/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>losing weight
>used to be a whale with equally whale sized arms
>arms are the same size, just saggy from the loose skin
>told I have my granny's arms, its genetics and if I work out it will just make them look bigger
>ill show you
>try toning my arms
>still sagging and the added muscle only made them look bigger
>when I lift my arms there's an actual roll of skin and the arm is almost as wide as my face
>when I hold my arms out the skin reaches below my arm pit
>too embarrassed to wear my dream cosplay now or short sleeved shirts in general

This is terrible. I used cosplaying as motivation to lose weight and my granny's arms have struck hard. I guess I'm cursed to have hammy arms.


>>8310063
I know that feel, anon. I've lost and gained almost all 50 pounds back in a year. It sucked. You can lose the weight again, don't feel like a failure. Congratulations on getting your degree!

>>7855500
My boyfriend told me about a week ago that he got with me because he was still blubbering over his ex-girlfriend and wanted some comfort. He's still not over her.
He says he loves me, so to him that makes everything okay between him and I.

I don't know how to feel. I don't know if I should just suck it up and get over the fact he still feels for his ex ( they don't speak to each other, she broke up with him ), or be upset. He used to compare me to her too. It makes me want to cry.

>Get first "real" boyfriend
>Let him be the first to see my body
>He calls me beautiful despite being a good 20 pounds overweight
>We fall for each other pretty quickly
>Over the last few months I see sides of him I'm terrified of
>Shares a good handful of traits my abusive mother does
>Puts me down all the time by calling me a cunt, retarded, a bitch, etc
>Flies off the handle often to the point where he'll throw appliances around or punch the wall
>At the end of the day he'll tell me he loves me and apologize
>Claims he'll never touch a woman in that way
>I can't tell him I love him still or if I'm terrified of being alone when we break up
>He's the only person I talk to aside from my father whom begs me to break up with him
>We're having a talk when he comes home from work today
>He says if this talk goes south he won't speak to me anymore for wasting his time

I know I got myself in to this situation, but I'm terrified. Once he's out of my life, I have nothing left except for my dad. I have no friends, I'm a hermit and I can't bring myself to go outside most of the time. I don't even know if I love him anymore, or if I just want someone to cling on to. He makes me feel like shit almost daily, but I don't want to be alone.

>tfw black