Which sexuality do lolitas identify with

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Which sexuality do lolitas identify with Anonymous Mon Mar 4 12:17:30 2019 No.10119529 [Reply] [Original]

I keep wondering which sexuality do lolitas belong to, so yeah let's decide this with ultimate poll.

https://www.poll-maker.com/poll2270251x71E252A1-65

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 12:37:34 2019 No.10119543 With this poll, at the best you can see what sexuality most lolitas who come to 4chan are. Can't really generalise more

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 12:47:56 2019 No.10119548 >tfw not a lolita but vote anyway Heh, nothing personal.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 13:16:32 2019 No.10119565 People are gonna lie, dummy

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 13:17:21 2019 No.10119566 >>10119543 You could always post the link to different platforms

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 13:26:30 2019 No.10119571 >>10119529 Lotsa Belgians here, eh

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 13:28:48 2019 No.10119572 >>10119529 Just curious OP what are you expecting to win? Also someone post this to discords and fb groups please

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 13:37:56 2019 No.10119576 >>10119572 knawledge

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 13:41:57 2019 No.10119584 >>10119572 Do we really need the opinons of lolitas at heart with pronouns like gloom/gloomself?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 14:07:11 2019 No.10119608 >>10119529 All lolitas are rufflesexual anon.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 14:08:19 2019 No.10119610 >>10119584 Do we really need opinions on this at all?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 14:27:36 2019 No.10119630 File: 19 KB, 307x212, 1458160952524.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10119608 +1

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 14:36:36 2019 No.10119635 Quantum

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 14:55:30 2019 No.10119645 It's interesting to know that this many people lurk here in such a short timeframe.

Anonymous Mon Mar 4 15:06:47 2019 No.10119655
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>>10119529
I had to vote the vague "Etc" because I'm a cis-female who identifies as queer since the only gender expression combo I couldn't see myself partnering with is feminine female.
Sex (as in genitalia) doesn't matter to me. I like to be surprised
>none of my business until it's business time, as I like to say

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 15:30:08 2019 No.10119679 >>10119655 >I'm not a feminine female so I'm not a woman wat

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 15:31:55 2019 No.10119681 >>10119655 congrats you're bi. Stop trying to special through identity politics. Preferences don't dictate a whole new sexuality. Holy shit.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 15:39:38 2019 No.10119695 >>10119679 No they said they don't want to date feminine females, learn to read

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 15:44:43 2019 No.10119698 >>10119695 DA but that's still bi. A preference for a personality type doesn't make you less bi. I don't really go for girly girls, either. Nothing special about that. It's like saying you don't like overly masculine men but still like dicks.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 15:51:56 2019 No.10119706 >>10119695 Oh, my bad, let me reword that: >I'm not attracted to feminine women so I need a super special label because butches aren't women wat

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 16:03:14 2019 No.10119711 >>10119529 And predictably, the bisexuals pull into the lead.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 16:21:03 2019 No.10119732 I find it hard to believe there are more lesbians than straight women into Lolita. I see far too many girls dragging their sullen, slobby boyfriends to meets, but never with girlfriends. Wish I could find a Lolita gf.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 16:23:24 2019 No.10119738 >>10119732 That's the one that's shocking you? Personally I can't believe that there are as many asexuals as lesbians.

Anonymous Mon Mar 4 16:54:13 2019 No.10119775

>>10119681
>>10119698
>>10119706
>sexual preferences don't dictate sexuality
>???

why are you so hell-bent on labeling me as bi?
I'm not bisexual. I identify as queer because I'm anti binary, trans-inclusive, and I believe gender and sex are completely unrelated. It absolutely is political and it's on purpose. It really depends on the person for me, but I'm mostly attracted to masculine presenting people across labels. I don't see myself with a femme woman like me, but who knows!

just because someone has a vag doesn't mean they're a woman. y'all over here trying to erase my identity, like, stay in your lane. you have your viewpoint on the world, I have mine. But I'm not going to let some anon tell me who I am.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 16:59:18 2019 No.10119782 >>10119529 I identify as a lacesexual burando-gender shopaholic blob. The second I saw that there's only male, femlale and etc. options I just knew you would receive many annoyed snowflake comments like>>10119655. I

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:03:13 2019 No.10119788 >>10119775 Bisexual isn't a transphobic label. It generally means "attracted to my gender and others". I thought we all got past that one years ago.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:04:56 2019 No.10119790 File: 1.23 MB, 1280x743, 1550622233074.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10119529 >only 4-7 males out of 109 voters B-but cgl is totally larping males! I swear!

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:05:27 2019 No.10119792 >>10119775 >understands sex and gender are different >but thinks gender is a legitimate concept that actually define people >rather than just their personality Please go outside or read something

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:06:45 2019 No.10119794 >>10119790 They could be lying... But yeahhh, I knew we're all a bunch of salty bitches and it's nice to see it confirmed

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:07:47 2019 No.10119799 >>10119790 The only people who think cgl is larping males are larping males.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:08:33 2019 No.10119801 >>10119775 So are you okay with feminine trans girls? Just curious IDGAF about what you label yourself. I personally say I'm bisexual but I'm kinda the opposite to you I usually only like feminine people but I have my exceptions.

Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:13:16 2019 No.10119810
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>>10119775
I like women of all sorts including trans women and I have dated multiple non-binary people, but I'm only attracted to cute, feminine-presenting guys. Guess I'm not bisexual any more. OH WAIT

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:21:19 2019 No.10119825 >>10119529 Is it weird that I'm actually enjoying the map more than what the results of the actual questions are? Hello lolitas in Israel. Didn't know there were any of you there

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:51:37 2019 No.10119899 >>10119732 I can believe. It's pretty obvious that this would be the case. What i don't really believe is there being that many asexuals. Society got people fucked up if people thinking that because they aren't pornsick, they must be asexual.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 17:57:54 2019 No.10119906 File: 5 KB, 275x183, 2323.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10119775 >anti-binary for political purposes >assigns gender to how people look based on sexist understanding of how men and women look

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:02:58 2019 No.10119913 >>10119790 >be larping male >claim to be female on poll >claim to be lesbian because being straight would be gay

Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:07:27 2019 No.10119922

>>10119529
O voted for heterosexual female, but there's a little thing that I'm not sure about:

Besides being het (I only date boys) I'm also demisexual (I don't feel physical attraction unless we have a deep emotional bond beforehand) and that is often labeled as a part of asexuality.

I don't feel it's fair for me to choose female asex, since there is a het option, but anyway, that's it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:10:49 2019 No.10119926 >>10119922 you're hilarious

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:15:24 2019 No.10119931 >>10119922 You are straight. Also not special at all.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:15:32 2019 No.10119932 >>10119922 I voted the same way, because I'm demiromantic (meaning I only feel a romantic attraction to someone I feel an emotional connection with)

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:19:58 2019 No.10119937 >>10119931 r u saying straight people dont have sex with whoever is willing 3 times a week?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:21:27 2019 No.10119941 >>10119922 I'm the same, anon! I feel like the "asexual" in this poll refers to people who don't feel attraction at all, so I made the same choice as yours

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:22:38 2019 No.10119943 >>10119931 Never said it was special, this is fairly common t b h

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:24:19 2019 No.10119945 >>10119943 it's literally the most common, that's why it's not included

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:27:37 2019 No.10119948 >>10119775 its called SEXuality. Its attraction towards someone's sex, not gender.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:28:02 2019 No.10119949 >>10119948 Well, that's a new one

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:28:59 2019 No.10119950 >>10119949 Did you get sex ed from tumblr trolls?

Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:28:59 2019 No.10119951

>>10119932
>I only feel a romantic attraction to someone I feel an emotional connection with
what is the difference between being emotionally connected to someone and romantically connected to them?
I thought that if you were being romantic with someone, you would also be emotionally connected. Like they go hand in hand. You're saying there is some kind of significant difference?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:30:38 2019 No.10119953 >>>/lgbt/ Take your sperging to where it belongs, the lot of you.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:32:30 2019 No.10119954 This poll is fucking joke. I voted for asexual female even though I'm not.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:38:29 2019 No.10119962 >>10119954 Holy shit, came here to post this too lmao

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:39:11 2019 No.10119964 File: 137 KB, 323x454, 1369512586648.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10119913 >t. female larping as larping male

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:50:27 2019 No.10119977 >>10119964 t. lolita larping as cosplayer larping as larper

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 18:53:09 2019 No.10119983 >>10119954 it was all a trick to learn your location

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 19:02:52 2019 No.10119997 >bisexual female in the lead with 36% Sadly most of you are voting as a joke

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 19:06:27 2019 No.10120003 >>10119983 I thought these kind of data collectors were only on popular boards

Anonymous Mon Mar 4 19:08:36 2019 No.10120008

>>10119775
>people this retarded are in your threads, calling you shit
>people this retarded are giving you advice and you're taking it

Jesus Christ I haven't read this many buzzwords since, well, EVER. like how many mental calculations do you have to jump through in order to be unique lmao

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 19:16:50 2019 No.10120016 >>10119983 good luck, I'm behind 7 proxies

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 19:22:40 2019 No.10120020 >>10119949 what did ya think sexuality meant?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 19:23:25 2019 No.10120021 >>10120008 >implying these are actual seagulls and not just escaped tumblrtards

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 20:55:48 2019 No.10120120 >>10119997 That's exactly what the lolita contingent of the board is though

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 22:28:32 2019 No.10120160 Jfc go back to rufflechat.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 22:35:40 2019 No.10120163 File: 53 KB, 591x960, IMG_20171120_004615.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10119529 None of them applied to me, sorry mate

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 22:38:32 2019 No.10120165 >>10119775 Did you stretch before reaching this hard? I suggest going and having a long think about how you define people. Because I like the same traits in people that you've described yourself liking... and I'm bi.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 22:57:50 2019 No.10120178 Interesting poll, surprised to see the amount of asexual anons (both female and male)

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 23:03:18 2019 No.10120181 File: 64 KB, 335x335, 1546456803020.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] what a fukin mess this is lol

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 23:11:04 2019 No.10120185 >>10120178 i think a bunch picked it as a joke like >>10119954 which is sad.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 23:13:14 2019 No.10120186 >>10119655 Disgusting.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 23:13:50 2019 No.10120187 >>10119732 I don't find this surprising at all based on all the newfags.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 23:14:36 2019 No.10120188 >>10119792 Many times this.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 4 23:16:34 2019 No.10120190 >>10119922 Demisexual is just a fancy term for having standards. Yuh aint special

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 00:30:41 2019 No.10120228

>>10119922
>demisexual
This fucking bungus term needs to go walk off a cliff. It implies that the general population just creams their panties over anyone they see, when it's actually really damn hard for anyone to feel 'attraction' until they're comfortable with someone. Anything less is surface level appreciation.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 00:41:16 2019 No.10120233 >>10120228 This

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 00:45:56 2019 No.10120235 File: 40 KB, 480x360, 36864CBC-5977-4653-A8AF-BBF675D75885.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10119775

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 01:28:56 2019 No.10120254 I made this poll to either confirm or break the myth about lesbian comm. I guess it’s safe to suggest lesbians are the third of comm and the majority is somewhat straight.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 01:31:36 2019 No.10120255 >>10120254 Everyone lied on your test, use the more official census.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 01:45:06 2019 No.10120259 None, because I'm happier without the labels.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 02:22:03 2019 No.10120267 >>10119775 So.... you're bi AND in denial that gender and sex are the same.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 02:27:47 2019 No.10120270 >>10119790 what makes you think we aren't larping at this instant?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 02:27:47 2019 No.10120271 >>10120254 You could try leaving your house and going to a lolita meet. Almost all of them are straight. >>10120267 Gender is a sexist construct that needs to be destroyed.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 02:34:12 2019 No.10120274 Jesus this thread is retarded lol. Demisexuality is a made up term for tumblrinas that want to feel special and literally no one gives a shit if you’re asexual.

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 02:39:13 2019 No.10120280

>>10120271
I just looked up lolitas from my insta feed. There’re 11 gals in straight relationship, 6 are gay/bisexual and 22 haven’t been mentioned their SO afaik. I haven’t been picking people by their sexuality, so I believe the third of comm is pretty much fair assumption.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 02:46:15 2019 No.10120287 >>10120280 I get it, you can't go to a meet because you don't go outside and you're not a lolita, so you have to base your worldview on things you see on the internet

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 02:47:09 2019 No.10120289 Why you all so mad? There’s nothing wrong or offensive about this poll, but yall just go nuts over this

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 03:16:44 2019 No.10120299 File: 20 KB, 480x478, 2498107-cletus.gif.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >yall What's with all this slack jawed hicks in here?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 03:35:51 2019 No.10120302 >>10120259 Let’s assume you get harassed for that. What kind of argument do you have to make get that person fuck off?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 04:20:12 2019 No.10120310 >>10119529 >disable adblocker to do this poll >last part of it shows my fucking facebook profile wewlads I made a mistake Adblock back on

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 06:11:25 2019 No.10120338 I'm queer and chose etc. but otherwise would choose lesbian because I only go after girls.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 06:13:29 2019 No.10120340 >>10120299 People from all over the states use y'all, and yall is also super common in aave, fuck off.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 06:14:03 2019 No.10120341 >>10120280 ...People in straight relationships can still be bisexual, you know

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 06:17:14 2019 No.10120343

>>10120271
I'm under the belief that lolitas and other alt fashions tend to have a slightly higher percent of lgbt people in their communities in general. People into alt fashion tend to be more open minded, and thus tend to not be in the closet, so there are fewer """straight""" people.

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 06:23:43 2019 No.10120345

>>10120343
This. This is why we're a bunch of bisexuals. However bisexuals are also much more likely to date people of the opposite gender because of social conditioning, so I can see how a lolita comm may look mostly straight while actually having much more lgbt presence than your average bunch of people.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 06:50:58 2019 No.10120351 >>10120343 Slightly higher, yes. Almost half of them, no.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 07:06:52 2019 No.10120353 File: 80 KB, 445x640, 1546967635855.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10120299 >>10120340 mmmmm now calm down, y'all. Seems to be some exposure 'ere of the good 'ol kawa-yeehaw.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 07:11:03 2019 No.10120354 >>10120353 I live in the northeast but nice try

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 07:14:20 2019 No.10120355

>>10120351
How many normal people do you think are LGBT? Like, not "I identify as bi," but are actually, objectively LGBT? Probably a ton more than identify as such. Lots of bi people ignore their gay yearnings because it's easier, or they think it's normal (which, it is, but you know what I mean) to have girl crushes and shit as a straight person, when they're actually just bi.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 07:57:21 2019 No.10120363 >>10120353 what in tarnation

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 08:22:41 2019 No.10120369 >>10120289 It's the easiest bait

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 08:27:09 2019 No.10120371 >RREEEEEEEE TUMBLR Holy shit, is that why people say this board is retarded? Cause you're stuck in a goober phase?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 08:43:16 2019 No.10120376 >>10120255 >everyone I didn't

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 08:54:54 2019 No.10120380

>>10120355
If they are living their life as straight, who are you to claim they're bi? According to several large scale research, around 5% of the population of my country is LGB. That's actually much more than what I see around me irl. Of course, online around 50% people are LGBT+ but that doesn't reflect real life.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 09:02:42 2019 No.10120381 >>10120380 >According to several large scale research, around 5% of the population of my country is LGB 5% of those admitting it?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 09:16:51 2019 No.10120385 >>10120255 >>10120376 I didn't lie either.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 09:18:54 2019 No.10120386 >>10120380 Lots of people who appear straight are probably bi, they're just not spergs who yell about it all over the place. How would you even know?

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 09:27:51 2019 No.10120388

>>10120386
Seconding this, I'm bisexual but since I'm in a het relationship right now and I almost never bring up my sexuality because I find it personal (I don't think everyone I meet needs to know who I'm fucking). I'm positive there are other people like me who just don't feel the need to address it because to them it's just sex.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 10:01:26 2019 No.10120402 >>10120381 >>10120386 Yes, there are probably people who don't talk about it, but that doesn't mean NEARLY HALF OF THE POPULATION is LGB

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 10:06:05 2019 No.10120404 >>10120402 >38% is somehow 50% >200 votes is somehow considered representation of thousands. Y’all dumb af

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 10:37:47 2019 No.10120425

>>10120388
Thirding! I do post about lgbt things on IG very occasionally and have been involved in activism in the past, but most people don't know anything about my sexual orientation or even my relationship other than that I am in one. There's just no need for them to know unless it's relevant.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 10:42:58 2019 No.10120428 >>10120404 They started arguing with someone who only said almost half of the people are not LGBT

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 10:55:50 2019 No.10120435 >>10120299 >Calls people slack-jawed >uses "this" for a plural noun

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 11:06:03 2019 No.10120439

Ever thought that maybe people who don't give a shit about how people perceive them and are bold in their representation of themselves might be more likely to be queer on the basis of they're already judged by society and expected to be a total weirdo anyway, so why the fuck not? I find loads of people in the various alt fashion scenes are LGBT+

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 11:10:13 2019 No.10120443 >>10120439 Ikr. Like 10%. Not 38%.

Anonymous Tue Mar 5 11:37:16 2019 No.10120454

OP’s here, there’s my five cents on why lolitas are expected to be queer:
- lolita fashion is asexual, this clothes cover up a lot, so they are expected to be worn by someone who doesn’t prioritize sex appeal.
- lolita doesn’t cater to what the majority of men find attractive, although it still may look appealing to females.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 11:38:35 2019 No.10120457 >>10120443 Feeling threatened, het normie?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 11:56:20 2019 No.10120465 >>10120454 I mean the majority of wuluhwuhs and women in general aren’t overtly horny like men, they prefer aesthetic beauty over whatever guys see in yoga pants and crop tops, so it’s unsurprising there’s as few hets as there are.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 12:08:28 2019 No.10120473 >>10119655 Just say lesbian if you’re woman identifying and only see yourself partnering with is woman-iding like I get you’re trying to be qweer and woke but like you said if genitals don’t correlate to gender then why would you have to choose etc.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 12:19:35 2019 No.10120480 >>10120457 I'm the only lesbian in my comm. You all sound like you never meet anyone irl.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 12:42:19 2019 No.10120497 >>10120480 >lesbian well that explains why you hate bisexuals then

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 5 12:44:57 2019 No.10120500 >>10120497 I'm not a lesbian, I lied. But I knew you wanted to believe it. There are no lesbians in my comm. I don't know what makes you think I hate bisexuals since I've literally not mentioned them in this entire thread.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 6 02:37:47 2019 No.10121080 >>10120354 >a yankee I'm not surprised.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 6 02:41:33 2019 No.10121081 Anyone else notice that this very scientific poll allows you to vote more than once?

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 6 03:34:21 2019 No.10121096 >>10121081 I have and I did.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 6 09:29:07 2019 No.10121186 >>10120402 Fags are the loudest and most self-absorbed so of course they flock to polls.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 6 09:54:40 2019 No.10121192 Most of my comm is either Lesbian, Bisexual, or hate men lol.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 6 10:51:05 2019 No.10121211 >>10121192 This. There are two girls with decent male partners but everyone else has a girlfriend or is voluntarily a cat lady because local men in our age group are hot garbage.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 6 11:21:38 2019 No.10121230 >>10121192 Which comm are you in? >>10121211 Cat lady isn't the same as lesbian

Anonymous Wed Mar 6 14:49:55 2019 No.10121329

>>10119932
the need for a term like demisexual is silly to me, but demiromantic is absurd. emotional connection is a prerequisite to romantic connection, this is not unusual

all this 'demi' shit is just normal functioning human shit where we get to know eachother.. love at firs sight and one night stands are not the norm

Anonymous Wed Mar 6 18:41:57 2019 No.10121508

>>10119529
I was about to just not vote when I saw the limited choices, but I decided to vote for asexual female, bisexual female, and etc in order to properly encompass my sexuality. I'm a pan-sapio-sexual female, which means that I'm sexually attracted to anyone who meets my standards for intelligence. However, my standards are quite high so it's rare that I'm attracted to anyone who is attracted back; such is the curse of having a PHD in particle physics.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 6 18:54:13 2019 No.10121514 >>10121508 don't you dare try to bait me

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 6 18:58:45 2019 No.10121519 >>10121508 You joke but this thread speaks loudly enough!!

Anonymous Thu Mar 7 14:18:11 2019 No.10122000

>>10121192
Same in my comm. It's not a very big comm but we have a good few lesbians, and most of the rest are bisexual. There are also a few people who are completely asexual. Come to think of it I actually can't think of a single member who is straight (though there are some new members I don't know very well)

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 7 14:19:49 2019 No.10122001 >>10122000 Which comm are you in?

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 7 14:22:21 2019 No.10122003 >>10122001 Nayrt, but any of the Midwestern or Mississippi ones, in my experience

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 7 15:26:31 2019 No.10122053 >>10122003 Most of my midwest comm is straight. I know one girl who is bi and one girl is lesbian, but that's it. All the others girls I know have bfs or husbands.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 7 15:32:30 2019 No.10122061 File: 23 KB, 623x523, 1550593477140.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] hmmmmm

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 7 15:35:39 2019 No.10122069 >>10122003 liar

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 7 19:16:58 2019 No.10122283 >>10122001 Don't want to be too specific but a European one.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 7 19:43:31 2019 No.10122310 >>10122061 thank god.

Anonymous Fri Mar 8 04:18:19 2019 No.10122523

>>10122283
I'm in the Dutch comm and I only know 2 lesbian girls, they're in a relationship with each other. Every Dutch lolita I follow on facebook/insta has a boyfriend. I guess you're in a different country where lolita is associated with LGBT for some reason.

>>	Anonymous Fri Mar 8 06:08:00 2019 No.10122547 >>10119825 The map has been an eye-opener! Is that one green dot near Madagascar an actual islander lolita or just someone's proxy? Islander-chan, if you are real, how tf are you living in that humidity?

>>	Anonymous Fri Mar 8 06:29:30 2019 No.10122554 >>10122523 As far as I know most Dutch Lolita’s are single though.

Anonymous Fri Mar 8 15:48:05 2019 No.10122903

>>10122523
I'm very far from the Netherlands, yes. I don't think it's that lolita is specifically associated with LGBT, just that most people in the lolita comm are relatively young, and where I live it is not uncommon for young people to be out as LGBT.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:14:21 2019 No.10123206 >>10122547 I know of one on Instagram. I'm guessing it's her. She serms adorable and I want to be friends with her

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:17:41 2019 No.10123210 >>10122903 >>10122283 Why do you refuse to say which comm you're in?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:20:00 2019 No.10123211 I picked lesbian female even though it's not strictly true as a whole but it's the closest one more or less.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:20:18 2019 No.10123212 >>10122283 Must be the UK >>10122547 >>10123206 Considering the green dot is over Mauritius rather than Madagascar I think it must be a VPN or proxy, sadly.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:31:24 2019 No.10123222 >>10123212 UK is a neighbouring country to the Netherlands, and most British lolitas are not bisexual or lesbian

Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:32:25 2019 No.10123224

>>10121329
Is it? I don't outright tell people I'm demi but I don't experience sexual attraction at all. But I do have romantic partners and I'll have sex with them to make them happy because I'm attracted to them on a mental/ emotional level. But the concept of being "horny" isn't something I really understand

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:33:42 2019 No.10123225 >>10123222 >most British lolitas are not bisexual or lesbian U sure about that m8

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:35:16 2019 No.10123227 >>10123225 Yeah I am sure about it

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:37:30 2019 No.10123229 >>10123227 What comm are you? Maybe my comm is disproportionately gay

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:41:47 2019 No.10123231 >>10123224 i think that's just asexual because that's how i identify with a similar experience. ace hetero/homo/bi romantic. identify how you want though, don't take this as me telling you what to call yourself

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 09:42:53 2019 No.10123232 >>10123229 >>10123227 If you're from CLAM, it's in the name. If you're from Brighton, the whole city is gay. If you're from London and have ever been to Soho, you're gay too and just haven't noticed yet. Other places are less gay though.

Anonymous Sat Mar 9 11:50:53 2019 No.10123266

>>10119775
If you like dicks and vaginas you’re bi. Honestly it’s super bi-phobic to imply that bi people refuse to date trans and non-binary people. Which is 100% what you’re doing when you refuse to identify as bi because you’re attracted to people with non cis gender identities.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 12:19:01 2019 No.10123278 >>10122061 based

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 9 12:52:45 2019 No.10123289 >>10123266 This is about how I concluded that bi was the only word I need, too. No need to complicate it.

Anonymous Sat Mar 9 13:12:31 2019 No.10123295

>>10123231
I just don't talk about it with anyone, especially not using the term Ace. The whole "hurr durr, you have sex organs and don't reproduce by budding" thing is so annoying. Normies and pan/ poly sex freaks have completely shut down the conversation about being Ace

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 10 00:49:37 2019 No.10123586 >>10123206 What's her insta? Is she Mauritian? I wanna share some islander solidarity with her

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 10 01:12:38 2019 No.10123592 >>10119932 >I only feel a romantic attraction to someone I feel an emotional connection with So you're a normal straight person.

Anonymous Sun Mar 10 01:25:52 2019 No.10123594

Honestly I think the majority of "demisexuals" fall into three camps.

1- real people who only wanna fuck people after they become close friends.

2- Autists, or teenagers

3- Normally girls who wanna be LGBT but don't actually wanna fuck other women or be genuinely trans. They're usually transtrenders too.

There's this retard in my comm I used to be friends with who's like #3, she basically called me a slut cause at the time I had 3 sexual partners despite the fact that she was also a massive whore who straight up broke up my other friends by making one of them cheat on the other. She has strict religious parents so she calls herself a demisexual cause she hates to admit that she's constantly cockhungry.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 10 01:44:59 2019 No.10123602 >>10119932 >demiromantic (meaning I only feel a romantic attraction to someone I feel an emotional connection with) But can you love someone without an emotional connection? What would that be like?

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 10 01:55:04 2019 No.10123604 >>10119775 The 'bi' in bisexual doesn't mean binary. Bi means two. Sexual means sexual attraction as well as sex (genitals). There are two sexes. Therefore, you are bi.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 10 18:02:06 2019 No.10123870 >>10123594 Yeah demi is essentially straight people who want to feel included in the LGBTQ movement but are just straights. Most people would be demisexual or demiromantic. Straight people really feel entitled to being included in the movement

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 00:54:50 2019 No.10124109 File: 32 KB, 345x437, 1540054076774.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10119954 well I feel disheartened, I'm an actual asexual female and was happy to see there were so many of us. Back to being alone

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 01:08:35 2019 No.10124115 >>10123295 I still love you

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 01:10:09 2019 No.10124116 >>10121508 I'd love to meet you but I'm sure I'd be disappointing, still willing.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 01:25:15 2019 No.10124126 >>10124109 Even though people are lying, I think a lot of asexuals are drawn to the fashion. I’m into lolita specifically because I can look adorable and also completely unsexy— which might sound contradictory but I hope you get what I mean.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 01:37:07 2019 No.10124136 >>10123870 Straight people also want to be cool and be doing cool gay stuff.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 03:24:02 2019 No.10124197 >>10124109 you're not alone, I'm asexual too, I think there are a number of us here.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 03:56:20 2019 No.10124208 Y'all are so fuckin dumb >Asexuals are real >Demisexuals are real >Queer-Feminist theory has merit Die triggered about it.

Anonymous Mon Mar 11 04:00:50 2019 No.10124209

>>10124136
Cool beans but straight people never had to fuck in sewers or get arrested for fucking someone they loved (unless they were in an interracial relationship), so there's kind of a reason that LGBT is for people whomst either like the same gender or are trans. I'd go as far to include aroaces just cause they're actually somewhat oppressed desu. Like not to get all tumblr on you but straight people wanting to be gay is as pathetic and annoying as white people wanting to be black.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 04:03:47 2019 No.10124210 >>10121508 Being a pan ace is "valid" (cringe) but not wanting to fuck retards isn't a sexuality

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 04:20:24 2019 No.10124212 >>10124209 >Cool beans but straight people never had to fuck in sewers or get arrested for fucking someone they loved Yeah, straight life is plain boring

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 12:23:50 2019 No.10124344 >>10123594 >by making one of them cheat on the other. I'm sorry but how do you "make" someone do that??

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 11 12:26:13 2019 No.10124345 >>10124209 >straight people wanting to be gay is as pathetic and annoying as white people wanting to be black Or men wanting to be women :^)

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 17:39:12 2019 No.10125092 >>10124208 This

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 17:49:02 2019 No.10125095 >>10124208 >>10125092 Demisexuals are valid but they are also normies who don't belong in LGBT groups.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 18:20:27 2019 No.10125112 Asexual, but I don’t doubt that it could change eventually and I might actually be demi or something. That’s what I’m hoping for, anyway. Being fully asexual sucks balls.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 18:33:31 2019 No.10125120 >>10125112 >Being fully asexual sucks balls Lmao that's how I know you fake ace.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 18:34:22 2019 No.10125122 >>10125120 Lol I wish I was fake

Anonymous Tue Mar 12 18:36:56 2019 No.10125126

>>10125112
People used to just say they're not ready for sex/not ready to be intimate yet. Why do you feel the need to label yourself asexual besides for trolling? Serious question.
I dated a guy who thought he was asexual, but it turned out he was just confused because media/internet taught him he should want to have sex 3 times a week at least. In reality we were both fine with once or twice a month.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 20:53:01 2019 No.10125218 >>10125126 Anon, there are people who actually don't want to have sex. Like at all. It's not the same situation as the guy you were dating.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 21:25:31 2019 No.10125252 >>10125218 It is the same situation. He didn't want to have sex for years and identified as asexual. Are you saying his asexuality is not valid?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 21:28:00 2019 No.10125253 worst thread on cgl in years, historical.

Anonymous Tue Mar 12 21:46:16 2019 No.10125263

>>10125252
a person being confused about their sexuality is totally fine and normal and a part of growing up on this hell planet. this guy identified as asexual and then discovered he wasn't. Same way some folks identify as gay until they discover they're bi, and so on and so on. That's fine, it's life.
A person who's just "not ready for sex" shouldn't identify as asexual, but they might be confused, because this stuff is so rarely explained to young people. Which is a shame, because then it ends up getting argued about on image boards to the benefit of absolutely no one.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 21:48:34 2019 No.10125266 >>10125263 The person I replied to thinks they will not be asexual in the future, that's why I'm asking why they're using the asexual label instead of saying they're not ready/interested in sex yet.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 23:36:56 2019 No.10125347 >>10119529 Perpetually confused

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 23:40:48 2019 No.10125351 >>10119608 best reply

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 12 23:55:30 2019 No.10125365 >>10124208 Glad at least one person said this.

Anonymous Wed Mar 13 01:13:36 2019 No.10125412

>>10125112
If you're unhappy about being ace maybe you could look into something to stimulate your sex drive. Like I'm asexual and that's the exact opposite of how I feel, I was so happy to learn it was a thing and that I wasn't broken in some fundamental way.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 13 01:14:57 2019 No.10125414 >>10125263 Comment of the day

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 19 20:36:40 2019 No.10130167 >>10123232 CLAM literally got another lesbian couple this week. Probably the gayest comm in the UK I’ve come across.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 19 21:22:09 2019 No.10130185 >>10125414 Nope, that person just didn't understand my question

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 19 21:24:55 2019 No.10130188 >>10130167 Meanwhile 90% of London is bi but none of them are fucking each other

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 00:59:54 2019 No.10130292 >>10130185 pretty sure someone discovering they're not asexual means their asexuality was the definition of invalid

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 01:05:34 2019 No.10130294 >>10123212 Hey my family is Mauritian and my cousin is a weeb, and she knows weebs, so a Mauritian who lurks here is entirely possible. >>10123586 If you exist Mauritian chan I would absolutely love to meet you.

Anonymous Wed Mar 20 01:29:28 2019 No.10130303

>>10130292
DA, but as one of the bi people here, I used to identify as asexual because absolutely nothing stood out to me as attractive. Never felt anything at all and was fine with that, never went out of my way or questioned it aside from the usual "is something wrong with me". I am not really sure when I changed but I definitely don't feel that way now. I also don't think it negated that I was asexual at the time, because believe me for a while I did try to fix it, and it's just one of those things like how they say sexuality can be fluid, I'm not the person I was 10 years ago.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 07:54:39 2019 No.10130417 >>10130294 >>10123586 The girl I was talking about is from Madagascar not Mauritius. She's weeby but very sweet and fresh out of her ita phase. I feel weird dropping her Insta though because I think she might be underage.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 08:31:39 2019 No.10130440 >>10119529 >most females here are bi nice...

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 08:43:56 2019 No.10130449 >16% lesbians Alright where all you are. My biggest dream is to have a gf who's also into old school so we can share clothes

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 08:47:51 2019 No.10130452 >>10130188 You sound jealous and like you need to get laid

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 09:18:57 2019 No.10130467 >>10130188 >>10130167 >>10123232 are you sure? I mean, around half of the London population are muslims after all, aren't they? (or are there some secret bi/gay)

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 10:49:57 2019 No.10130528 >>10130452 You bet I do. Are you volunteering? >>10130467 I was talking about the London comm, silly. Nice try.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 13:02:11 2019 No.10130637 >>10119775 Imagine having to type paragraphs to try to explain you’re bi.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 20 14:32:42 2019 No.10130711 >>10130417 Yeah no worries, that's completely understandable. Also I hate the response people get from dropping instas so it's probably for the better. I'll probably run into her someday.

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