunt in particular who acts like I massacred his entire clan so he's out for blood.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 16:11:36 2015 No.8774945 >>8774899 If you don't mind me asking, why did she suddenly not want to be friends? That's really odd if you guys were bffs for so long.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 16:17:07 2015 No.8774950
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>Have this weird thing with caffeine, need to be careful with certain types of soda, coffee, etc.
>Family party, only non alcoholic drink is coke, not even water
>Drink Coke, know I will regret it in the morning but I'm thirsty
>Someone puts out this buffalo chicken dip thing. I eat it because its delicious, know I will also regret it in the morning.
>Spend entire morning pooping and thirsty

It's like I'm pushing sandpaper out of my asshole at this point.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 16:19:21 2015 No.8774952 >>8774945 Honestly I'm still very surprised myself. She just out of the blue said she wasn't feeling it anymore and that she just didn't want to be friends.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 16:23:12 2015 No.8774961

>>8774766
Relationships are fickle, friendships are much more long-lasting. If you break up, you wouldn't want to have a tattoo that constantly reminds you of your ex, but if you fall out of touch with your friends, having a tattoo that reminds you of your closest friends is not nearly as obnoxious.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 16:26:14 2015 No.8774966 >>8774950 >only soda, no water I hate it when people do this at parties, but it's better to drink tap water at that point.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 16:48:17 2015 No.8774988 >>8774590 >squad Profit: it's pretty obvious who you are (or might be). Just say group next time.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 19:22:10 2015 No.8775218 >>8774772 >>8774791 >>8774961 I know that relationships are not the same as friends, but it made me feel worthless, and more because I had an idea for a tattoo that I'm sure he would like to have it done but now I feel like crap.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 19:27:39 2015 No.8775224

Recently missing a friend. She just kinda stopped caring so I removed her from my friends. I know I shouldn't cause she's a very stuck up person who was gonna abandon me when her site's credentials weren't coming up when I tried to get the badge she got me. She just told me to get a sunday pass and that she didn't want to come down
I'd gotten the info via email thank goodness. But after it she just didn't care, I'd been nothing but supportive in her time of need. But when my group at the hotel left me in the red not paying their half. And I'd gotten dumped 3 days after she just wasn't responsive.
But I still miss her.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 20:00:02 2015 No.8775276 >>8775224 This is a mess it looks like a bunch of half finished thoughts it makes so little sense wat?

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 20:09:26 2015 No.8775293 >>8775276 How does it not make sense? Anon says missing someone who was a stuck up dick to them. That left them hanging after a bad con, when they'd supported her after times in need. Damn bro not everyone can process pain online well.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 20:16:33 2015 No.8775313 >>8774053 >wearing an outlandish fashion that 99% of people would consider a costume because of how it looks is only a costume if you add on a wig >wigs look PERFECT all the times double lol

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 20:21:28 2015 No.8775328

>>8775218
You shouldn't feel that way. I've been with my husband for 8 years. We have a kid together. I still don't want to get a couple's tattoo with him. It's bad mojo. It's like telling everyone you're on the verge of breaking up. Like when people renew their vows at their first anniversary.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 20:46:03 2015 No.8775365
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>wow that's a beautiful sweater
>50% off and free shipping
>gonna jump on this righ-
>in select stores only

O-okay. I feel like this is happening way more often than it used to.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 20:58:39 2015 No.8775394

>>8774682
Don't worry anon. I understand what you mean.

Does anyone here think Goth is a costume? I mean, sure, it's "weird" but normal people generally know those kinds of people choose to dress that way and it's their preferred "style/look". I don't think I've ever come across anyone who thought Goth was a costume. Not even super old people.

This train of thought could be applied to all types of already accepted styles like Rockabilly and Pin up. They are styles/fashion; generally not regarded as costumes.

I think the Lolita community just wants this same sort of recognition from the general public. Yes, we draw attention and always will. But we'd like for you to stop calling it a costume and just call it a weird fashion like all the rest.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 21:33:57 2015 No.8775447
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>>8773989
>>8774113
Man fuck incompetent therapists. Its sad how many people have such bad experiences with them. Like you could have sucked at any other job but you chose the one the deals with other people's mental health? Most don't want/get anxious of even of going to therapy then go there with the hope of help then these dip shits fuck it all up

>mfw met another person going into the psych field and her root method was religion
>in a science field
>found the disappointment in training

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 21:43:08 2015 No.8775462

>>8775447
when i was first shopping around for therapists my dad brought me someplace, idk what it was exactly, but i go in for my appointment and the counsellor was a fucking nun. i shit you not. full habit and everything.

really glad he understood when i said i didn't feel comfortable doing therapy there.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 23:15:26 2015 No.8775573

>>8774757
I'm the same. I want to be alone, I like being alone. The only people I have any interest in interacting with are my family and that's only because I'm stuck with them.

I don't mind the shallow interactions lolita provides, I can small talk all day. But forming actual see them more than once relationships fuck no.

I've made peace with it, I will live alone bullshit my way through whatever interactions I'll be forced to have with workmates and hope I die before the rest of my family so at least someone will come to my funeral and be there to look after my pets.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 01:04:53 2015 No.8775711 >>8774682 What is that dress???? I have a serious need now. It looks like IW but I've never seen that print before

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 01:06:40 2015 No.8775713

My comm has shown distaste in me behind my back due to what I like outside of lolita and normally this wouldn't bother me because I'm one of those that doesn't need a comm to be a lolita. Yet my comm is absolute shit, it was rock bottom, and it still isn't perfect. You'd think a comm that was previously surrounded by so much drama and is now very small would have a bit of decency not to chase newcomers away.

I don't mean this in an egotistical sense, but they need me. They need other members too to be a decent and active community to cover up their shit name of the past. Their comm is an embarrassment and they swear on no more drama, yet there they go... making it.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 01:16:04 2015 No.8775725

Not CGL Related but need a good rant.

>Think I might have first stages of pink eye
>Work in Day care where 4 other kids were out with it, wouldn't be shocked
>HOWEVER I need to work this week or I wont be eligible for my holiday pay.
>I need this holiday pay.
>But if boss or co worker sees my eye, they will know and I will be sent home until its gone and I have a doctors note
>Understand why, but I need the money...
>Fuck fuck fuck!
WOULD RATHER NOT HAVE IT

Fak holidays.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 01:24:44 2015 No.8775736

>>8774113
Different anon. I honestly dislike therapists, I had a pretty good one when I was a kid, and he was actually the school counselor surprisingly enough. Any therapist I've had when I got older sucked. They did nothing, I had to sit in a room for an hour and talk about stupid unrelated shit. I never got any feedback, no actual conversation trying to disect why I feel the way I do, and one therapist even made an insensitive comment that made me feel like shit for days. What the hell is even the point of that job when they don't do anything. I get more help from talking in depth with my friends or sitting down and combing through my childhood to find the route of my issues myself. Thanks for nothing, therapy.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 01:34:47 2015 No.8775744 If my husband takes my good scissors and puts them in the kitchen junk drawer one more goddamn time I'm going to lose my mind. I paid a chunk of money for these fuckers you should not be cutting cracker packages open with them.

>>	xsauc !!rCUKADYmg0+ Mon Dec 21 01:38:36 2015 No.8775751 >>8775744 That's fucking hilarious I'm so sorry

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 01:39:56 2015 No.8775754 >>8775744 Have you like, told him not to use them?

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 01:43:23 2015 No.8775760

>>8775754
Yes. I told him they're only meant for fabric and anything else will fuck them up but I don't think he believes his dollar store scissors and fabric scissors are different in any way. Also my other non-fabric scissors, I just don't want him getting food on them and gunking them up. But he loses his and takes mine when they're on my desk. I should just start hiding all mine.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 01:49:25 2015 No.8775767

>>8775760
Put yours away in a hard-to-reach or inconvenient place. Buy him a pack of scissors to use. If he continues to use your scissors, tell him he has to pay to get them resharpened, or pay to get a new pair. Maybe if he sees how expensive they really are, he'll stop?

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 01:52:37 2015 No.8775772

>>8775744
I feel this on a personal level. I had my good ones taken from my sewing desk by a friend. After I told her they are sewing only. She then used them on craft foam and complained she couldn't find any when I caught her. I easily pulled out a pair I set out for her in the first place. Just annoying.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 02:08:55 2015 No.8775792

>>8775736
I had bad anxiety problems and my mother had me see a therapist for about 2 years. He kept trying to get me to analyse my dreams and spewed some bullshit about how I'll never mature emotionally if I don't get rid of my anxiety. Four years later and I'm fine, no thanks to him or my neurotic mother. Just moving away from her has done wonders for my blood pressure and nerves. Can't believe she paid him 30 quid per weekly session to lie to me. Wanker.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 02:13:30 2015 No.8775798 >>8775760 tell him right now how much they cost and how he is about to be wasting a ton of money buying you more scissors

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 03:55:35 2015 No.8775873

>>8775744
>cracker packages
I kekked but understand your pain. Do you have some cheapy scissors you could leave in the kitchen for him to see? When my boyfriend uses something I'd rather he didn't I just make a lesser quality version more readily available.

He, as I'm sure your husband too, doesn't do it out of spite but of convenience.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 03:58:46 2015 No.8775874 >>8775744 What kind of cracker packages can't just be torn open?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 05:03:44 2015 No.8775905 >>8775711 Marie Antoinette OP by BTSSB

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 05:22:48 2015 No.8775920

>tfw fat
>tfw covered in stretchmarks
>tfw losing weight but going to have loose skin no matter what

I feel like I'm fighting a battle I already lost. My body is disgusting and I'll probably stay a virgin forever because I don't want anyone to look at it.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 05:42:15 2015 No.8775934

>>8775920
yo anon, you're prob not going to believe this but people care less than you think.

the person I lost my virginity with had a lot of stretch marks, and imo they were cool. I'd never seen anything like it before, I liked tracing them and feeling the difference in texture. someone who loves you will either not give a fuck, or love them like any other part of you.

>excuse me while I go feel bad about ruining that relationship

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 05:53:31 2015 No.8775939 >>8773923 Just letting you know that I understood what you meant. It's funny how some people can get so confused.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 06:07:09 2015 No.8775945

>>8775920
Honestly..nearly everyone gets stretch marks and most people have loose skin at some stage of their lives, the important thing is to find someone who's not shallow and stupid about them. My boyfriend is a skinny Asian and has stretchmarks on his non existent butt, like some girls get when they grow hips as teenagers...point being that both of those things will happen to most people at some stage, don't let them hold you back, and stay healthy.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 06:30:40 2015 No.8775952
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>>8775711
I can recommend the JSK though, i think it's prettier than the Op :3
It's also available in red and pink i think.
i have it in read and it's super cute.
it's not too seldom so you can get it around 150-200 € :)

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 07:01:43 2015 No.8775963 I am finally making friends, I have even made a lolita friend! We want to twin together but I keep putting it off cause I am a fatty and she is really small so I will look really shit next to her.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 07:42:16 2015 No.8775969

>>8775920
As an insecure lesbian seagull i just want to hug people like you and tell them their body can still be beautiful and how to someone's eyes they will be everything.
I'm really a fag. My girlfriend is on the rounder side with stretch marks and seriously i just love her body, it feels so reassuring for some reason? (not like lol she fat and not me, at all) So warm and nice, i just feel safe into her arms. And when she's down i try to cheer her up and tell her i'll help her lose weight and do it with her if she wants to.
I love her, but i also want her to feel ok in her own body.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 08:03:33 2015 No.8775975 >refuse to self post or post anywhere but instagram >secretly wish to be posted even if in ita thread for any chance of concrit >only fatty Chan's get posted from comm >too afraid of rejection or being ignored to ever post on COF

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 08:27:53 2015 No.8775983

>>8775you should post a picture if you want concrit. you could post on COF and request concrit, i never saw any lolita getting mean over that.
if you feel uncomfortable showing your face, why not censoring.
i mostly witnessed that lolitas are openminded and like to help anyone with the fashion.
so you shouldn't be afraid, just do it :)

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 08:29:17 2015 No.8775984 >>8774341 (I really do think it's only one or two vocal gulls who hate the wigs anon) After all, most normal people aren't going to begrudge someone with bad natural hair who chooses a decent wig to balance their coord.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 09:57:11 2015 No.8776023

>>8775952
It goes quite cheap at auction too, got a pink x black one for 6,000 yen the other month.

To the girl who has it in red, have you washed yours? It runs. I dotted out a tiny stain with water and the black bled into the white parts. Never had a dress that couldn't be washed before. What did you do?

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 10:00:17 2015 No.8776028

kind of feel that lolita is a big money drain and I will never be "done". I like looking cute but been aiming for cohesiveness in my wardrobe this year, spend over 4,500 already and there's still a mountain of things I feel I need to complete certain looks. It's also maddening to see things sold out in my desired colourway and I am being a stickler for having everything just so. Also I bought so many accessories, but a bit of everything so I am getting swamped with things that are missmatched or just slightly off by a few shades of a colour. Just ugh.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 10:59:27 2015 No.8776066 >>8776028 I feel this.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 11:02:58 2015 No.8776068

>>8775744
Not the same but something similar happened to me.
>Have a bunch of student and professional grade water colors and gouache.
>Keep them in a little tool box with stickers all over it on my desk.
>Brother brings nephews over. They rampage all over the house. Older nephew (5) sees my toolbox because it is blue (his favorite color) and has a few Ninja Turtle stickers.
>Takes it and wants to paint
>Brother lets him
>I come back from the store to see tubes of $15 paint emptied and smeared on shitty paper and the table. Nephew is complaining that the paint doesn't work right
>I drop my bags and just stand there in shock.
>Tell my brother how much that paint costs per tube and he turns white.

I made him replace what was about $75 worth of paint and now have to hide my painting kit under my bed when I'm not using it. I told him I had shitty acrylics in the basement they could have used and next time my nephews came over they threw a fit becaus they "wanted to use the blue box of paints!" and didn't understand why they couldn't use the fun box with Ninja Turtle stickers instead of the boring box with bigger tubes. Little kids have the most annoying reasoning skills.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 11:07:26 2015 No.8776071

>>8776068
Holy shit, did your brother not make it clear to those kids that they couldn't play with those paints because they were your special paints? Or that playing with them was an accident?

They sound like little brats, not just kids who are too young to understand boundaries if they're explained.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 11:23:44 2015 No.8776078 >>8773751 I will never understand how people without job can afford this luxuries, heck I got unemployed for 3 months and I got a very tight budget so I won't starve to death

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 11:28:42 2015 No.8776081
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>live in beautiful waterfront historical town
>tons of areas to take cosplay/jfashion photos everywhere
>doesn't know any cosplayers in town
>has only seen packs of teenage anime fans from afar
>closest to Jfashion was one girl in blue gradient wig downtown
>tfw lonely NEET with no one to hang out with

At this point I'd even meet up with teen weeaboos to hang out and dress up with but being way past graduation age and having all my friends in other towns over a hour away makes me feel so isolated and lonely on top of the fact that my next convention isn't for 5+ months because I'm not comfortable enough to room with strangers at conventions and solo a con unless I'm doing something like hosting panels or volunteering.

I guess the only upside to this is that all the pretty photo places in town are mine for the taking?

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 11:30:45 2015 No.8776085
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>See a nice moitie blouse and cardigan on y!auctions
>only one bid
>read description
>"No proxy bidders pls!"
>"only 100% japanese speakers!"
>mfw it sold for 11 motherfucking yen

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 11:36:29 2015 No.8776087

>>8776078
Depends what you did/ the situation.
I went to a trade school and lived at home for the duration of it. then lived at home for the next year while working full time. When I got laid off, I had no debt and a good chunk of savings.
It helps that cosplay is the only expensive thing in my life.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 11:48:37 2015 No.8776096

>>8776081
iktf anon. all my cosplay friends, who are the only friends i'm really close with, live pretty far away. i only see them every couple months usually, and some of them i only see at cons.

i don't think there's anyone in my relatively small town who's into anime/cosplay but if there is it'd probably be a bunch of weeb high school kids who i wouldn't want to be around anyways.

i wonder if we live near each other because i'd totally hang out and do photoshoots with you haha

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 12:30:21 2015 No.8776115

>>8776096
Aw, another small town anon. I'm on the coast of North Carolina so we have a lot of good nature/nautical places for photos but yeah, I've been here a year and still haven't made any friends because there's so little to do and I'm much to old to go to highschool and meet others that way through an anime club or something.

I guess my best hope is to start wandering the shops/food places down town with my weeb clothes/itabag sometime and use it as an icebreaker to meet other fandom people.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 12:34:57 2015 No.8776122

>>8776115
ah yeah i'm up in connecticut, aka suburb central. i've lived in this town my whole life, and all my high school friends have moved away. it's just so hard meeting people, ugh. but i'm going back to school next month, and my backpack is covered with weeb shit so i'm kind of praying i'll find at least one friend. it's so fuckin lonely just sitting around my house with my parents all the time.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 12:37:06 2015 No.8776125 >>8776068 Good on you for making him replace it. I get he's your brother and all, but I never unstand how people just freely use other people's things without asking them first.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 12:42:42 2015 No.8776130

>>8776122
Replace parents with one grandparent whom you're basically a live-in maid/cook for and that sounds about right. Everyone I know/speak to here is over age the 40 and I only get out to conventions about twice a year because I room with friends and one loyal room host who's not going to Katsucon in February so I don't really have any local convention options for spring.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 12:57:59 2015 No.8776145

>>8775934
>>8775945
>>8775969

Thanks gulls, that makes me feel a bit better.

As for a bit more happy body feels, I've been put in contact with a dietitian and it's been a month or so, and I already lost some weight! Honestly, for someone who has self-control issues, knowing there's someone tracking your progress and willing to tell you to that you're doing things wrong really helps.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 12:59:50 2015 No.8776147

>>8776130
yeah i only get to (semi-)large cons twice a year too, more because most of them are too far and/or expensive for me. i'm really glad katsu is coming up so soon because i'm kind of dying, the only other con i go to regularly is connecticon, which is in july. it's been so longgg.

but after that i don't think i have any until ctcon rolls around again. it's a vicious cycle.

but yeah, the only people i talk to around here are almost all children and moms, because i work office stuff at a dance studio. the like three friends i do have who live nearby are fun but we don't have a ton of common interests re: anime and cosplay, so whenever we hang out we usually just end up getting super wasted.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 13:08:35 2015 No.8776158 >>8776147 Enjoy Katsu for me, anon!

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 13:13:28 2015 No.8776162 >>8776158 i'll try my best!!

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 13:28:14 2015 No.8776182

>>8775984
>I really do think it's only one or two vocal gulls who hate the wigs anon
Right now it is, yeah, but they seem to be swaying opinions of others. And some are even saying that it's always been this way even though I can look at old street snaps and know the truth.

I guess I'll never fully understand why westerners want to deviate from what the original fashion is.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 13:38:54 2015 No.8776202
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>tfw going all out at cons with makeup and a cute wig but you look like shit normally outside of these events
>con friends on social media can notice

My confidence is just shit really. Most people I've been hanging around look really good in and out of their cosplay and lolita outfits. I feel like even at cons, I barely pass.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 13:57:14 2015 No.8776223 The feels when decently active but work involves me writing at a desk for hours on end. And Cellulite had to go on my ass and upper thighs. FML

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 14:04:25 2015 No.8776232 >>8776085 Jesus... That really sucks. And those people probably have SS flagged too, so using something like FJ or Japonica might not even work. Depressing.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 16:46:25 2015 No.8776453 >>8775952 >>8775905 Thank you anons. This is making me feel some feels I haven't felt about a dress in awhile. I was getting so bored of lolita, nothing has that amazing romantic aesthetic anymore I used to love

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 17:20:42 2015 No.8776495
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>>8776023
I have the JSK in black & pink as well, it goes for pretty cheap second-hand but it's one of my favorite dresses!

Mine did run the first time I got caught in the rain while wearing it (pics related, the stains as they originally appeared). I wound up soaking it overnight in cold water with a tablespoon of detergent, which lifted out a lot of the excess black dye. Did that about 3 times (soaking in a full tub of water, not letting it dry in between soaking) and finally managed to get rid of all the extra dye and remove the stains. Apparently some of the earliest BtSSB print fabrics were properly pre-treated before being sewn up, and that's what causes the problem? Anyway, I'd recommend that approach if you have any problems - it's scary at first to see your brand floating in a tub of grey water, but it will turn out okay in the end!

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 17:23:19 2015 No.8776498
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>>8776453
Yeah I feel you. I mostly stick to older pieces now days. We have a lot of romantic stuff now, but they always seem too fancy for me. I want romance but...wearable romance. I like the thicker fabric of older pieces, not so light and chiffony. Romantic but not necessarily fancy.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 17:57:49 2015 No.8776559

>>8776068
I always regretted not getting into cosplay until I was 20 but now that I think back to how my mom forced me to let my much younger little sister "help" with everything I did (and fuck everything up really bad) it's probably a good thing.
Once I made a bunch of charms like the ones Oborocharms did and had to let her play too. Came back later to find all my clean painted charms that were previously safe in a box drenched in glaze and dried to the newspaper used to protect our table.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 18:05:05 2015 No.8776573

>>8773989
I'm sad that this happened to you. I hope you are able to find someone who cares more for their patients. I also hope the next time you feel the urge for self-harm that you call someone first... your life is a beautiful, precious thing; you are a unique individual unlike any other and it makes me so sad when people are unable to see that for themselves.

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 18:09:34 2015 No.8776586

>>8776559
I'm so relieved my Cousin's animu phase isn't being dropped on me. I thought it'd be as my aunt would if she could.While ignoring my unwillingness.
When she tried to guilt my dad into making me make cousin a Naruto cosplay. He straight up told her "Fine, but I'll charge you cost right now 200$"

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 18:12:55 2015 No.8776592 >>8775744 As a man, the easiest way to fix this is to get him a multi tool. Just having one around will encourage use and cause him to use the knife in it unless something specifically needs scissors that can't be done with a knife.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 18:31:50 2015 No.8776631 >>8776202 Oh don't worry anon me too. Even more so because when people see me in work clothes

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 18:33:02 2015 No.8776635 I'm trying really hard to do nice things for my friends and of course giving things, organising surprise events and writing letters has its own rewards. Just once though I would like something back...

Anonymous Mon Dec 21 18:38:02 2015 No.8776648
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>>8776635
Have some elegant geese for all your services.

I know how you feel though. I do a lot for my family (primarily because my sister is a 25 year old child) and don't always get a thank you but I know they appreciate it.

Just remember what you're doing is good and hopefully your friends are good enough to return the favor some day.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 18:48:59 2015 No.8776675 >>8776592 This is a good idea and I'm going to do this! I got him a big present for christmas so that's all he's getting as of now and another thing to unwrap would be nice.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 18:58:07 2015 No.8776691 File: 117 KB, 1100x619, please burn.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8773674 >own Trump Doll OP >search for worn photos >all i get are creepy donald trump dolls and pictures of the jack-off instead please end my suffering

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 18:59:09 2015 No.8776693 >>8776691 >*of the jack-off himself

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 23:27:56 2015 No.8776984 >>8773833 >>8773844 >>8773850 >>8773844 Most give their complaints to moot2 through /qa/. I put a thread up in case but I don't know if anyone gets answered anymore or how often. We can at least try

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 21 23:34:03 2015 No.8776989 >>8776691 I'm in tears anon hahahaha I'm so sorry but that's just hilarious

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 01:08:09 2015 No.8777079 File: 16 KB, 200x303, 1411340127276.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8775920 >female >virgin

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 01:33:14 2015 No.8777109 >>8777079 ?

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 01:36:21 2015 No.8777114 >>8777109 doubt: verb: to be uncertain about; consider questionable or unlikely; hesitate to believe.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 01:43:34 2015 No.8777120 >>8776691 I really wanted that in the jsk until I kept seeing shitty replicas and now it doesn't seem so cool

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 01:49:28 2015 No.8777128 File: 18 KB, 500x500, big bait.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8777079 Oh man, the bait, it's so flavorful.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 01:55:31 2015 No.8777135 File: 67 KB, 625x626, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8777079

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 01:57:23 2015 No.8777136

>face always looks wonky and big in photos
>can't pose to save my life
>test some poses out in front of the mirror and think "yeah, I can do this pose", then goes to shit when someone else takes my photo
>forget how to pose, can't see myself to make sure I'm standing pretty okay like I do in the mirror
>derpy looking all around in the end

I just want to actually look decent in my lolita photos

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 02:19:27 2015 No.8777150 >>8777128 >>8777135 Alright I'll concede, when they're younger than about 15-16 it's not totally unbelievable. But 17-18? Come on now. And 18+, meaning either in or past college? Who are you even trying to fool.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 03:00:38 2015 No.8777169 >>8777150 I guess there's no such thing as awkward women or women who don't want to have sex or shy women. I forgot all those women were a fever dream.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 03:36:28 2015 No.8777203 >>8777150 so who'd she fuck instead of you?

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 03:37:29 2015 No.8777204 >>8777136 same here anon. I always end up looking like a turtle.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 03:40:59 2015 No.8777207 >>>/qa/389037

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 03:54:32 2015 No.8777222 >>8777169 It's not that they don't exist, it's that it doesn't matter if you're shy or awkward as a woman. All you have to do is wait and say yes to the first offer you like, then let the guy do everything. The same as dating really.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 04:03:00 2015 No.8777228 >>8777222 As if men are just popping out of your floorboards with offers of sex. Also many women don't want to have sex with the first fugly random they see. It's called having self respect.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 04:11:33 2015 No.8777233 [DELETED]

>>8777228
>aboohoohoo, sometimes while waiting to receive the free stuff I want I have to say no to the free stuff I don't want. so difficult men would never understand
Feel free to trade any time. I'm sure you'll appreciate how easy you have it once you've experienced the alternative of never receiving offers of free stuff ever.
Plus girls who complain like that are usually just way too full of themselves and refuse to settle for any guy that's less than an 11/10 despite probably not even being a 4/10 themselves.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 04:22:27 2015 No.8777235 >painting cabochons for jfash accessories >they look awesome >let them dry >come back to glue them to bezels >paint job now looks wonky as fuck ><

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 04:40:06 2015 No.8777246 File: 48 KB, 300x400, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8777233 8/10, got me to reply

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 04:46:54 2015 No.8777250 [DELETED]

>>8777246
I don't recall saying or implying any of that. Seems like you're just dancing around the real point to avoid admitting how much easier life is as a woman, and that the only way a woman can ever be a virgin is her own drastically unrealistic standards and expectations.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 05:00:13 2015 No.8777260

>>8774988
Not the anon who you're replying to but ????
I call all the different groups I hag out with 'xyz' squad either out of habit or so they know for reference who I mean by that. So I don't think you can single one person out based on the lingo they use online?

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 05:05:54 2015 No.8777262

>be NEET
>have all the time in the world to dress up but no money for meetups or clothing (as well as shit self-esteem)

>get awesome job
>suddenly have all the money and confidence
>so tired from working 50+ hours a week I just want to spend my weekends laying on the couch in my pajamas

sigh

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 05:09:53 2015 No.8777263

>>8777250
Lol, keep telling yourself that. Life is hard for both sexes. Both have oppurtunities and disadvantages the other doesn't have. News flash, life is hard for everyone.

I know you're trolling, but some women remain virgins because they just don't want to have sex. With anyone. I know you're a "nice guy," but maybe if you try to see women as human beings with thoughts and feelings instead of manipulative, pretentious sex machines, one of them may actually date you. Gettin out of your moms basement and dusting the Dorito cheese off your sausage fingers might help, too.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 05:16:43 2015 No.8777267

>>8774590
Dress nice but don't wear lolita, I don't think you can take the stares from normal people right now. But you need to get up, get dressed, shower and make your bed. Just keep doing these things every day even if after that you can't do anything else, it's the first steps.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 05:30:05 2015 No.8777276 >>8774988 Bitch everyone says squad these days

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 05:30:40 2015 No.8777277 [DELETED]

>>8777263
Yeah I know both sexes have some advantages and disadvantages.
Women just happen to have a LOT more advantages and less disadvantages.

And I'll have you know you assume quite a few things about me wrong. I've certainly never considered myself a "nice guy". I'd say I'm a pretty quiet neutral person. I'm thin too. Sometimes it's just a bit, annoying to think how all my problems would be fixed if I'd just won that coin flip of conception and been a girl. Wouldn't have to be a different person at all but shit would just fall into my lap anyways.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 11:53:49 2015 No.8777490

>>8776586
I once got an email from a family member who's daughter was going through a Naruto phase and they sent me a picture of Kisame and asked me how to go about making the costume. This baby weeb wanted to be Kisame for Halloween.
I told them to just buy the cloak from hot topic, paint her face blue, draw the gils with blue eyeliner or something and get a wig if possible.
Of course she looked horrible but also incredibly proud of herself so eh, at least she had fun trick or treating.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 11:59:24 2015 No.8777494

>>8776559
I honestly don't understand why parents insist you HAVE to let little kids "help" with everything. Like, especially when you're obviously attempting to make something quality. They should teach them to respect boundaries and not touch other people's shit and give them their own project to work on. I don't care if it hurts their feelings it's such lazy parenting; very backhanded "oh anon why don't you let them do that with you and watch them for me ;) "

My parents wanted me to let my younger siblings "help" me with my homecoming posters, back when I was in highschool. I was in charge of poster committee for my year and I just locked myself in a room with all of my supplies and didn't let anyone in. I had to deal with tiny children screaming crying and banging on the door about how "they wanted to to help too!" with my parents yelling at me for being mean to my siblings. Sorry, but you're not fucking up these posters, best posters win more points in spirit week and I am competative af.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 12:24:31 2015 No.8777518

>order lolita desu lucky pack
>state measurements etc
>receive lucky pack
>got a Maxicimam Lovely (plussize sub-brand) bolero in it with a bust of 104cm, while mine is just 78cm

they guaranteed the items would fit, so I've contacted them on what to do now.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 12:32:38 2015 No.8777523
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>painstakingly acquired dream dress a few months ago
>got it cheap so I spent the remainder on a preorder for another dress.
>dream dress arrives and I'm 2cm to big in the boobies so to the gym I go
>preordered dress arrives yesterday and it's fucking gorge. Like... Pictures will never do it justice.
>dream dress fits now but preorder dress makes me feel complete.

It's the only OP I own but I truly feel like a magical princess in it.
Mfw the preorder OP was my dream dress all along~

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 12:36:52 2015 No.8777527 >>8774766 Both are stupid. Friendships come and go as much as relationships.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 12:41:24 2015 No.8777530

>do cosplay group
>attend series meet
>unknown photographer asks for photos, sure, why not
>they surface online
>absolutely horrific, terrible lighting, bad editing, everyone looks either 50 pounds heavier or 50 years older
>except one of us, bizarrely
>I look both fat and old, gr8
>done this for every cosplayer in the album
>find relief in that the tog isn't even a cosplay photographer, photos not on facebook, no-one will see them ever
>fucking friend posts them on her popular facebook page
>talking with other friends in the group, they hate it too
>"could you take that photo down please? a couple of us are self-conscious about how we look in it"
>"but it's such a nice photo!!! :("
>doesn't take it down
We've got nice photos coming from a good tog in a week or so. Why keep up this hideous one?

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 12:44:54 2015 No.8777536
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>selling a bunch of new/unopened makeup on local Facebook buy/sell group
>get a lot of interest
>have 5 sales pending
>only 1 has actually gone through
>messege everyone if they're still interested
>"Yes"
>"Great! When and where do you want to meet?"
>silence

There's other people interested in some items but these girls keep claiming they're interested so I keep holding out for them. I wanted to sell local so I could avoid shipping and listing fees but it looks like online be my best bet.

I can only imagine what it's like to have someone flake out on a $200 dress.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 12:55:03 2015 No.8777547

>>8777536
I know this feel too well, ugh. Try messaging them again like "I'd like a response, please," maybe even tell them that it's okay if they changed their mind as long as they actually tell you what's going on (some people need to be told this, apparently). If they still don't budge, move on and look for other buyers.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 13:14:02 2015 No.8777564

>>8777536
Give them an ultimatum. If they don't arrange a place and time to meet within 72 hours, relist. If they arrange one and then flake on it, relist. They're not entitled to your things just because they want them, if they're not paying customers it doesn't mean squat.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 13:24:53 2015 No.8777572

>>8777547
>>8777564
One girl said I could move on to the next person but I told her I'd wait because she's interested in something no one else is. The others just do not reply. I'll message everyone and give them a final chance. Seems kind of silly to make a fuss over makeup but they're the ones that contacted me first.

>They're not entitled to your things just because they want them
One girl asked me if I could lower the price of a mascara and I asked her to meet in the middle. By the time she replied I had a confirmed sale and when I told her she said, "Omg pls I asked first!!!" I felt bad but of course I was going to sell to someone taking it for full price and with a confirmed time while she just asked about the price.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 15:35:49 2015 No.8777720
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>discussing SAT prep schools with my asian friend
>talking about how how different things are where they live since it's a primarily asian area and has cram schools and stuff
> tell friend their schools and schools in general should focus more on things like basic writing skills instead of just standardized test taking
>friend gets mad at me because "you're not as good as an essay writer as most of these kids how dare you accuse all asians of writing fobby"
>remind friend how they got an almost perfect score on the SAT yet failed the basic writing exam at our college, along with mostly exchange students and asian students from their area. They were all forced to take a remdial writing course first semester
>tell them I wasn't even talking about kids writing like a fob, but how writing as a skill in general is severely lacking with kids coming out of high school anymore.
>This will effect a lot of essay writing in college, applying to colege, cover letters, etc. And will especially be harder for kids from low income areas

Jesus christ why do people always make everything you say a slight against minorities or whatever. I was stating a fact, not attacking all asian students. Calm the fuck down.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 15:45:21 2015 No.8777729 >>8777720 But anon, don't you know writing and grammar are ~~ liberal language arts ~~ and are therefore impractical and useless on every level?

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 15:51:20 2015 No.8777735 >>8777720 because Asian Americans are SJWs.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 16:00:08 2015 No.8777743

>tfw you'll never have a bestie to shop and visit cute cafes with
>tfw you had one but you got into a scuffle over some silly he said she said stuff so now you're closed off and emotionally constipated and can't open up to people easily
>tfw guy friends just want to smoke weed and gamble
>tfw classmates just want to drink and party
>tfw ronery and sheltered

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 16:37:37 2015 No.8777779 >>8776453 Anon, I found you the dress for 5000 yen, hope you see this http://page24.auctions.yahoo.co.jp/jp/auction/q97067738

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:12:15 2015 No.8777906

>>8777263
>>8777169
I feel as if there's anything important distinction between a willing and unwilling virgin. Someone who just doesn't want to have sex is different from someone who wants to but cant.
And honestly a girl ever complaining that she can't lose her virginity, like the fat girl that sparked this debacle, is just silly. There's no "can't" as long as you're a girl, only being more picky than you deserve. I mean she called herself disgusting, maybe accept only equally disgusting guys are in your league.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:19:16 2015 No.8777912
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I've been cosplaying for almost 5 years, but no one in my family knew about it because I live on the other side of the country and I suppress my power levels. But I'm visiting my family for Christmas and got in a dumb little fight with my sister about Mod Podge, and my mom asked "How do you know so much about Mod Podge?" and I blurted out "Because I dress up like cartoon characters four times a year."

I thought she or my sister would tease me, but my mom was really impressed when I showed her some of the pictures I had on my phone. Now she thinks I'm a great seamstress ("I don't know why you buy clothes when you can just make them" -- mom, my construction is terrible and no one sews their own jeans) and wants me to email her full res version of my stuff and explain who these characters are.

I'm not ready to make this leap.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:28:53 2015 No.8777926

>>8777912
Eh just indulge your mom. She's excited for you and your skills. My mom was excited about every shit cosplay I made as a teen. (She helped me make my first one.) I know we love to be super critical here, but having support from your mom is pretty cute and it helps remind you that this is a fun hobby.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:36:29 2015 No.8777931
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>>8777926

I agree with >>8777912.

Even know, after years of cosplaying, my mom insists on taking pictures to show her friends. She loves when I get stuff on the mail and insists on opening packages with me, trying on my wigs, etc.

To bad every character to her is either "Sakura" or "Sailor Moon". And every school uniform is "Donald Duck's clothes". She tries, tho.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:41:41 2015 No.8777938
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>be me, lolita
>have sneakerhead brother
>"why do you never wear them?"
>"it's not like your dumb dresses.. shoes get damaged much faster"
>I buy a pair of jordan 5s
>wear them and drag my feet
>time goes by. still wear shoes
>sell dress and buyer pays almost immediately
>didn't even notice it was him
>until...
>he's prancing around in my dress, stretching the seams
>"it's mine now I paid for it!"
>yelling everywhere

I'm so bitter about it but I 100% deserved it.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:43:52 2015 No.8777940

>>8777912
Just enjoy it, anon. I've been cosplaying since I was a teenager and my entire family knows. My mother always wants to take photos and asks me to come by her work in costume before we leave for conventions to show her work friends. She's a photographer so I keep trying to get her to make the leap to going to a convention for a day and do paid photoshoots for cosplayers but I think she's iffy because she only does nature photography right now.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:44:30 2015 No.8777941

>>8774899
>best friend leaves
>zero other friends
Sounds like a you problem. Do you have a habit of making every conversation about you? Did you shoot down all the more extroverted plans she tried to make and just hung out at home? Did you constantly complain about being depressed/broke/whatever while not doing anything to ever correct it? Or maybe you accused her of abandoning you when she made plans without you and didn't always have time to set aside especially for you? Those seem like the things that make lolita and cosplayers break off friendships the most. Work on going outside more, interacting not just with fellow lolita but even strangers at the post office and grocery store. Social skills are learned and very much perishable.
>>8774988
>Profit
I think you mean protip. Also everyone on my facebook group says squad, I don't think I know anyone in their twenties who doesn't. You're an idiot.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:45:06 2015 No.8777945 >>8777938 jfc I can't stop laughing. At least you got the money from it though.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:46:48 2015 No.8777947 >>8777941 >Did you constantly complain about being depressed/broke/whatever >mfw I have friend like this >friend is only local friend I have >been friends for about 10 years >love her too much to quit

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:50:35 2015 No.8777952 >>8777941 seriously, just go on instagram. everyone and their mother is posting 'squad goals' these days, it's hardly a new thing.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:51:37 2015 No.8777955 >>8777947 There's a brokeback mountain joke in there somewhere

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:52:18 2015 No.8777956

Dear /cgl/, today i discovered i am the fat friend.
>every other friend is smaller/taller than me or my height and around 108lbs or less
>i'm 5"4 and fucking 119lbs
I'm the fattest in the group, they say my body is pretty,well proportionate,cute,...but it's all bullshit,it's not skinny enough, they say my legs are nice probably just to makes me feel better about not having skinny legs.
And fucking christmas and shit is coming, i better not fucking eat anything or my fat ass will get even bigger. I want to be fucking skinny. I just want to yell when someone tells me "hurr u r normal weight". No, "normal" is not skinny enough. It'll never be. I'm a fat ass. I'm the fattest of the group. I'm the fat friend.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:54:38 2015 No.8777962 >>8777956 embrace the fat. be the fat (guess you're covered there lol). channel your inner butter goddess.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:54:43 2015 No.8777963 >>8777956 Anon you might need help. 119 at 5'4" is not fat.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:54:51 2015 No.8777964 >>8777956 This smells like a troll, if not; go get help.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:55:40 2015 No.8777965 >>8777956 anon what the fuck, I'm 56kg/123lbs at 5'3" and if I lost any weight I would completely lose any body shape I have. I don't want to say this at all, but I think you need to get help because that is really an abnormal view of your body.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 18:59:28 2015 No.8777971 >>8777956 Post pics

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:01:51 2015 No.8777974 >>8777965 It really isn't. I'm 56kg at 174cm and I look average. So they aren't fat but definitely on the softer side. >>8777956 You should start working out instead of starving yourself. Skinnnyfat is worse than fatfat.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:02:12 2015 No.8777975 >>8777956 Sounds like you've been spending far too much time on lolcow, friend.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:03:36 2015 No.8777976 >>8777120 There are so, so many awful replicas of Trump Doll. I hate it a lot, but the design is simple and cute enough for replica companies to try their hand at.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:11:37 2015 No.8777987 >>8777743 I would also like this... someone to check out tea houses or small restaurants in frills. But then I also want to go shooting and metal concerts...

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:14:59 2015 No.8777992
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idk guys, my body is shaped like the one on the image by chance, it would be right between lower normal and middle normal.
A-At least i'm proportionate right?
But thank you, and yes maybe i'm too much on lolcow.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:17:51 2015 No.8777997

>>8777974
yes, it's a completely healthy BMI. if I started to try and burn fat I would most likely lose my tits and butt. guess I'm the fucking exception then but I fit perfectly in unshirred brand and if I do, OP definitely should.

I agree that working out is a better alternative but it can still lead to enormous mental issues and dysphoria so really, OP really should look into getting help. no one (assuming normal height) should feel like they're fat until they start breaking 80kg or so, and even then there are much healthier ways of looking at and dealing with it

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:19:16 2015 No.8778000 >>8777992 I'm kinda between middle and highest normal and get a fuckton of compliments on my shape, you're just fine anon

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:20:42 2015 No.8778002

>>8777956
>>8777963
>>8777965
>>8777974
>Everyone forgetting that bone structure dictates whether someone looks fat or not
I'm 5'4" and 125 lbs. I don't look fat at all and all my friends gush over being jealous of my body. I have large boobs and muscular thighs. Height to weight ratio doesn't tell you shit about whether someone looks gross or is healthy or not.
>>8777992
You're on lolcow too much for sure. But if it would make you feel better, start snacking on veggies instead of carb-heavy snack foods and go for a jog now and then.
>>8777938
This is fucking hilarious, here is what you do: take pictures of him prancing around in the dress. Post them online. That way you still win.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:26:48 2015 No.8778005 >>8777938 THAT YANDERE MISAKO IMAGE I remember it from my Hunger Games thread where she killed everyone and won twice. Man i'm gonna make one again it was so much fun

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:28:54 2015 No.8778006

>>8777992
>anorexia
when will people realise that anorexia is a mental disorder and people who are dangerously underweight don't all necessarily have anorexia. it could be anything from cancer to involuntary starvation, low body weight doesn't make a person anorexic.

it's right up there with 'lol i'm so ADD' and 'irregardless' as the most fucktarded thing people say.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:43:38 2015 No.8778020 >>8777992 Man what a cow

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 19:57:37 2015 No.8778038

my cosfriends are getting super excited for christmas. Great for them if they enjoy it but they are giving me shit for not enjoying it. My family are particularly shit emotionally abusive and manipulative. I never enjoyed a Christmas. You know how kids are told not to brag about Christmas at school because some kids have it rough at Christmas, yeah I'm the kid who had it rough.
I'm not saying oh pity me but if you could stop treating me like shit and insulting me because I don't like christmas that would be nice.

I said to a few of them that I'll probably spend the day in my room crafting and they just called me family hating and ungrateful and going on about how I let costuming suck the joy of of things.

Christmas is really shit for some people and I'm just getting a bit sick of being made to feel like shit about how I know I'm going to be made to feel like shit all Christmas day by my family.

In other news I think by the time the decorations come down I'll have a new costume ready. And then I'll steal the LED's and plastic baubles you fill yourself for cosplay use.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 20:21:52 2015 No.8778070

>>8778038
Sorry to hear your friends are being jerks about the holiday stuff. Holidays can be rough for a lot of people and it's a shame that your pals aren't more supportive & understanding.

Do what you need to in order to take care of yourself. If that's skipping family stuff, then so be it. If it really bothers you that your friends are giving you crap, you could always volunteer at a soup kitchen or something instead - I'm sure places like that could use more people willing to "give up" their Christmas eve/day and it's pretty much impossible to criticize you for opting to help other people at this time of year.

Anonymous Tue Dec 22 21:26:31 2015 No.8778169

after getting a new job a while back I have had more funds to get into and buy more lolita. Its been really exciting and fulfilling since its something I've always wanted to do. But lately the more I get into and talk about it the more my boyfriend has started making fun of me and calling me a weeaboo. I don't expect him to get into it with me or anything as its my hobby but I really wish he would respect my interests.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 01:41:44 2015 No.8778449 >>8778005 >tfw working on one for ages >lose all the work in progress fuck man it was going to be so good

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 02:24:06 2015 No.8778470 >>8778169 1. Share feels with bf 2. If behavior persists, drop him for not being able to support your interests/lack of emotional support. You are allowed to be happy. 3. ??? 4. Profit?

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 10:18:45 2015 No.8778854

Hey guys, I've got some shit that went down... my only local lolita and friend for years hates me now. I kicked out her shit boyfriend who was like literally /b/, I was sick of him leeching and making things generally awful. Things got heated and I kicked him out, threatened police because this guy gets violent and he wasn't on my lease. He tells her a fucked up version and so now hates me. My issue is now I bought her a really nice gift, most expensive one I bought and money was tight this year, her boyfriend not paying his bills was a big cause. She knows I have it, but should I still give it to her?
I hate that she doesn't see how awful he is and how he was before. This guy lies about everything, even things so easy to call him out on. I cut that violent drunkard from my household, but lost a very dear friend. Once she hates someone, it is for life. I know she wouldn't appreciate the gift either due to that.
Tldr: I kick out friend's awful leech boyfriend, she now hates me, should I give her the nice gift I got her?

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 10:20:31 2015 No.8778856 >>8778854 Sell the gift and keep the money

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 10:39:42 2015 No.8778875

>>8778854
definitely don't give it to her. if she refuses to listen to your side of the story, she doesn't deserve that shit in any way and she'll probably just get rid of it in some way.

either keep it or sell it (or gift to someone else close to you if it's a normie thing)

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 10:47:27 2015 No.8778885 >>8778875 It's a bjd

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 11:06:51 2015 No.8778906 >>8778885 Don't give a present to someone who hates you. It's not going to fix your friendship

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 11:14:33 2015 No.8778910

>>8778854
Right now, the only thing you can do is wait a bit, let her cool down, then talk it over. In a day or two, e-mail her saying how much you value your friendship, how much she means to you, and that you don't want to lose her. Ask to arrange a date in a few more days to talk this over and see if you can come to an agreement. Don't give her the present unless you can smooth it over, if you do, then great. If not, then either keep it or sell it.

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>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 11:21:55 2015 No.8778927 >>8778854 Sell the gift and keep the money. If she didn't bother to listen to your side of the story then she is a shit friend. Giving someone a gift after a fight like that won't make them your friend again.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 11:35:34 2015 No.8778952
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I only have one friend aside from my boyfriend. She hates lolita. She won't even walk beside me when I wear it, and will often mysteriously run off somewhere because she has "something to do" if I show up and am wearing it. She is quick to remind me when people are staring at me or laughing at me because of my clothes, and sometimes asks if I regret getting rid of some of my old clothes to buy frills. She said at one point that wearing lolita in public was no different from wearing cosplay in public.

I wish I could make some frilly friends. I'm a member of the local community, but I am a senior in high school (18) and I work on average 25-30 hours a week at my afterschool job, so there's little opportunity for me to go, and meetups are usually few and far between. I'll be moving to Chicago for college come summer, so I keep telling myself that it'll be a fresh start, and I can make lots of new friends, but I don't know if it will even happen because I'm so awkward and shy, even when I try really hard not to be. Which is probably a big part of why I only have one close friend.

Maybe I should stop being so whiny and put a post on tumblr saying I'm looking for friends or something, but I feel like that's so awkward in itself. Maybe I'll try to find a community in Chicago to contact and see if I can get involved on their facebook page prior to moving or something. I know I have to put myself out there to make friends, but I guess I don't know how or where to start quite yet.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 11:42:19 2015 No.8778962

I'm dead set on going back to Japan this May with my sister for our graduations (her's from undergrad, mine from my masters program) but that means I need to NOT buy too much more lolita these next few months so I can save up. But I also just finished putting together a coord, and through the whole time I was buy all the items for it it together I wanted to buy a new dress but wouldn't let myself. so now that I'm done I really want to get another dress but ugh I really shouldn't...

also I should probably not be doing either of these things and should instead be saving money to pay off my loans..

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 11:42:49 2015 No.8778963

>>8778952
Honestly, she doesn't sound like a very good friend, and I don't think you should hang around people who treat you like shit. Reaching out to meet new people and make new friends sounds like a good idea.
With that said, please keep in mind the whole "time, situation, location" thing when dressing. Not every situation is lolita appropriate, and if you're wearing it every day, or at least during all of your free time (which is how it sounded to me), you probably aren't as aware of that as you should be.

I need to make a few frilly friends myself.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 15:56:36 2015 No.8779093 >>8778952 Anon no friends are better than bad friends. You don't need or deserve that kind of negativity in your life.

Funk Brothers !!sEQILr75Rya Wed Dec 23 16:15:12 2015 No.8779133

>>8776078
>>8776087
I have no debt right now so I'm really lucky. I'm not going to go buy a Persian kitty from Japan. I'm trying to find some happiness in my solace.

Some people have moments when they want to take a pause in their life. This happened to an Admin who after 10 years wondered what their website would do the next 10 years out. Having been in an ivory tower for about 7-8 years, I wonder what I'm going to do in the future. It's not an easy question to solve.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 16:17:19 2015 No.8779138

>>8778952
Screw her, she's not your friend. It might be tough to be alone, but someone who constantly makes you feel bad about something you love and isn't hurting anyone is clearly not someone who cares about you.

That said, if you haven't brought up with her that it hurts you, you should do so.

As for making new friends, I've had good experiences talking to people on instagram. Tumblr might also be ok now that they have the chat feature. I haven't made any close friends or anything, but it's already nice to have someone to have casual chats with every now and then who gets it.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 18:15:50 2015 No.8779381

I'm going to spend Christmas Eve with my parents. Not even with my sisters,just with my terrible parents. I think I'll just order some food and spend the day in front of my computer like a dumbass. I haven't even got my presents yet since I ordered them on amazon right when other people started buying presents. I'm an idiot.

Well at least I should spend the last night of 2015 with friends, so the break before exams isn't so bad.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 18:39:30 2015 No.8779405

>>8779381
I'm spending both christmas eve/day and new year's with my parents because I was planning a trip to friends but the person I was going to stay with turned their back on me
we're not even going to my aunt and uncle's gorgeous cottage in the woods cause the weather sucks and my cool cousin won't be there

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 18:43:43 2015 No.8779416 >>8779405 Oh shit, that sucks, I would have been so mad. Let's be lonely together anon.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 18:51:25 2015 No.8779421

>>8779416
sure anon, I'll make hot chocolate/tea for us and we can complain about the holiday season
the only cool gift I'll most likely be getting is the OP I bought myself and that's probably not here until january

related
>see cute as fuck OP in bst thread
>name a price, I message the seller and she's ok with my shitty low offer
>after I mention I'm a newfag she says she's sending an extra gift with it
>is ok with marking parcel as a gift to avoid customs hell
>point out that it's actually kinda accurate since my birthday is then
>she says she would've added in a birthday card if she hadn't packed it yet
>literally 2 days from when I first message her to when it's shipped
>she even handholds me through using LM because I really wanted to leave her good feedback on there
I thanked her like 5 times but I still feel like she's the best seller I could've had for my first buy, she's been so fucking sweet and chill about everything

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 20:46:02 2015 No.8779580

>loads of uni work
>do nothing
>waste hours on the internet doing nothing useful
>not even procrastinating with hobbies
>find it hard to actually partake in hobbies outside of Lolita
>no idea why

I feel like I'm in a weird guilt-induced slump. I don't want to indulge in hobbies because I'll feel like it's time I could spend on work, but then I don't do work either.
But even over the summer, when I had a very loose work schedule, I didn't do any of the things I wanted to do, read none of the books I wanted to read, none of the drawing I wanted to do. It's almost like I'm procrastinating doing things I like?

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 20:48:15 2015 No.8779583 Woke up sick as hell last night and was puking and everything else out of nowhere. Now I have a massive headache and no energy and all I can think is "This is what I get for talking shit on cgl" Karma is a bitch.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 20:57:25 2015 No.8779598

>>8778169
I know how you feel anon. Mine compares it to furries as well as to nymphette fashion. some days he'll be fine with it and other days he'll tell me my hobbies are stupid or that i'm an attention seeker or something. i'm this close to being over it and i've dated him for a long time. he knows it upsets me too, like hes really mean stuff so it's not like he's innocently making fun...it's just that most of the time he's all good with it so it'd feel bad to break up over something that only happens sometimes. but even him just saying mean shit once makes all the times he's nice about seem so fake. like you already told me you don't like, so don't pretend to be excited for me when a new dress comes in the mail or something...

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 21:15:27 2015 No.8779612

>>8779598
He obviously doesn't like it and is just being nice to you most of the time. That doesn't mean he doesn't get happy for you when you get a new item, it just means HE doesn't care for the item itself. most guys don't like lolita. So if your hope is to brake it off with him in hopes of finding someone who likes it, you're in for some serious struggle. Most of us are lucky to find someone who tolerates it, and weary of anyone who likes it too much. Honestly he sounds like a dick, but...If He's being a dick over the way you normaly look, you should definitely end it. If you're wearing lolita once a month for meet-ups it's hardly something to brake up over though.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 21:25:15 2015 No.8779619
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>>8778952
Go ahead and join the Chicago comm (there are three Illinois comms, but Chicago's the main one).
We're actually getting a lot of younger members (people just entering college) and it's a big comm in general, so I'm sure you'll find someone to be friends with, and there's no harm in introducing yourself and making online friends before meeting irl.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 21:26:38 2015 No.8779620

>>8779612
Idc that he doesn't like it, but HE almost broke up with ME when I started talking about going to lolita events. He also said that lolita doesn't count as a hobby, that it's for pedophiles....it not only shows that he not know anything about it nor care to learn, but also the fact that he says these things to me means he has no respect for my interests. I think video games are fucking stupid but I don't' tell him they don't count as a hobby or even call them stupid to his face. I don't try to make him feel guilty for enjoying the things he likes so I wish he would do the same for me.

And he is a dick about my normal non-lolita outfits too. I was getting ready for work and wearing a fuzzy sweater and like docker-capris and he told me "You look like you''r'e asking for attention" and I was like "what is my butt hanging out or something???" and he said "no it's not your body, your outfit is just attention seeking". god i fucking hate him sometimes.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 21:32:09 2015 No.8779623 >>8779620 Get away from him. You'll be thanking yourself in due time.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 21:33:39 2015 No.8779626

>>8778962
iktf. I really want to have a nice vacation after uni (I want to visit my online friends across the U.S and Canada), but I had to put it on the back burner because I was between jobs and had to put loan repayment as priorty, and just as I was going to prepare a budget for 2016, my mom found a house in a nicer neighborhood that she wants to have; it'd be under my name.

My folks have done a lot for me. they're getting close to retirement age, and the neighborhood I've grown up in have gotten worse over the years. I really want to do it (even though I doubt we'll nab it since it's pending sale), but it's a lot of pressure with loans to repay and looking into grad school - possibly in a different state.

Even if we don't get it, it's making me feel pretty guilty about spending money on my dumb hobbies (lolita, music, and now I want to get a Pullip).

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 21:54:07 2015 No.8779651 >>8779620 Your bf sounds like shit.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:05:13 2015 No.8779658 >>8779620 leave the cunt, he sounds like a shitter.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:08:25 2015 No.8779663

>>8779620
RUN, anon. I used to have a boyfriend that would do the same, except the insults were on a national basis (I'm Eastern European), and he'd make jokes about mail order brides and prostitution that I explicitly said were offensive to me. Those people have a problem, and you're gonna turn into their personal punching bag either figuratively or literally if you don't get away now. You don't need toxic people in your life. You do you.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:29:29 2015 No.8779677 >>8779620 Why the fuck haven't you dumped his ass yet, dumbass?

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:36:37 2015 No.8779685

>>8779620
>but HE almost broke up with ME when I started talking about going to lolita events

That's enough for me to say he's a controlling fucker and you don't need that in your life. I know it's hard to leave and I know that shit. But if you stay, you're only condoning it. You're only accepting it and it WILL get worse. You are better than that.

This shit is borderline abusive behavior. Does my boyfriend have hobbies I'm not to keen on? Yeah. Do i have hobbies he's probably not to keen on? Yeah. Oh most definitely. - But if it's not actively HURTING anyone or the relationship in a way, say, alcoholism was, then he has no right to put you down like that. He doesn't have to like it, but expressing it to you AT ALL, let alone in that way, is fucked up.

You're better than that. You deserve more.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:36:43 2015 No.8779686 >>8779620 I can't imagine being so desperate that you'd stay with someone like that. Are you really ugly or something? Even so, have some pride and dump his ass.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:39:31 2015 No.8779690

>>8779677
80% of the time he's amazing so it makes me really upset to think of losing him, I really wish he'd just stop being an asshole but I know that wil lnever happen at this point. He goes through periods where he's absolutely perfect and then suddenly gets worse and worse again. We also live together so that makes it hard. Plus we've been on again off again and past break ups with him have been terrible, stressful, scary, so I'm really scared to initiate it again.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:42:49 2015 No.8779692

>>8779690
Also I know I need to leave him. This has been something I've been dealing with for a while. I know I deserve better but the thought of leaving him is extremely scary, and I know that he would say things that really hurt me if I tried to leave him. thanks for your concern etc everyone. I'm mostly just venting here, I know ultimately what I need to do but it's something that's going to take a lot of time to actually happen

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:44:23 2015 No.8779693 >>8779690 Run, just run.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:44:23 2015 No.8779694

>>8779690
>80% of the time he's amazing so it makes me really upset to think of losing him, I really wish he'd just stop being an asshole
I used to think that about a shitty ex I had but once I dumped him I realized none of those times he was ever "amazing", I was just trying to feel grateful that he was being nice and not treating me like shit for once. If he gets weird when you split get an order of protection. That's what I had to do because my ex kept stalking me telling me I "owed" him another chance and that he'd kill himself if I didn't "act like a grown woman" and date him again.
It was scary and so stressful I couldn't eat for days at a time back then but it was the right way to get him the fuck away from me.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:51:53 2015 No.8779698

>>8779694
Sorry for super super OT but I've honestly had one against him before. we were apart for almost a year, and that whole year I was miserable and anyone I dated just paled in comparison to my image of him. we finally got back together and I had the order annulled...
I know you guys are all right but I just have grown so used to having him in my life....he has been such a big part of it and he has really come a long way. but it doesn't seem like some of the small but important things are changing. I really need to get back to a therapist for this. I havent been able to talk about it with anyone for a while.

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:52:03 2015 No.8779700

I'm tired of reaching out to people and trying to create friendships that go nowhere. My dream is to have a lolita friend I can share my hobby with. Even just a friend would do as long as they care about me and don't use me for shit like "friends" in the past. All I want is something fucking real, like I'm the person they call because they can depend on me for serious shit and vice versa. I don't know if it's my area or what. I've made friends every place I've ever lived but here. The people here are so cold and distance.

I'm not super clingy, might text once a month or so asking to get together, wishing happy birthday, asking them how their hobbies/school/job are going, etc. If they do manage to show, it's dead silence until I initiate. Again. And again. I thought friendships were two way streets. I try to learn about their hobbies to chat with them, but when I think about it, no one has ever taken even 10 minutes to care about my interests. Sometimes I'll meet someone cool but it's like "hey, sorry, my friendship quota" is full and they flake.

It fucking hurts. I see some people with arguably annoying/bad personalities like 10 best buds and wonder how the hell they do it. My boyfriend is probably tired of hearing about lolita but I so badly daydream of dressing up with a friend just to go thrifting or even just showing coords to each other...

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 22:54:25 2015 No.8779702 >>8779700 Wow, that's a lot of grammar mistakes and typos. I'm sorry, tired from watching my young nephews all day

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 23:20:49 2015 No.8779717

>>8779700
Same, anon. I've lived in Northern Europe for a year going on two years, and I can't wait to go back to the UK for my master's. Well not exactly 'back' but close fucking enough, at this point I don't really care where as long as it's close to home.

Most people here won't talk to me for one reason or another and always seem to think I'll judge them for their 'bad English'. I honestly couldn't give less of a shit about anyone's English if I tried, and theirs is perfectly fine at that. Then, there's the excuses: 'Us Nordics are so closed off, you know', 'we're just shy and quiet'. No you're fucking not, at least not around everyone else. It's like they're politely rebuffing every single attempt of mine to get closer to them, only to turn around and say 'well you never seem to wanna hang with us'. I actively approach them every single time to ask them about their day and shite, initiate conversation, be friendly, whatever. Most of the time they just fidget in their seat and mutter 'y-yeah, haha...' awkwardly and return their gaze to their mobile, ignoring me. So it's not for my lack of trying.

Surely I can't be THAT intimidating, or awkward, or annoying. I've once been told by some arsehole that 'people can sense toxic, negative people so they get away from them' but I'm a ray of sunshine otherwise, this post notwithstanding. And I've never been outwardly unhappy, not in front of them.

I don't get it, there's another girl in class who's rude and openly bitchy to some and a guy who constantly makes sarcastic, snide comments that are often uncalled for. They get on fine with the class. The girl even talks mad shit about some of them.

The only thing that really sets me apart is that I'm a native speaker, but I'm hardly the only one in the school (I am in my class, however).

I hear some girls outright brag about being bitchy/bratty to others yet they have 'squads' comprising 1000 members each. Why?

Anonymous Wed Dec 23 23:44:58 2015 No.8779750

>>8778910
Well, things got worse when she stormed into the apartment with her parents demanding money from us.... despite her still owing from the past few months of rent. Had to get police involved with her to leave. Her boyfriend had lied big time about what happened and wouldn't believe me otherwise.
Fuck her, she was an ita anyway. Let her boyfriend hurt her like he's done other women, I'm done.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 23:56:16 2015 No.8779773 >>8779700 Same feeling, except I'm just not into lolita. It's hard to make friends. The friends I do have aren't local and I only see them at conventions. I'm fairly close to just giving up and becoming a recluse.

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 00:00:33 2015 No.8779779

>>8779692
I understand. Best of luck to you, anon. Just remember, you're important to many people and valued. Anything he says in the heat of the moment is him trying to put you down so you feel trapped.

You're wonderful and important. Don't let him take that way from you no matter what happens.

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 00:15:32 2015 No.8779789

>>8779580
Same here! I feel I devote so much time to school and work that once I finally have free time I don't know what to do with myself. I've been out for about two weeks and I didn't decorate for Christmas until Thursday. I JUST finished hemming some jeans I bought earlier this month but have yet to read any more Jojo because I only want to read at bed time and I'm usually glued to my phone still.

Maybe set out some supplies for a project before bed that way when you wake up in the morning the first thing you think of is the project you prepped for. I kept my jeans in a visible spot so I would be reminded regularly and once I finally sat down with them I breezed through it like nothing.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 00:49:12 2015 No.8779847 >>8777779 Omg thank you! I'm gonna try to get it

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 00:50:47 2015 No.8779849 >>8777912 I make skirts and sundresses for the summer, it saves money if you use whatever is on sale at the end of the season

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 00:54:12 2015 No.8779855 >>8777992 >using bmi >year of our Lord 2015 Gg fucking pleb. I have a higher bmi than people would ever think but I'm muscular and lean

>>	Bunnyfriendo@hotmail.com Thu Dec 24 01:01:20 2015 No.8779865 >>8779700 Be my email friend please, if you want to send me your address or whatever we can be pen pals, too!

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 01:15:38 2015 No.8779884 I was trimming my bangs and I accidentally gave myself a hime cut It looks cute and I like it but I also gave myself a heart attack

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 01:16:13 2015 No.8779885
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>cosplay friends always hang out with each other outside of cons
>never invited
>try to make an effort to invite them out
>only person who ever offers is this weeb i've known for years
>not a bad person but god knows i don't want to be with him in public
>lowkey want to die every time cosplay friends post pictures
>feel like everyone secretly hates me

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 06:47:05 2015 No.8780190

>>8779717
it's not bad English or whatnot anon, we seriously just are not the type of social that everyone around us (geographically) is. we're reserved as fuck until we get drunk or something random brings us closer.

your classmates or whatever seem like just bitchy/xenophobic tho, which I suppose is kinda typical of the <20 y/o crowd who is still stuck in the mid-teens clique mindset. hell, I'm a local and I struggle with making friends. the last few people I've met were through /cgl/ hobbies, and I suddenly got a lot closer with an old classmate cause it turned out he plays the same videogame as me + he messaged me while drunk on his birthday

>>8779855
yes you walnut, that's why every BMI calculator says it's not applicable to highly active/sports people

I'm still paranoia as fuck about my local lolitas finding out I'm looking into the fashion and I just got confirmation that the local comm leader goes on here so welp, all of my fears are back 100%. I was even considering wearing it to a con but now I'm convinced I won't be able to because I'm nervous they'll think I'm ita as fuck or smth

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 06:59:26 2015 No.8780194

>>8779717
Nothern Europe here. You either have to be there when the cliques are formed or be the quiet type, because then people will approach you when they think you might feel lonely. Right now you're giving off the vibe that you're doing fine by yourself and don't need to be included.

BUT I did notice that in my school people tend to group by the language they speak the best and that might be the reason you're left out.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 07:21:03 2015 No.8780208 I know this isn't a major feel but.. > just got shipping notification from Baby for rando pack > now fucking terrified it's going to be shit Plus > tenshishop didn't do online orders for ap packs > hope to god she pulls through on new years, ugh.

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 08:02:16 2015 No.8780245
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>ugly (nasolabial folds, witch nose, eye bags, donkey face)
>15 pounds overweight
>bad hair, bad teeth
>have embarrassing online presence from being a teenager with untreated BPD
>ruined so many friendships
>the past five years have been nothing but a series of embarrassing behaviors that I wish more than anything I could go back and change
>want to message old friends and tell them how sorry I am for being such an immature fuckwit, but scared of bothering them
>trying so hard to clean up my act and be an honorable, positive, kind person
>everytime i think I accomplish something, i remember how disgusting i am for everything i've done in the past and i just fall into a deep state of depression
>tfw you were trash in the past and trash now
>tfw you would give anything to make up for your mistakes
>tfw people still hate you and always will
>tfw not even pretty

Happy Holidays, seagulls.

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 08:34:32 2015 No.8780265

>>8779700
You know anon, I feel the same as you. I am not into lolita, but I like to lurk on this board and my hobbies consist of anime, drawing and figures. And what I learned while trying to make friends is, if you didnt have a best friend when you were young or get to know people in your teens and made close friends, you are out of luck.

It seems to be really hard to make a friend the older you get, especially if your interests are not the normal stuff. I even try to make friends online, but everybody seems to have their close group of friends already so its impossible to get in.
So at this point I kinda gave up on making real friends be it online or in real life.
But I hope that you find a good friend soon!

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 08:37:01 2015 No.8780273

>>8778038
Do your cosfriends know about why you don't like Christmas? Not to blame you or anything, I sympathize, but because out of experience I know that if both sides don't have the same context, one might interpret it wrong.

Either way, your friends sound like little shits for shitting on you for that regardless.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 09:26:20 2015 No.8780317 >>8780245 Fuck anon I think you might be me. Jedi hugs from a fellow trash Queen.

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 10:06:10 2015 No.8780377

I ordered a bunch of items for a NYE event, and I swear I will never do this around Christmas again. Two of my items' tracking are both in limbo (Royal Mail hasn't updated in over a week since the initial "we got the parcel" message), and a seller has failed to ship multiple times on a piece that I really want for this event, for a good reason but it's still stressing me out. Please, Mana-sama, let all my stuff get here in time.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 10:18:53 2015 No.8780385 >>8779421 i love hearing stories of gulls helping each other

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 13:25:10 2015 No.8780536
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>few weeks ago
>comm had a christmas meet on a weekend
>working on weekend
>had to rush home after work, get ready, and drive to meet
>friends are happy to see me and we all have a great time
>however by the time I got there it was very late and it was dark
>didn't really get any good coordinate pictures
>feel general malaise and lack the will to dress up again solely for the purpose of getting a decent coord shot on my time off
>everyone else posting lovely composed pictures of their christmas coords
>cof makes me feel bad even though I'm happy for others
>tfw

Also it really doesn't feel like Christmas to me for some reason. Idk.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 15:57:05 2015 No.8780719 >>8780377 Annnnd the seller has backed out and refunded me. Great. Merry Christmas.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 17:10:51 2015 No.8780812 >>8780317 Good I know I'm not the only one. I hope we can both get past this. <3

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 18:19:28 2015 No.8780870
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>Single now for about a year
>Last relationship ended with her declaring she's aromantic
>get told to this day she still shits on me but that she's the victim
>Despite that even when I knew the relationship was on the rocks tried to keep communication a thing
>She's decided she's not aromantic that she 'just dates shitty people'
>I was her 5th failed relationship
>Just hurts to know some poor girl will be her next victim.
>The feels when it makes you think you're responsible if someone else gets hurt

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 20:09:01 2015 No.8780971

>>8774053
I think wigs and natural hair can both look good as long as it is styled well.

However, I really hope that an anti-wig trend doesn't take over completely. I have the thinnest, least styleable hair ever and there is nothing I could ever do to make it look good in a Lolita coord. I love wigs for myself.

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 20:15:00 2015 No.8780976

>>8780245
Honestly, don't message them to apologise. Small relapses are going to happen, and if you get in the habit of apologising and saying you've changed every time it rings hollow.just drop them messages next time there's something relevant to send them or talk about, and if it comes up then it does
Good luck, it sounds like you're doing so well. Please remember to be proud of yourself and all that you have achieved, the bad times are only temporary, if you have achieved something once you can do it again .

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 20:20:08 2015 No.8780979

>>8779717
living in sweden right now and i can relate anon, the only place i ever talk to others is at lolita meets but i know my bad swedish ruins the meets
i only ever talk to the kids i teach when at work, since im an assistant teacher for special needs and refugee children my co workers are rather limited.
I have two friends at most within sweden, both thanks to cgl/4chan in some way

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 20:22:30 2015 No.8780981

>>8780265
Friendless gulls unite!
I'm the same, I can make friends but everyone's 'best friend' quota is already at max capacity, and if someone does have the space and time for me they live a million miles away.
People like us just have to be quiet souls and play supporting roles. I hope that one day when I'm really old and forced into a home I'll meet a cute old lady, we'll become best friends and we'll have mischievous old lady adventures for our final years. Or I'll get cats.

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 20:27:36 2015 No.8780987
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>>8780265
Yep yep yep...I have a few kind of close friends from undergrad/late high school but they all have so many other friends that I feel pretty unimportant. All the friends I made in high school drifted away from me too.at least i have my sister...
On the bright side we'll probably have another chance whem we're old and everyone our age is desperate for company lol...

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 20:51:42 2015 No.8781013 I was the only one to comment on a lj listing for my dream dress and i got no reply when i messaged the seller either. two weeks later i commented again and she told me she'd sold it... I'm a bit salty. Maybe next year.

Magicalgirlmoonstone@gmail.com Thu Dec 24 22:02:08 2015 No.8781111
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>>8779700
Honestly I've had such a bad time making quality friends since high school. Id love to make some girl friends to talk about manga and figures with, maybe give each other tips on makeup or fashion. I make a little spending cash giving tarot readings, I could read your cards. We could watch Disney movies and drink tea. What I'm basically trying to say is if there are and lonely gulls out there this Holiday season we could maybe be friends.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 24 22:43:45 2015 No.8781142 >>8777941 So much projecting

Anonymous Thu Dec 24 23:59:49 2015 No.8781225

>>8780971
Agreed. I personally dgaf if people start universally hating on wigs. My style most days is more alternative, and my real hair would look ita as fuck. It's a fashion, to me, not a lifestyle, and that means changing my appearance to suit how I feel on a particular day. But I'm rambling. Go team wigs! I'll be with you until the end.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 25 00:11:22 2015 No.8781235 >>8781225 Cosplay lolita detected. Don't compare your cosplay shit to people who actually wear it as a fashion.

Claudie !!5M+s+ZHeFhU Fri Dec 25 00:16:05 2015 No.8781244
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>Make friends with a seagull after a friend-finder thread
>Seems pretty cool at first, we hang out a few times
>The more we hang out, the more cringe-worthy I realize that she is
>Has this complex that she's better than "all those weebs" and wants to talk drama all the time
>Keeps dropping references to her Japanese grandmother
>Insists she's fluent in Japanese
>Stalls when I actually try to talk to her in Japanese, saying she's "super rusty"
>Uh, ok
>After a while, the "I'm better than the other weebs" complex starts getting annoying, but she's nice enough, so whatever
>One night, she gets really drunk
>Starts telling me to unfriend certain people on my friends list
>Tells me it's not fair of me to comment on their statuses because then she has to look at those ~cringy weebs~
>Fed up at her attitude at this point
>Try to suggest that maybe she could unfollow me if she doesn't want things I do on her feed
>Flips a shit, calls me immature for asking her to unfollow if it bothers her so much
>Unfriends me

I will never be able to understand the "but I'M not a weeb!!!" types. You're not really fooling anyone. I'm kind of relieved she stopped talking to me of her own volition, though; Her b.o. was horrible.

Anonymous Fri Dec 25 00:59:27 2015 No.8781281

>lone ouji
>frills are "ew gay" to guys my age
>even for the ones who are queer
>even to my female friends
>only my sister appreciates it
>talks with me about jfash and looks at KERA, GLB with me

i started this post intending to complain but ended cheering myself up. thanks, sis, for liking me in fancy pants when no one else gets it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 25 01:40:44 2015 No.8781307 >>8780976 I've just never actually apologized to them before, but okay. Thanks, merry Christmas friend.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 25 04:38:24 2015 No.8781375 >>8781244 Whoa, whoever that gull was sounds like a drama queen. Good riddance. Hopefully she learns how to bathe properly.

Anonymous Fri Dec 25 04:51:16 2015 No.8781381

>>8781235
Because you can't wear more than one fashion in your life. Because you have to revolve every personal aesthetic choice around a single look and be devoted to that one style and never wear anything else. I don't even cosplay, I just like looking like a princess a couple days a week without making it my lifestyle. Try harder.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 25 13:30:10 2015 No.8781720 >>8781381 lol Cosplay lolita plz

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 25 17:00:44 2015 No.8781908 >>8776087 Dream life.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 25 17:03:53 2015 No.8781911 >>8777720 Anon, your friend was fucking stupid for projecting that. You're not wrong.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 25 17:04:57 2015 No.8781912 >>8777987 I like this mix of interests.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 25 17:07:53 2015 No.8781917 >>8778885 She will break that shit. Fuck that couple.

Anonymous Sat Dec 26 10:13:06 2015 No.8782850
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>Just had extension of contract for my dream job I had a few months ago in my dream company
>Live with my lovely parents so no rent, 1000+ eurodollars are added in my account each month
>Got an incredible christmas
>Working on my next cosplay is goind so good
>Cosplay is my most expensive hobby with the occasional movies and video games
>No debts
>My daily workout is giving some nice results
The future is looking bright goddamn

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 26 16:18:50 2015 No.8783358 >>8782850 WHATS THE JOB?

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 26 16:27:16 2015 No.8783370 >>8783358 Video game tester. Dev-tester actually, so even better.

Anonymous Sat Dec 26 17:19:38 2015 No.8783449

>>8777941
>Did you constantly complain about being depressed/broke/whatever while not doing anything to ever correct it?
This so hard, along with weight. Get a job/exercise/get some therapy or stfu. No one cares, not even friends. This is the best way to push people away because you are a whiny little bitch.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 27 14:06:35 2015 No.8784619 >>8773989 I want to hug you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 27 16:55:52 2015 No.8784822 Just got back from a meet and realized that I am a giant spaghetti monster who is incapable of making friends in person, and therefore will never have kawaii rorita friend group to go on outings with. >i'm gr8 online tho feelsbadman.jpg

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