Please help me, what do I do?

[Anonymous No.25481217]

>be me
>24 year old poorfag
>meet thick qt3.14 with the same autistic interests as me
>after many dates she told me she was molested and raped by her father
>I accepted her and loved her as much as I could, even payed for her therapy
>I even got into trading to one day provide nicely for both of us
>She is into some kinky stuff, we are both incredibly open
>However, she is needy and has abandonment issues due to her trauma
>After a few months, relationship isnt going great
>She is very jealous of my female friends and needy
>I found out she recently developed an interest in rape baiting
>She joined forums and communities dedicated to that

Whem confronted, she told me she won't do it. It's just an interest due to her trauma.
What is the best decision here /biz/?
I thought I had found a beautiful girl who loved me and whom I could raise a family with. But I wonder if her trauma will ruin our future.

[Anonymous No.25481274]

>>25481217
Sounds tough, the trauma could keep her back from truly loving you as well... there is no right answer mate

[Anonymous No.25481324]

>>25481217
And yes, those are literally communities dedicated the discussion of how to get raped efficiently and safely.
I fear she will do it behind my back.
What do I do? It really feels as if she was sick and it wasnt her fault.

[Anonymous No.25481366]

>>25481217
rape her

[Anonymous No.25481395]

>>25481324
time eventually heals, her mental state is unstable and she might do things you have never imagined she would

[Anonymous No.25481485]

>>25481395
I love her. I think the decision is to dump her now or kill myself if she eventually does it.

[Anonymous No.25481531]

>>25481324
>get raped efficiently and safely
you gave the answer OP

[Anonymous No.25481541]

DUMP ET

[Anonymous No.25481613]

>>25481324
what do you mean?
these people want to go out on the streets and get raped?
or do you mean as a kink with someone they know

[Anonymous No.25481619]

>>25481217
Dude she's on a proto dating site even more degenerate than tinder. If you haven't been cucked already, then it's only a matter of time before she gets drilled. Your red flag meter is ticking enough for you to make this thread, so you know deep down that I'm right.

[Anonymous No.25481626]

>>25481324
>get raped efficiently
>get raped efficiently
>get raped efficiently
I'm stealing this line

[Anonymous No.25481643]

>>25481485
>I think the decision is to dump her now or kill myself if she eventually does it.
Get out, now. Read about co-dependancy, because you're a textbook co-dependant. You need to get your stuff together solo and be comfortable enough with yourself that you don't need a partner. They should be a compliment to the life you are already building for yourself, not something your derive a significant amount of your own meaning and value from. With everything you've said, it's not going to end well at all.

[Anonymous No.25481658]

>>25481366
>>25481531
We have roleplayed it already. That is no problem. The thing is, I fear she will go do it behind my back with a stranger

[Anonymous No.25481699]

>>25481613
Streets. Raped by strangers.
I want to cry just fucking thinking about it.

[Anonymous No.25481712]

>>25481217
>she told me she was molested and raped

[Anonymous No.25481782]

>>25481643
Thank you, I will read up on it.

[Anonymous No.25481811]

>>25481613
There are dating sites which cater to all needs, including rape fetishes. I knew a slut who tried this. The woman basically communicate with the "rapist", who agrees to setup a certain scenario for her (given enough consent). The date and time are setup online then acted out in real life as if it were real. The chick I knew arranged for a guy to throw her in a van, drill the shit out of her while she begged, and tossed her out after.

OP's girl is basically setting this scenario up, if she hasn't already done it.

[Anonymous No.25481864]

>>25481811
This is more fucked up. They are basically a community of women sharing tips on how to get raped at night or in clubs or shit like that.

[Anonymous No.25481880]

>>25481217
Don’t date “damaged goods” EVER. Women don’t get over shit I’ve been there and done that.

[Anonymous No.25481965]

>>25481643
I think it's more like I feel I need to protect her from the world, and now I can't protect her from herself.

[Anonymous No.25481992]

>>25481864
That's worse than I imagined. She wants the real deal and not even RP shit. Get the fuck out anon, she's a broken chick

[Anonymous No.25482129]

>>25481626
>get raped efficiently
Women are the meme gender

[Anonymous No.25482136]

>>25481217
Anon, the advice you need to follow in this thread is leave her. Sadly ultimatums don't work, I've been there as others have already said. Time may heal her wounds but you're not at the right time and letting her do this shit will damage you. Time to put yourself first - it's hard, but, she won't change soon enough. You've supported her and tried, and you did your best - you can leave with a clean conscience. Don't worry, concentrate on your investments and improving your future and position, there are more women, and better women. If she goes behind you're back and won't be open with you about it, you don't need to explain yourself to her. The trust is broken.

[Anonymous No.25482167]

>>25481965
If it makes you feel better she is one girl in a world full of pussy. Don’t set yourself up to be gutted more than you are right now. There are plenty of other girls that would give you a shot. She’s cursed unfortunately. How old are you guys?

[Anonymous No.25482192]

you fell in love with a whore. it's rough and i feel bad for you. you should end it now before you get more hurt though, she's mentally broken and debauched beyond repair, you can't wife this, and she is unfixable.

[Anonymous No.25482293]

>>25482136
I just can't help but feel that she is just a girl who needs help

[Anonymous No.25482354]

>>25482293
check her into therapy? not much else you can do she needs to make the choice

[Anonymous No.25482426]

>>25482354
She is already in therapy. Slow process.

[Anonymous No.25482593]

>>25481217
>rape baiting
If you're not LARPing, get the fuck out immediately. Your life will be over soon if you don't

[Anonymous No.25482632]

>>25481658
Perhaps you aren’t efficient enough

[Anonymous No.25482660]

>>25482192
based and hardtruthpilltoswallowpilled

[Anonymous No.25482678]

>>25482632
Kek go fuck yourself

[Anonymous No.25482746]

>>25482593
Can you elaborate?

[Anonymous No.25482749]

>>25481864
lol wtf run

[Anonymous No.25482766]

>>25481217
Keep a record of her discussing this stuff with you to present to a therapist or (god forbid) a lawyer. Make it clear to her that this is not a healthy way of dealing with her trauma and that it makes you uncomfortable. If I were in your situation, I would try to end the relationship, but depending on your circumstances you may neither desire this or understand why it's probably the best choice. I will tell you that it's not your responsibility to resolve somebody else's trauma and that being in a close personal relationship with such a person will cloud your judgment and that your support can end up being counterproductive if it's not diligently and periodically reevaluated. Do what you feel aligns most closely to your ethical principles and show her the respect she is due as a person and as your partner, but very seriously consider if you are capable and/or even willing to put in work and struggle that may end up being fruitless.

[Anonymous No.25482780]

>>25482776

[Anonymous No.25482826]

the equivalent of holding $T for the dividends or $XRP because muh standard

sage

[Anonymous No.25482869]

>>25482766
Thank you, really.
Thank you.

[Anonymous No.25482933]

Do you have a link to any of these forums?

[Anonymous No.25482977]

>>25482933
Kill yourself please

[Anonymous No.25483010]

>>25482766
>millions of women in her age range
>chooses a really fucked up in the head

kek unnecesarily complicating your life never brings success. everyone not telling OP to run from this crazy bitch is bringing him closer to failure.

>t. was in his shoes once

[Anonymous No.25483047]

>>25482826
>>25483010
OP isnt even here for advice just confirmation bias

my words will fall on deaf ears and i take no joy in knowing in a few years OPs relationship will be in the gutter

[Anonymous No.25483061]

>>25482766
tldr, don't stick dick in crazy

[Anonymous No.25483123]

>>25483047
You have no reason to believe that, pal. I just wanted to see the situation from other people's position. And I'm taking note from all the reasonable sounding advice here.

[Anonymous No.25483180]

>>25482746
she will frame you for rape when she spirals. Happened to me, same red flag.

[Anonymous No.25483204]

>>25483047
>in a few years
it's already gone to shit and it's only been a few months. she seems like a BPD girl with the neediness, jealously, sexual trauma, and acting whorish behind his back. his life will be hell in 6 months tops if he stays with her.

[Anonymous No.25483240]

put baby in belly

[Anonymous No.25483253]

>>25483123
only advice you need is putting your time / energy into not fucked up women.

literally you could have a cozy gf not causing retarded levels of drama but would rather have a schizo harpie for a gf. are you that bored with your life? kill yourself if so.

[Anonymous No.25483291]

>>25483204
kek like he even realizes that.

this retard is so accustomed to shitty relationships he thinks this is acceptable. he will be bald broke bitch very soon wondering why.

[Anonymous No.25483310]

TLDR

OP is dating a fat autistic girl that was raped by her father and he wonders why he is having relationship issues.

[Anonymous No.25483480]

>>25481217
sounds like she's blaming a lot of her shortcomings on her "trauma" anon and that she isn't doing much to curb them

>has "rape fantasies" because of trauma
>entertains them

Figure out if she wants to overcome her "trauma" or if that trauma really isn't a trauma at this point but a part of her that she embraces

Maybe she wasn't even raped by her father but just fantasized about it? Because it sure seems she enjoys such fantasies

t. dated a lot of crazy people anon you'd be surprised what stories people tell themselves (one girl claimed she was raped by a lot of people who had names of people she actually admired, basically like a mythomaniac fantasizing about them raping her)

[Anonymous No.25483678]

>>25483253
>>25483204
>>25483180
>>25483061
OP, notice that what I'm saying is basically the same thing as what these guys are saying. The only point that I'd like to reiterate is that it doesn't matter if she is or isn't a bad person/is or isn't crazy/does or does not have malicious intent, etc. You're in a relationship with her, so obviously you like her and want to give her the benefit of the doubt and help her if at all possible. It's important that you realize you can hold these feelings while simultaneously doing the sensible thing and removing yourself from the situation. It doesn't make you callous, it just means you recognize that the behavior you've described to us needs to be addressed by a professional and that it can take years of concerted effort to do this. Based on the fact that you've only been seeing each other for a few months, those years of effort are not yours to give, i.e. you would be doing your future self an immense disservice.

[Anonymous No.25483715]

>>25483678
HOLY FUCK THIS RETARD HAS ONLY BEEN SEEING HER A FEW MONTHS AND ITS THIS BAD? worse than i thought. op literally kys the gene pool with flourish without your destructive tendencies.

[Anonymous No.25483795]

>>25483678
You are objectively right.

[Anonymous No.25483840]

hang on, you're 27 she's 14? bruh

[Anonymous No.25483853]

>>25483715
If I were you I'd be telling me to stay with her. Because after my current gf your mom is next in line.

[Anonymous No.25483854]

>>25482426
Abandon ship

[Anonymous No.25483858]

>>25481217
go to /adv/ nigger get this shit out of here.

Bitch is crazy, if you stick around it will probably continue to be a wild ride whether you like it or not.

Make up your fucking mind if you want to stick it out or not

[Anonymous No.25483873]

>>25481541
this, bog is right

[Anonymous No.25483878]

Decent larp, 6/10 made me scroll through

[Anonymous No.25483895]

>>25483840
kek

[Anonymous No.25483899]

>>25483840
We are both 24

[Anonymous No.25483906]

>>25483840
kek

>>25483853
cope. if you have a kid with your gf (because i know your retarded ass with think "it'll fix us i swear") then your child/ren will suffer for years from having a schizo harpie of a mother.

[Anonymous No.25483920]

>>25481811
sounds like a scheme to sue people and get money, or maybe I'm just a retarded virgin who can't understand wymen

[Anonymous No.25483944]

>>25481217
I'll pay you 1 ETH to fuck your whore.

[Anonymous No.25483973]

OP you need to get out of this relationship. Your (now ex) girlfriend is going to do this. She wants to do this and nothing will stop her. She doesn't want to get better. Improving oneself is difficult and takes a long time, she wants to indulge and feel good. You did your best trying to lead your ex to water, but she decided not to drink. It's not your fault, OP. I sincerely hope you can separate your emotional state from your relationship and work on yourself instead of pouring your energy into another person where it will go to waste. I've had experiences with mentally ill women similar to that and it's nothing good.

Read up on philosophy. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is a good starting point. The first step is wanting to change. She clearly doesn't want to, so now the question is: do you? Do you want to change and stop letting this horrible feeling consume you? Or do you want to indulge and feel good by holding her close and lying to yourself about the person she's decided to be? This thread is leading you to water, it's your choice if you want to drink.

[Anonymous No.25483996]

>>25483944
I have way more ETH than you will see in your whole pathetic fucking life.

[Anonymous No.25484013]

>>25483973
>Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous No.25484010]

>>25482293
>I just can't help but feel that she is just a girl who needs help
it's not up to you to help her at this point. will she help you if she hurt you? I guess no

[Anonymous No.25484031]

>>25481864
RED FLAG
THIS IS A SELL SIGNAL

[Anonymous No.25484048]

>>25484013
and Nietzsche

[Anonymous No.25484057]

>>25483996
I've been into crypto since 2011 lmfao. I don't give a fuck about your gay shit. Enjoy the daddy issues rape whore. You know what dude, wife her.

[Anonymous No.25484067]

>>25484013
I think this might be my least favorite image I have ever seen on the internet

[Anonymous No.25484082]

>>25484048
>Nietzsche

[Anonymous No.25484161]

>>25481658
SHE WILL IF SHE HASN'T ALREADY ANON, YOU STARTED DATING A BROKEN ONE GET HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE NOW AND PRAY SHE DOESN'T PRESS RAPE CHARGES AGAINST YOU (SHE WILL)

[Anonymous No.25484187]

>>25483973
Thank you. And yeah, I am currently going through all of the stoics.
I will make the right decision. It's just that it's a shitty painful situation. Because it wasn't her fault to be abused.
But you are right, I guess she is responsible for how she handles it as an adult.

[Anonymous No.25484190]

>>25484082

[Anonymous No.25484198]

Youre a cuck OP. bug her devices with a keylogger at the very least so you have some idea of how bad things really are.

[Anonymous No.25484213]

You both need therapy, she needs LOTS of it. She really needs Jesus actually. Take her to church anon, and yourself. And you need to not walk but Run away. That is not “marriage” material. You have a ticking time bomb on your hands. Want to raise some black kid whose not yours? Want a lawsuit or a cheating SO? She is broken and needs help. Go to church and seek God.

[Anonymous No.25484228]

>>25483996
Kill yourself faggot you have a gf that is probably still getting fucked by her father and gang bang raped by multiple niggers behind your back. Lmfao @ your life seriously blow your head off along with your family members.

[Anonymous No.25484267]

>OP isnt listening to any of the richfags here telling him how to fix his wahmen problems

It's over bros. OP will an hero soon enough.

[Anonymous No.25484277]

>>25484228
seethe

[Anonymous No.25484291]

>>25481217
>my so unique gf has traumas and fantasies
and fucking every other girl in existence, people ITT yapping about "mentally healthy" girlfriends are delusional. you fucked up from the start OP, should've made yourself clear that her joining those forums is strictly forbidden.

[Anonymous No.25484293]

>>25481217
She sounds based and rapepilled imo

People who fantasise about disgusting fetishes, are turned on by taboo, do it with their partner, and engage with communities to set things up almost never follow through with it. She won’t actually do it any time soon, and she DEFINITELY won’t do it to spice her life up when you’re both old and boring. I also think she seems like the kind of girl who’d tell you if she did go through with it.

I honestly think this is just a phase and it won’t cause serious issues later on in your life. Staying with her is the smart move. She will make an amazing mother.

[Anonymous No.25484304]

>>25484228
Seethe bitch

[Anonymous No.25484307]

>>25484277
Coping father who rapes his daughter

[Anonymous No.25484313]

>>25481217
honestly bro get out, I would try and break it to her after you've got your escape plan ready, that's alot of red flags

[Anonymous No.25484326]

>>25484228
>>25484277
disregard that I suck cocks and thought you were responding to >>25483944

[Anonymous No.25484327]

I think you are failing to understand this is not a mental condition in the way alcoholism is. You will not fix this woman. A person who goes online to discuss how to get raped is not a person who can be fixed. Understand even if you think she gets "better" and you have a child with her she quite possibly will molest your child. There are many decent women whom you could uplift, do not waste your time putting humpty dumpty back together.

[Anonymous No.25484332]

>>25484293
NO WAY BRO SHE IS GOING TO PAY A NIGGER TO MURDER OP AND FUCK HER SOPPING WET PUSSY OVER HIS SPLATTERED SKULL

[Anonymous No.25484348]

>>25484293
Oh, I forgot to mention that the official /biz/ answer is that you need to monetize her rape fetish. Maybe loan her out to groups of guys and film it for OnlyFans.

[Anonymous No.25484368]

>>25484326
Fuck up faggot

[Anonymous No.25484374]

>>25484304
he's right though. you are upset at those posts because they're forcing you to think about a truth you want to forget. do not forget it. process the situation as it is, not as you want it to be

[Anonymous No.25484385]

>>25481217
>dates an absolute psycho
>"things started off great but now..."
A tale as old as time.

OP, congratulations. You learned that there are TONS of psycho chicks who are willing to let you fuck them in return for dealing with their INSANE behavior. They're fun but DO NOT INVEST LONG TERM. Their value will dump and you will become a babyholder, stuck with a complete nutjob who will definitely stab you one day.

[Anonymous No.25484394]

>>25484304
Keep coping that your gf got fucked by her dad lmf40! Imagine be

[Anonymous No.25484449]

>>25481613
It's called CNC, or consensual non-consent. You basically arrange for someone to rape you online

[Anonymous No.25484456]

>>25484394
based and stoicpilled

[Anonymous No.25484458]

Where to buy sirs?

[Anonymous No.25484471]

>>25481217
This happen to be in the 714 area? Know a chick the same age just like this

[Anonymous No.25484506]

I know what is the reasonable rhing to do guys. It's just incredibly hard because it feels like abandoning a girl in need of help. It wasn't her fault. But I understand she is an adult now and responsible for her own actions.
I won't settle for the easy choice. I will do what is best, even if it hurts.
I just wish I could have met someone as awesome as her without the trauma. Maybe one day.

[Anonymous No.25484509]

>>25481643
This. I would also add your own damaged past is why you are "connecting" with her. Examine yourself, and like anon said, work out your own co-dependency. Also, damaged girls dont like being broken up with, she could accuse you of rape to fuck your life up a bit. If you break up with her do it on extremely good terms (I'm just taking a holiday will be back in 2 months, etc, nothing about her).

[Anonymous No.25484515]

>>25484385
one day you will realize that there are no non psycho girls, and the best investment is finding a girl who will help you succeed in making money by making your every day life a little bit easier from doing tasks for you

[Anonymous No.25484531]

>>25482426
And that's the point, OP. She may be a good girl originally, but it's too late now, and it is t your fault, or your problem. She hasn't shown enough willing to be better at this point. Get out of dodge. If you hang around, she won't change, because she has no reason to. If you leave, she may sort herself out. Don't ever go back, but maybe, she'll fix herself. If not she'll just continue to self destruct, with or without you. You staying, as much as you try to help, only actually makes it worse. Trust me, man, I've been there and gone through this. I was in this situation for ten fucking years.

[Anonymous No.25484541]

>>25484385
>You will become a babyholder
This
T. Single dad of 2 kids.

[Anonymous No.25484548]

>>25484456
kek i meant this for >>25484374

[Anonymous No.25484586]

>>25484531
SHE WON'T GET BETTER ON HER OWN WOMEN FACE NO CONSQUENCE FOR THEIR ACTION SHE'S JUST GOING TO FUCK AROUND UNTIL SHE FINDS A SIMP FOR HER KIDS.

[Anonymous No.25484603]

>>25481217
>daddy issues
>jealous of female friends
>rape fantasies

Bro, you literally have the easiest girl to keep, al you have to do is hit her, rape her and humiliate her. Women are like children, they must be treated as such and not be put in pedestals, stop being a fucking fsggot or send me her discord and I’ll cuck you instead. Fucking faggot

[Anonymous No.25484636]

>>25484506
If you're too much of a pussy to leave her take control of the situation >>25484198 so you know when things escalate. She will get you killed sooner or later if you don't.

[Anonymous No.25484651]

>>25484586
She might, anon, don't ever doubt there is a slim chance of a female sorting her shit out and getting on with it. I mean, that or she'll an hero so whatever. Either way don't stay.

[Anonymous No.25484685]

>>25484348
kek, we got a rabbi here

[Anonymous No.25484699]

>>25484548
Both you faggots have hard ons for me just like OPs gf rapey father. dumb niggers fuck both of you

[Anonymous No.25484758]

>>25484506
Just because a bunch of neets say so doesn't make it reasonable. I don't understand this American attitude like dating culture in movies where the people in your life are disposable. If someone isn't "good enough" you just tell them to fuck off. It's insane.

[Anonymous No.25484790]

>>25484506
it's not her fault, neither it's yours

[Anonymous No.25484800]

>>25484506
SHE'S NOT GOING TO TAKE YOUR ADVICE ANON, SHE'S GOING TO DO WHAT SHE WANTS ALL OF HER FREINDS ARE GOING TO TELL HER SHE'S JUSTIFIED IN DOING WHAT SHE WANTS (these rape message board people, her friends, her facebook friends, her simps) THEN SHE'S JUST GOING TO DITCH YOU BECAUSE SOME RANDO THAT WANTS HER IS PUSSY IS THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE.
I guess if you really want to salvage this you could start beating and raping her.

[Anonymous No.25484802]

>>25484758
kek that's for normal relationships tho. OP has a ticking time bomb that will fuck up his wallet dick and brain for life.

[Anonymous No.25484835]

>>25484758
IT MIGHT BE A DIFFERENT CULTURE, AMERICAN WOMEN ARE ALL LITERALLY HALF NAKED AND FUCKING DIFFERENT MEN TWICE A WEEK, SO THEY DON'T REALLY BOND WITH YOU.

[Anonymous No.25484863]

>>25484758
>>25484802
American girls aren't normal. Literal spawns of Satan.

[Anonymous No.25484892]

>>25484758
Want to know how i know you haven't been in any relationships before?

[Anonymous No.25484910]

>>25484835
>>25484863
It's almost like western culture is designed to destroy itself!

[Anonymous No.25484960]

>>25484758
Women are far more selective than men are. When something bothers men, it's usually some fucked up psychological issues like OP described that are blaringly obvious. Stop being a fucking SIMP

[Anonymous No.25484999]

>>25484892
have you? you're acting like basic girl things like neediness and jealousy is the end of the world

[Anonymous No.25485081]

>>25481217
have you tried asking /fit/? that's the relationship board.

[Anonymous No.25485139]

>>25484603
You hit, rape and humiliate children?

[Anonymous No.25485225]

>>25484999
And they all have a part that wants to be raped by a magic dracula wizard that can rape any girl he wants. That's the plot of every female fantasy.

[Anonymous No.25485245]

I dated a girl who after a 6 months showed me she had carved 'HATE into her arm at some point in her life, was a gnarly scar. I didn't want to be a complete ass so I kept fucking her for a couple months then left her. I suggest you do the same.
That's too much baggage to bring into your life anon and the fact your asking a bunch of autists for help shows you should drop her before it consumes you any more.

[Anonymous No.25485251]

>>25485139

[Anonymous No.25485258]

>>25481658
She is going to do it, anon.
Trust me, I was in a similar situation and if she hasn't done it already then you should leave her before she does it behind your back.

I don't think you'll be able to live with yourself if that were to happen judging by the fact that you even posted this here.

[Anonymous No.25485259]

>>25484603
>hit her, rape her and humiliate her
>treat women like children
Turn off the computer and lie facedown. A squad has been dispatched to your location. Do not resist.

[Anonymous No.25485311]

>>25482593
based and baitPilled

[Anonymous No.25485332]

>>25485259
>>25484603
PUT YOUR HANDS OVER YOUR HEAD AND YELL "COME GET EM BOYS" OTHERWISE THEY KILL SQUAD WILL COME IN GUNS BLAZING.

[Anonymous No.25485448]

>>25484603

[Anonymous No.25485589]

>>25484999
>basic girl things like neediness and jealousy
having been raped by her own father and secretly posting on rape-bait websites is not basic girl things, anon.

[Anonymous No.25485633]

>>25481217
>What is the best decision here /biz/?
how much money does she make a year?
More than you = stay with her for money
Less than you = leave the crazy

[Anonymous No.25485954]

Damaged people are permanently damaged. They dont just wake up one day and decide to be well adjusted. They have PERMANENT damage to their outlook, self perception, behavior and responses to others. You dont know how she will react to problems in the future. "But she is so great/hot/sexy/connected"
(pic related)

Also, has it occurred to you all her fake rape planning sessions might be used against YOU?

https://metro.co.uk/2017/02/23/woman-facing-jail-for-false-rape-allegations-against-her-ex-6467549/

[Anonymous No.25486314]

Hey, man. I just got out of a situation similar to this. She used to do meth. I thought she was 11/10 too man but she ruined me mentally. I went to therapy because of HER.
You can't help it, man. You're a fixer upper, but god damn man this is some thin line shit you're walking. This is a massive sell signal. You can't get emotional with your investments.
But look OP you got a heart of gold. Try to save it for someone who really deserves it and will put in as much as you do.
It's heartbreaking to know that some women have been hurt like that. Unfortunately they're beyond repair.

Good luck, man.

[Anonymous No.25486426]

>>25484603

[Anonymous No.25486489]

>>25485954
I'm an ethnic nationalist and a racist misogynist who is biologically predisposed to violence and war. That's just being a man.
Being a needy emotional wreck who fantasizes about rape and baits you into dominating her by arguing is just being a woman.
Even with her issues he's still statistically more likely to murder her than she is him.

[Anonymous No.25486531]

>>25481217
L.
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[Anonymous No.25486816]

>>25486489
>with her issues he's still statistically more likely to murder her
Yep, there's a clue there.

[Anonymous No.25486970]

Mental illness is contagious, and you can only find ways to supress it. The hard truth is you will always be more happy avoiding people with a mental illness. No matter how much love and sympthy you offer, their brain has permanent scars that will never be erased, that's the sad truth.

[Anonymous No.25487252]

>>25486314
Thanks man, those are words to live by, never get emotional with your investments.

[Anonymous No.25487265]

obvious bait why even respond you normalfags? you niggers know crypto but nothing else about the internet

[Anonymous No.25487293]

>>25482293
Why do you need to be the one to help her? Is she going to help you when you need it? Does she pay for therapy? She’s leeching off you lol

[Anonymous No.25487307]

>>25487265
Not bait normie

[Anonymous No.25487679]

>>25481217
If she's already in therapy for it, great, that's the best thing you can do is be a support net and help her get the help she needs.

I was a victim of rape as well, I got done dirty by 3 bigger kids when I was in the 4th grade, It's only recently come to my attention that sometimes rape victims will have "rape fantasies", so to speak, I'm "glad" in a sense, not that other people get raped, because it's fucked, but rather that I'm not the only one who thought that way, I thought it was just me that was fucked in the head.

I know how you feel though, OP, I got taken advantage of very much in the same manner as she did, and as a caretaker now, I know how it feels to want to help someone, but it seems they just want to indulge in something really destructive. My best answer is to understand that you're not "obligated" to move the mountains for her, and that if you indulge in that savior complex, you're just gonna hurt yourself.
So be there, but don't try to do everything for her, if she truly loves you and cares, she'll grab onto that rope you're throwing her and find the strength she needs to pull herself out of that pit.

[Anonymous No.25487729]

>>25487679
sorry for the wall, Be there for her but don't cuck yourself I guess is the main idea

[Anonymous No.25487783]

>>25481217
>>25481217
Savior complex too strong?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8qtA2sRoQKQ

She will do it to prove it to you that she's damaged. Then she will break up with YOU. She'll claim it's for your good because she loves you (and she still might), but in reality it's because she wants freedom to indulge, because she loves herself more.
Or not. Maybe this has a happy ending. But not 'having children with her' happy ending.

In ANY case, you should stop emotionally investing ASAP. Help her if you can, be there for her, but remember she is not your responsability.

[Anonymous No.25488284]

>>25487679
>>25487783
Yeah, I'm starting to think that I have personal issues that caused me to be in this situation in the first place. The whole thing is so complicated.
I guess I will try to put myself first.

[Not a faggot No.25488328]

>>25481217
just rape her dude? is it really that hard?

faggot

[Anonymous No.25488558]

>>25481217
Let it go. Find new bubbles. Insurance will be next. Union (UNN) is the underdog. Improve yourself after you make it.

[Anonymous No.25488675]

OP she unironically needs exorcism & she needs to seek Jesus Christ if she really wants to be healed. Her behaviour is obviously causes by 'pain'.

You should seek Jesus Christ as well OP. Knock and the door will open for you.

KJV Bible only. Skip the old testament (Jews + demiurge reigning) and read the New Testament (Christ the true king + free Salvation) only.

[DYORbrah No.25488987]

>>25484506
For what it's worth, girls who are interested in Skyrim, Mario Cart, Avengers Endgame and the Simpsons are NOT special. Pop culture has permeated our entire generation and being obsessed with it is actually a red flag.

[Anonymous No.25489216]

>>25481217
don't stick your dick in crazy you moron

[Anonymous No.25489462]

>>25487307
a normie is someone who unironically allows himself to be cucked. if this IS true then go do better.