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6641097 No.6641097[DELETED]  [Reply] [Original]

>be me
>have boyfriend who is total otaku
>flail around in japanese culture a
>attempt to dress lolita
>give up
>go to 4CHAN

AND HERE I AM. Okay, so what can I do to successfully create the image of being a little lolita doll? youtube is not helpful. e.e
I'm 5'4, blue eyes, caucasian, porcelain skin, volatile hair, 130lbs, size 7 USA women's shoe.

>> No.6641109

>>6641097
read the fucking sticky moron.

>porcelain skin

loooool

>> No.6641114

You can gtfo because you're not doing it for yourself.

>> No.6641124

Read sticky, look at brand websites, look at taobao, look at Gothic Lolita Bibles.

>> No.6641161

you sound like a pasty fat weeaboo

>> No.6641192

>porcelain skin
Good. Throw yourself off your chair.

>> No.6641200

>>6641109
>>6641114
>>6641161
>>6641192
/cgl/ i love you

Good luck, porcelain doll-chan~

>> No.6641234

>>6641097
you sound overweight and you're only going to embarrass yourself...

you should take a pic so we can see your porcelain skiiiiin

>> No.6641260

>>6641097
>Fat
>Porcelain skin? Nope

Time to eat less

>> No.6641277

http://hellolace.net/

>> No.6641285

Don't listen to the haters they're just mad when they see a pretty girl

a highly recommended shop is milanoo, they have a ton of selection and are totally legit

another anon recommended hello lace, that works as a start

bodyline as well

good luck sweetie!!!

>> No.6641297

>>6641285
Thisthisthis
Also, people will talk shit about Milanoo but they're just trying to hide where they get most of their best clothes from from any newbies. It's all a big scam to make you give THEM money by buying their filthy already-worn sweaty dresses, or waste your own money on rip-off brands like Angelic Pretty or Baby The Stars Shine Bright because they want to laugh at you for being ita.
Sad really :/

>> No.6641295

>>6641285
ugh don't shop at bodyline, their quality is shit unless you buy a polyester blend dress from them. then it looks good. you should really just stick to milanoo if you're starting out, good quality and super affordable.

>> No.6641298

>>6641260
>>6641234
Um, 130 lbs is actually a perfect weight for 5'4, according to BMI.
Am I missing something?

>> No.6641309

>>6641298
BMI is Body Mass Index, not Ideal Lolita Figure Index. Can you get down to 110-115lb?

>> No.6641317

>>6641298
you're missing the part where no one cares about you or your boyfriend's weird fetishes

>> No.6641315
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>>6641309

>triple-digit weight
>lolita

>> No.6641323
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>>6641309
>>6641317
I'm not OP, but okay.
P-Please stop bullying me, it was just a question.

>> No.6641321

>e.e
>porcelain skin
>little dolita doll
Go away 13 year old weeaboo

>> No.6641341

OP, go to the gaiaonline lolita area. they give great advice
http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/lolita-fashion/f.949/?sequence=1

>> No.6641358
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6641358

>5'4
>130lbs
Damn, i would kill myself if i got that fat. Anyway, here is a porcelain skinned lolita dolly. Try to look like this. Your boyfriend would love it.

>> No.6641364

>>6641358
Are you joking? That's barely fat at all, maybe a little overweight, but not fat.

>> No.6641368

>>6641364
130lb isn't even overweight, it's healthy for a height of 5'4"

>> No.6641369

>>6641368
>tfw you realize all of /cgl/ has been brainwashed by stick thin asian girls

>> No.6641377

>>6641369
Yeah, because only asian girls are stick thin. 5'4 and 130lbs is chubby as fuck.

>> No.6641373

>>6641364
Nope. Fat.

>> No.6641375

>>6641298
>>6641368

I'm 5'7" and 130, and I know that's too much fat for me. So: false. Also everyone already knows BMI is bad science because it doesn't take muscle into account, which is inane. Get with the picture guys.

>> No.6641380

>>6641369
This thread has some of the most ridiculous trolling I've read in a while. OP, if you're not a troll, too, please check out the egl LJ comm and hellolace. Or go lurk in the legit Lolita threads.

>> No.6641378 [DELETED] 

>>6641285
>they're just mad when they see a pretty girl
>no picture of OP
>OMG Y'ALL MAD CUZ SHES SO PRETTY

>> No.6641382

>>6641373
chubby/pudgy, but not FAT
when i think 'fat,' i think "landwhale-tier," not chubby/overweight
130 is not fat

>> No.6641383
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6641383

This is 130lbs and 5'4.
Tell me that shit isn't overweight and gross.

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>>6641375
This is the body of someone who is 5'4 and 130lbs.
It's not that bad.
Then again, she's supposedly pear-shaped, so..

>> No.6641390

>>6641383
Tell me you're being sarcastic.

Please.

>> No.6641391

>>6641383
>>6641387
I know this is a full-on trolls everywhere thread, but god damn if that's overweight I must be a hippo

>> No.6641395

>>6641383
>>6641387
Those soft, flabby thighs. Gross.

>> No.6641398

>>6641395
>not liking soft thighs
are you some kind of faggot or something

>> No.6641397

>>6641391
you must be.

>> No.6641404

>Not liking a chubby, soft girl that you can use as a pillow and not have stick thin elbows thrusting into your chest like twigs
>You're all girls who have no idea what a guy likes

>> No.6641408
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>>6641398
A ladies thighs shouldn't touch. Rule #1 in the lolita handbook.

>> No.6641412
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>>6641404
Yes, because no guy ever has ever preferred a skinny chick. GTFO with that shit. You are probably a hambeast with no actual idea of what men actually want.

>> No.6641413

>>6641404
>caring what guys like vs what makes me happy

I'll never look like Morrigan Aensland so why try? I can however look "twiggy" if I work at it.

>> No.6641415

What a terrible thread

>> No.6641418

>>6641404
>implying we dress for male attention
>implying you arent a fatty fat

>> No.6641422

>>6641408
WHATS WORNG WITH HER EYES?!

>> No.6641425
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6641425

If you don't look like this, don't even bother. Youre bound to make a fool of yourself and end up in an ITA thread.

>> No.6641426
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>>6641383
I'm a guy and need my women with decent amount of meat.
And you're telling me this is overweight?

>> No.6641429
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6641429

>>6641422
Nothing?

>> No.6641433

>>6641426
Oh fuck off. I know your type. Pathetic beta neckbeard in a fedora who will take whatever he can get.

>> No.6641435

>>6641382
>when i think 'fat,' i think "landwhale-tier," not chubby/overweight

You're probably american.

>> No.6641436

>>6641429
She looks like a dead person.

>> No.6641441

>>6641285
We haven't seen her. Not anons from up there, but just saying.

>> No.6641445
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>>6641433
Yea yea mama said knock you out, Fuck outta here!

>> No.6641447

>>6641441
>not realizing obvious troll

oy

you guys..

>> No.6641448
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6641448

>>6641436
That's part of her charm, mein nigga. Anyway, fuck you, she looks like a fairytale russian princess, you jelly?

>> No.6641449
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>>6641435
actually, no, im in europe
fat is different than chub, and youre probably anorexic

>> No.6641453

>>6641429
What a doll!

>> No.6641454

>>6641448
No jelly. I like to look alive thank you.

>> No.6641459

>>6641429
Actually she looks like a vampire to me.

>> No.6641457

>>6641433
>>6641404
>lol stupid women dont know what women want. she has meat on her bones!!
>if you don't like what I like, you're a pathetic beta neckbeard! SHE'S SO FATTT
Can we pls just realize that everyone has their own tastes
Some people like cute, thin waifish girls, other people like buxom, soft girls. And some more other people like it in-between or at the extremes
Let's not fight about it, ok? ok

>> No.6641461

>>6641454
You mean you like to look completely average and unremarkable and you aspire to mediocrity. Woopty fucking doo.

>> No.6641469
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6641469

>>6641459
And that's a bad thing because?

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>>6641461
Scared to show yourself?
Let's see how remarkable and not mediocre you look!

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>>6641469

>> No.6641477
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6641477

why all the hate against pale skin? Some people have it naturally , I bet you're the kind of people who tell non-tanned people to go to the beach or that they look dead/like a vampire
enjoy looking like a wrinkly leather bag

>> No.6641480

>>6641474
Bitch im a model so fuck you bitch, you dont know shit, white hoes think they kow shit. fuck you ugly bitch. i aint wasting my time posting my oicture for you hoes.

>> No.6641482

>>6641477
Actually I'm pale myself. I think she looks dead for other reasons like her lifeless eyes.

>> No.6641483

>>6641480
picture

>> No.6641485

>>6641480
Bitch you ain't a model. Confirmed for fatty.

>> No.6641487

>>6641097

Let me give you some advice. Dump your faggot boyfriend who gets excited at girls. He is a step away from kidnapping little girls and raping them. Find a man and not some little bitch.

Sounds like your a chick that is eager to please. So find a guy who likes what you have to give.

>> No.6641488

>>6641482
Her eyes are beautiful and full of life. The problem is her deep, dark eye bags, which i guess she can't help. Bags fucking suck.

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6641492

>>6641480
Prove it!
I Triple dare ya!
If you look like this >>6641408 Then I'll have respect!

Show nuff

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>>6641480
>oicture

>> No.6641501

>>6641459
I would let her suck my blood, if you know what I mean.

>> No.6641504

ITT: frilly princess that fight like drunk black girls

>> No.6641509

>>6641480
does your company require you to learn english? or do they just scoop you out of your ghetto-ass neighborhood and put you in a cage full of chickens?
No seriously I don't get if you're trying to sound sassy or actually talk like that, if it's the latter I feel so sorry for you.

>> No.6641530

>>6641433
I'm not a neckbeard and I don't have a Fedora (I have worn a top hat though lol)

>> No.6641535

>>6641504
GHETTO black girls. I say that being a black DUDE. Wait, no ghetto bitches are better than /cgl/ cunts ll

>>6641509
Sorry, We aren't white.

>> No.6641925

>>6641535
...You still the sassy model who calls everyone a bitch? Seriously, get some better insults. Lardass, pathetic waste of space, product-of-incest, I don't know. Get creative. You work in an art field.
But if you're male...... wow

>> No.6643272

>>6641368
I'm also 5'7 and I'm skinny fat at 120, not even being hard on myself, it's just true. so 5'4 and 130 is def chubby

>> No.6643293

>>6643272
Woah, really? I'm 5'4 and pretty skinny at 119. Although, I think I may be a secret apple shape, since my waist seems to be the only bit that's expanded this year.

>> No.6643296

>being a little lolita doll

B-but, you're a humain being ;_;

>> No.6643298

>>6641925
>>6641925
>ask to become more creative
>"But if you're male...... wow"
>implying that men have to be more creative that women
>implying that you're sexist against your own gender
lol

>> No.6643300
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6643300

This thread is terrible and every one of you should feel all kinds of bad about absolutely everything that has transpired here.

>> No.6643306

>>6641298
Im 5'4" and weigh 114. I have quite a bit of fluff. You're fat.

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>>6643306
>hurr how does muscle work

>> No.6643344

>>6641476
>>6641469
SHIT FUCK DEM EYEBAGS!

>> No.6643358

I occasionally come here and you guys still make me fucking sick. You're literally the most disgusting people on 4chan.

I can't see most of the posts now, but from this dumb anorexic bitch; >6641383 thinking that's overweight or gross, people like this; >6641161, and the attitude of you people berating her, just horrible.

I'd be overjoyed to have a girlfriend nice and considerate enough to do that for me. What do you do for your boyfriends if you have one? Be a fucking constant bitch?

>> No.6643392

The fact that you've only looked at Youtube and haven't even bothered wiki-ing or googling speaks volume about yourself.

Protip: next time on /cgl/ don't post stats about yourself, it never ends well.

>> No.6643394

^ *volumes

>> No.6643414

>6643358
>I'd be overjoyed to have a girlfriend nice and considerate enough to do that for me.
But you don't do you? Haha, cry more, your tears only fuel /cgl/'s hunger for drama.

>> No.6644289 [DELETED] 

>>6641383
If that's what you call overweight and gross then you clearly haven't been outside or turned your TV on in awhile. Pic related ought to set you straight.

>> No.6644290 [DELETED] 
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>>6644289
This one

>> No.6644293

>>6641387
>>6641387

>tfw I'm 20 lbs away from this

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>>6643414

>> No.6644312
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>>6641418
>implying we dress for male attention

>> No.6644330

>>6641395
>gross
you miss spelled delicious.

>> No.6644338

>>6644312
>implying we would dress with such long, weird, pink, frilly, girly, expensive, high maintenance dresses if we wanted male attention

Bitch, males have standards so low all you have to do is slap on short shorts and uggs and they're all over you.

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>>6644338
Yea, if you want a lap dog maybe.

No wonder you immediately assume that all men want to do is stare at you for hours on end.
You treat people like that long enough and that's exactly what they become.

Blame yourself.

>> No.6644381

>>6644370
What the fuck are you even talking about

>> No.6644396
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>>6644381
Women have been treating guys like all they want to see is vag and tits.

So eventually that convinces them that is what guys like and that's why women show those things.
Thereby changing the perception of what men want as a whole.

Honestly, I couldn't care less. I would prefer a girlfriend with a sense of integrity and honor over a model any day.
Which goes completely against the 'norm' model that everyone perceives.

By treating men this way you devalue yourselves, thereby devaluing us.

It's a give and take, and when you all want to give without taking, that causes problems.

>> No.6644404

>>6644396
>Women have been treating guys like all they want to see is vag and tits.
And where exactly do you think that came from? Women just magically developed this idea out of nowhere without ANY kind of male behaviour to give them it? Of course they did, petal.

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>>6644404
>And where exactly do you think that came from?
Really?

When the women's rights movement came to be (which I don't oppose women having equal rights) women wore more revealing clothes.
Eventually instead of valuing a woman that knew how to treat a man, a relationship became something of a beauty contest.

There's a line however between modest clothing and skimpy outfits.
If you wear the skimpy outfits, expect to be treated like someone who doesn't value themselves very much (even if you think this is a form of 'empowerment for yourself, because that's not how other people perceive it).

>> No.6644421

>>6644396
I agree with almost everything except
>Women have been treating guys like all they want to see is vag and tits.

No. YOU have shown women all you care about is ass, vag and tits (or maybe if you're a 4chan neckbeard you preffer flat tits and prepubescent body). And have repeatedly shown that sex will win your attention over any sense of integrity or intelligence.

I find it so terribly funny when males complain about women not being hot enough or pretty enough and generally not giving them the time of the day if they're not attractive, and then complaining about women not being intelligent or cultured.
Nigga, YOU are the one who showed women all it matters is beauty. See JNig, every female game character ever, every femane in comics ever, every women idealized by a man ever. They're all hot and rarely show anything of note other than their bodies.

>> No.6644430

>>6644421
This hasn't always been a thing you know.

Before the 1900's women didn't even wear pants.

>> No.6644433

>>6644430
And even that wasn't a thing until the 1940's when the Rights movement went into full swing.

And that came about because all the men were going to war, so all the women were working in factories to keep production up.

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>>6644421
Also, this.

>> No.6644439

>>6644430
Yeah, but the males still preferred to fuck sluts. They just didn't go around as much as today because different morals.

>> No.6644454

>>6644414
And who was it who decided they'd rather have the women in skimpy clothes? Oh yeah. Whoops. Jesus, you're autistic.

>> No.6644466

>>6644438
Isn't that from the same pseudo-scientific okcupid study that had women FAR more likely to message less attractive men then men were likely to message less attractive women?

The men basically would go after 9s and 10s even if they looked like sewer mutants

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>>6644466

>> No.6644479

>>6644466
>psuedo-scientific
>using the results from their website
I fail to see how this is psuedo

>>6644454
Actually, I don't give a fuck what you wear.
And you're going to blame men for your decisions to wear skimpy clothes?

Next you'll say all men are rapists or some shit.

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Cute girl in my CS301 (Computer Science) class - does anyone know her? It's in a lecture hall with 300+ people. Everyone just does what they want and don't really pay attention. I know this isn't Craigslist, but she's ALWAYS on /cgl/, so I figured I'd ask to see if anyone knows this girl. Her name is Amanda and she goes to Nevada State University.
I found this photo of her from Facebook (I'm acquaintances with the girl on the left). I know that Amanda doesn't have a Facebook, and this is the only photo I recognized her from.

>> No.6644491

>>6644475
Are you even reading these graphs? The darker line is MALE messages to FEMALES, dickwit. Maybe try reading that which you choose to use for propaganda before spewing it all over a totally irrelevant thread.

And yeah, you care so little about it that you derail the entire thread talking about it and obsessively trying to prove your point with graphs you can't even read. Mmhmm. Gotcha. Keep fighting the good fight brosaiah.

>> No.6644493

>>6644484
Bro, you just ruined any chance you had with her by posting that shit here. If she finds out who you are, she's going to think you're batshit.

>> No.6644500

>>6644479
>you're going to blame men for your decisions to wear skimpy clothes
>men prefer women with skimpy clothes
>men give more attention to women with skimpy clothes
>men are willing to buy shit that has hot women with skimpy clothing on their advertising
>men devote their time and money to hot women in skimpy clothes
>IT'S NOT OUR FAULT THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN CHOOSE TO WEAR SKIMPY CLOTHING

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>>6644500
>I WANT ATTENTION

Is this really why you want to dress nicely?

>> No.6644534

>>6644484
you're creepy, and that dress is adorable. any lolitas know the name?

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>>6644534
don't give this weirdo any more attention he's cyber stalking that chick hard

>> No.6644537

>>6644507
I personally don't dress like that, or for male attention at all (I mean it - I'm fucked in the head, anorexic, and desire nothing more than to be as little sexually desirable as possible) but I feel bad for the women who actually want and like male attention. They are tricked into looking sexy to get attention, and then they are thrown away by the same men because they suddenly decided that sex is bad and she was "spoiled goods" for giving men what they wanted at some point.

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>>6644430
Are you seriously this dumb? Do you not think women were judged primarily on beauty before the 20th century? Do you know nothing of history at all?

The first line of attack on any prominent woman ever has been that she was ugly. Homegirl fucking related.

Also,
>tfw you actually get dragged into the bullshit trolling
feels bad man
I'm sorry ladies

>> No.6644552

>>6644537
>they suddenly decided that sex is bad and she was "spoiled goods" for giving men what they wanted at some point.
This is seriously just nerd bullshit, most normalfags don't think this way at all. I was a virgin until 21 and only interested in normalfags, and they pretty much all dealt with it like I had hymenical leprosy.

Don't take what people say here so seriously.

>> No.6644558

>>6644548
No, the first line of attack was promiscuity, as it remains today.

>>6644537
I agree, but when you think that a relationship is based on looks then you will get those kinds of people.
It should be based on personality and what-not.
Buying into the established paradigm will continue to result in the same.
Those who mean well wouldn't care about the sex thing like >>6644552 points out.

It really isn't that big of a deal to me, but a good deal of women out there just want to party and then regret it later in life when they haven't 'hooked up' with someone, because the 'used goods' does hold some validity.
Those used goods usually don't end up in a very good condition, which causes people to be very wary.

>> No.6644595

Firstly, don't try to be lolita for your boyfriend. Jesus christ what are you doing? If you actually want to wear lolita you should do it for yourself and because you like the style and not for someone else. It is an expensive hobby and if someday you break up (and I'm guessing you probably will because you sound pretty young) you will have just dropped a ton of money on clothes you might not even actually like.

Think for yourself. What really makes you want to wear lolita?

>> No.6644604

>>6644396
>Women have been treating guys like all they want to see is vag and tits.

Man, that is obviously why we wear lolita then, huh? It really shows off my vag and tits amirite?

I'm not even sure if you're paying attention to the thread at all, let me help you.

>I don't wear lolita for men
>You: Sure you don't
>What are you talking about
>You: You wear lolita because you assume men just wanna oggle you

This is literally how retarded you sound because you haven't bothered to pay attention to what you're replying to.

>> No.6644633

>>6643293
>>6643272
>>6643306

You mean people can hold muscle and fat differently and height and weight mean absolutely nothing for how fat you are? Holy shit, who would have guessed?!?!?!?!
Jesus, you people are so fucking stupid.

>> No.6644646

where the hell is the janitor

>> No.6644652

>>6644646
Have you not seen the entire front page? We are abandoned.

>> No.6644654

>>6641426

Let me guess, you also prefer women who don't wear makeup, too, right?