/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Posting in this thread because one thread is literal hell, and the other has a weird unrelated pic

>new "friend" added to group chat online
>constantly posting cringey tumblr memes, acts like tumblerina
>wants to get "serious" about cosplay
>suggest some things to help them improve their cosplay
>gets defensive whenever a suggestion means more work, or shrugs it off
>group chat talking about something cosplay or lolita related
>newcommer derails convos with some shitty memes and tumblr posts, also sometimes makes crude remarks towards others making the chat awkward for a couple of days
>starting to question why they were even added to group, bring it up with another bro
>they say new group "friend" has been nothing but rude to them and a couple others

I don't understand why they were added if nobody likes them, I've tried making a new group chat before excluding them, but theres always one of two people (Who we all really like) that say "oh don't forget about ____!" and adds them without anybody saying anything