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[Anonymous No.15854398]

25 year old man here. bout to go out and try cold approaching women to get a gf. will document. where do i go to meet women my age? grocery store seems like cringe

[Anonymous No.15854456]

>>15854398
This

[Anonymous No.15854474]

>>15854398
Fuck off

[Anonymous No.15854492]

>>15854398
Asking 4chan like we're supposed to know. We are a bunch of introverted autists and whoever denies it is a liar

[Anonymous No.15854501]

>>15854398
i tried this cold approaching for a while. i find it is really hard to not come off as desperate when doing it. the best interactions i had where the ones where it just sort of happened and it felt natural. like if there was actually a reason to talk to a girl rather than just walking up to her. it helps with overcoming your anxiety though. good luck anon.

[Anonymous No.15854509]

>>15854398
Graduate school

[Anonymous No.15854539]

Wherever you go make sure it seems natural. As if destiny brought you together. It would probably help if you're a sociopath with good acting skills.

[Anonymous No.15854568]

>>15854492
Cope harder incel

[Anonymous No.15854580]

>>15854539
im going to larp as a sociopath this is why i dont want to do the grocery store thing.

im unironically thinking some shitty bar since its during the day most "natural" place . thought about going to my mall's local food court but I feel like I would feel autisitc sitting there looking around with no purpose

[Anonymous No.15854583]

The best way is to learn and practice talking to everyone. Start to talk to women without oicking them up for starters

[Anonymous No.15854611]

>>15854398
Bro, Just be Bold. Cold approaching is how I got my first date. Just walk up to her, Give her a witty sincere compliment, get her number, and ask her if she'd like to go eat somewhere. That's literally all it took for me.

[Anonymous No.15854624]

>>15854398
Work is the best place. Provided you dont work in some dykey sjw stronghold. You get to know them, see how they reslly look. See them at their best and their worst. Work together and even socialise.
Pretty good place to find a keeper. Not so great if you are just trying to dip your wick. What are you looking for anon?

[Anonymous No.15854636]

>>15854398
>man

[Anonymous No.15854640]

>>15854611
jus b urself bro

[Anonymous No.15854653]

>>15854624
unironically the worst advice ive ever heard. I would never fuck around with anyone from work, and not only that I work in a male dominated field.

I'm looking for a place that won't make me feel like an autist walking around looking for someone to talk to at a store or some shit . everyone says go to a grocery store but it seems like the most cringe forced shit unless you happen to run into someone you know

[Anonymous No.15854690]

>>15854611
bad advice.
men need clear instructions on what to do. you don't need a script but just beeing yourself and just wingig it will end badly. especially if you've never approached girls cold before.

[Anonymous No.15854748]

>>15854398
Out

[Anonymous No.15854882]

>>15854611
>Give her a witty sincere compliment
Girl your foot game is tremendous why don’t we get a sandwich so I can stare at them.

[Anonymous No.15854915]

Good thing anon.
Malls near university have some qties. Or just shopping miles. Look for quieter places if its too stimulating for you. Smile and be respectful.
Good luck.

[Anonymous No.15854983]

>>15854624
>Work is the best place
t. virgin

[Anonymous No.15855013]

>>15854580
>I would feel autistic sitting there looking around with no purpose
That’s going to be you anywhere

[Anonymous No.15855030]

>>15855013
damn that's a zinger, you ever think to be a comedian?

[Anonymous No.15855040]

>>15854398
>business and finance.

[Anonymous No.15855042]

>>15854398
>25 year old man here
>where do i go to meet women my age?
Retirement home

[Anonymous No.15855051]

>>15854583
This, it comes down to practice every other skill. Your brain will pick up on what to say or not depending on the result. You'll get better eventually, you can't cold approach women if you can't keep a good conversation in the first place.

[Anonymous No.15855057]

>>15854398
Strip club. At least those whores are honest about it.

[Anonymous No.15855072]

>>15854398
A club anon, I know dudes who spent years cold approaching in the streets and never got anywhere. You'll get better 1000x faster by going to clubs

[Anonymous No.15855092]

>>15854398
> out in street
> see cutie
> walk up to her
> hey, I was just on my way to have a coffee would you like to join me for a cup for like 10 minutes?
Now you bagged the deal, or moving on with your life. Girls like confidense and having balls to ask them out works.

[Anonymous No.15855098]

>>15854398
Volunteer at a dog shelter.

Tons of women work there.

The biggest fear a woman has of a stranger is that he will murder her.

Most men you volunteer at dog shelters are usually pretty good people (in your case you have to pretend to like dogs) so women will have their guard down.

If you can in your initial conversations, show you have a social network of some sort (tell story about some buddies), that you have some success factors (have a job, not living in mom's basement, etc.) and that you can be interesting in a conversation, and that you aren't fat and lazy.

If you cannot do that then work on those factors as you will have a fucking HUGE uphill battle winning women without those.

Once you have those 4, then women are easy.

Remember what Rich Cooper wrote "Women don't care about your efforts, they wait at the finish line and fuck the winners". Never forget that.

[Anonymous No.15855108]

>>15855092
This guy gets it. Most incels on 4chan actually believe women will throw themselves on their car windshields.

[Anonymous No.15855131]

Listen up faggot. First go to a strip club. This will help you get over your shit. Next realize women are subhuman that are easily manipulated, if a psychopath can convince girls to go with them in the woods so can you. Eye contact is important, don't look away no matter how autistic it feels.

Just go to the bar. Try going to the park and checking the benches. Do you have a dog? Bitches love dogs. Go to meet up.com. if your desperate enough to cold approach your desperate enough for meetup.com or community service or something.

[Anonymous No.15855154]

>>15854398
unironically get an escort, meeting a girl you know will already wants to suck your dick with give you huge personality gains when it comes to talking to other women.

[Anonymous No.15855160]

>>15854983
seething neet

[Anonymous No.15855174]

Enjoy the night in county when a hole reports "that creepy guy"

[Anonymous No.15855205]

>>15854398
>bout to go out and try cold approaching women to get a gf

Please don't do this anon. Focus on gitting gud at a hobby that involves social interaction with people IRL. Put yourself out there, be a genuinely likable guy and opportunities will come your way.

Cold approaching is gonna turn women off. Remember, they have access to the cream of the crop thanks to Tinder and other dating sites. If you're not a catch, why would they be cool with you coming out of nowhere to their lives?

[Anonymous No.15855230]

Join a local hiking group

[Anonymous No.15855256]

>>15855205
This.
Unless you’re a 10/10 looks wise cold approaching will never work. Even if you’re attractive it still has a low success rate.

[Anonymous No.15855265]

>>15854398
Start on easy mode at a popular bar or club, don’t act like a shy dweeb go and have fun (you are going to have to buy drinks and make conversation). Work your way up to hard mode, gym (have to be fit and good looking).

[Anonymous No.15855310]

>>15854398
That's no good dude. First you have to find a girl you like, then you follow her for a few weeks to get to know her routine, what she likes, what she wears, then you 'accidentally' bump into her and say so sorry I was just in such a rush to get to 'that thing she likes' and you do it wearing something she has the same one of and then when you get some rapport from her you then ask her out for some of her favourite food.

Got it? Its really easy.

[Anonymous No.15855318]

>>15854398
Also being socially retarded is cute when you are young (18-23) but now you are just going to look fucking weird. Make sure to have normal conversations and get a feel of things before going in!

[Anonymous No.15855390]

>>15855160
I've had sex

[Anonymous No.15855404]

>>15854624
Work USED to be the best place

[Anonymous No.15855418]

>>15855310
kek

[Anonymous No.15855489]

>>15854611
Based
>>15854624
Virgin
>>15854690
Virgin
>>15854915
Virgin
>>15855013
Based
>>15855098
Virgin
>>15855174
Virgin
>>15855205
Virgin
>>15855160
Virgin

[Anonymous No.15855511]

>>15854398
community college. most girls will be a bit younger, but there are a lot that go off and on through their early 20s because they have no ambition or plan.

[Anonymous No.15855522]

>>15855489
Virgin

[Anonymous No.15855556]

>>15854398
Never waste your time with women anon. They are not worth it.

[Anonymous No.15855573]

>>15855092
if you're not at her level or above in terms of looks your confidence won't matter, you will come off as a creep or even worse potential rapist the ugler you are the worse obviously

[Anonymous No.15855598]

>>15855489
Based virgin

[Anonymous No.15855624]

>>15854398
>what is tinder
N I g g e r, pussy market is over saturated since tinder came on the scene. It’s max supply vs max demand. Win=win situation
Y bother when there are girls literally just want to bang and leave...you don’t really even need to know thier real names or for them to know yours

[Anonymous No.15855687]

>>15854398
Anywhere, just a few tips for you so you don’t eat too much shit:

1) Gauge how friendly the person is:
Start by saying “hi” or “hello”. Don’t use a gay pickup line. If the person is receptive continue, if the person, doesn’t acknowledge you, fakes politeness or is overtly rude to you, move on.

2) Start off with very light conversation:
the key to making relationships happen is connecting on some level, spiritual, mental, physical whatever. Ask her about what she is doing at the moment and make it seem like you are just curious about it. Get the ball rolling on the conversation (unfortunately this only comes with experience, get a life (not meant to be an insult) and this is easy to do) and “woo” her subtly, be charming, be polite, respect her boundaries

3) Introduce yourself:
apologize and say “I’m sorry, my name is ____” and shake her hand

4) bullshit with her:
most of relationship stuff is just talking about random bullshit, this is key: be yourself. Whatever you are interested in or what you do for a living talk about. If she is interested she will continue the conversation, if not she will just give you short answers or just smile and say something like “thats funny”

5) Get her number:
say you have to go but get her number to contact her again, this leaves her with something to look forward too. After you get it, text her once after a few hours and if she responds you have a match.

6) don’t worry too much
If she doesn’t pan out or if you get cold feet, don’t be too hard on yourself, there are plenty of fish in the sea and there is always going to be another woman that will blow her out of the water

happy hunting

[Anonymous No.15855705]

>>15855072
>fuck some dumb drunk whore
no thanks

[Anonymous No.15855711]

>>15855624
I think OP is in the modern conundrum. He wants a GF, Having a GF or relationship is not possible, It's never true. A woman in western society will always backstab you. The women that are still worth it in the world are the traditional kind that don't conform to western feminism. These are mostly in foreign countries. For sex though, It's easy nowadays. For a genuine relationship, That is scarce. That's why most guys are either partial or full incels. To me I don't want sex unless it's in a genuine relationship. You need to release sexual tension, But sex with a woman is not needed. Just masturbate and ask yourself if you want to go fuck some tinder thot, Chances are you'd rather stay at home. It's simply not worth it. From experience I know it's not worth it.

[Anonymous No.15855721]

>>15855711
To add, I know it is especially not worth it after the first couple of times, Post nut clarity will always point you in the right direction.

[Anonymous No.15855751]

>>15855042
underrated

[Anonymous No.15855766]

>>15855711
>>15855721
based and post-nut-claritypilled

[Anonymous No.15855791]

>>15854398
I'm 25 also and already lost count of the women I've fugged

I don't know what it is but everytime I go out women just get most when they see me

[Anonymous No.15855797]

>>15855511
Why would it matter if they're younger. Like 18-20 right

[Anonymous No.15855821]

Cold approaching is a lot tougher nowadays compared to 10 years ago. Blame online dating apps and today's climate of fear.

[Anonymous No.15855842]

>>15855042
Based

[Anonymous No.15855847]

>>15854398
Just join a club you stupid incel

[Anonymous No.15855876]

>>15854653
You're a fucking troglodite. But kudos for respecting supply and demand. Don't get a work gf if you're in a sausage fest.

[Anonymous No.15855898]

>>15855797
most girls are pretty vapid/annoying at that age. not that they aren't in their mid 20s, but it typically gets a little better.

[Anonymous No.15855910]

Fuck I need to move to the city there are NO women in the suburbs

[Anonymous No.15855944]

>>15855910
Unfortunate reality of today's America, unless you're a top tier chad.

[Anonymous No.15855953]

op here, went to a food place and ate there, reporting no women were there, only one was some teenager behind the counter that eye fucked me

[Anonymous No.15855970]

>>15855687
Is this copypasta from Reddit? Kek.

[Anonymous No.15855971]

>>15855310
based calculated coomer

[Anonymous No.15855983]

>>15854398
After a while you just won't give a fuck and girls will sense it you will be surprised how easily you can lay.

[Schiff Will Win !!L6zziHG8/KZ No.15855993]

>>15854492
>we

[Anonymous No.15856057]

>>15855953
Where did you go

[Anonymous No.15856074]

>>15855489
virgin

[Anonymous No.15856091]

>>15855970
nah, just a guide for turbo autists

Golden advice like "be yourself" is too high for them

[Anonymous No.15856138]

>>15854398
You're supposed to have a robust social life and then hook up with one of your acquaintance's sister or cousin or some shit. It's like hooking up at work only without the obvious pitfalls. Because you see a lot of different women, and they float in and out of your circle, and you get to slowly get to know them, you see them and they see you regularly. Or your bros play wingman and hook you up with and vouch for you with their looksmatch Becky friend they met at boardgaming night.

[Anonymous No.15856176]

>>15855098
That's a good idea because when no one else is around I can abuse the pitbulls.

[Anonymous No.15856289]

>>15856057
chipotle

[Anonymous No.15856318]

>>15854398
>approaching women to get a gf
already failed. since you will come off as a desperate retard. cold approaching works best in a shitty bar. if you're too retarded to talk about random shit then join a club so you have at least some conversation material with the same interests

[Anonymous No.15856395]

>>15854611
>compliment
Bad idea. Give her a witty, sincere criticism.

[Anonymous No.15856419]

>>15856289
That's your problem. All the hot girls hang out at panera bread.

[Anonymous No.15856455]

>>15856419
idk, I just thought I would get some chipotle didn't expect anything went during dinner hours and like I said there weren't any women. going to go to my grocery store and walk around the alcohol section and see if there is a lonely milf there. will report back

[Anonymous No.15856484]

>>15856455
Roger.

[Anonymous No.15856554]

>>15855898
But they're hotter at 18 than 25, so it's a trade off

[Anonymous No.15856661]

>>15854398
Garry's mod

[Anonymous No.15856795]

>>15855953
Just jerk off in the booth. Women can smell apex predator

[Anonymous No.15856805]

>>15854398
why not just go sit in a bar? that's recisely the location for this kinda stuff. or a cafe.

[Anonymous No.15856822]

>>15854398
parks. bring your dog of he isnt an asshole

[Anonymous No.15856824]

>>15854398
Thrift stores dude. Young women are all over these things

[Anonymous No.15856935]

>>15855953
go to the city centre (i work in the city, so on my way home i go through the city to look and smile at pretty girls to get their reaction lool, i have never actually been brave enough to approach any femoids

[Anonymous No.15856947]

>>15856484
>>15856795
op here. just got back from the store. all i saw was maybe a mid 20s milf with a big ass but she was zoomin and had a baby in a stroller so she was a mom on a mission, other than that no women around.

I also was wearing a pair of dress shoes, a pair of chinos a tailored shirt and tailored blazer with my imitation rolex (no one will know or give a fuck whether its real or fake)

mission failed I guess. I think I'll try just hanging around a community college campus because that seems more natural and I can pretend to have a reason to loiter

op - out but still in the thread

[Anonymous No.15856968]

>>15854398
OP are you in California or West Coat?

[Anonymous No.15856972]

>>15856947
Where did you get your imitation rolex.

[Anonymous No.15857001]

>>15856947
you didn't really even leave the house did you?

[Anonymous No.15857024]

>>15855993
>being a namefag
I would rather be a lonely virgin NEET autist desu

[Anonymous No.15857034]

take lsd+mdma and go to a rave, guaranteed success

[Anonymous No.15857038]

>>15857001
.

[Anonymous No.15857098]

>>15856972
amazon
buy a diver

[Anonymous No.15857308]

>>15856455
What city are you from? I can tell you where to go depending on the city.

[Anonymous No.15857343]

>>15855092
WORKS IF you look like an 8/10 or above.

[Anonymous No.15857389]

>>15857308
cleveland

[Anonymous No.15857417]

>>15857389
Kid Cudis hometown. Haven’t been there yet. College campus seems like a good idea. Picking up girls at bars only works on those busy party nights. Anon. Atleast you are trying bro. If anything just know that you are on your way to making it. Don’t let anyone bring you down. It’s a numbers game, eventually you’ll find one. Sorry I couldn’t help to much

[Anonymous No.15857524]

>>15855489
You're literally a virgin. This is terrible advice. And I've said fuck it and done this quite a few times. I'm a decent looking guy and I've gotten all kinds of responses. I mean you can go this route if you're going to be able to keep the conversation going (this is no easy task) no matter what her response is.

If she says no most men would probably walk away rather than continue to joke around and pursue her(when in actuality this could is a doable path). See before, you just have to keep the conversation fun.

If she says yes then you either walk away or have to continue to talk to her. Even if you walk away you'll have to at some point give her a reason to enjoy your company. This one defining fact is unescapable on the pursuit of women. So you must figure out how to do this. Bold approach usually never works out well even if she does say yes. Especially for a bunch of basket weaving autists that have to even ask this question.

[Anonymous No.15857626]

[Anonymous No.15857691]

Anywhere desu, although cringey watch either rsd or Todd valentine. Mystery is giga cringey.

[Anonymous No.15857731]

>>15855040
Fuck jannies

[Anonymous No.15857742]

>>15854398
I do this kind of shit. Got a number just today. If you are a little shy, go to parks. Places in nature were some women are there. Avoid the gym. Terrible results (althought i succedded once, but after something like 60 attempts). Malls can work but women tend to be more bitchy in malls because they know there are cameras and security gards so they are in a safe space, and kinda in a position of power (had a women call a security gard on me once in a mall. He did nothing cause all i did was talk to her).
Most important thing, be patient. It could take 3-4 months before you get your first girl. It works, but it takes time. Don't put yourself objectives like you have to try to talk to a specific number of women each day, like "i must talk to 10 women today". because you'll get stress out. Instead, just go wandering, and if you see a women bored, doing nothing specifically, just go talk to her in a casual manner. If you know nothing about text game, check Todd Valentine. Perhaps one of the only PUA that makes sense. Even if his style is to much normalized. Also, something important, never expect result. It's very hard to do, but it's when you don't expect any results that you get most results. Like a soldier in war who consider himself already dead, has a better chance of survival. Good luck.

[Anonymous No.15857770]

absolute state of this thread

hahahahha fucking OP you incel

[Anonymous No.15857784]

>>15857731

[Anonymous No.15857912]

>>15855687
>>15854398

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N7FVmeJXwCY

[Anonymous No.15858061]

>>15855791
Explain

[Anonymous No.15858203]

>>15854398
I'm 26 and I "attempted" cold approaching.

Currently a neet and shut in which doesn't help in meeting women. Not sure how to explain it but some women I was just able to talk to and not feel awkward around (didn't ask for number). Then there were women I was too scared to talk too.

Never had a gf, have had better odds in workplaces. Heck I went to interview at a warehouse for an office job this one time (didn't get it) where I was sitting in the lobby. This pretty looking gal comes out (warehouse worker I think) and was nice and friendly (I get more attention when I dress business casual vs just casual). Got told later, second hand, there was also a girl there who recognized me. Apparently it's a girl that I only saw once or twice in my life over a decade ago (how'd she even remember me!?). Find it funny how it only seems to be girls from long ago that recognize me yet I'm not handsome.

[Anonymous No.15858342]

>>15855910
Oddly I feel more confident when I’m not at home so if I get rejected it’s not a big deal since there’s so many people in the city

[Anonymous No.15858371]

>>15854398

Just bee urself

[Anonymous No.15858583]

>>15854398
dont force it. just go out and do things and look for opportunities. for instance, 2 days ago i was waiting in line at subway behind a hot girl, she ordered a wrap at subway and i made a joke about it leading into a conversation and eventually we exchanged snapchats and fucked that same night. it also helps that im 6'3, shredded, good looking, and in college.
just dont think too hard and go off of your intuition assuming youre not a complete autist.

[Anonymous No.15858637]

>>15854398
Yo dude email me at [e-mail]. I'm training anons to tinder and be better with women generally.

[Anonymous No.15858995]

>>15858637
Not op, can i email you? Not sure if i will but am considering.

Can only attract ugly/fat women on tinder. Only had 1 skinny girl who quickly ummatched that may have just been a catfish.

[Anonymous No.15859075]

>>15858995
Go to a PR firm. Get a publicist or a public relations specialist to build all your profiles for dating. They should have you worked out as the prince of some small country for like $800.

[Anonymous No.15859218]

>>15856138
>friendmaxxing cope
my buddy has no friends at his college at all and chooses not to. he literally just cold approaches girls. hes had like 7 girlfriends now

[Anonymous No.15859286]

>>15858583
>also helps that im 6'3, shredded, good looking, and in college.
You mean thats 99% of the reason she fucked you?

[Anonymous No.15859536]

>>15855573
this.

[Anonymous No.15859602]

>>15857626
lmao I cried