/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10143232
>go to first con like 2 or 3 years ago
>wasn't really planning on doing cosplay
>friend offered and made me a generic sailor uniform in a short period of time
>super excited
>get tickets and first stop is the dealers room/artist gallery thing
>within literally minutes some large visibly drunk black dude comes up behind me and puts his arm around me
>whispers in my ear "do you know why girls wear skirts?"
>vodka potently on his breath
>visibly shaken, i ask "why?" while quickly scanning the area for my friend who was just with me
>see her and great she's at a booth out of earshot
>black dude answers my question saying "easy access" while groping my butt and credit card swiping me
>try to move away and he lets go and just walks away after what I assume was his friend calling him
>despite being a tranny im really smol and part asian so im pretty passable so getting hit on was nothing new to me and i usually just tell people I'm really a dude to reject them
>was too terrified to out myself in fear of retaliation let alone say anything
>friend walks up as black dude was leaving
>asks me if he was a friend
>tell her no and that he mistaken me for someone else
>continue on to con
>too embarrassed to tell her and didn't want to ruin our day there so I waited until later that day
Haven't felt that violated since high school. How the fuck do girls put up with this?

>>9074406
>But if you'd rather just whine and hope a lolita girl falls into your lap with no effort on your part, be my guest.

All I did was make a comment about not having a lolita girlfriend in a thread for lolita girls and their boyfriends. If I get hostility just for entering a discussion I can only imagine the shit I'd get if I actually tried in person, which is why I'm so discouraged from trying.

>>9067062

>be me Asian
>thinks going to parties and getting drunk is a waste of time
>rather watch anime
>one day girl approached me asked me out
>me ask her "do you watch anime"
>bitch was like "you mean children cartoons? You are into that kind of stuff? Haha so childish"
>am still mad to this day