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[Anonymous No.15040825]

Okay guys please you have to help me. I'm about to go on my first date ever and I just turned 33. I finally have been working on my self like everyone has been suggesting. I started going outside just on walks and going into public like the super market. I would just randomly talk to people and try to work through the pains in my chest and my shaking hands. I did it every fucking day and I know this sounds stupid but I am so relieved I got over my fears of being able to talk to people in just a normal way. I had a rough childhood upbringing which I think is the root cause of my social anxiety. Anyways guys this brings me to my point. This girl I met at the grocery store I finally mustered up enough courage after talking to her for over a week to finally ask her out on a date and I thought she was going to say no but to my suprise she said yes. Now I am fucking panicking and terrified on what to say and do on the date. I am taking her to a fine dining restraunt and then going for a romantic walk on the beach afterwards. She doesn't know any of this I was hoping you guys could please tell me what else I can do or say on this date. Like I said I've never been on a date before and I could really use your advice. Please guys I really want to lose my virginity here as it's been way too long and I finally have the chance to do it. Biz you helped me once before when you told me to buy ethereum at $2 and because of this I will never need to work ever again. I am eternally grateful to this board and will be forever in your debt. If you guys could please once again give me some advice on what to say to this nice girl I will tell you my other coins that I am invested in which I believe should be quite helpful to you in the upcoming bull run. Please biz help me.

[Anonymous No.15040847]

>>15040825
Take it easy on the romantic walks, don't get ahead of yourself. You barely know each other. Take her out for a drink after dinner instead.

[Anonymous No.15040872]

>>15040825
Whip your dick out and start jerking off as fast as you can

[Anonymous No.15040908]

>>15040825
Stop stressing. She already likes you or she wouldn't have said yes. I know it sounds cliche, but be yourself and just talk to her. Don't even think about sex right now. Just get to know her, and go from there. If she wants to have sex there's a good chance she'll initiate it anyways.

[Anonymous No.15040941]

>>15040825
No dining. You need to go to a movie on a first date. There is very little talking involved (aside from the stray witty comment) and if it was a good movie, that's good. If it's a shitty movie, even better. Keep it simple. Walk her back to her car and give her a hug. "We should do this again some time". Go home. The next day "wow what a great/shitty movie" keep occasionally texting throughout the week. Get to know if she's worth your time. On the next date you get to do all that mushy shit.

[Anonymous No.15040966]

>>15040941
Who the fuck goes to the movies? Are you 17?

[Anonymous No.15040997]

>>15040941
Ignore every word of this

[Anonymous No.15041003]

Don't start as a fucking creep. Someone should beat you out of you! Good luck, Mr. Supreme Champion Duck

[Anonymous No.15041014]

Dont pressure yourself. If the date does not work out, you will find another date. Keep in mind that millions of men have dates and fail. Literally millions. Women are strange and dates fail, thats the way life is. Seriously I had 3 fucking dates this year and they all failed. Just do it for the experience.

[NonMage No.15041016]

> I'm finally going on a date and I don't know whose face should I wear
You are a dark mage now, and knowing that you mastered enough of the arcane to make it, trust me anon you don't need any of this shit.
Just be yourself and fate will sort the rest out for you. If your relationship advances the mask will be shattered one day anyway.
You're panicking? Tell her the truth "Sorry girl, it's my first time going on a date, I may not be perceptive of basic social awareness at times."

[Anonymous No.15041066]

>>15040966
People who are trying to fuck go to the movies.

[Anonymous No.15041069]

>>15040825
You’re gonna make it fren. You know how I know? You’ve got a green ID. You’ll relax and ask her about how she spends her time and what she enjoys doing. She’ll ask you the same questions. By doing this you’ll both latch onto a topic of mutual interest and then you’ll fuk

[Anonymous No.15041092]

>fancy dinner and romantic walk
That’s way too much for a first date, anon. Just do something chill and fun. Going to a movie isn’t bad advice, or just anything fun. Don’t try to be romantic, she will just feel awkward and pressured.

[Anonymous No.15041096]

>>15041016
DELET

[Anonymous No.15041143]

>>15040825
relax fren. talk and treat her like she's a friend you've known for a while, except be flirty, it'll put her at ease if you're comfortable/confident and act yourself. desu i'd skip the "romantic walk" and even the "fine" dining, it's too much for a 1st date. 1st dates go to some average brewery/pub for a drink or an average non-chain restaurant for a meal. also depending on the chemistry/mood don't feel like you have to kiss her. i kiss on less than 50% of 1st dates and have ALWAYS gotten a 2nd date because i'm not a creep. if she's giving signals and you want to then absolutely kiss her, just fuckin go for it. if you're just looking to fuck idk anon, I'm only good at the medium/long game.

[Anonymous No.15041871]

>>15040825
Just bee yourself, bro.

[Anonymous No.15041939]

>>15040825
Listen to me you stupid nigger, what you SAY doesnt mean shit on a date. The only thing you need to worry about is ESCALATING PHYSICALLY. Also, you need to go for the kiss sometime during the date.

[Anonymous No.15041947]

>>15040941
Horrible, just horrible advice. NEVER go for movie dates.

[Anonymous No.15041987]

>>15041939
It's literally his first date ever. Going for a kiss will end miserably. Don't give a hug and end up in the friend zone either though OP.

[Anonymous No.15041994]

>>15040825
Dont listen man, your idea sounds great desu. This is what you have worked for. You will make it.

[Anonymous No.15041996]

>>15040825
Hire a prostitute dude. Its way easier then real women. Gave up half my life dating woman if I hadn't I would be rich. Instead I'm a poor fag. Love isn't worth it. She will end up cheating on you or you will fall out of love with her. It sucks dick. It's better to not have your heart broken by some whore.

Send some ethererum if you want
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[Anonymous No.15042021]

Business and Finance

[Anonymous No.15042127]

>>15041987
Nigga, the guy cold approached a woman and got a date out of it. He's literally more alpha than 90% of modern men. Not going for the kiss, even if you get rejected is a huge mistake.

[Anonymous No.15042189]

>>15040941
Movie dates are terrible and the problem is you CANT talk. Maybe after a while when you know each other better but DEFINITELY NOT FIRST SECOND OR THIRD DATE

[Anonymous No.15042206]

>>15041014
This

[Anonymous No.15042231]

>>15040847
This. And don't sperg about crypto or the kikes.

[Anonymous No.15042261]

No begging homo

[Anonymous No.15042263]

Why the fuck are you posting this in biz
Nobody wants to know your pajeet scamcoin

[Anonymous No.15043136]

Instead of dinner, go for a drink or two.
Going for a walk is great as long as it's nearby and not a huge commitment.
If you're vibing well, try holding and looking at her hand for a few seconds at some point and see how that goes. If it goes well and she didn't react poorly to her hand being touched, try going for a kiss sometime a bit later. Tell her to come here first right before.
Also remember girls tend to feel the same feel as you, so if you feel relaxed and happy, she likely will too but if you feel crazy nervous and uncomfortable, she will too.
Good luck anon, I'm rooting for you.

[Anonymous No.15043179]

>>15040825
here op

keep it light and funny,

ask her questions

make her do 70% of the talking

keep hands to yourself

pick her up in your car, yes knock on her door, and say "showtime" when she opens

after the date do not text or call her, wait until you wanna see her again, call her set up date and time, pick her up again

no texting long ass paragraph bullshit

[Anonymous No.15043209]

>>15043136
nope, how many losers try to kiss her asap.

>>15042189
correct

>>15041987

no pysical contact on first date

>>15041143

no

>>15040997
seconded

[Anonymous No.15043230]

>>15043179
op, these some of the girls i fucked that i have taken pictures of. take my advice

[Anonymous No.15043233]

LISTEN RIGHT FUCKING HERE.

I booted up my fucking VPN to help you. This is whats going to happen. Youre going to go to a “nice” restaurant, NOTHING EXTRAVAGGANT. Im not saying mcdonalds but a decent keg steakhouse where you can dress semi-casual. Then youre going to sit down, order a bottle of wine and simply have a conversation about your interests and ask her what her interests are, what she likes to do, etc. Keep asking questions, women LOVE to talk about themselves thats all you have to do to engage with her. Then eventually the wine will take over and the conversation will flow smoothly. After dinner, youre going to pay for it IN CASH, with a NICE TIP. Im not saying 100% of the meal, but a nice 35% tip will do the job. Then youre NOT going to go on a romantic walk on the beach. Instead youre going to say as you walk out “you want to go for a walk?” And go down the nearest busy street, and continue talking. Let the lady fucking speak and dont interrupt. After if the signals are all clear you can engage in asking her if she wants to come over. And thats it, JUST BE YOUR FUCKING SELF WITH CONFIDENCE AND A GOOD HEARTFELT PERSONA. Dont be a cunt, dont say stupid racist shit, dont give off any bad first impressions that youre weird.

[Anonymous No.15043265]

>>15043233

very nice, i like your style, except dont take her home on the first date
you want to make her feel like a slut?

OP go home and jack off.

she will respect that much more. and in the end fall even harder for you

[Anonymous No.15043271]

>>15043179
>showtime

[Anonymous No.15043368]

>>15043230
>Showtime
Best opener xD

OP this is called 'framing.' Women will always conform to expectations. Giving them an opener that establishes that your expectations are light-hearted, fun, adventurous, creates a 'sexual frame.' That's what allows this guy to take hot girls home and likely let *them* initiate intimacy.

That poster is based chad.

[Anonymous No.15043622]

Do: ask her questions about herself.
Listen to her and seem interested.
Make her laugh at least 3 times.
Come across as generous.
Dont:
Interrupt her
Act autistic
Allow long silences
Rape or kill her

[Anonymous No.15043635]

>>15043622
>Rape or kill her
I fail that step every time
just beeing myself

[Anonymous No.15043791]

>>15043209
You've never touched a girl on the first date? Lol I feel bad for you.

[Anonymous No.15043933]

used to be like you bro

honestly you're probably going to fuck this one up lets be real. But this date will be the biggest lesson you'll learn yet.

In like half a years time you'll be going on dates every weekend and chatting normally to girls.

[Anonymous No.15043942]

>>15040825
So OP
Here's the deal. If you had that much social anxiety... She knows you're a sperg already. It's ok though, she either knows you have some loot that she is interested or you happen to be a decent looking Sperg. Thing is she said yes anyway, so all you have to do is keep it together for the few dates you have and you'll be able to fuck her. Keep calm, be yourself yet witty and funny they love that shit. Keep all kike and crypto autism out of your convos until she is super comfy with you.
Recovering Chad here

[Anonymous No.15043986]

>>15040825
Good luck fren

[Anonymous No.15044018]

>>15040941
Um... Yeah, BIG yikes from me.

[Anonymous No.15044121]

>>15043233
agree on all these points except its fine to say a racist thing or two

[Anonymous No.15044150]

>>15040941
Even worse advice than telling anons to buy bitconnect.

[Anonymous No.15044183]

>>15040997
I agree. Ignore the movie advice. But drop the romantic walk. Dinner and drinks. Don't get drunk.

[Anonymous No.15044193]

>>15041016
Absolutely do not tell her you're on your very first date at 33.

[Anonymous No.15044211]

>>15044121
true, bitches get wet when you tell them that hitler did nothing wrong

[Anonymous No.15044214]

>>15040941
>stray witty comment
7/10 bait for making me reply

[Anonymous No.15044234]

>>15040825
she knows. its gonna be alright.

[Anonymous No.15044253]

>>15040825
will there ever be another ETH?

[Anonymous No.15044270]

>>15043209
no contact on the first date? what the fuck are you on about?

[Anonymous No.15044273]

>>15043933
I agree. OP will likely fuck it up, and that's OK. Try again. It's a volume business. Don't get attached too early. When you stop caring about the individual woman is when you will simultaneously start to succeed with all of them.

[Anonymous No.15044275]

>>15043230
Big yikes

[Anonymous No.15044281]

>>15041996
sent

[Anonymous No.15044295]

>>15044121
Save it for later. Selective racism is an art OP should not try to master on his first date.
Don't reveal your power level until you've already won her heart. If you do it now you're a sperg who throws up red flags, but if you wait you'll be a complicated man with a dark side.

[Anonymous No.15044349]

Take this guy's advice https://youtu.be/TrPRT1hGO9w
>t. Coachcoin whale

[Anonymous No.15044365]

>>15043368
Useful

[Twitter.com/KadaneZod No.15044500]

>>15040825
Glad to hear you Listened when it was the time to buy ethereum.

Now time to book an appointment with a psychologist to fix your anxiety.
This date might fail and you must accept it, but try to focus on strenghtening your base odds rather than looking for moonshots (e.g. losing virgstatus with this chick)

Girls are like shoes; if they fit good otherwise try a different one.
Be the one who has to be entertained, fuck the nannyism consensus when dating chicks.

[Anonymous No.15045167]

>>15043233
This guy knows his stuff.

Dont worry fren you are gonna do great

[Anonymous No.15045202]

>>15040825
Make sure to “accidentally” drop your fork at dinner and take pics of her feet while you’re “looking for it”. Don’t forget to post the pics with timestamp

[Anonymous No.15045205]

At the beginning of the date make sure you tell her she has a nice brapper

[Anonymous No.15045229]

>>15040941
ask me how i know you've never been on a date

[Anonymous No.15045546]

>>15041014
great advice. Lots of gash out there.

[Anonymous No.15045913]

>>15040872
This OP, just as fast as you can. Your hand should be a warm blur

[Anonymous No.15045967]

>>15043230
i hope this is bait they're all goblinas

[Anonymous No.15046017]

>>15040825

talk to her about:
hobbies
interests
career
*EXPAND UPON ANYTHING YOU GUYS HAVE IN COMMON IN ABOVE FIELDS*

don't just say, "I like doing x", explain the history behind how you first got interested, and how you have developed, or why you enjoy doing it. Ex: I got into writing while taking classes at uni, and I enjoy it since it helps me get my thoughts on paper instead of having them pent up in my head

[Anonymous No.15046049]

>>15040825
>I am taking her to a fine dining restraunt and then going for a romantic walk on the beach afterwards.
Bit fuckin much for a first date, lad.
>She doesn't know any of this
OH FUCK YOU FUCKING WENT THERE. Shit anon either you and this bitch are going to get married after a week together or you're never seeing her again after this.

[Anonymous No.15046092]

Don't do that. Go to thailand

[Anonymous No.15046260]

>>15040825
Find the most comfy part of your local area, if you live near a big city it won't be the downtown area but you want the area on the edge of the nice suburbs and city. Shitty hooligans won't ruin your date that way.

Do not, DO NOT have your first date at night, there is too much sexy qi in the air, too much pressure. You want the date to be after lunch but before rush hour.

Try to make a joke about her but dont be autisticly cruel just cheeky.

When you get home if you will probably get a text. That means you done good. Look for an opening in what you guys discuss on the first date to have ideas about the next date, but dont bring it up on the first date. The rest is up to you.

[Anonymous No.15046267]

Take her out for a drink. Pay the first round of drinks. Go through this list of questions https://bigthink.com/ideafeed/how-to-fall-in-love-36-questions-and-deep-eye-contact

Roasties love that shit. If you are really clueless about women go to the blackdragonblog.com it will really redpill you BUT will also teach you how to be nice to women while keeping a strong frame and your manly dignity.

Godspeed anon. Roasties are human too. Be kind to the waiter, uber driver etc and she will like you

[Anonymous No.15046357]

>>15041987
That's idiotic, lots of quality women don't kiss on a first date, you might need to wait the second and sometimes even third date (rare but it happens) to hit this base, or else you'll miss out on some great quality pussy. Once this is settled the next date might totally end up with sex, but if you care about the story going far, don't rush, make her feel like you're not just aiming there

[Anonymous No.15046393]

>>15040825
Good for you anon! Don’t do the fine dining or walk on the beach. Meet her for a coffee or beer. Take a walk though a nice park or botanical garden. Sit on a bench. Ask her lots of questions about herself. Seem interested. If things go well do it again with a meal at a non chain/ non fine dining Place. Movies are ok but then get a drink after to talk about it.

[Anonymous No.15046404]

>>15043233
This, but watch out, a good 50% of women will not go for sex on a first date. If you care about her, don't pull the ending described by this anon

[Anonymous No.15047271]

Go to a cafe. Something not too busy or loud. Talk about literally anything for 5 minutes. At some point, pull up your bank acct and lay the phone on the table. Make sure she sees it. If you can't get her to sneak a peak, leave the phone on the table when you get up to pay. After she knows that she's got a good chance on getting her hands on some of that money, anything goes. Be austic, whip out your dick, grab her pussy, whatever you want.
Let's not forget the ultimate goal here, sex. Going to the movies or walking on some faggot beach is a waste of time. Get straight to the action. Make sure you have a place to go to to bang her, preferably not your place of residence. Get some condoms. Go for the gold.

[Anonymous No.15047967]

Simply insert your bennis into her vagene.

[Anonymous No.15048395]

ITT: all white incels

[Anonymous No.15048900]

>>15044273
its 2019 at the same time u dont care, she loses interest, she forgets your presence and only remember some memories, she gets constant flow of new chads, orbiters, lazy days

if ure not chad then ure fukd and becomes an old friend

[Anonymous No.15050356]

>>15041143
seconding this brah. if you /autism/ fine dining resturant itself can be intimidating, let alone with the girl you just met. i would pick something more casual as nigga already said. keep in mind that the whole nervous thing is normal, even for guys that fucks, its part of the game, just accept it. wish you luck desu, was also like you, so i can imagine the thoughts in your head, but it´s gonna be much more chill than ur autismo brain makes you believe. wish you luck and hope you report back

> t. former autist who sweated like a fucking pig when nervous

[Anonymous No.15050374]

>>15040825
> what is xanax

[Anonymous No.15050390]

>>15040941
Retard

[Anonymous No.15050398]

>>15040941
awful advice

[Anonymous No.15050421]

>>15043179
>yes knock on her door, and say "showtime" when she opens
kek

[Anonymous No.15050446]

>>15042127
This

[Anonymous No.15050464]

>>15040825
You’re rich. You literally have nothing to worry about. Half of dating is listening while the woman talks anyway. Just avoid trying to have a good time and instead just have a good time naturally by listening to her stories and laughing and playing it cool. Just refuse to let her pay for anything cause since you’re socially awkward, money is you’re strong suit rn. And yeah, as far as confidence, goes, fake it till you make it. Just don’t do what other guys do where they act like a dick. Women can smell fake confidence a mile away, but if you’re nice and not too cocky, they won’t care. Don’t tell her you’re a virgin, women aren’t like men, they want a guy with experience.