/biz/ - Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.19523915]

With all the cons of getting married, why would a man ever get married?

Women are nothing but whores looking for the bigger, better deal.

Seriously what's in it for us men?

[Anonymous No.19523944]

children, social pressure will force you to marry or she will break up with you unless she has no friends and family

[Anonymous No.19523946]

>>19523915
Before this gets deleted, marriage can ruin a man financially when it comes to divorce, so why do men marry only for some slut woman to cheat on him, divorce him, get half his shit, and get 25% of his income via child support?

Pussy isn't that great. I'd rather jack off.

[Anonymous No.19523957]

>>19523915
Continuing your lineage that has existed since the dawn of man.
Thread

[Anonymous No.19523967]

>>19523915
prenup anon

[Anonymous No.19523972]

>>19523967
Prenups are a meme that get ignored by the courts

[Anonymous No.19523974]

>>19523944
I was married for four years, had two children, separated, and just can't trust women anymore. Like I want to have intelligent conversations about maxing our roth IRAs, saving to buy a house, getting out of debt, and all women my age wanna talk about is what's happening on social media.

[Anonymous No.19524000]

>>19523974
what was the reason for your breakup, anon?

[Anonymous No.19524019]

>>19523915

What if your wife makes 3x your salary?

[Anonymous No.19524029]

>>19523974
We just weren't compatible. Nothing in common. We were kids, I got her pregnant, we had a kid, got her pregnant again and I thought we'd always be together and that we'd both settle. I made some mistakes and I'm paying for them dearly now.

[Anonymous No.19524044]

>>19523915
If you marry a high quality woman (under 24, virgin, intelligent) you will get:
- a person who is always on your side during the ups and downs of life
- sex as often as you want it
- a person who will do the thousands of hours of work needed to raise good kids- good kids in turn are a huge improvement in quality of life after they're out of diapers

If you marry a low quality woman (older, non-virgin, low IQ/poor impulse control) you get none of those things and a high likelihood that she makes your life awful

It's really simple: only consider marrying high quality women

[Anonymous No.19524045]

>>19524019
How can I find a decent looking 30 year old female that makes $300 a year?

[Anonymous No.19524077]

>>19524000
Shit anon, this was meant for you
>>19524029
Sorry, I've had a few back to back.

[Anonymous No.19524127]

Anons will call you based on 4chan if you say you're married.

A woman's support commands immediate incel respect and deference.

Do you really say you don't want to be called based on 4chan? Is that not why you are here?

[Anonymous No.19524137]

Do it for us, bro. Divorce costs half your assets. Child support costs you your freedom, plus monthly payments. But an anon calling you based on 4chan?

Priceless.

[Anonymous No.19524143]

>>19523915
Oh no, /r/incel is back

[Anonymous No.19524144]

>>19524127
>>19524137
Already divorced paying out the nose in child support.

[Anonymous No.19524157]

>>19524045
India my friend

[Anonymous No.19524160]

>>19524077
tell us about your mistakes. did you fuck someone else?

[Anonymous No.19524166]

>>19523915
>Women are nothing but whores looking for the bigger, better deal.

Yes exactly, built into not only women but men as well. Human nature.

Marriage was essentially an insurance policy for many years and you can't blame women. Imagine being influenced and incentivized to be a homemaker with no education or skills. You are with a man and he dumps you after 20 years of relationship. You're now 40 or 50, and as men are visual creatures your relationship "value" is dried up. You are essentially FUCKED. You'll earn table-scraps while your husband has moved on to a younger hotter girl. You "wasted" their prime dating years. That's a major component as to why marriage became so important to women.

The wage gap with the rise of education for women however is solving this issue. Suddenly, who cares about money if you both make the same. There is still the issue of youth with women however so women will always be more interested in a long term relationship. And you can see this in the rates of marriage decreasing and marriage at later age.

To answer your question, it being a great deal is up to the individual. If you decide to marry someone with no ambition career wise, basically a piece of ass trophy wife - then you reap what you sow getting married to them. If you've married them based on them essentially just being "hot", then you are marrying someone who is built and rewarded to be shallow and self centered. You knew the deal so don't fucking whine when they take half your money.

It takes a good judge of character to make a successful marraige.

[Anonymous No.19524171]

>>19523915
California is the worst. Men have no rights here. I can’t fucking wait for it to collapse and let these worthless grifting whores starve in the street.

[Anonymous No.19524176]

>>19523915
If you have a strong frame a girl will always be obedient to you. Stop avoiding and taking shortcuts dumbass nigga. Learn game.

[Anonymous No.19524209]

>>19524166
I just wanted a partnership with a woman. We both make money, have separate checking accounts for our own shit, then contribute $x/month into the joint account for joint expenses, mortgage, light bill, etc.

[Anonymous No.19524313]

>>19524171
I'm waiting for commiefornia to break off into the pacific.

[Anonymous No.19524320]

>>19524209
It's also an emotional thing for women that transcends just looking for stability. Marriage is sacred to many women. And so, marriage is sort of a gift to them, and love is when you care about someone else's happiness at least as much as your own.

I would wait till you're in your mid 30's (of course always exceptions to the rule). But mid 30's you should have done some bucket list stuff with women, gotten at least some of it out of your system, and know what you're looking for. Again, just a guideline.

Some guys aren't meant for marriage and are totally fine with it, and there are some men that love the idea of marriage just as much as women. But yes, from a logical perspective there's a lot of thought and planning that a lot of people simply don't do, they are caught in the trap of infatuation and youthful naivety and end up wasting a lot of good years.

[Anonymous No.19524365]

>>19523957
tpbp

Like it or not, the meaning of life is to survive and reproduce. Regardless of how you perceive women, they are necessary to achieve this objective. Also:
>/biz/ - Business and Finance

[Anonymous No.19524372]

>>19524320
>divorced baby momma
>got with this other girl, didn't work out
>other girl and I started talking again
>on/off for a while
>break it off, block her on all forms of contact
>she emails me whining blah blah
>take her back, on/off again
>break it off, she files harassment report with popo
>later drops charges

[Anonymous No.19524395]

>>19523915
Women only decline in market value and are afraid of ending up alone because they waited too long to form a permanent attachment. On the downslope, it becomes less likely that she'll leave - especially if you skew the incentive structure in your favor. Make sure she knows that things would go bad for her if she left, and maintain as much of your market value as possible so she feels pressured to take care of herself just to stay good enough for you.

There are no guarantees, so above all you need an insurance policy. Never tell her about your exit stack. Doesn't matter if it's gold, crypto, whatever. It's great to love your wife, but make sure to provide for your own future first.

[Anonymous No.19524405]

>>19523915
im lonely to be honest

[Anonymous No.19524410]

>>19524365
This thread is /biz/ related because I asked why would a man get married its imminent financial ruin for him?

[Anonymous No.19524417]

[Anonymous No.19524427]

>Not marrying a MILF/GILF with more money than you'll make in the next 10-20 years

Seriously, just give them the D and attention and they'll overlook giving other women the D.

[Anonymous No.19524431]

>>19524372
If there's one thing I know about women, it's that they want to be entertained. You don't have to be rich, you don't have to be handsome, you can be an asshole, you can do anything. But don't bore them. Girls just want to have fun.

[Anonymous No.19524449]

>>19523974
I hear ya brother.

Was with a girl for about 10 months and I gave her so much money and a car and all this shit. Place to live rent free and what not and she just took took took and in the end She's trying to file a restraining order on me because I obsess over contacting her.

[Anonymous No.19524456]

>>19523957
just find a girl who doesn't want kids, get her pregnant by "accident" and offer to take full custody of the child and demand no child support, then cut ties with her. raise your child how you want without greedy roastue influence.

[Anonymous No.19524461]

>>19523972
>Prenups are a meme that get ignored by the courts
Actually true.

[Anonymous No.19524474]

>>19524157
If he's already in the lower caste he's never getting that upper caste pussy.

[Anonymous No.19524481]

>>19524045
>not finding a rich milf to divorce for alimony when she ages out of milfdom
ngmi

[Anonymous No.19524482]

>>19524427

CONT

Note that this is more effective in a state with community property laws aka the net worth of the couple is split in half and any attempts to "hide" assets from the other partner are strongly looked down upon regardless of gender.

If you divorce and she's worth more than you...say hello alimony and half her shit.

[Anonymous No.19524483]

>>19524405
I feel you anon. I'm there too
>>19523946
because it's part of the cycle in pic related. you cannot escape it. primal urges and logic take turns steering over your life.

[Not Financial Advice No.19524495]

All the kikes in this thread are glowing like a radioactive neon sign. You will be outbred and slaughtered like the inbred cattle you all are.

[Anonymous No.19524500]

>>19524395
At what age do women start feeling insecure if they have not found someone permanent?

The women who has used me and abused me and then turned it around on me to make me look like the bad guy has men flocking to her 24/7 because she is hot.

She's the hottest girl i've ever been with and she knows this and played me like a fiddle.

She's 26

[Anonymous No.19524506]

>>19523915
>business and finance
this isn't your feelings journal.
saged and reported.

[Anonymous No.19524512]

>>19523944
This. Social pressure will get you. It's one of the strongest forces of influence there is.

[Anonymous No.19524525]

>>19524500
28-34

There's a moment when they realize it's harder to snag the type of man they're used to snagging and they realize it's related to their age.

[Anonymous No.19524564]

>>19524456
The not wanting kids thing lasts until it doesn't. The hormonal soup of pregnancy changes a lot about what they want. If she's super-serious about not wanting a kid, she wont carry it to term. Also, not wanting kids could be code for being barren, or possibly "I used to have a penis"

[Not Financial Advice No.19524567]

Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times. Slaughter the shekelites like the cattle they think we are and attain paradise.

[Anonymous No.19524594]

>>19524564
too bad she wants to be part of their lives or I would do that in a heartbeat,
>>19524567
been throwing all my income at the stonks.