/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Mother pulled me to the side to discuss something "serious"

>I found out the dresses you wear are called lolita dresses...did something happen in your childhood you never told me? I knew Frank was a snake but good god if he touched you...

That's very sweet, mom...but no...

>Are you sure?!? Why are you wearing these dresses if they're called that? I found that there are even grown men who wear these dresses online doing sex work!

My mother is messaging me like every week with stuff like this. We end each conversation on a good note that makes it seem like she understands she was overthinking and then she finds some new stuff to ask.

About 2 weeks ago I went out to the mall in lolita just to shop a bit. A really cute guy just casually chatted me up in the food court when I was eating and we hit it off well. He showed a pretty large interest in what I was wearing and wanted me to give him a rundown on lolita, but I just called it "japanese fashion" so he wouldn't make any weird connections.

I'm really ashamed to say that I straight up just had sex with him in the stall wearing my coord. He gave me his number but it wasn't even a real number and I feel like such a moron. I've never been one for casual sex, I've never been one to just yolo like that, I don't even know what came over me and almost feel as if he must have planted something in my food when I got up to get napkins or something, even though I know that's ridiculous.

Tfw bf says he'd leave you for Nigri

>>9946550
Right? And once the bar goes low enough anyone under it will just fuck your shit up and be a general waste of time.

Been trying to make friends beyond the couple online irl friends I have and its been going well enough, but can't wait to aspie out when it comes to any girl potentially worth half a damn

So, I tried to dye a silver wig black via Rit Dye-more liquid. But it’s only a tint darker? Am I missing something? I followed an Arda tutorial and did everything correct. Should I be using a different brand or two bottles? Or am I just fucked.

11 more days and /cgl/ will be deleted. Where will you go after?

>tfw you're a crossplayer who secretly wishes they were an anime boy
>tfw you were starting to fall for the Tumblr genderqueer meme, then realized it's all a sham and there's actually some validity to the whole "People are being brainwashed by Tumblr and anime to question their gender and ruin their lives" thing

As constrictive as they are, gender roles facilitate civilizations and give people a sense of purpose. As a sort of collective nihilism among the youth starts to take over, what use is gender anymore? That's the starting point for gender-based "activism". It's important to note that the nihilism in itself isn't the disease, but the natural product of a garbage society that's been lying to us all our lives. We're told that we're special individuals every day, and some of us do become artists, musicians, writers, actors, etc, but let's face it - the bulk of the population are fodder for a disgusting machine that leeches us our entire lives.
If there was some social worth to "genderfluid" people in the western and western-derived world, the same way Native Americans had/have social worth for "Two Spirit" individuals for religious purposes, maybe it'd be good. As it is now, it's a frivolity. And the main export of frivolity is distraction, the encouragement of inaction and complicity. It's another ploy to get people to waste their youth, buy compression bras, get fake tits, etc in a bid to "feel like themselves".
As long as freethinking teenagers and young adults in society are falling for this frivolous meme (as well as the memes of "demisexuality", "autigender", and other seemingly unnecessary add-ons to the otherwise valid LGBT collective), starting a revolution and working toward radical change will take a prolonged backseat. Fighting over nomenclature, classification and the realization of feelings that can never fully be explained by human language - or perfectly expressed within the existing limits of the human body - is a fool's errand.

>buy some stuff from a US-based shop (I'm in Europe) while multi-tasking
>select USPS First Class international package by mistake
>don't realize until it's already shipped
>rip, guess I have no tracking
>notice customs number in the receipt
>according to Google, apparently some people can still track their packages with it
>enter my customs number on the USPS tracking page
>"Status not found"
>rip in pieces
If it doesn't update with any information, could I still just wait for a month, contact my post office to ask if they have it, and try to use the customs number to help them identify the package?