/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9818244
I'll help you stay strong anon. These girls will literally try to make you their fucking life. It's also awkward as shit when they have their friends around because chances are you're the only person who's ever going to have your shit together in the group. That won't keep everyone from judging you though. Your mother (if you care about her opinion) won't ever look at you the same way too. To top it all off though, if that girl gets pregnant she's more likely to keep it. Also younger people are fucking boring as hell these days because they either have shitty hobbies or are really terrible at everything, yet insist they're passionate about it. I'm a bit younger than you, and it was always too much trouble for me to deal with even a while ago. If you don't throw out the idea completely, be a platonic friend for a little while and see how you feel about it in a few months of getting to know them.

>tfw 5'0" guy
>feminine face
>slim body
>really love lolita
>fit brand effortlessly
>study lolita makeup tutorials extensively
>been on /cgl/ since 2011 so it isn't just a weird phase
>but I'm not trans, sissy, or femboi, or even gay just really appreciate as admire the fashion
>help out lolita friends with their coords and they consistently come back to me for more ideas when they get positive response from the community
>one of them is really pushing for me to just brolita it up
>I really want to but
>have a monster 5 o'clock shadow that will rear its ugly head within just 2 hours of shaving and would make me look terrible
>plus a stubborn mustache that will never shave close no matter how many passes I make against it

It's not fair.