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/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL


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7438214 No.7438214 [Reply] [Original]

Post cgl-related feels, or just any feels. How was your day? Your stresses? Your victories?

Let's try again, shall we?
>no responding to trolls
>no exceptions
>any responses to trolls will be presumed samefaggotry

>> No.7438219 [DELETED] 

1st for men are fucking scum

remember your place, males posting ITT

>> No.7438224 [DELETED] 

I'm sad because I was enjoying the other thread, bait or not.

>> No.7438226 [DELETED] 

>>7438224
Yeah, I bet you don't often get an opportunity to talk to girls on the Internet. Even if they hate you.

>> No.7438232
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>stressed about custom cosplay from China arriving
>con is in little over a month
>but anon, it's not even the max date yet
>BUT IT'S A DAY PAST THE MINIMUM DATE
>what if they fuck it up
>tfw anxiety

>> No.7438236

>>7438232
>buying chinese
AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

wait ure serious?

HAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHA

>> No.7438242
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>>7438232
This.
>order something for PAX while waiting on my sewing machine to arrive
>it was supposed to ship out the sixth
>oh yeah sorry XD it get shipped next week XDDD
>just shipped yesterday
>mfw

>> No.7438240 [DELETED] 

I'm from /r9k/ :)

>> No.7438246 [DELETED] 

>>7438240
No shit. It was obvious that hte last thread was raided by virgin misogynists from /a/ & /r9k/ (aka /a9k/).

God I wish all virgins would be shot. (male ones only)

>> No.7438250 [DELETED] 

>>7438246
Why do you hate male virgins?

>> No.7438257 [DELETED] 

>>7438226
Nah. It's just that
>boyfriend is away for work
>feeling sad and lonely
and that thread entertained me.

>> No.7438263 [DELETED] 

>>7438250
Because all women are whores who take turns riding Chads thunder cock.

>> No.7438260 [DELETED] 

>>7438250
Because they keep raiding us and asking us to take the smell of virgin scum off of them. If you died, I wouldn't hate you.

>> No.7438264 [DELETED] 

>>7438260
>you
I'm not a virgin. I've been with a lot of women.

Just asking why.

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>>7438260
Would I be disgusting if I weren't a virgin? Pic is me.

>> No.7438268 [DELETED] 

>>7438260
Please have sex with me?

>> No.7438272 [DELETED] 

>>7438264
LOL
>you
>not virgin
0/10

>> No.7438276 [DELETED] 

Is spring break over yet?

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>>7438242
>>7438232
Goddamn shipping times. Also,

>buy skirt from girl
>"I'll ship it out on Saturday, anon"
>it's Tuesday
>still no tracking
>not even shipping confirmation

>> No.7438274 [DELETED] 

>>7438272
Whatever you say.
I've fucked so many bitter con girls like you.

It's really easy.

>> No.7438279 [DELETED] 

>>7438246
LOL

Who is going to shoot them?

You?

>women
>marksmanship

>> No.7438280 [DELETED] 

>>7438219
>>7438246
>come from /k/ and /fit/
> /k/ and /fit/ warn me that /cgl/ is the worst board on 4chan
>come here for first time
>see this thread
>see these posts
>immediately realize this is the worst board even more pathetic than /r9k/
>time to go back to /fit/ and make fun of /cgl/

>> No.7438278 [DELETED] 

>>7438274
SURE AHAHHA

ENJOY STAYING A VIRGIN FOREVER YOU WORTHLESS MALE SHIT

>> No.7438285 [DELETED] 

>>7438278
HAHA DISREGARD THAT, I SUCK COCKS

>> No.7438287 [DELETED] 

>>7438280
Reminder that people who say they're "/fit/" are just ugly white beta nerds who think it makes them sound attractive.

>> No.7438288 [DELETED] 

>>7438278
All I have to do is waltz up to you, direct your gaze to my /fit/ body and compliment your dumb costume.

Then you're practically back in my hotel room.

>> No.7438291 [DELETED] 

>>7438280
If you're retarded enough to think that this isn't one dedicated shitposter, you should probably stay on /fit/ for good.

>> No.7438292 [DELETED] 

>>7438280
Dude, this place is worse than fucking /mlp/ and /x/.

At least those niggers can into OC.

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>tfw huge family gets sat in my section
>tfw said family is known for being town moneybags
>tfw I see the tip they left me

It was a good night to be a waiter.

>> No.7438297 [DELETED] 

>>7438280
Same shit

I always heard how bad /cgl/ is

Then I come here and people like >>7438287
post

I guess this is what happens when you leave women to their own devices

>> No.7438298 [DELETED] 

>>7438288
Lolsure

If you walked up to me, you'd end up in the jail for molesting me with your eyes, creeper.

I only date delicious AZN guys.

>> No.7438303 [DELETED] 

>>7438287
she says as she only fucks men who are in shape

>> No.7438304 [DELETED] 

>>7438289
>Speaking of ugly male virgins ITT
>this ugly male virgin tripfag posts anyway

DIE ALRADY VIRGIN SHITS

>> No.7438311 [DELETED] 

V I R G I N S

A
R
E

S C U M M

D
I
E

A L L

O
F

Y O U

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I tried on my first coord just now.
Just missing shoes and bag, which are being shipped right now.
I feel so fucking kawaii sdklsdf argh.

>prances around like a princess

>> No.7438306 [DELETED] 

>>7438298
So /cgl/ is filled with frumpy weaboos who like to play dress up.

That about right?

>> No.7438308
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7438308

Just end this virginity nonsense now.

Anyway, back to cosplay feels:

>wear glasses
>try wearing contact lenses but my eyes get too irritated while wearing them (they turn red too)
>every time I go to a con I always have a dilemma up keeping up with accuracy
>end up wearing glasses anyway

At least I take them off for any pictures...but I wish I could wear contacts. Any cosplay with weird coloured eyes are out of the question too.

>> No.7438309 [DELETED] 

>>7438287
Reminder that people who dress up as little anime girls are a bunch of homos

>> No.7438320 [DELETED] 

Do you think it's respectable behavior to play dress up and get fucked by 4 men in a dirty hotel room?

>> No.7438314 [DELETED] 

>>7438304
Die?

By your army of womyn?

Bitch please.

You can't even fight the urge to not be a slut.

>> No.7438323 [DELETED] 

>>7438308
>Just end this virginity nonsense now

It will never die. The guys ruining this thread are virgins and they will stay virgins.

Unless you want to sacrifice yourself and become their personal whore (they will probably kill you with their noxious ejaculates), they won't go away.

>> No.7438324

You guys are being so unkawaii right now.

>> No.7438325

DAILY REMINDER THAT YOU WHORES WILL BURN IN HELL FOR ALL ETERNITY!

>> No.7438332

>>7438324
This thread is entirely crossboard shitposters circlejerking. There are maybe three seagulls in this entire thread. Where's the janitor?

>> No.7438334

>>7438320
MY B O D Y
MY R U L E S

>> No.7438335

>>7438323
I don't have to stay a virgin.
What's the next con you're going to? Maybe we can hook up. I can pin my eyes back like those asian manlets you love so much

>> No.7438337

>>7438332
Nah, /cgl/ is just plain shit.

>> No.7438344 [DELETED] 

>>7438332
>crossboard shitposters circklejerking

As opposed to regular shitposters circlejerking?

This board is garbage

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>>7438323

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, in fact, I consider it an admirable trait; a noble endeavor. I am a male, unfortunately I am not a virgin, but I have learned the error of my ways and am remaining chaste until I marry.

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>>7438304
Why so krool, anon?

>> No.7438352 [DELETED] 

boo hoo my thread was ruined no i cant gossip about my frilly dress made from cheap fabric

>> No.7438350 [DELETED] 

>>7438332
>Where's the janitor?
See >>7438320

Powergirl is getting fucked by 4 men in a dirty old hotel room.

>> No.7438357 [DELETED] 

>>7438352
LOL FUCKING SEXIST BITTER MANCHILDREN VIRGINS

enjoy ur hand huehueuheuheu

>> No.7438358 [DELETED] 

I believe all virgin anons will one day find true love in a girl who doesn't care if they have experience or not. But it would help if they stopped being this rude.

>> No.7438359 [DELETED] 

>>7438348
>There's nothing wrong with being a virgin,
>I am a male,

OPINION
=
INSTANTLY
=
DISCARDED

CAN YOU FUCKING BELIEVE THIS FEDORA WEARING FAT PIECE OF SHIT?

SERIOUSLY??

>>7438335
>I don't have to stay a virgin.
LEL
>implying you get to decide whether you lose your virginity or not
LEL LEL

>> No.7438364 [DELETED] 

>>7438246
>women
>doing something instead of whinging about how other people should be doing it on your Tumblrs
Pick one

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>>7438352

Anon, do not feel angry. Fill yourself with joy instead, and do not let your heart turn cold.

>>7438359

>Fedora

But I am a devout Catholic, only atheists wear fedoras. I already stated I am unfortunately not a virgin but am keeping chaste, as it is the least I could do.

>> No.7438367 [DELETED] 

>>7438358
It would help more if they killed themselves.

And we all know they'll be lonely forever.

>> No.7438368 [DELETED] 

>>7438348
>I am not a virgin

This is probably the worst b8 that was posted ITT.

>> No.7438369 [DELETED] 

I'm a woman and I love virgins and doing things children do like dressing up as cartoon characters from my favorite japanimation television shows

>> No.7438372 [DELETED] 

>>7438369
>I'm a woman
2nd worst b8 ITT.

>>7438366
You are a deluded virgin.

>> No.7438377 [DELETED] 

What do you think the average number of sexual partners is for your typical /cgl/ poster?
I'd say about 50.
They're sluttier than normal girls and sex at cons is easy.

>> No.7438378 [DELETED] 

>>7438359
oh wow how mad are you right now on a scale from slightly buttburt to harpoon up your fat ass?

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>>7438368

Why? I deeply regret it, I lost it to some club slut, she wanted to cuddle afterwards but I just felt so empty inside. I knew I had committed a wrong, and now I am trying to repay back my sins.

>> No.7438379 [DELETED] 

>>7438280
>Not knowing the "all men are scum" anon

They're a town character in these parts

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>>7438372

I wish I was a virgin, anon, truly. For those who die virgins, in heaven are given a golden crown.

>> No.7438381 [DELETED] 

Reminder that you whores are only good for fucking?

You can't cook.
You can't fight.
You can't drive
You can't contribute anything useful to society other than squirting out the next generation of fuck ups

>> No.7438385 [DELETED] 

>>7438376
>I lost it to some club slut
Really bad b8. You probably are a Christian after all.

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The Janitor hath descended
REPENT!

>> No.7438393

>>7438388
Yay! Horaay for Powergirl!! Best janitor ever!

>> No.7438397 [DELETED] 

>>7438357
Shit I knew it, you are brazilian aren't you?

>board de cosplay
>zueira ridicula
por favor me diga que voce não mora no rio

>> No.7438402 [DELETED] 

JESUS CHRIST EVERY THING IS GONE
EVERY THING
SOON NOTHING WILL BE LEFT BUT THE ORIGINAL POST AND THIS THREAD'S HYMEN WILL BE WHOLE ONCE MORE

>> No.7438403

>>7438308
you proably should see a doctor to get some accurate lenses, if it's worth for you.
this standard ones don't have a great quality and arent custimized for your eye, which may cause they damage it.

>> No.7438408 [DELETED] 

>>7438402
Go back to >>>/a/ already. We don't want you here.

>> No.7438413

>>7438312
Good for you, anon!

>> No.7438422 [DELETED] 

>/cgl/ whores get smoked like fine kush
>whine for faggot ass janitor to fix their problems
>females confirmed for being unable to handle the banter
Useless...

>> No.7438432 [DELETED] 

>>7438397
Brazilians are the best for a cultural victory.

>> No.7438426 [DELETED] 

>>7438422
calm down fellow robot

>> No.7438439 [DELETED] 

>>7438432
Well it's not a suprise brazilians hate virgins since most brazilians have kids by 12.

>> No.7438437

>don't go to these small one-day gatherings/conventions because I'm working to save up to go to bigger cons
>still get depressed and jealous when I see cosplay and gathering photos knowing that I'm doing the best thing for myself

>> No.7438445

Hoo boy, here we go

>Be cosplaying for the first time back in 2005
>Not sure how it'd go, it's also my first con
>Friends pat me on the back saying "You'll be fine, this will be fun"
>Get noticed and complimented as I walk through the front door. feelsgoodman.jpg
>Find qt3.14 cosplaying from same series
>Need to alpha up yo
>Now running beta.exe
>Talk to her in full costume, nervous as fuck, full helmet on
>Father I shame famiry, so sorry
>Conversation lasts about good 15 minutes, few giggles on her part, thought she was wonderful
>Day 2, same costume (Aired out and febreze'd baby, gotta keep fresh)
>Run into her again
>Moar pleasant convo, not as nervous, maybe I have a chance!
>She goes off with her group, I wave good bye, don't see her after
>Go to school next day, friend informs me she was mocking me just around the corner with her crew
>tfw my innocent beta self died
>Got over it in 2 weeks and got hooked on the MMO crack, life is average to this day, minus hitting the crack pipe as often

>> No.7438463

>want to cosplay
>don't know who to cosplay as
>think that I'll look horrible when I cosplay

Fucking hell. I want to do something simple for my 1st time, but all the characters I like are either dressed in complex looking clothes, not my body type, or female.

>> No.7438469 [DELETED] 

>virgin bf dumped me because he found out I had sex before him
>now i cant pay for my order for my next cosplay because he was going to help with it

god fucking dammit

>> No.7438473 [DELETED] 

>>7438469
That's what you get for dating virgins.

>> No.7438589

>>7438463
Maybe you can do another version of a character you like. Like for example, KLK has tons of outfits for each character throughout the show. Or you can do a gijinka!

>> No.7438591

>>7438308
That means you aren't wearing contacts that are the correct size/curve for your eyes.

You need to go to your eye doctor, get an exam JUST for contacts, and then buy contacts with your prescription measurements.

Otherwise you could be scratching your corneas and you could go blind.

Why the fuck doesn't anyone know this shit.

>> No.7438599

>>7438589
Just thought of an idea. I could do a disguised Mikisugi. Wouldn't take much effort either.

>> No.7438606 [DELETED] 

Not really /cgl/ related, but hopefully someone has some advice on what to do about it?

>Be with BF two years now
>Used to have sex 2-3x per week
>This winter hit, suddenly no desire to sex at all
>Not even masturbation, just not in the mood for anything
>Started BC in July
>Been stressed as fuq
>BF gets all testosterone backed after ~1 month and can't handle being around me for too long because he beats himself up for wanting to have sex so badly
>Feel bad, because I know he can't help it and I feel like its my fault, even though he always assures me it's not.
>Decide to just have sex anyway
>Actually start to feel into it but
>Apparently my vagoo has retreated to virginmode, because this shit hurts.
>BF is also sort of... well endowed.
>Have to tell him to stop before we really get anywhere, hurts too bad
>He's a good sport about it

Augh. What do? Seems I'm out of my winter funk finally, but now it just hurts so badly I just don't want to try.

We tried using a shitload of lube and everything, I just can't handle it. I sort of forced myself on him earlier, and now I'm sore and even bleeding a little.

>> No.7438610 [DELETED] 

>>7438606
Maybe go slow and foreplay? if its still a problem then you might have to go to the gyn

>> No.7438611 [DELETED] 

>>7438606
Your vag should relax more than that if you're aroused. Is your bf not getting you warmed up enough with foreplay? Lube won't really help with the vaginal wall expansion factor, but being aroused should.

If problems persist, talk to your doctor?

>> No.7438613 [DELETED] 

>>7438610
>>7438611
Well, there's another issue, I suppose - I have really bad ADD. I literally cannot focus for more than 20 minutes unless we're really going at it.

Earlier there was like... maybe 35 minutes of foreplay?

I'm also still really stressed about work and school, and I'm wondering if maybe I'm just too tense because of it.

>> No.7438617 [DELETED] 

I'm stressed.
>went to meet a potential business client
>we were alone
>awhile of normal business talking, not flirtatious at all
>suddenly literally out of nowhere he says
>"anon, I really want to kiss you right now"
>what
>him: "I'll give you $100 to kiss me right now"
>no I have a boyfriend
>"I'll give you $500 right now. I have the money"
>internally: fuck I could really use $500
>no I have a boyfriend
>him: "name your price"
>me: "I don't have one"
after that he kind of let off and we went outside and joked about it. But I'm still kind of perturbed. I don't know how to let him go as a client. Fuck I'm so tired of this business. I thought I felt okay about this but I don't. I think what bothers me most is how sudden it was, just normal business stuff, then BAM suddenly asking for prostitute services out of nowhere.

>> No.7438626 [DELETED] 

>>7438606
Just have your way with him, if it hurts don't have sex.

He's male; he knows how lucky he is to have a woman. You could easily get a better guy if you wanted to.

>> No.7438639 [DELETED] 

>>7438637
Don't feel guilty, he's probably cheating on you already anyway.

>> No.7438637 [DELETED] 

>>7438626
I...

Lord, I know this is a troll, look at me taking the bait.

He's really great about it. He really is. He gets so upset with himself, he ends up so tense, he'll just dig his nails into his palm to the point he bleeds. He can't help it, it's just pent up sexual frustration, and jerkin' it doesn't do much for him.

But he honestly has never even asked me to have sex with him. He's said, "Do you think we'll have sex today?" but if I tell him I don't want to, he lets it go immediately.

I just feel so guilty because I know it's my fault he's like this, because I like to hug and cuddle and tease him, and it makes it so much worse. I try really hard not to, but then I feel sad too, and he thinks he did something to upset me.

He'll stop IMMEDIATELY if it hurts, and he asks repeatedly if everything is still okay if I seem uncomfortable at all.

He does so much for me, and this is all I can really do for him, aside from general emotional support and affection, and he can pretty much handle himself emotionally.

>> No.7438642 [DELETED] 

>>7438613
Stress can have a lot to do with it. I know when I'm stressed or not really into it it can hurt a bit. Do you drink? I find alcohol really relaxes me and I have no problems with pain.

>> No.7438644 [DELETED] 

>>7438637
>and this is all I can really do for him

>no blowjob
>no handjob
>no titjob
>no anal
>no nothing

Holy shit you're a worthless gf.

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>>7438626
Hahaha oh god I came here because pretty much every board of the other 10 I go on are always shitting on you guys and then this is the first post I see. I just lol'd it fits the stereotype so perfectly.

>> No.7438651 [DELETED] 

>>7438642
I don't drink, I really don't like the way alcohol tastes. But, shit, maybe it's worth a shot.

>>7438644
>He feels bad coming in my mouth / on me at all really
>Give handjobs, not much better than jerking off for him
>Tiny chest
>My vag hurts what the fuck makes you think it wouldn't hurt to stick it in the pooper
>I try

He just craves the V. Nothing else really relieves him.

>> No.7438653 [DELETED] 

>>7438644
#
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>> No.7438656 [DELETED] 

>>7438637
Have you tried any of the things this guy>>7438644 said? Me and my gf always give each other oral if we aren't in the mood and the other is. And we are both good at it so it gets everything done quickly. It ain't hard jeses nigger

>> No.7438658 [DELETED] 

>>7438651
>>He feels bad coming in my mouth / on me at all really

Your boyfriend confirmed for mangina pussy. Holy shit. "Testosterone" - SUUUURE. I bet he doesn't even fucking lift and is a tiny dicked Asian Christian GodWarrior.

Jfc, what a moron. He is not even a male in my book. He is a she from now on.

You are a lesbian now. Grats.

>> No.7438660 [DELETED] 

>>7438644
I'm a female and I was thinking this.

>>7438637
Go to the doctor ASAP. Knowing this is continuing and doing nothing about it but 'oh, oh, I feel bad' is useless and really jot fair to him (or you, but you are ok with it enough to let it go for months when he's miserable.?hmmm)..how long has this been going on? Since beginning of winter? Just no.

>> No.7438667

>last year at university
>wearing lolita every other day, no fucks given
>running into other lolitas at school, fawning over each other's outfits

why wasn't this my entire college experience

>> No.7438666 [DELETED] 

>>7438651
post a pic of your titties and face, we will decide if they're good enough or not

>> No.7438673 [DELETED] 

>>7438660
I agree you need to try a lot harder.
A couple of other things I've noticed are that during certain times of my cycle he can get a lot further in without it hurting. I would guess it's whenever ovulation occurs. The alcohol thing helps SO MUCH. Yeah it's nasty but you can mix it with all sorts of things.. so don't use that as an excuse.
I've also noticed if we don't have sex for awhile I get a little tighter. But this might have more to do with my first theory and not actually be significant.

>> No.7438676 [DELETED] 

>>7438658
>Oh no he's considerate of my personal comfort

I can't shower off or anything, and though I offer to swallow it, I really do not like it. So he keeps that in mind. I usually blow him and then finish him off with a handy. But as I said, it never really helps for more than a few days.

>>7438660
I think it's seasonal depression, which I've always gotten, but I've never had to experience the sexual side effects of before.

Now that it's getting warmer, I'm feeling into it again, it just hurts because it's been so long and I don't know how to make myself want it when it just hurts. Gotta stretch dat shit back out I guess.

Definitely going to see a doctor if it doesn't improve soon (with continued attempts).

>>7438666
Ahahah no.

>> No.7438679 [DELETED] 

>>7438676
Well, enjoy fun times with your girlfriend then.

>> No.7438684 [DELETED] 

>>7438637
Have you considered you might have seasonal affective disorder, or depression?
>This winter hit, suddenly no desire to sex at all
I know my ex-bf lost a lot of sexual desire when he hit depressive slumps and wasn't on his meds.

Look into this, as well: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus

To the other anons: fuck off unless you have anything useful to suggest. "HURR UR A BAD GF LOL HE'S CHEATING ON YOU" jesus christ grow up.

>> No.7438685 [DELETED] 

>>7438639
/thread

>> No.7438688 [DELETED] 

>>7438684
>Vaginismus

Sounds like what we should rename /cgl/ to.

/vag/ - Vaginismus & Sandy Vaginas

>> No.7438690

>>7438308
>want to cosplay everything
>eyes too sensitive for contacts
I got my prescription and everything too. I just can't but them in my eyes no matter how hard I try. ;_;

>> No.7438703 [DELETED] 

>>7438606
I had a similar situations to yours, except depression, not ADD.

It's probably a combo of stress and BC fucking with your hormones.

When I was on BC, I managed to fuck up my hormones by doing depo first. I switched to nuvaring later and while it helped most of my physical symptoms my sex drive didn't bounce back until a year after I stopped using the ring.

I'm not saying BC isn't right for you, but maybe you need to find the right kind. As for myself, there was no point in BC if I never wanted to have sex, so we just use condoms.

Whatever you do, please don't force it! Make sure you have adequate foreplay beforehand and if you feel aroused mentally but your body hasn't quite caught up, use lube. My hubby is also decently endowed and I accidentally got hurt during sex. Tiny tear or something, developed into scar tissue and then hurt like hell. Doctors at the women's clinic turned out to be useless so I had to have my GP refer me to a specialist and finally after a year of this terrible pain I was able to get treated with some cream.

So probably both TMI and tl;dr but y'know, word of caution and all that.

Anyway, you should probably get the underlying causes of your low sex drive out of the way as a priority, but in the meantime, just kinda try easing yourself back into it. Do something you haven't before (costume? strip? each chocolate sauce off his dick? idk), or just strip and touch each other and see what feels good. Just stay relaxed above everything and if you absolutely want it to happen then but you're still not wet, go slowly and use twice as much lube as you thought you'd need.

>> No.7438729 [DELETED] 

our janitor a cunt with a sandy vagina

>> No.7438731 [DELETED] 

>>7438606
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>>7438688
Holy shit janitory calm down and don't shoot more innocent bystanders, You even deleted a greentext post that wasn't about the trolls shitposting. Damn son, you mad

>> No.7438761
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>be a guy who loves taking pictures of cosplayers
>ask a girl for a picture
>a few hours later after taking pictures of countless other people see her again
>forget that I already asked for her picture
>ask again
>realize I asked her twice for pictures and wonder if she thinks I'm creepy or something
Sorry it wasn't intentional.

>> No.7438764
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7438764

Hey guys.

sometimes I feel like there's no escaping my depression from always being depressed about everyone else being a better cosplayer than me

>> No.7438771

>>7438690
Are you having trouble putting them in or are you saying it uncomfortable to keep them in? If the former, it just takes practice for some people.

I personally never had trouble, but it's always easier when you keep your eye open firmly, and don't stare directly at the contact with the eye your putting it on. To better explain, I'm right handed so I take my left middle finger to pull down my lower lid, and left index finger to pull up upper lid. Then I'd focus on the mirror with the OTHER eye (i.e the eye your not putting the contact on). The point is to look slightly away with the eye you're putting it on.

Anyways, my own complaint about contacts is that I have to wear toric lenses which are incredibly expensive AND come in very limited colors. Even if I has expendable money, I could never be 100% accurate with certain cosplays, woe is me.

>> No.7438773

>>7438591
It kinda pisses me off when kids think they can just go out and buy whatever contacts without any repercussions. It's something you are STICKING IN YOUR EYE. Anything going in there better be medically approved and fitted or lol say bye bye to your vision.

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I love this pattern for a dress but I cannot afford it. Feels bad man.

>> No.7438779 [DELETED] 

>>7438731
>>7438731
WHEN YOU DELETE A MAN, YOU DO NOT SILENCE HIM(because we have archives) BUT ONLY SHOW THE BOARD YOU FEAR WHAT HE MIGHT SAY

>> No.7438790

>>7438771
Pinky Paradise has some torics, have you seen them?

>> No.7438798

>>7438790
Yeah of course, I've seen other sites have some too. But like I said, they're always twice the price of non-toric, and they only come in like....literally 5 colors.......

>> No.7438805

>>7438764
Literally, yes, there is no escape from that feeling. Someone will always be better than you. Suck it up and have fun personally with your hobby or improve yourself to something adequate to your standards.

>> No.7438822 [DELETED] 

>>7438779
hey janitor I bet you are pretty cute

keep deleting my post bby

that is my fetish, cyber femdom

>> No.7438860

>>7438393
Comic books characters aren't janitors smart one.

>> No.7438888

>>7438860
That used to be her tripname, fool.

>> No.7438896

>>7438888
Janitors don't get to pick the boards they do dumbass.

>> No.7439051

>>7438896
They literally do, you stupid fuck. That's the only appeal in being a janitor.

>> No.7439100

I'm so fucking angry right now I could spit, but I can't really say anything or do anything publicly, because I have to maintain some modicum of professionalism. Never mind that the person who is causing my woes is a raging cunt.

If I sink to her level, I'm fucked, but I want so badly to make her suffer right now.

>> No.7439116

>>7439100
Sounds juicy, make a secret.

>> No.7439138
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7439138

>Graduated from uni, nothing to do.
>Decide to start volunteering at the local music theatre company.
>Tell the lady in the costume department that I like sewing and general costuming.
>Hiding my powerlevel.
>Help the props department clear out their workshop/storage area.
>Watch as they fill up a 60-gallon rubbish bag with unwanted fabric.
>Swaths of 2 yards or longer of tulle, spandex, chiffon, brocades, sparkly shit.
>Scrap pieces of fabric that would work well for accents or whatever.
>Me: "Are ....are you throwing *all* of this away??"
>Them: "Yes, anon."
>Me: "Can I-"
>Them: "You can take all that fabric if you want! lol!"
>Waits until the end of my volunteer shift.
>Hauls that 60-gallon rubbish bag of free fabrics out the door.


Of course, I'll still need to put a lot of time into sorting the bag and washing the fabrics, but god damn I have never received a windfall like that.

>> No.7439145

>>7439100
? is this a sale thing?

>> No.7439169
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7439169

/cgl/ related
>friend commissions me to sew some stuff for cosplay
>lies about her measurements, i know the stuff she wants will NOT fit over her boobs if i make them the size she gave me
>hasnt given me any money even though i've gotten the fabric (cost $50) and am already halfway done
>same friend still hasn't paid for her part of a group contact lens order and the lenses are arriving next week

ugggghhhh. we are really close so i know she'll hand over the cash eventually, but still. i want my cash so i can get my own cosplay shit together

>>7439138
fuck yeah, anon! good for you

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>>7439169
and non /cgl/ related
>some guy has giant crush on me
>i don't return his feelings, he understands and keeps hanging out with me and it's super cool etc. even though he hasn't gotten over the crush yet
>for some reason i get super jealous if he shows the slightest bit of interest in anyone else but still don't want to date him because i know we are not compatible partner-wise
>mfw

why this, i don't understand. i obviously don't act upon/show my possessiveness because i'm not a giant asshole but feel like one whenever it bubbles up inside

>> No.7439187 [DELETED] 

>>7439183
>because i'm not a giant asshole
Oh, but you are.

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7439191

Friendly reminder, while our janislut is asleep, she deletes posts that are completely on topic because she can't do her job properly.

She tried to cover it up ITT but she can't be awake all the time.

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>>7439187
please tell me how not to be an asshole so i can change my ways

>> No.7439200 [DELETED] 

>>7439183
You want his dick but you're confused because he doesn't look like the stereotypical Alpha male with a chiseled chest / otter mode [or] stereotypical gook if you have yellow fever. I'd say he's probably one of the fedora donning white nerd types, which you know from the movies, you should find unattractive. However, he looks like your father / reminds you of your father, and he is funny and has a nice personality so you are actually attracted to him - partly because you yourself are barely a fucking 6/10, but we all know that even fugly cunts bitch and moan unless they get Jacob and Edward from Twilight or w/e.

I'd advise you to latch onto his dick and suck it dry. He might not be a 10, or even a 7, but he is obviously a Beta, and a Beta that you did not call a creeper in your post, so you find him tolerable to be around. Seems like the perfect deal / marriage for a 5.5/10 like you. Don't behave like a vapid slut, don't wait for drunk Alphas to accidentally fuck you [or] heal your yellow fever, and grab onto him while you're still young and "attractive" (relatively to how disgusting you'll be the moment you turn 30).

He might even be a provider (can't tell for sure, since he hangs around women like a pussy mangina with a Woman's Studies degree) so the sooner you get into a lasting relationship with him, the better. Also, start looking up baby names for the inevitable offspring that will happen 2-3 years latter. If sooner, you can call him "Happy Little Accident".

That's all I have to say.

TL;DR you may find this offensive, you may call this projecting, but deep down, deep down you know that everything I said is spot on and true.

You can send me a check later.

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>>7439200
thank you based anon, this is great life advice and i'm gonna follow it to the letter. how do you feel about the baby name "beta v 2.0"

>> No.7439220 [DELETED] 

>>7439213
It's a bit disrespectful to the (future) father, but whatever, it's not like he's gonna be anything but a henpecked husband in the relationship anyhow.

If you want to honor the man who brought you two together, my name is Gareth Eugene Gobblecoque. My wife's name (who approves of my advice) is Hilde Konstanze; if the babby turns out to be the inferior gender.

>> No.7439228 [DELETED] 

>>7439213
Might as well call him "Doge Based Epic Meme from Reddit".

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>>7439220
arigatou gozaimasu gareth eugene gobblecoque-sama, we will be sure to make a shrine in your honor and give pocky offerings every month to bring about good fortune from your omniscience

>> No.7439236

>>7439231
the way you type you remind me of that cute girl that used to post on /cgl/ with a tripname but then she ran away after some guy took her virginity and broke her hart

>> No.7439238

>>7439200
>>7439220
I love this guy.

>> No.7439241

>>7438312
>tfw when you try on a new gorgeous brand dress for the first time
>tfw the best feel

>> No.7439242

>That feel when you literally cut off your penis in an accident.

I literally don't think I want to be alive anymore. What reason is there left for me to live?

>> No.7439249

>>7439242
Are you okay now?

>> No.7439250

>>7439249
Why would I be? I'm considering what's the best way to end my life.

>> No.7439275
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7439275

>asked my sister to apartment-sit for me
>the only special things I asked her to do besides basic shit was to walk my dog twice a day, give him his eye meds, and not smoke in my apartment
>come home after a week
>dog shit and piss everywhere, vomit everywhere too because she just ripped open a bag of dog food and left it on the kitchen floor and he ate too much of it
>dog's eyes are so encrusted with muck from not getting his meds he can hardly see
>apartment reeks of smoke
>all my dresses reek because I guess she decided to smoke in my room too
>been crying on and off all day about it

she hasn't answered her phone at all either. fucking shit.

>> No.7439284

>>7439250
Exit bag. Don't be an asshole and leave a huge mess for someone else to clean up.
>>7439275
Murder her.

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>>7439275
Fuck being civilized, GO TO HER HOUSE AND KICK HER REDNECK ASS

>> No.7439304

>been down in the dumps
>moving out soon
>has to finish cosplay in a month, really worried
>found out can't get an artist booth at local con, crushed both me and my friends spirit/motivation
>pulled out of driveway to avoid hitting car, landed in ditch instead

Ugh sucks.

>> No.7439314
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>>7439275

>> No.7439338
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>Everyone loves your costume, gives you attention and takes your picture
>It's because you can carry the look
Ebay costume

>> No.7439341

>>7438667

I-I want you to be my Sempai Anon-chan!

>First year of University, wear casual Lolita, no fucks given
>All I get is weird snobbish stares

Goddamnit, I was always told "No one cares what you wear to Uni, everyone goes crazy in their styles anyway!" Ha, only Jeans and T-shirts wherever I go there. I wouldnt give a fuck about this if all those people wouldnt stare so much at me. Yes, I wear a frilly dress. Yes, I put more effort than just putting on Yoga pants in the morning. Yes, you can now stop staring and talking to your friends about the flower in my hair. Fuck, and we even have Japanese as a big subject here (even though I do not study it, I am in the same building), I thought I would meet some Lolitas (especially since our city has a big connection with Japan and many Japanese people too). Nope, only weaboos or manchildrend.

>> No.7439347

>>7439341
Don't wear costumes in public and expect people not to take notice of it. You aren't being discriminated against, stop acting like it.

You'd also look twice if a guy walked down the hallway wearing a fursuit, a victorian dress or any other kind of attention drawing wear.

>> No.7439359

>Assuming Lolita is a costime
>comparing it to fursuits
>"Victorian dresses"
>not understanding the point of this post

3/10 but you got me to respond

>> No.7439379

>>7439359
>Can't come up with a rationale for her own position
H-hehe.. Nice t-troll 3/10.

Make a public spectacle, get noticed. Nobody is out to get you. Your clothes aren't there for yourself to see, they're there for other people to see. (how outrageous to say that straight out, implying that your clothes aren't your soul and personality). If you don't want to get noticed, don't dress up like that.

You have no right to be upset over shit like that. Especially when you're guilty of the exact same thing and more in your sour posts here; talking shit about people who don't do and wear the same as you.
>"Yes, I put more effort than just putting on Yoga pants in the morning."

>> No.7439393

Did you even read my post? I dont give a fuck if you wear a fursuit or yoga pants or a trash bag, just stop assuming everyone who doesnt wear the same is a superficial bitch (as most people think, as far as I interacted with them). I dont mind if someone looks at me, but most people tend to get pretty rude - you know, theres a line between "looking at something" and "being rude because sou stare at someone for 10 minutes straight"

>the rest of your post
Please, get back to your own board, wherever you are from, you are just annoying.

>> No.7439395

>>7439359
I like lolita and agree that it's not a costume, but I'd have to agree with anon. It's attention-grabbing. Your skirt has a large circumference and will knock off anything within two feet. You can't honestly say that you won't attract stares.

>> No.7439405

As someone who wears lolita every day, I agree anon, when you wear anything other than jeans and a tshirt you should expect to be stared at and talked about. It isnt't a costume and we don't deserve to be harassed verbally or physically, but you can't expect people to not stare or whisper.

>> No.7439409

>>7439341
If you can't handle being looked/stared at, lolita is not the fashion for you.

>> No.7439422

>Never been to a con before
>Was going to go Otakon last year but decided not to
>Want to go this year but want to cosplay as well
>Might go as Akihito Kanabara from Kyoukai no Kanata (his youmu half)
>gf who has no interest stuff like anime/manga says she'd consider going as Mirai Kuriyama (she'd want to watch the show first though)
>tfw it's possibly happening

>> No.7439428
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7439428

I don't have a lot of acne, but I still have acne. It's really mild and only appears in certain spots as tiny pimples, but FUCK ME does it piss me off when people tell me my skin is "fine, what are you talking about?"
I posted on a skincare forum to ask what to do regarding that and got my ear chewed off because "this forum is for people with acne! you have good skin, stop overreacting! You're just looking for attention!"
IT DOESN'T MEAN THEY DON'T EXIST JUST BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT EXTREMELY VISIBLE YOU SALTY BITCH. I have a right to not want them on my face.

>> No.7439438

>>7439428
Stop being a permavirgin and start having sex. That's literally the solution - regular sex.

>> No.7439442

>>7439438
...What?

>> No.7439444

>>7439169
Can't you just eye her real measurements and just say that you did the measurements she gave? Or will the retarded bitch go back and measure them if she suspects you altered it?

People like that are so damned ridiculous. Know what? Alter it, and then if she gives you shit tell her to try it on.

>> No.7439450

>>7439442
If you had sex every week you wouldn't have acne. Or at least every month. Or at least not zero to once per year.

>> No.7439453 [DELETED] 

>>7439191
Who is this "janislut"? Some popular girl here?

>> No.7439454
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7439454

>>7439438

>> No.7439456 [DELETED] 

>>7439454
Knew it, you are a virgin neckberd after all.>>7439455 Another virgin spotted!

>> No.7439455

>>7439428
Lol, I have the same issues with a slightly different problem:
>mom has cystic acne
>holes everywhere in her face
>I start breaking out bad when I'm 12 but don't get her full blown cysts
>have to resort to a layer of foundation everyday just to look normal
>mom not once ever took me to a dermatologist
>"You don't need it, anon."

>be present
>still wearing my layer of makeup everyday
>the derm that I took myself to at 21 tried putting me on antibiotics for over a year which did jack all
>stop taking them because they hurt my stomach; topical creams now
>hasn't been a single day in my life since childhood where I haven't had some sort of zit >that's despite giving my skincare so much attention
>but EVERYONE thinks I have such ~*~super~*~ skin because of my makeup
>"Anon you don't have acne, you've always had nice skin."
>YEAH TARDS, BECAUSE YOU'VE NEVER SEEN ME WITHOUT MAKEUP
Oh and then of course:
>don't wear makeup
>Anon, are you sick/tired? You look awful :^(

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>>7439456
Even though my post about my skin has nothing to do with sex at all...................?

You sperglords are so out of control with your shitposting.
Is the janitor actually banning your asses, or are you just ban evading? Seriously, nobody cares.

>> No.7439467 [DELETED] 

>>7439459
a) Calm your neckbeard, misogynerd.
b) The janitor cannot ban people, janitors can only delete posts and temporarily block (15 minutes) before their ban request is denied by a moderator (happens a lot on /cgl/ because our janitor is a barely 18 ugly horse faced cunt who used to trip on here).
c) Acne on your skin ----------------------- directly related to ---------------------- how much sex you have and how regular.

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>> No.7439469 [DELETED] 

>>7439467
>happens a lot on /cgl/ because our janitor is a barely 18 ugly horse faced cunt who used to trip on here
I figured it was some ugly girl, but thanks for confirming. Moot needs to get someone new, and a mod would be nice.

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>>7439467
Reminder that every time you post her face, some guy responds saying "omg ur so pathetic! ur so vendetta! u laways use the same pitkur!" and they will claim she is the prettiest girl of /cgl/.

>> No.7439478 [DELETED] 

Someone's on the rag this week, and it shows.

>> No.7439479 [DELETED] 

>>7439474
Is that her?

>> No.7439482
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7439482

Well, time to stop browsing /cgl/ if shit is going to be this way. Hopefully when I check back in a few days things will be back to normal.

Thanks for ruining shit, I'm sure you feel accomplished.
>feels annoyed man

>> No.7439501

>>7439482
It's spring break.

>>7439455
Wanna take this to the skincare thread, anon? These aspies are getting out of control.

>> No.7439506 [DELETED] 

>>7439474
Pretty sure this is what Americans would consider a 9/10 at least.

>> No.7439554

>>7439236
>yfw that "cute girl" was one of the shitposters who just got banned

>> No.7439557

>talking to a bro about anime cons
>ask him if he wants to attend one with me
>show him some cosplayer pictures
>he says he wants to rape them and cum all over their cosplay
I might take him to the next con I go.

>> No.7439560
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7439560

>lolita at uni
>tfw meeting other lolitas from my uni at bigger events
>tfw my friend tells me that people in his classes call me "princess girl"
>tfw bf actually likes it and wants to help me pick out pieces
>tfw friends are picking up on loli slang, one asked me "ARE YOU ANGRY ABOUT JSK" the other day when I was drooling over Sweetie Violet and I almost pissed myself laughing

Everything's going so well! It's really giving me the motivation to lose my winter weight (7 pounds, eugh)

>> No.7439571

>>7439138
shit, you lucked out, anon.

>>7439275
that utter piece of shit, I'd kick her ass and make her pay for extra vet bills and a maid visit to clean the smell of smoke out of your apartment.

current feels:

>really excited to tackle new challenges and cosplays that require more difficult sewing
>too scared I'll fuck it up hardcore to even start working on muslin mockups

>prelims/qualifying exams/comprehensives/whatever you want to call it coming up
>can't spend large amounts of time on cosplay
>other than the difficult projects, I'm more motivated to work on shit than I've been in a while
>also, constant stress/anxiety is fucking up my skin and making me feel ill

>> No.7439572

>>7439341
Sadly I am graduating, so my sempai status will be gone pretty soon. However I agree with >>7439395 and >>7439405 that stares are unavoidable. I think this was why I didn't wear it as often before - because I thought people would judge me or not take me seriously (at least when I am dressed up by myself). Now that I know the people in my department really well and find that they are pretty accepting, it's much easier to dress up on a regular basis.

>> No.7439574

>>7439242
How did this happen?

>> No.7439597

>be me
>trying to lose weight

>father brings home 20 bags of my favourite chips because they were on sale
>oh god why

I am cracing junk food so hard, I need to stay strong. I have been sitting in my room all day despite the beautiful weather outside beacuse I know once I go downstairs I will inhale any available junkfood and then feel gross and bad because all my efforts where for nothing.
Daaaaamn

>> No.7439599

>browsing /cgl/ while in class
>supposed to be paying attention
>grades slowly dropping
>cant bring self to stop
>anxious because i cant stop
>drowns that feel in more /cgl/
>repeat

>> No.7439603

>>7439599


Maybe try to turn your phone off or leave it at home?

>> No.7439613

> Have been making my own costumes for a few years now
> Bought a costume online this time because I wanted to cosplay a certain character but was afraid to fuck it up.
> Costume arrives, will need some alterations but overall a decent looking cosplay,
> Probably couldn't have done it better myself
> Still feel cheap as fuck because I know I took the lazy way out

Never ordering a costume again. It's just not the same as putting hard work in a costume and getting that sense of pride when people admire something you made with your own hands.

>> No.7439615

>Going to make a coat
>Haven't sewn since 7th grade
>howdoipattern.jpg
>the first pieces turns out pretty ok
D-do I dare continue on this endeavor?

>> No.7439627

>debating on using social security money benefits to buy lolita
>guilt

>> No.7439649

>>7439599
How is /cgl/ even busy enough to post in class? This board is very slow-moving.

>> No.7439694

>buy a dress I've had my eye on for awhile
>am excited
>the sale is for the dress in the smaller of two sizes, look it up to be safe and happily realize I'll manage to fit it
>pay for it, it is shipped
>look it up online to see some worn pics
>find a post on egl talking about the sizing
>"hey gaiz did you notice that this dress fits like 8cm smaller than the listed sizes???"
>fack
>dress arrives
>tries to zip up, please please please
>won't zip fully FACK

Well I am losing weight, so hopefully I'll fit in it eventually. Gonna try to bind my chest too, since my bust is the issue. Lesson learned, do research on proper sizing first...

>> No.7439703

>tfw you took aderall today to make sure your cosplay gets finished in time

>> No.7439722
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7439722

Found one of my dream dresses today. It will be here next week. So excited.

>> No.7439731
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7439731

>need help with akamoji and vintage coords
>can't post on /fa/ because there's like one woman who knows jack shit about it and the rest is fuccbois and goofninjas
>if I posted on /cgl/ I'd get shit on and/or banned

>> No.7439740

>>7439731
>akamoji
>japanese fashion
>jfash allowed on cgl
you're in good company here

>> No.7439742

>>7439740
Yeah, but akamoji as in office lady fashion which is pretty much "stylish older lady" and not "japanese fashion" enough. Also vintage coords which are western fashion, so it'd probably get baleeted. :(

>> No.7439743

>>7439722
are you the anon that wanted to get married in that dress?

>> No.7439744

>>7439703
Oh god, good luck, anon. It'll make you super focused, but try not to get focused on the wrong things. The only time I've taken Adderall, it was to finish my thesis in university, and I wound up spending ninety minutes obsessing over getting the brackets around my data perfectly aligned.

>> No.7439746
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7439746

>>7439742
google is giving me this as an example, idk you could get away with it

>> No.7439747

>want to work on skin tight white costume
>need to try on for adjustments
>period + bloating
>nope

>> No.7439760

>>7439744
Thanks! It's been working okay so far, thankfully. I'm mostly heating up worbla and scrolling through tumblr just a bit while it cools down so I can sculpt it. The background music I've got is keeping me focused pretty well.

>> No.7439783

>>7439743
Nope, not that anon.

>> No.7439790
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>>7439597
You can do this anon!!

>> No.7439803

>>7439746
Cute, but looks like avarage fashion on japanese people to me.

>> No.7439827

>>7439803
Well yeah, there's the trouble.
Where should I make the thread?
Would anyone be interested in a vintage/normalfag/OL general?

>> No.7439841

>>7439613

Right with you Anon.
I bought a uniform from ebay because it was a uniform and we all needed to look alike.

It was good, nice and lined. I tailored it to fit properly, changed out the buttons and put proper betloops and cuffs on it.

Felt totally weird and cheap cause I bought it. Still though, we had a good looking group. But I wouldn't do it again unless it's a uniform that needs to look like everyone else.
I much prefer making my own stuff. I just feel nothing when I get a compliment on something I didn't make.
I don't know how people who just buy deal with it.

>> No.7439846

>>7439827
maybe call it the 'going incognito - normalfag fashion edition' thread or something the mods would just glance over

>> No.7439850
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7439850

>tfw I just blew my entire day browsing the internet window shopping for shit I won't actually purchase
>browsed cosplay outfits
>browsed shoes for lolita
>browsed tights for lolita
>browsed AP
>went to /lit/ and collected a $200 book order from browsing
>get bored of all that then come back to /cgl/
Holy fucksticks I have no life right now. And the worst part is it's not like I don't have a lot of shit I could be doing, but it's like I'm avoiding it.

>> No.7439860
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7439860

> tfw I see new ugly indie brand jewelry
> grosgrain ribbon
> gross looking chains
> ugly glass pearls

>> No.7439870

>>7439850

Yeah, you pretty much described my life.
>semester break for almost 2 month
>havent done shit
>not even once
>spend almost all my money
>still constantly browse sale pages for stuff I wont buy

I avoid sales sites now since knowing myself I know I would buy shit and end up regretting it since I need to keep my money together to buy shit I actually need. Well, "need" as in "I bought so many dresses and have nothing to coord with so they end up not being worn".

Still havent done shit for Uni, my room is a mess, and I spend all days I am not working on the internet...

>> No.7439886

>tfw my cosplay arrived today
>gonna attend a con next weekend and pick a qt with low self esteem I can abuse

>> No.7439894
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7439894

>Attends a Facebook-organised cosplay gathering.
>Over 500 people there, ~30 photographers with rigs or fancy cameras.
>Wearing a cosplay that took four days' worth of work and is my most complicated construction yet.
>Gets asked for a couple of pictures.
>The next couple days, photo albums start getting posted on the Facebook event page, interspersed with cosplayer comments ("I was ____; if you got any pictures, please send them to me!").
>Compile all the albums into one regularly-updating masterpost so nobody has to play scavenger hunt every time they want to find albums.
>Check all the albums as I link them, of course.
>Not a single picture of me.
>Not sure if this because was too timid to approach more photographers to ask them to take my picture
>or if because really non-photogenic.
>tfw

>> No.7439927

>>7439894
You're just ugly.

Pretty girls get approached and everyone wants their pics.

>> No.7439934

>>7439894
Could be worse anon.
>have a dozen pictures
>you objectively look like shit in each one
>photographer doesn't bother to touch them up
>your embarrassing double chin and mouth-half open pictures are put on public display on fb for all to see
I've tried politely asking photographers to take down mega unflattering photos of me before, but OH MY GOD, their butthurt! They take it as an insult to their photography instead of just understanding it's not an attractive photo.

>> No.7439938

>>7439894
You were just too shy, probably. The other people probably got 3x as many pictures. Was your body language closed off? That may have detered people from approaching you.

>> No.7440023

>>7438761
Yes I'd think you're creepy.

>> No.7440066
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>Boyfriend wants to cosplay persona 3 characters
>Agree because I love the series and I love my boyfriend
>Stressed out because I really don't match the character's body type. Character is thin with little/no breasts. I'm fat with big tits.
>Start up daily running again. Diet. Etc.
>Looking into corsets/shapewear/binder because there's no way I'm going to reach the body type I want in time.
>mfw i'm going to be investing 150$+ more into this costume than my boyfriend is on his

>> No.7440078

>>7438773
when I see people who seem to have no idea how to take care of contacts or check for damages I just want to scream. Especially when they go 'lol my eyes are burning but that's okay because I look kawaii"

>> No.7440090

>>7439894
Pretty sure I know what gathering you're talking about, but in any case, you just need to be more open. A lot of the photographers there are really friendly, and the more you talk to them, the more likely they'll come up to YOU in future gatherings. Most of them are busy the whole entire gathering, and they'll prioritize people they already know. I don't even mean that you have to be close friends, just "oh I recognize you" level. No one's discriminating against you especially if you're cosplay is well put together, but everyone prefers to go up to people that they know they can work with.

>> No.7440142

>>7440066

are you doing chidori? because good luck on her dress man

>> No.7440235

>>7439615
Go for it.

>> No.7440282

>>7438761
I wouldn't think its creepy if your manner was just casual and friendly both times and you were photographing loads of people. Even if she did at the time, when you post lots of pix in a good mix, she'll see you aren't.

>> No.7440292

>>7440142
she said big tits. Chidori has a huge rack.

>> No.7440316

>>7439599
>>7439649
This, how is it even interesting enough to take much attention? Pull your head out Anon, stop and turn it around before you can't repair the damage. Binge on a reading session once a day with a time limit.
Or are you hiding from a bigger problem, maybe....?

>> No.7440331

>>7439627
How do you have enough left over from your benefits to be buying it in the first place?

>> No.7440445

>>7439284
>>7439314
I wish I could murder her.
she texted back last night and said it was fine because I do the same shit. yeah, I left food out for my fucking cat, not a dog. and I quit smoking last year and always kept it outside.

>>7439291
>>7439571
that's kind of the thing, she can't pay and she doesn't really have a home. I tried to work it out with her so if she did well alone for that one week, I'd let her move in with me until she found a job or while she went to NA. she doesn't have money to pay to clean up the mess. I know she's just a messed up person. my brother is gonna help pay for damages while we find her.
I wish I knew how to fix my dresses. I'm really nervous that a dry-cleaning place will fuck them up even worse.

>> No.7440492

>>7439927
Only good response.

>> No.7440554

There is a cosplayer that hates me to the point that she's told people that she wants to 'start shit' the next time she sees me. I'm almost afraid to go to my next convention or see mutual friends because she might try and hurt me.

>> No.7440562

I'm a total doormat.

>> No.7440576

>>7440554
There's a cosplayer in my local comm that's threatened me before. Find witnesses, gather evidence, and go to con ops/security if you even suspect in the slightest at your next con that she's going to attempt something. I've seen my harasser once since she threatened me, she knows I have screencaps and witnesses and she didn't do a thing she said she would. Trust me.

>> No.7440595

I feel really insecure. I keep having this nightmare about a creeper from 4chan coming to my house. He has a shotgun and he uses it to blow my boyfriend's head off right in front of me. He then does the same to my parents and my entire family basically.

>> No.7440601

>>7438761
If it was me, I'd probably also forget that you'd already gotten my picture! I have the worst memory sometimes haha

>> No.7440623

>>7440576
From my understanding it's all said in private, either person to person or private twitter accounts. No one I know is willing to come forward with me because it's not their problem...

>> No.7440630

I just moved to a new city and have failed to connect with anyone at the past few cons I've gone to in attempt to make friends. I just want local cute cosplay friends with decent crafting skills who aren't total weebs/sperglords to hang out with at bars or movie nights and stuff. Apparently, I ask too much.

>> No.7440671

I feel useless, worthless, and if I talk about it I'll feel guilty for complaining.

>> No.7440675

>>7439599
try Adderall, take more interesting classes, sit where people can see your screen. all that shit helps me stay off 4chan at school

>> No.7440689

>>7439731
do you have a blog where you post coords or something? I'd be interested to see how someone wears both styles.

>> No.7440697

>>7440689
Nah, baleeted because I had like 5 followers and all were rampant sjw 'curvy' wimminz. But I'll post photos when I get a full-length mirror in a few days, if that's ok.

>> No.7440706

>>7439627
I know this feel. My life was totally wrecked by a psychotic break and I've been stressed enough to want to buy loli, but I don't want to be a total fuckface and live luxury on gov. money.

>>7440331
Living in a cheap area and careful money management.

>> No.7440736

I love the feel of having supporting parents.

>mom sewed my newest cosplay
>we bonded as I kept trying it on and making improvements
>stepdads cool because I know it's a silly thing to be doing but also fun, he recognizes the joking self-deprecation and wants to make sure I get tons of pictures
>today, can't find my balaclava (wear under helmet) two days before con
>dad spends 30 minutes trying to help me find it because I need it for "that costume thing"

:')

>> No.7440738

>having a shit last semester of uni, get super depressed
>isolate myself over spring break, hardly talk to boyfriend
>boyfriend says we should talk on last day of break
>feel awful about neglecting him, think he's probably upset with me
> tells me he no longer loves me, is still in love with his ex
>mfw this was not what i was expecting

it totally caught me off guard, and i've felt like complete shit for the last week. i constantly feel like i'm on the verge of a panic attack, and my life feels even more pointless than it did before.
no matter what he says, i can't help but feel like this wouldn't have happened if i hadn't been such an idiot.

>> No.7440740

>>7440697
i-i'll follow you anon-chan.

>> No.7440742

>tfw way cuter as a crossplaying guy than as a girl
>have a wide pelvis
>and I like female characters/female character designs way better

>> No.7440802

> Con in two days
> Has one last piece to create, only has tonight and asscrack of dawn to do it tomorrow
> Involves using heat n bond
> Comes home from school
> Parents went to sleep... WITH the iron and ironing board in their room.

Jesus shit they NEVER WANT THE DAMN THING until I have to finish a fucking cosplay, swear to god.

I'm so frustrated right now all I want is to put this decal on a bow, and then sew it up is that so hard parents. Why couldn't you put the iron away?!

>> No.7440806

>>7440595
It is probably a premonition. Some /r9k/ neckbeard form /k/ and /a/ is going to kill your family and rape you.

>> No.7440850

>>7440736
shit nigga das kawaii

>> No.7440858

>>7439627
>>7440706
I don't know whether this is just a couple of trolling comments taunting people who work to afford their brand or not. Even if not, it's a bit pathetic. Living on benefits isn't exactly the time to treat yourself to luxuries, IMO but to each their own, I guess.

>> No.7440877

>>7440445
Fabreeze the FUCK out of them.

Like, lay them flat on your bed or whatever, spray them thoroughly damp, and just let them sit until dry. Flip over and repeat. Turn inside out and repeat. Make sure you get under any layers in the skirts.

>> No.7440895

>>7440877
Why would you do this? Wouldn't it just make the dresses smell like febreeze? Just leave it to the dry cleaners, OP. They've probably dealt with this cig smoke shit before.

>> No.7440899

>>7440877

No god no. They'll smell disgusting. My friend did that to her room when she spilled sour milk all over the floor. The ensuing smell that mixed was horrendous.

>> No.7440909

>>7439694
This happened to me with Midsummer Night
>A&tP measurements list bust at 90cm
>My bust is 85-86cm, I fit into other A&tP pieces listed at 90cm, I should be fine!
>Get dress, won't zip up all the way
>God fucking damn it

>> No.7440938

>stressed and put out after a long day
>there's a package waiting at home
>inside is what I bought
>*feels*
>and a really sweet letter or extra from fellow Loli
>*feels intensify*

It never gets old. Thank you kind Lolitas!

>> No.7440993

>>7439347
>costume
gr8 b8 m8

>> No.7441006

>have a boyfriend from /a/
>he doesn't like cons so I go there alone
>cheat on him with /fit/ guys in shirtless cosplays every time
>last time I let a muscular guy fuck me while I was cosplaying as my boyfriend's anime waifu (that puke-chan girl or w/e)

Sometimes it makes me feel bad. Sometimes it doesn't.

>> No.7441010

>>7438761
This actually happened to me and I'll admit I did find it kind of creepy.

>> No.7441012

>>7439455
>have shit ton alot acne since I was a kid too
>mom always compared my skin to people in magazines
>has no idea foundation existed
>feel like shit 24/7
>compared self to other girls who had "flawless" skin (shit ton of foundation and concealer, little anon just thought they had perfect skin because Jesus loved them or some shit)
>become sophomore
>discover make-up
>wear it to cover the acne
>feel wonderful
>"ANON YOUR SKIN IS FINE DON'T WEAR MAKE-UP. MAKE UP IS FOR SLUTS" from mom when I'm 19
>tfw I look like a Dalmatian withit my make-up
shiggy diggy doo

>> No.7441030

>>7439860
What are you talking about? All 3 of those things are commonly used in Baby items and there's nothing wrong with grosgrain/glass pearls.

>> No.7441031

>>7441006
>not knowing who madotsuki is

That's almost as bad as the fact that you're a dirty slut.

>> No.7441036

>>7440858
I get so much money from it that I don't need half of it after paying bills/living expenses, so I save some of it and spend the rest on lolita. I'm a student and I won't be on benefits for long anyway. What's so wrong about that?

>> No.7441055

>>7441036
Taxpayers pay your benefits by working. Benefits are for people in need to get on their feet again not to fund student's luxury hobbies. Yuk. No respect for you abusing a handout the rest of us pay for. /done

>> No.7441063

>>7441036
Yeah, pretty much what >>7441055 said.

I'm a student too, and guess what?

I work for my money. And yours, apparently.

And it's really frustrating to hear that MY hard-worked money is being used to pay for your lolita, when I can't even afford it myself, because I have to pay bills and refuse to live off of other peoples' money when I'm perfectly capable of working for myself.

>> No.7441064

>>7441031
I hate to break it to you but pretty much every /cgl/ girl cosplayed at least once a character she didn't give a fuck about / didn't know. The vast majority of the girls do it all the time (especially the popular "cute" ones who often post under a trip here).

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>>7439860
Butbutbut...it's elegant...it's geeky...it's apparently elegantly geeky.
And Oh So Rori.

Just no.

>> No.7441073

>>7441055
>>7441063
I'm pretty sure that if you had an extra couple of hundred dollars left over every fortnight from a scholarship allowance you'd spend it on other things. My cost of living is not so high that I need all of the money I get for being a student. I think it's weird that I get so much, but I'm not lying or abusing the system.

>> No.7441076

>>7441055
If she is illegible for a certain amount of money and if her country give her that money, it's not a problem, she does whatever she wants with it. In my country every student can have a partial refund on the room/appartement they rent calculated on their parents money, so I have 120€ extra each months to spend in lolita. Government give us this money for us to build projects on long terms, I keep a few euros for travel and such in a second account and my extra goes to Lolita at the end of the month. If she have this money and manage it correctly, she can do what she want.

>> No.7441078

>>7441073
Are they student loans, or social security benefits?

If it's student loans (or "grants" as the government likes to call them) you have to pay alllll of that back.

Plus interest.

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>>7441063
lol are you seriously mad about one person using tax money in a way you don't like and it's not even a war or government policy? you're mad they're getting cute clothes instead of being mad about your tax money being used to bomb people in other countries? i guess your money is just so important you should have a say in whatever it goes to, huh?

>> No.7441084

>>7441079
Leeches like you is why there shouldn't be any social security.

Remember, you worthless shit, not only are you leeching off white men & asian men of your country, you are also the reason why third worlders have to do slave work for virtually no money at all.

>> No.7441086

>>7441079
I think it's less misplaced patriotism and more "omg, MY hard-earned 0.0001 cents are going towards this person's lolita!!!"

all the rage that people have towards others possibly misusing theirt ax money comes from a staggering inability to do math imo, otherwise they would notice how much more of it the govt was wasting on bureaucratic bs

>> No.7441088

>>7441078
>If it's student loans (or "grants" as the government likes to call them) you have to pay alllll of that back.
You can always get your future husband to pay for you.

>> No.7441090

>>7441079
Well, sort of.

But, just because I'm pissed that someone is abusing my money doesn't mean I'm ONLY pissed that that one person is abusing my money. She's just the subject matter right now.

If I didn't have to pay taxes for shit like that, I'd make ~$2000 more per year. That'd be enough for me to actually live on my own, and support myself completely and entirely.

Then again, I guess that is more a matter of the shitty minimum wage rather than taxes, because they'd find something to use the money for no matter what.

I'd just prefer it went to people who actually need it, people who can't feed their families on what they have, instead of someone who's going to use it to buy expensive dresses, or any other stupid frivolous shit like that.

>> No.7441091

>>7441078
Neither, I'm Australian. I get money from Centrelink (the government) that I don't ever have to pay back, but you can only get an amount this high while you're studying full time.

I will have a debt with the university after I graduate from my 4 year course of about $30K, but I won't have to start paying that until I earn over $35K (approx) annually. I a long time to pay that off but I hope to get rid of it within 5 years or so of graduating if possible. When I graduate I will earn about $65-70K once I find a full time job.

>> No.7441092

>>7441084
So what? Men are fucking patriarchal scum. They deserve to pay for my dress.

>> No.7441096

>>7441090
Maybe if you ever want to calm yourse,f sit down for two minutes with a calculator and an infographic and figure out how many hundreds of that $2k is going to bureaucratic/defense bullshit, versus what small handful of cents are going to the entire student loans program, and then for fun, how many millionths of a cent are being used by people for clothes or hobbies rather than school.

Then think about how long you spend complaining in day-to-day life about one versus another.

>> No.7441097

>>7441090
>If I didn't have to pay taxes for shit like that, I'd make ~$2000 more per year.

Taxes don't just go towards other people's benefit payments, they help you too. Without taxes there wouldn't be any public services/health assistance.

I also work when I can find someone who wants to hire me (it can be difficult for someone over 18 who can't work full-time hours) and I saved up about $5000 that I spent my most recent stuff on. I don't like having to rely on the government and I don't abuse the system. They decided that I should get x amount. At least I save as much as I spend.

>> No.7441101

>>7441096
>just because I'm pissed that someone is abusing my money doesn't mean I'm ONLY pissed that that one person is abusing my money


AKA, I'm also (more) pissed that the government wastes my money on stupid shit.

I also generally don't discuss or even bring the subject(s) up, because thinking about it makes me kind of sad. So I spend a very small amount of time complaining about it :)

It just happened to come up right here in this thread.

Actually, I don't recall ever talking about it before now. Just my own private thoughts previously, which don't really waste time considering I think to myself while I'm doing other things. Like typing this message.

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7441117

It's ok poorfag anons, my honey buys me whatever I want and what he wants to see me in and he also pays his taxes so you get those benefits handed to you because you are basically down at the worthless end of anything that matters, no matter how you are dresses.
Pearls on piglets, my dears.
Enjoy your charity dresses, little moochers...

>> No.7441125

>>7441117
I hope you enjoy sucking a fat old man's cock.

>> No.7441133

>>7441125
Haha, he's a really sexy young exec, actually. Snappy dresser too. I'm a lucky princess!

>> No.7441140

>>7441133
You sound...40? Or you remind me of a specific kind of sadness you feel when an adult talks like this? Not that you've made a bad investment, I'm sure this works for you, but as a person. Like a sadness that you may exist as a person and talk like this with sincerity

>> No.7441146

>>7440877
thank you for the suggestion, but that sounds very damaging.

>>7440895
>>7440899
I'll give the drycleaner's a chance with just a few dresses, and if it goes well, I'll take the rest. still pissed that I even have to. thanks y'all.

>> No.7441151

>>7441140
Nope, I was just amused. Nice try though. There are always going to be those people who live off others' handouts, it's just futile to be mad over it. I just don't think very highly of them, that's all. I do not begrudge benefits to people who need them.

>> No.7441179

Sold a dress instantly on lacemarket. Not even 5 minutes later. Couldve probably gotten more from it. I mean it was NWOT and i sold it for what i paid.. but it bothered me that it was literally less then 5 minutes later.

>> No.7441196

>>7441179
I think that's a really good thing, actually. Quick, easy, completely compensated.

>> No.7441206

>>7440858
>>7441084
I think it's patently unfair to say everyone who is on benefits is lazy. Some are legitimately disabled and need the income to stay afloat until they get their lives in order. This is the actual purpose of social security and the reason it's a system to begin with.

I worked for years in a position saving people's lives before the stress cracked me in half. Now I spend what I have as cautiously as possible, pay forward as much as I can to people I trust, and save a bit after that.

>> No.7441210

>>7441206
I don't know of anyone who is upset if people need benefits. That's what they are there for. But if people are on benefits and buying luxury goods in the form of spendy fashion then that's pretty much thought of as misuse by many people.

>> No.7441211

>>7440445
Try showering withe them in the same room so the steam lifts the smell.. but dont try if the print may run.

>> No.7441254

>>7438445
Wow, she sounds bitchy. Sorry to hear that, anon.

>> No.7441305

>>7441133
L
E
L

A young guy who makes the money would
NEVER
EVER
pick a fucking bitch who's into ageplay and dresses in tacky clothes that look good maybe to 5 year old girls.

Reminder that lolitas are literally the scum / the bottom that most men would not date unless they have to, or unless they're old men / pedos who want to use their retarded dressing-up fetish to further their own old-deviant-man dreams.

>> No.7441344

>>7441305
>>7441133
>>7441125
>>7441117
trolls that are too dumb to realize that they're replying to other trolls. brilliant.

>> No.7441359

>>7441344
Thats cgl in a nutshell.

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>haven't managed to make a female friend since going to College
>have a big group of male friends
>dress cute, but slacking this semester
>take glasses off one day when I have time to dress nicely
>"You look tired anon"
>"You look so weird without glasses anon"
>"Yeah your eyes are small anon"-some girl

I mean I've gotten more confident over the past year, but this got to me a bit.

>> No.7441394

>>7441362
Go to the gym and start lifting, misogynerd.

>> No.7441397

>>7441394

For some reason I think this is a female or a really gay male. Idk man, maybe it's
>dress cute, but slacking this semester
>take glasses off one day when I have time to dress nicely
>"You look tired anon"
>"You look so weird without glasses anon"
>"Yeah your eyes are small anon"-some girl

Yeah. Either female or gay as fuck.

>> No.7441400

>Doing a make up test for character
>Gouged out eye with blood and everything
>Doorbell rings
>Only one at home
>Open door
>It be the postman
>sign for package
>close door
>cry.

>> No.7441409

>>7441400
no way, you gotta take advantage of that shit. "i think i got something in my eye, do you see anything?"

>> No.7441419
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7441419

>Lacemarket
"oh, tall girl friendly search option!"
>barely any of them are actually tall girl friendly

what is their definition of tall, being taller than 5'5"?

I'm talking about 5'8 and taller.
learn to properly tag your shit, shorties

>> No.7441420

>>7441397
It's the new generetaion of beta males, raised on feminism from elementary school, single moms and liking MLP.

>> No.7441454

>be obese
>lose weight
>face still stays fat
>still have double chin and moonface despite body limbs being significantly thinner
Fucking kill me. That's the only solution.

>> No.7441477

> first Lacemarket listing
> sells right before bedtime
> spaghetti everywhere
> message to confirm this morning

do they get an email saying they have a message? ugh.

>> No.7441480

>>7441477
yep

>> No.7441491

>>7441454
Swim close to the shore.

>> No.7441528

So, I'm working on a Howl cosplay. I'm super excited about this, waiting on a few medical bills before I go shopping so I can buy quality fabric, etc. I'm even starting a diet 6 months in advance so I can not only reach my target before the con, but have time to maintain and make sure the clothes fit well. Super excited. My girlfriend is also going! As Sophie. And she's a bit rounder than the young character. But she would be a great old Sophie. Wonderful body shape for it. I don't want to pressure her into it, but I really want her to do the old version of the character. Otherwise it will be Howl and fat Sophie, and I really want my first cosplay to be perfect, and it just bothers me that it might not be.

>> No.7441549

Hoo man these things...

>Want to go to a local large con with wife
>have to go with wife or people assume im either security or a fucking mercenary cosplay due my damaged eye which keeps it in a constant glare
>Wife comes with and im enjoying myself because lots of well dressed lolitas and very well done cosplays
>Wife says she wants to grab a drink and says to stay put
>yesdear.jpg
>Standing there just watching people
>suddenly im extremely self aware
>Oh god im glaring at people
>Am i standing too aggressively?
>Those People are looking at me
>Oh shit theyre making more people look at me
>Now theres almost 20 people standing there giving me worried glances
>Trembling with so much social anxiety that im turning red
>they are now staring straight at me
>finally burst out a "WHAT?"
>I can see the words hit them and they look away and just start walking away in all seperate directions
>Wife finally comes back with drinks
>Finds me huddled up with some GUP cosplayers and a goth lolita

I need to get scar reduction surgery... maybe not shaving my head....

>> No.7441644

>>7441549
That's some psycho shit.

>> No.7441650

>>7441644
Severe anxiety will do that to you. Need to get one of those dogs..

>> No.7441746

>>7441528
Why don't you encourage her to diet with you? Then you both win.

>> No.7441774

>>7441549
Do you mind if I ask what happened to your eye?

I agree; a therapy dog might be good for you. I have a veteran friend with PTSD who gets pretty stressed with crowds and I'm thinking she could use one, too.

>> No.7441799

>>7441774
Smashed the side of my face on multiple surfaces during training and avoiding incoming fire. I look like i took shrapnel but i actually just fell in some concertina wire. I keep gettinf unapproved for one because "i am unfavorable for the resource"

>> No.7441805

I feel like I want to destroy something beautiful... (or should I say someone?)

>> No.7441815

>live in the middle of nowhere
>very quiet/introverted, haven't made contact with most friends in the last 3 years
>want to start going to conventions close to the area, or one of the big industry-associated events like TCAF
>feel somewhat uncomfortable about traveling out of state or country by myself
>not sure if I should just go for it or find someone who would be willing to travel with me

I went on a bus trip to another state and I was fine with going alone because there were other people I could contact from the same town. With cons there isn't anyone else really here that has the same interest so I feel like I'd be on my own. Is this the point where I should start browsing convention sites for people that are looking for roommates? Even though I'm somewhat old (21) I'm just worried about being lost in a big city or being taken advantage of.

>> No.7441856

>>7441549
You sound like you have a really cute/pleasant personality. Aside from the anxiety, anyhow, but it's a quirk. It helps if you look like you're having fun instead of standing and appearing to be in merc mode.

Seconding therapy dog suggestion! (what happened to you is really unfortunate but for some reason a big "tough looking guy" with battle scars cuddling a dog is sending my moe-dar off the charts hnnng)

>> No.7441868

>>7441528
No offence dude but you sound like a bit of a jerk calling your girlfriend fat... in any case, a young girl cosplaying old Sophie isn't going to look great, make-up can only take you so far and Sophie is absolutely covered in wrinkles. Let her be young Sophie if she wants to be, the dress is pretty forgiving and in the grand scheme of things, does it really matter if she has a few extra pounds?

>> No.7441895

I broke up with my boyfriend last week, right before my own birthday. I'm young and feeling that terribly alone feel and just want to be surrounded by a lot of people, but I'm also very shy... The only real upside is no more stress, and the high fives from my friends who were quietly suggesting that this relationship was no good.

I have a lot more time to focus on cosplay now which is nice, and to be honest I feel a lot more free to do things I like without him making fun of people who do that. It's... nice.

>> No.7441899

>>7441397
>>7441394

I'm a female
why else would I talk about having no female friends?

>> No.7441907

>>7441528
Work out together. Dont tell her shes fat, but suggest you should get in 'better shape ' together.

>> No.7441908
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>>7441856
I actually have multiple dumbo rats and a no eared pitty i got from a shelter. Hes nearly as bad as i am about anxiety. The rats however are my little pocket medicines. I need to start cosplaying the gruffer characters

>> No.7441913

>>7441908
>scars
>tsun tsun looking
>likes rats

Anon, your wife has a great man by her side. I hope that your anxiety clears up. You can try looking up exercises online. Or even putting on comforting music when you're feeling jitterty

(I'm a fellow rat lover myself. They're amazing companions)

>> No.7441948

>>7441913
> tsun tsun looking

Thats....what?

Another story from a better time at a con:

>Dressed in one of my bushling outfits: Green dress pants, soft yellow vest and cream long sleeve, looked like a muscled Lucky Charms character, pipe included and pocket watch
>Wife is there with me just wearing an avengers shirt
>People are asking for pictures which caught me off guard but i warm up after a bit
>still an anxious mother fucker because people are talking to me but wife keeps me in check
>an andro girl cosplaying a WAKFU character wants to sit on my shoulders for a picture
>My body is crawling from a stranger touching me but i calm down
>soon im letting two shorter cosplayers hang from my arms
>before i know it i have 2 lolitas sitting on my biceps and a male version sitting on my shoulders, pointing his umbrella defiantly
>broketheanxietybarrier.jpg
>wife is lapping all this up
>i finally break free and we go out drinking
>come back next morning in just a tshirt and jeans
>people still want rides

>> No.7441949

>>7441899

Possibly because you want to get into their pants or you prefer girlfriends to go shopping with. Lots of different reasons.

However, I sort of deduced that you're a girl from being so self conscious about how small your eyes looked without glasses and how you like dressing 'cute.' Though some really gay guys have said that too in my experience. Misogynerd poster is either trolling or dumb shit.

>> No.7442021

>>7441895
Sounds like it was the right decision anon, especially if he was making fun of stuff you like. I hope you feel better soon!

>> No.7442481

>>7441899
Well if you weren't one of those "I'm like totally one of the guys! [read: I suck their dick cheap]"-type-slut, maybe other girls liked you more.

>> No.7442496

>>7442481
Not that anon, but I have no female friends either. Not because "I'm one of da boyz" or anything, but because I turn into legit spaghetti and feel so manly and butch compared to other girls who are always so poised and feminine. Not even a lesbian, I just always feel awkward because I grew up with two brothers and never had any gurly gurl interests, and then get paranoid that theyll make fun of me when I leave.

>> No.7442532

>>7442496
So you have no friends at all then?

>> No.7442540

>>7441086

Can I be mad about people soaking the government AND the government being wasteful?

>> No.7442545

>>7442532
I have male friends and a boyfriend.

>> No.7442566

>>7441948
You sound like the most adorable grizzly bear man ever.

>> No.7442579

>>7442545
I rest my case.

>> No.7442797

>>7441948
I'm fucking clapping. Bravo, anon. Bravo.

>> No.7442808

>>7441948
I want to hug you, sir. You sound like a moe General Armstrong.

>> No.7442813

Just a little rant don't mind me.
The costume I have sucks, the wig I ruined, ears are floppy, and my ugly face does not go well with the character. so when you get me to make the time to create and dress up as them, THEN tell me that the large photo shoot that we are doing is canceled a week before the con. IT TICKS ME OFF. Now all I have is this costume for the con tomorrow and I know I won't look good in it. But screw it I will do it, look like a fool and have fun, and if I see you there then I will not ever do anything con related with you ever again.
Thanks for listening

>> No.7442824
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7442824

>been pining over con guy on and off for two years
>unrequited feels raging at an all-time high
>haven't talked in about 4 months
>still have his number

I'd send a text but I have no idea what to say other than "hey" for the umpteenth time.

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7442851

>tfw you drive all the way somewhere to a person's house just to let them borrow something
>tfw they want you to get it back yourself

Come on, dude, I did a favor for you. Don't make me waste the gas money.

>> No.7442857

>>7442824
>con guy
"Hey I'd like to suck your dick sometime"

>> No.7442859

>dating a guy I met during a con
>we have a fight and break up
>2 weeks later we decide to go back together
>end up learning that a friend of mine took his virginity in the meanwhile
I don't know how I should feel about this.

>> No.7442863

>>7442857
we've had decent enough conversations to render that unusable

gr8 b8 m8

>> No.7442868

>>7442863
Have you actually told him how you feel...

>> No.7442869

>>7442859
Get him checked for std's? You guys were broken up when he lost his virginity.

Are you on good terms with your friend? Ask said friend what's the deal. Make sure your friend and guy aren't still meeting up to sleep together or w/e.

>> No.7442873

>>7442868
yeah, about a year ago, and I was met with a positive response right before a huge gap in interactions. A couple of months later, something similar happened so I just don't know anymore.

>> No.7442881

>>7442869
I hate the idea that she had sex with him, just thinking about it makes me sick.

But I can't blame her. She's very promiscuous but she didn't do anything while we were together.

I'm afraid if get back together I won't be able to overcome these feelings.

>> No.7443026

>been dating current bf for about 2 years
>past few months haven’t been getting along
>he thinks cosplay is weird, makes fun of me for it, amongst other things, etc
>comments negatively on my hobby every time I see him, makes me feel bad
>basically we don’t have much in common now
>his talks about his hobby all the time (which I pretend to be interested in) and he never wants to hear about mine
>get frustrated/annoyed whenever I see him, I’m at the point where I don’t want to kiss him anymore

Guys, it’s just not working out for me.. I’ve been with him for a long time and I feel like all the history we have together is just too much to throw away. I want someone who shares the same interests and is willing to talk about it and make me feel good about my hobby. I want to be by myself because it’s so overbearing, but I feel like I can’t leave him because we’ve shared a lot of experiences together in the past. I'm very conflicted.

>> No.7443039

>>7443026
this might help put it in perspective: in the long run, 2 years is only about 2.5% of your life. i know it feels like it's been forever, but it's actually only been for a tiny slice of your time spent on earth. you deserve to spend that time with someone who's perfect. don't let it go to waste any longer.

>> No.7443041

>>7443026
What are yours and his interests?

>> No.7443043

>>7443026
2 years probably seems like a long time, anon, but it really isn't at all.
Break up.
I found I had to dump my ex, we had dated 2 years as well. In my case, there wasn't any cruelty (eg making fun of each other's hobbies) but it wasn't a healthy relationship and the kind of life I want didn't match what we were anymore.

It was tough and I cried because it hurt, but I am so glad it ended. I'd have been so unhappy in so many ways and grown to hate him and myself, had we stayed together.

>> No.7443050
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7443050

Life feel:
>last two relationships were absolute garbage
>one was abusive and took his depression out on me, other also took his depression out on me and was extremely clingy
>feeling shitty about love
>old friend/crush and I start talking more after seeing each other at a recent con
>this friend had a big crush on me ages ago
>admits he still has feelings for me after several years
>realize I entertained the idea a lot when we were closer friends
>come to terms with my own feelings
>terrified of screwing it up
>end up voicing this to him
>he's very patient, wants to take it slow and spend more time outside of conventions to get to know one another
>he's sweet and laid back and thinks the world of me
>tfw I think I'm finally getting into a healthy relationship with someone

I'm really happy guys. Still afraid something's gonna fuck it all up but I tend to worry about these things too much. Here's to hoping.

And for a cosplay feel:
>no big cons till otakon
>doing a lot of groups for it
>tfw I want to cosplay so many things that aren't the groups I've already committed to

It makes me so mad how much this happens to me - I get into shit and love it and just want to cosplay it immediately and betray all my other plans, ugh.

>> No.7443056
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7443056

>>7443050
Good luck, anon--I'm glad to hear this one is going much better!

>> No.7443068

This is probably really lame but I almost cried after listening to Merveilles by Malice Mizer. My throat is all tight now from trying to hold it in, lol. I didn't realise all the details of the story with my shitty Japanese until now despite having heard it for the first time 8 years ago. I love albums that have a story and this one is so beautifully sad. I wish Malice Mizer could get back together one day and I'm really sad about how Gackt turned out even though I never really got into his solo career. They will always remain my favourite band and I'm heartbroken that I will never see them perform. Or Versailles. I'm really sad about Moi dix Mois too, their first three albums were great but they've steadily gone downhill. I've only listened to D+Sect a few times and that came out almost 4 years ago. Moi-meme-Moitie sucks these days too. I wish I had friends that liked them aside from Beast of Blood. I also wish I had been able to join Mon+amour back in the day and that I wish that necklace but I was about 13 or 14 with no Paypal when it shut down. I feel so nostalgic and depressed now, I wish I could back to when I discovered all of this.

>> No.7443069

I accidentally went on /a/ today

>> No.7443088

>>7443069
I went there once and a virgin guy asked if I wanted to be his waifu.

>> No.7443095

>>7442873
Going through the same thing here. I met this guy a long time ago and while we fooled around a couple of times, we didn't pursue any sort of relationship. Later, he got a girlfriend so I kind of gave up. It's now almost five years later. He contacted me out of nowhere, having just broken up with his girlfriend. I have been in an open relationship with someone for two years and I fucking jumped at the opportunity. We met up a couple of times and then nothing. I have made small talks online like once a month but it's been six months since I last saw him. I know I kind of have a boyfriend but I am obsessed about this guy.

>>7442868
I am scared that it'll scare him away if he knew how fucking nuts I am about him.

>> No.7443102

>>7442881
>I can't blame her, she's just a slut lol

Uh, no. As your friend, she shouldn't have had sex with your ex less than two fucking weeks after you broke up.

He was looking for a rebound, but her? She's a fucking bitch for doing that. Friends don't sleep with friends' exes. It doesn't matter if you weren't together.

What kind of friend thinks, "Well, you just broke up with my friend, and she's probably pretty upset. Lol lemme get on yo dick."

>> No.7443105

>>7442797
>>7442808
>>7442566
And yet if you saw him in real life, you'd think "oh god, I hope this fat neckbeard creeper won't hit on me... eugh".

>> No.7443129
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7443129

>Don't want to go to my next con
>It's really small, far away, couple panels look cool but not a lot, no new cosplays to wear
>Pretty broke, money would be better spent on other things
>If I don't go I'll be letting my boyfriend and a couple friends down
>They'll probably be mad at me

shit

>> No.7443142
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7443142

>bf and I have plans to go to the biggest con in my state in a month
>start preparing, get some friends together for group ticket rates
>almost everyone's finished paying
>notice a few days ago registration is down due to an error
>it's still down today
>bf is friendly with someone who is *apparently* on good terms with the con head
>claims that even though it says it's temporary, they actually took it own for good because it sold out and they won't even sell any tickets at the door
>a month early
>for an anime convention
>in THIS state
>don't believe it for a second, too bullshit to believe
>bf completely trusts this guy though even though he ain't staff
>mfw if I don't get a response from the convention (which I emailed) or it doesn't reopen in a week I gotta refund everyone's money and cancel our plans

This was our one realistic opportunity to get away this semester. We've already taken off of work. Fuck this noise.

>> No.7443319

>>7443105
>fat
>neck beard
>malicious implications


Whoa there, take a chill pill

>> No.7443375

I doubt anyone remembers my post in a feels thread last month when month my grandmother passed away from cancer. she was the one that taught me to sew and started my passion for costume making.

My aunts brain tumor just been pronounced terminal.

And now I've been going through health issues of my own. They found a mass in my throat and there is a chance its cancer. I'm so scared and still trying to be there with my family. I'm sorry this isn't really cosplay related but I just needed to get this off my chest. I just don't know how much more I can take

>> No.7443379

>>7443375
Sorry you're going through all of that, anon. I'm wishing you all the best. Hopefully even if the mass in your throat is cancer (not cancer preferable), it's still treatable.

>> No.7443396

>>7438445
>Go to school next day, friend informs me she was mocking me just around the corner with her crew

Source of my paranoia right there.

>> No.7443422

>helping fund an anniversary getaway for parents with sister and aunt
>anniversary is the end of march
>"oh anon! I have things that weekend so we'll need to have their surprise party the weekend before"
>auntie i have plans the weekend before...
>"you won't cancel your plans for your parents' anniversary party?!"
>auntie schedules surprise party weekend before as said, sends out invites, the whole deal
>suddenly can't go to AB because the family will think I'm an asshole

I hope everyone at Anime Boston is having a good time. I really wish I were there. I'm so disappointed.

>> No.7443429
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i am so sugoi i am so happy

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>>7443056
it's like you somehow knew my favorite animals are bunnies. thank you, anon!

>> No.7443551

Not cgl related but I guess I could use some third party anon advice

>tfw there is this dude in my friends group who doesn't like talking to me
>I confronted him about it and he said it's nothing
>it wouldn't bother me so much if it weren't for the fact that he always, and sometimes physically, blocks me from talking to my other friend
>other friend probably doesn't care about me anymore either because i'm always the one contacting her on FB and she doesn't seem to mind we don't talk anyways
>yes I did ask her about that too, she said it's nothing but she's kind of shy of conflict anyways
>i never get invited to things with that particular group
>wtf happened what the fuck did I do

Should I confront him about this? On one hand, I have a shitton of things to worry about and his answer might stress me out even more. On the other hand, this little piece of drama is part of what is stressing me out.

>> No.7443570

>>7443422
Fuck that noise. Send a card, go to AB. If anyone's mad, just say that you couldn't cancel.

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>>7443026
Anon just do it. You'll feel so much better and I did the same thing you did. He never wanted to hear about my interests anymore but he would harp on about his and I would take interest in and support him. Don't deal with it anymore, it hurts for awhile but you feel so much better afterwards and now you can enjoy what you like. And we were together for 5 years

>> No.7443619

>>7443551
I would confront them and then if you still get no answers I would tell them to fuck off. Passive Aggression is incredibly juvenile and you're probably better off without them at this point

>> No.7443621

>>7443551
Are you a guy?
If so, he thinks you're going for her and assholeguy likes her.
If you're a girl, I have no fucking idea.

>> No.7443637

>>7441069
that store has some nice stuff, though.

>> No.7443669

>>7443619

I think I'll do that once I sort my other things. I'm in a pretty fragile state at the moment so I'll wait until exams are over next week to confront them. I think it won't eat me alive until then, so I can rest assured it won't affect my grades.

>>7443621

I'm a girl.

We used to talk a lot but I think after I got a little fed up with him constantly asking about internships in my country, and then him constantly badmouthing my country, I sort of ignored him during winter break and got a little cagey handing him information like candy on Halloween. I think along the way, I said something to really offend him. Ever since then he's acted like this. If it weren't for other friend ignoring me (as a result of him? IDK she isn't even involved in this summer internship drama) I wouldn't be so annoyed.

In any case if he thinks I didn't hand him juicy tidbits of information, I'm honestly as lost in the process myself as he is. I gave him all the resources I had at the time and he hasn't asked me since then, so on that matter, my conscious is fairly clear.

>> No.7443671

>>7443669

fuck, *conscience.

>> No.7443676

>>7443142
>waiting that long to buy your passes for a large anime con in the first place

Well there's your first fucking problem.

If you know it's a big con, buy your pass as soon as possible. It doesn't matter the state. Buy ASAP, you'll never have to worry about it.

People who buy their tickets at the door fucking boggle my mind too, because you usually end up paying $10-$50 more.

Fucking stupid.

>> No.7443682

>>7443422
>I have things that weekend so we have to move the party
>Oh anon, can't you just cancel YOUR plans because I'm too much of a bitch to cancel mine?

I would have gone to AB anyway. Just said, "Sorry, I already paid" or something. DOn't give a fuck if it's a lie.

They're your parents. They should know that you care about them. If you had plans, and they knew about it, then they should be understanding.

>> No.7443693
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7443693

I want to cosplay Candy's stage outfit, but I think people will think I'm an ita. Maybe if I make the decorated mic-stand as well people won't be able to tell.

>> No.7443699

>>7443693
Will be able to tell, rather. I haven't slept.

>> No.7443724

>>7443676
It sounds like they waited this long bc anon was coordinating people so that they could get a group rate, which is usually a good idea if you have enough ppl.

>> No.7444048

RG - I miss you and I wish we were still friends. I'm sorry for not realizing how shitty of a friend I was at times. Hope you're well.

>> No.7444052

>>7443693
Who cares if they think you're an ita, they'll just look stupid if they mistake it for lolita.

>> No.7444059

I started plucking/shaving everywhere when I was a pre-teen and now I'm facing the consequences. What was originally peach fuzz grows back to be slightly darker and coarser. I have to pluck my upper lip hair a couple of times a week which gives me pimples for one thing.

Is there any way to reverse this? Or to at least make it less noticeable? I would get electrolysis but I can't really afford it.

>> No.7444068
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7444068

Ive made up my mind, im gonna do a dedicated Armstrong Cosplay, i can even grow that fucking mustache.

>> No.7444075

>>7444059
doesn't plucking damage the follicles? I thought plucking enough meant less and less hair growth.

>> No.7444080

>>7444059
Are you a male or female.

>> No.7444081

>>7443676
This isn't a big convention state. I'm not talking about SDCC here. Just an ordinary anime convention. Most people in this state wait till the last minute to pay; a month in advance is typically considered proactive.

You can bet your ass though after this year, no matter how it goes, I'm not doing group rates again. Gonna buy my ticket the second it's for sale and not give a shit. I've learned my lesson, too much stress.

>> No.7444086

>>7444075
It damages it but that doesn't mean that it will stop it growing. I managed to pretty much ruin my eyebrows but the rest of my hair (upper lip, arms, legs, even a few around my nipple) are coarser and a bit darker now. I had blonde body hair then too...

>> No.7444091

>>7444080
Female. It's not super noticeable but I'm scared that it would be if I stopped removing it regularly. It's such a hassle

>> No.7444114

>>7444059
I thought everybody knew this was debunked by now. Okay anon, listen. Your hair isn't growing back darker because hair magically grows back dark when you shave or pluck it. It's growing back darker because you hit puberty, which makes your hair grown in darker. You would have dark hair growing in even if you never touched it.
There are bleaches and creams, or you can just keep shaving it or waxing it.

>> No.7444119

>>7444091
Theres a human reaction when we have hairs plucked out, they grow back thicker and stronger than before. Hair -always- comes back, even with electrolysis, it just takes a lot longer when that kind of thing is applied. The best thing you can do it just keep up with it. I used to never have a beard, then i joined the army, shaved every day, and now i can look like a lumber jack in a month

>> No.7444121

>>7444114
It's really not the case for me, I didn't touch my upper lip hair until after puberty and I feel like each time it grows back darker still, even now. When you remove hair regularly it grows back coarser and in a different angle which makes it stand out more, which is what I want to get rid of. I only started shaving my arms a year ago and it is definitely a lot spikier looking, darker and more noticeable now.

>> No.7444129

>>7444121
>>7444119
No it fucking doesn't grow back darker or thicker or coarser. Fucking google it.

>> No.7444144

>>7444129
Really? Where did you go for your Nanotribological Studies, expert?

>> No.7444151

>>7444129
I don't need to Google it if I have see it happen to myself and others. Why are you so irritated by it? By the sounds of things you don't have the same problem.

>> No.7444180

>>7440595
Personally, for me it's always been more of a wet dream, that some alpha male hunk comes into my house and shoots my effeminate and emasculated boyfriends brains in front of me and then he just takes me and does what he wants with my body (in a sexual way).

>> No.7444191
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One of the feels I have is that im going to a con by myself. And like I hate feeling alone, but some of my friends are going but like I don't wanna mess the plans they have set.
What's the best way for a loner to meet people or not be bored. I also know people are gonna be taking pics of me in my cosplay, armored rider Baron ftw

>> No.7444193
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7444193

>Be seller
>Making fucking hats
>Goddamn these hats
>Jesus fucking christ if I have to make one more hat-
>Fiance gets home
>Sees me with a half dozen hats on my head angrily pinning another one
>Tells me I'm cute
>Things are a bit better
>mfw

I'm just hoping I can make some cash of this goddamn things. There are cute little monster hats all over my apartment.

>> No.7444253

>>7444114
is waxing the best way? I use an epalator too and it seems to be working. I dont trust shaving since my leg hair was definitely darker looking after shaving a few times.

>> No.7444266

>>7444191
What con you going to? Depending on the con there's probably going to be a KR/SS meetup.

>> No.7444286

>>7444151
Because it's an old wives tale that's been disproven over and over and over by real, scientific evidence, not joe blow saying "but I seen it happen!!" You might as well try to tell me that gum takes seven years to digest or you'll get cramps and die if you don't wait an hour after eating to swim. I think anyone would be bothered if some dumbass kept spouting those off as fact in the face of actual evidence.
You're seeing the blunt ends of hair, which do appear thicker than ones that are thin at the end from growing out over time. Or you're seeing the effects of puberty, like that pre-teen girl. Or you get used to seeing your bare arm and when it grows back your mind convinces you it's thicker now.
If you refuse to do a google search that literally takes 5 seconds, you're not just lazy, you're being willfully ignorant. And yes, that irritates most people, because it's a horrible trait that effects everyone. If you're willing to continue looking like a lazy retard who refuses to educate yourself because google is too hard, then by all means, go ahead.

>> No.7444294

>>7444059
There is no way to reverse it but many hair removal solutions.
There is no inexpensive way that you won't have to do as often as plucking/epilation.
There are aftercare lotions you can use for the bumps/pimples and roll-ons that supposedly retard the regrowth for longer periods of time.

Some people tolerate veet or nair on arms/legs or even in more sensitive areas but it gives chemical burns to others so do spot tests if you decide to try either.
Cold wax strips are somewhat effective if the hair isn't too coarse.
Regular wax and sugaring take practice and skill.
The only long term solutions are Laser removal and professional electrolysis.

>> No.7444296

>>7444144
>implying I need a degree to know a basic fucking fact
Seriously why are you arguing with me? Google is in the top right part of your screen. All you have to do is input "does hair grow back thicker after shaving" (look, I even typed it for you so you don't have to) You don't even have to click on any of the links, the blurbs explain it in pretty simple terms. You're just making yourself look like an ass at this point...

>> No.7444314

I agree about the 'doesnt grow back darker' answer, with one exception. If shaver has never shaved arms or legs and the hairs have just naturally grown out, the tips are finer (as noted) and the hair has been there for months, likely faded by washing, sunlight, etc. so yes, it's deceiving it shave it, also exfoliating the skin (which will appear slightly lighter/brighter usually, since dead cells are removed) then holy cow, here come these brand new dark, stubbly blunt hairs. Did they actually grow in darker? No. Does it seem like it? Yep. Especially after a short hair-free time AND when self-conscious about the whole thing anyway.

>> No.7444340

>>7444266
kawaii kon. Its in Hawaii and last year there wasn't anything like that.

>> No.7444357

>>7444340
Is that you, Nico?
Anyway, yeah, shit sucks living off the mainland, there's a few toku cosplayers in Alaska but not much at all.

>> No.7444424

>>7444357
my names Keanu, Nico moved about a week ago to California.
like what's something to do at a con if you're not really into anime? I play tcgs but I really dont wanna be in the game room all day, y'know what I mean?

>> No.7444440

>>7444424
You can't act for shit but I liked you in The Matrix

>> No.7444442

>>7444440
Dem quints

>> No.7444487

>>7444440
lol I was named after Keanu reeves and im planning on bein a suit actor XD

>> No.7444503

>>7444424
Eat stuff, go to non-anime panels, shop (whether buying things or just looking), wander around and eavesdrop a little for amusement, take pictures and just sit and people-watch.

>> No.7444507

>>7444487
what shitty parents.

>> No.7444555

>>7444503
I'll probably do that. Last year my phone was broken so I couldn't take any pics, I also didn't have any money so I barely ate or bought stuff.
this time though I'm gonna take pics and whatnot.

>> No.7444557

>>7444507
my parents are shitty but I was also born in Hawaii, so the name fits

>> No.7444560 [DELETED] 

I recently decided to go to the gym and lose all this awful awful weight. I'm so afraid that my meds/medical problems will make it extra difficult, and that it will never happen. I'm so afraid of never being good enough despite my efforts.

>> No.7444563

>>7444560
Improvement starts with positive thinking. If you don't think you can get better before you even started, you've already lost. Good luck, anon.

>> No.7444566

I've recently started going to the gym to lose weight, better myself, and finally cosplay some of the things I want to cosplay. I know it's going to be hard work, coupled with meds and medical problems working against me, but I know I can't give up, even if it takes time to get to where I want to be. I'm just so afraid that it won't work. That I'll never be good enough. That no matter what I do I won't lose the weight, get discouraged, and give up.

>> No.7444583

>>7444180
Fappable.

>> No.7444609

>>7444566
>That no matter what I do I won't lose the weight

Good news for you, physics doesn't work like that.

Calories in vs Calories out

>> No.7444625

>>7444180
That's pretty fucked up.

>> No.7444674
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7444674

I have horrible nightmares.

Any anti-nightmare ideas?

>> No.7444716

>>7444674
Yes, become my gf and sleep with me, nightmares gone, only sweet dreams :3c

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>>7444716
what if their nightmares are being with you?

>> No.7445019

>>7444967
>"their"
>not "her"
Tumblr, fuck off.

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>>7444967
Ahahaha...

ahaha...

ah...

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>>7445019
>2014
>implying that someone that posts asking how to stop nightmares is a girl
>even if it is a girl they probably wouldn't go out with you
Also im not a tumblr fag, idk wtf made you think that

>> No.7445280

>>7445092
Tumblr shitter go away. It was obvious to everyone that it was a cunt. Men don't talk about nightmares on internet because men are the stronger gender (both physically and mentally).

>> No.7445497

>>7440738
I actually broke up with someone once because I was hung up on another girl, and when I broke it to her she told me exactly what you posted- didn't see it coming, felt like utter shit, etc.

truth is I was an absolute fucking mess mentally, and I was using her to get over the other girl. When I found it wasn't working, I ended it. Anon, you deserve so much better than that. and don't think it had anything to do with yourself, or that your life is pointless. that girl I broke up with? she's a NEUROSCIENTIST now. you're gonna be fine.

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>>7445280
dude just because im high and post on the internet does not mean im from tumblr.
>men dont have nightmares because they are the stonger gender
And with that type of logic is the reason you don't have a gf you fucking beta.
Every living being has a form of nightmares.

So back to cosplay feels, the vest I made for my cosplay was too damn tight and it broke on me :c
But hey I've got about 2 more weeks till the con so its alright

>> No.7445538

>>7445497
never be hung up on an ex. I have a funny story about someone who was hung up on his ex
>be chillin with friends and smokin a bowl
>talking about girls and shit
(most of them are in highschool still)
>this one guy is saying how this one girl he dated is dating this really nice dude to spite him
>his ex would flirt with other guys when they were together
>all he's talking about is how much he still loves her and what not.
>there's this 10/10 qt thats into him but he wants his ex even though its super obvious that his ex doesn't want him
>starts to cry sorta about it saying "NO I WONT GET OVER HER I LOVE HER"
I lost all control and started laughing. I told him he needs to get over her like she got over him
>"b-bbut anon you don't get it I LOVE HER. The only reason she's dating him is because she still wants me!!"
I just slapped him right there and told him to screw up and get over her.
He hates me now but idgaf XD.
But the thing that bums me out was I was gonna ask him to cosplay as armored rider Knuckle while im cosplaying as Baron

>> No.7445544

>>7445538
exactly right. If I could time machine myself back and talk to me while I was in that place, I'd slap me too.

thanks anon, you're alright.

>> No.7445553

>>7445544
your welcome friend.
Just being hung up on an ex is sorta stupid. I've dated couple of girls who would just talk about how im better and nicer than their ex because blahblabla. It be nice to date someone who like keeps that stuff to themselves. Like its nice to know im better, but I don't wanna hear you talking about your ex all day long

>> No.7445925

>>7445511
>dude just because im high
0/10

You were just replying because you a tumblr landwhale cunt that has nothing else going for her in her life other than posting on the Internet.

Don't try to fool me, fat cunt. Didn't read the rest of your femnazi drivel. If you doubt that I am strong, I could lift you up -- we both know that's a feat worth of a transhuman Atlas -- but you'd probably orgasm from it.

>> No.7446051

>Shopping today
>Go to april cornell
>Get a bitchin blouse that works well with lolita for $5 because of a tiny stain on the sleeve
>Had worn lolita there a few weeks ago
>Cashier: Hey, did you come here a week or two ago?
>Yeah?
>OMG you were the one with the really cute skirt and pantaloons!
>She was so sweet, made my fucking day.

>> No.7446080

>>7438312
Best feel ever, so happy for you anon! What is it?

>> No.7446119

>>7441400
This happened to me once, only I was cosplaying Calcium Miku

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>Introduce friend to cosplay
>Starts attending cons with me
>She goes off to use the bathroom, so I said to meet her at the main stairs in half an hour
>Waiting there for an hour
>See her with a group of people so I go over to her and ask where she has been
>She gives me the cold shoulder. Pretends she doesn't know me because of her new friends.
>Whatever. Carries on as I was earlier.
>Head back to hotel room and she appears asking to come back in and how sorry she is
>mfw I'm a pushover

>> No.7446203

>>7441006
Wow you're a piece of shit

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>>7445925
You mad bro??
I'm a dude, pic related its me messin around in my undersuit
And you probably can lift me up, im skinnyfat

>> No.7447392

>>7446243
0/10 landwhale obvious

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>>7447392
k I know your just a troll, have a good day friend namaste.

So I just realized another cosplay feel
>mfw I don't have a gf to do a fourze/nadashiko cosplay with
When I was with my ex I asked her if she wanted to, but she said no because she hates the color pink and nadashiko has a pink collar :/