/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Plenty of cosplayers have done far worse than camwhoring

>>8554863
Honestly so long as you own up to it nobody should have any problems really.
Don't live in fear because of shit your ex caused.
Own it and work it to your advantage.

People won't care about your past if you don't bring it up and show your talents. People only use it on people they hate, just be kind, respectful, and talented and not many people will care about your past! I wish you luck

>>8554872
One girl found out in the past and basically prohibited me from talking to her boyfriend or her ever again. Especially her boyfriend.

Also my parents haven't yet found out, and the boyfriend is threatening to send all of my stuff to them still.

Some shitheads might judge you if it ever came up, but this board and the cosplay community can be pretty liberal when it comes to that stuff. There's no shame in sex work, and like the above anons said, if you're honest about it if it ever does come up, there's no ammo against you. Just be a nice and respectful person to others, and you'll make friends regardless of your past. Also, I believe Google is a lot better about working with people to get their information off search results, if you're ever interested in that, especially when it comes to revenge stuff like in your case.

>>8554877
Your best course of action is to be honest with your parents and take legal action against that prick of an ex because clearly he is harassing you.
Name and shame the asshole before he does to other girls what he did to you.

>>8554886
Forgot to add, it's also really common now to use fake names on Facebook in cosplay now, to avoid employers finding out about our weirdo hobbies, so if using a different last name or a nickname would prevent possible new friends from searching you, consider that!

Hope you die OP.

>>8554886
>There's no shame in sex work

Show your "work" to your father then.

>>8554873
anon you forgot they have to be ugly and untalented.
>People only use it on people they hate
And people hate on cosplayers out of jealousy. So there really isn't much to be done, sorry OP.
Best you can do is as they said, be a kind person, don't let people suck you into their drama and own up to it if people ask in person, and then politely remind them that it isn't any of their fucking business. With a smile of course. Because really, it isn't anyone's business and if others spread it that is due to their problems not yours.

Hey OP, if you really want to do it then whatever just do what you want (I mean you already did the cam work so whatever, you obviously knew you would get flack for it soon enough?)
Community will find other stuff to hate and people who don't care about your past will still be your friend.

Get raped you filthy fucking whore.

>>8554863
Oh you fit right in. Like literally you already will get 10k free likes on your fb page and an army of beards that will donate at least 5k a month to your patreon. Hell you don't even have to play for your cosplay, some dude will sew it and hand craft the props for you.

I wish I was being sarcastic but I'm not.

Nobody will care if you used to be a hooker. The only time that matters is when hookers/pornstars USE the cosplay/anime/fan community to gain attention, fame, or money. Nobody likes being manipulated.

If you're just a person who likes cosplay who happens to have been a hooker, that is fine. If you're a hooker looking to use cosplay as a means to further your career then you will not be well-received.

>>8554890
Not sure if I want them to know just yet. They will be really angry with me.

>>8554893
I just wish I had been a bit smarter. If I have any advice for younger girls these days it's to be careful about who you give nudes to and what you do on the internet.

>>8554985

Yell you parents anon. Would you rather they hear it from you first or from your ass of an ex. He's already leaked it. When and if it comes up, just be honest about your past.

Fucking hate cosplayers so much. Threads like this are just one reason why. Rape is too good for all of you.

was this linked on r9k

>>8555001
Almost definitely
>>8554991
Who peed on your brand?

>>8554863
Stop being a pussy. Just own that shit and people will stop caring, unless you start acting holier than thou

>>8554877
You're boyfriend is a shithead and you should dump his ass and get him arrested for threatening to blackmail you.

>>8555003
>Who peed on your brand?

Why are you incapable of not whoring yourselves out, quite literally?

>>8555039
Why are you being such a judgmental cunt?

>>8555044

Because I can't put into words how much I hate and despise cosplayers for their shitty whore-tier behavior. The men of this site HATE you.

>>8555054
OP already said she's not a cosplayer yet though..

Most of the most well-known cosplayers have done webcamming, porn, tease modelling, stripping or other similar things. Even the few that haven't done that as a job have had nudes leak. It's funny you use JNig as OP picture because she's pretty much the only one who HASN'T had her vagina posted all over the internet.

If anything, camming will only make you more popular.

>>8555054
OP didn't say she was going to be like JNig or Yaya or any other fake nerd girl. Are you that fucking stupid?

>>8555069

white women are awful

>>8555075
Japanese cosplayers come in hand with being amateur gravure models
Why so racist you piece of trash?

>>8555116

I am white. It just pains me to see our women behave like this.

>>8555054
>men
is that what you betas go by now?

>>8554877
Anon, I'm curious as to who you are. Post pics.

Also, if people give you shit for being a cammer....well, those are the people you really shouldn't be friends with anyway.

Go ahead and send me an email if you don't want to blast it all over the board.

>>8555117
>our women
please leave

>>8555143
Race-mixer please... Go worship some plastic Korean faggot.

>>8554963
>I wish I was being sarcastic but I'm not.

yup.
That's pretty much the limelight in cosplay now. Not fandom, not creativity, not workmanship.

Just sex. Gotta be hot to be invited to cons, on TV, interviewed by normal magazines, ect.

Don't gotta watch the show, just say you like the design.
Don't have to play the game, just say you feel the character is just like you.
Don't have to make your cosplay, just say cosplay isn't about that and it will make it true.
Don't have to earn the money to have other people make your cosplay. Just say help me make it and people will turn over the money they make just so you can look good.

>>8555145
Not that anon but
>race mixer
I'm not the religious type but I'm praying for you anon

>>8555148
>I'm not the religious type but I'm praying for you anon

Don't worry, useless people like you with no identity, who desperately attach themselves to other cultures in a pitiful, desperate attempt to be accepted by foreigners (Koreaboo/Weeaboo) are the ones truly deserving of our prayers. You have a pathological illness.

On the off chance that this is real and not just some idiot's bedroom fantasy...

Unless you get really good and 'cosfamous' no-one's going to google you. If you did your camwork under your real name, change your name. Cosplayers have online handles; people will refer to you and search you by this. If you've not done cosplay before, you won't be good enough yet for cgl or anyone else to bother with you.

TLDR: No-one will care enough to find out, and if you're worried you should have changed your name already, even just for potential employers.

>Mention a stripper and all the shitheads come out
Never change 4chan

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>>8555153

Men divide women into two groups: Those they want to marry and those they want to fuck like disposable whores.

Which one do you want to be?

>>8555155
Aw. Did I trigger you?

Do you have an Asian boyfriend? How's that going? I just love relationships built on a fetid river of racial fetishization and self-hatred.

>>8555157
I'm a lesbian so I literally am unable to care less. But continue pretending your opinion means shit to anyone.

2/10 for making me respond

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>>8554863
>What happens when they eventually find out?

Girls get salty, guys get horny.

>>8555160
>I'm a lesbian

Bullshit

>>8555054

Why do I get the feeling a LOT of people on cgl have severe mental issues, male or female?

>>8555054
>The men of this site HATE you.

Speak for yourself, lady.

>>8554892
>>8554991
>>8554954
>>8555054
>>8555157
did daddy leave mommy for a prostitute? aww nonny

>>8555334
literally my face, sounds like some sandy betafag is projecting by shitting up this thread with 'threats'

anyways
>>8554863
You know, I'm sure people don't mind. In my opinion, if it's your past, it's your business, not anyone else's. I think you should do this:
>>8554890

Will people be shitty if you become well-known? Absolutely. But let me tell you this, don't let that stop you doing what you enjoy. Stay safe

>>8554863
Everyones got their own shit to deal with.

I wouldn't let something, you know, actually pretty minor like doing cam shows, or even porn effect you doing something you like.

Its only a stain on your past if you want it to be. You can be ashamed of it, or you can just view it as what it was, which is work.

I'm male, but I've had conversations with female friends and my mom and its honestly not that big of a deal. My mom knew girls in college who basically did escort services, and porno flicks to pay for it (Mom told me she considered doing it, even though Grandpa was paying because the money was so good and she wanted a new car). I have a few friends that do it as supplementary income, and most of them are fairly conservative and not the sexual deviants the common man would have you believe cam-girls are.

Fact is, if you're an attractive woman you may as well exploit your looks for money from men.

Camming is way safer then being an escort for girls, and you probably make just as much money. The only issue is your online record and shit, but like I said earlier, you can let it be a stain, or you can let it just be something you did.

Basically, dress up in costumes and pretty dresses if it makes you happy.

Not even white knightin' here.

>>8554863
>What happens when they eventually find out?
You get new friends, fucking duh
and eventually you find non-asshole, non-judgmental friends

>>8555054
>The men of this site HATE you.
>implying anyone in the world should give half a piece of fecal matter what the men of 4chan think of them
>implying anyone on 4chan is in a valid place to judge anyone for something like sluttiness
>implying there's a shortage of men on this site who love the whores anyway

Also, I'm not really down with sex work either, but at the end of the day, it's their life and they're not hurting anyone, so you should really calm the fuck down and care about things that actually matter.

>>8554892
Different anon and I'd never do sex work, but honestly, my dad would probably be considerably less ashamed of me if I were making hundreds a night as a stripper to pay for college than if I were a NEET or working some minimum wage fast food job for the rest of my life. This might shock you, but many fathers really don't die inside the moment they realize their child is a sexual being. And why is it always "show your father" and not your mother or both parents?

Also, in the hypothetical that a person's father looks at porn, goes to strip clubs, etc., they officially forfeit any right to be ashamed of their daughter for doing sex work, as that would just make them massive hypocrites. Which you probably are, since I highly doubt you don't look at porn, yet here you are wishing death upon someone for doing work you most likely consume.

>>8555520
My biggest fear as a father is that my 2 year old baby girl will grow up into a fucking slut.

I'd still love her, but it would break my heart.

I'll probably be that dad that every boy in the neighborhood is afraid of because shes so sweet and innocent and I don't know what I'd do if something happened to her.

Since it's already leaked, it won't be as huge of a deal when it comes out. The only people who will care are the /r9k/-esque beta faggots who think of women's sexuality the same way Evangelical Christians do. Honestly, if anything, it will just get you more fans. They'd be the same kind of fans as JNig, which isn't necessarily a good thing, but it's better than what you're probably fearing.

When it gets out (I say when instead of if, because if you get a name for yourself, it most certainly will) just be chill about the whole thing. If you react emotionally or get super defensive, you're way more likely to get a lot of shit for it. Unless everyone hates you for reasons outside of sex work, no one is going to care that much about it if you handle it decently. Nudes are only real drama if the person is a lolcow or on a super high horse.

>>8555532
>My biggest fear as a father is that my 2 year old baby girl will grow up into a fucking slut.
So, you're more afraid of her growing up to enjoy casual sex than you are of her being raped, developing a serious mental/emotional disorder, becoming addicted to a dangerous substance, self-harming, becoming crippled in an accident, being kidnapped, getting cancer or some other terminal illness, or dying?

I'm just saying, there's way scarier things that can happen to your child than her becoming a slut.

>>8555541
Or just generally being a shitty person.

I would rather my daughter be the town bicycle than have her grow up to be a massive cunt eternally stuck in her sociopath middle schooler mentality.

>>8555532
It's okay as long as you would feel the same about a boy.

... which no one ever does.

>>8555548
Yeah, until they shoot up a school

>>8555541
>>8555546
This. If my daughter turned out to be a high-functioning, happy, and decent person who happens to enjoy sex, I would be okay. There's much, much worse that could have happened. I know /r9k/ likes to imagine that the women who are having sex with guys who aren't them are all horrible shitty people, but that's just not the case.

>>8554863
I'm fairly certain we just had this thread not that long ago.
As an existentialist would point out, you didn't learn everything you needed to to start cosplay without intending to cosplay, so do it.

>>8554863
Lmao who cares what autists on 4chan think. Do what you want.

>>8554863
i think as long as you dont camwhore in cosplay or use your past for money no one will care. most people just dont like it when cosplays are being used for attention/money. as long as you keep your work in the past/seperate you'll be fine.

>>8555054
>The men of this site HATE you.
i'm a man and i don't give a shit.

>>8555157
>Men divide women into two groups: Those they want to marry and those they want to fuck like disposable whores.

Monogamy is a two way street, you know. I don't think many women or men for that matter would want to be with someone who thinks like that.

>>8554892
Not OP, but both my parents know about my nude/fetish modeling. It makes them a little uncomfortable, but ultimately they don't care. They know me, and they love me.

I don't give a shit, just don't sully my pure waifu

>>8554892
Yeah my dad knows that I worked as a stripper and was completely okay with it, preferred that I was making good money for myself rather than moping about being poor in a mediocre, more socially acceptable job.

>>8554863
You'll be the next Miyu or MissMiaRose that's what

>>8555716
gotta tell us what the fetish is... unless you're the hairy girl from last time.

>>8554877
I would honestly take legal action if possible, it's more possible to get someone put into jail for revenge porn.

>>8554863
stop while you're there, then. no body has time for your sobfests

>>8554954
fuck you, piece of shit

>>8555054

You don't speak for fucking anyone but your own pathetic self.

>>8555759
Foot, splosh, femdom, suspension, shibari, bondage, and throat standing are some that come to mind. I'll do anything on my white list, pretty much.

>>8555117
Nobody here is or will ever want to be "your woman". Nobody anywhere would want to with how shitty of a person you are.

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>>8554985
My first few years as an adult were rough as hell. I don't think our society really teaches us how to transition, but then. As I said, best thing to do is be the bigger person and show any naysayers how pathetic they are by just living your life. You got this girl.

>>8555751
Your father is a shitty father

Everyone knows what women who do cosplay are like these days anyway. Even normies realise you're slutty.

>Oh yeah? Well I did stripping/camming/porn and I'm fine and my dad was fine with it

No. You're on /cgl/, mental illness central. There is clearly a lot wrong with you. Cosplay is basically softcore porn to begin with after all.

And if your father is OK with you doing that, then he's trash too. Hope he gets to jerk his dick to you doing a nasty gangbang scene while crying himself to sleep.

>>8556144
Yes just like going to the swimming pool is also soft core porn or walking down the street in Miami.

>>8556145
Do you not understand how something can both cover more skin and yet be a more ostensibly sexual article of clothing at the same time?

What you described is for practicality. Cosplay has no such excuse. Slutty.

>>8556148
Listen Athens, it's the exact same thing.

>>8554863
Wear whatever you like. Let bitches be jealous, who cares.

>>8556141
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>>8556148
This salt, so delicious.