I don't know how to recover a situation /smg/. Because of the nature of this story I'm sure I'll just get "nice larp" responses but I'll try anyways.
>I'm semi-rich new money from poor background
>wise to gold diggers, only reveal power level after a few dates
>consistent gold digger reactions from "normal" women on reveal
>been dating this one woman for a while now, she's very nice, atypical second generation immigrant, respectful to her parents, hardworking, absolutely dirt poor, helps out in their tiny restaurant where I first met her
>have been having good dates, talking about interesting things rather than the usual tawdry stuff about career
>she's been seeming a little awkward this night but still pleasant to be around, we're just hanging out on a park bench after dinner
>she's gotten a little drunk, more than usual and started making more personal conversation while leaning on my shoulder, it's nice
>I know all about her job of course so she asks about mine, I start carefully telling her about my early career and how I tried my hand at running a business
>so far so good, no gold digger tells
>she asks how it went, I say okay actually, she asks jokingly asks if I'm a rich man in disguise
>show her my portfolio rather than beat around the bush anymore, I don't want to be outright deceptive
>feel her jump against me, after a few seconds she gets up and runs
>I'm stunned but as she's running I realized she both peed and shat herself on the bench
Poor girl had never seen six digits, or probably even five, in her entire life, and I went and unknowingly shocked her into disgracing herself. I'm guessing she was probably feeling sick earlier in the night and got drunk on top of that. I texted her right away but didn't know what to say so I just suggested a day for another date. No response so I texted again a few days later, just a "what's up?", no response.
I really like her and she's not a gold digger, but she's delicate and surely mortified. How do I repair this?