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Have any cosplayers here had issues with creepy perverts at cons? I usually haven't had much issues but at the latest con I had one really scary one and i'm wondering how other cosplayers deal with it.

>> No.6415901

>>6415883
>Anna the Cosplay Queen

Don't reply, everyone.

>> No.6415917

>>6415901
why not?

>> No.6415938

>>6415883
I had someone steal my underwear once

fucking punk

>> No.6415954

>>6415938
lol

>> No.6415966

>>6415938
Hopefully you weren't cosplaying a strike witches character at the time this happened.

>> No.6415973

>>6415966
naw I was cosplaying Zolo and I wasn't wearing them at the time they got stolen from my locker

>> No.6416005

so many fucking times

the worst are the chronic stalkers

>> No.6416041

>>6415883
>anna

what agay naeem

>> No.6416096

A couple of times. One of them followed me around for half the day before we managed to get him kicked out.

>> No.6416104

>>6415883
too many times to mention

>> No.6420762

I am the pervert...

>> No.6420777

Was stalked for a full day while in a Harley Quinn cosplay by a dude in a kinda shitty Scarecrow cosplay. Didn't even really realize it as it was a small con, but when we went looking for pics later he is in LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE ONE OF ME from that day. Luckily he seemed not to recognize me in my other cosplays so was safe the rest of the weekend.

>> No.6420783

What do you expect when you are dressing up in costumes designed to appeal to male desires?

>> No.6420782

I never show any skin anymore when I cosplay. It's like creepy neckbeard moths to a flame.

>> No.6420795

99.9% of guys labeled by women as "creepy pervs" at cons are really just shy, unattractive guys that have done nothing wrong. You label them as such because you are socially awkward around men you dont know and its easier to blame men than to blame yourself.

If a guy at a con was a hot asian stud you'd probably let him put his dick on your shoulder and you wouldn't care.

>> No.6420802

>>6420783
Been stalked while convincingly dressed as a man too. Women can be perverts.

>> No.6420821

I saw a beautiful panty shot today from this hipster girl. Wonderful feel.

>> No.6420886

>>6420795

No, some poeple are just genuinely creepy. They overstep the mark. They act like they want to just slot right in to your life after a few sentences. They don't get that they aren't wanted and they hang around when they should just go back to their own friends.

>> No.6420891

>>6420886
In this case take a proper guy with you for protection.
Easy.

>> No.6420898

>>6420886
A guy being "genuinely creepy" is a guy who hides in your bushes at night. What you're describing is simple social awkwardness. Something you probably suffer from too, since the simple act of a man saying the wrong thing seems to put you at such unease.

>> No.6420899

>>6420891

Or how about the creeps just don't be creepy? It's not hard to not annoy other people.

>> No.6420906

>>6420899
Or how about you stop persecuting guys for your own irrational fears of men?

No one is trying to rape you. Get over yourself.

>> No.6420913

>>6420899
How about you understand that quite some people at these cons are autistic or mentally have an issue.

It's just how it is, I might have not been to many cons but I cringe whenever these people moslty homestuck are around me.

Just face it, these cons attract colossal faggots. It will never change

>> No.6420926

>>6420898

>What you're describing is simple social awkwardness

No, in my case it's been more like social intrusion. Some guys assume they own a piece of you just because they like what they see.

>>6420906

Haha nope. Most guys are fine, and I'm mostly fine with strangers approaching me. But some people just don't know how to behave.

>> No.6420929

>women still pretending that "creepy" doesn't mean "unattractive male"

>> No.6420938

>>6420929
Women still pretending that guys dont get randomly hugged and sqeezed in the ass.

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>>6420929
It's more like
creepy => unattractive
but not necessarily
unattractiva => creepy

I dunno, I just be as rude as I can and bitch them away... After having a guy taking dozens of pictures of me and a friend at a con and not sending me a single one later. Some friend of his was apparently making a video out of them, so he naturally couldn't send me them. Uhuh, sure. He onlinestalked me a while after it, too, I mostly ignored him, though. (Just asked for said pics multiple times)
Later I see him meeting me with my friends at another con. Apparently he asked my friend whether he can tag along. Needlessly said con was ruined. Mfw I learn she didn't want him to there either. Bitch just can't say no.

>> No.6421180

>>6420795
Ahahahahahaha
Many a woman have probably 'labeled' you as a creep, right? Listen, those of us with superior social skills can tell what's up. We know you want in our pussy, and polity refuse access. However, you autists can't take the hint unless we do something mean/harsh. Don't make us get harsh with you. Stick to fat autistic woman and let us pretty people be.

>> No.6421188

>>6420795
If only us stupid woman could realize when a guy is being a creepy shit-head and making us uncomfortable. :(

>>6415883
A guy once smelled my hair on the bus to the con. I was looking out the window and could see his reflection as he did it. He had a weird sex face on, and jerked back when I turned my head and acted like he didn't know shit. I also had some random guy squeeze my but in a crowed, but he stormed off all fast and I never saw him again.

>> No.6421203

>All women are subtle in exaggerating their weaknesses; they are inventive when it comes to weaknesses in order to appear as utterly fragile ornaments who are hurt even by a speck of dust. Their existence is supposed to make men feel clumsy, and guilty on that score. Thus they defend themselves against the strong and "the law of the jungle."

>> No.6421204

>>6421180
>We know you want in our pussy, and polity refuse access

Woah, you need to get out more kid.

>> No.6421240

Not really too creepy, but at Youma this dude wearing a knit mask found me 3 separate times during the day and hugged me each time. The third time he kinda rubbed his face against the side of my head. My friends were like wtfff and I was a little wat.

But I haven't had anything super confrontational and serious. There's the one guy I met through cons that thinks we're meant to be together but he only does this online so meh.

>> No.6421271

>I want to dress like a whore to attract men
>ew not those men, they're ugly
>I better go to tumblr to blog about how I was raped at the con today

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>>6421271

>> No.6421373

>>6421271

>I'm an ugly faggot who approaches hot chicks at cons and gets mad when they aren't polite enough to see past my uglies and be my fwiend

Uh it doesn't mean automatic good times just because you like someone's look. And if you assume that you're probably one of the stalker creeps. No need to get mad, dude. Just stop being a crazy.

>> No.6421369

>>6420929
Reminds me of this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBVuAGFcGKY

>> No.6421594

>>6420906
:'(((( someone is butthurt that girls don't like him

>> No.6421603

>>6421373
Clearly butthurt whore

>> No.6421658

>>6421373

>dress like a whore
>get stalked
>but y wut did i do

>> No.6421684

>>6420938
Bullshit, I was present when a friend of mine got his ass pinched while playing Drummania in an arcade. Saying guys don't get creeped on is just flatout wrong.

>> No.6421695

ITT bitches be full of themselves

>> No.6421784

>Go out showing 70% of the tits and 50% of the ass.
>Gets mad if someone stares at her
Great logic there mongoloids

>> No.6421796

What the fuck? If you're going to wear shit like that expect pictures to be taken, I say, you're in public.

>> No.6421815

>>6420929

Pretty much this.

It seems to be the main difference between Male to female attraction vs Female to male attraction.

Men admit that they aren't attracted because she is ugly. Women call him "creepy" if she isn't attracted.

Girls would be far better off mentally if they would just admit to themselves that if Johny Depp walked up to them and said the exact same shit, they would instantly wet their panties.

>> No.6421822
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>>6421180
Most shy/awkward men are actually just looking for a loving relationship and girl to cuddle with who shares their interests. It's the smooth talkers who want nothing but some T&A action. Your social skills are honestly pretty fucking bad if you haven't realized this.

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>>6421784
By the Great Khan's name, what did you just blather at me, you filthy mutt? I’ll have you know I was hand-chosen amongst the topmost men by the Kurultai, and have been involved in numerous secret raids across all the known world, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am learned in all forms of warfare and am the greatest archer in the entire Imperial army. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will end your life with precision the likes of which has never before been seen upon this mortal plane, mark my words. You think you can escape my wrath by saying that through messenger? Think again, dog. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the entire Empire and your pitiful hut is being tracked this instant so you better prepare for the storm, worm. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. Your life is forfeit, child. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that’s without my horse. Not only am I a master of mounted combat, but I also have access to the entire arsenal of the Golden Horde and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable visage off the face of the world, I swear to High Heaven. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, perhaps you could have silenced your tongue. But you could not, you did not, and now you are paying the price for your insolence, you thrice-damned fool. My steed will excrete fury upon you and you will drown in it. Heed my words and know them to be true: your days are numbered.

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>BAWWWWWWWWWWWW LESS ATTRACTIVE MEMBERS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX FIND ME ATTRACTIVE WHEN I DRESS AS A CHARACTER WHO IS OVER 50% NAKED

ITT first world problems.

>> No.6421855

I am a guy from /fit/ and /a/ and I've done some decent cosplays. One had me showing off my 6pack and I did get a few fat yaoi fangirls strangely following me as well as some cute girls.

Maybe it's because I am a guy and therefore only get hit on 5% or so as often as I probably would if I were a female of proportional physical attractiveness, but it honestly doesn't bother me. Attraction is not a choice. Resenting people for being attracted to you seems foolish and arrogant.

polite sage

>> No.6421980

>>6421822
Read this fucking thread. Shy/awkward men are bitter assholes. Attractive men tend to have more positive views on woman. socially adequate people have the ability to see things through another persons perspective, and know why something they said is wrong. This is something beta males are incapable of, as they can't grasp why anything they do can be seen negatively. Hence the, "I'M A NIIIIIIICE GUUUUUUUY" shit. No you aren't. Try blaming yourself instead of others for a change.

>> No.6421995

I've been creeped on a before, and a few times it was when I wasn't even in cosplay. I don't really care what someone looks like when they approach me, but if they break my personal space boundaries they get shit no matter what.

The first thing that comes to mind was a guy that tried to frot me while I was standing waiting for my friends. That was probably the worst.

>> No.6422000

ITT nice guys bashing woman.

>> No.6422002

>>6421980
>Shy/awkward men are bitter assholes
This. Because they're taught "The nice/nerdy/awkward guy always gets the girl". They tend to feel entitled to the girl they want, because that's the way it works in movies and stories.

And at least attractive guys don't sit around grumbling about how they hate all women. There was a "nice guy" (neckbeard with a horrible attitude about everything and severe entitlement) who was wanting me to be his girlfriend. He was a horrible person, so I said no. He just kept telling me that I would "come around eventually".

At least when I told any normal to attractive guy no, they respected that and stopped bothering me.

>> No.6422022

>>6421980
>It is impossible for a guy to actually be nice. They are all secretly assholes.

Wrong. Nice guys are not bitter assholes. Nice guys turn into bitter assholes once they grow tired of clueless bitches such as yourself.

>> No.6422046

>>6422022
>i'm calling you a bitch because you're a bitch

nice circular reasoning aspie. don't you have cosplayer to follow around while sweating profusely?

>> No.6422044

>>6422022
>>Shy/awkward=nice because I said so

I never said nice guys are assholes. Paradox. You fags who complain about how woman wont date you despite being "SOOOOOO NICE AND PERFECT WOMAN ARE FUCKING STUPID", are assholes. Woman are not attracted to shy, awkward men. They lack basic empathy and blame society for their misfortunes, rather than seeing their own flaws. Rather than hating on "smooth talkers" for understanding woman, perhaps you should learn from them?
Oh, wait, I forgot. You're too perfect. Sorry.

>> No.6422062

>>6422044
The men you are referring to as Shy and awkward usually are nice guys. Very few men actually think in this
>"SOOOOOO NICE AND PERFECT WOMAN ARE FUCKING STUPID"
way you seem to think they do. Also,
>They lack basic empathy and blame society for their misfortunes, rather than seeing their own flaws.
Is totally wrong as well. Ironically, you just proved that the one who lacks basic empathy is yourself. Hence why I called you a clueless bitch.

Seriously. You don't know jack shit about men. You only get any because you are a girl and therefore don't need any social skills to get laid. The hilarious Irony here is that if you had been born a man you would probably end up being one of the very 30yr old virgins you despise.

>> No.6422070

Usually it's people who befriend woman and put up the nice guy act in hopes of getting laid, and when it doesn't work they fall back on being nice

Being an asexual male, I like to observe my friends when it comes to relationships. This is the case 80% of the time.

The other part of the time they are actually very pleasant people, who don't put on a mask but just have really high standards

>> No.6422076

ITT: Trolls trying to troll other trolls, and the idiots that feed them.

>> No.6422085

>>6422062
All you have to do is read this thread to know I'm right. Ever been to /rk9/? Lots of "nice" socially awkward guys on there. They think in the mentality I described to surprising accuracy. Fuck off with the "all us bitter woman haters actually are nice". You fags have shown your true colors so many times I can't even describe.

>> No.6422120

>>6422085
Oh boy, your inability to grasp how those men actually think knows no bounds.

Let me explain it to you in retard-proof mode.

Most of the men you are talking about actually go through 4 stages. Some of them never progress past stage 2 or 3. The lucky ones find a decent girl with a non bitchy personality at stage 1.

1. Nice guy. Actual, honest, kindhearted boy next door that wants nothing more than to find a girl to love and be loved.
2. Realization kicks in, bitter stage. this is basically /r9k/.
3. Acceptance and willingness to do something about it. Starts reading pua.
4. Asshole, but gets all the bitches because he knows that talking down to them makes

You in your infinite stupidity seem to think that stage 1 and 2 are the same. This probably leads you to turn down any stage 1 man you find to be awkward assuming they are just like /r9k/. This is hilarious self destruction on your part and I guarantee you will want to travel back in time and punch the shit out of yourself 15 years from now when you realize everything I am posting right now is true.

And you cannot bullshit me by saying this is false. I am a stage 4. I get girls by being intentionally aloof and uncaring towards them. I basically treat women like shit and then reward you with affection when you try to stop me. This method works 90% of the time. Then I pump and dump you.

Women are stupid, predictable, sex puppets. It's all you are good for. Deal with it.

>> No.6422146

I've had more problems with girls being creepy perverts and I'm female. Admittedly, I do tend toward crossplay so that might be why. I've been grouped several times and asked to kiss several people several times by the same people, which was a bit 'wtf?' ish to me.

I dealt with it by pointing out my staff or security badge and escorting them to meet the head of security. Then I'll rant about it to my friends.

>I think possibly Men notice the badge so don't bother me while fangirls tend to have logic go out the window that the don't notice my badge.

>> No.6422160

>>6422146
I think it's more of men don't want to be called rapists whereas females will more likely get away with it

>> No.6422165

>>6422120
>>1212
>>Being this beta

Most people who are outgoing and shy are like that by nature. Personality does not work in the way you are describing. Most woman prefer men with an outgoing personality, because shy men are ass holes. Also, we don't go for assholes like you seem to think. If we went for ass holes, we would all be dating bitter neckbeards such as yourself.
Again, you are claiming that I think nice guys are assholes. It's a fucking paradox. Get that through your head.

Outgoing men=nice
Shy men=fags (you)

>> No.6422173

Holy shit. I just wanted to read/sympathise with stalking stories.

All you bitter, creepy weirdos trying to justify your shit need to fuck off back to /r9k/ and stay there.

>ITT utter losers trying to argue girls into looking past their bad points and date them anyway lolololol

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>>6422173
girl pls add me pls

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>>6421311

>> No.6422374

>>6422165
Being a nice guy versus being an asshole and being shy/awkward versus outgoing are unrelated to each other. You can't really be dense enough to generalize all guys into "awkward guys are women hating assholes and outgoing guys are nice." There are shy nice guys and outgoing assholes as well. The main thing you are getting caught up on is that you are generalizing all socially awkward guys into r9k women haters, when in fact most awkward guys don't hate women at all.

>> No.6422408

>>6422165
In social psychology, shyness (also called diffidence) is the feeling of apprehension, lack of comfort, or awkwardness experienced when a person is in proximity to, approaching, or being approached by other people, especially in new situations or with unfamiliar people. Shyness may come from genetic traits, the environment in which a person is raised and personal experiences. There are many degrees of shyness. Stronger forms are usually referred to as social anxiety or social phobia. Shyness may merely be a personality trait or can occur at certain stages of development in children. The primary defining characteristic of shyness is a largely ego-driven fear of what other people will think of a person's behavior, which results in the person becoming scared of doing or saying what he or she wants to, out of fear of negative reactions, criticism, or rejection, and simply opting to avoid social situations instead.[1] Shyness also has strong cultural aspects.

Shy men are not fags, they are shy.
Fag men are fags, because they are assholes.

The two are completely different. Shy kids will not stalk you, shy people are passive and want to stay out of the spotlight. This is what their character defines. Either it be from experiences or genetic.

The fags you mention are mostly from on upcomming from bad parently or a mentally issue. This is mostly formed by experiences in their lives.

We can have a full 18 page dicussion of this. As you grow up into an adult you will understand why people do as they do. Ask yourself, why do they act like that, how could they have become like this.

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6422489

>As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh. ... Females of OkCupid, we site founders say to you: ouch! Paradoxically, it seems it’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex.

>> No.6422536

>>6422489
>implying okcupid attracts many average or good looking guys to begin with

from what i've gathered it attracts far more nutjobs and assholes who have similar unrealistic expectations.

>> No.6422553
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At anime cons, a guy will be labeled as a "creeper" simply by starting up a conversation with a girl and the girl not finding him attractive. The girl will always have some excuse such as "he was invading my space" or "he didn't know when to quit" or whatever, but really it's just girls at cons being fearful of men in social situations they feel they can't control. You'll notice that 99% of these "creeper" stories never actually involve anything happening to the girl in question except her being paranoid.

It's a funny thing. In normal daily life a woman being hit on by a guy is considered a normal thing and the woman doesn't mind it, but at an anime con the simple act of expressing interest in a woman will procure a reaction as though her civil rights have just been violated.

Contrary to what the media has taught you, men are not monsters and predators. You are not in any danger and persecuting men for doing nothing wrong makes you a bad person. Get over your androphobia and lighten up.

>> No.6422554

>>6422489
I cant understand this graphic, okcupid should consider changing their usability standards.

>> No.6422555

>>6422553

To be quite honest the difference between a "creeper" and a normal dude could be something as simple as taking too long to actually come up and talk to the girl, or being pretty awkward about it.

Besides, it's not like these girls are part of a community that's known for being unsocial or anything.

>> No.6422570

>>6421369
So damn true!
No wonder this post was ignored by females here, because there is not much to argue about.

>> No.6422603 [DELETED] 

>>6421369
lol
Reposting, from women for women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBVuAGFcGKY

>> No.6422607

>>6422570
From women to women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBVuAGFcGKY

>> No.6422626

The worst is when people just don't know when to leave and you wind up with a neckbeard following your group around. It makes things very awkward.

>> No.6422634

>>6422607

There should be rules on this that allow the attractive man to come forward and testify that he hit on her very provocatively thus nullifying her harassment claim if 'creeper's' charged harassment was less than or equal to his. GET ME TO THE LEGISLATURE!

>> No.6422635

>>6422553
But then you have the people who actually go around taking up skirt photos of people, people have a right to be weary of strangers, just because we're all in costume doesn't mean we're all friends.

>> No.6422636

>>6422626
My semi-mate does that, its hilarious when you are watching from the sides.
The people do not dare to speak up and they are cringing hard.

Comedy gold if you ask me.

>> No.6422639

>>6422636
Is he fat?
I might know who he is.

>> No.6422642

>>6422636
What a cock sucker.

>> No.6422645

>>6422639

>DO YOU KNOW JERRY? FROM CALIFORNIA??

>> No.6422647

>>6422639
He is, doubt you know him.

>> No.6422651

>>6422647
I'm in the UK and you type like you are too.

>> No.6422652

>>6422647
Nah I'm from Holland, we mostly fly over for cons.
So when hes infuriating a group of people, me and my mates go into town to leave him with them for a few hours.

>>6422651
O but I am, Im the most hated person EU west.

>> No.6422657

>>6422651

>DO YOU KNOW WILL? FROM THE UK?? HE'S FAT??

>> No.6422659

>>6422657
inb4 you're the guy I'm thinking off an you're insanely butthurt

>> No.6422665

>>6422659

No, I live in the US, I just love the fact that this confirms my belief that women don't give second thoughts to how ridiculous their logic is.

My friend is a fat creeper

>Hey I know a fat creeper, is he the person you're talking about?

Well, you haven't given me much to work with, he's fat, yeah..

>Well you sound like you're from the UK from your typing, I am also from the UK it is probably him

I guess it could be

>Yep, it sounds like it's him.

Me: You're making some pretty ridiculous assumptions here

>lol you're probably him! you're the fat creeper I know!


>no capability to consider information from outside a personal bubble

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>>6422665
Probably shouldn't chip in but awwww here goes! You did say 'mate' and if you want to complain about women we already have a board for that.

>> No.6422681

>>6422669

I shouldn't generalize to women, I just did that to guarantee responses. I wasn't the guy that had the fat friend even, just an onlooker. Even still, the UK is massive, like it's just absurd to even have the 'idea' that the person UK dude was talking about was 'her' fat creeper.

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>>6422536
Lol. If that's the case..

>Our chart shows how men have rated women, on a scale from 0 to 5. The curve is symmetric and surprisingly charitable: a woman is as likely to be considered extremely ugly as extremely beautiful, and the majority of women have been rated about “medium.” The chart looks normalized, even though it’s just the unfiltered opinions of our male users.

>Given the popular wisdom that Hollywood, the Internet, and Photoshop have created unrealistic expectations of how a woman should look, I found the fairness and, well, realism, of this gray arc kind of heartening.

..then the worst of men are a hundred times more equitable than the best of women.

>> No.6422699

I try to be nice to people at cons no matter which gender or level of attractiveness they have. I have had guys hit on me but i would never be mean to them unless they started getting pushy or too forward, which none really have so far.

I understand what its like to be called a creep when your just shy and not doing anything wrong. I had a crush on a guy down the street from me in middle school but was too nervous to really talk to him about it. My friends took it upon themselves to tell him repeatedly that i liked him trying to get us together. I used to walk my dog, and like most normal people i would take him for a walk around the block and back.... The dude started calling me a creep and a stalker because he saw me in front of his house a few times..... we lived on the same street... what did he expect me to do go through people's backyards so i didn't pass his house?.... that crush ended soon haha

But i dont really like dating much as it is, seems like more of a hassle than its worth at the moment. And i dont want to date someone for the wrong reasons. I have met people i have alot in common with, but they're personality was too bold or out there and it wasn't appealing to me. And I wouldn't date an 'attractive guy' for the same reasons, or maybe we just couldn't find alot to talk about so that wouldn't work either.

You shouldn't label people in such broad groups. Some attractive guys are creeps and so are some unattractive ones. And its the same on the opposite end, there are also good people on both sides.

Just because someone doesn't want to date you doesn't always mean they are an ass or a stick up bitch. But i'll admit i've seen some 'attractive people' be rude to socially awkward shy people, it was really sad.
This sounds corny as hell haha but cant we all just get along?!

>> No.6422774

If you're going to approach anyone, anywhere, you have to be aware that they might not like it. Sure, it's not nice if someone is rude, or there's a genuine misunderstanding.

But that's not the cases we were talking about ITT. You can't just expect everyone to instantly love you. And if they're making it clear they don't want you around then leave. It's the people who stick around after this point who are the genuine creeps. They're bothering someone who wants to be left alone, and don't even have enough pride to back away and not be that person who's now being a pest.

>> No.6422807

>>6422699
I believe you put down a good post, this is how I view it in general as well.

>> No.6422834

>>6422698
>the worst of men are a hundred times more equitable than the best of women.

Why is it surprising that the worst-looking men would rate women as more attractive on average than average women would rate the worst-looking men?

>> No.6422865

>>6422834
ahahahahah you want to try that again champ

>> No.6422931
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6422931

The creep label only exists so women can not only reject men that don't suit their standards, but make it their fault as well.

It's pretty pathetic.

>> No.6422951

>>6422931

No one ever wants to be at fault for shit, but that's just one of the differences between genders. Guys rationalize then act, girls act then rationalize.

>> No.6422957

>>6422951
Woman blame themselves, men blame others.

>> No.6422961

>>6422957
Women consistently perform insane mental gymnastics just to rationalise a problem they've created so it's someone else's fault. Women are sociopaths by nature and there's no way around it.

>> No.6422962

>>6422957

Nope, that's more a self-confidence thing, ie a self confident person will consider things to be their fault while a unconfident person will put the blame on others.

>> No.6422964

>>6422957
>Woman blame themselves, men blame others.

It's funny because women are the ones who blame men for "raping" them when they start climbing on top of guys trying to get one of them to fuck while she's drunk, and blame their bf/husband for not paying attention to them and that's why they cheated.

>> No.6422981

aaahahahaha get over it

we don't owe you a conversation

why would you want the attention of someone you deem a 'bitch' anyways ?

>> No.6422988

>>6422981

Most of the dudes here are very self-concious so when they get blown off it's "her fault." A so called alpha won't let that shit bother him, he'll shurg it off and go to someone else just as attractive who will most likely give him everything he wants.

>> No.6422991

>>6422964
>>6422962
>>6422961
Thank you for proving my point. Don't you beta males have a cute girl to follow around a con? Stare at her breasts so she knows you're attracted to her. Bitches love that shit.

>> No.6422993

>>6422991
>Thank you for proving my point.

Was your point that women can't take responsibility for their actions?

>> No.6423002

>>6422993
Look, we don't like being mean. You beta males just can't take the hint is all.
Way to blame woman for your creepy behavior, though. I don't know why she thought it was weird when you went on about your knowledge of female anatomy from Hentie.

>> No.6423028

>>6423002
>beta
The truth is, you woman really just want to be dominated. You pretend you have some vague concept of "standards" -- saying that a man coming on to you is creepy so you can garner some pathetic bit of attention from your peers who have an equal idea (or lack thereof) of what they want. When in reality, all you really crave is to be held down and fucked like the little sluts you are. Just accept that you're not as complex as you pretend to be, and your only marketable trait is the ability to take loads of semen.

>> No.6423088

Reading all the pathetic excuses ITT: It's no surprise /r9k/, betafags, poor mental health and viewing women with superficial pump and dump terminology all are correlated. Poor mental health and a lack of socialization are related. You are depressed because of your fucked view and equate social interaction with the opposite sex as nothing more than a game to get your dick tugged.

It's no surprise that your inability to fill in the vacuum of loneliness is proportional to your complaining via armchair psychology.

>> No.6423111

"It's her fault I don't have a GF, WHORE".

Runs to /r9k/

Creates why are all women whores thread.

>> No.6423113

>>6422699
Kudos to you, thats good thinking

>> No.6423128

Lol at the fags that think they don't have to improve themselves

Finding a mate is a sexual game. It isn't if you have 'it' or you don't. It's if others have more than you. If you fucking suck, stop sucking more than everyone else, your sexual opportunities will skyrocket when you are no longer an aspie unfit loser and you won't even have to try

>> No.6423131

was talking to a guy for ages, and he kept asking me to sit on his lap. I didn't. But he seemed nice regardless, so I continued to talk to him. He'd do creepy things occasionally, like throw something and tell me to bend over and pick it up (I was in a skirt). I laughed, hoping he was joking, until he literally lay down beneath me, looking up my skirt. I almost stamped on his face.

>> No.6423136

>>6423131

You dumb whore.

>> No.6423139

>>6423136
I'm not a whore. I wanted to think he was nice, because when he wasn't weird, we got along really well.

>> No.6423149

ITT: Men hiding behind the "nice guy" barrier because they're too fucking arrogant to accept that they have a genuinely unpleasant personality and that no woman wants to be around them.

>> No.6423162

>>6423028
Adults are talking.

>> No.6423164

>>6423131
>>6423136
Yet you faggots call us bitchy for avoiding you. Ladies, never give men the benefit of the doubt. Things are often as they seem with men.

>> No.6423169

>>6423164
We need like a female version of r9k where lonely, angry women complain about men sexually harassing them and how it's always the bitches who get the good guys, and decent guys never give nice girls a chance.

>> No.6423172

>>6423164
Delicious generalization.
Men, all women are this stupid.

>> No.6423174

When I take picture of cosplayers, I think that, deep down, I'm always hoping they aren't thinking I'm creepy or something. Especially when I take their picture, thank them, show the pic to them, and then just leave. Dunno.

>> No.6423210

I had this guy sit at the table me and my friends were sitting at uninvited. He didn't say anything to anyone, he just laughed when someone mad a joke and listened to our conversation. He had a samurai sword. Later, when his friend come over, he had a sword fight with him out of the blue. It was all fun and games until he notices that I was watching. Then he got unnecessarily aggressive in the fight, like he was actually trying to hurt his friend. He hit his friends hand and his friend started to bleed, got pissed, then left. After it was over, he came and sat next to me and told me that he wasn't using his full power. (WHY AM i SO AUTISTIC DURRRRR) He went on about his sword fighting skills and challenged my friends boyfriend to a duel. The guy at our table just laughed polity, and the aspie called him a cowered. He started talking about how true men fight and blah blah blah. It was so embarrassing to watch I can't even. My group straight up told his to leave us alone after he told me that I had nice legs.

>> No.6423218

>>6423172
Typical beta male view on woman. Ladies, only date alpha.

>> No.6423238

>>6423218
Date THIS
*whips out dick*

>> No.6423455

any person that believes an admirer or shy person is a creep or an asshole is, by proxy, insecure, a little anxious to know how to deal with people and an asshole themselves. Being shy does not make an asshole. I know cgl is full of social retards that get by generalizing, but it is not the right way to look at things. if a guy is stalking you, walk up to him, be nice if you can muster it but putting people on a spot typically makes them quit. Same with men. Plenty of fat stupid bitches have tried to fuck with my boyfriend at concerts and conventions. Approach them, if they avoid you and keep on following you and it bugs you sure, call security. No real problem. As for "nice guy" syndrome, it's probably just bad sportsmanship and frustration. We've all been frustrated about one thing or another. They're probably frustrated when they can't approach a woman without her whipping out a lacy bow-y can of mace and being a cunt about simple social interaction.

>> No.6423877

This thread got pretty sad. As an older anon that tends to volunteer at cons for management I've seen some shit.

For the Men:
-Stop resenting women. For whatever reason. Resenting women will make you an eternal virgin.
-Lack of confidence is just as unattractive to women as women who are fat appear unattractive to us. Attraction is NOT a choice.
-Women are pretty easy if you just talk with them. The less you try when talking with them, the better you do.

For the Women.
-Looking down on men who are virgins makes you look really immature.
-Shyness in men is exactly the same as shyness in women. It means nothing.
-If you dress like yoko from TTGL and seriously expect no men to broadcast interest, you are retarded. I've had to escort people out from cons because of your stupidity.

>> No.6423896

>>6423238
>>>/b/

>> No.6423964

>>6423877
mm sorry but I can't do that
I can try the confident part but logic is telling me that you ladies are being unfair and I don't feel like letting it slide.
Now go sit on the corner. No dessert for you.

>> No.6424009

Man's view:
>"I feel awkward around this girl. It's my fault for being socially awkward."

Woman's view:
>"I feel awkward around this guy. It's his fault for making me feel this way."

>> No.6424015

>>6423964
If you hate woman so, why do you cry so hard when we reject you? Get a 2D wifu, she can be everything you always wanted in a woman.
Personally, I would like it if fags like you would stop talking to me. The conversations are just brutal, and you always seem pissed at how slow it's escalating.

>> No.6424016

>>6423964
Welcome to cgl. This isn't the place to find down to earth folks as so many tend to lurk.

>> No.6424022

>>6424009
Read the thread. Full of men blaming woman for seeing their social inadequacy for what it is. We don't ask you to talk to us, so don't get pissy when we're not interested.

>> No.6424026

Welp, this thread made me hate shy males. So much Chris-chan.

>> No.6424034

>>6424022
Well if you're talking about women in general then obviously a guy has to try to talk to someone.
Its not like guys have the luxury of waiting for someone to talk to them.
Just saying.

>> No.6424036

>>6424009

Woman when rejected
>>"I'm gona move on"

Man when rejected
>>"Bitches are too stupid to see how flawless I am. Time to stand outside her window until she realizes my superiority."

>> No.6424039

>>6424022
Don't be a retarded idiot. That guy was spot on about how men and women think at cons. Or in society in general.

>> No.6424042

>>6424034
2D woman won't see your flaws. Not all men are breeding material.

>> No.6424040

>>6424034
I've just posted something perfectly reasonable and you guys can't even agree on it
tsk tsk

>> No.6424041

>>6424036
lol no. women don't just give up when they get rejected. they go batshit insane.

>> No.6424044

>>6424036
Woman get rejected
>lol he's probably a fag lol time to post on facebook about how ugly and dumb he is

Man gets rejected
>well I still get to masturbate to the thought

>> No.6424045

>>6424041
That's why so many men are murdered by their wives in comparison to woman murdered by husbands, right?
Inb4 statistics hate men.

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>>6424042
I bet you those wizards are more likely to have a lower divorce rate and a more stable household if we're talking about being worthy of breeding honey

>> No.6424060

>>6424048
Why do you keep trying to claim that you would be the better spouse when you hate woman? I don't get it, do you honestly think bitter misogynists would make a happy house hold? Alpha males aren't effected by rejection. Hence why they're never single and are better partners.

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6424066

>>6424060
So you're going to marry thugalicious?

>> No.6424070

>>6424026
Please respond ;_;

>> No.6424074

>>6424070
ey bb girl ill be your shy man u be my waifu

>> No.6424078

> shy
> male
Pick one.

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6424094

>>6424074
None of them will be your waifu
Time to revert back to your painful existence and overcome the challenges that have piled up
Think of it as your lives purpose if you will
Its going to suck, but nobody said it would be easy
Think of it as cutting your arm to stop the cancer from spreading and you will be mentally prepared for it

>> No.6424124

I don't know if this is relevant, but I'm kind to everyone who starts a conversation with me at a con (even if they're ugly or a neckbeard or whatever) unless they give me a reason not to (which hasn't happened yet).

>> No.6424128

I am offended by the presumption that all unattractive males are socially awkward, pussy-entitled, nice-guy creeps.

I'm unattractive and I'm a total dick. So there.

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>>6424128
Ugh
Being a dick means being assertive anon
As in not giving a crap about what others think
You'll learn to override nature through trial and error anon
Just remember
Only the ruthless get to the top
Also try to sprinkle it without losing your essence.
Think of it as oregano.

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6424197

Hey you think you guys have it bad. I often have to put up with people(male and female) grabbing my package at cons or just general stroking but you cant be the guy who complains about such things so I just learn to not mind it, it happens, its somewhat complimentary. Then again some of my costumes ask for rape. Its my fault for dressing that way

>> No.6424203

>>6424162
>anon

>> No.6424201
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6424201

>>6424162
start by disregarding what the people here think
That's right ladies
Your input is worthless

>> No.6424280

>>6424066
No she'll marry a guy that isn't a self pitying, immature moron.

>> No.6424286
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6424286

>>6424280
What about a non self pitying immature moron?

>> No.6424321

One of these I shall meet the right one
And I will speak with her parents
and she shall seize to know the meaning of freedom
>feels good being muslim

>> No.6425001

>>6416096
>see the same person couple of times at a CON
>"OMG HURR DURR HE STALKING ME OMG POLICE POLICE OMG LOLITA COMPLEX HELP UGUU"

hahahhaha

>> No.6425012

Ok, so the conclusion to this thread is that men are the superior gender.

Case closed.

>> No.6425075

>>6425012
No.

>> No.6425123

>>6425012
no

>> No.6425128

Heh, I'm a big ass dude and y'all girls seem to be comfortable around me. Then again I do have that reassuring bouncer look to me though.

I do have some issues with these under 18 year old girls trying to bum drinks/sex off of my buddies though. That's the shit I find kinda creepy really.

>> No.6425226

getting the perfect shot of public matériel is free speech

>> No.6425238

>>6425001
>OMG HURRR BEING EDGY ON THE INERTNET.

People like you make me wonder if some of the people in this thread are just butthurt creeps since spooky is wouldstalk/10 it probably happened.

Men should realise that they don't have to be so apologetic for their genders actions, every gender has bad people.

>> No.6425253

>>6415883
Just hide amongst the group

>> No.6425352
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6425352

Is creepy not a lack of social skills coupled with being too in your face and/or threatening?

If so, why all the apologists for the socially awkward? It IS creepy if you can't pick up that you're making someone feel uncomfortable.

>> No.6425396

>>6425238
>OMG HURRR BEING EDGY ON THE INERTNET.

says the girl who used to post nude bloody pics eating tampons on /b/

>> No.6425400

>>6425396
lol dat irony

>> No.6425402

>>6423210
>the aspie called him a cowered
gurl.

>> No.6425569

>>6425396
Where can I find these pictures?

>captcha: genimgso germianus

>> No.6425588

>>6425352
You can be fully capable of having a conversation for hours and still be called a creeper if you are ugly.

You can be very socially awkward but if you are handsome/pretty, you are a lot less likely to be called a creeper.

>> No.6425593

>>6425400
Nude? I wasn't nude in them, silly, or is that how you like to remember them? ;)

>> No.6425604

>>6425588
That's because it's not being hit on that girls find creepy, it's being hit on, uncomfortable with that (in other words, when we don't find the man attractive), yet the guy continues.

>> No.6425610

>>6425604
>it's being hit on by an ugly guy in the presence of their friends so they have an audience for when they shame and ridicule him

Gotcha

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>>6425012
The conclusion is that you fags are extremely self conscious about how creepy you are.

As a socially awkward person, I would like to inform those reading the thread that we are not all like this.

>> No.6425616

>>6425593
I haven't actually seen 'em

still funny as fuck that you're that fucking dumb to post pics and then still use the same pseudonym for attention.

What the fuck is wrong with you that you want everyone to know you eat tampons anyway?

>> No.6425619

>>6425604
That is fine except for the fact that instead of interested/ not interested it has become interested/get out of here you creepy loser

>> No.6425625

>>6425610
You do realize that, since this is a board about, among other things, talking about cons, we're mostly gonna talk about creepers in the context of a con?

The creeps who have hit on me while I was alone scared me way more, but that is offtopic.

>> No.6425702

Do all your threads get derailed this hard, /cgl/?

>> No.6425757

>>6425702
This thread isn't derailed. Its right on track.

>> No.6425783

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to butt in here, but what I get from reading the thread is some of the women seem to think men should telepathically know whether or not they "want" the men talking to them; while the men seem to think women are just being bitchy and exaggerated.

From my own experience at conventions I don't think either mindset is correct. First off, ladies, most men you meet at cons or otherwise, are not creepy stalker rapists that will do something weird to you. You're really not that special, sorry. Also, men, telling women they are either attention-whores or only good as "sex puppets" only reinforces the above idea. As a man who finds that egoistical mindset disgusting, I'd probably call you out on it if you said it in front of me, it's disgusting and pathetic.

The truth of the matter is some women seem to think that wehn they go to a PUBLIC convention filled with hundreds if not thousands of people with (hopefully) similar interests, that others will not talk to them about said interests. If there's one thing I enjoy at cons its talking to people. The people are the best, IMO. Most people I talk to are okay with it, and they enjoy having a normal conversation like human beings tend to do. Some people, men and women, seem to receive talking as "he wants to fuck with/rape me". I leave socially inept people like that alone. IF and only IF I know they've got some type of problem. But, I can bet all you want 70 percent of the women complaining about "perverts" here are happy to be photographed and talked to at conventions, and dare not simply say "no" or "please leave me alone". How am I supposed to know if someone doesn't want me talking ot them if they don't SAY anything?

>> No.6425785

>>6425783

As a big fan of cosplay, I really enjoy taking pictures of cosplay, good and bad, male and female, at conventions. I'm that guy you see walking around with a camera in hand, asking people for a picture. Most of the time, people allow me to take picture. Sometimes, someone may say "I'd prefer if you didn't" or a simple "no". When I ask "can I please take a picture?". I'm okay with that. Really. You didn't offend me. I didn't go home and kill myself because someone didn't let me take their picture.

Just learn to be honest when you don't wnat someone doing something. Now, I understand and know there are disrespectful, harassing people out there. I've seen them. People who will (actually and literally) stalk a girl or group of girls, EVEN AFTER they've told him to leave. All I can say you should do at that point is what you would do at ANY OTHER OCCASION IN WHICH SOMEONE IS HARASSING YOU. Tell someone to help. Tell a con volunteer/worker. Tell a security guard. Tell a fellow cop. Call the cops if need be. Kick the guy in the balls if need be. Or simply tell someone around you. One time, a girl was being literally harassed by some asshole for hours at a convention. I could see the girl was getting really uncomfortable and when I asked her what was wrong, she let me know. Let's just say I would have been arrested for assaulting the asshole if it wan't for that special circumstance.

Because this post is getting so long, I'll end it here. Women, stop thinking yourselves so special and use common sense, men stop being egoistical assholes. I enjoy lurking this board because I find cosplay to be a great form of art. But honestly you people are turning htis board into a brawl of schoolkids.

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>>6425593
nude enough?

>> No.6426509
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6426509

>>6426507
What about now?

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6426517

>>6426507
>>6426509

>thumbnails

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>>6425593
nude enough?
>better

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>>6426560
What about now?

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>>6426562
Ah dude period blood?
I can't fap now

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>>6426581
You know I won't have the satisfaction of fapping to her pictures
But humiliating these bitches feels pretty good in itself
Hahahahaha we got the last laugh!

>> No.6426598

>>6426581
>dude period

Either I'm missing a joke, or you've got some shit to learn about anatomy.

>> No.6426609

>>6426598
he probably meant it as Ah dude, period blood?

>> No.6426610

>>6426598
I think they meant "Ah, dude, period blood?" where "dude" is the reference to the person in the picture.

Commas are important, grammar is important.

>> No.6426639

>>6426610
I assumed a dude posted the pictures(.)<-period

>> No.6426821

>>6425012
Ok, so the conclusion to this thread is that men are the honest gender.

Fixed to make it more accurate.

>> No.6426861

>>6426592
But saving and reposting CP is more humiliating.

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>>6426861
Well you know what they say... If it bleeds.
>bringing my whole gender down a peg

>> No.6427516

Following this thread has become increasingly difficult...
Anyways, my creeper story:
I was waiting on line to get an autograph from one of my favorite VA's, when the guy in front of me turns around, and he starts talking to me. Yeah, he's a little smelly, but the conversation is ok so me and him exchange our thoughts about the VA... When all of the sudden he starts talking about orgasms, and giving me the weirdest face. I changed the subject, trying to be polite, but nope. All he wanted to talk about was orgasms, and how the VA would sound having an orgasm. So at this point I was like, "Haha, bye." And I turn around to talk to the Grell cosplayer behind me. I kid you not, maybe 30 seconds later, he slowly starts backing up and he presses his butt against me, so I was like, "Dude, back the fuck off." Oh. My. God. He looked so insulted, like, how dare I tell him to stop pressing his butt against me.
Either way, I begin resuming my conversation with the Grell cosplayer when... He decided to turn around and press again my butt with the uhm... Crotch of his pants and at this point I flip the fuck out. I felt bad for him, but I mean seriously. He backs off for maybe ten minutes, then he just tries talking to me again about panties and asking me what kind of panties I'm wearing. At this point I have texted my big, angry, Italian father who proceeded to very quietly threaten him. All I had to deal with was his occasional glace back at me for the duration of waiting on line. Then, when the autograph session was done he seriously asks me to come to his hotel room and I just run away, go back to MY hotel room, change cosplays, and resume my day.

>> No.6427521

>>6427516
wait you sic'd your dad on him and he still didn't let up?

>> No.6427533

>>6427521
Yup. It was THE strangest con experience I've ever had. The second was maybe this time I stopped for a photo, and I'm posing, when the guy kneels... And he kneels lower.... And lower... And lower. At that point I just put my legs together, pressed down on my skirt and told him to stand up or he wouldn't be getting a picture... He then calls me a beautiful young girl and inquires if I'd like to have dinner with him, to which I said "no".

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6429057

I swear some of you guys are just trolling from /pol/. It's alright to ahve a bit of a look but just don't follow them around and everything will be cool.

>> No.6429120

>>6427516
Whoa that is one creepy story. I just don't get why he thinks it's ok to do that to you.

I just hate creepy guys who do stuff like that.

>> No.6429190

>>6425785
Excellent post I completely. I don't like how some guys just keep pushing it and make the rest of us look bad when we just simply want to take some photos.

>> No.6429270

>>6425785
Hey, dude, why so reasonable?
No one here wants to read sensible posts or to hear truth, they just want a pretext to post offensive post (which is another offensive post), so they can excalate their misbelieves.
Reason and sense is of no value to them.

>> No.6429944

>>6427516
that's hilarious

any more funny stories

>> No.6430198

Haha mfw this thread.

Creepy is stalking, inappropriate conversation, invasion of personal space (especially without any pretext of conversation etc).

Creepy is not ugly, smelly, bad costume, lack of social graces etc.

I do not believe for a second that most of you when dressed up in elaborate costumes, especially those that show off a lot of flesh, think you are immune to unwanted attention. Attention is exactly what you are after and you have to take the good and the bad or stop going to public events.

People often mistake attention seeking as the want for sexual attention and friendliness as a sign of mutual attraction. If someone tries flirting you talk loudly about a partner, even if you don't have one and how deeply in love you are etc. That will thwart most of it and anything that strays in to the actual creepy is a matter for police/security depending on the severity.

>> No.6430244

I think the worst thing to handle is the social awkward grace. Some people don't have filters for their mouths and they don't realize what they said wasn't okay or they're not able to pick up cues that you're not interested in any conversation.

It only really crosses the creepy line when it becomes harassment. If it's persistent and unwanted, it's not okay.

So, general advice.

>girls
Just be courteous and don't be afraid to get help if something was truly out of hand. If you're not comfortable, just say no. It sucks that we all probably deal with this kind of stuff in some shape or form everyday but we can only control how we react to it. Just stay safe and think with common sense.

>guys
I see this so often, but if you're trying to converse with people, talk to everyone. Don't just talk to girls or try to. We can spot that a mile away and no matter how you try to spin it, it looks bad if you ignore a girl's boyfriend after she introduces him.

>> No.6430304

>not carrying a gun to cons
its like you want to get raped

>> No.6430695

>>6430304
lol carrying a gun to a con. I'd love to see /CGL/ reaction if some girl shot up some creep.

>> No.6430804

>>6430695
the humor in it i find is that lot of people would get shot.

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6430879

Fuck, girls, just ignore the shitty r9k trolls. This thread is full of socially awkward creepers in denial, those types who don't take "no" for an answer and think every woman in the world owes them something. That's why they don't have a girlfriend and never will until they learn to think of women as equals instead of prizes or sex toys. I always wonder why none of these types just turn gay instead of bitching about how terrible and shallow all the women are because they don't have one. They act feminine enough and the man-hating women do it too, so what the hell is stopping all of you?

Oh, and
>White heterosexual male ages 20-58
>the most oppressed thing in the world!!11
>that's why 400 men are killed by their partners, while only 1200 women get murdered by their significant others and earn lower salaries while taking care of the children!

>> No.6430903

Good tips for men who want an animu girlfriend:
- Talk only to her while in a group
- Stare at her all the time, especially her body
- Follow her around
- Stalk the fuck out of her facebook and other website profiles
- Google her name/nickname
- Try to desperately ask her out even though she's clearly not interested and constantly refuses
- Make "flirty (perverted) jokes" about her and just think "AWWWW a tsundere just like in my animus" when she's clearly not enjoying it and feeling uncomfortable
- Touch her. Touch her a lot. You're only showing your affection!
- Get your hands on her phone number and street address. That's only romantic and showing that you care~
- When she finally snaps and rudely tells you to fuck off, get all huffy and offended and start bitching at her for LEADING YOU ON FOR TALKING TO YOU THAT ONE TIME OMG
- Continue stalking, but this time not "romantically"
- Insult her every chance you get
- THAT'LL LEARN THAT STUPID BITCH

I experienced a guy like this once. He was one of those self-proclaimed "nice guys" who constantly whined about women wanting "alpha males who treat them bad" and the whole rainbow of r9k clichés. Fun.

>> No.6430910

>>6430903
>>- Stalk the fuck out of her facebook and other website profiles
>>- Google her name/nickname

Guilty as charged. I do this to learn more about a person, and whether its worth pursuing her or not. I don't have any shame about it. Especially if I haven't gotten their number or facebook/screen name. People have a bigger internet footprint than they think sometimes.

>> No.6430930

>>6430879
The only question I have is how can you be making a sandwich and posting on 4chan at the same time? Women sure have come far.

>> No.6430936

>>6430910

Same here
I hate when people call these things stalking though, this is public information anyone can look up. Finding out where they live and looking in their window is stalking.

>> No.6430933

>>6430903

But doing all that works if the girl is interested

>> No.6430965

>>6430933
If you're an adonis then yes

>> No.6430990

>>6430879
>equals
But don't forget, if he doesn't pay on a date then he isn't a real man.
If he doesn't give you the seat then he isn't a real man.
If he doesn't have money, then he isn't a real man.
If he doesn't take the lead then he isn't a real man.
...
...
...
xN

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>>6430965
Or just confident and well dressed.
If you're at a con and not cosplaying, you should probably dress like you give a fucking shit. The most typical mistake you see for skinny people is wearing graphic tees that are too large and cheap shapeless pants, often finished off by shitty white leather athletic shoes.
Here's what you do to make up for your body: buy some chukka boots and some slim-fitting jeans that are about an inch too long. Roll the bottom inch of the jeans up, on the outside. Wear a button down western shirt tucked into the jeans, trim, not bloused out, and a leather belt.
Wow, look at that, that took no work and you're now dressed better than 99% of the people anywhere, especially a con so you can stop bitching about your flawed body which you could fix.
And if you're fat, there's no way around it, you have to lose weight. Unless you're Chris Christy. He can stay fat, it's kind of his thing.

>> No.6431086

>>6431063
>>6431063
I just want to add that the weirder you are, the more you should give a shit about this. I dress weird because I'm the kind of weirdo who gives cosplayers fashion advice, and it lets people know that I'm weird by choice, not by accident. People value people who make the choice to be strange, they despise people who it just happens to, which is why you've probably met some fucking bizarre popular people but everybody hates spergies. Yes, there is an element of playing to trends, but shut the fuck up, if you don't play to it then you're playing to the trend of not playing to it. There's no way to escape a bandwagon, so you might as well pick the one that makes you look good.

>> No.6431208

>>6430990
Don't forget, if she demands all of those things, she isn't a real feminist.

>> No.6431232

>>6431063
those are some fucking ugly shoes

also the most generic shirt ever

>> No.6431257

>>6421855
this is the most level headed reply in this thread

>> No.6431296

>>6431086
fuck you and your shitty dress codes

>> No.6431326

>>6431063
So you just gave advice on how to look like a generic mama's boy hipster? The only women who like that look are 16 year old tumblr chicks.

>> No.6431333

>>6431063
If I saw a dude dressed like this I would laugh at him. Fuck hipster douchebags.

>> No.6431336

>>6430804

The creeper would remain unharmed, though.

>> No.6431368

>>6422022
I think it pretty much boils down to this: Bitter assholes do not get women. I would know- I am a bitter asshole and I only ever get lucky in clubs, any longer and the serial killer vibes start to come out.

On an unrelated note, I will be going to my first con next year. I have a couple of questions
>how to creep on women at cons?
>How ripped should I be?
>Can I drink at the con?

>> No.6431369

>>6422085
Bitch I am from rk9 and I can tell you we are all true bros. Sorry you can't be included.

>> No.6431375

>>6422669
rk9 is for complaining abou women.

cgl is where I complain to women.

>> No.6431386

>>6425615
Please don't post pics of that woman. Every time I see them, I need to go /gif/

>> No.6431652

Only at an anime convention does a man get accused of being a "creeper" for not saying the right thing in a conversation.

Women at cons are fucking retarded. Just admit you're afraid of men you dont know and stop trying to shift the blame onto them.

I blame society. People are taught from an early age that men are evil predators and if you ever feel uncomfortable for any reason it's okay to accuse them of misconduct, even if they've done nothing.

>> No.6431670

>>6431652
Most guys at cons don't cause problems. But if you've been to a few cons you have probably seen some awkward guys at some point. It's a shame becasue it just makes people feel uncomfortable.

>> No.6431685

>>6431670
>Most guys at cons don't cause problems.

Not according to /cgl/.

Seriously, it's pretty infuriating that women feel the need to create a strawman of some creepy fat 40 year old rapists in order to demonize the guy who came up to her and dropped his spaghetti so she feels like she was rejecting some horrible human being and not some shy guy, all so they don't feel like the villain.

>> No.6431687

>>6431375
gab that to my mug m8 n not online n see what comes about

>> No.6431693
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>>6422120
MAKING IT AS SIMPLE AS POSSIBLE.

WOMEN PREFER OVERT ASSHOLES TO COVERT ASSHOLES LIKE YOURSELVES BECAUSE OVERT ASSHOLES DO NOT HAVE AN AIR OF DESPERATION TO THEM.

THEY WON'T TURN INTO INCENDIUM!FINN AFTER GETTING REJECTED/BROKEN UP. THEY WILL MOVE ON WITH THEIR LIVES EVENTUALLY WITHOUT ALL THE SUICIDAL BULLSHIT THAT COMES FROM NICE GUYS.

IF YOU WANT WOMEN, STOP BEING DESPERATE. WE CAN SEE THAT. STOP BEING BITTER. WE CAN SEE THAT TOO. JUST TRY HAVING OTHER SHIT TO DO THAN WIN A GIRLFRIEND, YOU ASPIE FUCK.

10/10 because I'm tired of having to explain this.

>> No.6431733

i'm a guy. i'm sure i'm very insular and probably come off as either arrogant or as a snarky jerk. i don't talk often except on topics i'm familiar with; and i offer my opinions as exactly that: my personal opinions.

i've noticed over the years that while i don't really have any trouble approaching women, it's the follow up that kills things (seemingly). i like activity dates: going and doing and seeing and moving is always fun. afterwards it generally devolves into text messages or phone calls, but after a while of being put off or (if i even ask for a second date) being told it's inconvenient, i drift off alone again. nothing ever seems to connect.

i know i'm fairly unattractive. the only thing i have going for me are positive personality traits. i would think that in 10+ years i would have at least had more than the flings in college.

i implore men and women both to just be better people. no one is more responsible for your own personal happiness than yourself. i'm happy with myself. it isn't enough for others.

>> No.6431745

>shy guys are the biggest and worst assholes and creepers and all the bad things in the world
I wish I was born a woman so I wouldn't have to deal with this prejudice just because I'm shy.

>> No.6431749

>>6431745
just stop giving a fuck

itll solve all your problems

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6431776

How about we get some actual creepers in this thread? No "stop victimizing yourself" or "stop being sexist" stuff and bring out the good old stories?

Ex. guy who pretends to go on dates with girls after asking them for photoshoots, landwhale that stuck her wet fingers into driver's mouth, etc.

>> No.6431799

>>6431652
But men are vile disgusting predators.

>> No.6431994

>>6431745
lol you have no idea how much I love seeing you virgins suffer, please post more so I can amuse myself even more.

No, we will never like guys like you.
No, you will never have a girlfriend.

Better settle for a 2D waifu, oh wait, I bet you already have one, scum.

>> No.6431996

>>6431799
and women are she-devils

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>>6431776
I'll dump a couple, but I don't have very much.

>> No.6432103

>>6432094
I thought this was a stories thread not a RAGE UNTIL YOU FOAM AT THE MOUTH thread.

Fuck man what the fuck is wrong with some people haruatiuafgjlafg

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>>6432094
I'm not sure about the quality on this pic, but it's a good story.

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>>6432108

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>>6432114

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>>6432108
Damn that font is small

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>>6432149
Sorry, bro.

>> No.6432308

>>6432302
Before anyone asks, this is not a screenshot I took.

>> No.6432350

Girls can be terrifying perverts too. My boyfriend is a pretty boy, asian, and he has to deal with some shit at cons that would scare me if I was the one it was directed at.

I'd rather deal with the neckbeards when I'm wearing a revealing outfit than with the creepy fangirls revolving around him when he shows a little bit of skin or cosplays from something popular, heh.

>> No.6432370

>>6432350
>Girls can be terrifying perverts too
Very true but I'm sure everyone knows this since 99% of the erotic fanfictions on fanfiction.net are written by girls. Damn is Sonic one horny bastard.

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6432392

Okay, I think everyone in this thread needs to take a very large step back from the computer and think about what you are actually saying. Not everyone of the opposite sex is a terrible human being, and the fact that people are stereotyping the entire female/male population in the first place is really immature to being with. There are people of all sorts out there, ignore the ones you don't like, and stick to the one's you do.

Seriously, take a break from /cgl/ once and while.

>> No.6432441

>>6432392
>says that
>while promoting a female stereotype with his misogynist cartoon
Back to >>>/r9k/ >>>/a/ you misogynist piece of shit.

>> No.6432471

>>6432370
Right. But I was refering more to creepy girls who follow people around at con, use the excuse of taking pictures together to hug my boyfriend very tightly ann inapropriately, creep around in male changing areas (if a guy did that there would be such a ruckus!), etc etc.

(fanfics don't bother me at all though. Neither do doujinshis and consorts. But that's unrelated)

>> No.6432480

>>6432441
oh wow, did you decide to troll the whole board? I think one thread is enough, anon, stick to Eva and leave this one, please...

>> No.6432485

>>6432480
No, you're the same misogynistic piece of shit from /a/ that's decided to make this board his home so that he can pretend he talks to girls and is a big male.

You're not. You'll be a virgin loser for the rest of your life.

>> No.6432492

>>6432392
Thanks, i was thinking the exact same thing. Just because there are creepy guys and creepy girls doesn't mean all guys/girls are creepy. I've had bad experiences, and it doesn't mean i condem a whole gender. This should be pretty obvious. I mean, I'm semi -ewdish myself, (not to strange levels) but I don't think that makes me evil. Whatev.

>> No.6432496

>>6432485
I know you're trolling, but I'm a girl. I'm >>6432471
I guess you're obvious enough for people not to fall for you, but still.

>> No.6432503

>>6432496
No you're not. Girls don't say misogynistic things about other girls, only neckbeard misogynists pretending to be girls do that, to make themselves feel welcome in the world.

>> No.6432509

>>6432503
okay then.

>> No.6433869

>>6421980
>Shy/awkward men are bitter assholes. Attractive men tend to have more positive views on woman.

laffing hard

>> No.6433878

I've been called a creep on a number of occasions, all of which involved me doing fuck all. I'm a quiet guy that minds his own business, yet some how I'll get called a creep because I'm sitting some where looking at my phone.

don't really care, just get confused as shit when it happens.

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lol

>> No.6433954

>>6431687
Well I'm up for coffee just to see how /cgl/ rolls.

>mfw I got banned for my original comment.

>> No.6433955

>>6431733
I like you. I am not a woman, but you sound like a guy who does actually deserve a good relationship.

>> No.6433958

>>6432370
Some girls in my course wanted to draw slash fic with me and a couple of other guys. I was eating them.
>wtf women

>> No.6433984

Average/above average looks male here.

I fucking laugh when I see other guys do the exact same things I do, but they get called creepy and I'm cool.

Really the only difference is that I don't apologize; if I'm having shenanigans, I fucking commit. For example if I'm looking at boobs, I'm going to make sure the girl knows I'm looking, by making my eye contact obvious and then saying, "Your giant boobs are getting in the way of this conversation!"

I also know my timing. You can't say that to a girl who's body language is kinda showing her to be insulated and shy before you even say anything.

Maybe I'm just a normalfag, but being around you people elevates me to socially gifted.

>> No.6433988

>>6433984
Damn you foul creature!

Feels bad being average/above average looks male, but socially retarded. Forever stuck making out with girls in clubs/parties, but no gf.

>> No.6434015
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6434015

This one time at a con I was dressed as a half-naked version of Yoko from Gurren Lagann with my boobs hanging out and this guy came up to me and was all "Hey, you look really nice. Can I get your picture?" I ran screaming down the hallway to security and told them a creepo creepy mccreeperson was out on the loose and had him thrown out. Then later on this OVERWEIGHT man was standing behind me in a line not even saying a word, just looking forward at me with his CREEPY CREEPER eyes. Later on I saw him again in a hallway and he was all "Excuse me, do you know where Hall C is?" OMFG STALKEEEEER. I didn't know what to say and tears started to well up but luckily my friends were there to pull me away before I was raped.

If you want to know more about all of the creepy creepos from creepertown you can visit my blog on facebook and read all about my con exploits as well as the asian guy with abs that I groped and molested while there SO HAWT ^-^ ^-^ ^.~

>> No.6434361

>>6434015
accurate depiction of the female mind.

>> No.6434562

>>6433984

You seem like the worst kind of social retard: the social retard who thinks he's socially capable. These people are the worst; awkward fucks who have none of the timidity or humility of other socially awkward individuals, but are no less inept at interacting with people. You're the definition of a creeper because you have unwarranted self-confidence and force it on others, making inappropriate comments and generally acting like a sex pest.

Like a male Pixyteri.

Or like one of those retarded neckbeards that frequent cons with microphones providing coverage for some awful independent website and go around asking women inappropriate questions.

Yeah, you're the worst of the worst.

>> No.6434568

>>6433988

Maybe you're just ugly? Self evaluation of one's looks is never accurate.

>> No.6434592

>>6434015
all that strawman
go back to /pol/

>> No.6434596

>>6434562
I literally could not have conducted my thoughts on this more perfectly. That was an amazing read.

I cringed at the thought ofd his stupid fucking boob line. You are probably not getting a positive response like you think you are, the girls are probably just being nice and laughing the comment off awkwardly while desperately wanting that weird unwanted moment to pass. The moment guys make dumbass comments like that I instantly chawk them up to desperate faggots. Actual men with confidence are not phased by the female body enough to where they have to make comments like that. At least no man I will be associating with.

>> No.6434603

>>6433984
So, tell me how much pussy you've got so far with that kind of a tactic.

I know some guys like you. They think they have their way with the ladies ;-) and that they come off as laid-back and confident. In reality, nobody likes them and people find them annoying as hell, but everyone is just too polite to say it straight to their faces. So they keep thinking that they are cool while everyone and their mom is actually talking about "that disgusting creep" behind their backs.

>> No.6434691

>>6434603
>>6434596

I guess the difference is, because I know my timing, I would have known not to say that to you just by looking at you and listening before I said hello. It takes 3 fucking seconds max. But it doesn't discredit the fact that I have said these things and consistently get away with it. I guess the trick behind it is that I don't use being crass as the only way to talk to people, and I do have to point out that you're judging someone's character strictly because I notice I do harmless shit that if someone else were to try, they may not get the humored response I get. Not all girls are huffy about their personal appearance like you two. Get the fuck over it, lol. You act like I do that to every person with a vagina. It really is a matter of timing.

>>6434562

A few, actually. But I'm over that stage in my life where that mattered? Not sure why that matters anymore, I just like to say outrageous shit and get away with it sometimes.

>> No.6434725

>>6433984
Who the hell actually responds to that, is my question. I've hung out with a lot of people, male and female. Gone to a ton of parties. And none in which women corral each other away from the men at the bar or anything. NO ONE I've ever known has responded to shit like that, even from good looking guys. Maybe some semi-stupid behavior? But that friend wanted that sex real bad. She was a little bit older than most of us and had a kid, so she just kind of wanted a recreational lay

>> No.6434739

>>6434562
Seriously. There's a guy I know that thinks EXACTLY like this and he's the fattest, ugliest fuck I have ever met. He loves that cringeworthy boob shit and thinks people LOVE it. He literally thinks women find him charming and men really appreciate his humor, but he's the most awkward and embarrassing fuck on the planet. AND he really believes he's attractive. He hates that women "fear monger" about being raped because he has "an approachable face" and feels like women scaring each other about rape ruins...I'm not sure what, exactly? He has an obese steady girlfriend he cheats on who was right there when he said it, so I'm not sure he meant to say it ruined his GAME, but what else is there? Conversation? He wants...to be entitled to conversation with women and being really close to them all the time?

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>>6434739
Hahah I know a guy who is kinda like that (although he is otherwise quite normal-looking, but annoying as hell). Basically he thinks he is a God's gift to women, and nothing will break that illusion. When he forces himself on a girl in a bar and the girl responds politely instead of "fuck off", he thinks it was the girl who was hitting on him and not the other way around. Later he wonders out loud (to other girls, of course) why so many girls try to hit on him all the time (especially now that he's in a relationship). Geez, I wonder! Somehow it doesn't get to him why a lot of girls have blocked him on Facebook etc. after he's started blabbering some creepy shit.

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My god this thread is pathetic.

Women dress provocatively to get the attention of men. it's really that simple. when you dress up in a manner that seeks attention you will get it, and sometimes from someone you do not think is an ideal or attractive partner. This is the way the human species is wired, a few thousands of years of evolution aren't going to change in the blink of an eye because you want to dress up as a character that very likely is some guy's favorite "waifu."

If you want to be mature about people who creep you out approach them and confront the issue. If they persist make it more clear, then involve say convention staff.

>> No.6434902

>>6434840
Honest, I think a lot of the time when they're polite about shit like that it's because guys like him get belligerent and loud, especially at bars. It's just easier NOT to deal with that and be polite or laugh awkwardly.

>> No.6434905

>>6434894
Oh my god, how many of you really buy that psuedoscience?

No, fuck it, I don't want to know. Enjoy your Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus popculture claptrap.

>> No.6434909

Does anyone know about some one who goes by the name "thee scyotik" ? my friend met him at a con a while back, and tends to avoid him like the plague now

>> No.6434940

>>6434902
I'm trying to learn how to be more straight forward in situations like this. My whole life I have been that girl who is really gentle and polite in response to unwanted creepers, but that is because I just feel so bad for them. When I was in elementary school all the boys I had crushes on didn't like me back, and that used to crush me. Maybe its silly to relate adult life to my childhood, but I doubt that the feeling of being rejected all the time isn't much different. I hate that they are probably always left wondering why they aren't good enough, ect, ect, especially if it isn't their fault. But its probably just as bad to be so nice to them because it translates as misleading and they probably figure that since I'm being so nice that they have a chance..:( I really wouldn't mind being these guys friends but it. Never works that way.

>> No.6434959

>>6434940
Not only that, but being really nice and polite sort of...makes them feel like this is a method that works. They don't learn and their behavior doesn't change. It's a tough spot to be in, I'm sorry

>> No.6435045

>>6434905

Sure. I'm pretty sure I'm also not missing out on people like you either, lol

>>6434725

Plenty of people tbh. I don't think you're understanding it how I do. I made that line out of thin air just for that post, it isn't some canned line. Part of why I get away with it is because the girls that I say that to I have no interest in, or I won't lose sleep should things go wrong. Women tend to know when a guy wants to fuck them. When you remove that element and what you say isn't based around trying to fuck someone, surprisingly people like you more and generally want to fuck you.

Just because I talk about your boobs doesn't mean I want to have sex with you. It's all within context, like a friend that's wearing a slutty outfit and she has a history of wearing them or something.

Watching you all stereotype someone with personal anecdotes like lemmings is kinda funny though. NO I'M SURE GUYS CAN'T PULL A FAST ONE THAT WAY.

>> No.6435046

>>6434592
>implying that's a strawman.

Exagerration? Yes. But the point is valid.

Anyone with basic logic skills can deduce that creepy just means unattractive male. A woman complaining about creepers is the same as a man complaining about fatties.

>> No.6435074

>>6435046
You know what makes them unnattractive in your eyes? Creepy dudes with no social boundaries tend to neglect their appearance. One comes before the other, dumbass. They're socially retarded and sometimes appearance comes into that. Unkemptness is a SIGN that someone's off. Greasy hair paired with an unwavering stare is fucking creepy as hell, sorry. Greasy hair on its own? Ugly but not so bad. Not creepy. You're the one blurring the distinction with your crying.

And the ones who are claiming they're super handsome in this thread? Still have no game and are still creepy as fuck.

>> No.6435081

>>6435045
Trust me, your lines are really not as good as you think they are and the fact that you're swearing up and down over and over again that they're awesome just proves it. You're desperate.

>> No.6435118

>>6435081

But that's the point, it isn't really a line. It's a way of articulating the real point that some people get away with saying some shit and other's don't. That's an observation I made based on personal experience.

I have to admit that the continued responses are funny as I didn't expect this many replies, but I gain nothing by arguing with everyone by staying here. I will say that I'm a part of a panel on how to meet people at cons.

>> No.6435194

>>6434894

Speak for yourself. I fucking hate it when idiots say "women dress for men". Whether provocative or not. All the styles that I wear, lolita, gyaru, punk and grunge are for MYSELF. God forbid a woman wears what she likes without considering men's feelings. Grow up.

I however agree with you on one thing. If somebody is fucking with you then stand up and confront them. It's that simple. If they don't want to listen to you then get a friend or authorities to "make" them stop.

>> No.6435204

>>6435118
Okay, so you're the Family Guy of personal expression. That's really not much better.

>> No.6436072

>>6434894

So even gay or bi girls (which many cosplayers are) exclusively cosplay to attract guys? Not getting your logic.

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6436084

>>6435194
>are for MYSELF

>> No.6436273

>>6422964
News flash, alcohol is a date rape drug
Apparently society seems to forget that

>> No.6436279

>>6436273
>Girl gets drunk
>Comes on to guy
>Has sex with him
>ITS RAPE

>> No.6436302

>>6436279
Educate yourself
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Date_rape_drug

>> No.6436362

First time on /cgl/.

I've been to a few cons and the women that cosplay are pretty and nice but they're mostly crazy.

If they're average, they're generally greasy and crazy. If they're mildly attractive, they're fucked in the head crazy. In any case, there's always something un-genuine about them, like they're always outside themselves and watching themselves out on an act. Not just in costume either, they're like this IRL too.

They're like the drama class weirdos, good for a fuck but unable to commit and you wouldn't WANT them to commit either.

In summary, cosplayers - god bless you for wearing those whorish outfits, but YOU ARE the weirdos.

>> No.6436364

>>6436302
If they're both drunk then who's raping whom?

>> No.6436365

>>6436273
So what if they guy or both parties are drunk?

>> No.6436367

>>6436302
>Let me buy you a drink
>Ok!
>YOU RAPED ME OMFG

>Let me buy you a drink
>No

Wow it's that easy!
It's not rape you moron, you can say YES or NO to a drink, just as you can say YES or NO to talking to a guy.

>> No.6436370

>>6436362
Ah, I come here from time to time. Seriously though, cosplayers have so many self-image problems they're the easiest to lay because of this.
Personally I found it easier than drunk bar sluts.
But yeah, I've learned from my brother's footsteps you don't date crazy, he gets in fights every other week and is so pussy whipped it hurts.

>> No.6436396

>>6430990
>2012
>not having a qt4.13 boyfriend who cooks and cleans for you while you hold down a job.
:3

>> No.6436510

You have to admit there are always a few creepy looking guys at cons that just creep out girls who just want to have a good time at a con.

>> No.6436605

>>6422957

If I met a girl like you I would run for my life. I know you are not speaking on behalf of your gender. All you do is putting your gender in a bad light. So much woman/ manhate.

>>6422699

I love you! This! People LISTEN to this girl..

>> No.6436615

>>6423162
Like you are more of an adult yourself.... I believe you both fail.. Yet he has a point. That was untill he went totally femihatecrazy but tbh you went all manhatecrazy long before he did. Fuck how I hate ignorant people like yourself.
You give females a bad name. Misogynists and Radical Feminists gives humans a bad name..

>> No.6436772

>>6415883
Way to often to be honest. Really getting sick of it.

>> No.6436776

>>6436273
I 100% agree, just because you don't say no doesn't mean they can do what ever they want to us. Just utterly disgusting

>> No.6436879

>>6435204

It is if that man is getting laid. You can hate him, but if how he acts gives him a choice on who he wants to be with, who cares if he doesn't get your approval?

>> No.6437075

>>6436879
I don't hate him. Actually, no one said that at all? And none of this was about approval, it's weird you even brought that up. He's the one vehemently on the defense. He's just king of bad advice and no, what he thinks works does not work.

>> No.6437379

>>6437075

Results speak for themselves, if he gets laid more power to him, if he doesn't then yeah he's a dumbass, but it's hard for you to speak on his behalf if you don't know him

>> No.6437798

>>6437379

Different anon here. Anyone can get laid. He's obviously a dumbass whether or not he can get a girl into bed. There are desperate women out there too you know.

>> No.6437798,1 [INTERNAL] 

>>6430879
I have a vagina, woe is me.

I mean lets forget that I have a higher survival rate than men, I actually get paid just as much as men, I get affirmative action in jobs men want more than women. OH WOE HAVING A CUNT IS SO HARD