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>approaching 40
>still waiting to make it so my real life can start

>> No.57614799
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57614799

>on my death bed
>"This was just my.... Practice..... Life"
>Flatlines

>> No.57614814

If I don't make it this cycle it's really over for me.

Can one even come back after 40?

>> No.57615838

WE DONT LIVE PROVISIONAL LIVES WE DONT DIE PROVISIONAL DEATHS SHITMAX NOW OP

>> No.57615854

>>57614814
Yeah, the cut off for making something of yourself is pushed back as we better understand how to optimise health and longevity. Though that doesn't mean you should wait until you're 50+ to do something.

>> No.57615871
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57615871

>just 30 years old
>already having sex with multiple hot women

Feels so good to have made it. I’m so happy i didn’t miss the train.

>> No.57615953

>>57615871
I also am 30 and am having sex with lots of hot women. its cool! don't mind if i do~

>> No.57616045

>>57615871
>>57615953
How are you guys doing this without falling in love for one of the girls? And how are you having sex with them if you don’t love them?

>> No.57616050

>>57616045
It was sarcasm. me and that guy are both coping

>> No.57616124
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>>57614771
>Approaching 40
>Worth 8 figures
>Still a virgin with no gf
Its over for me isn't it?

>> No.57616140

>>57614771
go take shrooms bro

>> No.57616197

>>57614771
Future walmart greeter

>> No.57616257

>>57616045
>>57616050
It wasn’t sarcasm. I’m convinced that the guy who came up with the idea of romantic love didn’t have a lot of sex. Sure i initially develop feelings for the pretty big titted/big assed/etc. woman but after i coom in them a few times i just get ”exhausted” by the woman, as if she was a meal i just get full of eating. Then all my feelings disappear and i need to wait like 1,5 weeks at least before i start having feelings for them. In other words, love doesn’t exist, all your feelings for a girl disappear after you’ve dumped your sperm in them a few times.


About your other question, romantic love and sexual lust are two completely different feelings for me. I can’t understand why you couldn’t have one without the other. Do you love every porn actress you fap to?

>> No.57616852

>>57616257
>im mentally unstable
>i confuse lust with love
>so other people must do that too

no actually most people have normal attachment styles.

>> No.57617124

>>57614814
nothing wrong with 40 it depends on genetics. i have seen 35yos look better than 25yos and im betting they live longer too

if you look like garbage, you are probably more like 50. look after yourself and you can start again up to 50 as youll live till 80+

my grandad is 77 and still works, only just split with his 45yo girl (granted she was a little piggy) but i support his based existence.

>> No.57617153

>>57616852
Love doesn't exist

>> No.57617197

>>57614799
It unironically is, G*d created this universe as a mere testing ground for the real life in the heavens. Jesus said not to care about earthly things and this world is ultimately temporary. We are to care for our neighbors as they are fellow spirits

>> No.57617212

>>57616257
>sure i develop feelings for them… because of their tits and ass, ya know?
Top kek, you’re retarded

>> No.57617253

There is no right way to live a life. Whatever you do, you realize that it is not some perfect fairy tale. Realitionships? Drama, and sometimes sadness and happiness. Alone? Freedom, but also loneliness, Traveling? Sure, it is fun for a while, then you realize that people are the same anywhere, just with different problems. Losing yourself in your head and fantasies? You will likely never suffer massive defeat, but you will also not seek the peaks. It is what it is, no matter what; the grass is always greener somewhere else. Stop chasing happiness and instead enjoy life for what it is, whatever you are doing.

>> No.57617260

>>57617212
Yes? The only reason you are sexually attracted to someone is because they have desirable secondary sex characteristics.

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>>57614799
>>57614771
I am a brown 4/10 neet chud with no job, no house, no money, no future, nothing. But I won't settle for anything less than a 7/10 with a big ass and pretty face who is half my age.

God owes me a beautiful white wife to make up for the cards I've been dealt in this life and for all the suffering I had to endure.

>> No.57617347

>>57617197
Should we type G*d instead of God?
But Jesus is okay to type? I just want to understand.

>> No.57617355

>>57616140
DUDEEEEEE

>> No.57617362

>>57617260
You’re conflating lust with love.

>> No.57617537

>>57615871
Tucked away in our subconscious minds is an idyllic vision. We see ourselves on a long, long trip that almost spans the continent. We're traveling by passenger train, and out the windows we drink in the passing scene of cars on nearby highways, of children waving at a crossing, of cattle grazing on a distant hillside, of smoke pouring from a power plant, of row upon row of corn and wheat, of flatlands and valleys, of mountains and rolling hills, of biting winter and blazing summer and cavorting spring and docile fall.
But uppermost in our minds is the final destination. On a certain day at a certain hour we will pull into the station. There will be bands playing, and flags waving. And once we get there so many wonderful dreams will come true. So many wishes will be fulfilled and so many pieces of our lives finally will be neatly fitted together like a completed jigsaw puzzle. How restlessly we pace the aisles, damning the minutes for loitering ... waiting, waiting, waiting, for the station.
However, sooner or later we must realize there is no one station, no one place to arrive at once and for all. The true joy of life is the trip. The station is only a dream. It constantly outdistances us."When we reach the station, that will be it !" we cry. "When I'm 18, that will be it ! When I buy a new 450 SL Mercedes Benz, that will be it ! When I put the last kid through college, that will be it ! When I have paid off the mortgage, that will be it ! When I win a promotion, that will be it ! When I reach the age of retirement, that will be it ! I shall live happily ever after !"

Unfortunately, once we get it, then it disappears. The station somehow hides itself at the end of an endless track.
So, stop pacing the aisles and counting the miles. Instead, climb more mountains, eat more ice cream, go barefoot oftener, swim more rivers, watch more sunsets, laugh more and cry less. Life must be lived as we go along. The station will come soon enough.

>> No.57617559

>>57614799
I look and sound like this

>> No.57617627

>>57617362
So what are you suggesting? That i'm with someone i don't truly lust after? If you actually had women you would know that the woman notices when you don't lust after her, when you are only with her because of the logical principle. She will then start distancing herself from you as she realises and she doesn't have you in her sexual hook and some woman with bigger tits could come and and make you dump your sperm in the hotter woman. Your woman will also start to detest you because your lack of lust in her is making her insecure. All these cope answers are just by people who aren't really desirable, who aren't really sexually succesful. The whole marriage system was made by people who couldn't compete in a free market.

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>my practice wife gave our crypto to her son

>> No.57617849

>>57617347
Jesus was a mortal name. Calling G*d’s true names is an act that signifies ownership, as a true name is an essence of a spirit. It’s a “I tell you what to do, you don’t tell me what to do.” Kind of thing

>> No.57617877

>>57615871
You have to have children tho. Otherwise sex is just fleeting

>> No.57617896

>>57617627
The point is to hold all the power in the relationship. Women desire to be controlled, if you don’t control every aspect of a relationship, she’s guaranteed to fuck you over, it’s only a matter of when. So remember that relationships are a zero sum game, if she’s insecure about her position, she is more compliant.

>> No.57618012

>>57617896
Ok so you don't have a lot of sex. As i said, only people with not enough market value say this stupid shit.

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>>57616257
>Do you love every porn actress you fap to?

>> No.57618109

>>57616124
You literally made it go buy a super high end prostitute and then forget about women

>> No.57618144

>>57618012
Do you think it's trivial to steal a western woman in couple in her 30s?

>> No.57618181

>>57618144
I'm 30 myself and i've already seen multiple times and if the woman is willing to flirt with you, the relationship with her current partner will end sooner or later and you're just wasting time by not taking her while she is still in that relationship that will eventually fail. I used to be like "okay i won't touch her even tho i fancy her because she is in a relationship" but then i saw every single one of those women break uo with their bfs at some point and realised my good courtesy was for nothing anyways so i should have just taken them.

>> No.57618236

>>57618181
Funny how women these day seem completely lost, they look for stability and can never settle, probably because most men are all wageslaves and it fucks their brains and they can't keep them

What time do you think it's best to talk to a girl, at the start of her new relationship when it's new, a few months in when routine starts, a year in?

>> No.57618290

>>57617212
>believing the rambling hearsay forgeries of jews
lol

>> No.57618310

>>57618012
You type like those 30 yo’s gay best friend. Do you always bottom for Tyrone?

>> No.57618312

>>57617212
wrong quote
>>57617197

>> No.57618318

>>57618181
How did you reach 30 and still think that way? If you start a relationship that way with a woman that’s how it will end for you. You’re not special.

>> No.57618369

>>57618236
>probably because most men are all wageslaves
Nah it's actually 70% thanks to internet porn and 30% thanks to tinder.

Men don't hold women in as high regard as they used to due to fact that they can always just whip out their phones and get endless amount of mind blowingly hot porn when they get even slightly bored of their gfs/wives. And romantic love is actually all about how you valuable and unique (not replaceable) you see your partner. So when men can get something that is quite comparable to sex very conveniently (internet porn), they don't see their women as unreplacable and don't develop as strong and deep feeling for them. Online dating making hooking up easier and more convenient than ever (yes even for me) only adds into this. Women always just kinda copy the feelings of the male, so when the male isn't as deeply into the woman, the woman also isn't as deeply into the them, leading to them breaking up with the man more easy.

As romantic love is actually just a status and value game, i've never held it in a very high regard and appreciate platonic love (love between friends) a lot more.

>> No.57618370

>>57617253
Well said anon. I recommend everyone live their life one day at a time and try to enjoy the positives even if there are a lot of negatives. By the way living life one day at a time doesn't mean you don't plan either it just means you also don't fall for the demoralization tactics of life is meaningless after age 25 (this generation is unbelievable sometimes, doubt many of them have experienced serious hardships or traumas, that's why they think so childishly)
Once you feel the struggles, try to conquer them, don't retreat as it will keep you back

>> No.57618391

>>57618318
>If you start a relationship that way with a woman that’s how it will end for you.

What the fuck does this even mean? Almost every relationship i have seen with a woman flirting with me has ended sooner or later. I have only one friend (out of tens) who is in a long term relationship that hasn't broken yet.

>> No.57618408

>>57618369
lmao i meant "non-replaceable" and "even for men"

>> No.57618448

>>57618369
> Men don't hold women in as high regard as they used to due to fact that they can always just whip out their phones and get endless amount of mind blowingly hot porn when they get even slightly bored of their gfs/wives
We also were able to get tons of prostitutes throughout the past, and actually have sex. Wives were just something that was a duty for respectable men and to take care of the children, not necessarily out of love.
>” They just used to skedaddle off to work—I've seen hundreds of 'em, bit of breakfast in hand, running wild and shining to catch their little season-ticket train, for fear they'd get dismissed if they didn't; working at businesses they were afraid to take the trouble to understand; skedaddling back for fear they wouldn't be in time for dinner; keeping indoors after dinner for fear of the back streets, and sleeping with the wives they married, not because they wanted them, but because they had a bit of money that would make for safety in their one little miserable skedaddle through the world.” H.G. Wells, 1898

>> No.57618519

>>57618448
Convenience is the key word here. Most of prostitutes are way more disgusting than the women in porn in a way. You also have to do all the trouble of going out, seeking a whore and then actually fucking her despite the whole degrating act. While with porn, it's all clean, easy, and nobody actually has to go trough any negative feelings (except for the porn actress at the time of the filming). You're not really cheating your wife except for your dopamine receptors (the only thing that truly matters). Add into this that modern men have been frying their brains like this since they were 11 these days and it just adds to the higher standards of modern men and them caring less about real women.

>> No.57618544

>>57614771
Don't worry OP, you will get your BTCFi bags in the next life

>> No.57618556

>>57618391
What I’m saying is if you take another man’s woman, someone will take her from you. I have seen it a million times.

>> No.57618579

>>57618556
Yeah of course i know that and don't expect to hold them myself forever. Why would i even want to? I've got my monkey brain, no matter how hot they are i'd get bored of fucking them after a while anyways.

>> No.57618601

>>57615871
>39 years only
>dating a 23 year old, been together since she was 19
>most miserable i've ever been
I'd sworn women off but decided to give it one last try since pulling a cute girl 16 years younger than me seemed too good to pass up and it has turned out to be one of the worst decisions I've ever made. If I could give any advice to my younger self, I'd make him promise to avoid women at all costs.

>> No.57618847

>>57618601
I'm curious, what's the issue here? If you have a stable income get married and get her pregnant, simple as. You're 16 years more mature than her, quit being a bitch.

>> No.57618950

>>57618847
>get her pregnant
lmao jesus christ no, did you read a single thing i wrote? I'm getting the fuck out as soon as I can sort out the logistics as we're living together and I made the very bad decision of getting her a job where I work.

You 4chan incel types have no idea what relationships are actually like. Out of all my similar age friends, there are only two who don't hate their lives and those are the two who never married and don't have kids. Every single one who did will tell you all about how much they love their kids but it's glaringly obvious that their lives are crushing misery aside from whatever solace they find from their children. One of them still loves his wife and everyone else is chained to a woman who got fat and spends her day nagging.

But go on, roll those dice.
>b-but i found a good one
You think every guy doesn't think the same thing? How many turned out to be right? You have no idea what a person will look like ten years down the road and it's almost never an improvement.

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>>57617559
might you say he is you in a literal sense then?

>> No.57619052

>>57618950
You sound like an idiot desu. Best of luck.

>> No.57619064

>>57619052
Was that the best response your inexperienced ass could think of?

>> No.57619171

>>57618847
then you have to listen to her 24/7 and that's a nightmare

women are dumb as rocks

>> No.57619225

>>57614771
One of the earliest way is to create a blog website and Monetize it with hydro online that doesn't rely on ads. You do what you love and also earn extra revenue.

>> No.57619235

>>57618519
Wonder when people will more collectively wake up to the reality of modern day men with porn. I have been jacking off to videos online since I was 14 and now I'm 27. The first generation with HD internet porn access as they hit puberty are now well into adulthood.

And all the numbers say young people are more single and mentally ill than ever.

>> No.57619319

>>57618950
> my friends are miserable therefore everyone is
Lol, lmao even. I've been married for 10 years have 3 kids and manage to live a fulfilling life. But let me guess I'm either larping or getting cheated on or something because the idea of someone being happy shatters your fragile worldview

>> No.57619386

>>57619319
low iq people tend to be happy in life

>> No.57619559

>>57619386
Damn in your infinite intelligence you still managed to be outperformed by a low iq retard
Comedy, what's the point in being so smart if you're a miserable faggot who can't even have a fulfilling relationship?

>> No.57621566

>>57614814
The obvious answer is "yes". Think about what even asking that question out-loud implies.