/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8363484
Don't worry, anon, tumblr is not the real world. One of my best first friends is FtM and he's got a bit of a girly face so passing doesn't always work. He's really polite though about letting people know he's a guy. And that's the biggest difference between actual transfolk and tumblrbatshits. Being decent and polite when interacting with other humans beings.

Tumblr fakeboi in public:
>nice employee, "how can I help you today, miss?"
>tumblr fakeboi, "OH MY GOD OH MY GOD I CAN'T I AM A DUUUUUUUUUUDE SO TRIGGERED DDDD:!" *proceeds to babyslap employee and run back home to mom's basement vowing to never leave the house again*

Actual human being in public:
>nice employee, "how can I help you today, miss?"
>person, "yeah, thank you, I need this, this, and this thing. oh, and easy mistake but I am a man by the way."
>nice employee, "oh gosh, I'm so sorry."
>person, "no biggie."

That's almost always all it takes. Now if someone's going to be a douche and start calling you a fag or whatever bullshit, that's when you starting fighting right back. Cause fuck that shit. No one deserves that.

Good luck to you and transitioning, mate.