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54309624 No.54309624 [Reply] [Original]

anyone else not part of the work "social circle" / clique?
>not in the group chat
>dont get invited to activities outside of work
>no one waits for you when you leave work to walk to the parking lot together
>little to no work gossip
>on break alone
>everyone thinks you're a virgin secretly
>no one hates you but no one wants to be with you / around you
>think i am boring

>> No.54309670

>>54309624
You described paradise. Quit being an NPC.

>> No.54309709

>>54309670
sometimes i feel like iim beng made fun of behind my back

>> No.54309728

>>54309624
sheep stick together. are you sheep?

>> No.54309852

>>54309728
i wanted some sense of belonging but i guess not if it means i have to be sheep.
what do i do? buy btc?

>> No.54310360

>>54309624

Happens to me at pretty much every job I've had.

>> No.54310403

>>54310360
its so tiresome

>> No.54310422

>>54309624
Start lifting and building a commendable presence, take care of your skin and get a little tan on you, whiten your teeth with eBay 44% carbamide peroxide. Start wearing respectable clothes people will treat you differently

>> No.54310452

w

>> No.54310538

>>54309624
>>little to no work gossip
that's a blessing, anon.

>> No.54310664

Try not being so insanely shy?

>> No.54310681

>>54310422
You sound like a Ken doll.

>> No.54310698

so glad i work from home and no longer have to deal with these feminine worries

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>>54310681

>> No.54310722

>>54309709
You are 100%

I am also "that guy" and social outcasts of any group are always shunned and ridiculed by the pack.

>> No.54310750

>>54309709
Is that really how you feel? Substantiate your suspicions, if it turns out true, MAKE FUN OF THEM TO THEIR FACE.

>> No.54310766

>>54310703
No you really do sound like a total faggot. All bright white teeth and no real personality. Just a totally dumb fake ken doll who puts on spray tan.

>> No.54310775

>>54310766
just because your brain decided to conjure up ken doll doesn't mean following those steps will make you one, you're like a brainlet to me stop posting retard

>> No.54310803

>>54309624
Yes, hello, based department?

>> No.54310842
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54310842

>>54309709
imagine still living amongst normies. i broke out of society at 27 and i'm never coming back
Just live your own way in bumfuck nowhere

>> No.54311865

>not in the group chat
>dont get invited to activities outside of work
>no one waits for you when you leave work to walk to the parking lot together
>little to no work gossip
>on break alone
>everyone thinks you're a virgin secretly
>no one hates you but no one wants to be with you / around you
>think i am boring
All of this is 100% me thoughout me entire life. Elementary school, high school, college and now at work too.
Somehow I just end up at the very bottom of any social hierarchy I enter, with it never being hate or even just bullied, but mostly just completely ignored as if I'm a ghost roaming through life.

Not being neurotypical is a death sentence in normalfag world.

>> No.54311917

>>54309709
you are. everyone is. that's literally how a big part of normies work. especially women.

>> No.54311961

>>54309624
I used to be that way and it’s your fault anon. Most people want to be friends and get along with each other. If you don’t that’s fine, but at the end of the day it’s important to understand and realize that you’re the one pushing others away, not vice versa.

>> No.54311972

>>54309624
those all sound pretty gay desu

also,
>no one waits for you when you leave work to walk to the parking lot together
this girl at work tried to get me to walk with her to the parking lot after work one time, but I told her I don't have a car, because my apartment is like a 5 min walk from the office.

>> No.54311974

I once worked in an office where I was the only male and the only one under 30. They conspired against me and forced me to get another job, it was terrible

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54311995

>>54309624
I am so fargone that I work at a company and in a job area without such things.

>> No.54312070

>>54311972
Maybe she was into you?

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>>54311974
>I once worked in an office where I was the only male and the only one under 30. They conspired against me and forced me to get another job, it was terrible
Same for me except everyone is a spic in mexico and im the only one in the US office. They were trying to pin the blame on me even when im the only frontend developer they have, so i fucked off. 6 months after I left the company i heard they canceled the entire project

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54312253

It isn’t a bad thing; I go to work to earn money, not to be everyone’s friend.

>> No.54312284

>>54309624
>>54309709
I hate everything you described. Sounds good as far as wagie hell goes

>> No.54312521
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54312521

You could simply stop giving a fuck, I started staking pond and I almost forgot about social interactions at work kek

>> No.54312735

>>54312521
You're just retarded, and probably ugly

>> No.54312739

>>54312521
So? I don't see why should we give a fuck

>> No.54312761

>>54312521
marlin is shit enough to make you go delusional, so that makes absolute sense to me

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>>54309624
This is me but I get paid more than everyone who does this to me so they are just jealous i guess. Don't need validation from these people.

>> No.54312811

>>54309624
It usually takes two years of turning down every invite and ghosting all work social events until I achieve this mode.

>> No.54312829

>>54312521
It's a pajeet/paki scam anon, cope

>> No.54312874

>>54309624
This was me. The problem was my mindset; if you're not a normalfag NPC and you WANT to fit in with the normalfag NPCs, then you're ngmi. They realize something is off instinctually so they see you as weird and therefore desperate. Just stop caring. When you stop caring, it hacks their NPC brain into thinking that you're higher value than them, especially if you're actually successful and /fit/. Now I get invited to shit I don't want to go to which I end up blowing off and it's very annoying. Also I ignore all the group chats because I don't give a shit. Be careful what you wish for.

>> No.54312995

>>54309852
buy doge since it sounds like you need a fren. and remember this: the herd is always stupid. nobody gives a fuck about you. once you stop expecting things from others you can start living life a little more carefree.

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>>54309624
being in a small software dev team i get the same feelings often, one of the senior devs keeps trying to pull me into these fucking power games, it is super annoying and faggy because I work myself up over it

>> No.54313251

>>54312253
what do you do at work during down time?

>> No.54313271

>>54312874
post body anon. i want to see u

>> No.54313282

>>54310766
You can have personality and look good,

People do care what you look like and that will likely never change

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>>54309624
Yep same and trust me, it’s way better this way than being in with the normies.

Don’t try to fight who you are. If you aren’t a npc don’t try to pretend you are and think you’re supposed to be one with them. You’re not

>> No.54313537

>>54309709
You are and they do it each other too.

>> No.54313629

Just eat lunch with your coworkers now and then. None of that other shit you mentioned is normal.

>> No.54315465

>>54309624
Once they're not fucking with you and making working hours miserable then who cares?

>> No.54315575

>>54309624
Bruh what? Why would I want to be? People who make their coworkers be their friend circle are extremely lame. I have really good friends already that are into things I am actually interested in and I can even say nigger around them. I could not give less of a fuck about "work gossip." I don't worry about anyone secretly thinking I'm a virgin, they all see my wife and kids twice a year at company parties. Which ever since the coof is the only time they see me too. What a weird thing to be worried about. Go do something you find interesting instead.

>> No.54315910

>>54310422
NPC detected, although they think they are Chad. Many such cases.