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Saw this picture in a /fa/ meme thread and was wondering, would you wear lolita to a first date with someone you've met online and who might not know much about it?

Like rick owens in the picture, lolita might be a bit weird to someone not familiar with it, but then again if you were to go on a second or a third date it's going to come up eventually and if they're creeped out by it chances are they're not very compatible with you anyways. How do you feel about this?

>> No.10241748

I wore casual lolita on my first date with my now-husband in part because I knew that if it scared him off we wouldn’t be compatible anyway. I think you should wear what you feel most comfortable and beautiful in.

>> No.10241752

Those dorkshadows are mainstream now


Don't date a Lolita, I did in 2014 and thought a girl into Japanese culture that dressed traditionally would be cute

But they're boring don't want to get their burando dirty, usually very liberal and usually are fucked and chucked or ethots

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>>10241752
Also watching anime is boring as shit, they also keep asking you to teach them how to speak Japanese, and anime conventions are boring.

It's usually a bunch of socially awkward fucking losers standing around, buying basically over priced Funko pops and posing for pics

>> No.10241755

if i've met somebody online, chances are i have photos of me up on the website in jfashion, i also don't meet up with people without chatting with them a bit so it would probably come up in conversation that i like altfashion/jfashion even though i might not mention the name "lolita" specifically

>>10241741
lol i love rick owens and still thought those were converse

>> No.10241760

>>10241752
>>10241753
Sounds like a fun time to me!

>> No.10241798

Does anyone have the translation of Misako's blog post about this?

>> No.10241840

>>10241752
Goths and Old Schoolers are more fun

>> No.10241889

>>10241752
Shut up Sieg, you useless scrote. No one wants to date you anyway

>> No.10241909

>>10241741
I also need to chat for a while before meeting up in person with someone, so I guess it would be hard for the person to meet me without knowing what Lolita is.

But, down for your question, I guess it depends on where we are going for a first date.

>> No.10242013

>>10241753
You are describing cosplayers, not lolitas

>> No.10242153

>>10241741
Ehh, my husband really likes feminine/ultra girly ways of dressing. He probably would have gotten a kick out of it honestly.

>> No.10242154

>>10241741
I would wear what I felt like wearing that day.

>> No.10242271

>>10241741
Depends, I would completely understand someone not being comfortable with the extra attention for a first date so I would at least talk to them about it beforehand. However if it's a deal breaker I wouldn't date them in the first place. I already can't wear lolita at my workplace, I don't want to be deprived of it in my spare time too.

>> No.10243850

Dating lolitas sucks. They never want to do anything fun because it could get their clothes dirty and they never want to do anything active or thrilling. Not even mentioning the myraid of issues these hoes have.

Fuck and dump only.

>> No.10243854

>>10241741
Brolita here. Deffo be wearing lolita on my first date.

>> No.10243874

>>10241752
>lolita
>dressed traditionally

Retards get what they deserve

>> No.10243888

I wear both lolita and fairy kei, and while I might not wear either of them to a first date, I would still keep the aesthetic similar (if that makes any sense). I'm a lifestyler so I don't really have much in the way of normie clothes anymore, but I do still have some simple pastel dresses and cardigans that I could coord in a quite normie manner. Although, I don't really do too much online dating. If I'm going on a date, it's almost always with someone I've met in person or was friends with beforehand, so they've already seen my true form lmao

>> No.10243952

>>10243850
Lol did a lolita break your heart anon?

>> No.10243963

>>10243850
Anyone who dates scrotes off 4chan is asking for problems.

>> No.10244783

>>10243952
Sounds like anon was the one who was fucked and dumped.

>> No.10244816

>>10243850
>Fuck and dump only.
You can't even do that either, because gulls get offended at the thought of sex. Everybody pisses. Everybody poops. Everybody fucks, big deal.

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>>10241752
>>10241753
So dating a girl you only liked because you assumed she’d be subservient didn’t go well. Shocking.

>>10243850
I weep for you anon, I can’t believe that bitch had the nerve to not be exactly what you wanted her to be.

>> No.10247795

All of these fucking replies.
Will summer never end?

>> No.10247799

>>10243850
Lolitas don't have sex. Especially not with men.

>> No.10247946

I'm in lesbians with a lolita and she's a fucking hoarder with a ton of jfash she only wears once in a blue moon. If I didn't love her so much it would be a deal breaker. Thank god for konmari becoming popular so I can encourage her to cull the herd to a few favorite pieces.