/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Not really /cgl/ related but I'm still pissed about this and need to just let it out.

My sister and I share a mutual friend and I've gotten to known him pretty well over the past couple months. We're okay pals, we've had a couple arguments and dramu but things were better then. My dog had to be put down almost a week ago, and my sister told him about it. I don't know what she said to him but he texted me and joked around with me about my dog. Some of the things he said was "rip doge lol" and just really rude shit about my dog being "in a better place now". I told him it wasn't funny, my dog JUST passed away that day. He said "I just couldn't take a joke". I told him to fuck off, and blocked him off everything I know of, blocked his number, privatized my Twitter and Instagram, the whole works. I haven't told my sister yet and she hasn't asked me about anything.

Did I take things too far? I've always seen him as an asshole but when you do this shit THE DAY MY DOG DIES just ugh. What a way to ruin a friendship.

>>8190245
Maybe you overreacted but if he's a dick in the first place maybe it's a good thing you removed him from your life

>>8190245
I think blocking him was a bit much seeing as he's just a friend. Maybe just ignore that shithole. He's a fuckboy and anyone who laughs at the death of an animal deserves to rot in hell. I'm so sorry about your loss. My serious condolences.

>>8190245
>I've always seen him as an asshole

Well there you go. I have a friend like that, and we only get along well because he tries not to be such an asshole around me, but if he did something like that I'd drop him off my list of friends so hard he'd become a paraplegic. Some people are just naturally douches.

>>8190245
Yeah you're being overly sensitive imo.
>rude shit about my dog being in a better place now
what's so rude about that?
>guy makes a bad joke
>you block him from every social platform ever and whinge about it on a sudanian basket weaving forum
yeah you cray

>be poor college student
>spend $60 to attend local con
>SO's mom is having her 50th surprise birthday
>it's on the Saturday of the con
>we actually don't want to go anymore so we decide to go to the party
>I try to sell our memberships
>the con directly replies to me
>lol you can't sell them
>btw we don't give refunds either

Well shit.

>>8190245
Everything after telling him to fuck off was too far.
More because you're only hurting yourself at that point when he's obviously a self absorbed shit that won't give a fuck if you do that.
But he's especially an irredeemable asshole not worth the dirt your dog shit on for using that shitty meme.
I hope he picks a fight and gets his teeth kicked in.

>>8190257
I told him to stop 4 times but he kept shitting out jokes. My last warning was ill block his number, and he just laughed, so I did.

>>8190261
Well when I said the rude shit I meant he would say I quote, "[dog name] is in a better place now, still smelling like shit, scratching herself, and being the bitch she is lol."

Ah I guess you're right about whining about it on /cgl/, I just don't really want to talk to any of my friends about it considering all my friends are mutual friends with him.

>>8190245
What an asshole,I would have blocked him too.Nothing your sis said could've made him say that shit but she had no right to tell him tough.

>>8190279
What con? Sounds like Detour.

>>8190287
Zenkaikon, a shitty local con. The only reason we wanted to go is because it's local and kind of a tradition.

>>8190282
Well, he's even worse than I imagined, but it's not like you live with him or some shit.
I'd have just told him to leave me alone, blocked him, and then if he ever gave you more shit afterwards tell him you'll file harassment charges.
Because after you tell someone to leave you alone, genuinely want them to, and they don't that actually is harassment.

>>8190279
I can understand refunds, but why the hell can't you sell a ticket you've rightfully purchased?

>>8190299
I know right? I feel like I have to give them away now, but I don't really want to do that because it'd be like literally throwing $120 we could use for food.

>got into a routine of taking pictures and videos of my body every morning
>make sure my head is cut off everytime
>look at them and think "wow she's so skinny"
>...until I immediately recognize it as myself
>start to notice every gross flaw and flab on my body
>frantically delete everything
>ball up and cry
>
>
>rinse + repeat

I don't understand why I do this when I know full well I'll feel like shit after every. single. time. I'm not repulsed by the thought of food though I forget to eat sometimes. pretty sure I have issues with my body like any other girl/women, just on a more extreme scale.

>sees tons of gold shoes on lacemarket
>no money
>after payday
>no shoes

also one non /cgl/ related
This guy has a huge crush on me and everyone knows it, he talks about me all the time and is constantly messaging me on Facebook. He is a huge nerd, works at Staples, and tries to impress me with his computer knowledge, when I don't understand and of the stuff he's talking about. He's really sweet, and I've told him that I'm not interested at all, but he keeps pushing really hard and will use anything he can to start a conversation with me. I don't really want to be mean, but honestly, I'm not interested at all, especially since I plan on moving. And now my parents have met him at his work and think I should give him a chance.
tl;dr
>nerdy guy that works at staples likes me
>been asking me for months to date him
>turn him down every time
>talks to me all the time
>family wants me to give him a try
>no common interests besides cosplay and magic the gathering

>>8190299
They just want more money.

>>8190339
> what is eating disorder

I got herpes, my dating life is OVER

>>8190347
>been asking me for months to date him>turn him down every time>talks to me all the time>family wants me to give him a try>no common interests besides cosplay and magic the gathering

Maybe you should stop being shallow and Hypergamy and get off idolizing chad for a moment. Your parents are right considering he's more likely to have a better future prospect then Jamal or chad.

>>8190384
not sure if sarcasm or bait

>>8190393
it's neither.

>>8190279
You can sell them.

This thread disgusts me. You are all shallow whores.

/ceeg/, how do you subtly turn down someone? I just want a friend who's into animu to hang out with, but like... holy fuck, I think this guy was taking me out on a date last weekend. I don't know how else to think of it since we were alone and he was being all touchy-clingy (I'm mean, I'm a touchy-feely person, but I'm not clingy). He's part of my social circle, and now I'm at a loss of how to act around him.

> I know, I know, I'm a dense mofo

>>8190393
Neither, the guy obviously likes the girl and her parents obviously knows what's better for her then her hormone riddled mind. It's also pretty apparent that she's into him (otherwise why bother posting?) but wants to play the game of being "hard to get" and not coming of as "too easy" despite the fact it's likely the only guy that's ever asked her out recently.

>>8190347
I'd go on a date with him,if you're not having fun act disgusting and he won't desire you anymore.

>>8190404
Yeah sure you just want to have a "friend" that's likes animu/cosplay. You just don't want the "touchy feely part" unless it's chad.

>>8190409
No, I just want advice on how to get him to leave me the hell alone? He tags me in all this anime lolicon shit on facebook and I just want him to leave me the fuck alone

>>8190420
New school, felt kinda lonely, tried to make new friends but still ultimately an introvert who doesn't want to interact with people a lot and thus regrets the decision.

I don't mind the touchy feely part. I just don't like the clingy part. It sounds callous, I know, but I'm not ready to invest in a romantic relationship at the moment. It's not fair to my potential partner, and thus I don't want one.

>>8190427
But you just admitted you both liked magic and Anime? I'm really confused here? Are you sure you wouldn't mind if it was instead chad tagging/liking you on anime shit on facebook?

>>8190401
Yea, this is a pretty shitty feels thread.
Doesn't really surprise me tbh.

this thread has taught me one thing; women are incapable of feels.

>>8190437
Lol

>>8190437
yeah, what of it? deal with it, you'll never be chad.
now fuck off.
>>>/fit/
>>>/r9k/

>>8190466
I feel too much anon,pls take them fron me.

>>8190204
my kind of friend is getting into lolita and I am worried she'll be an ita mess

she was into it several years ago but the one picture of her in it is like the poster child ita. I just want another person to be cute with....

>>8190468
>Losing arguement
>fu-fuck off!
Interesting

>>8190472
What argument? I agreed with you. You're still not Chad, so fuck off.

>>8190400
Well I'm pretty much flagged within the official page and event page, plus my sell post was removed from the unofficial group. I can't think of any other route I can take.

>>8190468
I hope he realizes how vapid you are and upgrades to an alexis.

>>8190204
>tfw last deployment buddy (also garen cosplayer, and a huge nerd) killed himself last week after his wife left him a month before he was supposed to return, took his kids and everything.
I'm the last one, and I was the first to find out my SO was cheating.

Why can't girls just leave BEFORE we go. Why do you stick around if you don't plan on staying.

>go on a kdrama binge-watching spree for like a month
>want to cosplay all the things
>don't want to do it unless I can find screen-accurate brocades
>I am not an attractive Korean actor
>nobody wants to sit through twenty fucking hours of court intrigue and amnesia romance drama about a fictional Joseon king just to be the Yeon Woo or Yang Myung to my King Lee Hwon

my life is eternal suffering brought on by my unfettered access to Netflix

>>8190483
Omg,ive heard too many story's like this.Why do soilders always attract the worst type of woman?Girls in service are usually hotter (in my experience) anyway.

>>8190487

to add: my life is also eternal suffering because of Netflix's loose definition of 'subtitles'

holy fucking shit Netflix subs are so bad

>>8190488
To be honest? If you aren't married, you are forced to live in barracks (WHICH SUCKS ASS, HOLY SHIT) and if you are married you can use all sorts of excuses to get out of things. Additionally, A lot of us come home kinda fucked. so we'll love the first half-decent girl who will tell us they love us and will be around when we come back. (They never are)

>>8190468
Hopefully he figures it out on his own.
Hopefully you'll be stabbed to death by Chad too.

>>8190290
When is it? I might buy them off of you, if that's possible.

>>8190488
Girls in service are also usually disgusting super-whores.
Despite what pop culture says, most guys aren't into that shit unless they're just looking for a quick fuck.

>>8190500
Super-whores or/AND mega-disciplinarian super dykes.

>>8190499
Oh wow, thanks if you could! They're for the 27th-29th. My email's here if you want to talk about it more.

>>8190500
>most guys aren't into that
2/10 made me reply, top fucking kek

The sluts get railed out on a constant basis, it's why they're sluts, who the fuck are you kidding.

>>8190500
>>8190502
Still better then the trash you find off base,lots of former models too.

>>8190504
Nigger, did you not read what I just typed?
No one wants to be the guy that marries or is in a relationship with a slut.

>>8190503
>>8190499
Damn, dropped it.
leboowinkle@gmail.com

>>8190468
next sparklehime, right here

>fuck off, you'll never be chad~
>only chad can get this hot poosy, not creepy nerds who are into magic and anime

>OH GOD STAB ME CHAD
>STAB ME AND LET ME COAT YOU WITH MY HOT BLOOD

>>8190347
>And?
>Why not give him a chance?
>^
>Oh boo hoo
>Why not?
>The motherfucker is trying to impress, ask him if he likes Magic.

>busy as hell at work tonight, didn't have time to keep track of my tickets
>get clocked out - oh shit, I made a fuckton
>go home, check tickets, I was undercharged $60
>well, I wouldn't have caught the damned mistake if I didn't check myself, the mistake is on the person who checked my tickets and clocked me out, that cash would help me out greatly, AND I wouldn't get in trouble if I said I didn't know because this happens sometimes and my manager is cool like that
>but karma...and I need all I can get
>fuck...
Wat do?

>>8190508
>implying
its deff better then the barracks bunnys,havent heard much about them cheating either,theyre alyways the ones getting cheated on and treated like shit.

>>8190512
We all aspire to be Chad.
Personally, now that we know Chad kills whores, I aspire to be Chad even moreso.

>>8190518
Calling it now

Ted Bundy hottest cosplay of 2015

>>8190503
Shit, of March? Damn. Might not be able to. Thought it was in April. HOWEVER, I will ask around my local group if anyone is looking for tickets. Will report back soon (Sunday at the latest).

I hate women so much.

>>8190517
Ever notice how the officers always have hot, fit wives? and I almost never hear of cheating issues..

>>8190521
Thanks anyway, anon! The reg guy told me I have until Friday to find people (transfers ended at the beginning of March but he extended when I emailed), but if no one needs anything, no big deal. I'm pretty much resigned that our money is sunk.

>>8190526
why would they with that paycheck? Kek

I'm getting to a point where I can't stand one of my closest friends. She's so self-centered it's almost impossible to have a decent conversation with her and she's working herself into attention whore status with her cosplays.
But I've known her for most of my life and she's pretty much the only female friend I have so although I really don't want to be friends anymore I also really don't want to not be friends.
I can't talk calmly with her about how she's being either because she can't take any sort of negativity and doing so would just cause trouble I don't want.
I don't really plan to do anything except wait for her to eventually move on to other things and other people. I just needed to vent.

Well it was a nice thread until /r9k/ showed up.
I swear there's got to be a shitpost squad that just patrols every board and posts exactly what bait people will bite.

>>8190347
I'll never understand this mentality, if you aren't interested in him why even "give him a chance?"
I thought relationships and dating meant things just sort of developed and happened naturally.
And that stuff ain't gonna happen if you're bored to tears by some guy who's only interested in you because you're pretty.

Anyway, my advice to you is to bite the bullet and actually be a little bit of a bitch to him.
Fucker won't take a hint, or in your case actual statements, so you've gotta tell him bluntly.
Because it's not not nice to let his sorry ass think he has a chance of getting into your pants when he doesn't.
If you don't there are two ways thiis WILL go. One being he just keeps messaging you in denial thinking he has a chance.
Or two, you actually cave and go out with him and regret it every second.

>>8190404
Quit pussyfooting around the issue, he wants to fuck you.
One of the easiest ways to deal with situations like this is to just yank the rug from their feet and confront them on this.
>why were you touching me so much?
>do you want to go out with me?
>I do not want to go out with you.
that kind of stuff, use your personal discretion on what to actually say.

>>8190483
bitches and whores Anon.
Your friend didn't deserve that, and I'm truly sorry.

>>8190573
>And that stuff ain't gonna happen if you're bored to tears by some guy who's only interested in you because he has the same interests and personality but doesn't understand that you're a duplicitous "fake nerd" that doesn't want to date him because he isn't pretty and popular enough

fix'd

>>8190487
>>8190489
Do it solo and wander around Cons until you find someone that shares your bizarre interest.

>>8190515
What do you want to do?
Do what you think is right.

>>8190555
There's more girls than just her Anon, tell her your problems, fight out the resulting argument, and ask yourself if it's worth mending.
If she's got a good heart she'll understand, and even then people change. A good metaphorical kick in the dick could be all she needs to udnerstand how she's being.
But it sounds like she doesnt', and personally I think you should do yourself what you're planning on doing with her, just move on.

>>8190580
nah

>>8190587
She said so herself.

>>8190488
simple, they attract wannabe golddiggers. Military is good money, guaranteed living space and so many military wives don't work that they know it's acceptable to be a stay at home slob on base and not get side eyed too hard for being a lazy piece of shit. The guy is gone all the time so you can have some side dude and he'll never know. it is bait for women who want to be real goldiggers but are too ugly, low class and stupid.

>>8190282
Yeah your ex friend is a retard. You should have punched him with a fork. what an insensitive piece of crap. Dump/10

>>8190339
No, you need to fucking grow up. This is an 18+ board. I swear I have never heard anyone say "I forget to eat" that I haven't immediately wanted to punch for being a total drama queen, except one girl who was actually a workaholic. Get over yourself. What are you even saying? You take videos of yourself that you don't recognize? That doesn't even make sense.
Some tumblrinas are probably going to whiteknight about eating disorders and BDD but honestly, your biggest problem is being an immature little twat. Knock it off.

>>8190597
Apparently when it comes to women and being associated with the military nothing ever good comes of it. At least according to most stories I've heard.

>Stay-at-home wives are always cheating.
>Women in service are generally useless and sluts.
>There's not exactly a thriving prostitution industry in Afghanistan so most soldiers aren't able to get their rocks off.
And then there's unrelated issues, like the fact that half of the faggots there are the dumbest types of douchebags.

I kind of want to join military myself for personal reasons but I don't think I'd want to join US Marines or Army. I'd probably pick French Foreign Legion if I could get in because I have a friend who did it and he says that other than stupid French commanders it's actually pretty fair and not full of douches.

I just hate humanity right now. She was such a pretty lolita.

>>8190518
I think the greatest thing about becoming Chad (if I can make it via cosmetic surgery and being a dick to girls) isn't fucking the girls, it's knowing that you can fuck 'em, hit 'em, throw 'em to the street and they'll still come crawling back for more.

And for the ones that are a little smarter and try to rope you into a baby or a false rape charge, that's what cameras around the house are for and vasectomies.

>>8190683
What. the. fuck.

>>8190683

I'm not sure what to be more disturbed by, the picture or your justification that she was 'such a pretty lolita.'

She brought joy into the world in her own way and she was as far as we know a nice person, what the hell does pretty have to do with it.

>>8190683
We just need to make an /r9k vs cgl/ argument board so you can all fight in one place together instead of cherrypicking from both threads and letting crossboarders have arguments about it.

>>8190683
>>8190698
See, this is why I don't think men should count as people. They act worse than even apes or monkeys. I don't even have words, but I'm glad so many men are jailed since so many just seem to be violent sociopaths. They turn into monsters simply because women won't sleep with them, hating everything, they really just are subhuman.

not really /cgl/ related but I seriously need to deal out these feels somewhere

>practically mysophobic with huge fear of bugs
>sudden bug problem starts in kitchen about two months back
>clean hard, spray hard, kill hard
>still kill a bug here and there every few days, not awful anymore but as tolerable as it'll get for now
>time passes
>kill a different bug in bathroom about a week ago
>notagain.jpg
>have killed seven bugs in bathroom in last five days
>don't understand why, I keep the bathroom even cleaner than the kitchen
>realize tonight after killing one before bed that they're young drywood termites
>lay in bed uncomfortable for two hours
>nagging feeling won't go away
>check bathroom, hole in wood in door frame, two bugs crawling along frame
>KILL THEM AND SPRAY IN THE HOLE
>initiate crying
>repeat to self "this is fine"
>can't chill enough to sleep, banish myself to living room couch
>get thirsty, walk into kitchen
>roommates leave food out every day, not slovenly or anything but not up to my standards
>minding own business
>three full grown kitchen bugs skitter out from under rice cooker
>still don't know what these bugs even are
>KILL KILL KILL
>crying again

I am 100% aware that my standards for cleanliness are unreasonably high but I'm still really fucking angry about the food and dishes because it's why we can't get the problem to go away. Thankfully, with the termite situation, we're moving out of this unit in less than a month. I'm just. ugh

>>8190658
Personally I haven't heard any stereotypes about women in service, I always thought they were pretty chill

>>8190731
Women make the dating game. Don't be mad because we play along.

Also you sound bit cuntish, you might want to work on removing the sand from your vagina.

>>8190591
I just am not interested in him, we want different things in life. He wants to move to the coast and get a job, I want to move North to continue schooling. Even if I was interested in him, I'm not planning on sticking around much longer.
Honestly, he's highly sexist and talks down to me. He's an overweight annoying neckbeard.
His whole life revolves around computers, the literal only things we have in common are those 2 things. I would rather date someone else who I had more things in common with.

>>8190734
You'll never be a Chad, especially if you're counting on surgery. Surgery for men doesn't work the way it does for women, and since that's your first option it's a good chance you are too much of a lazy fuck to work out or gain a personality. Your plan is literally to get someone else to fix you while you act like a lazy entitled asshole. That's not a plan and very stereotypical female. You also revel in seeing random people stabbed, because she is one out of 3 and a quarter billion people who won't touch your weewee. If you don't kill yourself within the year you'll go on a failed shooting spree, I bet my life savings on it. Men are entitled creatures who go full ape when they don't go their way so that's a pretty safe bet.

>tfw someone uses art of you for the OP image
You made my night anon, even if it was just a random choice.

>>8190743
I'm sure that entire carton of ice cream understands you.

>>8190746
Right, you don't like what I'm saying so I must be fat. Confirmed for a woman, sounds like I hit a nerve either way

>>8190747
>Yep, I sure won that argument. Now I feel better about my life.

>>8190749
Why would you assume I'm arguing with people to feel better about my life? That's a really weird assumption. Is that what you're trying to do here?

>>8190756
Look I just don't know why you're mad about anything, is all. You seem to have a lot of hatred towards men. Past rape, bad breakup maybe? Doesn't really matter.

>>8190732
Anon, even if your cleanliness levels are too high, your roommates shouldn't be leaving food out at anytime, especially not when you have a bug problem. You're totally within your rights to tell them to cut it out.

>>8190744
I think you might have posted in the wrong thread, anon. Just maybe.
Drawthread?

>>8190766
I know that they're honestly just forgetful, but yeah...I guess I have to crack down again

>>8190245
>Doge joke about your pet that just passed away
>Doge joke in general
Yeah, he deserved to be blocked.

One of my pairs of jeans got holes in it, so I finally threw them out. Only another couple of months and then when I move out of this dorm I can properly get rid of the other black jeans from years ago and the mounds of black graphic tees from things I don't like anymore. Just a closet full of cute things. I'm so excited. (Until then, though, it's easier to have a big pile of stuff that's easy to throw on without caring what it looks like too much. I ain't dressing up to write dissertation bits at 3am.)

>>8190731
#notallmen

>>8190347
So many people saying to give him a chance...mind boggling.

If you don't like someone you don't like them. No matter how good of a 'life investment' they are.
Your family should probably not be promoting the idea of a relationship based on 'oh whatever I guess I'll try it out'.

>broke up with cosplayer ex
>pretty tame compared to past crazies
>she got upset at the thought of me removing myself from her life
>okay.jpg
>try be civil since I'm over being slagged by other exes in the past
>I'm making it known I'm still not quite over it
>becoming over accommodating
>messages instantly when I ask for money back/things she borrowed
>speaking to me like we still dating
>I'm now getting confused

I've pulled back because it's like she's regretting her decision to leave me. I don't want to be a dick about it and tell her to go but I also am in that stage that I'd take what she gives me. I'll get over it eventually. Cosplay has be plenty distracted from her.

>>Still have to see ex at lolita meets and cons.
>>Still have to room together for the con part, or choose to let her room with my best friends and go somewhere else with acquaintances myself.

>>Taken me a year but I'm finally getting over her.
>>Taking so long and could be made so much easier if I just cut her out completely, but I refuse to just let her have my whole social group.
>>Friends don't want to upset either of us by asking one of us not to come to certain things.

We could have been friends after if she hadn't dropped me like a sack of shit, too. I didn't have to date her to swap co-ord ideas and I didn't blame her for not being in love with me. I'll never know why she suddenly found me the most horrible thing on the planet though. Had to overcome a lot of personal issues involving confidence; 'I must have been really boring and annoying and ugly for her to go from 'loving' me to outright ignoring me' kind of thing. I mean she must have had a reason.

did /r9k/ get desperate again? or is it because of some 'cgl girls are mean whores11!!" thread on there

>>8190915
They're so unpleasant.

I have weird feels.
Yesterday I wanted to talk with my bf about planned parenthood, when we want to have kids and if I should take contraception that will last longer so our future is safe.
He didn't care. He just said he wants kids with me and when is up to me as long as it's before we're turning 40.
He told me I have to decide whether I want to make my next degree, work or just stay at home since he earns enough to support both of us. Every money I earn is fun money and luxury money.

I fell in a slump now. I don't know what to do. Secretly I wish to be a cute housewife and work part-time at my office, but I know I should pursue my career to stay independent.
Also he's not really ok with me wearing sweet lolita once I'm older or spending so much money on dresses I rarely wear. I don't want to beg my boyfriend for lolita money like a stay-at-home mom.

It's a weird situation.

>>8190918

I sort of understand your situation?

I think the best thing for you to do if you want to continue wearing lolita but do not want to feel like a mooch is get a part time job. That way you can still feel like you are contributing but relax way more when you only work 3 days a week or less.

feels my fucking ass

you people dont know pain

>>8190732
That really sucks, anon, I'm sorry. Do you own or rent? A termite infection is a huge red flag, you need to try to get your landlord to get a professional to take care of it. Termites are only going to spread through the house and seriously damage the structure - hopefully that should be enough of a threat to get a professional spray.

Also try checking the wall-wall and floor-wall seams for any gaps where the structure shifted, and then fill it as much as you can with caulk. I used to live in a 100 year old house that had settled, and we'd get nasty bugs coming up from the basement until I caulk sealed the holes.

>>8190935
chad will still be better then you

>>8190946
chad doesnt know pain either. all the chads and stacys know is fun

all i know is being completely alone all the time, and when im not wageslaving, popping pills and drinking vodka to make sitting at home playing video games fun

>>8190935
Just kill Spongebob and Patrick already.
Stupid Squidward shitting up our feels thread.

>>8190961
This joke wasn't funny the first 10 times you crossboard faggots tried to turn it into a meme either. Go home, you're drunk.

>>8190967
>posts an actual heavy feel
>gets ridiculed

nice board you got here

>>8190972
If you want people to take your post seriously, leave the retarded memes out of it then. You were the last post in a long list of this Chad shit, so you got the quote.

>>8190980
it's not really a meme, there is a chad archetype in society

it's a tall, fit, wealthy, good facial aesthetics white man who has a real easy time of not being alone

>>8190935
Sorry for not being first in the shit life competition

Oh wait

I'm actually ok with that

>>8190204
Pls don't post that pic. It's antisemite.

>>8190985
yes and you'll never be him so just jump off a bridge now so you'll stop annoying us with your posts.

>>8190985
I know that, but it doesn't magically erase the r9kers using it to derail this thread. It's getting old.

>>8190985
>the rich white man has it easy
Gee, who would think?

>>8190993
nah, i'd rather just wither away slowly on my recliner in front of video games drinking booze

that or next time there's a war i'll join up so i can get myself blown up or shot up

>>8191002
the army in Israel accepts everyone. go there you shit.

>>8191010
i'm broken and beaten

why do people on a board i've never come to before have to shit on me?

>>8191002
Your life is so hard ;_; ;_; Poor broken babbu

>>8191016
i bet yours is too

are you upset because chad fucked you and doesnt want to date you?

>>8191020
Nah, my life is awesome actually. Just bought my first house in a tough market, got a good paying job, GF of 5+ years, and go to half a dozen cons a year.

It's just cute that you think rolling up to a strange board and crowing about how your life is worse than everyone else's is going to net you some sympathy. Go back to your home board and drink some more, babbu.

>>8191014
because you are shit so you're treated like one

>>8191002
we are in war time you faget
>>8191014
because you treat yourself like shit

>>8190611
Diff. anon here, bouncing off the "forget to eat" I can testify it's not incredibly uncommon. A lot of mornings I just don't think about it and won't realize until 12:00 that I haven't eaten anything. Led to a lot of not giving a shit about being hungry which sucks 'cause I'm trying to put some /fit/ meat on my bones now. I get full after an average meal and if I don't schedule every meal then I won't think about it and I'll have a 300 cal deficit by the end of the day where as I'm supposed to have a 600 cal excess.

>tl;dr I'm bad at eating

>finally made a Facebook profile to join my local comm
>Realize it's full of a few old friends or people I've met at conventions
>Super excited that there'll be people I know.
>Magically fall ill every meet

I swear I need to be done with allergies and sinus infections, I'm missing everything!!

>>8190420
>You just don't want the "touchy feely part" unless it's chad.
What's wrong with having standards? :^)

>>8190768
Nah, I just didn't want to stink up the draw thread with my dumb feels so I just tossed it over here.

I could connect with this BtB post so much. I'm not married, but I have an amazing boyfriend whom I live with, a fucking amazing job that pays a lot, paid off all my loans, and I have a few thousand dollars of disposable income to save or spend.

I just want to meet other lolitas who aren't losers and have their fucking lives in check. I'll be moving to NYC in a year or so, maybe I'll make some good friends there?

>>8191187
>and I have a few thousand dollars of disposable income *per month to save or spend.

>>8190878
This is like Machiavellian debate.

>sweeping generalization about men being evil
>some man protests
>"look at how desperately he denies it, he MUST be guilty"

Welcome to the New Witch Hunt, same as the Old Witch Hunt.

>>8190347
The only way for autists to get the message is telling him to fuck off. Just tell him to FUCK OFF. He'll never get out of his socially retarde autist-bubble if you'll just keep beating around the bush.

Tell him you have nothing in common, you don't interest him, his personality doesn't speak to you, and tell him that he just looks ugly/generic. And above all, tell him to fuck off.

As long as you don't say it bluntly, he'll keep hoping in his autistic dream, and until someone tells him he's a fucking retarded cocksucker who'll die as an eternal virgin, he'll never learn.

I used to be like that guy. Until one day, this girl that I was crushing on told me to fuck off, get a hobby, do fitness and learn how to behave socially.

So I did. And now I'm scoring girls much better than that girl I was crushing on in my autistic virgin days.

Being a blunt bitch saves lives. Be a blunt bitch. Save an autistic virginal social retard from himself today.

> left cosplay years ago and never had the confidence to get back until last year
> low on money so I had to postpone my cosplay related projects
> got the money but decided to do some subjects from university on vacations so I'll have less subjects to do and get the degree faster
> cosplay is like 10% done
> I live in a shitty country and good cons are non existent
> Yesterday heard of a huge con that is going to be the first time in my country, but never heard of it because of lack of publicity, not even my friends heard of it
> cosplay contest has a huge prize pool
> I cant do the cosplay I was doing on time
> fml

>>8190972
Thats just what women do. They pretend they're playing the feel game but they mock and laugh any man with actual feels. Because they think men exist only to be their servants and sources of free attention and money, therefore they view any man who shows any kind of weakness as disgusting and pathetic, because weakness interferes with his ability to be a servant to her.

>>8190683
Um, context please?

>>8191187
I don't currently have the greatest of jobs but I can still understand the poster. Part of it is wanting to befriend people who have the same lifestyle as you because you want to be able to do things together and talk about your life, but another big part of it is wanting to have a friend who will be happy for you even if their life isn't currently as awesome as yours. Finding good friends like that can be difficult, especially in such a materialistic hobby as lolita.

>>8190731
Go back to tumblr

>>8191261
As another autist chiming in, this is pretty much correct. You don't need to go out of your way to be rude but you absolutely have to be blunt and to the point because that's the only way he'll get it. I don't think you have to call him ugly; just saying you have no interest in dating him EVER under any circumstances should do it unless he's also an entitled cunt in addition to being an autist.

>Going to first big con soon
>See that someone else is doing the same cosplay as me, on the same day
>They're prettier too

fug

>>8191493
You've been keeping your p&s jugs well stocked, yes?

Time to put them to good use.

>>8191493
Shoot them and adsorb their prettiness.

>>8190245
You reacted far better than me so I'd say you weren't even close to over reacting, but I'm really sensitive so maybe I over react to stuff. Either way what a cunt that guy is.

>>8191493
What's the cosplay anon?

>>8190488
Because marrying in your late teens or early twenties as many soldiers do is a bad idea given modern social and psychological development trends.

>Got the worlds shittiest haircut the other day (I asked for a trim on my sideswept bangs and got a crooked Dumb & Dumber fringe)
>Binge today, feel like shit
>Don't want to work on any cosplays due to feeling like shit
>Mother suddenly wants me back in her life after years because her asshole husband left her
>Mommy issues everywhere
>pic related

>people who ask for advice but really just want a circlejerk for their bad idea(s)
>people who overreact to concrit because there's still crit and not "OMG I LUV IT NEVER CHANGE"
>commissioners who actually treat their customers like shit and start drama with other commissioners

Every fucking time.

>>8190738
Don't let this faggot get to you Anon, if I had to guess he's only so god damned butthurt because he's been in a similar situation to that guy and shares his mentality.

You don't have to date someone you don't enjoy the company of, and yes that includes them being unattractive.
You shouldn't feel bad about not wanting to date him, if anything you should be pissed he won't leave you the fuck alone. It's not like you're the only female in existence.

>>8190915
>>8190917
It's amazing the kind of people shitting up this thread, because I've encountered enough of them IRL that I'd buy they're not trolling.
The "chad" character in particular is just a myth they use to make themselves feel better about how truly reprehensible they are.

>sew a pair of pants with relative ease
>nice.jpg
>try them on
>made waist too small
>have to completely recut fabric and sew a new pair
>mfw

>be Chad Chaddington of Chadsville
>mfw I read this thread

almost everything on this thread has nothing to do with cosplay or cgl in general. It's like this going back at least 3 threads.

>things have been getting a lot better in the past few years
>started taking classes I care about and actually improving my grades
>have gradually been overcoming my social anxiety
>finally stopped flaking on all my friends
>even stopped being a fucking retard around girls and now I just treat them like any other friends
>feeling good from Spring coming
>still not completely together, but I'm growing
>on my way to meet some friends at campus
>mind is on other things, making plans as I'm on my way to get some coffee
>suddenly notice person in front of me's bright neon orange hoodie
>our paths split and as we're parting ways I'm absentmindedly looking at their hoodie
>they turn to look at me
>immediately realize what I'm doing and look away embarassed for staring
>realize I'm wearing sunglasses
>look back again to see if I did something to them
>looking back at me is this girl with the same look I was giving her
>we both realize we're standing there deer in the headlights style with people walking around us
>feel my heart skip a beat and I shuffle away beet red for how rude I was being
>realize the line isn't worth the wait and go to the game area
>spend the afternoon having a blast and making new friends
>mind still occasionally wanders to thoughts of her

I don't even know the first thing about this girl and I can't stop worrying I did something wrong to her I just didn't realize.
I've never even gotten a response like that before, what did I do /cgl/?

>>8192509
Well you didn't talk to her and you made new friends and had a good time anyway

Just don't bother thinking about her and all the other stupid bullshit fantasy "perfect life fated ANIMU MEETING" thoughts.

Use this as a reference point and next time you see a girl and you feel nervous like that again just say the first thing that comes to mind even if its as retarded as "do you know what they called pac-man in japan?" Then rinse and repeat till youre a normie

>>8192489
That's just how it is on cgl anon. it really went downhill since the PT and fit friday thread days.

>>8190527
Ugh anon I'd buy them but another girl at my workplace is already going and they'll shit themselves if two of us call out at the same time.

On another note, where are you from? I live pretty close to Zenkai.

>come on /cgl/
>Go into threads
>See convos
>"literally"

people you can stop adding the word "literally" to your sentences all of the time, jesus

>>8192526
Shut up Scott, I do already do that man, I'm normally great with everybody and know how to carry the conversation without controlling it.
And I wasn't thinking about that kind of "love at first sight" bullshit either, if anything it felt like I'd done something horrible.
I just feel, I don't know, weird.
I'm incredibly competent, like I briefly mentioned at the end, I wound up spending my afternoon playing video games and becoming friends with a group of initially strangers because I'm good at just having fun with whatever.
It was actually really cool, the game room itself was closed so we formed a huge crowd over in the corner of CRT's and consoles of like 20 people all hanging out together.

What I'm worried about is just, I don't know, who the hell was that and why am I so upset over just a glance from her?
Why the hell do I keep thinking about her? In particular why do I keep feeling embarrassed every time I do when it was such a non incident.
Because I'm not like this ever.

EDS/migraine pain anon from last thread

>told manager that I'm going to the neurologist in two weeks
>"I hope its not a tumor anon"
>aaaah haaah yeah there was nothing there last time I had an MRI
>"Well you know it could have been growing this whole time my friend had the same thing."

Well, thanks for that. I am already well aware that it /could/ be a tumor, I don't need to be reminded.

>tfw I have a migraine right now
>all day felt like puking
>so hungry i feel even worse
>can't eat because too nauseous
>took aleve for my joints, can't take excedrine for a few more hours

I hope the neurologist has an idea. I've tried so many preventative medicines and none of them have worked.

>>8192558
"literally who" is a shitpost meme and it's on every board.

Newfag here, so bear with me. I've been into "goth fashion" since the 90's. I've always been on the girly side with bows and peticoats with my fishnets and studs. So, in 2007 I found lolita and told my husband at the time that I wanted to start dressing more "cute". He instantly shot that down and... long story short... left him, moved on and had children with an awesome guy... Re descovered lolita about a year ago and I have been good about doing my research and making lists. Finally settled on Bodyline l387 in black as my first piece because I'm drawn to both gothic and hime styles. Back to the feels... I get a call about an hour ago from my bf saying that he is in jail for not having a license. Now his fines will hold me back, once again, from being able to TRY to wear pretty dresses. THIS IS WHY I CAN'T HAVE NICE THINGS! Thanks for reading /cgl/ sorry for any grammar/ spelling lol

>tfw haven't been on cgl for like a month
>tfw don't know about the latest prints, probably missed out on cool releases
>tfw so out of the loop on everything lolita

i miss you, cgl. i miss partaking in my hobbies.

>>8192749
What state are you in? And what the hell kept him from just getting a license? If he's been doing it a while he clearly knows how to drive...

>>8192749

Holy shit wow woman.

You kind of remind me of another former classmate whose life is also in a trainwreck. Thank fuck I closed my legs when it mattered.

>>8192749
You can't have nice things because you have a shit taste in men? Go weh about it somewhere else.

>Bodyline l387

You have shit taste in men AND clothing.

>>8192749
Forgot to add that the jsk is not even here yet.

>>8192768
Doesn't matter the state. He didn't tell me he lost his license in his last dui.

>>8192774
I may have shit taste in men But I think I can tear that bodyline apart and make it presentable.

>>8191182
Fair enough, I'm glad it gave you lots of good feels anon. You're gorgeous by the way!

>>8192749
If you haven't managed to even get a $33 Bodyline dress since 2007 (plus you'll need everything to coordinate it as well), then maybe lolita fashion is not realistic for you. With kids and a partner in jail with no license, you've got bigger concerns than thinking about your fashion.

>>8192780
Ooooh. Yeah. DUI will do that. Thought you meant he didn't have a license to begin with or something like that. Was kind of confused because without a DUI or an accident he wouldn't have been put in the clink.

>>8192802
My ex shot it down in 2007. I've been lurking since August last year. There are plenty of brand dresses that I love but I wanted to try out a cheap dress to see if I could find blouses secondhand as part of the hobby. Am I wrong for starting small? Does someone have to jump right into the fashion by buying an expensive brand dress?

>>8192723
No, not even that. Stuff like "I literally just went to the store" or "This literally just happened to me today."
The word "literally" is the new like or um for people to drop into sentences. It is a blight on the english language.

>>8192910
Nope, not at all but with the other activities you mentioned, lolita just seems like it should be low priority.
>Yeah, my partner is in jail...but hey, fashion!

>>8192967
You just gave two examples of proper usage of the word "literally," dingus.

>>8192975

>>8192985
>"I literally just went to the store" or "This literally just happened to me today."

That would mean that a person actually just did that thing. You know how sometimes we say things like "OMG WOW THAT JUST HAPPENED TO ME" but we mean "that happened to me sort of recently?" Adding "literally" would imply that it JUST happened. Like right now, a few minutes ago, today, whatever.

It's when people say shit like "It's literally the worst thing" that they're using it improperly. Like unless you fucking died, it's not literally the worst thing.


lit·er·al
ˈlidərəl,ˈlitrəl/
adjective
adjective: literal; adjective: literal-minded

1.
taking words in their usual or most basic sense without metaphor or allegory.

>when your hair is tied back but still manages to slip over your shoulder and onto the fresh paint
>vastly underestimating how much spray paint you needed, and when you go back to get more they don't have the original color you bought

fifty shades for sure. I swear each piece is a different color of gray at this point. Going to put it all together and then paint it AGAIN so it will all be one shiny mass of the same color gray.

>in Japanese club in middleschool
>They learn cute dances to show at the culture festival
>I learn it too
>we even got matching outfits to dance in
>they tell me I'd look better in the crowd
>They have me and one ugly girl at the sidelines as they dance
>It still hurts

>>8190706
Pretty white female victim syndrome

Jesus, I thought I'd stumbled on /r9k/ for a minute. Fucking pathetic.

>>8191234
Wizard hunt*
:^)
May the odds be in your favour

>>8192967
Literally fuck off

nuke this fucking thread already

>>8192489
/cgl/ is basically girl /r9k/ for girls who don't want to go to tumblr.

>>8190683
I haven't gone on my usual daily walks since this case emerged (I usually take my dog to the park outside my house, just like she did). I know I'm being irrational and I sound like a tumblrina who thinks every man is out there to rape and kill her, but I'm just a paranoid person in general so this has set me back a few.

>>8190756
>Why u assume?
>Assuming that im assuming
K

>>8193224
You're a shitty pet owner then. Get your shit together girl and try to be rational about it.

>Want to cosplay as Venom Snake
>lift and exercise to give the cosplay more authenticity
>build a computer for games and other stuff
>realize I won't have enough money to finish it till a con in August
Fuck

>>8193250
I'm sure that someone else takes the dog outside instead of her.

>>8193250
>Not taking dog to the park every single day
>SHITTY PET OWNER

Mmmhmm.

Truly, no board is easier to troll than /cgl/. They practically bait themselves.

>>8193495
>shitpost
>LEL I TROLLED U XD
literally no one took your posts seriously, you're just annoying as shit

I Feel like having people like Jnig represent our community is like having Hooters represent all restaurants.

Do we even still have a janitor because this thread is so many /r9k/ shitposts it should have been nuked 100+ posts ago

>>8193528
Couldn't agree more. It's a real shame we don't namedrop/focus more on cosplayers with great construction because right now the only people who are universally recognized are the attention whores. It's a bad representation of the hobby.

Then again imo the main reason hooters cosplayers are the stars of the show is because that's what gets media attention and money from thirsty boys.

>>8193530
no, she's too busy eating hot pockets and deleting all the board-relevant posts and threads because she disagrees with them
for free, of course

>>8193528
Is Jnig even that bad? I've heard she's pretty damn monogamous and has never slutted it up in actuality, slutty cosplays aside.

In my comm there's this asian girl (Chinese) who always does that bragging about being asian thing. She'll say stuff about how white guys generally prefer asian girls like her, how asian girls are perceived to be more pure and so lolita and so on. She'll always say it in a roundabout offensive way though, not directly to you, like "oh, lots of white guys think asian women are prettier for some reason".

Annoys me no end.

>>8193530
As much as I come here I should be a janitor but I don't know shit about egl so I wouldn't know what to delete there.

Well I got a con in a month. going as dmc 3 dante. Finally done prototype for Dante's coat, so now I can get to work, but I'm only half finished rebellion and ebony and ivory.

So working my ass off, but at the same time, I have to be super strict on my diet. Sitting at 11% bodyfat, so now I have to be strict as fucking hell to get single digits. May have to low carb it.

The things I fucking do for my video-game an crush.

>>8193559
It's kinda sad that being monogamous is something to be praised nowadays as if it wasn't a perfectly normal thing

I want to go to a con that JNig is at and then throw salt at her. Then when they charge me with assault I'll say they charged me with asSALT and laugh while I'm in jail.

I hope she melts though.

>>8193559

Nah. Jess has had the same boyfriend for years and years and he isn't particularly stunning or rich. She seems like an ok girl in that sense.

I mean seriously, compare her to some of the trips here like Ikuy or Charms, she's a fucking nun by comparison.

>halfway through pregnancy
>want to do Blissey gijinka while pregnant
>no cons coming up that I can afford to go to

>>8193609
Do it anyway. The vast majority of crossboard/off topic shitposting that doesn't get cleaned up is cosplay-related anyway. It seems that they only things that actually get banned are on-topic gossip posts and meanwhile we're stuck with:

>How do you have sex with a cosplayer?
>Is there a lot of prostitution that goes on at conventions?
>10000 fap posts
>10000 cosplayers are whores posts

>>8190747
>hurr you're a woman that means I'm right :^)
>>>/r9k/
>>>/v/

>>8193037
>sculpting mold out of clay
>hoodie strings fall right into the slip bowl
>accidentally make one bit too thin, have to build it back up
>now it's too thick

>>8190935

>>8193565
Chinese girls have big noses sometimes.

January
>talk to friends about picking a hotel for ax
>"oh we gotta wait on this one guy to hear our plans for hotels"
>its still early, ok
Recently
>This guy still hasn't made a decision
>Money is tight for him and we know it
>he still owes someone $300 from AX last year
> yet goes on expensive dates with his overly clingy (now fat) neet girlfriend and stopped hanging out
>He's trying to support this NEET peice of shit who smokes weed all day and rolls around being fat and prioritizes everything, even work for her
>The real reason he's so iffy about a hotel is because she is "meh" about AX and can't decide anything till last fucking minute
>Now I'm stuck with a hotel that requires a 20-30 minute walk with No AC
>now he whines "if you go to that hotel, I'm not going to AX"
>no one cares about him at this point

If It was my choice I would drop this fucker from the friend group.

>sometimes post on /cgl/ with my mobile
>makes me do the usual captcha
>it's also been asking me to copy and paste a code
>"this code will expire in two minutes"
>don't trust it, so I haven't done it
Does this happen with anyone else? What the fuck gives?

>>8190245
you over reacted.

>>8190611
>TFW I actually forget to eat sometimes
>doesn't tell anybody because they all react like you

>>8193938
Yes, it's legit. Sometimes a plugin or browser doesn't load the normal captcha, I use a bunch of them on my laptop and this addon called 'secret agent' specifically mangles it to bits.
On safari on iOS it barely happens but when there's a food captcha it bumps it to the top which can get annoying in longer threads.

>>8190339
>>8193975

How do people forget to eat for the whole day and claim they don't have an eating disorder. It boggles the mind. I can understand if you forget to eat one meal due to work or you CAN'T eat a meal but if you are sitting on your ass on 4chan or at home how do you forget to eat the require meals you need????

>>8193975
Everyone forgets sometimes anon, cgl is just particularly salty due to 'muh EEEDEEE' posts in every damn thread

>>8193979
I often don't have a single proper meal in the whole day since I get nervous often before exams but I do have little (healthy) snacks quite frequently throughout the day, don't know if that counts

>>8193987
>>8193981

The problem I'm having are seagulls bitching about how unhealthy they are and 'why am i having health issues?????' and they don't even eat regular meals or go to the doctor at all because 'I'm not sick!' Like that one anon who eats 'A couple of grapes every few days and maybe a cup of tea or two.' Anon >>8193987 is understandable because I go through the same issue but other people in this thread and the previous threads? Come on. That's common sense if you are 18+ but I guess sense isn't that common.

>>8193979
I may have an eating disorder I'm not denying it, just saying because of people like you clawing at us this way we don't say anything and continue suffering

>>8193975
Why tell anyone at all?
I get irritated only because it feels like someone is underhandedly wanting me to draw a conclusion about their lifestyle habits and comment on it.
>"Ugh I totally overate today."
And? So? What do you want me to say? Where can this possibly go in a conversation?
>"That's bad."
>"OMG GURLL I KNOW IT I'M A FAT PIGGO TOO AND I TOTES ATE SO MUCH LIEK GYM TIME FOR US FATS AMIRITE?!"
>"I have tips to help you eat less."

It's like telling someone you took a liquid shit this morning. It's unusual but not uncommon, and certainly an awkward conversational piece that not many can recover gracefully from.

>>8193987
That's really the best way to eat and keep from gaining a lot of weight. I wouldn't worry as long as you're still eating a decent amount by the end of the day.

>>8194053
Pipe down anon, not everybody doesn't care about their friends and family like you.

>>8193979
idk, anon, I don't have an ED but sometimes I'll feel hungry and just be too lazy to get up, get sucked into something online or whatever and next thing I know I've been playing Civ for 8 hours straight and haven't moved, let alone eaten anything.

Not to say it happens super often, but it IS possible to just forget to eat sometimes.

>>8194053
You must not have many friends if that's how you treat anyone who tries to make smalltalk about what they did today. Nobody is asking for advice on idle chatter. Do you also think you have to contribute real world advice when a friend tells you that they saw a cute dress in a store or talk about how they stubbed their toe today?

>>8194061
>>8194067
>implying I don't care about my family and friends
Oh, salty bitches getting mad and making shit personal because I told them that telling anonymous strangers about their diary-tier eating habits is an awkward, pointless thing to do.
Color me not surprised. What do you want from us? Asspats because you think you're good for not eating today? Sympathy because you're either too fucked in the head to be assed to eat, or too busy to remember (like many people in the world's populace)? Stop slinging tantrums.

>>8194078
The only one being mad is you. Buttravaged, even

>>8194090
>I'm not mad you are!
I'm not the one complaining how people aren't receptive about my food journal. Think about it.

>>8193979
You obviously never enjoyed the supreme power of (meth)amphetamines.

>>8194078
You don't want us to tell anybody, you don't want anybody to tell you this. It implies you dont care about your cherished ones with this issue. You got your jimmies rustled by yourself. We didn't even ask you for advice, why the salt?

>>8193495
That would imply /cgl/ is biting.
It's clear that everyone here is just sick of this fedora shit.

>>8194122
>because I don't engage with a stranger about their eating habits it means I wouldn't be concerned about a family member's eating habits if I thought it was an issue
Nice logic.
Also why are you flipflopping so much on this issue? Either forgetting to eat for a day is normal and happens sometimes (and therefore isn't that deserving of concern), or it is indicative of a serious issue. Hm?

>>8194130
Make up your mind and pick a side, stick to it when you argue.

>>8193818
Hey man, that's a low blow to /v/.
I've been in threads shat up like this one is and the majority of posts were people calling them out on their bullshit like here.
The only reason people are pactically guaranteed to bite this kind of shit is because those sentiments, you know the ones, the "all women are whores" fags, are actually held by a lot of people.

>>8194135
That's what I'm saying to you. I haven't switched a side at all? Is this your mind on meth or something? Jeez lady. Yikes.

>>8194078

>>8194137
That's a good thing.

The more guys believe that all women are whores, the less competition I get.

Besides, the guys that fall for that bullshit were never meant to spread their genes anyway. They were born to go extinct. Let them go extinct.

As a woman in general I'm just tired of having conversations regarding image and self-esteem 24/7. I'm one of the few who doesn't have a major issue about my confidence so for a lot of cosplay or lolita related conversations to circle back into topics about feeling like shit all the time or disordered eating just gets tiresome. It's not fun.

>>8194130
What is "false dichotomy" for 500?

>>8194149
It's just funny to me that people believe stuff like that when it's so transparent they're just sexually frustrated, and are furious that they can't get laid because of their shitty personality.
And I say that as a loser virgin piece of shit boy myself.

I've never struggled with weight in my life. People have always told me I was just lucky and had a high metabolism and I just believed that. But every time I've ever been out for a long period of time with people (especially ones who complain about their weight a lot) I've noticed something. All they ever want to do is eat. We wake up, they all want to go somewhere for breakfast. I can't even finish that meal but they do with ease. Then before I know it they're all talking about what they should do for lunch and I'm still full from breakfast.

But the real shocking part was that the longer I spent with them in this routine, the more I was starting to eat too.

This has lead me to believe that eating, at least in the large amounts that makes people struggle with weight, is just a habit. And if you just never get into that habit it's easy to get by with just a single meal a day and some snacks spread through the rest.

>>8194154
Also forgot to add you ladies make it really touchy to change the topic or talk about positive things without contending with how you might perceive me as insensitive. Seriously, Wtf.

>>8194159
>I'm arguing with some idiot boychild
Lol oh I'm being b8ed, nvm.

>>8194137
Yeah, /v/ can be okay sometimes, but there's so much shitposting since it has so much traffic.

>>8194168

>>8194149
Oh look its the male equivalent of those "bro girls" who just LOVE video games and porn and farting and are TOTALLY different from all those other girls.

>>8193257
Hey anon, at least your cosplay will be finished by the time The Phantom Pain comes out!

>>8194176
Fuck it, you've shat up the thread so I'm going to out play you by continually biting.
And hopefully our incessant bickering will be enough to get the mods attention, I don't even care if I get banned, if this threads going down because of you I'm taking you with me.

>>8194176
You could just have called me a "bro".

I don't know why you ended up explaining the concept of a "bro girl" when you could just have called me a "bruv bra m8 mate lad nigga nigguh" bro.

>>8194182
That really [triggered] me.

>>8194137
Would you honestly deny that most if not almost all women have used sex or flirting to get money, gifts or favors?

Cause that is in essence the definition of a "whore".

>>8194197
Would you honestly deny that most if not almost all men have used money, gifts or favors to get sex?

Cause that is in essence the definition of a "adulterer".

>>8194206
wat.
that has absolutely nothing to do adultery. what the hell are you even talking about.

>>8194197
>Most if not all women have used sex or flirting to get money, gifts or favors?

I never had bitter salty anon. But if it makes you feel better my last ex bf said he was only with me so he could get figmas and free sex and the one before that was only with me and flirted with other women to get free hotel rooms.

>>8194219
The moment you fuck someone who's not your wife, you're an adulterer.

Get behind me Satan. You fucking degenerate.

>>8194197
Yes.
You're ignoring stuff like upbringing, demographics, innate personality, basically all of psychology.
The spoiled bitches aren't a result of being female, they're a result of having an easy ride all through life and continually getting what they want.
Why do you think those kinds of girls don't give a second thought to the guys grovelling at their feet, but become fixated on the one who doesn't give a shit about their advances?

And even if you were right, I don't really see the problem. Yeah, that would hypothetically mean literally every woman is a self centered bitch only in it for themselves, but then that would also mean we'd know it as an innate fact of human behavior
And then it'd be like any other scam, where people don't really sympathize with suckers who get swindled when they could have paid closer attention.

>>8194197
WELCOME TO AMERICA

CAPITALISM FUCK YEAH

WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU

FILTHY FUCKING PINKO COMMIE

>>8194220
So he was a parasitic alpha then. I know that type. I'm friends with one.

>>8194221
Adultery has nothing to do with how the man is getting sex.

And it's a completely senseless comparison anyways because both genders enjoy sex, but neither gender likes losing money or other resources. So how the hell is a man having to give away resources he had to work for in exchange for sex the same as a women being given free resources to have sex?

>>8194220
I never claimed men don't do similar things but they obviously don't do it anywhere near as frequently as women.

>>8194220
I think that using sex appeal for personal gain thing that attractive people do, rather than women (but you see more women doing it, because women are usually more pressured into/put more time into being attractive).

>>8194247
>blablabla excuses

You're still a fucking degenerate and I hope that Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ strikes you down in the loins and makes your dick fall off.

>>8194247
> both genders enjoy sex with those they are attracted to
Fixed it for you. Those who have nothing appealing about them have to compensate with material goods to make it worthwhile for the other person.

>>8194251
Women actually seem to enjoy being taken for the ride though when it happens.

I just don't understand what kind of world the opposite gender lives in and how they have no regard for current moral systems.

>>8194251
>went to gay bars to just score discount drugs
>gay dealers would just put in some extra just because i am good looking

Am I a manwhore now?

I just wanna be a happy stoner mang.

>>8194260
Yup. I don't really see the inherent wrong in using your appearances as a tool though. You just work with the cards you've been doing.

> inb4 b-but guys don't have that benefit and if you're ugly, you're stuck ugly!
What is makeup/skincare/dressing well.

>>8194257
Yeah I've struggled to figure out how women go through life with literally no morality too.

But I guess that's just what happens when you spend your entire life being told you're special and everybody needs to help you succeed because you're so oppressed and discriminated against. It builds up a massive ego that causes you to think you can do no wrong.

>>8194269
> the cards you've been dealt

>>8194253
>Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ

>>8194270
>Yeah I've struggled to figure out how women go through life with literally no morality too.

You know why you struggle to figure out women?

Because you're not looking at reality.

You're like some kind of stone age caveman trying to figure out how the world works in a cave, painting shit on the wall when you should be outside figuring shit out WITH SCIENCE!

>>8194270
It's not even that but I see it a bunch of times, in my own group of friends too.

>guy is attractive, maybe not 10/10 but fairly good-looking, appeals to a type.
>girls come in and out of his life, he's constantly just an attention seeking whore, generally drains from people and then leaves them when the novelty is gone
>all the girls who he's gone through talk about even though it ended badly "it was so much fun" when the relationship existed
>girls in my friend group talk about how they want to help him even though they're completely aware of the shitbag that he is

I don't know what it is. The closest to a hypothesis I can come up with is just that the fact that he's attractive overrides all of their common sense.

>>8194269
Do mothers teach their daughters this or is the world just a bunch of narcissists who hate everyone else now?

This girl I thought I was friends with posted something that I told her in private and then acted like I'm the bitch for taking offense.
She's the only normal cosplayer I know from the area. Shit sucks.
Pic related, it's the birthday present I got her. Her birthday's in 2 days, but I think we're not friends anymore.

>>8194283
>or is the world just a bunch of narcissists who hate everyone else now?

Reminder, communism lost. Capitalism won. If you're not an egoistic objectivist narcissist, prepare to get stomped on, forever.

>>8194255
This is probably my favorite delusion I see from women. When they tell themselves they're successful at something like a social life because they're just so good at socializing, and not just because they have a vagina and that automatically makes everybody be nicer to them.

>Those who have nothing appealing about them have to compensate with material goods

I know in your mind you've undoubtedly come believe the reason you've never had to compensate with material goods is because you've just got such a great personality. But I assure you if you'd been born with a different set of genitals that "personality" of yours wouldn't be getting you nearly as far as you think it would.

>>8194289
What did you tell her?

It doesn't matter here... we're all anonymous down here.

Look at me I'm a bitter faggot that nobody loves, I guess I'll go shit in the girl's clubhouse :,^(

>>8194293
Damn dude, if you're so mad about being a virgin, just hire a hooker man. For fuck's sake, I can taste your sour salty man-pussy through the monitor.

>>8194297
My financial aid fell through and so I had to pay my college some money. I then got a bunch back for my tax refund and wanted to buy one of her prints to support her, but she scolded me for wanting to spend money on her through instagram. She has over 1000 followers who potentially saw that.
The whole thing

>>8194305
Isn't that just like a delude feeee-male to make sweeping generalizations about muh gender! Not everything revolves around your PUSSY you CUNT, why don't you take your VAGINA and your VULVA and OVARIES and go WORK IN A COAL MINE like I do???!

>>8194304
>>8194305
Oooh, scathing. You've sure proven me wrong by insulting my personal life.

(Hint: You're actually just proving me right by getting defensive and trying to dodge all the actual points, just like women always do when you tell them what they don't want to hear)

>>8194312
*just solidifed my suspicion that i'm more of her fangirl than her friend.

>>8194305
Can you stop proving his point? Damn. I hate that shit just as much as the next person, but if you're going to respond like that you're just fueling the fire.

>>8194293
Abloobloo. Your problem is that you need to stop pinning everything on others.

> oh, they only like her more because she's a girl
> probably has nothing to do with the fact that I'm a whiny manchild
> it's society's fault that people don't like me as much
> if I was a girl, life would be so much easier because girls obviously don't have to deal with more danger of being physically assaulted or the pressures of being lady-like

Yeah, people are generally nicer to me because I'm a grill, but that comes at the cost of being babied constantly and being told I can't do this/that/whatever. One gender is not more difficult than the other because both have their respective hardships, and you need trying to one-up people on the I-have-it-worse scale.

>>8194314
hint: you're actually rustling my jimmies by identifying the source of my rage, just like all women do when they're confronted with whiny retards who try to fight them on the internet

>>8194320
> need to stop
Wow, I keep forgetting words today.

>>8194320
It seems there's a clear solution to not being babied.

Stop taking advantage of your girl privilege.

>>8194334
>also u should have sex w/ me

>>8194320
>One gender is not more difficult than the other because both have their respective hardships, and you need [to stop] trying to one-up people on the I-have-it-worse scale.

this.

some shit is harder for me because i am a guy; other shit is easier. a lot of my disadvantages have nothing to do with gender, but with my nonconformity to other social roles.

everyone has different expectations placed on them and anyone who doesn't fulfill those expectations, or who is unhappy with their expected role, will be shat on regardless of gender race or class.

>>8194154
Are you me? Whenever the queen bee's announce they have a problem with themselves, they take my lack of issues as a personal insult. So instead they rant about how jealous they are and try to get me to apologize. It's so weird to watch them panic over shit when I don't give them any ammo.
Fuck that emotional manipulation. It's recently gotten so out of control I've been scolded by one for 'not caring enough'. I've only spoken to these bitches at con maybe once. I'm never going to be sorry for the problems you make for yourself, if that means war to you, then good riddance.

>>8194339
Nah, you're a bitch, I wouldn't have sex with you at gunpoint.

>>8194320
>more personal insults
OK honest question here.
Do you truly believe that it's completely impossible for somebody to have any kind of opinion about social dynamics that just happen to say women have something easier? Does your mind just say that literally EVERYONE who ever says anything even remotely bad about women is just a bitter male virgin?
Cause I've argued with quite a few girls over the interwebs and have yet to encounter a single one that doesn't seem to believe this, which only reaffirms my beliefs about their egos and delusions. What would your excuse be in another woman was saying these things?

Oh and a few other points
A: Yes, in fact girls DON'T have to deal with more danger of being physically assaulted. Men are statistically victims of violent crime at a higher rate. This is a fact and not up for debate.
B: How the fuck is being babied a "cost".
C: Nobody is forcing you to accept free things.
D: What has anybody ever told you you can't do, and how does just being told somehow prevent you from doing it

>>8194362
> not realizing that that's a different anon
It's like more than one person is noticing your shitty behaviour!

>>8194363
>Cause I've argued with quite a few girls over the interwebs
Wow, I find that hard to believe.

>>8194320
>women are oppressed because everyone is always offering them free stuff!

>>8193979
their stomachs shrink.

>>8194313
>>8194314
>>8194318

I'm a man, you retarded faggot cunt. Also quit samefagging.

>>8194392
>>8194392 was sarcastic bro

>>8194392
I'm >>8194318 and I didn't call you a man or a woman, but you're still fueling the fire.

>>8194392
Woman, whiteknight, it makes no real difference. They both have the same stupid delusions. One just believes them about other people while the other believes it about themselves.

>>8194399
>whiteknight

So it seems that calling an autistic cunt out on his autism is called whiteknighting now.

Quit whiteknighting for autistic cunts, you collosal semen-slurping AIDS-infested manbatter-gargling supreme anal manslut of /lgbt/. They're not going to pound your manpussy because you defend their male honour on 4chan.

>>8194392
fucked up, meant >>8194313

Also hahaha in your face males, neener neener la la la gonna rub all this free stuff all over my face while swimmin in da pussy privilige mmmmmm yeaaasss

>>8194406
How about I order you some expensive wigs girl, then later I'll give you something to swim in aight?

; )

>>8194406
I don't really care if women have easier lives.

I just wish they'd stop denying it and stop constantly bitching about how "oppressed" they are and acting like they've somehow earned all the stuff they have.

>>8194405
No it's being delusional and thinking coming here to pat women on the back and agree and congratulate them on persevering in this horrible patriarchy culture that's constantly putting women down that makes you a whiteknights.

>>8194421
I'm not here to pat women on the back. I'm just here to look at pictures and be a fucking sarcastic misanthropic asshole.

And guess what? Picking on autistic virgin Redditors is easier than picking on fatty ugly lolitas.

You're an easy target mate. Your man-pussy is wide open, and as long as you keep posting I'm gonna rape your colon raw.

>>8194439
Careful now your buzzwords to normal-words ratio is reaching dangerously high amounts.

>>8194314
You know you're not accomplishing anything right?
I browse 4chan, and by extent /cgl/ to kill time when I'm not doing any of my actual hobbies.
Even if you were right, you'd be better off spreading this revelation to the masses and lifting the veil than you would shitposting on /cgl/.
All you're doing is making me chuckle since you're obviously serious.

>>8194454
Who cares. Normal words are for pussy-ass normies anyway.

Real men use buzzwords all the time.

>>8194368
You mean the problem could be themselves and not half of the entire population of earth?
Get that delusional gobblygook out of here.

>>8194376

>>8194363
If we were a genderless species that reproduced via mitosis, you'd still be complaining about not getting what you don't deserve.
>They only care about them because they're a good person
>Of course they respond to the friendly one in the room approaching them instead of being drawn to me
>Why don't I get a thank you? I want one too. No I'm not going to do anything for you, why the fuck would I do that?
>Nice people are the scum of the earth and I'm only an outcast because all nice people are terrible.

>>8194439
>>8194459
Goddamn
I thought it'd been like a decade since people learned saying "U MAD U MAD IM NOT MAD U MAD" is essentially like putting giant "actually I'm very upset" sign up over your head.

But as usual women and whiteknights are quite slow on the uptake.

>>8194304
Is it wrong that I read those first three words and started singing "handlebars" in my head?

>>8194487
The fuck are you even rambling about.
Why not address the actual points I gave.

>>8194494
I just did you fucking faggot.

>>8194488
>whiteknight

There's that word again. You keep repeating it, over and over again. I wonder how mad you must be when you keep using
>whiteknight
instead of a serious insult like cunt, fag, faggot, wanker, cocksucker, semendemon, cumdumpster, arseravager, buttroach, fucker, colonpirate, pooprammer, manjuicegargler, tumblrite, retard, smegma-addict or autist.

>>8194498
You didn't though.
In fact the very first question in that post of mine was why women only ever seem to "argue" with personal insults, and you respond with, personal insults.

>>8194509
>In fact the very first question in that post of mine was why Anonymous only ever seems to "argue" with personal insults, and Anonymous respond with, personal insults.

>>8194516
It's always adorable when /cgl/ pretends they're "real 4channers" and not just tumblrettes who don't want to post on tumblr.

>>8194519
Don't you have some tendies to eat?

>>8194522
I haven't posted on /r9k/ in years but I wouldn't mind some chicken tenders if you're offering.

>implying

>>8194519
>implying i'm from /cgl/

Just because I'm here doesn't mean I'm from here.

>>8194537
Oh my bad.
Replace "/cgl/" with "women" then.

> away for a bit
> come back to thread

>Expecting Bodyline haul
>Tracking says package was out for delivery yesterday
>never received a notice
>went to the post office today to get it
>Postal worker can't find it
>mail lady herself comes out and talks to me
>she saw no packages for that end of her route
>show them my phone with tracking info and they just tell me they can't do anything and send me on my way.

This is what I get for using Air. I've been waiting two months and it's still not here. I am worried.

Also thinking about getting an apartment with my friends after graduation but one of them isn't graduating yet and the other doesn't want to leave their family so I'm going to have to find a local job. I'm terrified of being trapped in my hometown but I don't want to live on my own. College dorms don't count as living on your own. Adult things are scary.

>>8190743
Cosmetic surgery does'nt work for white women maybe rhinoplasty but thats about it.

>>8190993
There are literally two types of people that exist and anyone can become the other,it doesnt mean they are better or more special or anything,its purely environmental and you would know that if you weren't such a shallow prostitute.

>>8194810
Ok
You done?

>>8192749
>left him, moved on and had children with an awesome guy
>Had kids without getting married
>New BF in jail

Nah, I think you got this whole thing figured out.

First time posting in this thread...

I'm totally pissed about the girls who posts lolita coords in WorldCosplay.

Is like, no bitch, Lolita isn't cosplay.
Because some girl "create an original character of the series gothic lolita" is not for put coords

A girl in my cosplay comm always post one photoshoot with her lolita coord, and always she says something about her ranking in WorldCosplay

>>8195042
prostitute pls

>first girlfriend
>I was really paranoid after she made out with a guy at a party once
>we had only been together a few weeks at that point, but I forgave her anyway for reasons
>things seem to be going ok for the next few months
>she's doing a community theatre thing
>ends up becoming really close friends with a guy she does a bunch of scenes with
>spends weeks telling me not to worry about it
>Introduces me to the guy, he actually seems really nice, guess I was overreacting
>one day she suddenly breaks up with me
>claims that it wasn't because of anyone else, but that she just wasn't feeling it anymore
>I believe this
>next week
>she's dating the theatre guy
All in all, probably not the best first relationship.

>>8193565
Then call her out on it you idiot

>>8195482

Bro, you should have walked the first time she cheated on you.

After that it was red flag after red flag that you ignored. Then she got tired of stringing you along.

>>8195482
She was always a lying conniving bitch from the start Anon, you're an idiot to think you were special to a self centered asshole like that.
On a related note, I can't really comprehend doing that kind of stuff when you're in a relationship. I mean I've got issues and I don't really go to parties or social excursions beyond casually hanging out with friends, so maybe I just don't "get it."
But I seriously can't understand why someone would do physical or intimate contact with somebody when they were in a relationship unless they didn't care for them to begin with.
If I was at a party and for some reason I couldn't control my dick despite having a girlfriend, I'd just sneak off and dump her on the phone in private before plowing this new girl.
But that would imply I get out or even want to be in a place like that.

>>8190903
lol lesbians

>>8193979
most of the time when you sy that its denial
like youre lying to yourself that youre jsut forgetting, and you make it seem like less of a big deal

>>8190611
mmmm fuck up
most people forget once in a while

>finals in two weeks
>where am i, the library? home working in my papers?
>nope, thrift shopping and out buying fabrics for my in-progress cosplays. well shit.
on the bright side i found this incredible granny-core ugly cat sweater that i love to pieces

not /cgl/ related
>bf has big job interview coming up
>his mum had been nagging him about his hair being too long
>goes and gets terrible, i mean REALLY terrible haircut without telling me
>looks like a cross between a pineapple and some shady car salesman/pedo
>too creeped out by it to be at all attracted to him rn
what do i even say when he wants to have sex? i really don't want to admit that his creepy haircut is turning me off that much

>tfw nobody seems to value demure and pure hearts anymore
why live