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Gave my boss two week notice and she said she was dissapointed in me especially after they took a chance on me. She also said she saw me as a potential leader in the company.

I don’t do well under pressure so I apologized and told her I would reject the offer.

What the fuck do I do, the offer is a promotion and $30K more…

I have not sent out the email yet for rejecting.

>> No.54685934

>>54685918
>I don’t do well under pressure so I apologized and told her I would reject the offer.
no, you didn't

>> No.54685963

tell her to suck it and that you are disappointed she is a bitch

>> No.54685985

>>54685918
Dont fucking pussy out. They will turn you into a slave if you accept the offer. But if you want, accept the offer and work for another year then bail with 1 year of experience in your new position. Although if this new position isn't all that great, theres no point.

>> No.54685997

>>54685918
Lmao 10/10 wagie LARP. OP you are a king.

>> No.54686016

der ewige betamännlich

>> No.54686029

>>54685918
>potential leader
Kek
Your post tells me you'd be shit leader. Leader followed by no one, leader trusted by no one. A push over "leader".
>that guy? Lol, yeah, he's the boss here, but if he asks you something just say no. I think he's scared of us

>> No.54686050

>>54685918
you get your 30k pay bump and your promotion. graciously explain that you're grateful for what the current company has done for you, but the new offer is too good to pass up. are you seriously this much of a pussy? my girlfriend is better at advocating for herself. be a man.

>> No.54686065

>>54685918
accept the offer, get the promotion title do it for like a week or month, then quit.

>> No.54686124

>>54686065
>>54685985

Right now there is no written offer from her, she told me that I will get it within 2-3 weeks since they need to draft it. But my current offer expires next week.

>> No.54686989

>>54685918
you work from home? the obvious play here is to keep both jobs and just slack off at your old one. see how long you can collect two paychecks. that's what I did last time I got a new job. kept both for over 6 months before I burned out and just ghosted one of them.

>> No.54687003

seriously though.... do not pass on the new job. you already burned a bridge at your old one by telling your boss you got another offer. even if they match it, they are going to start looking at you as someone on their way out.

>> No.54687458

>>54686124
>Right now there is no written offer from her, she told me that I will get it within 2-3 weeks since they need to draft it. But my current offer expires next week.
Depends on why you want to leave now I guess. For better pay? Then stay since the pay is going to get better. Leave immediately if they dont uphold their bargain, or if youre feeling safe, just leave now.
Because you hate your job/boss? Leave regardless.

>> No.54688026

>>54685918
>she was dissapointed in me especially after they took a chance on me. She also said she saw me as a potential leader in the company.
haha, yeah, so notice she only said those things *after* you put in your letter
>>54686124
>within 2-3 weeks since they need to draft it
they are lying, letters do not take 2 weeks to write. if you already said you are moving jobs, that is your decision and you have made your decision. move jobs. staying where you are will only feel sour since you already said you were leaving

>> No.54688058

>>54685918
If you accept the counter-offer, they will never trust your loyalty again anon.

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54688102

>>54685918
Anon, I...

Take the pay increase, it’s just business

>> No.54688181

10/10 larp

>> No.54688232

>>54686124
Dude just fucking bail, the only one you should be loyal to in business is yourself

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54689498

>>54685918
>She also said she saw me as a potential leader in the company.
You actually believed that? Its nonsense to get you to stay while they train your replacement. Cant believe im sharing a board with someone this retarded

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>>54688058
You made your choices, sir! You’re a traitor!

>> No.54689558

>>54685918
Who gives a fuck if you dissapoint someone. Take the new offer. I made that mistake when I was young and now I hate the world and think everyone deserves to die.

Take what you need, nobody is going to give it to you and oppurtunities are running out.

Just remember. Worst case scenario you los everything but if you choose loyalty over profit you will end up with nothing anyway.

>> No.54689563

>>54685918
YOU NEED TO TAKE THE NEW JOB PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD

>t. 40 year old who stayed in the same job most of his life and despite constant promotions eventually got laid off and now can't find a job bc my entire work history is some who-fucking-knows-what-this-is? place of employment

>> No.54689565

>>54689558
>I hate the world and think everyone deserves to die.
If nobody deserved to die then God would not have made death inevitable.

>> No.54689573

>>54689563
Please listen to this post.

>> No.54689598

>>54685918
I quit my job and my old employer told me a 10k raise would have been on the table if I had just asked. That’s what they all say, and it’s never true. It’s your responsibility to not cave, because nothing good will come out of staying after you’ve poisoned the well in their eyes by attempting to quit.

>> No.54689833

>>54685918
If you believe any of that shit she told you you are beyond hope. Always get the new offer in writing then bounce from the old job and never look back. Do anything else and I'm sorry but you are legitimately never going to make it

>> No.54689841

>>54685918
Once you sign with the bew job give formal notice for the old. Just tell your boss you reconsidered staying after the new job upped their offer. You can say whatever the fuck you like it's not against the law to lie.

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>>54685918
> ITS A TRAP

Do not stay at your current company. She's trying to buy time until they find and train your replacement.

>> No.54689904

>>54685918
IF this is real, it is a slimmy tactic to try and 1 up you and make you feel like a retard for leaving. They would have never given you the position and its just a fuck you to stay and feel obliged.

>> No.54689918

i dont understand this thread
just based on how op typed it, it would appear that his CURRENT job did not offer him anything extra, the 30k "promotion" is with another company so its not actually a promotion just a higher role somewhere else.
He is saying that he got nervous and said he would reject this other company's job that would pay 30k more.
Correct me if im wrong but this is what it comes out to based on how op wrote it grammatically.

>> No.54690758

>>54689918
Ah that makes sense after rereading it. Its because he says his current boss expects him to be a leader that I automatically assumed that the offer of promotion came from her. I speedread threads to shitpost at high volumes.

>>54686124
Take the better job, dufus.

>> No.54690769

>>54686124
Ask her to do it before the offer expires or leave. If she doesn't bother, so be it

>> No.54690773

>>54685918
Fake and gay

>> No.54690784

>>54686124

EVP of Technology here, for what it's worth.

Accept the new fucking job. If you're too scared to confront your boss again, just don't say anything else and they'll get the picture when you stop showing up because you're at the new place. But I recommend you use this opportunity to build character and harden yourself by telling that bitch you're still leaving (after formally accepting which you should do right now, stop leaving them hanging.)

>> No.54690795

>>54686989

Noooooo. I've caught and fired people doing this. Each time they lost both jobs.

>> No.54690804

>>54685918
You should live out the rest of your retarded life working where you do right now I guess.

>> No.54691219

>>54685918
"I've been a loyal McDonalds corporate employee for 25 years. Because of this loyalty and niche expertise, my transferrable skills are pretty limited, there are only 2-3 other companies that have the kind of job that needs my experience. But that doesn't matter, McDonalds has been good to me and I love talking golf with Greg in the hallway, or asking Janet how her kids are doing at college. I've known these people for decades, and we are like family. I've put this job above a lot of things in life. My now ex-wife always hated the hours I put in. Junior was sometimes closer to his friends dads than me because they had the free time to volunteer as baseball coach growing up, and I wouldnt mind losing 20 or so pounds but it's hard to just find the energy. Oh well, I have a trip to Hilton Head next month and just leased a new Mercedes S-Class, this couldnt be possible if it wasnt for the generosity of my employer and all my loyalty being rewarded.

Oh look! Just received an email from HR. Wonder what it could sa - ACK!"

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>>54685918
>I don’t do well under pressure so I apologized and told her I would reject the offer.
If the job isn't shit, demand a raise if they want you to stay. If not, go to greener pastures kek