/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

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I'm AYRT. Thank you, I hope I didn't seem creepy or anything, I just really miss her and she was kind of a hero to me. :(
It's sad to hear she had a falling out, and sad to hear she's completely done with Lolita, but it's nice to know she has moved on to other things and it sounds like she's probably more comfortable. Everyone does change, and it's better to do what makes you comfortable than to force yourself to do something you're not comfortable with. I'm glad she did what she needed to do even if it meant giving up blogging. Her blogs wear a real treat, and I think I loved her Lost Princess one even more than the Princess Portal. It was the sort of thing I've dreamed about writing myself, but never had the courage to.

I'm in the process of changing myself, though it's really uncomfortable. I feel like I'm changing all the time and dislike the feeling, and it has cost me relationships in the past. I'm actually consider sort of leaving Lolita myself. It's just too much for me, though this thread is reminding me about all the things I used to love about the fashion, so I think I'll keep wearing the clothes for a while even if not in a strictly Lolita way.