/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>7790604
>They show their true colors eventually..once they get comfortable they start to test the boundaries with what they can get away with saying to you.
This is accurate. He constantly insulted me, tried pressuring me to do sexual shit, and expected me to change myself to meet his expectations. It's funny because he actually initiated the whole breakup in the first place:

>want to dump him but uncertain as to how to bring it up since it's my first relationship
>get into an argument over my goddamn music taste one day
>he insists that I don't truly like any of the music I listen to because it's all hipster-y bands, so I must listen to them to seem cool and prove myself to others
>tells me to delete all 5000 songs in my iTunes, get rid of my CDs, and start listening to "girlier" music
>say that's literally never going to happen because music is my 2nd biggest interest
>"IT'S JUST AN INTEREST, IT DOESN'T MATTER AT ALL"
>get pissed off and say he can just dump me if it's such a big deal
>starts crying and says "fine!"
>calls me not even half an hour later asking to get back together
>reject that offer in a heartbeat

Also, your ex sounds like a retard too. I guess the moral of the story is robots are on /r9k/ for a good reason.