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Who here /cutcontactwithparents/ ?

>> No.8466957

inb4 the redditor mommy lovers freakout

>> No.8466969

No, but considering moving to another state or country an not telling any of my old friends or family where I'm going, as my hometown is pretty toxic and most people I know seem to be incredibly negative and depressingly cynical now. Interested in hearing from people who have.

>> No.8466985

>>8466947
yep, deFOO'd a few years ago after getting into Molyneux's stuff.

>> No.8466990

>>8466947
Why did you cut contact with your parents anon ?
My father died 6 months ago, I fucking miss him.

>> No.8467001

Psychopath here, love my parents

>> No.8467024

I'm in the process of decoupling.

>> No.8467033

Me even tho they pay my phone and insurance its just not enough

>> No.8467049

Must suck to have shitty parents
My dad is literally my best friend.

>> No.8467056

>>8466990
Some people have parents who abused them their whole upbringing, others have alcoholics and drug addicts as parents. People have their reasons.

>> No.8467062

you guys are irl faggots and will regret it at some point

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>>8467001
>psychopath here

>> No.8467087

I'm an introverted guy and only chat with my parents once every few weeks, but haven't cut off contact.

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>>8466969

>calling everyone and everything depressingly cynical

M8, you might be the depressingly cynical one.

>> No.8467117

I used to hate my parents and still have some resentment towards them but forgiveness is the way to go. Obviously if they are totally batshit then cut all contact but it’s still smart to forgive people.

>> No.8467120

>>8467062
>youll regret not keeping in touch with 2 ambitionless losers that did nothing but belittle your achievements and physically and verbally abuse you for 15 years

lol right

>> No.8467140

Ive been there and done that but dont recommend it. First of all in all liklihood they are boomers and deserve it. However we have some weird electric bond that cant be shaken with parents.

So Its less of a burden to keep minimum cnotact than to cut them out completely. Talk to them like once a month, visit on thanksgiving or christmas, thats about the sweet spot

>> No.8467282

>>8466947

My mum suddenly cut contact with me when she passed away last November.

>> No.8467296

>>8466985
What stuff? Interested

>> No.8467324

>>8466947
No, I fight with them sometimes, but I love being around them and would hate to lose contact.

>> No.8467364

>>8466947

TFW extremely alpha dad who is a role model and bro - letting me work at his company even though I'm a new grad and grossly underqualified
>successful business owner
>competes in crossfit - healthy and fit
>successful investor - develops real estate on the side
>chad tier personality - many friends and gets hit on constantly by stacies
>came from nothing, understands the importance of hard work so will not give me a dime but instead devotes time to consult me on my investments and ideas.

feels fucking good to probably have the best dad a man can have.

>> No.8467365

>>8466947
>"who here is an /ungrateful delusional faggot/ /thread

>> No.8467386

>>8466947
I tried but then my dad died and I felt bad so I came back to live with my mother. He was the main reason I left anyway so it's not a big deal.

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>>8466947
Living alone for 2 years now. Speaking less and less with my parents. Haven't seem them until last Christmas. I'm really close to cutting them out of my life in general.

They are low IQ criminals and drug dealers while I just want to have a fair and honest life without all of that shady shit.

I only cared about my little sister and my Older Brother's Son that had potential. But he already carjacked and stole motorcycles so he went to juvi and my sister is now dating a dealer working under my father so there is absolutely no reason to keep contact.

>> No.8467405

I was about to last month. I even made a thread about it here. Now I donno, I’m trying to work it out. I have a lot of resentment, but at the end of the day, they tried their best I guess and I’m working through it. Really it’s up to us at this point to make it. We’re all dealt a pair of hands, and it’s so easy to get jealous of other people.

>> No.8467417

>>8467365
>my life is great so everyone else's must be too!!

>> No.8467450

>>8466990
uhh because parents are humans and usually humans can be shit, my dad left when i was 15 and my mom spendt all my teens days verbally abusing me, she was a drunk woman tho i don't fully blame her

>> No.8467506

this thread truly depresses me...

i hope you all remember to strengthen your family ties, lift your family up. (((they))) are trying to destroy the nuclear family. The nuclear family is the key to success in the west and without it, boys do not grow into men, and girls do not grow into women.

Take time and nurture those younger than you who depend on you, set a good example on how to be successful, be honest with them and allow them to learn from your mistakes.

>> No.8467543

>>8467506

Fuck off back to /pol/ you colossal faggot

>> No.8467592

>>8467049
ehhh its not bad when you cut ties. I cant stand my dad and want nothing to do with him and ever since putting that shit to bed, I have been much much happier. Stillk chill with my mom though. she's a good person and redpilled fully.

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>>8467282
Iktf

>> No.8467651

You have a responsibility to your parents who gave you life and busted their ass. You'll know when you have kids yourselves what a pain in the was you were and maybe stop thinking like a worthless teenager.

>> No.8467661

>>8467405
In a similar situation. I still think I need to move out at least, sometimes I just can't bear them.

>> No.8467674

>>8466947
I never met my dad. Grew up very poor in the midwest. Currently financially supporting my mother. Make 200k a year. She lucked out desu, desu.

>> No.8467689

>>8467543
althought i hate that this board has become /pol/, he has a point. notice other races and religions always have strong family ties, and family business. not just jews, but muslims, asians, eurasians.

look at the Rothschilds. You think the story would be the same if that dude employed 5 random people, instead of his 5 children?

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>>8467651
what if your parents threw you in psych wards for the duration of your formative years? Are you allowed to hate them then?

>> No.8467713

>>8467033
triggered boomer

>> No.8467733

>>8467707
why they do it

>> No.8467744

>>8467707
No.

>> No.8467751

>>8467651
Fuck off grandpa. Parents have children out of selfish desires and have no say whether they are born, so they owe nothing to their parents. Boomers destroyed this country and it and is collapsing on the younger generation as a result. We are going to throw people your age in nursing homes that will make Auschwitz look like Palm Beach and leave you to rot. Deal with it.

>> No.8467789

>>8467651
I never asked for my parents to have me. Also
>implying you have to have kids

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>>8467733
FUD basically. I have an emotional disorder that I took upon myself to treat with cannabis, what I really needed was CBD, but there could be no way of knowing this as the chemical wasn’t isolated at the time and you sure as shit couldn’t find CBD in Illinois during that time (early to late two thousands)

Anyways, I decided to try and be honest with my parents about this as I was still young and naive and believed in the perseverance of truth and other such nonsense.

And what do ya know, got molested by a 250 lb behemoth in a shitty psych ward. I banged 15 chicks during the cascade downfall type self desolation that came after that time period so sleeping at night isn’t too hard anymore, and I’ve quit the hard drugs for good.

Anyways, yeah. I can hate them right? Please let me.

>> No.8467844

>>8467789
Honor killings should be legal.

>> No.8467853

>>8467804
they probably should have gone with a therapist first to help you with your disorder. The molesting thing isn't really their fault though. I'm guessing they're conservative and freaked out about the weed thing?

>> No.8467921

>>8467651
>>8467707

What if your mother was distant, and cold towards you? What if she only gave you love when you were making her look good to outsiders, or when you briefly met her insane expectations of you? What if she was violently explosive, and verbally abusive? What if your own mother called you names, and made you feel inadequate from an early age?

What if years later, you developed problems from this form abuse, and instead of helping you, she distanced herself from you and "hedged" her bet by investing more time on her other children that inadvertently became sociopaths with sex addictions and other personality problems?

What if your Dad let all of this happened?

What if while you struggled to pay your cell-phone bill, your Parents went on family trips with your brother/sisters?

What if your parents were fine seeing you spent days upon days locked in your room and never even knocked your door once for years on end?

What if your parents did all of these things and never said sorry nor acknowledge any wrong doing on your part?

>> No.8467995

Lol Jesus Christ. You didn't come with an instruction manual. Its worse if your a nut.

>> No.8468106
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8468106

I deFOO'd 3 years ago. It was a good decision but it can make life rather difficult and scary when you're a turbo-autist and the only person you have is yourself. The alternative is much worse though if you only stick with them because of the potential for money, social ties, or your own cowardice.

I've made progress getting my life together and one day hope to have a wife and children.

>> No.8468243

You've forgotten the face of your father and should be sent west.

>> No.8468567

I live/work 30 minutes away from my parents but I only visit once every month or two at most. I NEVER call or text them to see how they're doing. If they try to contact me, I keep the convo super short. They're not terrible parents, but they constantly say or do stuff that's low-key disrespectful to me. And they tried to use me as an ATM literally months after I graduated and started making great money.

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8468616

Rescue your father from the underworld.

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>>8466969
I'd say its okay to move without telling anyone beforehand. But a few days after you move, call up your parents/family and let them know you're safe and perhaps explain it to them. Friends can be replaced, family cannot. Even if you aren't close with them now, there's no reason you can't be close later.
Don't take this for granted, your parents raised you so far and deserve to know that you are okay and didn't get kidnapped or killed one night with no explanation.

>> No.8468768

>>8467395
IF I have to bet money I would bet you are american.

>> No.8468880

In 1998 I was 17 years old . I had a blowout with my dad about work and I moved out of my parents house in wash dc to Los Angeles. I lived in my sisters home for a month and got it together and never looked back or kept contact till my dad passed in 2010.
Im back in LA and have nearly no
Contact still.

If your ok with it , youll be fine

>> No.8468951

>>8466969
shit move everyone will think you're weird
just look for a job somewhere, tell everyone in advance and then move like a normal human being
burning bridges is never a good move

>> No.8468959

>>8466947
blood this thicker than water friendo

>> No.8468972

Some of you anons should try harder
I stayed alongside my dad for years when he was depressed. Gambling, drinking, stealing from me, eviction after eviction. I built up a lot of resentment but I knew it would be worse for him if I wasn't there.

>> No.8469066

I was close with my mother but she passed away in 2005.

I cut off contact with my sister because she's a bipolar insane cunt. That's unfortunate bc I don't get to see my nieces or my brother in law.

Some siblings/parents/cousins give a shit about you and others dont

Both of my siblings are complete nut cases.

>> No.8469126

>>8467651
Yeah, every single person with children is a perfect person that does everything they can to make life great for that child and they deserve only the best things in life huh?

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>>8468106
Take your religious propaganda elsewhere. Satan fucks your grandmother in the ass in Hell.

Holy fuck, what is 4chan coming to? mootykins, how could you just leave us with /pol/ and go to Google. gookmoot can't even speak English. Look at this shit. Please, let it all just end.

>> No.8469173

>>8469166

You should end yourself.

>> No.8469193

>>8469166
>mootykins
Who?

>> No.8469252

>>8467049
Must be nice

>> No.8469333

>>8467296
Stefan Molyneaux

>> No.8469375

>>8467543
t. nig/kike
/pol/ is 4chan

>> No.8469393

>>8469173
I second this

>> No.8469401

>>8466947
>Who here /cutcontactwithparents/ ?
y

>> No.8469426

>>8467395
Hello Kenny, sorry mysterion

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mid 20's here. Father ruined our family and my parents are divorced now. Mom is a narcissist that lack empathy so we don't really talk that much. I'm on my own now, and we recently had neighbors whose dad died out of nowhere from a heart attack. Their dad was an amazing and selfless person, and at the funeral they were all like "you should talk to your dad he loves you bla bla bla" meanwhile they have no idea what a piece of shit he was.

>> No.8469457

>>8469193
get out

>> No.8469490

>>8468951
this, nobody is going to miss you just because you didnt said good bye anon

>> No.8469501

gonna see my father one last time to say goodbye soon
gonna keep my mother close for the rest of my life

>> No.8469534

Unless your parents are some kind of abusive psychopaths I'm going to assume you are young. Don't cut off contact with your family. When you are a little older and more financially independent your relationship will improve with your parents. It will take work, but it is usually worth it.

>> No.8469559

>>8469490
Unless you are a fuck face, people will miss you and will be very offended that you didn't say bye to them. That's why we have good bye parties...

>> No.8469561

>>8467651
>You have a responsibility to your parents who gave you life and busted their ass

My parents were very very very wealthy. At age 7 I was sent to what you would call a military academy and after that lived in borderline poverty when I was home (rarely) I had a very strict regime of manual chores.. My younger brother was expelled from school never had to do chores or any kind and was out drinking at 16 with my fathers blessing and given half the family wealth. I was ok with it until they did that. Now I just fund them a bit disgusting. My mother was a sadistic bitch and when I asked her why we had been treated differently she just said we never liked you. I wasted a decade sending them cards on holidays and saying in touch on the phone. Not worth it. They are fucked up bad people who think inherited wealth gives them divine powers and have been very mean to anyone who worked or them or knew them their whole lives. Awful people. If your parents have a favourite child, don't waste your time and degrade yourself staying in touch with them

>> No.8469589

>>8469559
>will be very offended that you didn't say bye to them

fuck 'em if they were worth a shit you would not be leaving

>> No.8469610

>>8466947
I love Inside Llewyn Davis, but I'm still really close with my family. We grew up close and on really good terms, so there's no reason for me to /cutcontact/ with anyone. Parents gave me a lot of good financial advice when I was younger that they never got at my age. Why so edgy, OP?

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>>8467651
how about parents have a responsibility to provide a high qaulity of life to the fucking people that THEY decided to bring into this world?

honestly, poor people should NOT be allowed to reproduce. it only ends in heartache for everyone involved

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How would you explain to your fiancee's friends and family during your wedding that none of your family members will be attending?

>> No.8469986

>>8469252
Yeah
We smoke weed and do coke and pingas and go out partying with each other

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>>8466947
Left NY for CA cause parents are nutjob comp. sci. majors....

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>>8469776
THIS. Try telling this to a baby boomer though. They just blame the victim. Good luck changing your Depends fuckers. I get that no set of parents is perfect but come on at least meet the minimum requirements like providing a home and paying the bills and being responsible so your kids can have the same lifestyle you had at least or better.

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>>8467804
Same story minus the azns part. Weed is bad though you should smoke ciggys fgt. Also I wasn't molested.

>> No.8470179

>>8467707
I know a guy in his 60's that this happened to. He's all fucked up. He knows that he's 65 but acts like a child because he never had a childhood. One of his parents sexually abused him and then had him locked up at age 9 to cover it up. So fucking sad.

>> No.8470396

>>8467506
shut the fuck up retard

>> No.8470424

Everyone in my immediate family has autism but me. I didn't realize this until my late 20s. None of them can feel empathy or joy or just sit and hang out and build a relationship. I can't be around it anymore.

>> No.8471096

>>8466947
just recently cut ties with my mom. seriously hard pill to swallow.

my dad doesnt really talk to me but we're not close so whatever

>> No.8471103

>>8466947
/biz/ - Business and Finance

>> No.8471485

>>8467049
Most people are losers so why would most people be good parents?

>> No.8471521

>>8469788
they all died
i'm an orphan
etc.

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>>8467296

>> No.8472520

>>8467049
Same, anon.

>> No.8472538

>>8467543
Fuck off schlomo, 4chan is /pol/

>> No.8472546

>>8466947

Dad is an useless drug addict who got me hooked in my teens and ruined a great part of my life.

He got clean, I changed my life fully and I got a kid and we were just starting to build a relationship and he relapses after 6 years clean, and haven't seen him since.

So I guess he cut ties with me :(

>> No.8472560

>>8472546
He's probably ashamed and needs your help more than ever

>> No.8472561

>>8467506
you have no idea how undeserving some parents can be. life is not the front page of reddit sry.

>> No.8472621

>>8469776
>THEY decided to bring into this world?
Do you have ANY idea how many people are mistakes?

>> No.8472691

>>8472538
>4chan is /pol/

4chan is /b/ too then

>> No.8472709

>>8466969
I moved to this nice shit hole called Australia

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>>8466947
more like
>make $70,000 a year at financial analyst job
>still live with parents because rent is minimum $2,300 for a studio apartment

i fucking hate california so god damn much

>> No.8472751

>>8467921
Are you me?

>> No.8472851

>>8467365
This

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>>8466947
I love my parents. I just made homemade pizza with my mum and my dad has been helping me out with setting up miners. He's away a lot and I used to feel like I didn't spend enough time with him, but he knows that I love him. I'm hoping to make it and give them the retirement they always wanted.

I've been fortunate enough in life that I've always had someone looking out for me. I'm sorry that a lot of Anons here didn't have someone to protect them when they needed it too. I know that when I have kids, I'll do my damn best for them.

>> No.8473034

>>8469776
this anon knows whats up
theres no chance i would bring people into this hellhole the world is currently in unless i could guarantee the best possible life in every way for them

>> No.8473040

>>8467049
my dad literally never spent any time with me and my mother is literally annoying as shit

>> No.8473168

>>8467364

Sounds fucking asinine. Cross fit lmao

>> No.8473176

>>8467364

anon do u want to fuck ur dad? it sure sounds like that

>> No.8473187

>>8467506

Fucking kill yourself you mouthbreather

>> No.8473219

>>8466985
>deFOO

Why did he need to put a gay little initialism on it? It's not a new concept.

>> No.8473237

>>8468959

You're so fucking stupid. Look up the origin of that saying, it means the exact opposite.

>> No.8473264

>>8467417
>"Mom made me do the laundry! Molymeme was right!! I'm cutting contact with my F.O.O.!!!"

>> No.8473332

Genuinely feel sorry for people who had shit parents, particularly those who had a shit dad. I reckon a lot of you though seem like entitled faggots who expect perfect parents. My Dads redpilled though and is a good example as far as a role model goes. Seems like a lot of you are faggy teenagers looking to rebel. If you have a legitimate reason to hate your parents then so be it. When you have kids, don't be a faggot when things get tough and give up on your children.

>> No.8473343

>>8473237
You're so fucking stupid. Look up the origin of the saying, you'll find that the claim that the water refers to the water of the womb and the blood refers to a blood oath to be a completely unsubstantiated claim without citation.
Also the idea that the water would refer to the family and blood to friends, associates, or strangers is intuitively retarded.

>> No.8473381

>if dad died tomorrow he'd leave me 2mill
>invest it in wealth management fund, live off 6 figure passive income

Fuck bros wish this would happen to me. I hate my life

>> No.8473492

>>8467921
Can relate, fuck the people saying,
>But it's your mom, dad, they gave you life, you're their slave until they die.
>You must love your parents !
Fuck, some people should Never ever have kids. Every once in a while I see some mad bitch on the street screaming at their crying offspring. It's a game to them.

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Cutting off all contact with your parents is fucked up. That DEFOO shit...I don't know man. Your parents are your parents, no matter what. They fuckin brought you into this world.
I'll admit there are special cases where it's probably in someones best interest for their own safety and mental well being to do it, but a lot of you are probably just pissed over what you will view as trivial things 20 years from now.
Don't do something you will regret. Don't throw away what little bond you've got left with your parents. Work on making your relationship with them better. Don't destroy. Build.

>> No.8473621

>>8473492
>Being this much of a bitch when you likely live in a first world country
Even only 150 years ago parents had their kids go work in factories to help pay the bills
And you can't handle a little screaming?

>> No.8473631

>>8473040
Honestly baaaw-worthy

>> No.8473662

>>8469776

Let's turn humans into breeds like dogs, whose organs twist into knots after 12 or so years

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>>8469333
>>8472469
>>8466985
>>8473219

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SYc71ra4zTk

>> No.8473695

Hello fellow monynites

>> No.8473717

There are so many retards in this thread.
Bear in mind everyone that deFOOing largely comes from the mind of Stefan Molymeme, who has been cited as an example of non-religious cultlike behavior many times between himself as the seeming charismatic leader and his audience
Just read his damn attempt of a book at philosophy
You will find it retarded


(Not saying I don't agree with some of his broader ideas though)

>> No.8473731

>>8473514

Easy for you to say, both my parents are tweakers and for the longest time were to content to let me do whatever the fuck because they were too busy being high and making mistakes. I should have turned out much worse, and I'm still a fuck up!

Don't ever do meth guys, ever.

>> No.8473819

>>8473731
I this essentially what he means (or I mean) is that unless you've got something that really stands out as bad parenting on PAPER (like, a simple, shortly stated, verifiable fact such as "my parents did meth") then you shouldn't break off the bond with your parents
It's like that old poem that I can't remember, of the boy who says he'll do everything different from his dad, until at the end when he's become a father he ends up doing nearly all the same things, almost as if by accident or predetermination

>> No.8473864

>>8473731
You qualify as a special case.
>>8473819
Yeah, pretty much. I guarantee more than half the faggots here are just edgy little turds that are butthurt their parents didn't hug them enough, or they didn't help them enough getting on their feet, or didn't give them enough attention.
Well guess what fags, life isn't fair, not everyone has perfect parents.

>> No.8473923

>>8467921
Obviously your parents were very abuse, I would definitely cut contact yeah. Some people have serious mental issues, it is such a shame that such people have kids.... who they raise shitty and who will just keep this cycle going. I hope you can break the chains anon, no matter what people say ... it had a effect on you but it doesnt mean at all that you are like them or will become like them.

>> No.8474176

>>8466985
>>8467296
Molyneux is a nut and and is intellectually dishonest, don't take him seriously.
Look at some of his videos where a fan calls in disagreeing with him on a minor point. Constant interrupting, miscontruing arguments, dude cannot handle his echochamber being challenged.

>> No.8474776

You white people are insane

I would NEVER EVEN THINK about doing something like that with my parents (Korean)

crazy fuckers

>> No.8475278

Bump

>> No.8475606

my parents are the only ones that trully care about me, i feel sorry for you depressed fucks who never got to experience this.... family is the pillar of everything, if not even then support you, thats shitty.... probably not your fault, but still sucks

>> No.8475667

>>8467543
Nigger

>> No.8475702

>>8469986
Oh, I thought you meant you had a nice healthy relationship with him. I take back what I said.

>> No.8475767
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>>8466947
I don't recommend this.
Back in 1982 I was a sophomore in High School and my older brother went out and never came home. No note, no reason, no dead body, nothing. 35 years later, both my parents are dead and the anguish over the years took their toll on them.
I realize not everybody comes from a great family, and you have your reasons for anonymity, but consider others please.

>> No.8475772

>>8469986
sounds comfy desu

>> No.8475979

>>8466947
why the fuck would i cut contact with the people that brought me into this world? my parents are amazing people. yeah my dad is a huge fucking asshole that can get fucked sideways, but my mom is the strongest and kindest person i have ever met. yall are a bunch of fucking idiots if you think cutting out your parents will make your life any better (unless they are toxic like trying to ruin your credit or your life in some malicious way)

>> No.8476028

>>8474776
You need to realize, westerners after WWII only had children because they expected them to slave away for the state to pay for their pension ponzi. Abandoning parents in the west that were born between the 1940's and 1980's is fair game, they deserve to die lonely and forgotten for trading the future of their children for a check every month that not even slightly represents what they have worked

>> No.8476044

>>8467049
Fuck I'm jealous

>> No.8476070

Jesus, my 2.5k losses don't seem so bad anymore.
My parents would do anything for me. They will probably end up working just to pay off their mortgage until they die of the house they raised me & my two sisters in. They never ask for anything and never fought....they care about us so much...

jesus guys.

>> No.8476113

>>8466947
I've got good parents, and I see no reason to cut them out of my life. Obviously as time goes on I'll communicate a bit less but that's just something that happens. Also it's kind of difficult to cut a business partner out of your life since I went into business with my dad almost straight out of highschool. It's fucked up seeing all these examples of shitty parenting, it's also fucked up seeing all the ultra-edgy angsty teenagers who hate their parents.

>> No.8476188

>>8476028
That makes absolutely no sense brother, you sound really young and impressionable. Let some love into your heart, your anger is coming from somewhere and you are putting it somewhere else

>> No.8476212
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>>8467651
Fuck you. You had no choice in your parents, or even being born. It's completely involuntary, so the standards for the relationship should be even higher
>BUT WE'RE FAMBILEE
A shitty excuse used for centuries to try and sweep abuse and neglect under the rug.

>> No.8476512

>>8476028
Desu let robots pay our pensions

>> No.8476571

>>8467120
in 10 years your hormonal balance will have changed and you will look back to this time of your life as you being an ungrateful overdramatic teenager
happens to everyone, save for the tards who remain children mentally

>> No.8476810

>>8472714

ah jesus.

california and their fuck all taxes

fuck the governer and all state legislatures that keep fucking us over.

>> No.8477376

>>8473662
Mongrel detected.

>> No.8477411

>>8467364

>understands the importance of hard work
>gives son a job he is unqualified for

>> No.8477448

>>8472714

dont forget your 10% state income tax goy

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>>8473040
same. he was there on weekends, but he never brought me to fishing or hunting. he never told me about the birds and the bees. never told me how to stand up for myself. didn't think anything about getting girls. so i got addicted to MMOs for 10 yesrs until he got sick of it and kicked me out. now i'm a computer addict who used to breath anime. at least the anime part is gone. fuck you, dad.

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8478413

I fired my dad from my life like 10 years ago
He's a dipshit that believes in the most retarded conspiracy theories ranging from reptillian jew theory to Planet X approaching
fucking brainlet
>tfw when I am half brainlet

>> No.8478614

>>8476571
So you think having a child means you have a right to abuse them then expect them to forgive you?

>> No.8478784

>>8472621
This, most people were not wanted

>> No.8478864

>>8467296
Bending over backwards for Israel

>> No.8479125

>>8478413
>tfw no crazy conspiracy theorist dad
You can always take mine and I'll take yours

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>>8469534
>tfw financially independent
>tfw deadbeat family treats you like an ATM
What do?

>> No.8479350

>>8479316
iktf. move out

>> No.8479431

>>8479350
I did a long time ago and I still get hit up for money on the regular. It would be different if they were old and unable to support themselves, they just choose not to. I'm on the verge of severing ties completely.

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>>8467395
Get them on the deep web. Industrialize that operation

>> No.8480307

>>8479589
There name will instantly be on a list. In fact yours is now too. Mine too.

>> No.8480508 [DELETED] 

>>8467921
dude ive been there brother. it gets better just keep going.

>> No.8480610

>>8479431
kek my brother and I both live on our own and my mom wants the 3 of us to get a place together because she fucked up by trusting my dad and now she's forced to live with relatives. This is after she told me that she wanted my grandparents to go to their graves without knowing I was gay and suggests that I marry a girl after I get over my "lifestyle" phase. No thanks. Not living with someone that's ashamed of me.

>> No.8480670

>>8480610
should'nt have looked at all that trapcrap on 4chan then, faggot

>> No.8480715

Nah im comfy in my parents house. 29 y/o NEET third time i moved back home and this time im never leaving

>> No.8480967

Make sure you have your driver's license before you do this, don't make my brainlet mistake

>> No.8480987

>>8480967
l,mao how did you manage that

>> No.8481020

>>8480987
>taxi to airpoirt
>plane ticket
>got a job within walking distance
>cant get gf because no car
>roommate stopped paying rent
>went back home
>got license
>looking for apt right now

>> No.8481063

>>8480967
Why nigga? Make sure you have a job to pay rent plus clothes and you're good

>> No.8481085

>>8466947
>Grow up in lower class extremely disfunctional family
>Started picking up books..
>Started reading 5 min a day.
>Get good at it, ended up reading 1-2 hours a day, Everything from Jung, Freud, Rand Neuman. >When not reading listening to Molyneux podcastst and two years later Peterson.
>See how shitty my parents were, and can now articulate it extremely well.
>Confront parents
>Parents laugh when confronted.

Fuck em to hell and back.

>> No.8481103

Mom and Dad funded my crypto investments. I got my own money to pay for my own shit, but I've used 5k of the 50k they've saved up for me and said 'do what you want with it' when I was of age and have made 100k so far off it. They leave me alone when it comes to something they have no idea about.

My dad even asked me to put 5k on GVT after selling it to him like Jordon Belfort in Wolf of Wallstreet over the phone. It was $4 back then. You're welcome, pops.

>> No.8481115

>>8481063
that's what I thought too until I went out into the real world

>> No.8481138

>>8476571
You are right but you're ignoring his point, you probably didn't grow up in an abusive household. Some people did.

>> No.8481198

>>8466947
I did it when I was 19, was mad because they didn't showed any interest in me and they fully payed for everything my sister wanted.

The thing is when I got older my opinion on the neclet didn't changed but I came to the realization that they made me the man I'm today (self made). I forgave them and have restored contact with them.

>> No.8481213

>>8467506

This

Well stated anon... glad to revel asspain of the deviant filth who replied negatively

>> No.8481225

>>8467921
My nigga

Respect!

>> No.8482228

>>8479431
Stop giving them money.
What they will then think of your is their problem

>>8480610
Depending on your grandparents' ages you might as well not tell them you're gay
If they are soon for the grave anyway it might not do any good to tell them you're something that they might dislike/be unproud of, even if it's the truth and yada yada
If they're like 60 though you might have to tell them, or if you plan to get married soon or otherwise if you spend a fair amount of time with them and they just be wise to your ruse

>> No.8482379

only child. dad died. mom's wits are fading. friends all married off and gone. i'm a heartbeat away from being 100% alone. and all i ever wanted was a family.

>> No.8482397

>>8473717
Not an argument.

>> No.8482426

>>8475767
Trust me there was a reason

>> No.8482441

>>8467395
velia is that you? o.o

>> No.8482478

>>8478614
Thats exactly how boomers think.

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>>8469561
I can't imagine what I'd do if I was in your shoes. My condolences

>> No.8484341

>>8482478
Boomers? Are you 40?

>> No.8484959

>>8469561
>>You have a responsibility to your parents who gave you life and busted their ass
>My parents were very very very wealthy. At age 7 I was sent to what you would call a military academy and after that lived in borderline poverty when I was home (rarely) I had a very strict regime of manual chores.. My younger brother was expelled from school never had to do chores or any kind and was out drinking at 16 with my fathers blessing and given half the family wealth. I was ok with it until they did that. Now I just fund them a bit disgusting. My mother was a sadistic bitch and when I asked her why we had been treated differently she just said we never liked you. I wasted a decade sending them cards on holidays and saying in touch on the phone. Not worth it. They are fucked up bad people who think inherited wealth gives them divine powers and have been very mean to anyone who worked or them or knew them their whole lives. Awful people. If your parents have a favourite child, don't waste your time and degrade yourself staying in touch with them

Hey lad, my fathers favourite child was my brother and he would often be hostile to indifferent to me. My brother has pretty much Defoo'd and my dad hassles me attention, one way conversations or something. I know what you mean when you say it is degrading.