/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>mfw /cgl/ is more lolita than 'western' cosplay

>>10258453
I spent the past 10 minutes writing a reply just to delete it and dumb my story down for you since I come off as a "Nice Guy" way too bloody often. I don't want to be a redditor.

In short: I got fucked over for the past year and a half by trying to genuinely care and help her through tough times, losing sleep over it even. As she goes between ghosting me or just bad at replying. I just want to be friends at the very least. She was so quick to literally drop me to acquaintance level when I mentioned our "friendship" too.

>I was there when she was at 40 followers and 20 FB friends, cheering her on.
>She now has 800+ followers, 400+ FB friends and has thrown me aside like nothing.

All I wanted was a friend to care about me and someone to talk to. And instead she stabs me in the back before anything can really start. Fuck the Australian Cosplay scene, shit literally made me even more depressed

Why are people like this.

>>10257498
Ignore what i've said. It's obvious i'm saying all these things because I don't get cosplayer girls because of problems that are very paticular to me.

I should stay as an incel forever and not attempt to flirt, date or begin any relationshi with a female. I should cosplay with my friends and run away, metaphorically, when asked about girls. I should not look out for girls and refuse their flirts - whenever I detect them of course.

Sorry for wasting your time replying to me, anon. I'll do my best to be happy being the gf-less guy of my cosplaying group.

>>10224836
Oh man that's sad. I kinda relate on that - being quite the sperg, doing my best to be a nice guy, but sometimes the spaghetti just drops.

I'm just glad the community around me understands this and likes me a lot. Slowly i've been able to get more 'normal', but it's a long road to go. May he rest in peace.