/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9993126
>Sir Lancelot of Leinfelden holfe
Wew lad

Are you into jfash yourself? Are you fashionable yourself? Do you have anything to you and your personality besides fashion? Assuming you're interested in that at all that is.
There's not much "how" to it, you just meet a girl who's into jfashion, treat her like a person and try to form a connection with her if she's willing.
>inb4 "b-but where do I meet girls who dress like this?"
Did you try looking in your local conventions? The sad reality is that many girls don't or can't commit to their fashion in their daily lives so cons are your safest bet. Whether you'll find someone with genuine passion or just some rando who wears jfash to cons like it's a costume remains to be seen, that's depends on the individual.

>>9935593

>>9754250
Can she please stop?

>>9706376
>>9706506
>implying green is any better

>>9689578
That guy was likely someone's boyfriend, yes.
>mfw
>khakis
Unless you looked like an incredibly dapper casual dandy (which is probably not the case), that probably wasn't a good look. But don't worry, like I said this is fixable, you just need to wear some proper clothes and make it clear to the comm that you have genuine interest in the fashion.
If you feel more comfortable in something like dandy than ouji, try looking up dandy styles inspired by Edwardian, Georgian, Victorian or even 20s men's fashion and use that as reference. Use this reference for styling your hair and beard as well. Dandy fashion isn't generally named as accepted at lolita meetups in most comms as far as I know because it's not J-fashion and not directly linked to lolita like ouji is, but if you pull off the look, I doubt you'll be turned away.
>t. comm mod

>>8923157
>everything is ill-fitting
>nothing matches
>bathroom shot
Why