Question for the people successful with women (18-26 especially))

[None !Ayc9ByQmPU No.17957150]

You guys are the smartest board so please for once, allow this. I want to get over the fear of approaching beautiful women, especially but not limited to real life. I want to be able to message any girl online as well.

I want to try to describe what happens to me, and then maybe perhaps someone can assist me or can relate. When I see a beautiful woman, I get nervous. It's not even that I'm thinking any thoughts when this happens.

I just feel paralyzed. It's like a sweeping feeling of paralysis that enters my body and I literally just can't make the move. I don't know what to say. I feel very uncomfortable. It feels very unnatural to even think of approaching someone. I'm also not white or black and I feel insecure about my race sometimes.

How do I get rid of this? I've listened to advice over and over year after year, watched many videos, even read a book, with the same end result. Keep in mind that at this point, I don't even care about rejection (or maybe it's just a lie I tell myself). Just being able to do this will make me infinitely happier even if I get rejected over and over.

Thank you. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.

[Anonymous No.17957160]

>>17957150
Remember than women are basically human looking animals without brains and souls and its pretty easy

[Anonymous No.17957172]

>>17957150
>How do I get rid of this?
You're conditioned to act as prey. Reverse the conditioning.

[Anonymous No.17957180]

>smartest board
Newfag alert

[Anonymous No.17957182]

>>17957160
based
>>17957150
Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.

[Anonymous No.17957189]

>>17957182
based on what?

[Anonymous No.17957223]

>>17957150
You have to get to know the mindset of woman. Once you start to get sex you will start to hate women in modern feminist standards.

[Anonymous No.17957245]

>>17957150
Chad only. Chad doesn't have to try. Women approach him

[Anonymous No.17957249]

>>17957189
a true story

[Anonymous No.17957253]

I think what you're asking for is impossible. You can't change yourself like that. But don't worry, it can naturally change later when you get yourself a gf some day and stop caring so much.

You can't help it. I've got similar problem with trying to speak English irl. It just doesn't come natural at all. No matter how hard I try, it just sounds very very nervous. Feels like I lose half of my iq and balls whenever I have to speak English.

Maybe try a less direct approach? Try to get to know girls outside the dating setting. Maybe when its not so obviously about you trying to impress the girls, you'll be more comfortable.
Getting a gf is about luck really. The key is to keep meeting new girls. Of course the dating market is where this is most likely to happen, but it doesn't mean it couldn't happen anywhere else too.

[Anonymous No.17957260]

>>17957150
don't be a pajeet

[Anonymous No.17957266]

Get a good haircut and practice good hygiene. All you gotta do is act natural. Ask someone out to drink coffee sometime. Even if they're ugly or fat, you're at least gaining experience, which help gains confidence. Also don't listen to most of the cucks here. They've probably never touched a girl before.

[Anonymous No.17957282]

>>17957150
>>17957253

Shitskins fuck off

[Anonymous No.17957307]

>>17957266
I've never touched a female my age, because I am ugly and all women avoid me.

Your bullshit redpill / bluepill advice doesn't help anyone. ONLY LOOKS MATTER.

[Anonymous No.17957325]

>>17957282
I'm a nordcuck, and I consider everything south of Denmark brown eyed black haired neger wastesland.

[Anonymous No.17957331]

Here's my two cents.
Aproach anxiety is as natural as it gets. Back in tribal times, men only had 1 choice usually. Mess that one up, you die a virgin.
Things changed, but out instincts barely.
Start by making small talk with girls. See how they react and learn from this experience.
You won't be a smooth talker at first, cause that takes practice.
God bless.

[Anonymous No.17957343]

>>17957253
>>17957325
You gave great advice and I wouldn't know you speak english as a second language from the way you type fellow white fren.

[Anonymous No.17957346]

There is on/off.
Any girl ever liked you? Yes? They all like you.

No girl ever liked you? No? You are ugly, get into making train models.

[Anonymous No.17957359]

>>17957325
Funnily enough that is precisely the description of anything north of germany

[Anonymous No.17957362]

dont be clingy
dont be fat
dont be serious
literally make fun of her yourself and everything she says
its literally that ez

[Anonymous No.17957363]

>>17957307
You need to be a happy and confident person who people want to be around. Practice making friends with guys first if you're scared of girls. That will improve your social skills. Looks matter but unless you're deformed people will look past them

[Anonymous No.17957382]

>>17957150
Acquire confidence. Confidence is aquired by acomplishing something meaningful in your life.
They won't like you anyway because you're an ugly neet from 4chan.

[Anonymous No.17957387]

>>17957363
>is on /biz/
>not blackpilled

shut your fucking mouth

[Anonymous No.17957394]

>>17957150
Women are just really pretty children so treat her like a cute little 12 year old that you can fuck and you're golden
t. lost count of vagina I've slain

[Anonymous No.17957401]

>>17957382
>just be confident, bro
>they won't like you anyway because you're UGLY

Looks are everything.

[flu=flu "corona" virus = mass (...) No.17957417]

>>17957150 It just more sweaty confusion, luckiness jerk off in some ones body, if you have a lots of women you are not lucky .
Vehicle of happiness is to find the one faithful to you and have a family children in sweet wedlock.
The highest possible value in women is faithfulness.

[Anonymous No.17957422]

>>17957150
>You guys are the smartest board
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[Anonymous No.17957423]

>>17957180
>it isn't.
Reddit alert. Go back

[Anonymous No.17957460]

>>17957150
you save pictures of low test girls like that youre not going make it senpai. go get drunk and have sex with fat girls

[Anonymous No.17957465]

>>17957387
I am blackpilled I was just being nice about it. If you're ugly and want girls you need to work harder, offer something the pretty boys can't

[Anonymous No.17957485]

>>17957460
> low test girls

[Anonymous No.17957493]

>>17957150
It's natural man. I'd say don't worry about it too much, but don't shy away from what you like. If you see an opportunity to make some small talk with a qt, take it. You'll learn as you go if you get out there and try.
I used to have the same problem when I was younger. Cute girls would make me short of breath and awkward.
The only advice I can really give you is to get out of your shell and keep giving it a shot. Try where you are usually to scared to.
I can't guarantee you it won't be a little awkward, but girls are nothing to fear anon. They're just as weird and as dirty as men, if not much moreso in some regards.

If this makes any sense - don't make your mission getting a gf or friends, make your mission enjoying life and doing the things you want to do.

For all you know, the qt is too nervous to talk to you for reasons not all too different.

[Anonymous No.17957500]

>>17957422
Heheheheh

[None !Ayc9ByQmPU No.17957512]

>>17957346
What do you mean? I have had a girl like me, but not an attractive one.

[Anonymous No.17957517]

>>17957150
From personal experience, i have never had any success with consciously desiring a woman and then "win" her.
All my previous gfs, and one night stands, have all been unconscious desires, were we just hang out at a party or in a friend circle etc. But in hindsight it was obvious something was going on, it was just not apparent for me at that time that i wanted them.

So in short, try not to think about it, i don't think "formulated thoughts" is your friend. Don't know how you get to a state of indifference or avoid thinking in terms of potential sexual partners.

[Anonymous No.17957532]

>>17957346
does 7th grade count?
;_;

[Anonymous No.17957561]

>>17957150
Get to the point that you are too tired and frustrated by your life that you can't be bothered to give a shit about failure.

It also helps to interact with unattractive/old women in a business or hobby setting so that you can figure out how women think and how to tease them without the apparent risk of missing out on expectated sex if you say something stupid.

[Anonymous No.17957562]

"I don't even care about rejection"

if you didn't nothing would stop u

ur ego doesn't let it get hurt, that's literally the reason, do things to be higher sexual market value and u will do better, also meditate to take back some control from your ego

you are welcome pajeet fren

[Anonymous No.17957586]

>>17957150
About 2 years after my gf dumped me I just stopped giving a fuck about women. Started doing sports, got masters degree and a comfy job and suddenly women look like shallow copies of each other to me. Invest your time in yourself anon, you are the only person who is guaranteed to stay with you for the rest of your life.

[None !Ayc9ByQmPU No.17957629]

>>17957562
I'm not from India but I do hate the word pajeet. Anyways, so you think I'm lying to myself? You think it's basically my ego. That my ego is rooting me down? I never thought or even considered this possibility. I thought it was just some instinct from before, or that it was because it felt unnatural, but I think you're right. The reason it feels unnatural is that it feels fucking pathetic and beta to have to approach people and not have people approach you. Ideally, I want women to approach me, and the only way that is possible is to increase sexual market value to an extreme point. But until then, I'm guessing I have no choice but to let go of my ego, correct?

Also, why do you think it is just the ego holding me back and not anything else? Because the thing is I really don't care about rejection overall. Like I won't think about rejection after it happens. But in that moment, maybe I do?

[Anonymous No.17957631]

>>17957150
is that guy ok?

[Anonymous No.17957636]

>>17957150
>How do I get rid of this?

https://www.reddit.com/r/kickasstorrents/comments/4uduut/the_natural_rsd_max/d74iaaq/

[Anonymous No.17957645]

>>17957586
Based. Work on yourself and stop worrying about it.

If you really want pergyna, you have to cooming to horse porn, go out, get rejected and keep trying. The soulmate thing is bullshit, it’s a numbers game.

[Anonymous No.17957649]

>>17957150
i used to feel like this until i went it did it, even if you get rejected you get over it.

[Anonymous No.17957652]

just
be
yourself

[Anonymous No.17957654]

Also, go to the robot board for this shit .R9K is in the other side of the pond.

[Anonymous No.17957693]

women like guys who go for what they want
first you show off what a good life you have. this should be a mode of living though, you should genuinely enjoy yourself at all times, they can tell if you're faking.
then when you've gotten the slightest sign they like you, contrive to get them alone and kiss them. after the kiss they will get starry eyed and follow you (if they did like you)
if you wait too long to kiss them they will subject you to a confidence test at some point, if you pass that test they will give you a stronger sign they like you, move to kiss again.
if you fail the test it's over, move on.

[Anonymous No.17957712]

>>17957150
DO NOT fall for pick up artistry and similar bullshit.
Your problem is a lack of self respect, combined with lack of experience communicating with women. Probably high standards, too.
>lack of self respect
Just make sure you're making bank, you have a side hustle, you're in shape and you have a creative hobby.
>lack of experience
Start attending some social activity, your pick. Then just talk to women who you don't necessarily want to bang.
>high standards
Stop fapping. Standards only come into play when you want to have kids. Until then, fuck fatties like a nigger if you have to. I had a low kill count before I found a good looking/smart mother for my children, but not everyone can get lucky.

[Anonymous No.17957723]

Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Make sure you read from the first book (it is a trilogy.

[Anonymous No.17957734]

>>17957150
>How do I get rid of this?
approach thousands of women and fuck a few dozens. it's the only way. you'll always be scared until you've encountered every possible situation, which happens after maybe 10000 approaches (for the initial approach) and about 50 relationships (for actually closing the deal)

Don't want to put in the work to do that? Then die a beta male.

[Anonymous No.17957736]

>>17957712
Those girls from your “kill count” went on to be someone’s wife/cum dumpster. Don’t feed a broken system, faggot.

[Anonymous No.17957742]

>>17957629

it feels unnatural and pathetic because you think that they are giving you a favor by responding to you

are you a good person? probably

realize that you are bringing value too, if you can't then there is no way that you will be able to act naturally

do you like dogs? nice you are kind to an animal that would risk its life for others, you don't take advantage of that, you can be sure that you bring value, so be proud of that

there is literally nothing else than fear of rejection holding you back, its all in your head, unless you are some fucking multibillionaire CEO and you can't waste 10 minutes of your life because some family will starve for not paying attention to your business

go to a girl, what can you lose?

time? no
money? no
ego destruction? yes (so destroy it yourself so you got nothing to lose)

read power of now by eckhart tolle

if you hate dogs kys btw

0x403Bda55a52d4353a75A42897A37Bb3EE8a46549

that will be 700k linkies sergey

[Anonymous No.17957745]

>>17957150
Best advice is to not give a fuck.

I know a genuine hob goblin who married a 9.8/10 who has rejected multiple chads. Just be yourself, don't take things too seriously and have fun.

[Anonymous No.17957776]

>>17957266
>>17957363
>>17957693
>>17957723
Fuck off bluepilled cucks.

Learn about looksmaxing OP
Looks>everything
Deep down everyone knows it
Don't fall for the PUA scammers and other types of "redpillers"

>"muh confidence, muh cold approach, muh game"

JFL.

[Anonymous No.17957785]

Same as how you get good at anything else.
But it's hard to just do that. Most people don't act on advice given to them by stranger especially if it means leaving comfort zone a thousand times over and even more if it means experiencing rejection which you will repeatedly. Also, when you are actually doing this you will have different mindset anyway, you will give a fuck less and be infinitely more relaxed without trying after a few times of it working out. Something about pussy it unironically is like women can smell it on you then women are nicer to you then you get small boost from that then you're more relaxed then women are nicer to you... probably because you are more relaxed and they know you are not desperate since you fuck other women. You could take advice and try it (doubt) or you could just fuck whore until you don't care anymore too but then you could fall into whore trap and keep taking path of least resistance instead of potentially facing rejection from real non-whore woman. So I say just go for it. Most ""normies"" struggle too and use beer as social lubricant anyway. Not sure your situation but it's easier to go from 1 girl to 10 than it is 0 to 1. Gl

[Anonymous No.17957791]

>>17957736
>>17957736
I had low self esteem and only crazies went for me anyway.
One now moved to Berlin, became a lesbo with armpit hair, srs.
The other one found a beta cuck and lives in a village in France. He probably doesn't know she was into gangbangs.
I wouldn't have missed anything of value had I just remained a virgin until 23-24, (when I found the wife) but OP doesn't know that, he never will, and this would crush his self esteem for his other endeavors.

But it goes without saying that if a girl has some decently left in her, you SHOULD NOT ruin her. If you want to experience sex so you're not insecure about the topic anymore, go for some hopeless trash.

[Anonymous No.17957797]

>>17957150
just be chad, nothing else matters except looks.

Not tall? Not at least 7/10 facially? Its over.

[Anonymous No.17957817]

>>17957150
just b urself

[Anonymous No.17957845]

be yourself

[Anonymous No.17957848]

>>17957150
Special interest activities like school club type things, pottery, whatever you're into really will h\elp you break the ice.

I've been in a really nice relationhip for a little over a year now.

[Anonymous No.17957855]

>>17957848
total bullshit. You're almost certainly about 6 feet tall and at least 7/10 facially.

[Anonymous No.17957889]

you're insecure. find your confidence. start eating healthy and working out. it's that simple

[Anonymous No.17957918]

>>17957855
Stupid ass. There are a million and one reasons you could fuck up or find success with any number of women, none of which have to do with appearance of looks.

[Anonymous No.17957923]

>>17957150
This is /biz/ ! -offer her money.end of story

[Anonymous No.17957938]

>>17957889
Also get therapy if you have clinical anxiety or legitimate depression.

>t. 17 years of lifting and dieting for the last 5 to look like a Greek god, but untreated depression and neuroses that make it hard to get off the couch some days, fantasizing about dying, not getting pussy.

[Anonymous No.17957939]

>>17957150
Unless you are attractive by modern standards, you probably won't have much success. The more attractive you are, the more success you have. This isn't the days of rome where you marry girls at 15, these women have slept around with at least 2 guys before having met you.

[Anonymous No.17957942]

>>17957918
looks are the most important thing. They can compensate for every other factor.

[Anonymous No.17957946]

I hate introverts physically, I despise those kinds of people. I can hardly bear to talk to them. They have the Chaplin disease. That particular combination of arrogance and timidity sets my teeth on edge. They are arrogant. Like all people with timid personalities, their arrogance is unlimited. And that makes me almost nauseous with anger and disgust. Anybody who speaks quietly and shrivels up in company is unbelievably arrogant. He acts shy, but he’s not. He’s afraid. He hates himself, and he loves himself, a very tense situation. To me, it’s the most embarrassing thing in the world—a man who presents himself at his worst to get laughs, in order to free himself from his hang-ups.

Introverts are ridiculously arrogant. Their "humbleness" is arrogance. Their "shyness" is arrogance. They are as arrogant as anyone else. But you won't know that because they are afraid. They don't talk much not because they are shy or quiet, but because they are afraid. Afraid of being made fun of, afraid of being humiliated. Afraid of other people. This is where the arrogance, and the contradiction comes in. Introverts crave validation; they crave it more than any extrovert. They want to be praised, they want to be glorified. But the fear of humiliation prevents them from striving for it. It makes them paranoid. That fear drives them to hate everyone else, to antagonize everyone else, to sit in a corner and spit on everyone who passes by.

Now, what will our poor little introvert do now that he can't get his validation from other people? He will be put on a pedestal, by himself; he will rub the nose of others in the dirt, by himself, all in his own mind. This is why they are so passive aggressive: they don't need to bring you down physically, you are already humiliated in their own minds.

[Anonymous No.17957981]

>>17957942
Too many gray areas in real life to qualify things like that. Yes, looking good always helps. And, for an outlier, sometimes you hate yourself so much that good looking women approach you and do all the leg work, going do far as to get visibly annoyed when you don’t reciprocate.

[Anonymous No.17957991]

>>17957946
Go away normalnigger.

[Anonymous No.17957994]

>>17957182
>then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.
If it's a boy, just be playful. Not too complicated.
>>17957946
You sound really spiteful, probably an asshole who is surprised that timid guys aren't faggots.

[Anonymous No.17957999]

>>17957991
>>17957994
Cope

[Anonymous No.17958005]

>>17957946
Pasta from some self help manual of a guy that wears eye liner.

[Anonymous No.17958009]

>>17957946

basado

[Anonymous No.17958031]

>>17957991

If looks are so important in your eyes, why don't you try to strive for perfection in your bodily aesthetic? Complaining leads no where and that kind of attitude is never going to attract a woman, even if you are 9/10.

[Anonymous No.17958036]

>>17957999
>Cope
How's that extroversion doing for you?

[Anonymous No.17958041]

>>17957999
Nice trips, fag.

[Anonymous No.17958059]

>>17957999
introversion is just a term used for unattractive people who nobody approaches.

Attractive people are "extroverts" because they are approached by people, which enables relationships to be created.

As an ugly male, nobody talks to me, which doesn't provide many opportunities for relationships. That is "introversion."

[Anonymous No.17958062]

>>17957150
I'm not a super chad but my advice is to become extremely good at conversation (in my case by reading a lot), or generally just find some way to gain a lot of confidence (ideally many ways).

The confidence thing is really 100% not a meme, maybe put in some effort to look decent too, get low body fat & dress well

[Anonymous No.17958076]

>>17958059
More twisted logic and flawed thinking. You’re issues cut much deeper than your approachability.

[Anonymous No.17958084]

>>17957946
Saved

[Anonymous No.17958090]

>>17957150
Eat shrooms/LSD or smoke DMT. Take a solid trip and contemplate your relation to the opposite sex. Decide to change your pattern of behaviour.

[Anonymous No.17958092]

>>17957946
have sex

[Anonymous No.17958095]

>>17958076
my problems are genetic.
Take the determinism / no free will blackpill

[Anonymous No.17958103]

>>17958095
>determinism
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFY45K_2YSw

[Anonymous No.17958113]

>>17958062
Not being a fat shit is huge. That, and realizing the human condition is really basic. Women don’t care if you can cure cancer, they just want the wealth, status and social connections; the primitive, ape, brain interpreting such as greater access to resources for the unborn child her body is signaling her to birth after you creampie her ax wound.

[Anonymous No.17958115]

I unironically gave up all thought about women as soon as I opened by trading account.
I love it /biz/ even if the market is red.

[Anonymous No.17958119]

>>17958084
Post that all over R9k and come back with screenshots of your results. It’s pretty mean pasta and will break at least one of them with the dissonance.

[Anonymous No.17958142]

>>17958103
free will has never been defined, how can it exist

[Anonymous No.17958146]

>>17958095
I wish I could show you two guys at my old university with the genetic, unilateral, baby hand that managed to date and yes, *gasp, even fuck beautiful women while being deformed. Kind of weird having more than one in my graduating class...

[Anonymous No.17958161]

>>17957150
Is this pasta? Looks like pasta

Anyway, I used to be like you.
Started reading lots of PUA stuff, started with "Double Your Dating" and all that.
Managed to start conversations, but most of the stuff I did was pretty cringe.

Then I made it, and started banging hookers nonstop. Asian massage parlors, escorts, etc. Absolute 10s etc.
Something changed after that, the fear of rejection is just not there anymore.

Now I have an absolute 10/10 gf, cutest girl I've ever seen, extremely petite, but natural tits so big I can't fully cup one in my hand, and a waist so small I can wrap an entire arm around her and have plenty of space left inside. And she loves giving BJ's.

I suggest having sex with some prostitutes. Just get it out of your system.

[Anonymous No.17958164]

Also, there is one single lesson I can give you.
Don't try to impress women.
When people tell you "be yourself" that means you should do the things you honestly want to do.
It usually involves being successful and that you pursue exactly that.

[Anonymous No.17958173]

>Anonymous (ID: vaHS9Gk8) 03/20/20(Fri)10:21:11 No.17957946▶>>17957991 >>17957994 >>17958005 >>17958009 >>17958084 >>17958092
>I hate introverts physically, I despise those kinds of people. I can hardly bear to talk to them. They have the Chaplin disease. That particular combination of arrogance and timidity sets my teeth on edge. They are arrogant. Like all people with timid personalities, their arrogance is unlimited. And that makes me almost nauseous with anger and disgust. Anybody who speaks quietly and shrivels up in company is unbelievably arrogant. He acts shy, but he’s not. He’s afraid. He hates himself, and he loves himself, a very tense situation. To me, it’s the most embarrassing thing in the world—a man who presents himself at his worst to get laughs, in order to free himself from his hang-ups.

>Introverts are ridiculously arrogant. Their "humbleness" is arrogance. Their "shyness" is arrogance. They are as arrogant as anyone else. But you won't know that because they are afraid. They don't talk much not because they are shy or quiet, but because they are afraid. Afraid of being made fun of, afraid of being humiliated. Afraid of other people. This is where the arrogance, and the contradiction comes in. Introverts crave validation; they crave it more than any extrovert. They want to be praised, they want to be glorified. But the fear of humiliation prevents them from striving for it. It makes them paranoid. That fear drives them to hate everyone else, to antagonize everyone else, to sit in a corner and spit on everyone who passes by.

>Now, what will our poor little introvert do now that he can't get his validation from other people? He will be put on a pedestal, by himself; he will rub the nose of others in the dirt, by himself, all in his own mind. This is why they are so passive aggressive: they don't need to bring you down physically, you are already humiliated in their own minds.

[Anonymous No.17958181]

>>17958161
you have a girlfriend because you're Chad, no other reason

[Anonymous No.17958198]

>>17957946
I'm sorry, but did the economy already collapse? Oh, that's right. The decision hasn't even been made yet. In fact, it's only midweek. Does not 20% unemployment count as a collapse? Is that what you're saying? Because if you're saying that I can assure you that you're wrong. Why would you make this topic when the market is still open? The traders are in NYC right now and they have been the best stock market people for how long now? They're fighting one of the worst virii of all time and they're feeding off the lack of support from the Mainstream media. But you know what? They're still fucking trading. America is one of the best fucking nations on earth, we dropped 2 more and would have dropped 2 more if Japan hadn't surrendered. Maybe you should shut the fuck up before you make retarded topics like this. You know why? Because you're going to be embarrassed when the Dow hits 30k and someone bumps this topic. Oh look at that, the Fed just pumped 2 trillion dollars into the economy and cut us all a check. Are you a fucking drunk? Are you retarded? Are you autistic? You are a fucking idiot and you should never make a topic on this board again and I'm fucking serious. I almost have a feeling you're the only guy making all these anti-Dow topics because you're a faggot hater who doesn't like America because its free. Fuck you, be good at something in YOUR life and then maybe try to trun the Fed, like I give a fuck. It's so easy to spot out your threads now, you're a retard. Always doing stupid shit like this. Why don't you try to be a good poster? Just for once? For once in your fucking life try not to make a topic like this. That's just you, you're always right at getting it wrong. Fuck you. You are nothing.

[Anonymous No.17958214]

>>17957245
cringe.

[Anonymous No.17958217]

>>17958142
Everything in the universe is predetermined, except for your decisions. Your decisions affect perception, and perception drives your decisions. You can follow God's plan, or you can not. If you fuck up, it's your fault because you chose it.

[Anonymous No.17958228]

>>17958173
yikes

[Anonymous No.17958233]

>>17958217
>except your decisions

Gigacope nonsense. also prove god exists

[Anonymous No.17958245]

For me it comes very unnatural because I'm not the type of guy who approaches girl, and I don't wanna be, all my life I've been the guy receiving love letters and shit like that. All the girls I've been with have approached me, I like to be the prize and not the chaser. This is very limiting though as most women are beta and wouldn't approach guys.

[Anonymous No.17958261]

>>17958233
Creation is proof. Prove he doesn't exist, Anon. You can't.

[Anonymous No.17958266]

>>17958113
>>17958146
Based but ahem no no no if you're not a male model you can't get a girlfriend. Ugly people don't have girlfriends. Fucking Chad

[Anonymous No.17958270]

>>17958261
>creation is proof

Explain yourself, godtoddler

[Anonymous No.17958284]

>>17957160
Sad but based

[Anonymous No.17958297]

>>17958181
>chad
>didn't have a gf until I was 30
kek no

Only after I've had sex with like almost a hundred women (exaggeration) did all the PUA stuff I've read started making sense. Women's brains are wired differently than men.

By being in close contact with tons of women (despite the contact being paid sex), I ended up being misogynist, recognizing their shallow personalities that value nothing other than social approval and status. By losing respect for them, I also lost the fear of rejection.

So just fuck hookers. Also it's fun.
And they don't mind talking, and you won't fear rejection much when you know they'll fuck you anyway no matter how cringe your conversation is.

[Anonymous No.17958304]

>>17957776
Man, incels like you should just have sex.

Looks aren't everything bro, I look average and have sex with women all the time.

[Anonymous No.17958310]

>>17957150
look at it this way.
any girl doesn't know wtf she wants. imagine the best Chad possible in your mind. he's materialistic. he's rich. he is even in a cult that gives him baphomet powers, the kind that makes girls sluts and submissive. what you will do is you will pass off as him, while keeping your true self personality. you combine the two personalities and shift back and forth while you are talking to the girl. the main goal is to get the girl to trust you. the foundation of the trust is what matters if you want a relationship. if you just want to smash, make the trust thin. you'll have to practice being a Chad. that means get fitting clothes, start working out and all that shit, which is actually the hardest part, but I'm sure you'll get through that. go get em champ

[Anonymous No.17958317]

>>17958270
Why does the universe favor harmony health and beauty, why does ugliness and unhealthiness get punished? Just because? Many great philosophers wrestle with these things, most have decided there is a God, but you must be much smarter than all of them since you know God definitely doesn't exist, amirite?

[Anonymous No.17958322]

>>17958059
This is not true at all, if a guy is an introvert and attractive girls will say that he's "mysterious", I've seen it happening.

[Anonymous No.17958330]

https://www.ft.com/content/711c5df2-695e-11ea-800d-da70cff6e4d3
what sound does the EU money printer sound like?
it can't be BRRR. America always does the opposite what the EU does.
Perhaps BZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ?

[None !Ayc9ByQmPU No.17958373]

>>17957742
Thank you so much. This is the most helpful advice I got today. I don't have much in crypto but if I ever do, I'll save your address and send you some monies.

[Anonymous No.17958393]

>>17958310
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2ujSX6xT4c

Ok redpiller

[Anonymous No.17958422]

>>17958393
It's only FUCKING LOOKS which matter.

You can be the most cunfident man with le best personality in history, but being ugly MAKES IT ALL WORTHLESS

[Anonymous No.17958454]

>>17957331

The real advice. Just start small talking to grills like cashiers and work your way up from there. Eventually you'll be confident enough. It's practice.

[Anonymous No.17958464]

I've been married for 20 years. It's easy. Call her a bitch often and laugh at her when she gets loud. But she has to believe that you will throw your entire life away if she lays a finger on you. :)

[None !Ayc9ByQmPU No.17958466]

>>17958422
It's not true that only looks matter. Looks only matter if you're extremely ugly or extremely hot. For everyone else in between (more than 80% of the population), everything else matters too.

[Anonymous No.17958479]

>>17957150
Practice makes perfect.

Start the conversation by complimenting something about her.

[Anonymous No.17958487]

>>17958466
Coping again. The first thing females notice about males is their looks. Humans judge eachother based on looks alone, everything else comes after.

Unattractive men never get a chance.

[Anonymous No.17958490]

>>17957150
you value their approval therefore you fear their rejection. simple as that. don’t live your life seeking approval or you’ll be devastated by rejection.

[Anonymous No.17958502]

>>17958393
I think there was a book talking about how all the game and learning to talk to girls is bullshit since you're only faking it and masking your insecurities, even if you actually get to approach a girl and she shows interest, after a shallow conversation she will realize you're just faking it.
A better advice is to fucking focus on yourself instead of focusing on girls all the time, then you will have genuine confidence and you won't have to fake anything or come up with pick up lines and shit. Like have interests, go to the gym, practice a sport, learn to paint, write a book, be proud of your investments, whatever the fuck. I've never been as successful with women as when I didn't give a shit about them.

[Anonymous No.17958509]

>>17957946
Based

[Anonymous No.17958513]

>>17957182
>>17957245
>>17957307
>>17957387
>>17957401
>>17957776
based and giga high IQ, everything else in this thread is COPE. I CAGE at pua coper cucks. Im looksmaxxing to fuck your oneitis.

[Anonymous No.17958660]

>>17957150
You basically have 3 factors, looks, socio-economic status and low inhibition aka being extroverted.
Work on improving all of them, consider also that a significant improvement in looks or status will increase your extrovertion.

[Anonymous No.17958693]

>>17957182
based schoppy poster.

[Anonymous No.17958746]

>>17957636
please seed
probably one of the few good answers in this shit bread
would at least pass some corona time

[Anonymous No.17958769]

OP is a pussy, your real problem is a lach of T. Fucking hit the gym anon and stop being such a little bitch

[Anonymous No.17958776]

>>17957182
Being a man, you're incapable of realizing the weaknesses men have compared to women. Men tend to be stunted in their emotionally development compared to women so they can't analyze their own actions or thought patterns as well. They go more off blind knee-jerk reactions and force-of-habit. Because of this they are incapable of conceiving of the extents to which the female mind operates in the realm of subtle nuance and manipulation, and to that effect it actually benefits females to be perceived as feeble.

[Anonymous No.17958796]

>>17957150
If you were tall and had a good looking face you would not have these fears. Guys who do good with women are tall and have attractive faces. That is literally the entire secret. If you have these fears you subconsciously know you are inadequate and are trying to date out of your league.

[Anonymous No.17958952]

>>17958198
These costumes are actually scary as fuck

[Anonymous No.17958966]

>>17958796
There's no league for ugly men, even ugly women would rather being alone than not dating a Chad. And Chad is willing to fuck everyone, charity they call it.

[Anonymous No.17959029]

>>17957150
exercise and stretch (if you're not even fit how will you do well in bed?)
money money money (work 2 jobs and save up if you need money)
get goals

bitches will come to you
and when they do, don't freak out
be yourself, be humble, understand you need to experience things to learn so therefore the moment with a girl should be spontaneous fun, just like life
if you have fun, they will love to be around you

tl;dr get your self-esteem up by pushing yourself to get fit for the rest of your life

[Anonymous No.17959088]

>>17959029
cope