/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>First time at a con, Anime North with cousin
>Went for the Sunday in a milsurp IJA
>Had tons of fun
>plan to make my own cosplay next year (Bell from Danmachi)
>Invited by cousin for Atomic Lolipop
>Say no because work
>Fast forward to this week
>friend who has never been to a con before and cousin ask me to go to Unplugged
>Say no, I got work and if I wanted to go I would go in cosplay
>They continually coerce me into go despite stating my reasons
>Reason 1: I have work
>Reason 2: Even if I do have Friday off, I would want to go to all 3 days instead of just one
>Reason 3: I want to go in cosplay because I'm getting into the hobby and I'm passionate about it. I don't want to blend in the background as a normie
>Clearly state the reason multiple times
>They keep telling me to go and I'm giving no reasons
>ask me what I would cosplay as if I did have cosplay
>Said I'd go as Bell from Danmachi (In his upgraded armour, not his noob clothes in the beginning)
>"lol Anon that's so easy to make XD"
>Tell them it would be my first time making my own cosplay and I need to plan it and buy materials. I wouldn't make in time unless I want it to look like utter shit
>"lol whatever Anon you can make it all in a day it looks so ease"
>Attempting to hold in my inner rage

Are my reasons unreasonable and autistic or something? I clearly told them my fucking reasons so many times. I got work, and I want to go in cosplay, because I WANT to not because someone is telling me to. I don't want to blend in the background as a normie and I want try out making cosplay, as it became a new interest of my after AN, but I'm just not ready yet.

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