/biz/ - Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.57386106]

Is marriage a good investment?

[Anonymous No.57386117]

[Anonymous No.57386120]

No

[Anonymous No.57386126]

>>57386106
weird. how can you think like that about the mother of your chilrden? I wouldn't be able.

[Anonymous No.57386135]

[Anonymous No.57386140]

[Anonymous No.57386141]

>>57386106
>Is marriage a good investment?
Yes, if you aren't retarded. Why you would marry someone like the woman in OP pic is bizarre to me. It's not like suddenly overnight she developed that personality. People don't change. Dating is basically vetting whether or not you want to spend your life with someone.

Marrying a good woman was the best financial decision I ever made. We share expenses, but get the benefits of 2 salaries. She'll probably even make more than me in the next few years in her line of work, which is awesome. Together we could retire (if we wanted) significantly sooner than either of us individually ever could.

[Anonymous No.57386143]

>>57386126

You wouldn't get it until you're in a similar situation. Life is not a Disney movie. Most couples are dealing with serious animosity and just put on a good face for the public.

[Anonymous No.57386145]

>>57386106
>>57386117
I don't think reddit's dead bedrooms forums is a good place for unbiased marriage advice
yes, marriage is a good investment. statistically married men make more money than unmarried and divorced.

[Anonymous No.57386149]

>>57386117
brutal
amazing this doesn't count as fraud

[Anonymous No.57386160]

>>57386143
i know i have a gf. but if we have a child i have to respect her forever, despite what my dumb ego keeps wisperhing in my head.

[Anonymous No.57386163]

>>57386145

I think ambitious men seek marriage more. If you were content with a mediocre life you wouldn't be pushing hard for marriage + family. And having people to support pushes you even harder.

[Anonymous No.57386168]

>>57386135
db?

[Anonymous No.57386180]

>>57386143
How do you get to the point where you both being so irate with each other's presence?

[Anonymous No.57386191]

>>57386106
>>57386117

lmfao, i cant imagine being such a fucking weak cuck to not only allow my wife to act like this, but then bitch and complain about it on, of all places, reddit. Shows how much of an absolute cuck these 'men' are. They should cut their dicks off and become troons for acting this weak

[Anonymous No.57386203]

>>57386180
>>57386160

"Familiarity breeds contempt". With that said there's still a ton of couples out there who work well together. It's a numbers and probability game. People see good couples and assume that's possible for everyone, it isn't.

[Anonymous No.57386219]

>>57386141
>t. larping 20-year old

[Anonymous No.57386228]

>>57386106
yeah bros, just get married, everything will be great for about two weeks...then prep your tight newbile asshole to get owned and shakled by a roastie for the rest of your pathetic life.

[Anonymous No.57386237]

No sex for years they're cucks aren't tehy

[Anonymous No.57386241]

>>57386106
Seriously bros, Just get her the ring. Everything will be cool, trust me, bro!

[Anonymous No.57386249]

>>57386191
Pretty much. If my wife denied me sex this long, I would leave or cheat, maybe both. Imagine taking shit from a woman the absolute state of these faggots.

[Anonymous No.57386251]

God I love my wife

[Anonymous No.57386254]

>>57386219
Cope more. Sorry your wife sucks.

[Anonymous No.57386255]

>>57386168
Nigga the whole thread is about the same thing, Dead Bedroom.

[Anonymous No.57386257]

>>57386106
Stop thinking about divorce bros, just focus on your love for your soon to be wife! Shes totally worth it. Your problem is that you dont know how to be a real man and meet every single one of her demands! Grow up!

[Anonymous No.57386259]

>>57386249
but what if you are a nofapper and enjoy the energy gains from months and months of no sex?????what if you aren't an addicted coombrain????

[Anonymous No.57386261]

The thing is these guys get married to woman who are just settling for them, if your girls not obsessed with you and blowing you/fucking you atleast 3-4 days a week youre screwed. If you know you know, chads know.

[Anonymous No.57386262]

>>57386191
>>57386249

I've also noticed the worst women end up with the softest/nicest guys, because they're the only ones who will tolerate the serious bullshit. Dude just sat there hiding his discontent while he went sexless for 5 years while paying for her life.

[Anonymous No.57386263]

>>57386249
Do you have children? Nothing buck breaks men more than children, and women know this.

[Anonymous No.57386273]

>>57386106
Why would you enter into a binding financial agreement under the guise of a "loving relationship"?

The self-deception that people in relationships engage in is something that can only be witnessed from the outside.

[Anonymous No.57386275]

>>57386261

Yeah, pretty much what I said here >>57386262

betabux is real

[Anonymous No.57386286]

>>57386106
Come on bros, just marry her! You don't need a prenup bro! plus they don't even work even if you got one! Just get the ring, bro!

[Anonymous No.57386292]

>>57386273
>The self-deception that people in relationships engage in is something that can only be witnessed from the outside.
wait, you niggas still believe "love" is real? i thought everyone knew "feelings" are your body tricking you into reproducing??? just pick a good partner. but not for "love" love is a scam.

[Anonymous No.57386306]

>>57386286
prenups unironically don't work, I don't know if you're being sarcastic
She can just say she signed it under pressure or some shit

[Anonymous No.57386313]

>>57386306
Only in Muttmerica

[Anonymous No.57386320]

>>57386306
in europe they work, also anything you have before you marry will never be hers. only the things you accumulate during the marriage is in potential danger.

[Anonymous No.57386324]

>>57386262
thats literally it. These vile husks of women are only with the most beta simps in the population because they'll tolerate it.
I dated a married woman for almost 4 years who treated her husband like actual garbage. I didnt put up with that behavior and she knew her place with me, but knowing she had that cuck at home she'd act out of term every now and then. The sex was fantastic with her and he was a shell of a human being. I didnt mind encouraging the cheating bc their relationship was sexless for prob 13+ years and he was beyond broken. I cant imagine existing as a man like that.
I ended that relationship by having her sent to jail for breaking into my apartment and trashing the place because I told her I wasnt going to marry her after she finalized the divorce, then had the audacity to try to get me to drop the charges lmao
Through all that and even knowing she was cheating on him with me, he did nothing. Thats the kind of simps these redditards are
Fucking women dude, like literally all you have to do

[Anonymous No.57386325]

>>57386306

Good prenups do. Also don't live in a man-hostile state, makes a big difference when court time rolls around.

[Anonymous No.57386329]

>>57386306
It was sarcasm. Prenups hardly work. You need to put your assets in a Trust before getting married if you want to bring that nightmare on yourself

[Anonymous No.57386331]

>>57386313
Are prenups full proof in Europe, I honestly have no idea
t. europeon zoomer

[Anonymous No.57386343]

>>57386106
No.

[Anonymous No.57386350]

>>57386191
Troons actually get laid

[Anonymous No.57386351]

>>57386324
forgot to finish this,
all you have to do is maintain strength and put them in their fucking place because no matter what theyre going to act like children from time to time. The more you allow the more often theyll push the boundry and youll have a bigger mess to deal with

[Anonymous No.57386354]

Also for anyone thinking a strong marriage doesn't help with finances, look at what Warren Buffet has to say about that:

https://www.cnbc.com/2018/05/14/warren-buffett-says-the-most-important-decision-is-who-you-marry.html

[Anonymous No.57386355]

>>57386329
Or just 'lose' your crypto wallet filled with all of your xrp.

[Anonymous No.57386356]

>>57386324
>Through all that and even knowing she was cheating on him with me, he did nothing.
and what do you suggest then? should he go mental and start fucking up things (and his life) over some stupid whore ? LMAO. did they have children? if not? who cares about anything that happens in your "relationship" its not fruitful anyway.

[Anonymous No.57386358]

>>57386117
this is how people die falling off cliffs trying to take an instagram picture
of course if this wasnt reddit we were talking about

[Anonymous No.57386377]

>>57386106
why even get married nowadays if you live a secular non-religious lifestyle? marriage has always been about tradition

[Anonymous No.57386381]

>>57386355
You will still be ordered by a (((judge))) to pay her as soon as it is "Found"

[Anonymous No.57386396]

>>57386381
no body will know when it is "found" case I have a bag of Monero which is private.

[Anonymous No.57386400]

>>57386377

If you aren't religious, it is categorically a scam

[Anonymous No.57386402]

>>57386381
Then you can just move states or even the country. How the fuck will they know if I'm spending my money somewhere else?

[Anonymous No.57386404]

>>57386106
>>57386117
>>57386135
demoralization thread. kys OP

marriage is the best investment you will ever make in your life granted you find a girl who you love and loves you back. stay strong kings

>>57386251
based

[Anonymous No.57386405]

>>57386356
They had no children together. For that dude, there was nothing he could do at that point, it was like looking at a patient in a coma at the hospital. No matter what, hed respond with 'yes honey' like this meme.
Theres nothing you can do at that point, he was beyond broken, a literal husk/shell of a man who only existed and nothing else. He was also like 20 years older than her and shes pushing 40 now with no kids as it is so it didnt matter at all
Its literally his fault for allowing that behavior to continue to take him to that level. Thats the level of simping these redditards are nearing

[Anonymous No.57386409]

>>57386324
>bragging about knowingly fucking a married woman with emotional issues
Wow dude you're so cool.

>>57386354
This. Just because some people fuck up buying a house, buying a car, in school, or in their marriage choices doesn't mean the act itself is a mistake. Fucking sour grapes ITT

[Anonymous No.57386424]

>>57386324
you are literally part of the problem imagine hitting post in this and thinking it makes you look good

[Anonymous No.57386428]

>>57386409
im not bragging, this is just personal evidence of witnessing the level of simping these guys that OP are screencapping showing how real these situations are, but its so easy to not allow a relationship to get to this point unless youre an absolutely weak man

[Anonymous No.57386435]

>>57386377
no. marriage was meant for womens fathers to give them away to another man who was trustworthy enough to have many children with her. The woman was meant to raise children and keep a home while the man went out to work to provide a stable income. Women were always meant to be the property of men, prior to the (((feminist movement))). Now that these gender roles have been obliterated there is almost no incentive to get married what so ever. The Holy Bible explicitly states that "A woman shall not have authority over a man"

[Anonymous No.57386442]

>>57386405
interesting. well if there's no children it literally doesn't matter. the relationship he had with that woman was unfruitful anyway. so who cares if she goes fuck somewhere else. however he was weird for not just telling her to fuck off. that is true. but yeah. its all ego-based lust and "love" it's not really anyway.

[Anonymous No.57386465]

>>57386435
the problem with that is women have been allowed to campaign for a divorce in pre-abrahamic cultures. hell, afaik only Christianity and maybe modern hinduism are particularly harsh about divorce.

[Anonymous No.57386475]

>>57386435

That's why roles were so important. Everything fit and made sense. For the man taking her as a wife was a big responsibility and he would have her family to deal with if he did wrong. Stripping men of any and all authority took away their part of the bargain. Now it's an entirely one sided, shit, misandristic deal.

[Anonymous No.57386478]

>>57386465
are you a pajeet?

[Anonymous No.57386497]

>>57386241
But he still has hundreds of millions more. How much money can one person need desu?

[Anonymous No.57386517]

>>57386478
no, but thats irrelevant. divorce in ancient rome was relatively easy compared to now.

[Anonymous No.57386543]

>>57386135
Kek. Lol

[Anonymous No.57386563]

>>57386354
>look at what boomer says
boomers say boomer things, always under the delusion that they didn't live on tutorial mode in a world geared entirely to make them successful in everything

[Anonymous No.57386568]

>>57386141
This really Deperate people see dating and job interviewing as proving their worth to others rather than figuring out if that thing fits into the life that they're trying to build.

[Anonymous No.57386594]

>>57386251
I love your wife too

[Anonymous No.57386595]

>>57386354
>Warren Buffet
look up the reality of the situation
he was a buck broken cuck that state married to the cheating bitch until her death for almost 3 fucking decades, great example of marriage there

[Anonymous No.57386633]

>>57386141
>Marrying a good woman was the best financial decision I ever made. We share expenses, but get the benefits of 2 salaries
you don't need to marry for that. wtf??

[Anonymous No.57386649]

>>57386106
It's a good investment but not for every type of person. I think it works best for either low IQs who need the mutual help or high IQs who are capable of attaining incredible fairytale marriages. In my marriage I attempt to right curve it by striving to be the most elite version of myself, and autistically applying game theory to all of our interactions (essentially almost always cooperating even when her hormones tell her to argue). It takes skill that most people don't naturally have. If I was even slightly dumber I could have easily navigated myself into an aromantic normie marriage. That's how easy it is to permanently fuck things up, despite me being lucky enough to experience the statistical miracle of finding a 10/10 brilliant virgin who also satisfies my long list of overly specific preferences. It's really all or nothing, or else the lifelong commitment isn't worth it.

[Anonymous No.57386656]

>>57386106
worst investment of the 21st century.

[Anonymous No.57386800]

>>57386106
Only if you're 35 and marrying an 18 year old who is submissive and feminine

[Anonymous No.57386844]

>>57386261
This. Judge a girl 80% on her follow shop, her worship of you. 15% kindness to your parents. Rest to beauty.

[Anonymous No.57387133]

>>57386404
yeah based anon I had to stop myself after 2 pics because this shit is filth for your brain stay strong anon

[Anonymous No.57387151]

>>57386106
of course not lmao

[Anonymous No.57387184]

>>57386106
No

[Anonymous No.57387263]

>>57387184
my god imagine living with a femoid and having this type of stupid interaction every other night, i would fucking kill myself.

[Anonymous No.57387303]

>>57387263
Yea this is fucking annoying. My fiancee wants to cuddle after sex but we’re sweating and it hot. I just wanna go to bed after I dump my load.

[Anonymous No.57387313]

>>57386106
It's a terrible financial investment, but an excellent investment for your mind and soul IF you find a woman worth marrying. If you're not concerned with hoarding wealth then it's absolutely worth it, otherwise stay away.

[Anonymous No.57387331]

>>57387313
You marry early to find a girl who you can mold.

Being in a lower tax bracket and getting those sweet deductions is a great way to build wealth.

[Anonymous No.57387450]

>>57386649
Jason bourne over here

[Anonymous No.57387503]

>>57387263
lmao. only the incel who never had GF would be jealous about missing out on the Left vid part

>>57387303
kek. dump the load and sleep. based.

[Anonymous No.57387811]

>>57386354
Is your wife barren? I'm guessing from what you have said that she is

[Anonymous No.57388067]

>>57386141

>working wife

if you only knew how cucked you really are

[Anonymous No.57388087]

>>57386377

no hymen no diamond no exceptions

[Anonymous No.57388092]

>>57386106
Nice try zog, a real white man gets married at 18 and works a trade. All the seethe I'll get from this are from coomer neets whose dicks don't work

[Anonymous No.57388097]

>>57387811
Nope, planning to try for kids in the next year or two.

>>57388067
Yeah man it's so bad having twice as much income coming in, I am truly cucked by having a wife who contributes to the marriage instead of just consuming from it. Stay jealous though.

[Anonymous No.57388109]

>>57388097

she taking dick at work

[Anonymous No.57388130]

>>57386106
Alas, the Consequences of Feminism. Enjoy

[Anonymous No.57388145]

>>57386106
He sounds like an idiot anyway

[Anonymous No.57388146]

>>57386351
Women are constantly testing for weakness. You only have to fail the test once.

[Anonymous No.57388155]

Thank God I married a sane woman who makes just as much money as I do. Pick wisely, friends.

[Anonymous No.57388175]

>>57388155
Based and checked.

[Anonymous No.57388265]

>>57388155
Did the opposite my wife works, makes less than me. But i’m the best she’ll ever get.

She would get excommunicated from our community if she ever initiated divorce.

[Anonymous No.57388276]

>>57386106
Why does everyone suck so hard?

[Anonymous No.57388295]

>>57387184
Those are both MEN

[Anonymous No.57388359]

>>57386106
It depends on what you want when you say investment. Financial? Emotional? Sexual? Homemaker? Kids? There are many reasons people get married. As much as men bitch about women being gold diggers I’ve seen plenty of men marry HORRIBLE women for financial security and they go on to live miserable lives. Like, just the other day I ran into an old friend. He dumped this pretty girl he had been dating for a few years, who was NUTS about him and got along great with all of us, for this truly awful woman (whose daddy had lots of money) and he married her. We all thought he was insane. She froze all his friends out, of course. A real bitch. He has dead bedroom and plays Magic the Gathering all the time and other online stuff. He has no kids. He’s fat now, bald, just a wreck in general. I’m not sure how that marriage has lasted.

[Anonymous No.57388365]

>>57386475
99% of everyone's role here if we lived in those "good ole days" would be a dirt poor peasant living in a town or village, worked to the bone, that is one step to being pillaged. I don't want them back.

[Anonymous No.57388367]

Depends on you and the woman.

Due to the fact that I'm not Zeus and can cut myself an heir from my thigh, I need to invest into a quality relationship in order to have fine kids.
Therefore you need a good job/assets and a decent character. Find another decent character of the opposite sex and voila.

Ofc it will suck at times.
I'm totally sleep deprived but happy, because the little one next to me finally has free nostrils and sleeps soundly.

Pearl Jam- Do the evolution

[Anonymous No.57388466]

>>57386145
doesn't that mean men with money are more likely to marry
and not that marrying makes you more money

[Anonymous No.57388526]

>>57388359
>im not sure how his marriage has lasted

Hes clearly waiting for the cunts dad to die so maybe he will get a slice of the inheritance

[Anonymous No.57388539]

>>57388466
Very likely the case. Something like 50% of workers age 28 and younger share an apartment with a roommate or live with a parent. You can’t support a spouse if you can’t support yourself. Our deliberately retarded media ignores the issue of low wages in America and runs headlines like “Home ownership not a priority for millennials/young people just don’t want to get married/Why are fewer young people having sex?/etc.”

[Anonymous No.57388546]

>>57386377
Taxes

[Anonymous No.57388594]

>>57386106
>there is a problem in the relationship
>recognize that your wife is not a mind-reader, and communicate your concern
>wife engages with your concern and acts to correct the problem
>this means that she hates you

Why are men like this?

[Anonymous No.57388646]

>>57388594
>5 years

[Anonymous No.57388667]

>>57386106
>I brought up my concerns about sex
>she then initiated sex
>we both enjoyed it*
>think that's great? Here's why not:
* marks the point where the problem is, and it's on the guy's side. It's not enough that he enjoy sex, his wife had to NOT enjoy it. He wants to deprive her of joy, even when that hurts his own joy, because he's resentful of (his perception) her not initiating and turning down his initiations for years.

That guy needs to read Sadly, Porn.

[Anonymous No.57388705]

>>57386135
>what he heard: you don't make enough money, we don't live in NYC or California
>what she actually said: we'll never know, he clearly wasn't listening
My guess is HE is worried about money and where they live, so he heard what he wanted to hear from his wife. Probably she's worried about how stressed he is about money and where they live and he has no chill about any of it. No real person says "I would love you if we lived in NYC or California." One is a large city with lots of problems, the other is an entire state with multiple climates, let alone cities. It's literally apples and mammals. Not comparable categories.

>I want you to chill out about money
Oh, I would need a salary of 200k to do that, so you only love my money!
>what, no, I want you to relax a bit
Oh, to relax I'd have to live in either NYC or like California, mythical places of legend I could never afford! I knew you only love my money?
>BSOD, walks away upset and confused

A real money obsessed woman would complain that they house is too small, or that all the credit cards are maxed out. She'd have a closet full of bags and clothes she wore once and always be buying more. That man isn't looking at reality and needs to read Sadly, Porn.

[Anonymous No.57388740]

>>57388594
See my post two below yours. The book is written in a very rambling fashion but he does hit the same point over and over: people in relationships develop resentment, and then go out of their way to deprive their partner of happiness in some fucked up way of "balancing the scales". Of course they don't talk to each other, so this breeds resentment on both sides, and they don't even break up, they just stay together trying to make each other more miserable so they "win".

[Anonymous No.57388741]

>>57386106
>print out list of divorce lawyers
>go to strip club
>continue to tell wife she’s fat and dumb
>openly cheat on her
>ignore everything she said to me
You either make her miserable enough to leave or she changes her tune. Not hard betas

[Anonymous No.57388754]

>>57386350
Troons have bbc fuck their nuvagina

[Anonymous No.57390369]

>>57388705
>Probably she's worried about how stressed he is about money and where they live and he has no chill about any of it.

How does that translate into having a dead bedroom?

[Anonymous No.57390408]

>>57386106
Probably not. A non revokable trust and a prenup can mitigate alot of risk. These guys are on reddit and thus cucks. Stay in shape, keep frame and you'll continue to have sexy times.

[Anonymous No.57390427]

>>57386106
If you have a vagina it is the best investment you can ever make.

[Anonymous No.57390433]

>>57386135
looloool

[Anonymous No.57390446]

>>57386568
Bingo
>>57386141
You can do the same just living together though. I think for me the main benefits are some tax, but mostly legal rights a partner is granted like power of attorney. But I agree, vet someone hard. They say 2yrs is that honeymoon phase so don't rush it and make sure she is a compliment to your life. Guys too often start thinking with their lower head instead of the top one.

[Anonymous No.57392239]

>>57386141
If she makes more than you you’re going down divorce street unless you offer her something very special (much better looking than her, generational wealth, very funny and charming personality)
Women initiate divorce when they make more than men, men just sing whoopdee doo im rich! But the woman knows she could do better and the relationships don’t last.

[Anonymous No.57392263]

>>57388097
Women require men to provide for them like they’re children just like men require women to be sweet and nurturing. A man who is a “partner” is not a real husband, from the woman’s perspective, it’s as off putting as a woman who is a cold bitch all the time vs a sweet and positive one. I say this as a woman.

[Anonymous No.57392294]

>>57386106
It's a good investment if your wife works and has a similar salary to you. I don't feel bad for paypig husbands who get divorced

[Anonymous No.57392309]

>>57386106
I don't really get it, guy sounds like an idiot

[Anonymous No.57392331]

>>57388367
we're like 10 years away from literally being to make kids with your thigh, less if you choose other parts

[Anonymous No.57392339]

>>57388667
what do you mean deprive her of joy, during the 5 years? How is it a perception if she literally didn't initialize?