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[Anonymous No.52716794]

how do you cope with having poor parents? they condemned me to a life of suffering and misery.

i talk to other people and it’s so insane. one dude works from home while living in his parents vacation home for FREE making my life savings every month. i talked to people who’s family leaves them a house and they can just move and do the bare minimum to survive and pay taxes no problem. people who’s parents put them on the right track and they have a nice degree and job buying their own house.

i never had a first car, no role models, everyone i know is addicted to drugs with alcoholic parents barely holding on and i thought that was normal my entire life. my parents live like hell in a broken down ancient house they never renovated that just has health hazards and broken shit. its starting to look like an abonded crack house with boarded up windows.

my parents told me they got the shit house for 25k 20 years ago and still haven’t paid off the mortgage, let it go to shit, never renovated it, etc. i lost all respect for them after that and it made me start to hate them. they are drowning in debt but still have nothing to show for it.

i have already accepted suicide and that i will never have a house, happiness, gf, or anything. i’m just praying i get disabilitybux and the government at least gives me a tiny apartment. i’m just so miserable. this is worse than having a single parent in a trailer.

[Anonymous No.52716801]

>>52716794
Work for itself. What are you? A pussy?

[Anonymous No.52716807]

>>52716794
Ok

[Anonymous No.52716808]

>>52716794
>r*ddit post

[Anonymous No.52716813]

>>52716801
>>52716807
>>52716808
die fucking normie retards

[Anonymous No.52716815]

I figured out my parents were useless and I was in my own pretty early on.

So I studied and got a good job and now barely see them.

[Anonymous No.52716832]

>>52716813
Go get a job at the nearest business by your house and then go open an account at a credit union. That should be your first priority.

[Anonymous No.52716846]

>>52716794
Your problem is you focus on others and not yourself. Stop being a little bitch and make your own fortune.

[Anonymous No.52716847]

>>52716813
You're the retard poorfag

[Anonymous No.52716855]

>>52716794
>i have already accepted suicide and that i will never have a house, happiness, gf, or anything
You are you and not your parents. You had a shitty upbringing so you dont see life as valuable. But it is if its cool. You have to crawl out of your spot to see this. I get pissed of when my mum asks for money she just gonna piss away. At least you wont be responsible for your parents when you made it. Plus you have to learn to be self-sufficient in live anyway. Even when your finances are handled. You have a heads-up in terms of emotional resilience and such. And you gonna appreciate your success way more. One bc you never had a comfortable home and two bc you achieved it yourself. See it positive or ignore it. Move away!

[Anonymous No.52716859]

My parents are shit too. I'm not doing as well as others my age are. But I'm doing a fuckton of a lot better than I was when I sat around moping about it. There's only one good way out, man. It'll be hard for a while, but it will get easier. Skill up, get hungry, do whatever you gotta do to make it. It ain't easy for everybody, but there's beauty in getting through that darkness and coming out the other side a person who is ready to help others who are going through something. YGMI. Just don't give up.

[Anonymous No.52716860]

>>52716832
why a credit union?

[Anonymous No.52716869]

>>52716832
there is nothing for 20-30 miles and i never had a car. the weather is extremely aggressive (always cold, extreme hurricane winds 24/7, or extreme humidity) and there is nothing but fast food part time jobs for 200 miles.

[Anonymous No.52716886]

>>52716869
have you tried going further away than 200 miles?

[Anonymous No.52716893]

>>52716869
Move you fucking retard. I moved halfway around the world to escape my family.

[Anonymous No.52716895]

>>52716893
how? i cant afford anything without roommates

[Anonymous No.52716907]

>>52716794
I feel your pain, anon. My parents were very religious as well, so a lot of advice I got was "just pray to Jesus for it". It sucks not having a solid support network or guide through life. It's like fumbling around in the dark. I envy the people I know who got bankrolled a car, GOOD college education + room/board, and a place to live so bad.

[Anonymous No.52716942]

>>52716860
It depends on where you live. Chase offers different credit cards. Some colleges will have certain ATMs on their campuses.

[Anonymous No.52716952]

>>52716869
yup there it is. no one offers real advice just rich ass holes that just say “lol just do it”

[Anonymous No.52716959]

>>52716869
Military

[Anonymous No.52716963]

>>52716895
So live with roommates for a while what's the problem

[Anonymous No.52716974]

>>52716815
>I figured out my parents were useless and I was in my own pretty early on

Smart.

>>52716794
You really have to accept that you are on your own. I had a very fucked up childhood. It took me a long time to figure out the man they said was my father was really my step-dad, even though I have a Birth Certificate with his name on it. His attitude was basically as long as he feeds me and my life was better than being in some Victorian Era orphanage then he has a clear conscious.

I wont go into the fucked up shit that happened to me, but once I realized I was on my own things started to turn around. You are starting to see it is not just the money, you are missing out on guidance, support, connections, education, job opportunities, marriage opportunities. Young adults with supportive parents, also can afford to fail and they will get second chances, funded by the parents. You will not. In order to cop you cannot compare yourself to them.

Suicide is a sin and it is not something you should be thinking about as a young man. It is most likely demons that have been in the family that did this to your parents want to do the same to you. You need to cast them out in the name of God and in the name of Yeshua.

There is nothing wrong getting on SSI for disabilitybux but that should not be your goal in life.

[Anonymous No.52716975]

>>52716963
i don’t know how to do that 1000 miles away. it’s really hard unless you go to a big city with tons of listings every day.

[Anonymous No.52716981]

now imagine being the child to a single parent who is also poor and disabled. gambling my life savings on divining the future of technology was ever the only way i was going to make it out of my suffering without throwing away my humanity and abandoning my family. since i was the youngest of my siblings they've cucked me by having kids that i also take care of in ways that cost me my time, youth, money

[Anonymous No.52716988]

>>52716975
Are you up in a remote part of Canada or something?

[Anonymous No.52716994]

>>52716794
Imagine having a Dad who is so fucking spoiled, making as much as a doctor working part-time, and all he does is drive trucks at a dock. Can you fucking imagine. His entire world view is completely warped. Here's the kicker, he doesn't give a fuck what happens to you. He just laughs in your face and he brags about how much he makes.

[Anonymous No.52717000]

The hedonistic consumption of commodities is not the end all be all to life. Also I developed politically into a communist.

[Anonymous No.52717004]

>>52716988
northern tip of maine. i want to go somewhere without extreme weather so i don’t die if i go outside.

[Anonymous No.52717009]

>>52716855
It's not impossible but most people who are born in one particular economic class tend to stay in that economic class. It's not impossible but it's impossibly hard to rise above the rest in such a sense.

[Anonymous No.52717010]

>>52717000
all i want is a small house that is decently maintained and taken care of. even a mobile home i don’t care.

[Anonymous No.52717027]

>>52717010
I know so do I. I live in a camper right now. I luced out and got a much better job working at a factory after years of trying to get on at this plant. Just keep working at it and keep trying and don't give up. As soon as I get my camper paid off i'll be moving into a 1 or 2 bedroom apartment.

Being realistic I don't know if I will ever own a house because of how monopolized the housing market is now a days, but, maybe it will crash or something, i dunno. Just try and stay positive and do the best you can.

If I have learned anything living in poverty it's that the people who meet in your life are the most important. I wouldn't be able to live and cont on with out those people anon.

[Anonymous No.52717032]

>>52717004
what is your living situation now? Are you living with your parents in that house they bought for $25K? What is your age range? Mid 20s ?

[Anonymous No.52717035]

>>52717004
>>52716975
You're either a baby or a woman. Holy shit. Control your life.

[Anonymous No.52717045]

>>52717035
if something goes wrong and you are stuck outside you die from the weather anywhere in the NE

[Anonymous No.52717048]

>>52717045
Stay inside. Problem solved.

Maine isn't the only place with cold weather you close minded nigger.

[Anonymous No.52717051]

>>52717048
it is like the top 10% of cold in the world and all weather is shit in the east coast.

[Anonymous No.52717065]

>>52717051
Wah wah woe is you

Suck it up nigger or die

[Anonymous No.52717107]

>>52716895
afford something with roommates then.
you are just a useless pathetic faggot. just as useless as your parents. making excuses for everything. thinking your situation is not your fault. asking for advice on a stupid image board instead of using your brain. you sound like you'll never take responsibility for your own life. you sound like you have no balls and no brain. just grow a pair or kill yourself.

[Anonymous No.52717130]

>>52717107
lol eat a bullet angry virgin

[Anonymous No.52717145]

>>52716959
This. Got me out of the trailer straight out of high school and making decent money. 4 years, free college anywhere in the country after. Graduated and now work soulless corporate sales job, but it pays a hell of a lot more than anything in the flyover shithole I started in and I’m in a financial position once considered unimaginable by anyone in my family.

[Anonymous No.52717231]

>>52717130
remember my post 10 years from now when you're still living with your parents wasting your life away.

you should join the military like other anons suggested, you'll fit right him with this bunch of losers who don't know what to do with their lives and need to be ordered around to accomplish anything.

[Anonymous No.52717249]

>>52717231
i don’t need advice from a bitter retarded virgin lol you probably suck at crypto too.

[Anonymous No.52717297]

>>52717045
I'm originally from the poorest county in one of the coldest states. You can die from exposure. If you have no money and your car breaks down things can get really bad for you. It happened to my band touring Iowa. We called 911 and they wont even dispatch the Sheriff to help you. They said "We are not a taxi service"

[Anonymous No.52717310]

>>52717249
i'm not giving you advice, i'm just letting you know how shit you are. your post literally starts with "*sobs like a baby* my parents condemned me to a life of suffering *cries harder*".
you have nothing on me so you resort to calling me a virgin and a poorfag. cope.

[Anonymous No.52717330]

>>52717310
There is nothing wrong with asking for help as long as whoever it asking is trying to better themselves and their situation.

I don't know if you really know what it is like being in some of these rural communities. At some point you realize all these people that are supposed to be guiding you like parents, teachers church leaders are all basically losers and you don't want to be like them, you can get desperate.

[Anonymous No.52717350]

>>52716794
>get a job, get a credit card
>use your credit card but never go into debt
>learn2code, preferably machine learning or cybsec
>actively commit to projects over your github account
>apply to a better tech job
>build up capital and invest

[Anonymous No.52717459]

>>52717330
I understand perfectly.
I never said that your situation wasn't shit and that you had no reason to be depressed.
All I'm saying is that your posts show that your are a close-minded defeated excuse-maker with no balls.

You literally think you're gonna die if you go outside. It's like you've never heard of clothes.

You need to change your mindset and the first step would be to realize that you're not made of some brittle shit and that packing your bags and walking out is not going to kill you. If you fail, come back, regroup, and try again.

[Anonymous No.52717498]

>>52717459
I'm not OP. I'm defending him tho. Insulting someone and calling them a baby might help some people (if they have been overly coddled). But most people that come from this type of background already have negative thoughts in their head and negative voices in the family saying shit like that all the time.

[Anonymous No.52717504]

>>52717459
I switched computers, but whatever. You are not replying to OP just another green ID.

[Anonymous No.52717529]

>>52717498
kek, sorry.
And no, OP definitely needs to get slapped in the face (or kicked in the nuts), he hasn't claimed to be a woman as far as I know.

[Anonymous No.52717535]

>>52717350
literal boomer normie retard advice, kill yourself

[Anonymous No.52717550]

>>52717000
>is not the end all be all to life
What is? Having no freedoms and not even the option of ever making it? Having to ride a bicycle to the collective farm because you can't afford a car?

[Anonymous No.52717552]

>>52717529
like I said, I dont think you know what it is like to come from an abusive family. You get insulted and beaten already on a daily basis. The idea that is somehow the solution is retarded.

[Anonymous No.52717764]

>>52717535
tranny cope

[Anonymous No.52717849]

>>52716794
I can relate re parents. I have baby boomer white parents whom I have to support once they retire in a few years and who never gave me anything but bad memories including seeing my parents high on heroine as a 10 year old. The damage they have done to me was incredible. Especially making me for years incapable of keeping a gf bc I thought it’s normal to treat your partner like trash bc it’s all I saw from my parents.

Anyway, here are the facts:

It’s up to you to break the line of poverty and social decay and put your genes back on the right path. You do this by accepting your situation, your responsibility and a grindset to make it. You are the outsider. Go conquer your place in this world.

You also HAVE TO respect and love your parents. Not for them but for your own mental health and capability to have a relationship and mentally healthy children. The triangle of father mother child must be established and sustained. It must.

[Anonymous No.52717864]

>>52716801
Wtf is that Greta? She looks like a fat boomer who used the be a in metal band.

[Anonymous No.52717887]

>>52716794
OP I can relate so much to this post, the other fags are just out of touch trust fund babies who never had a single struggle in their life.
my parents were refugees so its even worse , they have literally nothing and live paycheck to paycheck.

I come here and other forums to look for money making advice but i feel like its just rich people talking in the lounge area. and to the faggots that said join the military, its not that simple not everyone lives in burgerland where u can just go in and next week your doing basic training.

[Anonymous No.52718188]

>>52717065
I'd rather just die probably.

[Anonymous No.52718211]

>>52716813
You're actually the normie.
You're not doing anything to change your life.
Get up and fucking do something, pussy

[Anonymous No.52718219]

>ITT pissbaby moans about shit that is irrelevant and shoots down every viable solution to his problems with some bullshit excuse

[Anonymous No.52718246]

>>52716801
Would