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[Anonymous No.49752587]

> go on first date in my life as a 23 yo virgin
> my social skills are the best they ever were
> she is somewhat distant but reciprocating
> ask her questions about her work/study, she engages and is positively surprised by my interest
> still distant, shows no signs that I can escalate
> tells me she really enjoyed the date before we split
> get ghosted

I will never be able to fake it till you make it if I am broken inside right?
I just have a low affect personality, get told by coworkers etc that they like me but that’s it

[Anonymous No.49752635]

>>49752587
Just take revenge bro, fuck women. stand up for yourself u beta cuck

[Anonymous No.49752684]

shit like this is why i gave up on other women. i only date my sister now.

[Anonymous No.49752726]

>>49752684
This, just date your family members. Im currently dating my aunt

[Anonymous No.49752745]

I am 28 years old and I never even kissed a girl

[Anonymous No.49752749]

you stop caring at a certain point and score sooner or later, not everyone is chad thundercock.

make sure you are the best version of yourself for better odds. (and i mean that in a very literal physical way, not reddit feel good type cringe)

[Anonymous No.49752750]

>>49752587
Do not worry anon, it does not get better.
I had my first date around your age and never got a new one. Women outright ignore me, so probably just focus on stuff you like and stop giving a shit about women. Get a prostitute if you really need to know how sex feels like.

[Anonymous No.49752768]

This is why I’ve never bothered with online dating like tinder.

Going on a date with someone you have talked to a few times before along with having things in common is a lot more soulful and fun.

Imagine meeting some 6/10 Stacy from an app. What the fuck do you even talk about?
>Hey Stacy. Sunny innit?

[Anonymous No.49752786]

>>49752745
I'll kiss you, Anon.

[Anonymous No.49752844]

>>49752684
>>49752726
you ever been out of your trailer park?

[Anonymous No.49752890]

>>49752768
Thanks for saying this, I needed a reminder why I avoid dating apps. Cheers anon.

[Anonymous No.49752903]

>>49752587
lower your standards in the beginning, treat it as a bike with side wheels, then you move on to higher quality roasties

[Anonymous No.49752932]

>>49752587
I've said it twice here and i'll say it again. Go to Asia if you're that autistic. The chinks, gooks, japs and monkey-looking gremlins in the south-east will fuck you no strings attached.

[Anonymous No.49753004]

embrace the whoremaxxer pill anon, women are overrated. I have a girlfriend right now but it’s horrible. You aren’t in charge of your own time anymore. They want you to join them at boring family meetings where you have to put on a normie mask and say good bye to any hobbies you have or researching g crypto or browsing biz for days. Things like that happen every blue moon nowadays. I just wanna be left alone and pursue my hobbies and bang a couple whores now and again.

[Anonymous No.49753081]

>>49753004
Lad... Same deal here. Think we'll ever find someone we actually WANT to be around all the time?

[Anonymous No.49753096]

>>49752587
no matter how bad you think a date went
you always try and go for the kiss at the end
trust me, our perceptions can fool us a lot.

if it was as bad as you thought they will not kiss you back.
but since it was a date, girls expect a kiss so if you don't do it many women will lose all respect for you. and ghost you.

[Anonymous No.49753138]

>>49752587
Bro trust me just date your sister.
She had a crush on me for a while, you just gotta start first, she might be shy.
Best thing you could ever do no ice breakers and you pretty much know her.

[Anonymous No.49753141]

>>49752768
>Imagine meeting some 6/10 Stacy from an app. What the fuck do you even talk about?
Actually it's an ideal opportunity to talk about everything - your interests, your work, your family. It's random girls outside you'd like to pick up you end up saying "Sunny innit" to.

[Anonymous No.49753152]

>>49752587
are you the one that she told she couldn't bring up because her roommate was taking an exam? kek.

[Anonymous No.49753160]

>>49753004
>>49753081
fucking same. I miss being single

[Anonymous No.49753182]

>>49752745
Id put my benis in u

[Anonymous No.49753197]

>>49752745
how you end up like this?

[Anonymous No.49753266]

>>49753197
avoid talking to girls your whole life
probably some unchecked social anxiety/mental issue

[Anonymous No.49753273]

>>49753160
Just break up you stupid fuck, why are you pretending to humble brag to a bunch of virgins or maybe you're the virgin who wants to cope with the fact that you'll be alone forever and just make up shit online.

[Anonymous No.49753318]

>>49753197
Probably because I'm incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude at the same time. Basically pic related.
>>49753266
>avoid talking to girls your whole life
Not really, I talk to many girls and people in general. It obviously involves far more than mere talking.

[Anonymous No.49753351]

Is this the mental illness thread? I’m buying in.

[Anonymous No.49753449]

>>49753318
>Not really, I talk to many girls and people in general. It obviously involves far more than mere talking.
then you have mental issue (autism likely)
because when you talk to a girl if they like you or if you're a normal human being you get feelings of attraction. these feelings compel you to act on them. usually men will use these feelings to work up the courage to ask out these girls on a date.

if you've done all this and still haven't gotten kissed, then you're resisting hard your feelings of attraction due to social/mental issue

[Anonymous No.49753497]

>>49753266
what if i dont even really have a chance to talk to women

[Anonymous No.49753547]

>>49753318
>That pic
>Feel like being rude
Trick is to start flirting jokingly/non directly to test waters and then slowly escalate things
>How
It really depends on situation, when you see an opening just use it lol
>If i could do that i wouldn't be single
That's why you install tinder and do random crap without giving a shit, it will increase your abilities
I went on a bunch of dates and even had 2 gfs by making a anon Kim Jon Un profile
So if Kim can score dates, so can you, it's just a matter of being a competent speaker

[Anonymous No.49753562]

>>49753497
that means you are avoiding the real world in a way.
you either don't go out... or you're extremely afraid to talk to strangers (social anxiety)
those are both mental issues that can be worked on.
50% of the population is female so anywhere you go that has people will have females.
if they're not your type or your city isn't populated with young people...then you have to move. simple as

[Anonymous No.49753571]

>>49753318
ouch that pic hits home

[Anonymous No.49753622]

>>49752587
Same OP. Except I haven't even gone on a date

[Anonymous No.49753630]

>>49753318
You had an overbearing mother or sister didnt you?

[Anonymous No.49753666]

you have to go for a kiss on the first date. and not just like one kiss on the lips before you say goodnight and goodbye, I mean go for a kiss somewhere where you can make out before the date ends. ideally at least half an hour before the date ends.

Doesn't matter if the moment doesn't feel perfect and with obvious sexual tension. it doesn't matter if you don't have a smooth moved lined up to initiate the kiss. Just asking her "can I kiss you" is fine. If she thinks you're eligible it won't matter if you set up the kiss smoothly or are a little rough around the edges or unsophisticated asking her for a kiss. If you don't make an effort to make out with her on the first date she'll think you're a timid beta with no balls. even if she says no she'll have a better opinion of you and be more likely to put out another time.

growing up as a man and developing game is about enjoying showing women your libido rather than feeling embarrassed about it like a young teenager.

[Anonymous No.49753682]

>>49752745
Same
>>49753197
It just happens
Never actively went after girls
Had a massive crush once but she found taller better looking bf before I made a move
Never meet anyone who made me want to put effort in after that

[Anonymous No.49753687]

>>49753449
> then you have mental issue (autism likely) because when you talk to a girl if they like you

What if they dont like you and show no interest in you? And never have?

You’re not going to ask someone out when you know they dont like you.

[Anonymous No.49753690]

>>49753318
Also reminder: if pic related was tall and good looking then hes "mysterious"

[Anonymous No.49753720]

>>49752635
>fuck women
That's literally what he is trying to do

[Anonymous No.49753731]

>>49752587
>social skills
thats called falling for marketers
no such thing as "social skills"

[Anonymous No.49753760]

>>49753197
isnt it something like 1/3 of young men arent in relationships or getting sex? Its more common than you think

[Anonymous No.49753791]

>>49753562

[Anonymous No.49753800]

>>49753687
>you’re not going to ask someone out when you know they dont like you.

yes you do
girls take time to become attracted to guys
how many girls have you asked out?
probably less than 10
you need to talk to more women
most people who are successful with women are talking to dozens a week. most people who are unsuccessful talk to maybe a couple a month.

at some point it becomes a numbers game.
if after talking to 2000 woman none show interest in you then you are self-sabotaging in a way

[Anonymous No.49753839]

>>49752587
whatever bro just try again

[Anonymous No.49753843]

>>49752587
The more you force yourself out of your incel comfort zone, the easier it gets

[Anonymous No.49753874]

>>49753687
Lower your standards tard. Women (your mom probably) show internets in you and you probably blow it off. You fucking aspie ass. You are an autism anonymizing, midling, bumbling, houseplant-esc, and Islam offendin’ retard. Forgotten shit stains upon you!

[Anonymous No.49753904]

>>49752587
I do not understand how you are having problems getting dates.
I am a farmer, I raise sweet potatoes.
I get at least a dozen women a day contacting me.
Show them the fruits of your labor and they will come!

[Anonymous No.49753907]

>>49753760
I know it first hand

[Anonymous No.49753909]

>>49753800
>BRO JUST APPROACH RANDOM WOMEN IN PUBLIC PLACES AND HIT ON THEM
>YEAH HIT ON ALL OF THEM IT'LL EVENTUALLY WORK BRO TRUST ME

[Anonymous No.49753937]

>>49753907
>that filename
kek'd

[Anonymous No.49753965]

>>49753874
> Lower your standards tard.
No.

[Anonymous No.49753980]

>>49753909
this is what mental illness looks like

[Anonymous No.49754044]

>>49753909
>OH BRO AND DONT FORGET TO GO FOR A KISS BRO
>DOESNT MATTER IF SHE'S VISIBLY DISGUSTED YOU JUST GO FOR IT BRO TRUST ME
honestly I'd rather stay virgin than act like this

[Anonymous No.49754096]

>>49753909
Kek ignore that dyel advice. Get /fit/. 1000 approaches become like 50.

[Anonymous No.49754098]

>>49753747
Ho's like her are getting to less male attention. Its a special human need that almost only women have.

[Anonymous No.49754111]

>>49753004
>Crypto
>Research
Kill yourself. It's so easy, you just have to buy Shiba Inu coins.

[Anonymous No.49754124]

>>49753197
very simple
>lack of charisma
>shy/introverted
>average or below average looking
check these 3 boxes and you'll be alone forever

[Anonymous No.49754199]

>>49753980
your posts are right. i went on a date with a girl a few nights ago and resisted the urge to kiss her even though she sat there waiting in the car forever. i felt the attraction, i felt the dopey lovedrunk feeling, i even told her i wanted to kiss her but held back while she twirled her hair and looked at me coyly. eventually she got out of the car and hasn't contacted me since. how do i overcome this?

[Anonymous No.49754215]

>>49752587
just ask them to come to your house to watch a movie, dont take a bitch anywhere

[Anonymous No.49754226]

>>49753980
Here's vid about (You) I stumbled upon couple days ago
https://youtu.be/3g9HVJubTmw

[Anonymous No.49754227]

>>49752745
i can't tell if this is a meme at this point or if this is just the same anon posting this again and again that is actually a 28 yo KHHV

[Anonymous No.49754234]

>>49754124
>>lack of charisma
>>shy/introverted
>>average or below average looking
you literally described me haha

[Anonymous No.49754273]

I think it's because I loathe myself and every female that has approached me in the past decade could either smell it from 10 miles away or eventually became aware of it soon after.
I've managed to do absolutely nothing with girls who were clearly interested in me and were as straightforward as one can be.
Now imagine a situation where a loser like me takes the initiative and makes the first move...yeh never going to happen.
It's a life of misery for me and I've accepted it.

[Anonymous No.49754276]

>>49753909
he never said in public lol loser.
listen carefully. if you're attractive and tall use dating apps. If not then you need to get an active social life where you're meeting women in person a lot , either from having friends who invite you to parties and you hosting parties where you meet their friends and friends of friends, or join some social clubs where they do dances or art gallery wine evenings or whatever. That's how normies do it. Either be highly physically attractive so that women will want to talk to you just from your looks then you can use dating apps, or you need to meet as many women in social occasions where they get a chance to realise you have attractive things about you besides your looks.

[Anonymous No.49754296]

Anons need to be realistic. No point getting 99% of women in today's age. They are Godless vaxmaxed roasties. You need to understand that a women who doesn't fear God and accept her place as under the authority of her husband is useless.
>To the woman also he said: I will multiply thy sorrows, and thy conceptions: in sorrow shalt thou bring forth children, and thou shalt be under thy husband's power, and he shall have dominion over thee.
>Under thy power

[Anonymous No.49754315]

non-meme answer - I've had 4 longterm gfs. All of them I met through friends, school or work and got to know them for at least a few weeks in a non-dating capacity first. Then when it became obvious they were at least somewhat interested I asked them out. Everytime I've met a girl for the first time on an official date has been awkward as hell and they usually say they had a good time but then ghost me.

[Anonymous No.49754316]

>>49752587
Your social skills obviously still lack, it should be dead obvious whether the girl is attracted to you within the first couple of minutes, if she isn’t showing the obvious signs stop wasting your time, you pursuing reeks of desperation and it’s cuckoldry, chad doesn’t need to put effort in so why should you have to? By putting the effort in you are devaluing yourself, have self respect and don’t be afraid to walk away if you can tell she isn’t into you.

[Anonymous No.49754330]

>>49752587
>still distant, shows no signs that I can escalate
What signs were you expecting, anon? I don't think you are supposed to wait for something before say, touching her arm or hand for a second.

[Anonymous No.49754396]

>>49753197
Lots of dudes get ostracized during their youth and by the time you graduate high school or college if you don’t already have an established friend circle meeting girls to date is very difficult.

That being said even socially competent dudes are virgins these days. Female hypergamy is out of control. It ain’t the 90s or early 2000s anymore, social media has fucked the dating market to the extreme

[Anonymous No.49754412]

There was this dorky girl in college who showed signs of maybe being into me (we would literally hug for long periods) and well I'm an absolute autist and now I'm 2 years out of college (made it thanks to DeFi), should I ask her out despite it having been so long? She's a oneitis yeah and I genuinely don't want a random roastie, I'd get a sex doll first instead.

[Anonymous No.49754414]

>>49753800
>dude it's just a numbers game lmao
this is what you get with that

https://youtu.be/XPSl7uT1DW0

[Anonymous No.49754508]

>>49754414
this dude does literally everything wrong.

[Anonymous No.49754526]

>>49754199
its just a lack of experience and a some sort of perceived inferiority like a feeling you are not good enough or you're afraid of the outcome.
all i can say is the more you try to go out of your comfort zone the more the boundary you set on yourself starts to disappear and your self perception changes.

many people think of themselves as incels or bad with women and lock themselves in the cage and thus fix themselves to act a certain way. if you push outside of this self imposed boundaries more and more you break the cage.

this generation is full of people afraid of acting in a way that goes against their perceived vision of the world. they think they know what will happen, that they can predict the future
>>49754414
example

but only you can change your future

[Anonymous No.49754569]

>>49754412
She’s a single girl, she has been having sex with men all the time she has been single. Unironically single women that have been single for long periods of time are huge red flags because women literally have a catalog of men they can get in a relationship with so it begs the question what the hell are they doing being single? Answer shopping out of their price range (having sex with chads).

[Anonymous No.49754840]

>>49753800
Chad doesn't approach random girls on the street lol. Stop talking about things you don't understand.

[Anonymous No.49754951]

>>49754526
>but only you can change your future
normies always come up with these DR Phill quotes lmao. They really think it makes them look smart

[Anonymous No.49755065]

>>49752587
You gotta engage and be forward, women want to be "swooped". tell her she is pretty and try to kiss her after a few drinks. Works 60% of the time everytime

[Anonymous No.49755120]

>>49755065
Listen to this anon but go Philipina.

If you’re cut, ignore this anon
>>49754840

[Anonymous No.49755143]

>>49752587

Don't listen to the people here trying to tell you girls are just whores and bitches. They're either inexperienced or have had bad experiences which they take no responsibility for themselves. The truth is that if a girl screws up your life, that's on you and your lack of judgement. You let her do it and you let yourself become resentful for it.

Deep inside you know that if girls don't like you it's probably your fault. All those flaws in the mirror, all that low self-esteem and all those bad experiences in your life is being reflected in the woman sitting opposite of you. Women are generally very adept at judging a man's character and they will reflect what you radiate, therefore you should never get validation from a girl because she's the mirror to your behavior. She's acting the way she's perceiving you and that's good because through that she's telling you what you need to improve.

From now on your new metric for success is that you overcame your own fear of rejection and you took a small step you hadn't dared taken before. You got a girl on a date? Good! You held a fairly good conversation for the first 30 minutes? Good! You tried to kiss her but she shied away? Good, this means you tried! You will eat that rejection and still stand tall even though it hurts. Never let a girl get to you, because if you do, no girl will get with you.

You've already proven that you can get girls on a date, that you can hold a conversation and that you want to try. That's a good start. You keep going on dates, you keep escalating and you keep your head held high, no matter what.

You will fail in every possible way. You will make the same mistake many times. You will face real pain. But you will, as I did, make it through. And it's worth it, anon.

[Anonymous No.49755164]

>>49754526
thanks bro.

[Anonymous No.49755248]

>>49755143
>The truth is that if a girl screws up your life, that's on you and your lack of judgement.
Ultra simp

[Anonymous No.49755283]

>>49755248
He hasn’t had an evil bitch yet don’t ruin his rainbows

[Anonymous No.49755408]

>>49752587
>that they like me but that’s it

Use the friend zone!
Use female friend as bait; talk her up, get her to laugh at your jokes buy her drinks and smile a lot.
Women want what other women have.
Approach other women lightly, a smile, "hello".. let them start talking.
When she asks who your friend is, say 'just a friend'.
Congrats, you have just met a woman at a bar and she is interested in you!

[Anonymous No.49755415]

>>49755248
He’s making a locus of control argument. If you’re life is ruined by external events then you have an external locus of control. If you’re life is ruined by internal events then you have an internal locus of control. A quick way to determine which one you have is whether you agree with the phrase “everyone gets what the deserve”. If you say that’s nonsense the world is unfair, you have an external locus of control. If you say that’s obvious, the world is unfair and everyone who falls for it or is too weak to succeed gets what they deserve, then you have an internal locus of control.

[Anonymous No.49755448]

>>49753907
dude, you need to invest into a tagging system of some kind. that filename is a symptom, not a solution. head over to /hsg/ on /g/.

[Anonymous No.49755492]

>>49755448
not my problem though, tell that to soot

[Anonymous No.49755496]

>>49755415
>He’s making a locus of control argument.
No he is not, because 99% he does not extend the same logic to other scenarios that do not involve women.

[Anonymous No.49755692]

>>49755496
So what? The specific argument he is making is that you shouldn’t allow an external force (women) to have control over you. That’s a locus of control argument, and it’s the correct position to take if you’re an adult. Whether he applies it to other aspects of his life or not is just your speculation, and either way it does not change the fact that the argument he made in this case is about locus of control.

[Anonymous No.49755791]

I avoid and don't actively pursue women but when I get tipsy or horny enough I instantly end up having sex with whoever I pursue. I also can't make female friends because I just end up making moves on them and having sex and that ruins the friendship. I'm a hard loner otherwise and have 1-2 friends at a time. Have had a few girlfriends and I've always ended it because I felt I could do better. Is this autism? Legit don't know what's wrong with me. I don't feel happy or sad about it either, but I know its abnormal

[Anonymous No.49756684]

>>49752587
please get adivce at the /romance/ or /emotionalsupport/ board thanks.
hate me for it, but it's not really the correct place here.

[Anonymous No.49756709]

>>49752745
32 here. If you still care you're ngmi. Embrace wizard life.

[Anonymous No.49756779]

>>49752587
I had a girl tell me once that she goes on hinge/bumble because she's lonely when not talking to people

Lonely. Probably while fielding texts from at least 4 different guys every day. They don't even know that that's how 80% of men are all. the. time.

[Anonymous No.49756931]

>>49752587
I just date my sister. It works for us

[Anonymous No.49757093]

>>49753666
>Just asking her "can I kiss you" is fine
>Satan trips
Holy fuck begone devil, you've made these lonely anons suffer enough

[Anonymous No.49757411]

Cheer up, sex isnt all that. I get it on a regular basis and still choose to masturbate because its more efficient.

[Anonymous No.49757473]

>>49757411
>still choose to masturbate because its more efficient.

I am basically a chronic coomer since age 12. Unlimited freetime as a kid, jerked it as often as I wanted. Now I do it every 14 days to release the tension
And honestly I am the most functional and productive I ever was

[Anonymous No.49757487]

>>49753273
This is biz not r9k and a whole bunch of people in another thread said they were consultants which means you have to have person skills and get along really well with people. Chads do browse biz bro.

[Anonymous No.49757564]

>>49752745
Hire a prostitute. Ask her to kiss you tenderly on the lips, and voila, you're not a kissless virgin anymore. You could call one literally now. But it's ok if deep down you don't want to approach women and or is afraid of intimacy if you don't really feel like it (especially a whore)

[Anonymous No.49757591]

>>49752768
Who would date a tinder whore? Society should ostracize any women who had an account on tinder

[Anonymous No.49757621]

>>49753197
Super easy

[Anonymous No.49757642]

>>49754276
This should be written in tablet of stones and/or be graffitied worldwide. Based advice

[Anonymous No.49757752]

>>49752745
Same, but I don't care. I only want blood.

[Anonymous No.49757799]

>>49752587
You only have this perspective because it was your first date and have created this grand event in your mind where everything should align if you do it all 'right'. In reality she just didn't find you attractive - which happens often. After you have sex and meet a couple girls you'll also develop the same standards for women, right now you're probably willing to fuck khatever moves.

[Anonymous No.49757865]

Have some fucking Xanax u dumb nigger and then confidence literally comes to u. This is the only good advice u will receive here.

[Anonymous No.49757910]

Wait if ur actually a nigger don’t reproduce please

[Anonymous No.49757974]

>>49753318
no, he's right. I'm a 28 kissless virgin and it's because I actively avoid talking to women (or people in general.) girls approached me on three different occasions that I can remember during college, came dangerously close to losing the V card then. the succubi throw themselves at you if you are handsome and white

[Anonymous No.49758007]

>>49752587
dude it's a numbers game
just keep getting those dates, improving your game and eventually you'll get laid

[Anonymous No.49758026]

>>49753197
stay at pc 16 hours a day

[Anonymous No.49758076]

>>49754526
Honestly good advice

[Anonymous No.49758296]

>>49755143
>Women are generally very adept at judging a man's character
Someone post the women's incel and wife beater "detector" meme

[Anonymous No.49758332]

>>49752587
You fucking noob, ok listen to me now, this worked for me 2 times;

call her for something semi social, like movies with friends, but ghost all friends so you are alone, when she asks where are others "They will call" or canceled or whatever... STALL

Sit her down, prepare to start the movie but be near her and on the edge of being physical,

Before you start the movie, or at the moment you do - you would sit by her side or try to give her a hug - you close distance and JUMP on her, mount your self kneeling on her shoulders,
you open the ziper, take out the benis (it has to be around 9" long for this to work), you slap her over left and right cheaks 3-4 times very fast but gentle, and than you smack her HARD over the forehead 2-3 times, you might go for 4th smack, but by this time (in my case) she was not only screaming and scratching trying to get me off but HOWLING,
You dismount her (or she kicks you off), and she runs away screaming;

NOW you call her to comfort her and explain that it was a practical joke, you got the wrong message but you did not mean anything wrong...

It triggers the switch in womans brain - either she is a dirty whore and she does not want to be that, or she starts to look at you as a sexual partner from now on, you asserted your dominance but showed your weak funny side.

Maybe it is not a good idea if you are a fat ugly pig to do this, but if you are, only god can help you.

Good luck!

[Anonymous No.49758343]

Should I get a big fluffy dog and train him to run up to attractive girls?

[Anonymous No.49758448]

>>49758343
Yes but only if theyre black

[Anonymous No.49758469]

>>49758332
>you slap her over left and right cheaks 3-4 times very fast but gentle, and than you smack her HARD over the forehead 2-3 times

Just to be clear, you autistic fucks,
you grab YOUR penis, and smack her with your penis in your hand - using penis as a club

You do not take out your PP and leave it out to hang, while you use palms to slap her and fists to punch her

You also dont shove it into her mouth, while some girls might like this, it is not the point, you are not trying to be sexual with her at this time.

[Anonymous No.49758585]

>>49752745
are u white

[Anonymous No.49758899]

>>44444444

[Anonymous No.49758930]

>>49752587
You literally just have to go for it. You are a man for fuck's sake. If a woman is not creeped out you have the green light from her

[Anonymous No.49758973]

>>49753562
>those are both mental issues that can be worked on.
What if I have a career that requires staying at home for maximum efficiency? I had to cut off some friends that only wanted to play video games, just to finally evolve my career

[Anonymous No.49759014]

>>49752587
>shows no signs that I can escalate
go try again champ but skip the "hey can we escalate" step on dates.

[Anonymous No.49759041]

>>49758930
this is a great way to get a sexual assault charge

[Anonymous No.49759086]

Didn't listen my virginity until age 31 anon. Greatest come back arc anime has ever seen.

[Anonymous No.49759105]

>29
>Married to qt3.14 redhead
>Pregnant with our first child, a girl due in December
>Living in a desert in cheap part of California
It's not all bad. We disagree occasionally but the relationship has been super easy and honest. Going on 8 years together.

[Anonymous No.49759119]

>>49759105
how does crypto fit in your relationship? do you plan to move to a better area once you make it?

[Anonymous No.49759129]

>>49759041
Read the last sentence. You're not supposed to take it
>I want to kiss you
simple as that. She'll dunno what to do and then she'll agree

[Anonymous No.49759144]

>>49753720
That would have been a man.

[Anonymous No.49759165]

>>49759119
I sold off in January and am getting solar installed. Electricity is fucking expensive in California, especially when it's 110 out in the summer. We'll probably end up here for several more years at least so it seems worth it.

[Anonymous No.49759167]

>>49752587
real shit ghosting is an epidemic rn. all girls ghost just find a girl who doesn't do that shit

[Anonymous No.49759215]

Help me biz i think i’ve been cursed , i used to fuck a different girl every next day while i was in college until i meet one of those tiktok witches who became obsessed with me after i dicked her good and wanted a relationship , i of course just nutted a couple of times & dipped and forgot about her until a few weeks later i get a mesage about how she curses me to never be popular with the ladies. Since then nothing i do seems to work , women dont find me interesting and even my dick has started to not work anymore can barely get hard nowadays. Wtf is happening bros

[Anonymous No.49759232]

>>49759215
u probably gotta go to some voodoo bitch to undo it, or give a sincere apology to the witch

[Anonymous No.49759244]

>>49754276
As you said, "this is how normies do it".
Even ultimate Chads met their wife doing this.
It's fucked up what must be in the minds of these autists that sperg out at the above suggestion.

[Anonymous No.49759272]

>>49759232
Theres no voodoo scammers around and i never bothered to even learn that crazy bitchs name so i cant find her. She messaged me with a fake acc that has been deleted since…

[Anonymous No.49759279]

i realized women like talking to me more if i just dont make any sense at all or say anything of substance

>honk honk
beep beep
>water we doin?
are we doing anything?
>we could be doing all of it
all of it?
>the whole shebang
what if i wanna take it slow?
>we could do it fast too

i spent like a month talking to a girl like this and now she's my gf. we literally still dont know anything about each other. idk how long im supposed to keep this up

[Anonymous No.49759308]

>>49754414
holy kek
>its okay I'm going to go soon anyway
>continues on
Is this a larp?

[Anonymous No.49759380]

>>49754414
Double comment, but whole shit. At 3:35 he gets his most direct response and it's a flat "no thanks" after giving him and up and down.

[Anonymous No.49759382]

>>49759279

[Anonymous No.49759412]

At this point I’m just considering being gay. Lots of cute femboys out there.

[Anonymous No.49759435]

>>49754199
>your posts are right. i went on a date with a girl a few nights ago and resisted the urge to kiss her even though she sat there waiting in the car forever. i felt the attraction, i felt the dopey lovedrunk feeling, i even told her i wanted to kiss her but held back while she twirled her hair and looked at me coyly. eventually she got out of the car and hasn't contacted me since. how do i overcome this?

I want to punch you through the internet.

[Anonymous No.49759497]

>>49753318
Holy shit that fucking pic. It never started

[Anonymous No.49759511]

>>49752587

There's no escape.

I call this the "behind the curtain" effect. Once you are out of all social groups, you're behind the curtain and now you see how all of them work, the truth behind everyone in them and the relationships between their participants, so when someone aproaches you, looking for any sort of relationship you think to yourself "Why would I engage with a shitty person like you?" because you really know how the person asking you is without interacting with them.

Loneliness breads loneliness, unfortunately.

[Anonymous No.49759556]

>>49759435
i have a very hard time acting on my urges but at least i'm trying to figure it out. it feels like such shit to be so inept.

[Anonymous No.49759688]

>>49758973
if you're making good money use some of that to do things in the city or for your hobby.

making money is good, but spending it on hobbies that force you to go into the real world can have a lot of benefits.

Or if you want to evolve your career more, join business events for your field in your area. speakers and business events, investment events, find speakers pretty much. they usually do these things at hotels and give free snacks and make it easy to socialize with the people around you.

[Anonymous No.49759697]

>>49754227
The fact that I parsed out KHHV should tell you that many are in the same boat.
I'm 33.

[Anonymous No.49759727]

>>49759215
audhu billahi minashaitanir rajeem

[Anonymous No.49759730]

>>49759279
lmfao
basically having conversations over text is pointless so this shit might actually work more than that. as long as you're setting up dates as well

[Anonymous No.49759733]

>>49756709
I got presence suppression. It's pretty neat. You just sort of do what you want and nobody pays attention.
I bet the guy who got lightning magic is a real jerk about it.

[Anonymous No.49759770]

>>49759688
All my contacts are global because I do youtube. There's no local meetups, all my "coworkers" are online

[Anonymous No.49759809]

>>49752587
One thing that people forget to realize is that you
can also hit on random dudes on the streets
and i dont mean in a gay way
like striking up a conversation with a dude can lead to women
for example making friends with a random guy on the street. he has a girlfriend. perfect, you can go out he brings his girlfriend her girlfriend invites other girls and you've got yourself a social circle

[Anonymous No.49759818]

>>49759727
based

[Anonymous No.49759889]

>>49759770
You're just limiting yourself. It doesn't have to be specific to your career or your profession.
If you live in a small city what's forcing you to stay?
If there's no events in your city what's forcing you to not travel to them?
If you can't think of anywhere to go out?
It's you who is limiting yourself.
Seek therapy or just take a plunge and try something new.

If you are making a good amount of money through youtube, then surely you are pretty famous...Invite a fan out, start a discord,
If it's a global thing then your fans might be speaking different languages..join an app like hellotalk to chat with people in your area through language exchange
the possibilities are endless.

[Anonymous No.49759919]

>>49754199
Bro she thinks you're a pussy now. At least OP never had a chance.

It's OK though, has happened to everybody