/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10043125
Ideal gf
>loyalty above all else which I'll always promise to return
>is open to the concept of affection and a lot of physical contact
>healthy interest in sex and open to exploring/trying new things and isn't content with missionary once a week
>recreational drug-use isn't a perquisite but I'd rather someone who isn't a completely insufferable straightedgefag, would at least consume alcohol with me
>darker sense of humour who'd indulge me with mine and isn't offended easily
>knows how to strike a fine balance between not taking life too seriously but being serious about what they want and what their convictions are
>is willing to argue with me/bring something up like an adult when I do or say something she doesn't agree with and doesn't simply walk away or hangup the phone during a difficult conversation that isn't going her way; I need communication and I absolutely hate being made guess what someone else is thinking
>isn't overly jealous or insecure; if another guy/girl openly expresses interest in you while I'm around and they're not being a creep about it/know to stop, I'm secure enough in myself to know nothing would come of it and take it as a compliment, I usually expect the same of my partner
>doesn't have to have taste in music/movies/videogames/weeb identical to my own because I adore sharing the things I love with someone new and exploring their tastes as something new myself
>is fine with the concept of space and not doing absolutely everything together all the time
>if lolita, gothic/classic a huge plus
>doesn't have to fit a specific type appearance-wise because I've dated women of all shapes and sizes; just don't be obese

>>10014022

I met my comm leader (let's call her J) a few months ago at a lolita meet in my city organised by herself, this is the first one I ever attended so I was a bit nervous and shy appearing in lolita in public, partly because I like being extravagant in my outfits, but mostly because I am a bit on the heavy side.

Anyway, J was very reassuring and kind at the start of the day and that kinda boosted my confidence. Towards the end of the day I got talking to her alone again but she had changed her tune. I have a pro-choice tattoo at the top of my arm, J must have seen it because the first thing she said to me was "So you like killing babies, huh?" I was quite taken aback by this and I just said "I believe in the right to choose.". I've gotten some dirty looks in my life but this takes the cake, the scowl she gave me was unbelievable "So the right to kill babies? Pathetic."

She started off on a tirade about how lefty minded women like me are quite possibly the worst people alive. She brought up things totally unrelated to the abortion issue, such as the refugee crisis (Which she called the "rapefugee" crisis) and the mainstream medias attack on Donald Trump and strangely how the the rebel groups in Syria are actually just Al Qaeda rebranded as Jaish al Islam (Sword/Army of Islam) and that Assad was the democratically elected president of Syria and any mention of "chemical attacks" was just terrorist groups gassing civilians to make it look like Assad was the perpetrator.

She ended it with a snide remark. "You could lose a few pounds, honey." Then she blew me a kiss. I have never felt so traumatised in my life. Needless to say I will not be participating in any further events organised by her. I don't want to go back to another meet, gulls.

>>9892350
>tfw no Amazonian seagull gf

>tfw no lolita gf who loves Kate Bush as much as I do

>>9143348
>tfw no culchie egl gf

>said I'd go out to a friend's birthday party tonight and get drunk last week
>like her a fair bit and would like to see her
>spend the night lying on the bathroom floor contemplating my existence and where it all went wrong instead

Have you ever found that one person you're so madly infatuated with that spending time looking for/meeting other potential partners just feels like a giant waste of time because they'll never come close to the person you're fixated on? I'm feeling that hard right now, and to top it off, I can't have them either.

>it takes two to tango, two people created this life!
>"Alright, well we're clearly not ready to be parents. Abortion/adoption would be the best course of action, otherwise this could ruin our lives."
>sorry I don't care what you think, it's my decision as a woman alone, you have nothing to do with it!

>I’m an autistic queer trans woman, who also deals with other neurodivergency and mental illness.

Just remember that there's no justice in the universe when you consider Iwata is dead and someone who unironically describes themselves as the above is allowed live.

Goals for this year

>get loli gf

It will happen this year. I can feel it guys

>>7790973
No bullying the Canadians pls.

>tfw I never tried poutine in Ottawa