/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>wear 90% lolita for 8 years
>in formative years
>never developed good taste in other clothes
>use lolita cookie-cutter formula for everything
>want to wear other things
>have no idea if I like a garment or if I like it because someone else does
>nothing seems to suit me

I still want to wear Lolita a lot, but I've made so many attempts to build a small, casual-normie wardrobe and I always end up getting rid of everything apart from absolute basics because it looks so weird on me. Some days I want to just blend in, but it makes me feel like I stand out more than ever.