/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

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If it's any consolation, if you only "realize" you were in love with the person after they're no longer that into you, it's possible you're just mistaken with your feelings. Losing important friends hurts just the same, and especially when you're younger it's easy to mistake strong feelings as love or hate when you don't have much experience with relationships.
During my life I've had three really important friends bust out the "but anon I'm actually in love with you and have been for years" speech whenever they were no longer monopolizing my friendship. Obviously I'm not heartless so I'd try to balance my time better between them and other friends. Every single time when they realized they weren't going to lose me, it was only a matter of a couple of weeks before they'd go "oh I no longer like you / I was mistaken sorry". Keep in mind they were all girls who aside from this have shown no interest in the same sex.
So after experiencing the same things on three different occasions by three different people I am wholeheartedly convinced that young girls, especially those who are into weebshit, are capable of telling themselves they're attracted to someone (even when that's not the case) as that justifies their strong feelings and broken heart after being "dumped". If they had never been in that situation, they would have never "realized" it, because that wasn't how it actually was and they just wanted to romanticize their hurt feelings. I'm solely attracted to girls myself, so you can probably imagine how bitter and wary those experiences made me and now I only have shallow relationships because I don't want to deal with overly dramatic girls mistaking their
While I'm not sure if that's what's going on with you guys, it gave me an excuse to share my years old salt on the subject, and hopefully you'll be able to move on if you try to think that it might not have been as big of a deal as your adolescent mind thought it was at the time.