/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8375238
Mfw I see you hurting.

Put my first coord together today and I looked horrible. I invested so much time and money into this first coord to make sure that it was perfect for my first meet and I end up looking like ita trash. Theoretically it'd look good but everything just fits so....poorly. I didn't realize that my shoulders would look so unreasonably broad in a puffy blouse and that the waist of the jsk would sit on my ribcage also making me look bigger...Maybe I should just give up on my kawaii lolita dreams and go back to 50s vintage because this morning...I felt so ugly and bitter that I tried and failed so badly...I love the style so much but for now I think I might look at things that are not sweet, maybe sell the blouse and jsk for something more in my comfort zone like classic. Has anyone got their dream dress before and it just...sucked? I feel so upset that my dreams have been crushed after so much

>>8097427
Well, to put it into context, we were on Skype when I started sending pictures of sweet/classic cords. He was silent for a while so I asked him what he thought about them. He was like
"That's so fucking horrendous. It's hideous. Who would dress like that. They look like they're covered in baby shit. I hate it."
I'm so appalled because I had really aspired to look like the girls in the coords when I became brave enough to venture into sweet. I don't know how he feels about gothic but ?I think he hates lolita in general.. He knows I own nameless poem and I've talked about the fashion before but nothing else. I'm not sure how to handle this..

>>8070544
This disturbs me so much. How is this even allowed in cons?! I just imagine her disgusting ass sitting on stuff and literally every seat she sits on becomes the germ equivalent of a toilet...