/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I'm looking for some advice here:

>Join cosplay comm on facebook using false name/anime character avatar because I don't use facebook
>Meet up with them, have fun, everything went totally well
>Account gets banned & deleted by facebook because not my real name
>Create new account with fake name but use actual picture of myself
>Join group
>Pending
>Few days later:
>'Pending' disappears and is replaced by 'Join group'.

So in other words...they rejected me? I was so nondescript and inoffensive I can't imagine that they suddenly would want to block me for some reason, especially considering there are hundreds of people in the group and a few of them are kinda creepy guys.

Part of me is being logical about this and thinks OK, I still had a fake name so maybe they just think I'm a randomer or something and I'll go to the next meetup and ask politely about it and see what's going on.

But the other part of me is actually kind of hurt because I really enjoyed my time with those people and it was really fun, some of the admins asked who I was in the group and a few people told me to add them as friends.

I don't shy away from confrontation in the slightest and because I'm taking this so personally I'm really working myself up and I'm worried I'm going to go there looking for a fight over a misunderstanding. Especially if I actually have been rejected I think I might properly kick off and I know fur will fly if that happens.

What would /cgl/ do? Am I actually being snubbed or does this just sound like something I'm blowing out of proportion and getting mad over nothing?