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Im a 20 year old virgin. Im honestly thinking about fucking a hot escort. I dont mind if it costs half a grand or more. I feel like getting it over with. What do you guys think

>> No.19551722

dew it but dont think anything will change

>> No.19551724

You will still be a virgin

>> No.19551728

>>19551706
Make sure to take a cigar with you to have afterwards

>> No.19551740

>>19551706
Do it, you won't regret it

>> No.19551761

>>19551706
I mean you can do it, but there is plenty of pussy out there for free...

>> No.19551779

>>19551706
If you are a virgin it's because you are an awkward loser. Do you think paying a hooker won't be the most awkward shit you could possibly do? Gl getting it up fag

>> No.19551791

>>19551779
Yeah no shit im an awkward loser. Would have had sex if i knew how to talk to girls

>> No.19551819

>>19551779
He could just take some viagra, and if he’s awkward as fuck atleast she won’t ever tell anyone he knows

>> No.19551844

>>19551706
I did it and don't regret it. Go for it anon.

>> No.19551845

Whatever sex is fun but not all its cracked up to be, most normies are m0nkys

>> No.19551853

just do it bro. i'm fucking escorts daily with my buidl gains

>> No.19551957

>>19551706
Based old fuck

>> No.19551965

>>19551706
Save it for marriage anon, don’t follow the Jew, the only way to change society is to change yourself

>> No.19551977

>>19551706
Lol if you have to pay for it, it’s not real

>> No.19552027
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19552027

>be 34yo virgin
>get a 23yo 10/10 escort
>its just 400 bucks for 2 hours eth gains pay for it
>tell her I'm virgin and get the full GF experience even teaches me how to french kiss
>shes doing everything I want and I coom 6 times until balls are literally empty
>fell in love with her and thinking about asking her to be my wife
>know that this is really dumb but cant stop thinking about her day and night
wat do?

>> No.19552061

>>19551706
I just bang the Latina milfs that are out and about.>>19551706

>> No.19552068

>>19552027
i know the answer!

KYS

>> No.19552126

>>19551706
Fly to Indonesia or Japan and get one. Don't waste money on gross Euro / Amerigross overpriced shit.

Also, buy Suterusu so eventually you can just do this daily. Terimah Kasih sir.

>> No.19552148

>>19551706
You’ll be pleased that you did. Women are great and the amount of confidence you gain by getting to the end level and wining the game is tremendous. Successful life awaits you .

>> No.19552176

>>19551722
fpbp

You won't get anything out of it and might feel more empty afterwards.
Learn to live a virtuous life, a good read for that even though it's being shilled all over is Marcus Aurelius' meditations but another author is for sure Mishima. Try not to sperg over them too much but at the same time get some life lessons out of it.
Workout, read, meditate, hang out with people when you're ready girls will just come to you and you won't have to worry about anything since it won't even be your main concern anymore. At this point see if you're in peace with yourself and decide if you'd rather have one girl or multiple before you settle if you ever want to settle.
Don't give in on the easy temptations of life OP, there's more to it than that.

>> No.19552182

>>19552027
How much money do you have? If quite a bit, ask her out for coffee, if not don’t bother

>> No.19552227

>>19551706
Do it anon, once you do and realise its no big deal pussy will come easier to you

>> No.19552234

I was a virgin at 20 bro. But then I stopped chasing women and shortly after this girl chased as I was leaving a restaurant to give me her number. We’ve been together for almost 2 years now. I was also considering this semi ironically. Don’t do it. You can find a loving woman but you need to work on yourself. Do you lift? Not for women, but for yourself. Do you take care of yourself in general? Positive habits that will make you attractive to everyone, not just in a sexual sense. Do these things and the universe is required to reward you. Go.

>> No.19552254

>>19552027
What do? Go find another hooker, and then another, after some time you realice how worthless these women are.

>> No.19552292

>>19551706
Do it, but chose a good one, tell her before the appointment about it and she'll teach you fucking. It's a common thing escorts are asked for and you'll gain some security in dealing with women. But: Don't do it again, your next experiences should be real women.

>> No.19552303

>>19552027
pay for the next one

>> No.19552351

>>19552027
Anon, I hate to be the one to tell this but...
That was a man

>> No.19552365
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>>19552027
>fell in love with a hooker again
>different anon
are you faggots really never going to learn? there's nothing good that can come out of that, you'll always have this lingering idea that she's cheating, and she will be.
if this faggot + OP both want to be a faggot fucking girls for money
drones

>> No.19552375

>>19551706
Tinder will save you money

>> No.19552386

>>19552234
why would he take advice from a self confessed absolute noob. You literally had a girl go after you before anything happened, and I guarantee that's because you could do a hell of a lot better.

>> No.19552390

>>19551706
learn to get over your anxiety, as soon as you do you can get way more than pussy

>> No.19552401

>>19552375
but waste your time

>> No.19552589

>>19551722
/thread

>> No.19552612

>>19551706
Failed Chad here who lost his virginity at 16 - do it. The first time you have sex you are an awkward, embarrassing mess. But as soon as you get it over with it's like a switch flicking you will realise what to do the next time and how worked up you got over nothing. If you get all the messy learning curve shit over with with an understanding, high end whore you will then be equipped to bang girls on tinder and be more confident in your approach because you know what you're doing.

>> No.19552617

>>19552027
Imagine french kissing a filthy degenerate cumbucket prostitute and dreaming about marrying her

>> No.19552656

>>19551706
>I feel like getting it over with
for what purpose? It won't magically change you into someone who's able to attract a mate. I could understand paying for sex if you're just horny and there's a whore nearby, but making it some kind of a project and something to get over with is retarded.

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>>19551706
>Business and Finance
Talking about virginity

>> No.19552737

27yo virgin here
gonna make it and literally never have sex just to spite all the sexcels
cope
seethe
dilate

>> No.19552892

>>19552375
A majority of men will literally never receive a match

>> No.19552898

I am 26 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>> No.19552962

>>19552027
Do it anon
What could go wrong

>> No.19552969

>>19552898
32 and I've had no even remotely romantic experience of any kind ever

>> No.19552974

>>19551706
>>19551791
Just do it if you think it will make you feel better. Maybe it will make you a bit less awkward around girls. But as other people said, it's obviosuly not a fix for your problems.

>> No.19553140

>>19551706
Just do it, the thought that the first time is supposed to be with someone special isn’t even in the general mindset.
So many fifteen year olds are losing their virginity with the old neighbourhood tramp or by being the last one running a train on a drunk girl at a party...

>> No.19553182

>>19552386
Bro please. Once you don’t care anymore it doesn’t bother you. I would go to clubs with my boys and only care about having a good time, when girls were angling in for a hit. It’s legit a mindset and lifestyle choice. Will you be governed by temporal pleasures or by better ideals and habits? Granted, there are certainly better looking girls and better looking guys than my girlfriend and myself, but if we are true to each other then what does it matter?

>> No.19553206

>>19551706
I don't know man. I fucked a 6 for free at 23 to lose my virginity. I wouldn't waste money on something fake, it will end up hurting your self esteem even more.

>> No.19553209

I'm early thirties and have STDs. It was worth it. Banged all shapes and sizes bro. Fuck her right in the pussy but don't go for a flawless hole in one.... make sure your Wang rubs every inch of her walls deep and shallow. Also tell her how hot she looks while you fuck.

>> No.19553790

Get on grindr and fuck a trans girl instead. Don't say you're a virgin

>> No.19553801

>>19553790
why do you assume he's gay?

>> No.19553869

Yeah I call bullshit on half of these. You won't regret shit Anon. I lost my virginity to a cheerleader at a competing school at 15. Reality is, it wasn't shit. Fun, sure. Whatever you pop your cherry on, make it fun.. if that means a high quality escort out of your league, do it. You'll still cherish the experience. Have one OR two beers first. Don't be a drunk.

>> No.19553913

>>19551706
I lost my virginity to a backpage escort when I was 18 and I regret it
wouldn't recommend

>> No.19553987

>>19551706
dont anon, never lose your virginity to a whore. Ive regretted it so damn much.

>> No.19554000

>>19552027
Anon you paid for this experience, its fake, you will only have that experience until you can pay for it, once the money are gone so will she. Find genuine one, the one that you dont have to pay for

>> No.19554021

I found that it gave me nothing but confidence. That's just me though

>> No.19554043

>>19552027
>falling inlove with a whore
oh man my dumbass made that mistake with a stripper
thousands wasted

>> No.19554126

>>19554000
Kek

>> No.19554142

>>19553801
Nothing gay about a big tranny cock

>> No.19554447
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>>19551706
I dunno anon, I think you're putting having sex as your number one goal just because you never had it. I was a LOT happier when I was a virgin

I'm now 30 years old, I'd say I was a 9/10 in looks and have had sex with over 100 women, but I still have an incel mentality and hate female nature and women in general. I hate the whole bullshit charade you have to go through to date women and I hate spending time with them, they are insanely vapid and boring to be with

I then thought making it financially would solve all my problems which finally happened this year and I feel more empty and depressed than ever. I get no joy from anything any more, not even video games, playing sport, music. It's just all so tiresome and the clown world we live in just makes everything seem pointless

>> No.19554545

>>19551706
>a grand
What the fuck is wrong with you faggots. No wonder they think their stinkpit is priceless. A high quality ""escort"" shouldn't cost you more than €100 and that's if you want her to shit in your mouth or something disgusting (this is in one of the most expensive cities in the world by the way)

>> No.19554564

>>19552027
I will kill you one day

>> No.19554682

>>19552375
Now I will be honest and say I'm ugly (but at least in a way that gives off ugly caveman retard vs inoffensive wallet) but I'm looking at about 10,000 swipes to about 300 matches, about half of those literally just want to see if anyone swiped, 50 are retard girls that hit you with a hi:) and then can't even manage to be carried by you in the conversation, 100 are over 15km away.

Out of the final 50 that sorta want to fuck, about 10 actually really do, and about 5 of those actually do enough to make time to make themselves available for your schedule.

You get a 0.05% conversion rate, and a fair amount of time wasted. If you really literally just want fill some sluts stench trench, then spending 50 euro on a whore is a lot more economical.

>> No.19554700

>>19554142
Trannies are a much higher competition market

>> No.19554791

>>19551706
Why are old men so based

>> No.19554862

I say do it. I did it once, when I was younger.

>went to Myrtle Beach with my lifting bro when I was like 24
>Out walking at night, young qt girl sitting in a plastic chair starts yelling out for us, even younger than us
>took her back to the hotel room for $600 I think
>one of us would hang out in the bathroom while the other was in bed with her
>Sex was pretty awesome
>She seemed to genuinely enjoy it and want more
>She could have just been acting I guess, but overall it was a cool experience

>> No.19554896

>>19554447
That tends to happen when one only focusses on the negative. you’re so proud of being red-pilled and better than every idiot on this planet but it gets you nowhere when you take shitposts too seriously. How do you expect anything else than depression and loneliness when you can only seethe irl ?
When someone is boring to you, tell them something interesting they will likely react and you keep on from there that’s called a conversation.
Women won’t talk about new ideas when they see a real possibility to be called an idiot normie clown because they don’t know enough about fucking Pepe
When you can’t find anything redeeming about spending time with a woman then it’s only wise to accept single life for your sake and the women’s too

>> No.19554936

>>19551706
yes only regret is i didn't do it sooner

>> No.19554967

>>19551706
I did it, but I wouldn't recommend it.

Getting sex is a reward because a girl likes you enough that she wants sex with you. So you can truly get the feeling that you are man enough that women want to have sex with you.

If you pay for sex, it's not like she wants to have sex with you. She wants the money. She doesn't have any feelings for you.

It's a whole other level of success when you have sex with a women that does it because she wants it.

Save the money, invest it into yourself and your personality. Buy new clothes, get a fresh haircut, shave, improve your personality, read "The Rational Male" from Rollo Tomassi and get into online dating at first. Most important are good pictures of you, then the matches are no problem.

Then you text a bit, meet a few girls. Sometimes it works out, sometimes not.
Apply the lessons learned from The Rational Male so you don't end up in the Friendzone, escalate quickly, it works.

You will likely need a few tries, but practice makes perfect. My first 5 dates I got rejected, but I never gave up, got better, and the next dates I almost always kissed her and / or had sex with her within the first dates.

tl;dr: fix yourself, get into the right mindset, start dating girls, practice by actually meeting girls, get better, get laid.

>> No.19554986

>>19554967
on the other hand, if you pay a prostitute, you had sex, but you're still a loser.

so, do you want to
a) have sex but still be a loser
or
b) fix yourself, have sex, and be a winner

easy choice

>> No.19555007

>guy i met on grindr a while ago texts me "hey dude can i come over im fucking horny"
>oh-fuck-holy-shit.log
>"whoa, hey. yea give me 1 hour"
>dick fucking rock hard in my pants
>put on 3 deepthroat compilations at once and crank the volume. *glerk gerk glerk mmmm aaughhh glerk glerk glerk*
>pull out the jelly dildo, tilt my head back and deepthroat it *glerk glerk glerk glerk*
>dick leaking precum down my leg, still in my pants
>im so horny that im shaking. fuck its only been 6 mintues
>text him "do you want to come over sooner? my dick is going to explode haha"
>ffw 20 minutes i don't think its physically healthy to be this turned on
>*knock knock knock* i can feel my erection in my stomach
>"hey hows it going?" invite him to sit
>kneel in front of him and rub the front of his pants. feel him get hard
>as soon as his pants come off, his dick is buried in my throat.
>on each pump i come up far enough for a tiny sip of air, and then take him all the way down to his balls
>consistent rhythm this time. ive gotten better at this i think
>grabs my head and shoves me all the way down and cums
>gagging and choking like crazy, but trying to stay limp for him while he cums. insane feeling
>catching my breath, face covered in snot, i thank him on his way out
>wait 35 seconds in case he forgot something
>jerk off, nut so hard it almost hurts
>jerk off again
>watch deepthroat porn and jerk off one more time
>text the guy later "dude that was fun"

>> No.19555045

>>19552027
You need to get your heart broken so you can mature from your fragile male ego. This is why simps exist and give money to women on only fans.

>> No.19555197

>>19551791
you wont feel any difference apart from a slight sense of shame. and you might turn into one of those guys that are mad into whores because you never beat the challenge to your confidence. Whores compared to real girls are shit. love and friendship are really important. you might end up going down a really dark and pathetic path in life.

And you r talking just fine now lad. girls are people. just dont chibi out trying to be funny and cool. Youcan tell in the first 10 minutes if you have rapportwith someone, the first hour if there is a little attraction. after that just hang out, get to know, get a little familiarity and trust in there: kiss her on a few dates and it'll happen naturally. (irl girls are more into sex than boys). forget all the 'in da club' pick up artist stuff. meet a nice girl you like that likes you too. be a good dude and a trustworthy dude. (dont be a simp. no girl wants to fuck her pet butler). soon you will be friends, and thats it.

And DontFall For A Bitch. she wants you to be butler boy to boost her crushed self esteem. remember: being a good dude does not mean being a spineless craven.spineless cravens are bad dudes.

>> No.19555256

>>19552027
Re: this post OP. dont end up on this road, all there is on it is humiliation and losing all your money cause you to inexperienced irl to know about the tricks girls play. this poor retard is going to go through life mistaking flirting and fake attention for attraction, and get gamed by every whore he encounters, cause he never got to grips with real life.

>> No.19555293

Women use you for money or dick. Do not be fooled. They will leave you in a heart beat and do not care about you at all.

>> No.19555342

>>19555007
i think this post turned me gay

>> No.19555386

>>19554447
>>19554896
I am like this and I am only 20 years old.
I had a crush on a qt for almost a year. Looking back the time where I was just daydreaming but to big of a bitch to make a move was the time where I was most productive and mentally sustainable stable.
I eventually fucked her which was nice. Laying in bed in (clothes or without) watching Netflix and smelling her hair, while feeling up her thighs and tits she rearing her hip at my cock and shutting up for once was even slightly better.
But for the remaining 22 hours a day you have to deal with a mentally plain, conformist girl always leeching off your time and money. It was much more the time that was bothering me tough. I never could let loose and watched my mouth not to leak my tism which somehow worked out for some time probably because I look decent and 6ft.
Our brain wiring is fucked up by default is the biggest blackpill to swallow, and also coming here underage was a mistake.

>> No.19555405

>>19551706
if youre going to do this at least fuck a regular hottie through seekingarrangement

>> No.19555472

>>19551791
I fucked a fat chick when I was 18 and that made me way more confident overall. Dating a 7/10 for the past 2 years now and it's gr8

>> No.19555729

>>19554447
i think thats called depression bud

>> No.19555888

>>19554896
OK that is genuinely good advice but how do I go back to this now?

>> No.19555911

>>19551706
The best part about fucking is knowing that the person you're pushing your penis into, WANTS YOUR PENIS IN THEM. Escorts don't care about your penis, they just care about the coke that the money that was formerly yours is going to buy them.

>> No.19555936

>>19551706
Bro 20 years old?
Seriously?
Get some FUND and go to a social area at night and ask girls this line exactly.

"Do you know about FUND? I got so much FUNDs. Wanna get a drink"

Say it confidently like it's a suggestion and you'll be fine

>> No.19556023

>>19554862
>when I was younger
This is a phrase that never ever needs to end a sentence. Obviously you were younger, unless you're talking about thing in the future you've already done.

>> No.19556058

>>19555293
>>19551706
Hey that's what I would do with desperate men who can't control their hormones and idealize sex so much.
Why don't men & women who won't bother having kids from their own genes just sell their testicles and ovaries? is it too risky? or is it another mammal social bullshit "ahaha you lost your genitals/ability to make kids/ your tail"

>> No.19556083

>>19551706
I'm against using escort. Either stay virgin for a few more years, or try to fuck a fat black freely. Even go in Indonesia or Philippines for two weeks. There opening an online dating account for a white, is fucking soon.
The problem with the use of escorts, is that it's fake. It's like a fake friendship, or a fake love given by a nanny for a child.
As for friendship, it's better to have no friends than fake friends. The few ones you'll get will be real at least.

>> No.19556116

>>19555007
Fags have it easy. I can't even imagine meeting a girl online and saying, "hey, come over and bounce on my dick for a while. Hurry up though, I work in two hours".

>> No.19556597

>>19555888
I don’t no man, everyone is differently fucked up...
Try at least to to think of something to change in a positive direction no matter how stupid or small.
a few years ago I was in a dark place and spending more and more time alone online frying my brain being bored feeling the same feeling of pointlessness until a mean new age lady on YouTube told me to visualise my suicide - obvious spoiler alert, YouTube is a useless place to find quality information.
But I tried anyway and somehow got carried away thinking of my funeral and balled my eyes out imagining that my parents would be the only ones there...

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>>19556597
>he thinks his parents would come to his funeral

>> No.19556936

>>19554000
>you paid for this experience, its fake, you will only have that experience until you can pay for it, once the money are gone so will she
So it's a genuine relationship with a woman, except much more honest. Sounds to me like he found the perfect gf.

>> No.19557011

>>19556597
Thanks anon. I do need to stop seeing the negative in absolutely everything so will give it a try. Who is the new age boomer lady you speak of

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>>19552176
thanks for telling him that, as someone who is doing all this and getting my shit together, it really helps, but before i started i was in OPs position, when you want an escort its a reflection of your self worth, he has no confidence, i was the same one too and wanted to die, wanted to smoke ciggarettes, thankfully i pulled myself out if that hole, but OP of your reading you owe it to yourself to at least livee a good virtuous life before deciding on that degeneracy at 20, and for refrence im 20 too, take this anons advice

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>>19552027
>wat do?
1. Get a really nice apartment

>> No.19557315

All these faggots telling you not to do it. Just fucking do it, who cares, Its not like if you have sex with an escort than you cant better your life after. You can do both. And you get to fuck a hot ass girl who you wouldn't have been able to otherwise. Just buy some viagra or something because if you are very nervous and anxious you probably won't be able to get it up but with viagra won't be a problem.

>> No.19557381

People are right that it won't fix all your problems, but you can do that regardless if that's what you want to do. Men have been having sex with escorts since the beginning of civilization. There's nothing wrong with it, its just sex.

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>>19557310
2. Have her give you her ass in exchange for letting her live there

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>>19557433
3. Make a list of autistic rules then sperg out and kick her out when she doesn't follow them

>> No.19557547

>>19557310
>>19557433
>>19557452
please dear kek tell me this is fake

>> No.19557607

>>19552027
>French kissing a hooker
Thats the equivalent of licking a public toilet.

>> No.19557609

>>19556083
This unironically. Go to Cebu. I assume you’re white, so it’ll be pretty easy to find a girl.

>> No.19557654

>>19551706
Best decision of your life. Cum in her mouth if possible

>> No.19557672

>>19557452
Dude you know for a fact you'll come home one day and your TV, your clothes, all your money and anything of any value is gonna be missing, and she will have blocked your number and fucked off

>> No.19557691

>>19552617

Kek

>> No.19557708

>>19557672
Didn't happen, she was good dumb stoner slut who laid around all day smoking weed and watching LotR on repeat

>> No.19557727

>>19551706
No. You risk stds and it doesn’t do anything good. Just be a virgin. Virginity is not a bad thing. Who cares what roasties and chads think.