/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

really wish i was better at maintaining friendships. i've met a lot of kind lolitas who have reached out to me repeatedly but i just... don't have the energy, i guess? it can take me days or weeks (or never) to get back to anybody because i can't work up to it. hanging out is even more out of the question (pre-covid obv)

i just wish there was a way to mass transmit the message that they're amazing people, i'm just an antisocial homebody. hell, even discord and zoom meets would be too hard to keep up with. yet i'm jealous of lolita friend circles who always keep in contact--i wish i could do it, i've tried, but it's not me