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looks: 10/10
personality: 10/10
sex: 10/10
companionship: 10/10
pretty much everything: 10/10

HOWEVER

there is ONE catch

ready?

She has a kid.

Do you continue dating?

>> No.22841240

>>22841209
No

>> No.22841243

>>22841209
Do you want a kid?

>> No.22841259

>>22841209
That's a man

>> No.22841267

I do not

>> No.22841273

>>22841209
No, in my own anecdotal experience, there is no bonding that occurs between a step parent and a nonbiological child. It is a significant problem to try to raise a kid to whom you will never be a real father figure.

>> No.22841279

>>22841209
Nope. I do not buy used goods.

>> No.22841281

No

>> No.22841284

yeah sure, it's not cuckoldry if the kid is 5 or older

>> No.22841311

>>22841209
nope

>> No.22841323

only if the dad was white, and he's dead.

>> No.22841328

>>22841284

what why 5?

>>22841273

as in you have a step parent or have dated a girl with a kid?

>> No.22841329

>>22841209
Sure, as long as she wants more

>> No.22841332

>>22841209
Having a kid means her companionship and everything else is 0/10 if it made the father leave...

>> No.22841344

>>22841209
Ya I put my kid in too

>> No.22841345

>>22841209
maybe, as long as it isn't a nigger i can pretend to be it's dad and have more kids with an almost perfect woman

>> No.22841359

What’s dating? Consuming food in public spaces and sitting on couches will you determine compatibility for reproduction? Oh, you like dogs too, check out this sweet pick of my little buddy! Come over and watch this obscure movie I found on Netflix that nobody else liked but you’ll appreciate. I’ve memorized trivia from it that I’ll use to show you my intellectual side and in my effort to become NPC #37 to mush your muffin.

>> No.22841360

>>22841240
Based

>> No.22841373

>>22841243

yes, does that matter?

>> No.22841375

If it's white and the kid's dad died in a firefighting accident then sure

>> No.22841385

No imagine raising other peoples kids.

>> No.22841400

>>22841209
yes.
Make more kids and dilute the kids marketcap with your own.

>> No.22841401

>>22841209

Depends how old I am. Lots of idiots in this thread don’t understand life is complicated. I know people who were raised by stepdads, and they are as tight as real dad/children can be. It’s probably not ideal compared to having your own kids, but It can work for some people.

>> No.22841406

>>22841332
What if the father died, retard?

>> No.22841410

>>22841359
>>22841359
While you determine our**

In my effort to become***

>> No.22841412

>>22841240
Fpbp

>> No.22841413

>>22841332

that would be a disconnected from reality incel view of reality yes

>> No.22841420

>>22841209
up to you man. my dad did it and i have friends who are successfully doing it. i tried dating a girl with a kid but she was just a bitch. and i didnt like her son. im legit happier with my new gf who doesnt have any and it really makes a difference not having that child responsibility and we can do whatever we want when we want.

>> No.22841423

>>22841259
third post best post.

>> No.22841477

>>22841209
Depends on how old the kid is but probably not. If the kid is young then I can raise it as my own but if he is a teen I can just wait for him to fuck off. The only problem is why she’s a single mother. If the father died I will 100% take both the woman and the child. But if the father is somehow still in the picture, I would rather be single

>> No.22841478

Maybe, if she's a widow. I hate seeing genuinely worthy people condemned to misery for reasons beyond their control. Kid has to be white, though.

>> No.22841504

> kid dies in a suspicious accident
We good to go.

>> No.22841526

>>22841477
>>22841478
What if the father died from an overdose?

>> No.22841530

>>22841209
only if the dad died protecting murica, sir.

>> No.22841552

>>22841209
Only if the father is dead and I can pump 3 more kids out of her.

>> No.22841565

>>22841259
It better fucking be. I like my women like I like my men, as men.

>> No.22841686

>>22841273
dude just because you and your stepdaddy/stepkid cant fuckin hack it doesnt mean it isnt possible for others. idk my real father and my step dad took forever to get along but now i cant think of another human being in whom id trust more. on top of the fact that we both trade advice on trading and are both woke about the world. if it wasnt for him i dont even want to think of how shitty of a person i would be.

>> No.22841695

>>22841209
Kill the kid
Make it look like an accident
Be there for her
Supply her need of a bond
Supply semen for her replacement kid
Flawless

>> No.22841696
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22841696

>>22841209
only if she has a daughter, and i get to date that daughter when she turns 18, some penance has to be paid

>> No.22841710

>>22841209
how can she be perfect if she is not a virgin

>> No.22841733
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22841733

>>22841478
its not condemning them, its evolution, why pay for someone else's genetics?

>> No.22841747

>>22841710
This

>> No.22841765

No trophies, NEXT

>> No.22841775

>>22841695
based

>> No.22841776

>>22841696
Degeneracy aside, how could you mentally do it? If the kid is already a teenager I guess you could, but if you raise that child before they hit puberty? That would make you a pedophile

>> No.22841791

>>22841209
no
/thread

>> No.22841812

unironically no

>> No.22841833

if she agrees to have 3 more, then yes

>> No.22841852

yes.

because i'm not a faggot

>> No.22841853 [DELETED] 

>>22841209
>She has a kid.
>Do you continue dating?

only if the kid is black

>> No.22841861

>>22841776
how is it degenerate if they are
a) an adult
b) not related by blood (so its not imbreeding either)

>> No.22841878

>>22841209
>She has a kid.
>Do you continue dating?
only if the kid's dad is black

>> No.22841890

>>22841776
there needs to be some way to make it fair to the man, because "beta bucks" men are treated very unfairly in today's society

>> No.22841891

>>22841240
/thread

>> No.22841917

If she has a kid she’s not a 10/10

>> No.22841921

>>22841209
Is the kid over 18 and as hot as the mother?

>> No.22841923

>>22841323
This

>> No.22841960

>>22841209
HELL NO

>> No.22841973

>>22841209
If she is a widow willing to have many kids with me, maybe.

>> No.22841975

>>22841209
for 10/10 sex i could put up with a lot of other crap

>> No.22842000

>>22841209
>10/10 looks ie body
>has a kid
pick one, any woman who's body has gone through pregnancy & childbirth can no longer attain 10/10 score

>> No.22842047

>>22842000
>pick one, any woman who's body has gone through pregnancy & childbirth can no longer attain 10/10 score

how the fuck did you manage to fall for a myth perpetrated by women's magazines? Do you literally read women's magazines?

>> No.22842130

Will only date her if she also has a 10/10 penis

>> No.22842140

>>22841209
A bit like saying you have a gf who's perfectly loving and supportive, but the catch is she has crippling schizophrenia. Or she's a fun and uplifting companion but also a severely suicidal depressive. Or a witty and engaging conversationalist but she's had a lobotomy.

Having a kid is not just about the kid. It's a red flag that she's going to be a terrible partner.

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>>22841209
If she is that amazing they yes why not. But let's be honest here, most single moms are shitty humans. Unless the kid's father passed away, then it's different.

>> No.22842178

>>22841209
there is always now some guy out there with claim to the kid that you raised, and he might want to use that eventually and even manipulate the kid into hating you.
too much baggage. too many ways to get fucked.
plus the woman let a guy who wasn't going to marry her pump and dump her so she's clearly a fucking retard or whore in the first place.

>> No.22842217

>>22841209
That makes it 10x hotter

>> No.22842218

>>22841209
It’s always easy to say no when they’re just numbers and stats, boyos. Took me one year to get back on track after her. It’s always the ones you don’t expect to fall for.

ETH 10k EOY2021

>> No.22842229

>>22841400
fucking kek

>> No.22842235

>>22842176
This
/WidowByTheSea/ tier

>> No.22842257

Only if I loved her. Everyone here treats relationships like a business transaction, but you really need to love someone for it not to be hell. I would take a 3/10 I have love for over a 9/10 any fucking day.

>> No.22842284

>>22842047
>how the fuck did you manage to fall for a myth perpetrated by women's magazines?
do you think you can just stretch skin into an obese person for months and it will snap back exactly?

>> No.22842285

OP the fact that you even consider this makes you a fucking c u c k.

>> No.22842328

>>22842284
Depends on how young they are and how much exercise they get.

>> No.22842333

>>22842218

i'm at 9 months and still struggling

>> No.22842550

>>22841209
Maybe if she pops out 2 of mine and is legitimately a 10/10 in every other facet. Also depends why she is single. If the father died and didn't leave I'd be more inclined otherwise she probably isn't a 10/10. The real truth is I don't really care about women that much so as long as I get a child that she will raise how I want I'll be pleased.

>> No.22842591

>>22841526

Then she clearly wasn't a 10/10 in everything

>> No.22842657

>>22841209
If she has a kid and is a 10/10 in all of those ways, then basically by definition she was widowed through no fault of her own, so yes.

>> No.22842658
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22842658

>>22841686

woke lmao, you mean liberal racist retard with cognitive dissonance thinking that they're on the 'right side of history'

>> No.22842684

>>22841373
Of course it matters. If you don’t want kids it’s a hard no. If you do want kids, I don’t see what the problem is? You will bond with her child and love it in a way that you didn’t think was possible and then have more of your own.

But know that the kids always come first. They have to. Kids are awesome.

>> No.22842691

>>22841209
there is no such thing as a 10/10 girl

>> No.22842706

>>22842684
>If you don’t want kids it’s a hard no. If you do want kids, I don’t see what the problem is? You will bond with her child and love it in a way that you didn’t think was possible and then have more of your own.

it's a kid but it's someone else's kid. Think you might be missing the point here

>> No.22842732

>>22842684

why should I put a kid first that isn't mine?

>> No.22842923

It all comes down to the relationship with the baby daddy.

If its nonexistent OR it's on polite terms where they work well together and aren't too friendly THEN it can be good.

You can have a good relationship with a single mom, but it's not that common, and the baggage of a child changes everything. The risks are that the child comes first, maybe she's looking for a provider, she might cheat on you with the baby daddy. Etc

>> No.22842935

>>22841209
If that kid already has a daddy that's not a deadbeat it's all good. I'll fuck with it.

>> No.22842961

>>22841209
Sure as long as biological father is out of picture completely

>> No.22842968

>>22841209
a 10/10 would be asian

>> No.22842992

>>22842923
The child ALWAYS comes first. There was a study that was done that essentially asked couples with children who came first in their lives.

The men responded that it was their spouse.
The women responded that it was their child.
That's how it should be.

This is a question for your heart anon.

>> No.22843051

And the birds get it...
And the Bee's get it...
And every animal in the ocean blue is getting it too...
So why won't you?

>> No.22843081

>>22841921
Based

>> No.22843117

No. I'd also be skeptical that a woman with a kid is capable of providing me 10/10 companionsip, let alone 10/10 "pretty much everything".

The father can raise the child. She made her choice.

That's way too much energy mixed with another person for my taste. I'd rather be alone and there are honestly more than enough single women without children on this planet, such that settling for this isn't on my radar.

>> No.22843132

>>22841209
Absolutely not

>> No.22843133

>>22843117
I'm also already raising enough of other people's kids with my taxes

>> No.22843143

>>22841323
this

>> No.22843156

>>22841240
fpbp

>> No.22843171

>>22841209
Only if the kid is willing to completely abandon his old father and embrace me wholly as his. I wont tolerate the "you took care of me, gave and taught me everything, yet im still lotal and love my real dad more" bullshit. You join my family thats it.

>> No.22843197

>>22841323
/thread

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>>22841400
This fine gentleman is a patrician and a scholar

>> No.22843243

>>22841209
>She has a kid.
She doesn't belong to you, then.

>> No.22843249

If I was like 55 and she was 25, sure.

>> No.22843363

>>22841209

Since there is no such thing as a 10/10, this question is terribly stupid.

>> No.22843390

>>22841209
wtf is on that sandwhich

>> No.22843432

if she gets rid of the kid and acts like it never existed then yes

>> No.22843434

>>22841209
If she is a solid 10 and you want a family why not? You can have more children of your own later.

>> No.22843456
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22843456

>>22841209
Yes, but no op. You have not met that woman. She is not a flawless 10. You are in love, so you think she is.

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22843461

>>22841323
This

>> No.22843463

>>22841209
if she was truly a 10/10 in the companionship/personality arena, then that would preclude any falling out with the father from shitty relationship management. the only real avenue I see is that the father died (and not from niggerish behavior.)

>> No.22843471

>>22841273
>>22841273
sounds like this autist has abandonment issues

>> No.22843508

>>22841323
unfathomably based

>> No.22843539

>>22841209
No. Easiest answer of my life.

>> No.22843605

>>22841209
a 10/10 girl would be a virgin you fucking brainlet.

>> No.22843662

>>22843456

I get you. Okay what about 9/10 then?

>> No.22843683

>>22841917
Based

>> No.22843707

>>22841406
Then she obviously killed him

>> No.22843724

>>22841733
What if your genetics are trash and that guy was a chad?

>> No.22843734
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22843734

one catch

she holds xrp

>> No.22843737

>>22841209
Is her kid a hot teen?

>> No.22843745

>>22841696
You forgot to hit pipe.

>> No.22843788

>>22841209
i've never had sex or a gf so yes i would continue dating

>> No.22844236

>>22843171
I say this is a red flag