/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I really don't have any business being anyone's mentor, but I'm trying to coach a new lolita in my comm. A part of me really wants to do my best to steer her away from wa but I just can't bring myself to criticize her lolita dreams.

>Doesn't know anything about lolita
>asks giftee if it's okay to get non lolita gift
>she says yes, has tons of options avenues for gift ideas
>spends over a hundo on trash bows that probably don't look anything like her reference images