/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>In LTR with bf who I met at a con
>Generally "good" relationship, we get along well enough, are comfortable around each other, no constant major problems
>Except when we go to cons
>He expects me to take care of everything for him
>Make his cosplays, pay for tickets + hotel, do his makeup, etc etc
>I'll literally make lists of what he needs to remember to pack, set everything aside for him and he still manages to forget something every time
>Spends all his money on overpriced snacks, complains that he's fat and broke
>Literally cannot enjoy cons anymore
>Get jealous of single friends enjoying cons unburdened

Cons were all that made me happy. Cosplaying, cons, dealers rooms, artist alley, meeting other people with the same interests.
Suddenly though, even though I finally have the money to attend more cons, their appeal has dropped. I still love all those things but I feel too depressed to enjoy them fully and am terrified of dropping hundreds on a con trip just to not enjoy it.
Has this happened to anyone else here?

also
>giving this much importance to physical appearance

>>8180998
>122 is fat for your height
>you're in the average range for your height
nigga what