/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10627840
I agree with all this. The casualization of abuse kinks is a goddamn nightmare. People can't help their fetishes but there's deeper underlying issues than "haha it make my weewee tingle :)" and it's endangering society and romantic norms. Now it has me thinking it may have been something popularized by patriarchal men a long long time ago to control women for their own perverse degenerate desires and signal the "harlots"; then they'd gaslight disturbed women into believing it empowers them. I know I'm deeply overthinking things but that kind of nonsenical hedonism is a major turn off for me and I'm getting really fucking sick of it. I happen to like pure girls for reasons beyond my control and somehow that makes me the toxic fucking weirdo.