/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9071590
If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. I'm not saying this to be a SJW, but because that is a clear drama bomb waiting to be set off. Don't be the one setting it off. That will just cause you to waste a lot of mental energy.

You can avoid interacting with them any more than basic civility, which should be easy enough if you have little in common with them. And even easier still if the comm is large, or getting larger.

In local comms, people will split off into cliques based on mutual interests, plus location. The important thing to know is that this is nothing personal, and is perfectly normal in all hobby groups as they expand.

Location is just about convenience: after people settle down into jobs and apartments/condos/houses, they will get into a life routine. The closer a meetup is, the less of a chore it is for lolitas to dress up and haul ass out.

Seeking companionship with lolitas who share similar interests outside lolita fashion, is also natural. The lolitas who attend meetups at art museums and galleries, because they like art or art history, will have more in common with each other than with the lolitas who normally find art museums and galleries boring. Similar thing with lolitas who like to cook, or eat gourmet food/drink (and like to spend money for it). Or lolitas who sew. Or lolitas who are students in university. Or lolitas who are part of fandom XYZ. You can converse only so much about lolita fashion before you get bored.