I’ve never had sex

[Anonymous No.29887950]

I’ve never had a friend
I’ve never been out to eat with another person
I’ve never been to a bar or gotten drunk
I’ve never went to a movie with another person
I’ve never been to a concert
I’ve never been to a party
I’ve never texted another person my age

I’m 25

[Anonymous No.29887972]

>>29887950
Why is this anon ?

[Anonymous No.29888014]

>>29887972
I’m ugly and weird and scared of other people

[Anonymous No.29888018]

>>29887950
you did this to yourself

[Anonymous No.29888053]

Hey anon wishing you all the best. Not going to give unsolicited advice. I hope nothing but love and kindness goes your way

[Anonymous No.29888054]

>>29888014
I also havent done anything you listed except have sex and I'm ugly.
I saw hookers though. Almost 30 hookers to date.
I'm 22

[Anonymous No.29888099]

>>29887950
>I've never had sex
>I’ve never been to a bar or gotten drunk
>I’ve never went to a movie with another person
>I’ve never been to a concert
>I’ve never been to a party

>I’m 25

[Anonymous No.29888108]

>>29888014
If it makes you feel better, you're not the only one.

[Anonymous No.29888150]

Lmk if u need anything

[Anonymous No.29888171]

Sex is overrated anon trust me

[Anonymous No.29888194]

So this is the fearsome right wing males we have to be afraid of. LMAO

[Anonymous No.29888206]

>>29888171
You're not being honest
That or you're desensitized to dopamine.

[Anonymous No.29888214]

>>29887950
You are lucky.
Friends, women are exhausting.
Don't make the mistake of shackling yourself to them.

[Anonymous No.29888262]

>>29887950
What the fuck does this have to do with shitcoins, faggot.

[Anonymous No.29888276]

>>29887950
Don't worry fren, all those things are overrated

[Anonymous No.29888321]

>>29887950
It's nothing to worry about, you are just introverted, and you will feel better about your self with age.
Right now you are just confused because you are told by everyone and everything that those things are the normal and that you should be doing them, so you feel a little left out.
It will pass with age as long as you keep self reflecting and improve on your self and your mind.
Just focus on being you, doing what you actually want to do.
Have a good time with it and don't worry about a thing.

[Anonymous No.29888575]

Ya OP, Not that big of a deal. Plently of people in your shoes. Start making some small steps, maybe visit fit. Get some self confidence through weightlifting. Slowly build yourself brother you got this.

[Anonymous No.29888615]

>>29887950
just order an escort and do all those things with here bro

>>29888171
this also

[Anonymous No.29888616]

>>29887950
>>29888575
I agree, small steps anon, fit will help you build your body and confidence at the same time, and confidence stays with you even when the muscles start to fade

[Anonymous No.29888662]

>>29887950
get your shit togheter

[Anonymous No.29888764]

>>29888575
>>29888616
>just lift bro!!!!!!

[Sage No.29888784]

>>29887950
30 year old kissless handholdless virgin here. Try to land a job lad, any job and start to self improve. Past 25 everybody gets lazy and dont work on themselves that is where you can shine with motivation, discipline and elitism

[Anonymous No.29888839]

>>29888615
>just order an escort
next post by OP
>guys I’m in love but she’s an escort wut do

[Anonymous No.29888844]

>>29888054
>I saw hookers though. Almost 30 hookers to date.
>I'm 22
You made it off crypto? 30 hookers is a lot for a 22 year old anon. What kinda girls you like?

[Anonymous No.29888847]

>>29888575
>>29888616
I already lift weights, it did nothing for me

[Anonymous No.29888981]

>>29887950
I've done all these things but it's been like 3-4 years since i really socialized. I'm 26. My mind has become putty.

[Anonymous No.29888985]

1. I genuinely do not know what counts as a friend anymore, so many people leaving me, barely talking to me, it feels like everyone only talks to me out of pity
2. Plenty of times, albeit with my faily
3. Drinking is for people who can't accept reality
4. family
5. I want to see a concert but the only bands i like are prog rock and don't tour anymore
well mostly prog rock
6. parties sound scary
7. yes but only out of concern that i killed myself

[Anonymous No.29889000]

Stop being a pussy OP

You scaring the hoes man

[Anonymous No.29889001]

>>29888171
>bro you're a Virgin? Lmao weirdo
>dude I haven't had pussy in weeks, fuck!
>haha bro sex is overrated. I do it all the time and it's nothing special

[Anonymous No.29889011]

>>29887950
Not losing anything my friend. Humans are garbage

[Anonymous No.29889028]

>>29887950
back to /pol/ you go

[Anonymous No.29889040]

>>29887950
I'll be your fren anon
>>29888764
It's weird how people say this like if experience any problems at all it's because your arms are too thin

[Anonymous No.29889052]

Hey OP, writing because I empathise with where you've been.

When I was 21 I was a kissless virgin and finally just snapped. I had heard about escorts/hookers for a while but only when I really hit a low point did I just plow on with it. I arranged the meet for the next day, got less than 2 hours sleep that night because I was in cold sweat when I realised what I did, and met her the next day for 30 mins. Drove home literally crying tears of happiness that I would never have to worry about any of this again for the rest of my life. So I would 100% recommend escorts - get a reputable site, find someone with good reviews and then arrange a meet. Even if it's illegal the police won't care about first time offending virgins.

>Never had a friend

You have had friends. I did the same thing, defining friend as 'they come regularly to my house and I play vidya with them' or whatever. In reality, plenty of people considered themselves to be my friend even when I didn't.

>I’ve never been out to eat with another person
>I’ve never went to a movie with another person

Done both - the solitary experience is way better for both.

>I’ve never been to a party

I've been - you didn't miss much if you were an introvert like me. Loud, shitty music with the same conversations you heard back in school. Can't think of one party I went to and genuinely completely enjoyed myself.

>I’ve never been to a concert

Didn't go to my first concert until 23 - Iron Maiden, saw David Byrne and Metallica soon after. You can easily go by yourself to any of them. Just book the first available concert that comes your way.

>I’ve never been to a bar or gotten drunk

I'm teetotal and proud - saved me thousands.

>I’ve never texted another person my age

How many text conversations do you remember in your whole life? That's how important they are.

>I’m 25

Me 2.

[Anonymous No.29889064]

>>29889040
I mean i wanna be stronk but every time i try i get discouraged because im told im using the wrong method or some shit
so fuck it

[Anonymous No.29889070]

>>29888844
No
I was making bank off of unemployment last year and blew a ton on hookers.
I honestly would be lying if I said I cared much about the type of girl.
I've seen fat girls, young girls, milfs.
Milf types are usually better experiences due to the service, younger girls tend to be full of themselves and unwilling to do things that older girls do without hesitation.
I suppose in that sense, my ideal would be fit blonde milfs in their 40s.

[Anonymous No.29889087]

>>29887950
That's rough

[Anonymous No.29889096]

>>29888847
Damn what does your face look like then? You have an above average frame not fat, some muscle etc.

[Anonymous No.29889106]

>>29888206
Sex is definitely overrated.
Not having a friend fucking sucks though I would have killed myself way before 25.

[Anonymous No.29889129]

>>29888847
you don't look that ugly or weird
I think if you see a therapist you will probably be able to achieve all those things. The only reason you haven't is because you lack courage and for the same reason you probably won't go see a therapist.

[Anonymous No.29889159]

>>29889040
I started lifting because I had the same issues and it didn't change anything, fuck u

[Anonymous No.29889204]

>>29889106
I have had no friends and I would choose sex over friends every time.

[Anonymous No.29889266]

>>29889070
>I was making bank off of unemployment last year and blew a ton on hookers.
Unemployment fraud?
>I suppose in that sense, my ideal would be fit blonde milfs in their 40s.
Based taste. I'm still a virgin but I'm giving it 2-3 more years. I was seriously considering escorts before but not that much anymore.

[Anonymous No.29889280]

>>29888171
This
Making love is awesome.

>few one night stands, one real hooker
>boring as fuck, like jerking
>loving fiance lets me raw into her every other day, and cuddle after that
>best feeling in the world

[Anonymous No.29889331]

>>29889266
Fraud?
No, I was just out of work due to the virus and they were giving all of that extra money.
I live at home so I had zero expenses. Bought a motorcycle, tons of hookers, and had more to invest.

[Anonymous No.29889344]

>>29887950
You have a board full of frens anon

[Anonymous No.29889350]

>>29889344

[Anonymous No.29889410]

>>29887950
>>>/r9k/

[Anonymous No.29889439]

I have too many friends that I can reasonably check in on.
I had dinner with some of them a few hours ago.
We also got drunk.
Watched a movie with friends yesterday.
Haven’t been to a concert in a while but used to go to 1-2 a week.
I was just at a party.
I have too many friends texting me and lose track easily.

I haven’t had sex in over a month because my biggest crush lives outside the country during covid but am texting and have had FaceTime sex.

[Anonymous No.29889485]

>>29887950
Seeing that list, sex is the least of your worries anon. You need to see a doctor to treat you, you have an illness that needs treatment. You're young, don't wait until it's too late

[Anonymous No.29889636]

I literally havent even talked to my mom. I dont even believe females exist. I havent left the house since I was 1 day old leaving the hospital.

[Anonymous No.29889796]

>>29887950
The good news at least is that you’re still relatively young, and will probably value friendships and company more once you start having it.

[Anonymous No.29890976]

>>29889636
big if true

[Anonymous No.29891202]

>>29887950
GET HOOKERS GET UR FEAR OUT

[Anonymous No.29891334]

[Anonymous No.29891554]

>>29887950
yeah but at least you have your e-coins

[Anonymous No.29891635]

>>29889096
>>29889129
Not OP but I'm in the same shoes. If you have an ugly face it's over for you no matter how much you lift.

[Anonymous No.29891788]

>>29888981
>do nothing
>fall into depression
Big surprise. Contrary to OP you know how socialising works, so start doing it again or suffer like that forever

[Anonymous No.29891840]

>>29889280
This guy gets it. Sex is just jerking off with a few extra steps, sex with someone you love and who loves you is intimate and fucking beautiful

[Anonymous No.29891850]

>>29889280
One night stands without a condom is basically just as good, if not better, than sex with your girlfriend without a condom. Sex with condom is kind of pointless.

[Anonymous No.29891914]

I’ve had sex with 3 women in the past year... and I’m married.

[Anonymous No.29891965]

>>29891914

You say that like your wife isn't doing the same thing

[Anonymous No.29892028]

>>29887950
AAVE gets you a gf in the next wave

[Anonymous No.29892101]

>>29887950
i spend $1000 a month banging 10/10 escorts, there's always a way, i don't even look at women i just bang escorts.. makes life easier and its comfy

[Anonymous No.29892174]

>>29887950
Unironically am very good looking and I do all that but at the end of the day what do I have to show for it? It’s a curse being outwardly attractive and a non npc at the same time, everyone expects you to especially be a normie. If you told anyone who knows me that I take antidepressants they’d laugh at you.

None of it fucking matters anon. The grass will always seems greener on the other side but if you get to it you’ll see that it’s just chink plastic painted green.

[Anonymous No.29892207]

>>29891914
Same. She won't shut up about it after I told her.

[Anonymous No.29892210]

>>29889052
You didn't enjoy dating or parties because you're an anxious mess around people. Because you're afraid to show your true face and have trouble building connections. I've been there and shit sucks. Once you get over it, dating and parties are pretty sweet. You enjoy an evening shared with people and form connections which can be extremely rewarding. The lone wolf stuff is good too, even necessary sometimes but don't act like it's everything when you're simply incapable of socialising like a normal person.

[Anonymous No.29892216]

>>29887950
Your fears stopping you. Imagine you will die tomorrow. Today is your last day. Now go get some friends. Just find a Discord with people that share some of you interests. I won't believe how easy it is untill you try. You will regret that you didnt do that erlier.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTJ7AzBIJoI

[Anonymous No.29892321]

>>29892101

do you feel some emptiness inside afterwards?

[Anonymous No.29892378]

>>29887950
A hot girl basically forced her way into being my girlfriend, I tried to warn her that I'm fucked in the head and have a lot of physical flaws but she didn't listen. We plan to go out soon and I fully expect her to dump me. I don't deserve this much happiness and I know I'll have to pay for it, can't relax and enjoy this

[Anonymous No.29892487]

Ive never been lonely, have tons of friends, ten boys from way back who would die for each other, nice family, wife, kids etc. Im genuinely liked by almost everyone who meet me. Is this why my gains are pure shit?

[Anonymous No.29892502]

>>29887950
Sending you love, anon. Wagmi.

[Anonymous No.29892569]

>>29887950
Im almost 30 and same, except for 1 weird friend i had for a few years in kindergarten. I dont even browse /r9k/ because i cant relate

[FlaxPlay No.29892591]

if I had an opportunity to change something I would like to shoot this niggers who shilled here that trash
have already lost 1500$1700$ for their shit bot
who this nigger that made this fucking retarded bot
seems like it is better to wait for full-ecosystem open for Bot Ocean and their solutions
my purse is weeping

[Anonymous No.29892631]

>>29887950
almost had sex my sophomore year of college with some thot i didn't give a fuck about. Literally had her naked in my bed and experienced the most cosmic regret ive ever felt in my entire life and just afked and went to sleep. Unironically cuddling with the girl I loved made me feel 1000x better (although she turned out to be a whore too), so I've kinda just learned women are worthless unless you can find someone you love. Whether that's possible thanks to the eternal jew remains to be seen I guess

[Anonymous No.29892664]

>>29888171
Virgin/Incel cope.

[Anonymous No.29892705]

>>29892210
Usually I try show my true face soon as I can, so people know the real me rather than a "fake it till you make it". I prefer to be honest. Probably why I've never had a date/gf. I'm a weird guy I suppose

[Anonymous No.29892714]

>>29888321
don't listen to this faggot, basically everyone has done at LEAST one of the things on that list. You gotta figure out why you haven't and work on improving yourself. You CAN change and it WILL get better if you work at it.

[Anonymous No.29892739]

>>29892321
no emptiness its transactional, once i make it i might get my emotions back.. this world made me heartless and cold

[Anonymous No.29892796]

>>29887950
Same here, but I am also 27 and a millionaire. Fuck this society man, smartphones killed all social interaction. All women have become whores. I hate women.

[Anonymous No.29892814]

>>29887950
>Never had sex
>I've never went to a movie with another person (not including family)
>Never been to a concert
> 18 years old
Working on becoming a bit more social and trying to be more flirty with girls

[Anonymous No.29892817]

>>29892207
Topkek

[Anonymous No.29892863]

>>29887950
You really overestimate how much appearance plays a part. It matters, but as long as you're not completely deformed (and even then I think it's possible to have friendships and even a relationship), you should be able to have friends. Personality is the main determine factor. Work on your personality and find out why you're like this. Just stop being such a cunt and people will want to hang out with you.

[Anonymous No.29892912]

>>29887950

have sex

[Anonymous No.29892967]

>/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>>/r9k/
faggot

[Anonymous No.29892992]

>>29889439
are you from colorado?

[Anonymous No.29893078]

I'm only a failed normie and nowhere near as bad as some people in this thread, but how do you build self confidence? I seek approval from other people for basically everything I do in my life and I'm extremely insecure about myself. I do have a job where I perform well but it's fairly bitch level work and I don't find it fulfilling

[Anonymous No.29893107]

it's probably better that way trust me, it's hard work having so many hot girls wanting to have sex with you constantly

[Anonymous No.29893114]

Same, but I couldn't care less.
I want two things in life:
>Give/receive love
>Live comfy in a nice place
Since the first one seems impossible, I'm just focusing on the second. That's the main reason why I got into crypto.

[Anonymous No.29893138]

>>29892814
>Get a free VIP pass to a music festival in my city due to strange luck
>Go there all alone
>Don't go back after the first day

[Anonymous No.29893145]

>>29887950

[Anonymous No.29893190]

>>29887950
I've done all of those things, you aren't missing out on much, but it's probably hard to recognise that from your position.

[Anonymous No.29893217]

>>29893138
you simply need to go to a concert of an artist you're actually passionate about, it's that easy anon

[Anonymous No.29893229]

>>29888171
He's right you know. Condoms are awful. Making out and cuddling are straight kino though

[Anonymous No.29893234]

>>29887950
You should good
you just made a lot of people be very grateful for what they have achieved and who they are.
Best of luck to you bud

[Anonymous No.29893248]

>>29893217
They are all dead or too old.

[Anonymous No.29893284]

>>29887950
This is why people stop being serious about literally everything.
You can be interested in things, but you can also be interested in people. You can switch between those two. Being a tryhard at everything is the literal opposite of what you want.

Once you have accepted the absurdity of it all, you start being irresponsible, yet you also start being interested in other people's minds. You will then find the reason why vidya games exist that are about socializing at it's core. You'll start to crave those. Next, you will start some artsy project for shits and giggles. On your way to 'self-fullfilment', you'll find others who are looking for the same thing.

But you don't seem like an irresponsible guy, you seem like a tryhard that wants to maximize efficiency at life. Again, they're opposites.

[Anonymous No.29893285]

Same here but I'm dead inside so it doesnt matter.

[Anonymous No.29893347]

>>29892863
How do i get a personality?

[Anonymous No.29893383]

>>29887950
Hope you make it anon

[Anonymous No.29893459]

>>29893347
Become more stupid, yet more philosophical. Stop thinking like an insect. Give colour to the things in life, feel them, don't analyze them. Do not destruct things in your mind, build something out of them.

[Anonymous No.29893529]

>>29887950
>I’ve never had a friend
we are your frens

[Anonymous No.29893550]

>>29887950
You could have stopped at not having a friend because everything that follows you do with friends (most of them are shit without friends).

[Anonymous No.29893601]

>>29889280
I don't know what it feels like to care about another person. I feel indifferent towards everyone, including family.

[Anonymous No.29893603]

>>29887950
Last night I had my gf and about a 7-8/10 blonde bent over in the disabled toilets while I finger fucked both of them (one with each hand while I stood in the middle).
Later I made out with her (the blonde) and her sister (for a drink mind you, all women are basically whores and want something from you). Why? I went out to watch some rugby and ended up at a bar even though I really just wanted to drink Pepsi, listen to podcasts and play Rust or CS:GO while my gf layed in bed watching Netflix.
This isn’t a strangely specific LARP it really did happen because I said fuck wasting another Saturday night (ausfag it’s Sunday night here right now) and decided to go do something social.
I’ve only fucked one other chick before I met my gf and now I can probably manage a threesome if I’m lucky because I left my comfort zone!
And I’m still self conscious about women and shit anon, point is you need leave your comfort zone and go out (I know it’s almost impossible to do alone when you are a virgin or are timid and shit) with a irl friend, just get together and go somewhere goth bitches hang out they will probably fuck strange dudes idk.
Or play League of Legends maybe I have a mate who’s weird little brother met a chick near him on LoL.
And if you don’t have an irl friend go even further out your comfort zone and go to a Warhammer shop or cyber cafe or some shit eventually or I’ve even seen literal LARPers at this park near mine on the weekend and some of the chicks are cute and it actually looks pretty fun even if it is cringe who fucking cares.
And if you do this and it fails you’ll at least have some life experience and won’t be making these posts.

[Anonymous No.29893648]

>>29888321
Otherwise actually listen to this anon honestly dude. Shits overrated.

[Anonymous No.29893663]

>>29893601
Hey there functional psyhopath.

>t. sociopath

[Anonymous No.29893978]

I had all those things and lost it all because I moved to a new city during coronachan. still chat with one mate over ts now and then but that's basically it. the thing is I value my peace of mind much more than I value those things and breaking your head over what you don't have not only doesn't make things better it makes things worse. It will lead you straight down the road to depression and $rope. do things you enjoy. meditate, create something, go out for a long walk, listen to audiobooks. basically stop giving a fuck. there are hermits in caves that a blissed out their mind, I have visited one guy that lived in a cave for 15 years that dude was honestly the happiest guy I have ever seen. that dude has nothing. on the other hand I have seen people that have everything on the surface and are fucking misserable. one guy I knew had a beautiful wife, house, children, money, a good job, lots of friends and literally offed himself. it's not what you have or not have it is if you have control over your mind and understand the source of suffering. godspeed anon

[Anonymous No.29894062]

>>29892705
Seriously just fake it until you’ve came inside her then you can tell her how weird and shit you are is my honest opinion.
I’m serious if you are honest straight away they get weird but if you fuck them then afterwards discuss more intimate shit about your fucked perception of the world or flaws they can be really, really chill. I fucked up being honest to early once and now with my current gf who thought I was a huge chad I can admit I was basically a virgin when I met her, enjoy crossdressing and would rather play RuneScape as opposed to go to a party.

[Anonymous No.29894219]

>>29887950
Well you don't miss much. I've done those things, and i've decided to stop a year ago (except for the sex part). It's useless.
Read philosophy, and concentrate on your personal development, that includes money.

[Anonymous No.29894249]

>>29887950
And you're posting in the wrong section.

[Anonymous No.29894301]

>>29893347
just keep imagining yourself as your knew personality and it'll happen.

[Anonymous No.29894404]

>>29893978
That’s why I come here, you faggots make me feel better about myself yet my empathy makes me want to try help some of you even though I’m still kind of sad deep down.
I want to stop comparing myself to others and once I can do that I think I might actually make it.

[Anonymous No.29894424]

>>29893347
Mothefucker be curious about the world, form your own opinions, develop a critical apparatus. There's so much fucking knowledge out there that there's bound to be something that piques your interest. I recommend reading, but I know it's not for everyone. Traveling is good as well. One of the most enjoyable things in life is bumping into people that know what their talking about out of passion. Be it whatever the fuck it may be. For example my brother is super into animation, and hearing him talk about how it works, why some decisions were made or some of the technical challenges that a production faced is really interesting.

[Anonymous No.29894636]

you are not missing anything, sex is overrated, society are a bunch of sheep morons.

[Anonymous No.29894698]

>>29894636
>sex is overrated
meanwhile he's having all the sex

yeah bro, crypto is overrated....you just need spirituality mannnnn

[Anonymous No.29894829]

>>29894698
read my blogpost fren
>>29892631
it really is not a meme anon, I spent so many years obsessing over my virginity and shit and when I finally got a hole to cum in I realized the absurdity of it all and couldn't go through with it. I'm still a virgin, but believe it or not I can't be assed to care. Are you really just a masturbating monkey who bases his value on a hole he can stick his dick into? call me a faggot for believing in nofap and semen retention, but there's a reason every reputable sage practices it. if you reject the majority of garbage people value you can actually find the truth. At least that's what I believe